First time I see you guys on video. John, what is your skincare routine. Shaun, you are puffy but I know you are jet lagged and you know we all came for you at first. lol. Gorg men!
5.8 is a nice height john. Also, Ur skin looks glowing and phenomenal Sean holding back from exploding with laughter after the fridge comment was hilarious 😅 Horrible ppl saying no wonder ur single shouldn't have the power to make u turn off our replies and deny so much adoration that ull receive Shaun, maybe have someone read out the good feedback and block those haters *wondering if that catfisher gets free meals all week at fancy restaurants, ur too kind jon god bless
How we feel about paying for dates is a matter of preference, if two people are not compatible on it it’s a dealbreaker, so it’s good to know from the first date
Ugh I’m so sorry people said that Shaun, how hurtful! I wonder if what women are speaking to about “liking when guys pay” is that a lot of men on the dating scene act pretty non-committal, flakey, ghost, and put in little effort (understandably… I know we’re all burntout and it can get harder to have hope the longer you’re single). I think a man paying is appreciated sometimes because it’s just one of many ways of demonstrating that “I am serious about you, interested, putting in effort, have serious intentions for a LTR, and I’m available w/ energy to give.” It also admittedly does spark some chemistry with that polarity dance when men are in masculine “giving” energy a little, but it doesn’t have to be money at all. I think there are a TON of ways to convey that “I’m a serious and committed guy” message that don’t require paying. A man could initiate a date, make a plan, make a reservation, drive, lead, say “I like you” upfront, make the date creative or special in some way, do something nice for her. A man could pick a free flower he found on the walk there and say “I thought of you,” and that shows he is serious and intentional. I think women (probably like men) are just burnout from being flaked on or treated like they’re disposable. Maybe they just meant that they wanted to be treated like “a man is serious about them with committed intentions for the future.” In a women’s course I recently took they said the female nervous system biologically asks the question “is this man going to be here in the future?” and the more certain a man makes the future feel to a woman the more safe she feels to open her heart and attach, when evolutionarily women have been in a more vulnerable position as child-bearers. Effort and intentionality is how we assess a man’s level of seriousness because we’ve learned that the guys who aren’t ready for commitment tend to bring little effort, put little stake in the game, and keep things in that unattached “casual, low effort” vibe. A man who puts in effort demonstrates security and readiness by putting some stake in the game which makes us feel safer to open our hearts (like he’s less likely to ghost or disappear). Not sure if that’s it but just my take on it from personal experience and what I hear from the single ladies in my life.
Correction ~ most women need security and serious commitment vibe to attach. Women with avoidant attachment would need the opposite, where a casual vibe & freedom would feel safer to attach
Shaun, I think you were mainly in the old part of Lisbon…. There are a lot of new places w/ good infrastructures. Even if the “PIG” issue is totally true
❤Hi guys, interesting topic about splitting the bill. I and a creepy experience recently. First date we have a drink we splitted then we had a pizza dinner splitted again and the guy was waiting for a 1 lv back from what he gave which was mega acward. 😂 I do not mind splitting and always did it, but this was really bad. I ended the thing because of other things as well.
First time I see you guys on video. John, what is your skincare routine. Shaun, you are puffy but I know you are jet lagged and you know we all came for you at first. lol. Gorg men!
First time I see you guys on video. John, what is your skincare routine. Shaun, you are puffy but I know you are jet lagged and you know we all came for you at first. lol. Gorg men!
5.8 is a nice height john.
Also, Ur skin looks glowing and phenomenal
Sean holding back from exploding with laughter after the fridge comment was hilarious 😅
Horrible ppl saying no wonder ur single shouldn't have the power to make u turn off our replies and deny so much adoration that ull receive Shaun, maybe have someone read out the good feedback and block those haters
*wondering if that catfisher gets free meals all week at fancy restaurants, ur too kind jon god bless
How we feel about paying for dates is a matter of preference, if two people are not compatible on it it’s a dealbreaker, so it’s good to know from the first date
Ugh I’m so sorry people said that Shaun, how hurtful!
I wonder if what women are speaking to about “liking when guys pay” is that a lot of men on the dating scene act pretty non-committal, flakey, ghost, and put in little effort (understandably… I know we’re all burntout and it can get harder to have hope the longer you’re single). I think a man paying is appreciated sometimes because it’s just one of many ways of demonstrating that “I am serious about you, interested, putting in effort, have serious intentions for a LTR, and I’m available w/ energy to give.” It also admittedly does spark some chemistry with that polarity dance when men are in masculine “giving” energy a little, but it doesn’t have to be money at all. I think there are a TON of ways to convey that “I’m a serious and committed guy” message that don’t require paying. A man could initiate a date, make a plan, make a reservation, drive, lead, say “I like you” upfront, make the date creative or special in some way, do something nice for her. A man could pick a free flower he found on the walk there and say “I thought of you,” and that shows he is serious and intentional. I think women (probably like men) are just burnout from being flaked on or treated like they’re disposable. Maybe they just meant that they wanted to be treated like “a man is serious about them with committed intentions for the future.” In a women’s course I recently took they said the female nervous system biologically asks the question “is this man going to be here in the future?” and the more certain a man makes the future feel to a woman the more safe she feels to open her heart and attach, when evolutionarily women have been in a more vulnerable position as child-bearers. Effort and intentionality is how we assess a man’s level of seriousness because we’ve learned that the guys who aren’t ready for commitment tend to bring little effort, put little stake in the game, and keep things in that unattached “casual, low effort” vibe. A man who puts in effort demonstrates security and readiness by putting some stake in the game which makes us feel safer to open our hearts (like he’s less likely to ghost or disappear). Not sure if that’s it but just my take on it from personal experience and what I hear from the single ladies in my life.
Correction ~ most women need security and serious commitment vibe to attach. Women with avoidant attachment would need the opposite, where a casual vibe & freedom would feel safer to attach
Shaun, I think you were mainly in the old part of Lisbon…. There are a lot of new places w/ good infrastructures. Even if the “PIG” issue is totally true
❤Hi guys, interesting topic about splitting the bill. I and a creepy experience recently. First date we have a drink we splitted then we had a pizza dinner splitted again and the guy was waiting for a 1 lv back from what he gave which was mega acward. 😂 I do not mind splitting and always did it, but this was really bad. I ended the thing because of other things as well.
John is still in 420p 😂
Whenever a man suggests a coffee date, that translates to a cheap man 🤷🏽♀️
John you got catfished
I thought this episode was great too.
First time I see you guys on video. John, what is your skincare routine. Shaun, you are puffy but I know you are jet lagged and you know we all came for you at first. lol. Gorg men!