I totally agree with all of this. I no longer enjoy watching "My favorite amazon purchases of the year", etc., because we really don't need 99% of it. The irony of it all - is that there are these massive hauls, and then massive decluttering. The cycle continues.
True. There are so many TH-cam channels that do huge haul videos,then huge declutter videos,lather,rinse, repeat. Or say they are anti p.r, but somehow put their name on literally every p.r list in existence.
I no longer watch hauls, there are people struggling just to keep warm or feed themselves and haul videos are just an unnecessary and inconsiderate of others in these trying time.
I have quit watching “(number) things at (store) you MUST HAVE!” videos. Such an irritating attitude. I’m a new subscriber and I am embracing the simple life.
When I buy something new, I donate or throw away an item. Last year, I decluttered our Christmas items. Except for the tree, everything must fit in organizers under my bed. No more schlepping to the attic, risking life and limb to drag large boxes down the stairs.
“Retail Therapy” used to be my go-to when I was down. Now I just stay home & purge my closets, cabinets, attic, etc. I always find some things I forgot I had.
After a leak under my kitchen sink, I went through ALL of the cleaners under there and how many duplicates I had. What a waste! I am giving my family some of those and still have plenty. Replace ONLY when used up is my new motto!
I’ve been a minimalist for 20 years, I love living this simple life. My home is decorated and we have everything we need but it’s not overdone. I don’t have anything in my home that I don’t need or use. It makes everyday living so much easier.
@@dianehiltz1193 It’s the best thing i’ve ever done. I don’t regret it at all. I’ve always had less but until I became a minimalist I didn’t realize how much money I was spending on things I didn’t need want of have to have. We spend money on adventures on our grandchildren and having fun in life not stuff that sits around collecting dust. Best of luck of your journey!
Great video! I agree 100%. As I've gotten older I find I just don't need a ton to be happy. I've simplified my skincare, makeup, clothes and home decor . It has made me so much more appreciative of what do I have and its just nice to have everything I need and nothing that I don't. I love donating items or giving them to those I know need them. It's a double blessing.
Same!! It’s definitely a mid-life thing for many of us. I’ll be 56 in April and this urge to simplify has gotten so strong in the past couple years. But unfortunately, my husband and I just moved in with his elderly mother to look after her, and she’s an incorrigible hoarder and lives for BOGO sales. 😒
My husband and I also have the rule that if we're looking at purchasing something expensive, we never make the decision on the same day that we saw the thing. We always sleep on it. If they can give us a great deal today, they can give us the same great deal tomorrow. If we ever break that rule, we almost always end up regretting it!
Yes! This is also my method. When my immediate reaction to something is 'ooooh!! want!', I walk away. If I still really really want it a week or a month later, then I'll go get it, but many times I also find that I don't want it *that* much.
This channel is exactly what I was looking for, and I just discovered it by accident. I recently came home from vacation and when I got home, I just felt “ crowded”. I have not gone a day without scaling down, eliminating, and organizing and all the “stuff”, I thought I was doing good tackling my kitchen and my closets, but I never thought about my pillows and decorations. Good idea. I all have arthritis in the hand and love the tips. Thank you so much for sharing all your personal discoveries- Each time I get rid of something, I feel like I’m losing weight😂
A friend once told me "if you like it - put it in your cart and and continue to check other things." Later look at what you have in your cart and ask yourself "do you REALLY / REALLY need this?' I do that and realize that I don't need it and put it back. I feel so good. It has worked for me.
yes! this is exactly what I do. It also gives you a handy way to compare a few 'finalists' for the item once you've completed the search - so you don't have to try to recall "Now which was that one again?" and go through the whole search process over again.
The Christmas decor idea is grest for me! I have decorations that are literally trash and haven't been used in decades! Broken pieces and actual garbage, being stored for years on end. No more. Thank you 💖 😊
Totally agree with all these recommendations, Bobbie. The only thing I'll add is that you can soften declining an invitation to a "sales party" (or to ANYTHING) by just adding, "But thanks for inviting me; I appreciate being included" to your decline. Then make a hard stop. Love your videos Bobbie and love your sweet nature and sense of humor!
Yes. I often say, “I’m not available, but thanks for the invitation” The only issue with that is then it guarantees you’ll continue to get invited for similar events in the future (like her Pampered Chef party example), so use with caution. A simple, thanks but I’m unavailable is sufficient. It’s a subtle discouragement to continue similar invitations. Don’t say “I appreciate being included” unless you truly do, and want future invitations.
I shop at thrift stores for entertainment with allotted amount of cash. I have found great things. I have a mental list of things I need and stick to it.
I love the word you chose a year ago when you decided to make some changes to your channel: simplist! That's the process I've been going through since 2021. No minimalism. "Simplism"!! Thank you for sharing your experiences, wisdom and the things you learn along the way. ps. Your arthritis video rang a bell here. One more condition to add to my health issues list. I think it is so important when people share their health issues/treatments because we learn and are able to seek better help (unfortunately, there are many, many incompetent doctors out there. I'm "dying" proof of it)
One of the best things that happened to me in 2023 was finding your channel. I really appreciate your insight into keeping a simpler life. My best wishes for 2024!
Love your channel and ideas 💗💗I switched to second hand on a lot of things which makes me picky and takes a lot longer to find, I buy new lamps and even decorations (if needed ) only in thrift stores …
Great tips Bobbie, I have become quite the minimalist. I do not and will not buy anything I do not need, regardless of “ Wanting Something. This year, I am determined to not spend on skincare I do not need, no more makeup except for the must haves. This world is getting crazy and it’s not going to get better. Save save
Oh boy…skincare can rack up and I fall for the claims way too much!! That’s one of the reasons I have my channel so I can do the review so you all don’t buy junk!!
@@MindfulMidlife and I thank you bunches for that as I have purchased so many Skincare Highly Recommended products and makeup and have been so very disappointed.
@@sct4040 what are some of your drugstore brands that you really like? I’ve not looked at them close enough to know what to buy. During the winter months, I concentrate on hydrating serums/ essences for my dry, dehydrated skin. Thank you for sharing.
Today jan24 2024 I found your channel Thank you! I am 78years old and live in the uk. Everything you say has struck a chord with me. God bless you Anne Bettany
I just finished going through all the Christmas items that I did not put out this year. I was actually shocked at how much I was ready to get rid of without a second thought. They are now clearly labeled and stacked in the garage with my other donate items.
I stopped watching Amazon/Sephora/Ikea/Dollar Tree/ you name it “hauls”. I feel more and more like I’m just watching a commercial. I have unsubscribed from a lot of content because of this. It’s become boring and repetitive. We moved to another state in 2022 and downsized big time, so I went through the gamut of emotions decluttering and the last thing I want to do is add more things I don’t need. I only have one bin of Christmas decor now besides the tree. We used to have at least 10 bins. We are very selective about our purchases these days. Great topic to start the New Year!
Happy New Year Bobby! I gave a rule for myself, one new decoration per season. When it comes to Home Goods it’s pretty easy for me not to buy anything mostly because there’s always an hour wait to check out. Nothing is worth that. Lol 😊
Great video! For Christmas this year, I was a bit ruthless with some of the things I got. I HATE polyester, and I received 3 items made with it, so I asked my friend if she wanted any of them and she did like the one my MIL gave me... ok, so one down. If my MIL asks me about it, I'm not going to lie... she knows I hate polyester, so I'll tell her again, gently, why, but that my friend loves it, so I gave it to her to enjoy. The other two were from my husband, who knows I hate polyester. Turns out, he bought them from Ama- zon and the description for one lied and said it was 100% cotton (tag said polyester) and one was "flannel" (it wasn't anything close to flannel, and 100% polyester!) How are they allowed to lie like that?! Anyway, I sweetly told my husband thank you so much for the thought, but I probably won't wear them because they make me uncomfortable, sweaty and give me static electricity, so he returned them. My husband gave me the money he had spent on them and said, "go buy something you like, hon." I think the more we do this with loved ones, the more they will get the hint. They need to understand that I am not going to keep something in my home that will only cause me misery just because it was from them. I always tell people if I got them something they don't like, I have no problem if they want to return it... I won't be hurt or anything! If they're so offended as to never give me another present, great! I can buy my own things.
I liked the packing away Christmas items. I have everything packed up except dishes and containers which I haven’t used in years. They need to go for sure. Great tips. 😊
I was just watching a video about moisturizers and was delighted to find that Neutrogena Hydro Boost products have been reformulated and that they now contain urea. I was surprised b/c they don’t market it as a product with urea. It’s definitely listed in the ingredient list though. You’ve shared so many great tips with me and I’m extremely grateful so I thought I’d let you know just in case you’re still looking for a replacement for the Eucerin. I hope you and your family have a wonderful 2024. Take care! 🌸
You are so right, i am at your age and give a lot off things to thriftshops. And it feels so good, i love your vlogs and enjoy them. Glad i found you and go look at all your video's. I love it, you are so down to earth.❤❤
I think we got into the shopping video thing during the pandemic. The pandemic's under control, we pay attention to it, and we go on. Happy Simple 2024!
Brilliant plan! I made the decision a few years ago to spend money on experiences and memory making. Nothing comes in the house unless it is essential & has a designated home. We had a massive yard sale and put that money in the Memory Making jar. This year we went through everything after Christmas and found loads more to donate to our Annual Church Rummage sale! It has made life so much easier and less chaotic. No moving junk about the counter and floors to clean any longer. Everything in the basement storage room is labelled so we know exactly what is in each bin. Just be a a shelf isn’t full does not mean we fill it!
Thank you! Perfect timing, this is something I really want to focus on this year. The only way to set myself up for success is to reduce the amount of video's I watch that I know make me spend money and deleting the Amazon app😲 I set a reminder to rewatch this video every Sunday to remotivate myself. Your channel is something I am so grateful I found recently, you have that perfect balance of taking care of yourself and having fun without going broke. 😊
Shopping for entertainment always😆Bobbie, I find myself so many times going to stores and wandering around aimlessly looking for something that I don’t really need or even want!
If I see an “influencer” showing something that interests me. I add it to my cart and just let it sit. I look over what I already have and ask is it different. Then I think on it a few more days. Most of the time I end of not buying it.
This is good advice since I am retiring at the end of this school year! I am looking forward to spending more time volunteering at our church and enjoying Bible studies during the day. Happy New Year!! 🎉
Happy new year ! Thanks for sharing these tips. I don't follow trends & run out & buy the latest thing. My reasoning is why would I want to look like someone else? I'm so very grateful for you !
Thank you for this. Great tips. I’ve never really understood the Amazon & Costco thing. Amazon wish lists are brilliant. It’s great to be able to save items for later rather than putting them into my basket/trolley. Happy New Year. x 🎉
Happy New Year…. Fantastic video. I am continuing on with simplifying my life. It’s not about what we have, it’s about who we have in our lives and I have to give that credit to you for making that video last year…. I went into action as soon as I finished watching it and I’ve watched it since…😉 I had to stop watching haul videos a long time ago for that purpose, here we struggling to stay afloat in these trying times and the last thing my psyche needs is to watch a make up haul.
Hello Bobbie and happy new year! I'm a recent subscriber and am really enjoying your content. I have been on the simplification journey for just over 4 years amd can still struggle with impulse shopping. I'm getting better though, and one of the ideas that somebody on YT suggested was to admire the item you are looking at, as if it was in a gallery or museum, and then move on. Often, that's enough to satisfy your craving for it. I did that with a nail polish the other day and I don't regret leaving it in the shop as I have two other similar ones at home that are perfectly useable. Yes, it's only a small and cheap item, but costs can soon accumulate. Wishing you a happy and blessed 2024. 😊
Thank you, I totally needed to see/hear this today. This ought to be replayed regularly until all of it sinks in and becomes a set habit/practice. I also agree that when we say no it should absolutely mean no without having to justify our reason for saying it!! Happy New Year!! 🙏✨🎉
Wow, you hit home on many levels. I found out that I have been shopping for entertainment and seeking that “one thing” that would make me happy 😮. Momentarily, yes, long term, maybe not! Currently I go shopping and unless it is something I “really” need (or sometimes want), I will purchase. These moments are few and far between. Only shop when necessary. Thanks
You touching on everything I've been talking about for a couple years now I almost feel like I sent in ideas for this video and I know I didn't even let the last video I said which was your first that I've ever seen where it talks about the water bottles and environmental things and sprays in the air and bleach my cat has a reaction to bleach too so I can't even use bleach the way I used to most of the things you've been talking about I agree with you completely impulse buying all that I stopped doing that over 10 years and I'm 61 years old so imagine that I started off early. Thank you for these videos a lot of people would think that this is not necessary but truly is
Happy new year🥳.Bobbie. Great topic to start off with. Can't tell you how many times I've had buyers remorse. Will return if possible. I'm getting better but it takes discipline. I put out less decor for holidays too. Gave some to my sons, then donating. The older I get, the less I need. You had great tips, thank you. Enjoy your day.😊
Thanks Sharon!! I hate buyer’s remorse!! I always feel like I let myself down!! I also feel sooo energized and motivated when I make smart thought-out purchases!!! Happy New Year!!!
This video is full of great advice and Bobbie-wisdom !!! thank you so much ! I am trying so hard not to purchase things just because they are on sale for a steal of a deal ! I am a sucker for buying clothing just because it’s on sale ! Now I stop and really think about that item before I buy it ! This has helped me so much the last year not to buy things that I end up decluttering later ! I have always been really good about decluttering things and I am SLOWLY getting my husband to get into the decluttering habit too although it’s been a struggle. Bobbie I hope you and your family have a happy and blessed 2024 !!!!! Happy New Year !!!💕💕💕💕💕 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I have a hard not buying sale items as well. The marketing is a huge pull!! Whenever I declutter something I try to think back to when I bought it a sooo many times it was an impulse buy!! Thanks Lisa 💕
I definitely had make myself do an inventory before I purchase and I shop from a list of what I need. I limit places that I can shop. If I can’t return it anytime I can’t shop there. I have time blindness and use to find lots of things with tags still on them because my fantasy self never got to go anywhere for working so much.
Thank you, Bobbie! This is such good advice and very timely. I’ve implemented many of these things as I’ve gotten older, and realized just how much money and time I’ve wasted over the years.
I have some questions I ask myself- "Do I need it? Will I use it? Where will I put it? When I ask myself these questions I would say that 95% of the time I don't buy it.
My New Year’s resolution was to stop using Amazon. I’ve been using the actual retailer websites or Target/Walmart. Since you have to pay for shipping (typically), you really think about whether you need the item or not. Or you wait until you need enough of their products to reach free shipping. Saved hundreds in Jan so far alone. I also never realized how overwhelming all the boxes arriving were. They would end up not fitting in the recycle bin and sitting in the garage.
All great tips! I have a question about your daughter’s Amazon list though: if she has items on there for 6 months and periodically changes her mind about items on the list, how do you know what to get her come gift time? How do you know she still wants it?
I recently retired after 22 years of nursing. I realize I have enough products to open my own medspa s; more clothes than I will ever need. Living in Southern California we mostly live in exercise clothes! I love to shop but have replaced tjmaxx and home goods with resale shops. I visit them frequently but still shop with restraint. One thing that helps me declutter is thinking about animals in shelters that could be using my surplus blankets or comforters; homeless people that could use my extra clothing or shoes and even the stuff from hotels I collect and never use. I can’t help but think half of those hauls go back! Here is an idea for you or someone; when sales start like nordstroms annual do a video categorizing if I only had 200 dollars I would buy this; 100 one of these; etc. instead of everyone encouraging massive spending. I saw one influencer stating 2400 was good for a designer purse….not in my world! Thanks for all you do.
Best choice when an Amazon "order" is in progress is to put items you are considering in your cart AND then just "deselect" AS NEEDED before you begin to checkout!
If I see something I may be interested in online, i will find it online, then bookmark for later. Usually, I don’t need or want it badly enough to actually purchase the item.
I love these tips, thank you for sharing them with us. I particularly liked the tip of taking a picture and putting on list. What list do you use in your phone and how do you put the pic there? I am 76 and struggling with technology. You don’t have to answer that but I need to find out now that I know that is a thing. Have a blessed and healthy 2024!
Ways I simplify my life. Cleaning as I go Meal prep and plan Always have extra bags in my backpack Delete social media Delete online shopping apps,and rebate apps. Change my TH-cam feed to not see hauls every video, following a huge declutter. Cut all toxicity out, regardless of source. Keep private matters private.
I cancelled my Amazon subscription for months and never feel I missed anything. I have everything I need. If I run out of something I will add it to my “to buy list” but not buying it immediately. When I’m about to buy it I review my list again.
I enjoyed your video lots of valid good touchpoints. I actually stopped watching and eventually unsubscribed from pretty much all the beauty community. Its basically 90% consumerism and the rest isnt anything new i haven’t seen or heard before. 🤷♀️ probably just changing as a person.
Two questions that have saved me thousands … Do I like this enough to spend the next several years dusting/cleaning this? And Where in the Hell are you going to wear THAT to? 😂
I truly HATE to shop. To the point that I don't shop even when I need things. I can think of 50 reasons not to go shopping. I hate online shopping too as it's often a pain since things often do not fit or look like the photos and have to be returned.
Some decluttering needs to be strategic. I found out my local consignment store began accepting Christmas\winter items on October 16th. I began in August pulling out one box of holiday items at a time and looking through winter clothing each week and selecting the items I no longer used or wanted. By October, I had 6 boxes of holiday/winter items to consign. If I had waited till October to gather items, I’d have been overwhelmed.
Great advice! My problem is skincare. Every time I see something new, I think Oh I better try that. My goal this year is to stick to a good basic skincare and stop thinking I'm going to find that magic serum or cream that's going to magically take 20 years off my face😂
Stopped watching HSN and QVC. Some friends and I imitate the hosts. They create silly ideas to purchase items. We all need to THINK before we buy. Do we really NEED or just WANT it. On you tube many people there are promoting to get things, example dollar tree. We all have too much.( clothes, makeup, shoes, handbags etc.Christmas decorations, don't be tempted by mood of holiday, more important is reason for the season .Cancel subscriptions. Use up what's in freezer and pantry. What's most important is the roof over our head, utilities, food,possible medical concerns gas for car Save, save. I'd rather have the money to enjoy a Vacation or repairs on car or house necessities. Everything else doesn't maintain. Your quality of life. These are my thoughts
Agreed. One thing I stopped doing was “going shopping” as a form of entertainment. If I need something, I order it, but going into a store or mall just to “mill around” looking to see if anything catches my fancy is just creating a need for something that didn’t exist a half hour ago. I put a stop to impulse buying by not creating these scenarios in my life.
You are truly BLESSED to have your adult children under your roof!!!
I totally agree with all of this. I no longer enjoy watching "My favorite amazon purchases of the year", etc., because we really don't need 99% of it. The irony of it all - is that there are these massive hauls, and then massive decluttering. The cycle continues.
The cycle absolutely does continue!!!
True.
There are so many TH-cam channels that do huge haul videos,then huge declutter videos,lather,rinse, repeat.
Or say they are anti p.r, but somehow put their name on literally every p.r list in existence.
@cateivy9747 What an amazing point! I love thinking of it that way! Thank you❤
I no longer watch hauls, there are people struggling just to keep warm or feed themselves and haul videos are just an unnecessary and inconsiderate of others in these trying time.
I have quit watching “(number) things at (store) you MUST HAVE!” videos. Such an irritating attitude. I’m a new subscriber and I am embracing the simple life.
When I buy something new, I donate or throw away an item. Last year, I decluttered our Christmas items. Except for the tree, everything must fit in organizers under my bed. No more schlepping to the attic, risking life and limb to drag large boxes down the stairs.
“Retail Therapy” used to be my go-to when I was down. Now I just stay home & purge my closets, cabinets, attic, etc. I always find some things I forgot I had.
After a leak under my kitchen sink, I went through ALL of the cleaners under there and how many duplicates I had. What a waste! I am giving my family some of those and still have plenty. Replace ONLY when used up is my new motto!
Bobby I need you as my coach, just found you and I will binge watch, and try to declutter my house and simplify my life. Thank you!
I’ve been a minimalist for 20 years, I love living this simple life. My home is decorated and we have everything we need but it’s not overdone. I don’t have anything in my home that I don’t need or use. It makes everyday living so much easier.
I am not a minimalist but I am trying harder each year to simplify our home. Maybe I’ll become a minimalist at some point. I would be ok with that!!
I’m slowly trying to work towards becoming a minimalist…😁
@@dianehiltz1193 It’s the best thing i’ve ever done. I don’t regret it at all. I’ve always had less but until I became a minimalist I didn’t realize how much money I was spending on things I didn’t need want of have to have. We spend money on adventures on our grandchildren and having fun in life not stuff that sits around collecting dust. Best of luck of your journey!
Great video! I agree 100%. As I've gotten older I find I just don't need a ton to be happy. I've simplified my skincare, makeup, clothes and home decor . It has made me so much more appreciative of what do I have and its just nice to have everything I need and nothing that I don't. I love donating items or giving them to those I know need them. It's a double blessing.
Same!! It’s definitely a mid-life thing for many of us. I’ll be 56 in April and this urge to simplify has gotten so strong in the past couple years. But unfortunately, my husband and I just moved in with his elderly mother to look after her, and she’s an incorrigible hoarder and lives for BOGO sales. 😒
My husband and I also have the rule that if we're looking at purchasing something expensive, we never make the decision on the same day that we saw the thing. We always sleep on it. If they can give us a great deal today, they can give us the same great deal tomorrow. If we ever break that rule, we almost always end up regretting it!
I love that!
We have saved thousands of dollars doing this. It’s always best to stop and think before making a purchase.
Salespeople and companies often try to pressure us with “limited time sale” or “special price today only!” bullshit. I’m so over it.
Yes! This is also my method. When my immediate reaction to something is 'ooooh!! want!', I walk away. If I still really really want it a week or a month later, then I'll go get it, but many times I also find that I don't want it *that* much.
I have been decluttering since I turned 50. I just don't want so many things to keep up with and maintain. It's hard to let go but it is so freeing!
🎉 Yup…my new year included turning off all notifications…improved my whole daily feel❤️
Indeed! I only have phone and text notifications.
This channel is exactly what I was looking for, and I just discovered it by accident. I recently came home from vacation and when I got home, I just felt “ crowded”. I have not gone a day without scaling down, eliminating, and organizing and all the “stuff”, I thought I was doing good tackling my kitchen and my closets, but I never thought about my pillows and decorations. Good idea. I all have arthritis in the hand and love the tips. Thank you so much for sharing all your personal discoveries- Each time I get rid of something, I feel like I’m losing weight😂
A friend once told me "if you like it - put it in your cart and and continue to check other things." Later look at what you have in your cart and ask yourself "do you REALLY / REALLY need this?' I do that and realize that I don't need it and put it back. I feel so good. It has worked for me.
yes! this is exactly what I do. It also gives you a handy way to compare a few 'finalists' for the item once you've completed the search - so you don't have to try to recall "Now which was that one again?" and go through the whole search process over again.
Also, stop watching decorating videos. I took the Amazon app off my phone and tablet. I was addicted to it. So much better now.
The Christmas decor idea is grest for me! I have decorations that are literally trash and haven't been used in decades! Broken pieces and actual garbage, being stored for years on end. No more. Thank you 💖 😊
Totally agree with all these recommendations, Bobbie. The only thing I'll add is that you can soften declining an invitation to a "sales party" (or to ANYTHING) by just adding, "But thanks for inviting me; I appreciate being included" to your decline. Then make a hard stop. Love your videos Bobbie and love your sweet nature and sense of humor!
That's really good!
Plus parties or any social gatherings are covid superspreader events unless they're virtual.
Yes. I often say, “I’m not available, but thanks for the invitation”
The only issue with that is then it guarantees you’ll continue to get invited for similar events in the future (like her Pampered Chef party example), so use with caution. A simple, thanks but I’m unavailable is sufficient. It’s a subtle discouragement to continue similar invitations.
Don’t say “I appreciate being included” unless you truly do, and want future invitations.
I have a horrible problem with impulse buying, thank you for the great advise…..invaluable!
I shop at thrift stores for entertainment with allotted amount of cash. I have found great things. I have a mental list of things I need and stick to it.
I love the word you chose a year ago when you decided to make some changes to your channel: simplist!
That's the process I've been going through since 2021.
No minimalism. "Simplism"!!
Thank you for sharing your experiences, wisdom and the things you learn along the way.
ps. Your arthritis video rang a bell here. One more condition to add to my health issues list.
I think it is so important when people share their health issues/treatments because we learn and are able to seek better help (unfortunately, there are many, many incompetent doctors out there. I'm "dying" proof of it)
One of the best things that happened to me in 2023 was finding your channel. I really appreciate your insight into keeping a simpler life. My best wishes for 2024!
Love your channel and ideas 💗💗I switched to second hand on a lot of things which makes me picky and takes a lot longer to find, I buy new lamps and even decorations (if needed ) only in thrift stores …
Great tips Bobbie, I have become quite the minimalist. I do not and will not buy anything I do not need, regardless of “ Wanting Something. This year, I am determined to not spend on skincare I do not need, no more makeup except for the must haves. This world is getting crazy and it’s not going to get better. Save save
Oh boy…skincare can rack up and I fall for the claims way too much!! That’s one of the reasons I have my channel so I can do the review so you all don’t buy junk!!
@@MindfulMidlife and I thank you bunches for that as I have purchased so many Skincare Highly Recommended products and makeup and have been so very disappointed.
Not only did I not buy more skincare, but downgraded from department store brand to drugstore brands. 😅 So much cheaper and just as good.
@@sct4040 what are some of your drugstore brands that you really like? I’ve not looked at them close enough to know what to buy. During the winter months, I concentrate on hydrating serums/ essences for my dry, dehydrated skin. Thank you for sharing.
Today jan24 2024 I found your channel Thank you! I am 78years old and live in the uk. Everything you say has struck a chord with me. God bless you Anne Bettany
I just finished going through all the Christmas items that I did not put out this year. I was actually shocked at how much I was ready to get rid of without a second thought. They are now clearly labeled and stacked in the garage with my other donate items.
I stopped watching Amazon/Sephora/Ikea/Dollar Tree/ you name it “hauls”. I feel more and more like I’m just watching a commercial. I have unsubscribed from a lot of content because of this. It’s become boring and repetitive. We moved to another state in 2022 and downsized big time, so I went through the gamut of emotions decluttering and the last thing I want to do is add more things I don’t need. I only have one bin of Christmas decor now besides the tree. We used to have at least 10 bins. We are very selective about our purchases these days. Great topic to start the New Year!
Amazon doesn’t deliver to my country. This could be a blessing in disguise lol
Happy New Year Bobby! I gave a rule for myself, one new decoration per season. When it comes to Home Goods it’s pretty easy for me not to buy anything mostly because there’s always an hour wait to check out. Nothing is worth that. Lol 😊
Great video! For Christmas this year, I was a bit ruthless with some of the things I got. I HATE polyester, and I received 3 items made with it, so I asked my friend if she wanted any of them and she did like the one my MIL gave me... ok, so one down. If my MIL asks me about it, I'm not going to lie... she knows I hate polyester, so I'll tell her again, gently, why, but that my friend loves it, so I gave it to her to enjoy.
The other two were from my husband, who knows I hate polyester. Turns out, he bought them from Ama- zon and the description for one lied and said it was 100% cotton (tag said polyester) and one was "flannel" (it wasn't anything close to flannel, and 100% polyester!) How are they allowed to lie like that?! Anyway, I sweetly told my husband thank you so much for the thought, but I probably won't wear them because they make me uncomfortable, sweaty and give me static electricity, so he returned them. My husband gave me the money he had spent on them and said, "go buy something you like, hon."
I think the more we do this with loved ones, the more they will get the hint. They need to understand that I am not going to keep something in my home that will only cause me misery just because it was from them. I always tell people if I got them something they don't like, I have no problem if they want to return it... I won't be hurt or anything! If they're so offended as to never give me another present, great! I can buy my own things.
I stopped buying “single use” items like a bread maker, to avoid having to find a place to store things.
I liked the packing away Christmas items. I have everything packed up except dishes and containers which I haven’t used in years. They need to go for sure. Great tips. 😊
Thanks Rita! 2024 will be THE year!!
You talk great sense! Lots to take from your video from decluttering, shopping and saying No! Will definitely tune in again
I was just watching a video about moisturizers and was delighted to find that Neutrogena Hydro Boost products have been reformulated and that they now contain urea. I was surprised b/c they don’t market it as a product with urea. It’s definitely listed in the ingredient list though. You’ve shared so many great tips with me and I’m extremely grateful so I thought I’d let you know just in case you’re still looking for a replacement for the Eucerin. I hope you and your family have a wonderful 2024. Take care! 🌸
Thank you so much! I had heard that so I will be checking it out. I have a few moisturizers to go through first. Happy New Year!
You are so right, i am at your age and give a lot off things to thriftshops. And it feels so good, i love your vlogs and enjoy them. Glad i found you and go look at all your video's. I love it, you are so down to earth.❤❤
I think we got into the shopping video thing during the pandemic. The pandemic's under control, we pay attention to it, and we go on. Happy Simple 2024!
Love your practical advise! My resolution this year is to declutter and donate. Thank you
Brilliant plan! I made the decision a few years ago to spend money on experiences and memory making. Nothing comes in the house unless it is essential & has a designated home. We had a massive yard sale and put that money in the Memory Making jar. This year we went through everything after Christmas and found loads more to donate to our Annual Church Rummage sale! It has made life so much easier and less chaotic. No moving junk about the counter and floors to clean any longer. Everything in the basement storage room is labelled so we know exactly what is in each bin. Just be a a shelf isn’t full does not mean we fill it!
Thank you! Perfect timing, this is something I really want to focus on this year. The only way to set myself up for success is to reduce the amount of video's I watch that I know make me spend money and deleting the Amazon app😲 I set a reminder to rewatch this video every Sunday to remotivate myself.
Your channel is something I am so grateful I found recently, you have that perfect balance of taking care of yourself and having fun without going broke. 😊
Shopping for entertainment always😆Bobbie, I find myself so many times going to stores and wandering around aimlessly looking for something that I don’t really need or even want!
If I see an “influencer” showing something that interests me. I add it to my cart and just let it sit. I look over what I already have and ask is it different. Then I think on it a few more days. Most of the time I end of not buying it.
I do the same thing and I'm thrilled when I look back at all the items I didn't end up purchasing. 😊
That’s a great way to do that. I love when I come to the realization that I DO NOT need something that just 2 days earlier I was convinced I did!!
This is good advice since I am retiring at the end of this school year! I am looking forward to spending more time volunteering at our church and enjoying Bible studies during the day. Happy New Year!! 🎉
Yay, what an exciting prospect!! I hope your last year is truly blessed!!
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched. Thank so much ❤️
Off topic but your hair looks amazing in this video. ❤
Happy new year !
Thanks for sharing these tips. I don't follow trends & run out & buy the latest thing. My reasoning is why would I want to look like someone else?
I'm so very grateful for you !
That's genius to say no WITHOUT giving a reason why you can't go.
Thank you for this. Great tips.
I’ve never really understood the Amazon & Costco thing.
Amazon wish lists are brilliant. It’s great to be able to save items for later rather than putting them into my basket/trolley.
Happy New Year. x 🎉
You are so right Bobbie! Thanks for the video. ❤
This is one of the best videos on simplifying I've seen in a long time. Thank you and Happy New Year!
Wow, thank you Nancy!
Happy New Year…. Fantastic video. I am continuing on with simplifying my life. It’s not about what we have, it’s about who we have in our lives and I have to give that credit to you for making that video last year…. I went into action as soon as I finished watching it and I’ve watched it since…😉
I had to stop watching haul videos a long time ago for that purpose, here we struggling to stay afloat in these trying times and the last thing my psyche needs is to watch a make up haul.
Yay, I’m so glad this got you motivated!! Happy New Year Diane!!
I love not explaining the “no”!
Good points! It is hard not to want what you see online. Love your channel.
Hello Bobbie and happy new year! I'm a recent subscriber and am really enjoying your content. I have been on the simplification journey for just over 4 years amd can still struggle with impulse shopping. I'm getting better though, and one of the ideas that somebody on YT suggested was to admire the item you are looking at, as if it was in a gallery or museum, and then move on. Often, that's enough to satisfy your craving for it. I did that with a nail polish the other day and I don't regret leaving it in the shop as I have two other similar ones at home that are perfectly useable. Yes, it's only a small and cheap item, but costs can soon accumulate. Wishing you a happy and blessed 2024. 😊
Thank you, I totally needed to see/hear this today. This ought to be replayed regularly until all of it sinks in and becomes a set habit/practice. I also agree that when we say no it should absolutely mean no without having to justify our reason for saying it!! Happy New Year!! 🙏✨🎉
Wow, you hit home on many levels. I found out that I have been shopping for entertainment and seeking that “one thing” that would make me happy 😮. Momentarily, yes, long term, maybe not! Currently I go shopping and unless it is something I “really” need (or sometimes want), I will purchase. These moments are few and far between. Only shop when necessary. Thanks
You touching on everything I've been talking about for a couple years now I almost feel like I sent in ideas for this video and I know I didn't even let the last video I said which was your first that I've ever seen where it talks about the water bottles and environmental things and sprays in the air and bleach my cat has a reaction to bleach too so I can't even use bleach the way I used to most of the things you've been talking about I agree with you completely impulse buying all that I stopped doing that over 10 years and I'm 61 years old so imagine that I started off early. Thank you for these videos a lot of people would think that this is not necessary but truly is
Happy new year🥳.Bobbie. Great topic to start off with. Can't tell you how many times I've had buyers remorse. Will return if possible. I'm getting better but it takes discipline. I put out less decor for holidays too. Gave some to my sons, then donating. The older I get, the less I need. You had great tips, thank you. Enjoy your day.😊
Thanks Sharon!! I hate buyer’s remorse!! I always feel like I let myself down!! I also feel sooo energized and motivated when I make smart thought-out purchases!!! Happy New Year!!!
Thank you Bobbie🤗
I love your hair!
This video is full of great advice and Bobbie-wisdom !!! thank you so much ! I am trying so hard not to purchase things just because they are on sale for a steal of a deal ! I am a sucker for buying clothing just because it’s on sale ! Now I stop and really think about that item before I buy it ! This has helped me so much the last year not to buy things that I end up decluttering later ! I have always been really good about decluttering things and I am SLOWLY getting my husband to get into the decluttering habit too although it’s been a struggle. Bobbie I hope you and your family have a happy and blessed 2024 !!!!! Happy New Year !!!💕💕💕💕💕 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I have a hard not buying sale items as well. The marketing is a huge pull!! Whenever I declutter something I try to think back to when I bought it a sooo many times it was an impulse buy!! Thanks Lisa 💕
@@MindfulMidlife me too !!! 🤣💕💕
I definitely had make myself do an inventory before I purchase and I shop from a list of what I need. I limit places that I can shop. If I can’t return it anytime I can’t shop there. I have time blindness and use to find lots of things with tags still on them because my fantasy self never got to go anywhere for working so much.
Thank you, Bobbie! This is such good advice and very timely. I’ve implemented many of these things as I’ve gotten older, and realized just how much money and time I’ve wasted over the years.
Love your videos. You are so down to earth and I admire how sincere are you. 😊
Before buying an item on sale, I ask myself "would you pay full price for this?" The answer to that question alone says a lot.
Yes, that's an amazing question. I dare say most of our "deals" shopping would be stopped.
I have some questions I ask myself- "Do I need it? Will I use it? Where will I put it? When I ask myself these questions I would say that 95% of the time I don't buy it.
The best advice I ever got. I needed this right now, I was struggling.
Happy to help motivate!!! Maybe you will end 2024 with less “stuff” stress!!
Great video!
My New Year’s resolution was to stop using Amazon. I’ve been using the actual retailer websites or Target/Walmart. Since you have to pay for shipping (typically), you really think about whether you need the item or not. Or you wait until you need enough of their products to reach free shipping. Saved hundreds in Jan so far alone. I also never realized how overwhelming all the boxes arriving were. They would end up not fitting in the recycle bin and sitting in the garage.
I love that resolution. Paying for shipping does make one pause before buying!
Best video ever.....we all need this, thanks for being honest and sharing this.....Happy New Year!!
WOW - This is one of your best! I had to watch it twice - so many tips hit home for me. Thanks for sharing!!
Aww, thank you!!!
Very well thought out video. Made me think. I especially like the idea of not giving reasons for a no. I have had to learn that. Thank you
Why is that so hard??? I think we are so conditioned to justify our reasons and we just don’t have to!! I still struggle but I’m way better!!
Great video!!! Lots of good advise
Great inspiring video
Great advice. Thank you and Happy New Year 🎉
Happy New Year and thank you for this video. I needed it. 💖🌟🎶
Really nice video, I enjoy your varied content
❤ from Saskatchewan, Canada 🇨🇦
All great tips! I have a question about your daughter’s Amazon list though: if she has items on there for 6 months and periodically changes her mind about items on the list, how do you know what to get her come gift time? How do you know she still wants it?
Thank you so much! Just what I needed to hear this New Year’s Day. Wishing you a very happy 2024!
Happy New Year to you as well!!
I recently retired after 22 years of nursing. I realize I have enough products to open my own medspa s; more clothes than I will ever need. Living in Southern California we mostly live in exercise clothes! I love to shop but have replaced tjmaxx and home goods with resale shops. I visit them frequently but still shop with restraint. One thing that helps me declutter is thinking about animals in shelters that could be using my surplus blankets or comforters; homeless people that could use my extra clothing or shoes and even the stuff from hotels I collect and never use. I can’t help but think half of those hauls go back! Here is an idea for you or someone; when sales start like nordstroms annual do a video categorizing if I only had 200 dollars I would buy this; 100 one of these; etc. instead of everyone encouraging massive spending. I saw one influencer stating 2400 was good for a designer purse….not in my world! Thanks for all you do.
Happy, blessed day
Thanks for the tips Bobbi 😂
This was very useful. Here's to a great New Year🎉
Oh Good!! Happy New Year!!!
Very nice and smart🥰🥰
Best choice when an Amazon "order" is in progress is to put items you are considering in your cart AND then just "deselect" AS NEEDED before you begin to checkout!
Keep it simple 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
If I see something I may be interested in online, i will find it online, then bookmark for later. Usually, I don’t need or want it badly enough to actually purchase the item.
I leave things in carts all over the place and rarely look back. Alas, they started sending annoying “helpful” reminders 😢
I love these tips, thank you for sharing them with us. I particularly liked the tip of taking a picture and putting on list. What list do you use in your phone and how do you put the pic there? I am 76 and struggling with technology. You don’t have to answer that but I need to find out now that I know that is a thing.
Have a blessed and healthy 2024!
Ways I simplify my life.
Cleaning as I go
Meal prep and plan
Always have extra bags in my backpack
Delete social media
Delete online shopping apps,and rebate apps.
Change my TH-cam feed to not see hauls every video, following a huge declutter.
Cut all toxicity out, regardless of source.
Keep private matters private.
I cancelled my Amazon subscription for months and never feel I missed anything. I have everything I need. If I run out of something I will add it to my “to buy list” but not buying it immediately. When I’m about to buy it I review my list again.
I enjoyed your video lots of valid good touchpoints. I actually stopped watching and eventually unsubscribed from pretty much all the beauty community. Its basically 90% consumerism and the rest isnt anything new i haven’t seen or heard before. 🤷♀️ probably just changing as a person.
Two questions that have saved me thousands … Do I like this enough to spend the next several years dusting/cleaning this? And Where in the Hell are you going to wear THAT to? 😂
Awesome questions!
I truly HATE to shop. To the point that I don't shop even when I need things. I can think of 50 reasons not to go shopping. I hate online shopping too as it's often a pain since things often do not fit or look like the photos and have to be returned.
Some decluttering needs to be strategic. I found out my local consignment store began accepting Christmas\winter items on October 16th. I began in August pulling out one box of holiday items at a time and looking through winter clothing each week and selecting the items I no longer used or wanted. By October, I had 6 boxes of holiday/winter items to consign. If I had waited till October to gather items, I’d have been overwhelmed.
One thing I did for myself this year to simplify was to cancel my Amazon Prime subscription!
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year to you as well!! 🥂
Great advice! My problem is skincare. Every time I see something new, I think Oh I better try that. My goal this year is to stick to a good basic skincare and stop thinking I'm going to find that magic serum or cream that's going to magically take 20 years off my face😂
I don’t watch anyone that’s telling me to buy ANYTHING!! 😂 if they can’t build my bank accounts, keep my home clean, organized, and easy to maintain.😅
This is something 50 plus beauty taught me. Touch it once. Do not put dirty glass in the sink. Wash it off and put it in the dishwasher.
Oh no, not the toast tongs!! 😉
That is perfect….just say NO and stop talking!🤪
Stopped watching HSN and QVC. Some friends and I imitate the hosts. They create silly ideas to purchase items. We all need to THINK before we buy. Do we really NEED or just WANT it. On you tube many people there are promoting to get things, example dollar tree. We all have too much.( clothes, makeup, shoes, handbags etc.Christmas decorations, don't be tempted by mood of holiday, more important is reason for the season .Cancel subscriptions. Use up what's in freezer and pantry. What's most important is the roof over our head, utilities, food,possible medical concerns gas for car Save, save. I'd rather have the money to enjoy a Vacation or repairs on car or house necessities. Everything else doesn't maintain. Your quality of life. These are my thoughts
Agreed. One thing I stopped doing was “going shopping” as a form of entertainment. If I need something, I order it, but going into a store or mall just to “mill around” looking to see if anything catches my fancy is just creating a need for something that didn’t exist a half hour ago. I put a stop to impulse buying by not creating these scenarios in my life.
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9 times out of every 10 that I go to Home Goods I come out with nothing.