"If you look at people, you can tell" Jordan Peterson "Their faces harden"
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- In this lecture, he uses Disney's Lion King to further illustrate the basic principles of the personality and clinical theories of Dr. Carl Gustav Jung, student of Nietzsche and Freud, originator of analytical psychology, and great interpreter of mythology and archetype.
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th-cam.com/video/3iLiKMUiyTI/w-d-xo.html for the full lecture
Go to his website.
@@TheArchangel911 thanks sir!
@@myeverdearestdarling5350 So you're just here to preach your anti-God, anti-Peterson rhetoric? Did you really think that would go over well on a video predominantly viewed by fans/followers of Jordan Peterson?
@@myeverdearestdarling5350 your comment does contain some interesting points, but I must say, I find it very odd and somewhat suspicious that there are a fair number of people on the internet who seem hell-bent on delegitamizing and critiquing someone as well-intentioned and passionate as Jordan Peterson
"Being brave doesn't mean you go looking for trouble"
@Barnabas Blackthorne McTavish a soldier of any era rarely if ever got to chose when,who and how they fought
@Jermaine Looking for trouble is more brave? But to what end, and why?
It does to morons
Mufasa!
@Jesus Christ so you enjoy murder as much as blasphemy?
Customer: "why do you look angry?"
me: "I am not angry... I have integrated my Jungian shadow and innate aggression into my personality and am perpetually passing judgement on the world, ready to be harsh and severe when necessary... would you like some fries with that?"
"Yes please, hold the ball pien hammer."
..that's funny af...kind of like ..instead of resting bytch face, .....it's resting mean mugg. =oD
The psychology degree does pair nicely with the fast food drive through job... 😝
Very funny comment!
Lol accurate
"Why do you look angry?"
I get asked this all the time, but I so rarely feel any lingering anger inside, mostly what's in there is anxiety
This happened to me. I used to be very passive and was also very smiley, and I would frequently get compliments on my smile. After going through and working through some trauma, however, my face hardened, and I now get told often that I always look very serious and even like I'm angry a lot of the time. The truth is that I'm not "angry," but I do understand the world a lot better than I used to, the evil that exists in it, and I am much more ready to take it on if necessary. I am constantly judging and ready to be "severe" if necessary, but I am also gentle and kind most of the time.
Me too.
I'm 39 and I took everything so seriously but then wondering where it all went wrong I came back to my original dream of being a rock star listening to Metallica in my room as a kid. I know from experience that without the dream(or the impossible hope of it coming true) you are nothing. I think I softened my face and STOPPED my aging dead in its tracks by smiling and being optimistic and hopeful and looking into people for their good and not their flaws and complimenting them on it. I personally believe that NOBODY has EVER been hurt by a compliment! Please share that fact if you agree please. I wish I woulda been......,(OBEDIENT!?!/=? UNQUESTIONINGLY OBEDIENT!?) I can't think of the word to qualify for Jordan Peterson's class and a future. My pencil pushing powers weren't worth a damn though and I couldn't change if my life depended on it. I know. It tried cuz it did!
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...jesus. Never expected to find a comment so relatable.
@Erin No we don't. I became like that and now I found a person I love and we develop ourselves in a mutual relationship. It brings so much spontainuous joy into my routine. You'll find the happiness along the way if you're attentive enough.
I look at old pictures and I had the sweetest smile but after decades of employers and Women it only shows up for my dogs
You need your mommy to give you a huge hug.
You’re a low-status male.
@@30803080308030803081 most men are, myself included
T- 800 And you’re going to stay like that?
Dan Kentigian oh yeah
People harden as it dawns on them that most of the rules and standards that they have been judged against are applied highly selectively.
Damn, youre right on with that. That shit kills me.
When I was young nepotism was a bad thing. Now it is so common and not just in getting a job but moving up in said job. Also, “networking” is just another way of saying you take the boss out for a beer after work or go golfing with them on the weekend. Your work is the least of their worries. Do adequate work is fine, those that are working hard or doing exemplary work just get more work while the guy buying a round got the promotion and more money. This is happening in everything and we wonder why people don’t do their job or do below average work? This is part of the reason.
@@icestationzebra8636 Yes. In a nutshell, corruption has become normalized, such that most people don't associate their own conduct with corrupt practices... Corruption is seen as something done by 3rd World dictators as they squirrel the country's wealth away in Swiss banks, and not the petty politics of the workplace.
@@icestationzebra8636 nepotism has always been around, now it's just more obvious. I work in a company that's like a family gathering. There's only a small number of staff, me included, that have no friends or family connection to management.
Yep. Pretty much sums it up
This is just a regular class in university, and he's really into it, giving them a great lecture as you might see at a high priced public lecture tour.
Great teachers aren't great because they have a good salary, they are great because teaching is their vocation.
I mean it’s university, that is a high price - it’s probably somewhere 200-500 $ a credit hour and most classes are 3 credits so that’s 600-1500 for 3 hours in class à week for 15 weeks, I would say that’s a pretty steep price. Save the most expensive locations in the US, that’s pretty much the range for rent per month. Basically if you can afford to pay rent 7 times in one month every month you can afford to go to college. I’ve no idea what a traveling lecture costs but I imagine that it’s just for a day and probably cheaper though possibly not.
True man.
I did 2 degrees, physics then psych. My physics lecturers in general couldn't be bothered with lectures, but most of my psych lecturers were like this.
@@paradoxelle481 Jordan was teaching at a Canadian university at the time of this lecture and was probably making anywhere from 175k CAD to 275k+ CAD
Mind you his effective tax rate would have been 50% or so
I hope Jordan is doing well and that he is smiling lots. A good man.
@Sentient being: How so? (Do you mean, she's "ruined" in terms of her ability to smile?)
@Sentient being: Dang. I was wholly unaware of all of that. Wow.
Sentient being huh?
Sentient being , if this is true, sounds like 21 St century life..... certainly not a ruined life by a far stretch!
@matt I Not any more; he's out and back.
I have learned more from this man than I ever did or could have learned in school.
Thank you Dr. Peterson.
To me school is useless, may God forbid the child is being bullied
When I look normal: "Dude why so grim all the time"
When I smile: "Dude why are you smiling all the time"
Old Russian saying, only an idiot smiles all the time.
Smegead wow! I’ve had several Russian acquaintances tell me they think Americans look like idiots because we smile so much for no apparent reason. I guess that saying explain why they think that way! LOL
topophil.......I always got that for years too. I’ve since learned that the narcissistic psychopaths in my life were trying to undermine my self confidence, and also trying to control me and my very behavior. Once I turned it around on them, they left me alone. If I’m angry, I’ll be angry.....if I’m happy, I’ll be happy. They don’t get to choose what I feel.....I do. If they don’t like it, then they can just beat a path.
i'm with you!!! all my life I hear these exact comments
@@gracebe235 You've got that right I must say.
I have been going to therapy for about 2 years now and I’ve realised what he said is pretty true. My posture and facial expressions have changed over that period as I work through my shit.
So then you're on of the lucky few men whose therapist helps them integrate their shadow, instead of teaching them to be more vulnerable and feminine?
If you wanna go nuts,
go to a head shrink ...
My life traumas served to teach me and softened me. I have a smile on my face now. A true smile because I conquered many of the demons inside me. The older I get, the less anxious and worried I have become because I have learned how to be happy and I follow that road. My face is much more soft and happy now.
I need to learn how to do that; life traumas have led me to build walls, and my soft happy look is gone most of the time now
So true for me as well!
This is the proper response and growth to the inevitable suffering of existence.
How?
Learn to love and desire suffering for its own sake. Say to yourself I want to suffer.
Working in factories I noticed that the people who , most often, got promoted were the people who could not or did not smile.
Whoa! Bro! That's what my job is like right now. Lol None of management smile... and it's kind of weird now that I think about it. It's not that they just "just smile", they have an empty, holllow, unreadable disposition. Does that make sense? You can't tell if they're happy or sad. Lol
*just "don't smile"
It’s usually because anyone who works in factories tend not to work there very long & if they’re a manager or group leader it means they’ve been in that dead end job for years
Brandon no, factories rarely promote management from within. It’s almost always an outside hire in order to create tension between the power structure. Management couldn’t perform the job if they tried, but constantly ride production to work harder, faster, and longer.
@Josh Carter in my job they only promote from within. Every manager started off where I was or in a similar type of position
Baby face before deployment.
Now, not so much.
4 down for me bruh, each one a different experience and changed me for better and for worse.
"No man shall ever be able to step into a flowing river twice. For it can never be the same river and he will never be the same man."
@@bargearse8041
4 for me too brother.
I was just thinking about that. My mom had a photo of me in my BDUs right after basic training and a photo roughly two months after Iraq.... Even she pointed out that it isn't the same person in the two photos.
Couldn't agree more. Before my wife's serious illness and the years of recovery to come, my face, my demeanor were passive, smiling and agreeable. Now it's thinner, hardened, my hair is gray before it's time and my attitude is one of constant vigilance, judgment and awareness.
We Used to say: "There ain't no free lunch."
No they call that Hate Speech ...
My face is more defined and serious looking too
When I lift the corners of my mouth even just a little I feel it in my heart. ❤ And Ive been through some shit. 🙏
That's good. 😊
That actually work! Standing up straight and having a little smile can do wonders for your mood.
At age 64 I am still trying to smoothly integrate the two major aspects mentioned here. It doesn't automatically happen as you get older.
Happenes when you pay a price too great for anger/shadow as Peterson calls it.
Sure. You have to actively integrate them.
Stop trying to make it so smooth. Gradually increase it, don’t overdo it, but keep stepping it up a notch.
Im 62 and i still don't enjoy opera music - or ballet.....
most people never do it in their lifetimes...
I once listened to a former Navy Seal talk about how they were trained to avoid every fight possible. At that point I knew my job in life was to navigate my family through the world as peacefully as possible but to always be the one who either helps us all avoid trouble at all costs, but to step in if necessary.
💯
I told both of my daughters - don’t start shit, but don’t take shit. They’re not very big, but freakishly strong. Both have found their way in adulthood.
"I WILL NOT BE PAWED AT"
Doc Holliday
“There's no normal life, there's just life. Now get on with it."
Doc holliday he chose Penn...
There's a guy at work who keeps telling me "smile, it's not so bad."
And each time i stop and evaluate....i thought i WAS smiling.
My life hasn't been easy but it hasn't been bad... he's the most positive person there. But he's been through more hell than i have, combat veteran, lost his kids to divorce, moved across the country but still holds three jobs to support them.
He's definitely been through more than i have (and I'm older by almost ten years) and yet he still carries himself with a lot more maturity. He doesn't wear his problems on his face.
After meeting him I'm trying to learn his secret to achieving that so he'll stop telling me "it's not so bad" lol
I DO have a pretty severe resting bitch face.... but it's mostly because I'm focused on work. I don't want to walk around with a goofy smile all day but i would like to look less like I'm about to kick somebody's ass.
Emily Pollifax don’t judge yourself so much. Relax and let your face do what it wants naturally. The more you judge( go in your mind) the less real you come across, and more energy you burn trying to wear a mask. Stay true to yourself and what feels natural to express will be expressed
Well you’re a woman so you’ll never fully understand.
Just be natural. Don't be self-conscious...
Emily - I wouldn't change a thing about your resting face. It is you, and not a mask, and that is why it is just fine. Eventually he will likely be more like you than the reverse. You are both blessed souls, yet unique. Leave it at that.
@Russ Jamison i used to hide i was miserable. I did it for many years. I did it so well i thought it was my normal self. After fooling even myself i realized i was hiding it from others. The things i disliked, that stressed me out or what would make me "be accepted". It eventually caught up. I realized it was a lie i was tellinng myself. That that's how "i really am". But why was i miserable all the time? It was an act to satisfy others. Those close around me. I was "satisfying" them but in reality they themselves weren't happy with themselves. It made me miserable.
Id say ppl should acknowledge what is making them miserable. And if it is. Change it. Its normal to be upset once in a while. But learned behavior becomes habit. And its harder to break a bad habit than to form a new (good) one.
So, people should acknowledge. GRIEF. Work to solve. LET GO. Overcome. And continue. Let the hurt go like a little paper boat in a pond. it doesnt meant it didnt happen. Just that it no longer defines you
You add a lot of value with sorting through these clips and giving them interesting titles so we click. You deserve to make money from this channel. Keep up the good work brother
Notice all of the kids walking around with their eyes glazed over and the same blank look on their faces - no smile, no emotion of any kind. It's creepy, like they're hollow inside.
Mobile phones !!!
Zombies for real...
Helel Ben Shahar ::: Hardly! Cannabis use only accounts for a small percentage of the racket.
We have lost the best and bravest men to wars for centuries, we’re drowning at the bottom of the gene pool. Throw in the absolute degradation from poisons of all persuasions, and this is the pathetic result.
They're not hollow inside, it just seems that way because their hearts and minds are being pushed aside to control and make money off them, using one of the oldest tricks in the book, materialism. And the "parents" these days are enabling that shit everyday. There's a very deliberate and relevant reason why I used quotation marks then.
Sadly it seems that Social Media has taken their soul.
The person that seems intimidating is the person that has accepted their capability for evil.
as a man, truly the biggest compliment you can give yourself is... "i wouldn't want to mess with me"
i didn't feel this way for 98% of my life, so i know it to be true now
I also look like this, angry. But, actually my mind is constantly flooded with ideas and problems. Never turns off...love it!
how do you even take notes in his classes, all I want to do is listen
I think he talked about that once in another video. If I remember it correctly then he advised not to take notes during class. Just listen, and take those notes right after class. Also something to do with training your memory.
Yeah, here: th-cam.com/video/lMvvdz7YJ-Q/w-d-xo.html
And stop clowning around. 🤡
You can actually pull it off. Just gotta improve your focus to an extent where it is possible and keep doing it.
I only took notes in boring classes. In interesting and engaging classes I absorbed everything I needed from just listening.
With age and trials in life comes experience. We learn when to be gentle and kind and also when to be aggressive. As we age we gain wisdom. Only if we recall the experiences we have lived. If we go blindly foward as we age and not learn from our experiences then wisdom is for not.
*naught
This is why many mature men are told we have an angry resting face
@Cody Rice I had woman come up and tell me "cheer up, it might never happen", smile then walked away. Thanks random person for making me feel self-conscious on top of a general shitty feeling.
Haha I can be perfectly happy and get told to cheer up and don’t be so serious, i will usually break out a smile 😊 and say I’m perfectly happy I just have a resting bitch face.
A woman once commented to her dog, in my hearing, that I looked like I was going to murder her.
I don't know why she wanted to put that idea into the head of somebody who looks like that.
A Key Line in Fight Club : “We all started *seeing things differently* - everywhere we went, we were constantly *sizing things up.*
An essential impulse driving Survival Strategy in The Adult World - *“Realistically, Can I Beat This Guy or Not?”*
That’s Why People That Haven’t Fully Matured Properly encounter endless and enormous problems as a result of their inability to be realistic or acquire the self-knowledge necessary to be so.
Spike EP interesting, it’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the Dog....
The reality of it most people in the lower class tend to already live like this sizing everyone up looking at every situation as dangerous and it's sad 😢
Calling all buckos
Marc Mc Dowell whats a bucko
Nagihan Göt it's like "buddy" or "partner." It's something Jordan Peterson says a lot
I think he's saying 'calling all soy boys'
"Mufasa, a very regal looking person, er, lion" hahaha had a good chuckle at that
"He set his face to go to Jerusalem." -Luke 9:51 (where he would die)
One of my favorite descriptions of Jesus
Amen....gives it new meaning to me.
Matthew Sawczyn Great insight.
yah the kjv version is even more telling. 51 And it came to pass, when the time was come that he should be received up, he stedfastly set his face to go to Jerusalem,....it adds steadfastly set his face. No wavering no backing down stedfast!
@Anna Mozatee God loves you too.
Anna Mozatee here you go, read this part of the “fairy tale” then when you die and meet the author in person let Him know what you think! John ch. 3 verse 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.
18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
Freud: see we have the base instincts of the id and the idealistic superego
Christians: You mean the flesh and the spirit? 😏😏😏
Ding ding ding!
@Rebel Television um... Lmfao... Christianity is over flowing with every religion before it. Nothing in christianity is original
Lynn Wins
Then nothing is original, for you believe everything is merely the sum of its parts, which by the way characterises everything we can name.
@@lynnwins7284 The Passion of Christ and crown of thorns was pretty impressive. No idea why Krishna, Jesus and Mohammed were all born on December 25th.
@@chriscunningham8807 No one actually knows when Jesus was born. It is just celebrated on that day.
I was forced to learn at a young age that chaos and suffering in inevitable. Learn to consume the chaos and suffering before it consumes you.
i get bad gas from it
The Captain we got just before I left the ship changed our ship's motto. For years it had been "Press on... HOORAH!"... He changed it to "W.E.T.S.U." We Eat This Shit Up! (pronounced "Wet Sue")
WETSU!!! ;o)
It doesn't have to be that way, this is why the bible talks to guard your heart, not to harden it, but to keep it soft so that you don't let bitterness take root. Keep optimism. Life will get better. Keep fighting, keep faith, keep laughter in your life. These will keep you alive
"Do not be overcome by evil but overcome evil with good."
@@CytherX AMEN !!! ❤️
After breaking my central incisors as a child, I was self conscious about the repair. At 30 something I invested in my smile. Then my life crashed and burned and I stopped smiling for 20 years. If pressured it felt as if I was making an awkward ugly face. I devoted that 20 years since to seeking God. He made my smile new and thats the least of the treasure.
Amen!
Amen. God makes all things new!
Cringe
Describe crash and burned?
👍🏼
“Old musafa there, he’s already got that covered”.
That got me laughing....
Nobody cares about the stupid name. You missed the point gurl.
Musafahhh, musafa musafa musafaaah!
Sorry had to do it, hilarious.
Jordan peterson dude I like your work I wish I could talk to you about my life so you could sort it out for me. I'm trying myself though but it aint easy. Blessings
mccarthew I am going to try his self authoring course.
Wrong channel dude, and it's Mushufasa, the Samurai cat from Kung Pow.
Except its Mufasa not Musafah
I see.
mccarthew Peterson is a smart man, but Disney characters throw him off something sick..
Prayer of Serenity - GOD grant me the wisdom to accept the things I cannot change.
We spend so much time wanting to control so much of our lives, that we give up living it.
The bible says that this life is hard, however, fear not, God is with us!
Let go and Let GOD and you experience a freedom, that affects your countenance.
There ain't nothing i can't change.
It's all about perception ...
@@fjb4932 Good for you! Maybe you can change your past?
@@gizellelewis9866 I love your reply. It's all that needs to be said.
There is no god, none of the 3,000 different gods in all of the world’s religions has ever been real.
Thats SLAVE mentality, religion is a very old invention by the ruling class to keep easy led and gullible people SLAVES.
wow it's amazing how your life leads you to a certain explanation you have been searching for... and all I had to do was ask.. LIFE is such an amazing gift!
Funny how this video brings out some people's insecurities.
They need it to because it's the only that'll help.
How has this video brought out people's insecurities? This video has helped me understand why some ppl are afraid of me and judge me and project their insecurities on me constantly. Too much to say... But do share what you meant, it might be of great help...ty
It actually puts me to ease. I used to feel like there was something wrong with me for not being as smiley as everyone else. It turns out I had a better understanding of the world. I just never knew it at the time.
Shut up, it does not - I'm not insecure, I don't have insecurities, men don't get insecure. I'm a man. Nope, no insecurities here. Must be you. You're insecure.
Random Task Funny Joke 😄
I never look for trouble but when it shows its face, I never retreat either.
@Joseph Van - fake toughness
Part of growing up is to walk away from a fight and let that person offload their shit on soneone else. Meeting aggression with aggression might work if you're attacked, but averting the need to use violence is much smarter. De-escalate to avoid major damage to both vehicles. Pick your battles and don't be afraid to let curve balls go to the keeper.
I realize part of this, my maturity has changed in the last year or two, im currently 27. I've buried some hatchets and I don't smile as much, much stiffer lip, still feel like a friendly person with a good sense of right and wrong. Being a male I would describe it as a urge to be prepared for violence, but knowing society has penalties for unjustified behavior keeps the aggressive feelings at a minimum. Feels like I'm a dog that wishes he was a wolf.
I had a thought I'm my brain. And this is what would have come out if I were able to vocalize it. Thank you
Man i always thought i was to dumb for higher education. But this guy makes learning seem easy.
Hes such a great teacher
He’s so right. Lion King represents most of what he’s saying perfectly.
What I'd give to see Dr. Peterson do an analysis of Kenshiro from Fist of the North Star...
Xbalanque84 that would be like a dream come true
"integrate your shadow"
exactly, judge from experience, lead by example
Part of integration is uncovering your shadow IF it will help you to evolve. The shadow remains with you like a potentially protective cloak. Jordan Peterson prepares males for the fact that they sometimes need to be aggressive to protect themselves or other people. The shadow for many men is not anger but buried grief and tenderness. Hyper-masculinity often betrays insecurity and fear of being open, close and vulnerable.
I was very nieve in my 20s. I thought if I was nice, people would like me. No one ever sat down with me, including my father and said what life was really like; which is, full of alot of jealous, mean and insecure people, basically children in adult bodies. I found out the hard way and was way too trusting of people and yeah, my face changed too.
My dad gave me money for University then I showed him what I was learning and he never gave me a cent more.
@Tuco The Rat there are many kinds of smart in this world. It takes many kinds to help the world go round. I say "many" instead of "all", because some things are nonsense that will seldom be useful, like several liberal arts degrees. Things like hard sciences, engineering, technician studies, and teaching are extremely useful. There's a broad spectrum.
Yea. As soon as the world wises up to what universities are pushing, that industry will dry up. Kids that don't pay for their schooling or just take out absurd loans have no idea how bad they are getting ripped off.
@Rebecca P I don't know if this helps: th-cam.com/video/XqfimRiidqU/w-d-xo.html . If not, it's at least an interesting JP video about a small part of raising children, I found it insightful. Full podcast episode here: th-cam.com/video/23dArPpXgCM/w-d-xo.html . Hope it all turns out well.
Your daddy is way smarter than you.
Learn from him ...
He probably did you a favor, unless you were taking a bunch of math and engineering classes. Most of the shit taught in universities today is just that. Shit.
I once worked for a company were the manager asked me why I smile so much and how come my work desk was also so well set out clean and tidy.
From that moment I knew it was not going to work out being there.
I had a boss that told me I was making everyone else look and feel bad, because of my high level of productivity, to slow down and not be a showoff. It didn't last too long after that.
@JW McCabe Their loss, I work for myself these days, much happier.
Great observations. My face is finally hardening at 22.
How fortunate are these students being able to sit in his lectures. I think Mr Peterson will go down as one of the great thinkers of the modern era.
It's a blessing and a curse. I am a naturally mean looking guy who unintentionally intimidates people. I have to convince nice people I'm not a threat. And I can sometimes see the relief come over them. Abusive people usually target somebody else, the blessing. Unless, the curse, in a bar, too many times I've had to beat somebody's ass who had one too many and wanted to challenge the meanest looking guy in the place. Which is a chore because their pain tolerance is elevated.
Just buy more shots tell them best man challenge and make it double right away so get sleepy pass out but if you have then I guess do it
My ex girlfriend said the first time she met me she thought I was scary looking lol
I have noticed this. All my old pictures I'm a jolly kid not a care in the world. Than life kicked me in the throat and my heart was hardened. Now I'm working with the big man himself to soften my heart again.
I've tried to be amiable at all times. But I've become more stern and judgmental since Election Day 2020. Hard times are coming.
It is scary to think of. I worry for my young children and their future.
Well ain’t that a daisy
I've noticed this In myself as I've listened to JP for over a year.
My confidence has boosted healthily, in just standup for my self sense of moral good. Integrity from honesty, expressed maturely.
I just know myself better and I won't back down just to impress people.
I first encountered evil at age 4, and have been attracting them all throughout my life, until I started making changes just very small changes of habits and now I see 'Evil' coming towards me assuming I'm still that weak child they love to mess with, only to leave and never come back.. I'm actually amazed they're leaving, very soon... Even though slowly but surely I will stop attracting them!
Take care Dr Peterson. Get well soon.
Everything manifests through mind and attitude....that includes most posture issues..
I think this lecture illustrates Peterson's fundamental philosophical bent more than anything else he's done. For him Mufasa is the height of psychological development, the fully worldly, lower self-integrated man. This is why, although he talks about religion a lot, he is not a religious/spiritual thinker. From the religious perspective, this worldly character still represents a lower level of development. For Buddhism or Christianity, the highest level of development is when the merely worldly is transcended, and the hardened face becomes one of softness and light. This is not a passive softness but an active one, and no amount of worldly status will lead one to it. But for a Nietzschean like Peterson, that kind of personality would represent a denial of life and absolute decadence.
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That religious people think Peterson is on their side is a testament to how badly they think religion does in the struggle of ideas. Peterson is openly atheist. He just thinks that saying and pretending that a god exists is good.
@@MrCmon113 That you think Peterson is openly atheist is a testament to how little you know about his thinking. He is openly not atheist, though won't go so far as to say he believes in God, not because he doesn't but that his understanding of God is so different to what most people mean by God. A truly religious person wouldn't say he or she believes in God because that underplays the importance of God, as if he/she can ever be the object of our thoughts. The life of a seeker means constant doubt but constant openness to the possibility of God.
I realise I just contradicted myself, but hey Peterson is a contradictory thinker, that's kind of my point.
musafa lol
I lost my grandma, aunt and mother all within a 9 month period as well as having a child for the first time. I could see a markable difference in my face and personality after that very hard year. People always assume I’m mad and say that I seem unapproachable. Even I can tell that I seem that way. I don’t know how to change that.
Please don't be so hard on yourself. You've been through a lot of pain with the number of losses in a very short period of time and that would take its toll on anyone. It shows that you loved them very much and miss them dearly, which means that they meant a lot to you.
It's only natural that those experiences would affect you in some negative ways but it may also have some positive affects, too. It may make you a better mother, one who shows more patience and love for your child.
You've been blessed with a child and you can teach him/her all of the good and positive things that you learned from your grandma, aunt and mother.
I wish you peace.
You see this with people who have cried too much as well, their smiles can't reach their eyes. Grief and despair physically change the face so much
I imagine Jordan assessing the faces of his students while looking at them in class. Bet he can tell a lot about them. That would be freaky to me.
Why is Peterson speaking about Freud so much? Freud believed that men secretly wanted to screw their mothers. Peterson does NOT know anything beyond what he's read in books and has seen in SOME cases, he is so wrong about so many things, AND he really has flip flopped on things after being face to face with reality. That MAY be a good thing as he is MAYBE learning that you can't label people because of what a small percentage of people in that persons "group" have done or thought.
And, IF anyone wishes to comment to make and put me down, simply because I have said a negative about Peterson, people can be right and wrong, NOBODY is right all the time, and, IF you are an intelligent person, you NEVER stop learning and growing.
He is teaching psychology at the universty of Toronto, ofcourse he is going to mention Freud a billion times. :D
Today I saw two men almost get into a fight. Stepped on between them and said " it's not worth it guys " they backed off. It felt good to be a peace maker
But I was taking mental notes. And realised alot about communication and how we are coming across to others. Shit we don't think about
That's all credit to you for your actions , a big risk to yourself and could have backfired on you , is it worth the risk!?🤔, you dont know who you are dealing with but only you can answer that , most people wouldnt have stepped in , all credit to you 👍, we all make decisions in life and that was yours , that was right to you, at the time. Glad it was the correct one 🙂
@@davidtomlinson6138 If you lack courage, you shouldn't discourage others from expressing theirs. You may need someone to be courageous for you some day.
Wow his classroom looks fully packed
Theres some great books from the 90's for men from Iron John to king/warrior/magician and lover,but I have to say the key is being balanced and so its hard to do that.learning about woman is just as important because they will destroy you if you are more one then the other.If your too kind and understanding they wont respect you and if your too macho then it leads to attracting scared abused woman who are looking for protection.You wont be able to protect them from every other woman or every other un-evolved man/boy and so she will blame you and take it out on you because your her punching bag. Im older and the worst thing that ruins lives is when the fairy tale ends and when a woman has nothing to busy herself and is all alone they go crazy.Men need to figure themselves out first,find balance,take a martial art,stop putting up with stupid behavior from their pals and get into nature.two half people dont make a whole.Two secure and cooperative people can have a relationship.Im very interested in these things and have 50 years of being a pretty hardcore fella so if any young men would like to start a JP inspired empowering men movement for the world.message me
buck rogers no mention here about the woman’s perspective l see. Maybe it’s not all about what just you think and feel. Perhaps you’d learn something from a group of us instead bitter, self-interested cronies. A hunch.
@@tiasara9643 Ive known many many woman ,had many teachers and lovers from all over the world.Its why I said what I said ....oh ps I am a man talking about men??
buck rogers ::: We could all use a crash course on the meaning of life, just not from Disney.
It"s the intrinsic nature and ettique manners of royalties highness appearance i totally agree professor.....God bless Professor Jordan Peterson and more power .
When the tadpole conquers the shadow, it becomes a Kermit.
Underrated comment
Noice.
Life is all about balance , balance in your reaction to adversity , balance in what you eat (feed the body to feed the mind). Prior to this ,think critically about what your core beliefs are and build the base of who you are from that. Get your thinking right and everything around you WILL be right. Fifty years on this planet and still learning every day.
Boom
I get this because I’ve noticed when I have become more centered, my face hardened. What surprises me is the way people around me react to it. It’s totally different than the way they used to be. Judging the world and being relaxed in it. I’d like to think I’ve learned that. Thanks Dr P!
So how do they react with your hardened face?
LitoGeorge like he's the joker.
Happy and hard af
I think Peterson has stuck at some intermediate state and isn't aware of it. He always looks and sounds angry. Maybe this helps him not be depressed, which he has been for decades (as his daughter).
Every time I listen to one of his lectures he just reconfirms what I've always been thinking. Thank you Jordan I am smart after all
The "that's what I was going to say" guy
@@oliverfarrant3718 when you think about it, it’s nothing new what JP is saying. Basically toughen up, don’t be too nice, stand up for yourself, etc. He just articulates it in a way 99.99% of people can’t and breaks it down very precisely so people can understand it better and why it’s important
Literally
jordans success only shows that people dont read
Surprised so many here cited their dark turn as becoming jaded over politics, etc. I mean it sucks for sure, but from a basic human standpoint there are so many more obvious ones. The main existential hurdle that made me more serious and world-weary was realizing the extreme suffering that people (particularly children) can be made to endure. Whether through a harsh environment, disease/injury, or more notably abuse. There is no easy way to see the good in things when you try to digest the injustice and terror that innocent kids go through at the hands of evil adults, or just by random chance
'Get off my lawn' is my daily affirmation lol.
I was so glad that he said "Musafa" at the end. This was the first and last time that I knew something better than Jordan Peterson
Mufasa is a play of words on the name Mustafa. So you cant blame Jordan saying Musafa.
I see our pastor as having a rare face of formidable strength and vitality yet deep kindness and love.
Ah yes, my favourite character.. old Musafa.
3:11
I've heard this about my own posture and expression, and NOBODY has articulated it like J.P just did. Wow.
Apparently I'm "Actually really smart..."
"Really nice with kids and sweet when you wanna be, but an actual bitch."
"Turned into a c*nt."
"Used to be so helpful but now doesn't give a shit."
When in all reality, I learned from my abuse and bullying, and put up boundaries. I don't worry if people like me as much as I used to, and I try and be more discerning. I no longer work myself to the bone helping others everyday (I'm still probably more helpful than the average person).
What I was, is I used to be a naive, but empathetic person. Now I'm just an empathetic person who knows what the hell is wrong with people and I don't let them take advantage.
This is why people are always asking me why I'm mad. Women, in general are far more agreeable than men but I am "extremely low" in agreeableness. I just don't walk around looking like a young naive child.
Yea! That 'how dare you not walk around with a perpetual smile on your face' bullshit. I get that when I'm pushing a two hundred pound load of trash down the corridor. Clueless morons! In your case they just don't like women with an air of authority.
People say I look mad in every picture they have of me.
I remember a time when I put on the happy go lucky facade. As time has gone by, I just stopped caring about everything and essentially have what seems to be a perminant scowl on my face.
It’s great how he does all the sign language at the same time.
To relax and escape I’m looking at kitten and puppy and baby videos; I can feel my face soften and a real smile emerges - no cursing, evil or murder in these innocent creatures!
Music too...watch the talent of Home Free Acapella....or some Kebmo....old music is best, new stuff is crap.
I was sitting on a bench reading a book when a wiry, short faux-hippy wide-boy bloke came up to me and started talking. All I wanted was to be left alone to read. So I said: "I don't have any money to give you, and even if I had, I wouldn't." He got really angry. Stood up and insulted me. I told him not to be so boring. He didn't like that. Aggressive cool types cannot stand to thiink that someone might find them boring. It's the ultimate insult. So I got up and walked off, thinking about going back to my stifling flat. I got a clip on the back of my head for my pains. I turned round and he suddenly realised I was taller and broader than he was. I put on my nastiest face (my wife tells me it's very aggressive and worrying) and said: "Try that again and you'll see." He promptly turned around and walked off. From that time on I decided to go around town with a watered down version of my aggressive face on, rather than my usual slightly dreamy, smiley face, which had sparked a number of similar incidents with a few smart, streetwise punks over the years. Hardly been bothered since by anyone. Only problem is, the face stuck, soured my character (that might have happened anyway) and kept some interesting people away. Small price to pay, I suppose
Mark Gardner , hahahahaha, same, went from smiley face to don’t mess with me face. 😊🤨
It's a shame the world is like that. I wish we could all stay with the smiley faces most times, and only resort to the nasty face when confronted, which probably would be very seldom. As you've said, it probably cost you some interesting and enjoyable relationships by showing the half scowling face so often. People need to chill.
Doug Overhoff , yeah it’s sad, a lot of people mistake kindness for weakness. That is what took the smile off. I used to smile at every one until some men thought I liked them and wanted them just cause I smiled at them. And followed me all around the store and one tried to get in my car, just cause I smiled. And my single alcoholic neighbor thought I wanted him just cause I smiled at him. And he started putting down my husband and coming to my house drunk when my husband wasn’t home asking me for favors, I stopped smiling at him, he gets the don’t mess with me look now. It’s a shame, but my philosophy now is YOU CANT BE NICE TO IDIOTS. Cause they think you are easy prey. Now I just smile at children and old ladies, family and friends. I do not wear my heart on my sleeve anymore, cause of all the users and abusers. I GUARD IT. I know what the good book says about people’s hearts waxing cold cause of all the iniquity, I still have love, but not for the wicked. I will not do them any harm and will not allow them to use me and abuse me.
@@susancarter3864 I fully understand where you're coming from. Take care, and God bless you.
Doug Overhoff , Thank you and May God Bless you.
I'd like to watch the entire seminar. tbh
I wonder what it was like for him waking up from the coma and seeing everything he warned about coming true
I came home from my first combat experience really grim.
This, ladies and gentlement, is how you talk with your hands. 00:32: Here i show "integration". 01:05: "organized". 03:00: "integrate" (compare "integration"). Questions? No. Good, let's move on to the next stage.
Thank You
I love this.
The world eventually beat the innocent expression right off of my face & it strengthened me.
I now identify with the sentiment that
it's better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.
Hey man war is hard on food sources, anybody growin things can get a good deal
And there i was, thinking i was ugly instead of mature
Geniuses have a tendency to lunacy.
not true
Kathryn Molesa perhaps that's what makes them so different from the rest of us
Stupid people can also be crazy
I don't think so. Sometimes forensically focused on whatever has their attention, at others though, appearing to be only partly engaged in the surrounding discourse, observing, but not of it. The greater part of their mind elsewhere. Sometimes easily bruised, but can also be so absorbed in their subject, as tobe insensitive to the thinly veiled insult, or to the emotional needs of others. Perhaps all of these but lunacy, or a tendency toward it, rarely. Eccentricity ? To varying degrees yes. But isn't that to be expected in an individual whose sheer power of intellect sets them apart from the rest of us. Eccentricity merely places them further from the median. It is not lunacy.
Whe i was younger i used to try to avoid confrontation, now i wait for it
Always was amazed by how Dogs reacted to my Father. Mean Dogs fell over there selves yipping and frightened from 1 glance of his black ice eyes. I know now . 👺
Sorry Jordan, you are wrong: when one meets a person who is very toxic (my ex had all the characteristics of a narcissist), they absolutely have their "game face on" and will "perform". Unless you put them in uncomfortable, unfamiliar situations (like getting lost on a trip, neither of you know where you are, you are camping and everything goes wrong) or the person has to interact with strangers at various social sittings (family get-togethers, weddings, birthday celebrations, work buddies) you won't REALLY know how controlling they are (especially of YOU); you won't know how they avoid being in situations where their "mask" comes off. From my experience, toxic people hide who they are VERY well in most circumstances: but NOT when the pressure is on and people are looking at them, observing their reactions, their attitudes. Bottom line: put the pressure on any way you can think of to bring out who is really underneath the smile. Don't take it easy on them, thinking, "Oh, they just want to be with me. How sweet." It is NOT sweet to close one's self away from normal social gatherings in your "love nest" -- you NEED other people noticing, conversing with this person you are interested in, and giving you their feedback.
Everyone gets the face he deserves by age fifty..Orwell said something like that.
Dissecting the invisible and transcending it's essence is no easy task but it is quite a worthy one in the long run, for yourself first, and then for others by the same token. Patience and tolerance is key to any progress. Enjoy while you still can ;)
Thank you for putting a a link in your show more section to donate to Jordan Peterson. It just doesn't feel right to watch someone else's material on your Channel.
When I first started the channel I was donating at the top tier to his Patreon account. He is so busy with his lecture tour for 12 Rules that I now see he has very little time to do what I and a handful of other TH-cam Channels do. In making shorter, more accessible clips of his lectures, we are basically being his employees but Google pays us instead.
Every video I see of his is just explaining something that it common sense... is everyone so dumb that they need to be educated using the lion king as reference? Rhetorical question I know...
Proverbs 21:29 King James Version
A wicked man hardeneth his face: but as for the upright, he directeth his way
Not what Petersen is talking about. The passage to which you are referring is contrasting those with false confidence and those who consider their decisions before making them. If anything, the kind of "hardened face" that Petersen is talking about ks more characteristic of the latter, more wise indovidual being described in that particular proverb. If you don't understand how words are being used differently, you really shouldn't be using the King James, a translation infamous for using generally outdated language that isn't in the common vernacular.
@Rafael Acosta quote?
& Yup bothers me also.
Someone quoted verses to me 1-4, but left out verse two because she thought it was to controversial? Huh censor for me?
Well verse two was the whole point and she had misunderstood it completely!
I've left the biblical matrix, but I will reply to a misquoted verse, verses or chapter.
And I can clearly tell who only listens to 501c3 preachers and don't read for themselves, and you know what? When I point out their Christian mistake/sin They never come back and say oops clearly I made a mistake here, my apologies/repentance.
False self serving righteous religious pride is very unbecoming and very unchristian.
Just sayin 🙄😏🤫😎
@@Tyler_W Love the King James 1611...after all people haven't thrown away Shakespeare.
09 it could be a failing of mine. I enjoy hearing this fellow talk but mostly What I Hear goes in one ear and out the other. however I enjoy hearing this guy talk I find it soothing. there are people that talk and I find them annoying. I find this fellow talking relaxing I wonder why?
Calvin Barrett Same with me, yesterday I had a panic attack and listening to jp made me forget about it and calmed my heart rate and breathing in about 3 minutes