Her Teacher Was Abusive | We Took Her Out Of School Immediately!
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I had a similar experience, but my child was abused. The "teacher" backhanded my then 3-year-old Son with scissors in her hand. His lip was split, so I demanded to see the camera footage because they claimed not to know what happened. Long story short, I reported it to child welfare. She was fired, and the school/daycare was closed down while the state investigated the whole program. I did press charges, and she was arrested for battery of a child, endangerment, and neglect. He never went to another "school" until kindergarten.
That’s awful 😢I hope he doesn’t have any long-term effects
I am so sorry.....no toddler should ever have to go through that ....
OMG how horrible. Your poor baby prayers to you.
This is so sad to hear. Glad you did press charges.
I would have also been going to jail if somebody did that to my kid! 🤬
Hopefully you reported her to the state agency. Her behavior is unacceptable 😡
Absolutely I hope so
I certainly hope so! that is unacceptable!
Yes..save another parent and child…
Agreed! Must be reported 😢
This is 'abuse', if you were a "mandated reporter", this would've had to be reported. Please you owe it to the other children to"protect" them too. You MUST report what you saw and let the proper authorities handle it before something happens to one of those children.
There is no excuse to be abusive to any child! I agree there should be a dress code to show professionalism at your facility. Good for you guys to bring attention to this behavior!
in most countries physically disciplining a child is not considered abuse and is the standard. until very recently, it was standard in the United States as well. Child abuse is subjective. what's "abuse" in america, is not considered abuse in most of the world.
How the workers dress is certainly a clue to the level of professionalism present. I would want them to dress so they could comfortably get down on the floor with kids, but bike shorts maybe not. Definitely pay attention to the vibe of the place and how many teachers there are per student, etc. The new facility sounds much better. Thanks for standing up for all the kids.
I would have filmed it from another device. I’m so very sorry this happened. My daughter experienced this recently with her 1 year old going to daycare. It was unreal and discovered by a friend who discovered something about what was happening to her own 1 year old and felt the urgency to warn my daughter.
My grandkids will never go to daycare because of that daycare is😊safe
As an educator of k-12 students for 28 years and a parent you did the right thing for Winter but please report her to the owner and the state. If she did this to one she’ll do it to others and probably already did.
I am so proud of you guys! My two sons started a more conveniently located daycare. On the 2nd and third days they were crying as we got closer to the center. They couldn't articulate why. I pulled them out that week! We went back to their old center. I was inconvenienced location-wise, but my kids were happy and safe! Good job Travis & Tori ❤
Aww... glad you listened
@farfromthetree3 I am so glad you did. So many parents ignore when their kids are trying to let them know that they are not being treated right or abused at schools and daycares.
They need to be reported to the state ASAP! That kind of grabbing can break a child's arm. I remember in one of your videos you asked Winter if she liked school and she said no. She just couldn't tell you why. So yes, for the other kids left without voices, they need to be reported before something tragic happens. Good for you both for making that quick decision to move her before physical or emotional harm was caused. ❤ ❤❤
Yes this absolutely must be reported ! Police report
Correct! Dislocations and fractures are common when you lift a child like that. The MD will tell you that if you have to take your child to the ER. They will report you as well.
She didnt seem to enthuse when yall first visited if you ask me. I just didnt want to appear to be a hater or anything, but im glad yall got her out of there.
You guys should file a police report and report what you viewed on the camera. You guys were absolutely correct for removing your daughter.
Yea like this is something where they should take it further and report that school so that become extra cautious not to abuse other people’s children. Like they’re a little too nice about this. I’d be doing the most for my kid. Police and all.
@@yolandalove2903absolutely!
in most countries physically disciplining a child is not considered abuse and is the standard. until very recently, it was standard in the United States as well. Child abuse is subjective. what's "abuse" in america, is not considered abuse in most of the world.
I would most def SUE this facility….
well this aint the rest of the world this is america and its always been considered @buse in united states dont gaslight @buse man no mattrer what country it is, it is not subjective and thats like saying u dont belive it exist @@truthspeaker8863
Unfortunately, yes. My oldest daughter is 36 now, but the first daycare I took her to, she was abused to the point where she had to be taken out and everyone knew and nobody said anything. Being a nurse at the time, I picked up on it. Before she would get to the turn, she would cry. I cried when I found out to the extent that she was abused. It affected her to the point where she refused to talk to any teachers in Pre-k or the 1st grade. We had a rough time getting her to trust again. Now she has a 4 year old and scared to put him in school. I operated my own Daycare center for 14 1/2 years, besides being a nurse for 17 years. I explained to my employees that as a state licensed facility, everything was to be done by the book and it works if you do. Everyone I hired followed the law and I did everything for those kids. I had newborn thru 12 years and those kids still call me to this day and they are grown. They coming back to me to help take care of their kids. Of course, I’m to old to do it now, but I love kids. I took them on all kinds of learning field trips and eating places. Walmart use to invite us up to TV day for the kids where they set up a big screen in the deli area and played their favorite movies. They loved it. We were in the newspaper often, getting awards for just be a great daycare. I lived in the country, so we had a big play yard and more. Please watch for any signs of abuse. Report, report and report to the state licensing agency for daycares if you can prove your abuse. People today care about the money more than they care about the kids. Please be careful, call during the day, walk in unexpectedly during the day to see how things are going when you are not there. I was good friends with the sheriff and the fire department. They came out to teach the children what was appropriate to do and what was not. As educators, we taught them every single day. I’m so sorry you had to experience this. Glad you picked up on it early. She’s a sweetie pie. I pray it doesn’t affect her in any way. Kiss her for me. Aawww.❤❤❤❤❤😢
Nurse Marilyn
So sorry to hear, hope with time that healing of the soul for you and her. I had a similar situation with my daughterr in 1st grade, the teacher was cruel to he I took her out immediately and home schooled her.
oh hellllls no, not our lil precious Winter!! hopefully this new place will fit her best.
I worked in child care for many years, I'm glad this bad experience didn't turn you off daycare completely. Teachers in these facilities are often overworked and underpaid; sadly, many don't want to be there. I feel bad for parents that have no choice but to leave their children with these subpar teachers. I will say that there are a lot of good teachers out there who truly love children, but you've got to search for them. I'm glad you found out as soon as you did. Winter's a sweetheart and deserves so much better.
MsShelia from Ohio, I just left working at a daycare center here in Ohio, someone put their hands on Winter, I so disappointed with them 😔 you don't hurt children 😢, I'm so sorry that happened...
Totally agree. I worked in childcare too in childcare centres and you are absolutely right. Sadly what Travis and Torie saw is not uncommon, but there are some really good centres and Early childcare educators out there, but you really have to look hard.
I know your boy Travis is gonna handle business!
These teachers need to be reported to the state or whoever is over them.
The center needs to be reported to the licensing agency immediately.
Your child will always show u the signs, the key is to pay attention to them. If they cry cuz they don’t want to go there’s a reason, and that includes going to relatives. If she is sad and withdraws when she gets home, there’s a reason. I’m glad u found a better place and she’s happy. Just pay attention to any signs of discomfort.❤
Who would have thought school would stress us parents out! My son was mistreated by a nominee for teacher of the year! Thank God he was able to tell me everything that was going on! I went to the school immediately and had him removed from that class! Unlike yours my sons principal was very understanding and surprised! She apologized and applauded me for coming in! You definitely did the right thing! We are their voice until they can stand up for themselves … Blessings
It feels like you can’t put your kids anywhere and have peace
in america especially that is@@robzzzzzz1
Glad that Winter is in a better place. There is no room for Abusive teachers! That so called teacher should be reported and fired! She has no business abusing any one's child!
I'm so sorry that this happened to you guys. It happened to me also. My daughter is now 28. She was 2 at the time. I went to pick her up, and she had several GASHES on her cheek! I wasn't nice when I saw my baby. It traumatized her. They tried to lie about what happened. I had to take her to the ER. From that point on camera or not, I was active and popped up every chance I got. I'm glad she's safe and happy. ❤😊
I work as a speech therapist and I absolutely love my kids. I spoiled them so much that other students knows my name and wants to come into my room. I work with children k-12 and yesterday I was walking down the hall and I heard this sound behind me and it got louder and my thought was someone is trying to get my attention so I turned around it was a student who is autistic and nonverbal and she ran to me and gave me the biggest hug. It made my whole day. She is not a student I see for therapy but kindness goes a long way. I’m sorry you all had to experience that
You can use your phone to record what is n the screen!
I am so very sorry you had to see this. I am glad nothing happened to Winter. I do agree with you, we have to advocate for all children not just our own!!! 💪 I pray the next school works out. 🙏
Torie & Travis, always stay in tune with your child's schools & teachers, whether they have cameras or not! You were very lucky they had cameras and caught this early, many parents don't! But the best person to indicate there is a problem is your 'child'! Whether they are small or older, their behavior & moods will change. Just like Winter, she cried when you were taking her to school! Any 'Red Flags', don't bush it to the side, investigate why your child is crying, sad or upset. This is something that happens not only in pre-school but all the way up to higher grades of education. You have a ways to go, for that! Advocate not only for your child but for all children , as you said! Blessed Sunday!
Dear Tori and Travis: As a retired childcare worker I am appalled and horrified to hear what you both said what happened. Thank God there were cameras for you to see what was going on. You were absolutely right in taking Winter out. I am so, so happy that you found a wonderful school for Winter and that Winter is so happy there. What a joy to see Winter so happy!! 🥰🥰 There is nothing more important than your children and you both should be commended in your decision to not only to pull Winter out of the first school, but finding the right school for Winter. I absolutely adore Winter and Breeze. Sending love from Toronto Canada ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍
I’m so sorry this happened to your baby. Screw that teacher. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Yes I remember you telling us about Winter going to school. Oh No , I'm Glad There were Cameras in the classroom. Teacher has no Patience she doesn't need to be there .
Happy that you were able to get Winter out of that environment. I am glad you're speaking out about this abusive situation.
I was wondering what was going on the day yall picked up Winter from school and said she had been crying. She was not a happy camper getting in the car. You all are great parents staying on top of things pertaining to her education, and I am glad that you have the means to move her to a better environment where she is happy and will learn a lot and continue to develop her social skills (looks like she’s about to have some school pals). I look forward to hearing about her progress and seeing all of her wonderful artwork. Her artwork in this video was beautiful. Can’t wait to see more. 😊
Report her. That’s traumatizing.
Please continue to show compassion to working moms! It is a blessing and a privilege to be a stay at home mom!!
It is the part of education people do not want to speak about. I am so happy that you guys made the decisions you have made. You have to have a love for children. People wonder why kids cry and are adamant about not attending school. There is always a reason why. Good Job, Travis & Tori
Look for 2 signs: if they cry when you take them to Daycare - A Red Flag. If they are not ready to go when you pick them up- A Good Sign. Children are not stupid. They tell you what's going on without words - A Cry or A Smile. Glad you paid attention. Good parents!
Awww that’s sad, that’s why I’d never put my babies in a daycare 😢 You should have gotten Travis’s phone and recorded the video that was going on, on your phone
My heart hurts for y'all as young parents witnessing what you did. I worked with children for many years doing MMO, Preschool, Daycare, Church Nursery, Children's Ministry and lastly in my kids elementary school as a teacher's aide and tutor. Children are precious and no one should ever hurt them. They are God's most precious gift. I'm so glad you changed Winter to a new school right away. When you picked her up and the smile she had on her face was proof she was in a good environment. God bless you guys and your precious girls ❤
Thank you so much for highlighting this issue and being diligent loving caring parents.
I will never understand why and how people who are abusive, get to work with the vulnerable. I include our elderly in 'care' homes and the horrors some of them have also had to sadly encounter.
Abusers need to be charged and banned from working with any vulnerable or dependent beings, young and old.
I don’t blame you guys at all. Your babies will tell you whether the environment is good or not but their actions. You said Winter was crying that was a sign right there. Great job guys in changing her school.
Children can sense not being cared for I'm so glad you took Winter from that environment thanks for sharing and hope other parents are aware❤❤❤❤
I had the exact same experience. I watched the live feed all day. I took time stamped notes on what happened in the class and what time it took place. When I picked my son up, I asked the teacher how the day went? and she told me my son was out of control and hitting people. Little did she know I watched all day! And nothing like that happened. She hardly interacted with my son. I got my son and marched straight to the directors office with my notes. When I told them exact times teachers came in and out, bathroom breaks, food delivery etc. She knew I wasn't exaggerating about watching all day. She called the teacher in and explained what I saw and said. The teacher seemed embarrassed because she was caught lying. They offered to put my son in another class, but I declined. I told them I didn't want that nut to have access to my son in anyway. We switched to a different school also. Like you said, they don't think parents will watch the monitors. They think we'll just assume everything is great because they have monitors. Glad you also found a better school for your kiddo.
I’m so sorry that happened to you all. I had a similar situation happen to my youngest daughter when she was 4. It was a family friend who was watching my 3 young children years ago. When I came to pick up my children from the lady’s house after working the night shift, I caught her force feeding my 4year old & she was crying. I told the lady off & Never talked to her again. Another time I had to report another nurse because she slammed an 80+ year old lady on her hand. I immediately reported her to the supervisor… it was a big deal, I had to talk to NY State & almost had to go to court behind it all. We have to be careful with our children & the elderly because people are EVIL.
I'M so sorry guys, but....I'm so glad you found a special place for Winter. Watch your child. She will let you know how she is treated. You both made the right decision for your child. 🙏
I'm so thankful my kids are grown! I'd never put them in any school or daycare these days! You can't trust anyone anymore! So sorry y'all went through this! God bless all!
I am so glad you found out about the school and took action,to get beautiful Winter out of there,so happy you have found a better school,the voice of the teacher seems like she really cares about the children,and I saw how Winter acted to her goodbye to her. We always want to keep Winter happy and safe.Give a hug to beautiful Breeze! Love to you 4.❤
I'm glad you found a better place for her to go. Also, know that if a parent go to see how their children are doing in school or daycare that the teacher/person in charge can and will change if they are being mean. I always say just show up, walk slow to the class and listen to how other teachers are speaking to children, and NEVER just walk in the room hang out of site for a moment and listen. Once you make yourself known, then watch how personalities change.
When I saw the thumbnail and realized that this was the first thumbnail [video] where Torrie wasn’t smiling and then I looked at Travis’ face and I KNEW that this was the real deal and that they weren’t playing! I am just thankful that Winter is okay and my heart goes out to those other children. Torrie you were absolutely right there were red flags. I know that this is a new world that we’re living in but I’ve never in my life seen a teacher wearing biking shorts in the classroom! You all did the right thing by pulling Winter out of there fast!
I'm sorry to hear that. I know it took a lot for you to put Winter in daycare to begin with. I pray you'll continue to be pleased with the new daycare. Look at this as a blessing in disguise... sounds like she's in a positive environment with caring people and that makes it worth the extra money🙏😊❤
Torie and Travis so glad you got Winter out of there. I feel for the other children and for the director to ignore what you said is horrible. She is just as guilty as the teacher. Scary situation. I'm glad you found a better and safer environment for Winter. Torrie you are right you reap what you sow.
That is so sad that all that is happening at that school ! i’m so happy y’all caught that behavior in time and I’m so happy that y’all took her out and that school! So happy that Winter loves new school. Keep your eyes and ears open at all times with your kids!!!!😊❤🙏🏻
Ms. Ruby
So, glad you both took Winter out of that horrible situation. Yes, Torie, they will get what's coming to them. It was great to see how happy Winter was when you both picked her up from school. Blessings on her continuing to thrive at this new school! Mama Bear it out Torie for your kids! Travis have the bail money and lawyers on retainer, but PROTECT KIDS! Also glad ya'll were concerned about the other kids. I agree with a previous comment. Report that school to the authorities. I pray no child is hurt physically, mentally or emotionally before the behavior can be properly addressed and corrected. 💜 I've worked in education and daycare for many years too. I am also a parent. So I fully understand this situation from both sides.
So happy you got her out of there.
I hope you report that teacher and school to the state authorities. I am so glad you have found another school for Winter.
. Always be on top of your children's education
Love your family ❤
Winter Parents Are Amazing And I’m Glad They Put Her In A Different Day Care And She Is So Cute And She Winter Was Putting The Food In The Glass 🧋😍❤️😘❤️🥰❤️
Im from the UK and same thing happened to my 3yr old grandson . He is at a new nursery school now and loves it and has come on in leaps and bounds. You both did the right thing and im glad your beautiful daughter likes her new school.
Unbelievable! Travis and Torie, I am so,so sorry!! Totally agree with you Torie, people that abuse children and the elderly are scum of the earth! So glad Winter is ok. Maybe go to the authorities-police to file a report against the daycare establishment. So sad!
omg! so sorry that happened. some people truly just go to work to make a pay check. they don't care about anything. I don't blame ya'll for being upset because kids can not protect themselves. some people don't realize but kids have a lot of sense, they know when they not being treated right, sure we don't expect the teachers to be like parents treat them at home but they expect the best, i'm so glad ya'll found a better school for Winter. A mess! hopefuly nothing really has to happen to those kids. people in charge like to push things under the rug instead of getting better workers that gives a care.
I’m a Grandma and September 10th 2023 is Grandparents Day, yay. Yay , thanking God for all of my precious Grandchildren 😊❤🙏🏻
Ms. Ruby
It's EVERYDAY! 🙂😊
I am so sorry to hear about this experience at your daughter previous school. Thankful that you both were watching the school videos and closely paying attention to how the students were treated.
I know that Winter would enjoy her new school and have fun .Thank you for sharing.; ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I use to work at a daycare & I am now a mom of 2kids .I can say working in daycare if those staff are that stressed out they need to not be in that job. I'm glad you pulled Winter out I hope her new school works out ❤❤ 11:43
Kids are helpless to defend themselves. I was a nanny for a famous person when I was in college and kids will instantly have a rapport with someone or not. If a person doesn’t like children it can seriously damage the child.
Winters speech / interaction/ communication has significantly shoot the roof.
This is amazing.u guys are amazing partners to each other and amazing parents to your kids. I love u guys u inspire me ❤
That preschool should be reported....like you said too many red flags. I am so happy she likes her new school and is actually being taught. Love you all❤❤❤❤
I agree with you, Torie. There's absolutely no excuse to abuse any child. I pray for all of those innocent precious children who are in that terrible daycare. Never ignore the red flags. Praying for a better and more positive experience. God will deal with those people at that terrible daycare.
Well said... I guess not every parent is viewing the tapes, and teachers (bad ones) forget that they are being recorded.
I can tell you, im a teacher from Jamaica and i wish I could solve every childcare issue in the USA.I hear parents talk about it every day...its such a big problem for so many parents dropping off thier children day to day to safe day care or school... But im glad you changed the school....Always follow your intuition...on the first go...Glad it worked out..
I'm glad you guys stayed vigilant in protecting Winters childhood 🤗
Please report that schools behavior to the appropriate authorities!
❤🙏You both are a blessing wonderful beautiful family
No one needs to treat or be mean and be abusive to your precious child or to anyone children
That lady needs to be fired and never be allowed to work at another Day Care School 🙏❤️
I appreciate you guys caring about not only your child but other children too! I was a Preschool teacher, and I loved when the parents would come in and watch me interacting with their kiddos! I am so glad you found a better school for little Winter. I loved each and every child that I taught and I as a past teacher love all the input that the parents gave me. BTW, Winter is adorable
You guys are better than myself. I'm sorry , but I would have gone the hell off. I can't stand seeing a child being mistreated. There is no need. you have to teach the little one's and be patient with them in their learning process. miss treating a child makes me want to put hands on some of those stupid idiots. thank God your baby was not harmed.
You guys continue to take good care of your beautiful little angels. Much love to all of you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
glad to see winter smiling. love her art.😊
Torie and Travis what you can do is hired a private teacher to come to your home and teach winter that way you really can keep eye on her plus installed camera in room or better yet have her teach winter out in opening of your living room so you can really see whats going on. Even if its two or three days a week dont give up its very important to get her a head start if she is smart and easy learning.. my son loved 😍 it thats why enrolled him in 2 yrs of it. And he graduated with higher honors roll .he was into all kinds of achacceerate classes in school. He love it..😊so don't give up..👍🏾❤️
Always follow you gut feeling. Seeing Winter smile like that is the way it should be when picking her up from school the majority of time. If not then there`s a problem
Again, listen and follow your Spirit . You and Travis did the right thing.
My daughter was attacked by one of the children. My sweetheart had bite marks on her chest, and her arm. The teacher should have seen that happening or the assistant working there. She had too many bite marks. I'm sure my daughter cried out. My husband lost it when I told him. So. he sued the school. This happened years ago. It is a good thing you can see the classroom while your child is present. You did the right thing taking your daughter out of the school.The incident occurred in Michigan.
So glad you got your baby into a school that cares, and teachers that enjoy teaching❤❤❤
Happy you found something new for Winter. As a mother and Teacher i understand your frustration. I am happy that Winter is in a better place. She is so sweet, beautiful and smart :)))
I'm happy you removed Winter from that bad situation, winter is a friendly, happy child with a very nice personality, and she gets along well with other, some educators have bad attitudes and should have chosen other professions, they don't have the right characteristics to deal young children. Some thinks it's a easy job, but its not, then the students suffer. im a retired educator, and I have witnessed such behavior from teachers behaving like that. Good luck with her new school, it sounds better.😊
I’m glad you both had the opportunity to view the actual camera footage. If that were me, I would report that school. Because there’s absolutely no reason to abuse children. And I’m super excited about her being able to get into great school. ❤
They had no Proof
Glad Winter is in a better school and I'm glad that you both acted on it quickly so she didn't have to be somewhere she wasn't happy with. I had a similar situation with my daughter at a in home daycare. she came home crying saying she didn't want to go back. I thought she was just home sick so the second day I took her and she cried she didn't want to go inside. So, I took her back home and that was the end of that bc she never went back again. So good for you guys I'm glad Winter is happy.
Travis and Torie I understand you, when my son was younger, one morning I was getting ready to drop him off at daycare, I turned and looked back at him. He wasn't making any sound, but tears was rolling off his face. I asked him what was wrong? My son didn't speak that well. But by the grace of God my son spoke clear that morning. He told me, "they are mean to me when you leave". I turned my car around. I cried all the way home on the phone talking to my husband. More to this story, we were hurt, but in the end it turned out that everything worked out well for us.
Winter is beautiful. When she talks her words are so sweet. That smile on her face is so adorable. I wish I could give her a big hug!
I can'r forget Breeze, she's her Dad's look alike more and more when I see all your videos! Love and good health to both
Glad you guys are proactive parents. Its too common in the school system but hope you all report this to the school administrators. Unfortunately everyone that is in the educational system aren't there to help our children.
I am so sorry to hear this. It is utterly nauseating. This is why when my sisters and their husbands would go out of town, I would drive the six hours to watch their children. In this way, I could rest easier knowing that they were well fed, clean, and loved. Winter is so sweet. I cannot imagine anyone treating her poorly. I am glad that the two of you are attentive parents.
OMG,I'M SO SORRY THAT THE KIDS EXPERIENCE THIS BEHAVIOR, ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR INTUITIONS, IF SOMETHING DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT IT IS PROBABLY NOT A GOOD ENVIRONMENT AND STAFF. I PRAY THAT THE NEW SCHOOL FOR WINTER IS BETTER. THE DIRECTOR AND STAFF AT THAT OTHER SCHOOL NEED TO BE INVESTIGATED. MY PRAYERS GO TO ALL PARENTS THAT HAS EXPERIENCE THIS TYPE OF BEHAVIOR FROM PEOPLE WE TRUST TO TAKE CARE OF CHILDREN. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS 🙏🏿
Between pediphiles and abusive teachers...parents have so much on their plates. Glad these parents are tuned in!
Good job for looking into your daughter wellbeing it's more amazing how you and your husband stick together😊
I am sorry your child had to experience that and I'm glad you notice something was out of line. I had several experience with my daughter when she started attending pre-school they were treating her harsh and the teacher was giving me all these stupid excuses and I told her I don't hear it, you got the wrong 1. I pulled her out that school immediately. Then the bus driver 1 day brought my daughter home and she wanted to talk to me about how abusive the bus aid was being towards my daughter everyday till she couldn't take anymore.
Tears swell up in my eyes because I love my daughter so much and all I could think of was how long was this going on and she told me she asked for her to be removed. Finally what broke the camel back with me was when I was called in by a school about an employee they had employed and a teacher there was noticing something strange about this person he was trying to sexually abuse my daughter and I literally went off looking for that fool and I told them if i find him no telling what I'm going to do. Then they try calm me down saying we got this situation under control no worry.and I said u better because u don't want my ugly side to come out so I feel for some of these parents especially in cases like mine that have children with any kind of disabilities.
You did the right thing by pulling your child out always follow your first mine.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Aww. So sorry that baby went through the situation. She is so sweet and don't need to be treated in that way. Praying that you can find another school with teachers that will really care for children
So sorry about winter’s bad experience Great you found a more productive school.
You guys should really say something because these kids don’t have a voice. Please make the authorities aware and you may be surprised to find others that believe you and sounds like the school is banking on you guys staying quiet. I think you two are excellent parents with a good heart.❤
Shout out to the great teacher out there! We are out there. We are there to serve , with love and respect.
My Lord, continue to protect your babies. I’m glad you saw it early.
Many schools have teachers like this and they lie. Until children can really communicate what's going on if you don't have to leave them don't. My girls are adults now, but I had some issues when they were very young. I had to pull my girls out of a couple of Daycare Schools due to some of the teachers unacceptable behaviors. I'm glad you learned of the problem early and pulled Winter out.
Yes, take my girl out! They need to be reported for discipline action, it's unacceptable towards these precious babies. It's some mean people in the world today. Keep her home long as u have to until your spirit leads you at the time you think is comfortable. Prayers! 🙏
I’m so happy you guys were able to place her in a different environment immediately! I wanted to share my story. My daughter was enrolled at The Salvation Army Hope Center. When we toured the facility, there were zero red flags. There were a few times that I dropped her off and you could hear her crying.(When you walk in, there’s the receptionist area, behind the first door is a hallway or anti room and then the next door after the anti room are the classrooms. That should have been my reason to remove her, but I blamed separation anxiety. Fast forward a few weeks, I go to pick her up and I’m rushing because she has a doctor’s appointment. It’s a little nippy outside, so once I have her strapped into her stroller, I brush her hair back to put her hood on her head. I felt something wet and when I looked at my hand, there was blood! I immediately turn around and head back to the building. I ask for one of the ladies that watches her. When she came out front, she asked if I forgot something. I said no, but you all sure did! What the heck(PG version) happened to my daughter?! She tells me that they were in the gross motor skills room and this couldn’t have happened in there. I told her she needed to show me how my daughter could have injured herself on soft items. She failed to offer up a reason. When I spoke with the director of the daycare, she said they could only write up an incident report and not an accident report, because no one knew what happened to her. When I allowed cooler heads to prevail, I asked for a copy of the report so that I could lodge a complaint. She reluctantly provided it and covered the names of the people who were charged with watching her. I called my daughter’s pediatrician, I explained why I was running late and was told to bring her in as quickly as I could, so that she could be assessed. Her doctor said that the cut on her forehead was from her hairline to the middle of her forehead. She also said that had the cut been 5cm deeper, she would have needed stitches. Sufficed to say, that day was her last day there and I lodged a complaint. Because I had evidence as well as a doctor’s note/report, the complaint was expedited. Due to the complaint, I found out they were cited a lot of times for failing to have the correct number of caregivers for the ratio of children. They were also given multiple verbal warnings about everything from the staff to how they interact and deal with the kids! They were in so much trouble! After I filed the complaint, the director tried to scare me into saying nothing happened. She told me she thought we were good friends(because she drove us home one night). Lol. She told me that I was gonna cost her her job. I chuckled and told her she would’ve had to have done this considerably longer than my child was enrolled, for the blame to be mine. I found a home daycare and the woman who cared for the kiddo was a retired elementary school teacher, so my daughter was preschool ready at age 2 1/2! I didn’t enroll her, but it was wonderful to know she was utilizing her teaching experience to help the kiddos in her care to excel!
When my son was very young i only trusted my mom and twin sister to watch him then i enrolled him in preschool for two years because i was a stay at home mom then i decided to volunteer as reading for class that ease my mind so that i can see what was goings-on. And i really did it i volunteer in PTA, at his school for from preschool on til 4th grade as a teachers helper. And all the kids told my son you have a cool 👩🏽 mom they would come over after school and do their homework with my son. If they need help, and when my son was in high school he was a hig high honor roll and the teacher ask him if he want to stay after school and help volunteer to students that need help so he did. He graduated 🎓 and went six years of college and he a supervisor at his job. His iq in school was 6.6. Im very proud of him and still is he just turn 30 yrs old .last week..
Torie, I'm sorry Winter had to go through that. Honestly, if you saw inappropriate behavior of a teacher towards children you need to report it and have the authorities investigate that school.
Not everyone should be a teacher.
My girls went Montessori, Catholic and Chartered schools. The classes were small but this was 30 years ago. You both are great parents and I am so very proud of what you did. Your babies are precious listen to their body languages even if they are not verbal.
Sorry to hear what happened to Winter. Good job you caught it early and got her out of there. Guys, if I were you, I would home school Winter for at least another year. Little kids are so vulnerable and can be targets for abuse. Please please.🙏 I do hope you will get justice for Winter. ❤
🙏🏾❤️Omg so sorry 😞! So happy Winter is okay!
As parents, our eyes must always be open.
Glad to hear that Winter is doing great in her new school. Thanks for sharing.
I am so sorry that your child and your family had to go through this. I am glad you were able to protect your child. And I hope all of the other parents pulled their children out of the school immediately as well. This type of aggressiveness and abuse is so traumatizing and effects a child's life into adulthood. Fortunately, you were able to detect that this was happening. Hopefully, the State will investigate this school and close it down. These teachers should never be allowed to work as teachers or daycare workers again. They should also be arrested as this type of aggressive behavior is assault on these small children.
You were lucky that the first school didn’t leave a horrible impression with Winter. That will make her not wanna go at all to another school so it’s good that she’s adaptable and enjoying her new school.
I'm so sorry, I could see just from Travis's expression how hurtful the experience was without Tori even explaining what happened. I'm a Special Education Pre-K teacher in the public school system. None of what you're describing sounds professional not acceptable. Report them to the State asap.
Beautiful children! Good for you for standing up for all kids! You just don't know who to trust to take care of your little ones now-a-days. You have a beautiful family and of course we want to protect our children at all cost especially when in the care of people that are suppose to take care of them.
You did the right thing thank God you did what you did