even as a cis girl I constantly have to check myself because I find myself looking at other girls and comparing myself, feeling like my body isn't attractive, feeling like i'm stuck in a body that doesn't suit me. It's so hard. I can't imagine how that feels from a trans woman's perspective but I think deep down inside we are all the same and we can relate on the basis of compassion and empathy. Your advice for transitioning is helping me even though i am not transitioning, but like you said we all transition through stages of our lives. One thing that has consistently given me great solace during these last 5 years of depression is listening to LGBT people's stories and trying to understand feelings beyond my own. it's humbling but also validating
thank you.. it's so heartwarming to see people try to understand and connect with those different from them, finding we are all together in this world 😊❤🔥 that's the attitude we all need
I’m a straight female, i dont have any trans friends, and i couldn’t imagine navigating a world so divided as trans struggles- but i find your videos SO informative and gentle on the psyche. I really think the messages u give are positive to everyone everywhere. Ur such a pretty girl inside and out maya!!! 💋
I wanted to say that is video is seriously what I needed right now. My therapist thought this video sounded wonderful and had me share it with her too. She and I talked about how it would be really cool if there were journal prompts for reflecting on each of the points more in-depth! Love you, Maya. I hope all is well with you
What a valuable channel. Mata, you are priceless! I had a trans friend 40 years ago, when ut was very unfashionable. She was my best man when I got married! She kind of disappeared for a year. She would come to NJ from her home in NY and would stay with her grandmother. So, anyhow after a year she came down, and I was warned by another friend that she was transitioning. To prepare me, cause she hadn't told me yet, but the eyebrows were plucked, nails long and beautiful. She brought me books to read on the subject. My husband did not accept her, but I did. And then I realized why she always understood my point if view when my husband and I argued, before she told me. She understood my views because she thought like a woman. Her and I lost touch over the years. I divorced and moved away. Over the years I always wondered why people had such strong reactions to trans ppl. I think it is an insecurity issue. I never had a problem. You are doing a good job of encouraging the trans communuty, and probably helping the straight(?) community get used to the whole thing. Anyhow, kudos to you!
could have used something like this years ago. i will probably never feel anything but hate for myself. also super jealous of all trans women who have froenda and support and are able to thereby overcome the overwhelming animosity against us in society.
Do what makes you happy :) if people can't understand that fuck em. I find it very brave to come out especially with some of the ignorant hateful things that come with it.
Im transgender mtf and i have fully embraced myself for who i am and have been fully transitioned for almost 2 years and i have only had 1 surgery because they are pretty expensive btw love the content keep up the great work P.S. Happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Girl, YOU are amazing! I was just in tears tonight until I found this video and watched it. You are so well-spoken and you touched on some things I've been going through. I started my transition about the same time you did but I still have a ways to go in a lot of areas, especially self-love. It's the hardest thing for me. I just want to thank you so much for helping me find some understanding of my existence in this world as a trans woman. I am much older then you but you are far beyond your years and gave me some things to thank about. Much love! XOXO
One of the best video in ages. Thank you so much for this. I started HRT in Jan and then the whole lockdown happened, worked hard for 8 years so that I could become financially independent and fund my transition. But now things look horrible hope we all make it out. Stay Blessed.
After watching your video. Had me thinking I'm guilty of majority of everything you said. My counselor asked me the same questions I couldn't answer them I started doubting myself, Now I can answer those questions finally. Now I can move on being more confident and stop listening to the haters. Thank you very much
you being as beautiful as you are and talking about experiencing the same negative thoughts i do is so powerful to hear, maybe i am actually pretty maybe being trans is beautiful.
There's so little trans girl talk out there I'm so confused. It's the first thing I need to come to terms with. A lot of cis girls channels are really, really helpful like this, but there are things that I just can't relate to, for obvious reasons. So, I'm grateful you made this video, to have some quality girl talk
Sometimes you just need a Maya video to cheer you up and tell it like it is. When the Dysphoria is talking, Maya is who you need to hear. Thanks Maya You're amazing.
This is the best. I've avoided some of my hobbies because of what others may think or that it was my "old life" interests. This really is a must watch for trans peeps. It applies to us all.
Wow…that was wonderful. I my opinion that was one of the most helpful videos I’ve seen. I’m so glad I found it and I am going to watch it again soon. Thanks for sharing it.
I have been watching your videos for several years now, and you always impressed me as someone who knows who she is. May be it was just because you are a good actress, but I never got the impression that being trans was all you were about. You seem like a well-adjusted human being. This was a very good presentation that will probably help lots of people feel better about themselves. Thank you. (Glad you got your lovely normal eyebrows back!)
G'day. Thank you for this video. so inspirational. I am in the final stages of transitioning, and that is presentation. I have been on hormones now for nearly 10 years, but over that time, lack of regular money and my self confidence, especially dealing with deep depression (anxiety, my own safety, nervousness, family reaction, past history of being teased and not liked as I didn't fit in) prevented me from moving forward. As I turn 40 next year, I know its time, and in two weeks time, I will be visiting a place that can with this transition with a new set clothes, and to get my presentation correct. I do feel excited and in the end, I know I am ready. Love from Sydney, Australia
What a content- & powerful essay on the hurdling way of a trans-life and life in general. Transpeople have their own habits of selfharm. You make us aware of it. Thank you so much. Your advices on healthy adjusting our thoughts and views are brilliant and help me avoiding the many tripwires of letting my own selfimage get distorted in the mirror of the society.
Thank you, I really needed this today after a number of rough few days! Being a transgender woman in the early stages of transition can be really hard! 😢
I was unfortunately in the middle of work when this went up. I REALLY REALLY wish I could have been here for it’s initial release, but I’m here now. I literally just came out to the world not even a month ago & I’m learning how to accept myself as a trans person, much less a trans woman. So thank you so much for this!!!!!
As a 58 year old transgender woman I’ve found virtually everyone I know very understanding of transition, they do still find it hard to say she/her etc but I get why.. to a point. I’ve also found a few people can’t really deal with it and won’t bother to try, so sadly they have to go because it’s just exhausting and a waste of time to keep correcting them every single time. Love your videos, keep doing them & be happy 😃❤️
Thank you so much for putting a voice to the dysphoria. I think a lot of people describe what it is, but you're giving it a voice that I very much relate to so I appreciate that. Thank you! Appreciate all your thoughtful content.
My chosen family keeps growing and this really helps to add to my happiness and sense of purpose. My self love sometimes involves spending a lot of money on myself. Hey, if nobody else is going to date me - I feel ok spending all the money I would have spent on dates on myself instead.
@@Mayavhenry thank you! I definitely think mental health and wellness is a big struggle for us especially with the oppression we face, but I am glad when I see that we do have some allies and sometimes transphobes are just being noisy. I am struggling to determine whether I am NB or transfem still but have resorted to self administering oestrogen from imports. Anyway, sorry for the lecture but thanks again for replying! 😊
I'm not a transwoman but trans positivity was just what I needed right now after encountering a transphobe. Thank you really much for helping transwomen and transpeople in general through their life by giving them videos like this one, it really helps 💖
been following you a few years. i know its been a struggle but what i admire about you is the beautiful woman you came to be. to the rest of the ladies everythings gonna be ok. the end result all of yall are going to be beautiful butterflies
@@alicewhitelhpw7517 Since the start of the year, Just waiting on my Hormone appointment but this covid stuff kinda put a hold on that, Hoping the health appointments will start up again soon :) x
@@alicewhitelhpw7517 Omg that is amazing :) So jealous lol x Hope it is all you expected :) I,m being like so impatient right now omg. I know its not a sprint its a marathon. Stay Safe Babes x
Hi Maya thank you for Answering so many questions That I had struggled with being a new transgender woman for only a 1 1/2 years. It really has been like a roller coaster ride with highs and lows.
Such an amazing and comforting video. For 3 years I have been so laser focus on this process of transitioning and not really living life. I completely forgot who I truly am outside of my transition. Like, what do I do for fun? Do I even have a hobby? I need to start advocating for myself and I need to stop talking so poorly to myself in my head. There are days where I will just wake up and from the moment my eyes crack open to the moment I close them, I will be just ripping myself to shreds about the way I look, the way I talk, the way my face looks, my body, just absolutely everything. Saying some of the cruelest things to myself because it's what I think other people are thinking/saying. This needs to change.
I'm so glad you made this video Maya! I think you should definitely expand this into a book. People from all different walks of life struggle with self-acceptance, not just transgender people. You have so much insight and compassion and empathy to share in that generous heart of yours. I wish I had the inner strength you so clearly have. Thank you for making this post. I'm sure it will help some people get through those dark times of self-doubt and low self-esteem, a chronic condition of the transgender community. I really like the concept of "internalized transphobia." That phrase resonates so deeply with me.
There is much more similarity in the human experience for everyone, more than we realize, no matter if we are trans or otherwise. We are all more alike than we realize. I so enjoy your videos.
There are a lot of reasons to love yourself. Sometimes people can't see it. But that doesn't mean those reasons aren't there. Because they are. If you are a trans woman, love the fact that you are different. Because if you are different, you aknowledge that you are yourself ;-) And you are at your best when you just be you. And love yourself for it! And Maya, thank you (in advance) for this video ;-)
I have been working harder than I ever have on this transition, even harder than men and it's been the hardest thing I've ever been through and the biggest thing that has helped me is to smile through this and I constantly thank God for everything regardless thank you so much for everything you do
I think we all wish for the perfect answer for self love and happiness. But I believe it is a journey, where many choices must be made and paths must be taken. The road less travelled is often the hardest to take, but the most rewarding ❣️
Hi Maya, You look amazing, and also nobody would never think you are trans if we don't know. It is so incredible what we can do in these times we live in. I think trans people in general have to be very gouregeous to go through so many tough things to finally reach their identity. But how was it for you? Did you really feel straight a way when you were still small that you are not in the right body? You really react like a girl/woman like people who are born as girl. There is no difference. So incredible. I can't belief you were born as a different gender. Amazing !!!!
It is great that you can See behind the curtains of our society and the expectations. What I always say is that you dindn‘t transition to play another role. Be yourself. You don’t have to be the most feminine woman if you don’t feel like that.
I ABSOLUTELY AGREE with you Maya. It is not another that makes us happy or sad. It is ourselves. It Is so important to have self. Well done Maya. With much love and respect.❤🤗
I'm transmasc but a lot of this still hit close to home. I especially feel the "loosing a sense of self in your transition" right now. I just started T and I worry that these last few years have put so much emphasis on starting my transition that after I finish, I won't have anything left. I worry about what my life will be like and who I'll be after I finish this. Thank you for putting it into words so well.
Honestly this premiere couldn't have come at a better time.. I was having some really conflicting thoughts about stuff today so hopefully this can make me feel a bit better!! 😅 🥰
I'm in my late 30's and I know trans friends and a co-worker who are inspired by your channel. I hope I can live long enough to see a society where no trans woman or trans man ever has to feel like they should ashamed of who they are and content like this makes me optimistic.
Your very grounded. Refreshing. I agree with you! We need other things in our lives then just transition. Life goes on after our personal transition. I was so happy when I finally move on.
Thank you for this video! I needed this today! My dysphoria was so bad this morning and even though I’m 2 months on hrt I feel I’m not making any progress, but thank you for your advice! Always love your content!
Excellent video. While you and i are very different in ways (I'm 56 and came out about a year ago), the intelligent optimism you exude is uplifting. Thank you.
This is an awesome video and so what I needed today. It’s propelling me forward in my transition by helping me to recognize and release my deeply rooted transphobia+, which fosters self-acceptance and love. You’re an amazing presenter with valuable message and your elegance shines brightly. Thanks for sharing this.
I have to tell you that this is one of the best presentation of its kind. You could substitute almost any negative feeling about your self in place of transgender and it would fit We all seem to have negative feelings about some part of our lives. You presented a template to help get through negative feelings that we all have. Thank you.
Maya, you're such a beautiful wise soul. The information you shared in this video is truly so helpful for all people, not just trans. Thank you so much! You have no idea how much I needed this right now. Much love to you 💕🤗💕
Thank you Maya. This video is exactly what I needed at this point of my life. This actually is a gift. Your experience and the conclusion you made about it is gold for people in early stage of transition like me and I have no doubt for anyone. I watched all your videos and I must tell you, this one is very precious for me. Lot of tips and answers and I feel like someone else went throught the exact same step I am right now!
Jessica Dempsey thank u for saying this, tomorrow is the first meeting with my therapist and im super nervous, this comment has helped me thank u so much beautiful person
Maya, this is a wonderful video. So well researched and amazing delivery. I'm a cisgendered woman and lesbian, just FYI and this video even spoke to me in some ways. On another note, I think you should do more ASMR videos as well. Great voice and super relaxing. xo
Maya your a credit to trans females everywhere, looking back over your videos which are entertaining and factual. I love the support from your sister and family and the way you address everything and including them on your channel. Hope lockdown isn't too much of an obstacle to you and your other half and family and look forward to seeing more work from you shortly. Lots of Love! Jessica Scarlett May.
Amazing job. Great information, well presented. Saved this to watch again. Thank you for your time, effort, and generosity in composing and sharing this. Much love and respect, Dear 🥰
This is a fantastic video. You have helped me tremendously. I will watch this many times more. You are an incredible person, very wise and helpful young woman. And I wish you the best in life
I’am struggling to be happy and care for my self another’s as a trans woman . Trying to find friends is really hard especially with loneliness. Glad I found this video .
even as a cis girl I constantly have to check myself because I find myself looking at other girls and comparing myself, feeling like my body isn't attractive, feeling like i'm stuck in a body that doesn't suit me. It's so hard. I can't imagine how that feels from a trans woman's perspective but I think deep down inside we are all the same and we can relate on the basis of compassion and empathy. Your advice for transitioning is helping me even though i am not transitioning, but like you said we all transition through stages of our lives. One thing that has consistently given me great solace during these last 5 years of depression is listening to LGBT people's stories and trying to understand feelings beyond my own. it's humbling but also validating
Wow you’re the kind of woman that is so understanding and accepting and open minded...the kind of woman I need in my life
@flyer11234 Replace woman with friend or person next time. That way it won't seem like all you are after is a wife.
thank you.. it's so heartwarming to see people try to understand and connect with those different from them, finding we are all together in this world 😊❤🔥 that's the attitude we all need
You're saving lives and spirits here, Maya. Well done.
Yeah she is really doing good works
Was crying into a pillow when this popped up. I shall be tuning in!
Feel better soon ♥️
Maya Henry update: I watched it! I feel better 🌝
No she is not 😍
Jesus Ramirez virtual hug hun it’ll get better
I’m a straight female, i dont have any trans friends, and i couldn’t imagine navigating a world so divided as trans struggles- but i find your videos SO informative and gentle on the psyche. I really think the messages u give are positive to everyone everywhere. Ur such a pretty girl inside and out maya!!! 💋
There needs to be more people like you in the world you may not be Trans but your support means the world to people like me thank you
It’s simple, don’t be trans
I wanted to say that is video is seriously what I needed right now. My therapist thought this video sounded wonderful and had me share it with her too. She and I talked about how it would be really cool if there were journal prompts for reflecting on each of the points more in-depth! Love you, Maya. I hope all is well with you
Crying in a mirror, then this pops up on my subscriptions... definitely something I need to watch rn
Aww feel better soon Jessica! 💗My video is on it's way, and I hope it can cheer you up 🥰
I love trans girls, hit me up
We've all been there girl x
😢 Chin up hunny ❤️
Definitely everything I needed to hear and more. Thank you for putting this out there into the world.
What a valuable channel. Mata, you are priceless! I had a trans friend 40 years ago, when ut was very unfashionable. She was my best man when I got married! She kind of disappeared for a year. She would come to NJ from her home in NY and would stay with her grandmother. So, anyhow after a year she came down, and I was warned by another friend that she was transitioning. To prepare me, cause she hadn't told me yet, but the eyebrows were plucked, nails long and beautiful. She brought me books to read on the subject. My husband did not accept her, but I did. And then I realized why she always understood my point if view when my husband and I argued, before she told me. She understood my views because she thought like a woman. Her and I lost touch over the years. I divorced and moved away. Over the years I always wondered why people had such strong reactions to trans ppl. I think it is an insecurity issue. I never had a problem. You are doing a good job of encouraging the trans communuty, and probably helping the straight(?) community get used to the whole thing. Anyhow, kudos to you!
Excuse all the misspelling bug fingers. Small phone. I meant to write Maya!
Definitely needed to hear this today. Has been a hard few years.
Part 6 really hit home and was very useful x
Neyah Visions channel puts out a lot of good astrology videos. Might cheer you up.
No doubt especially with people in positions of power doing everything they can to tear down everyone in the LGBTQ+ community. :(
could have used something like this years ago. i will probably never feel anything but hate for myself. also super jealous of all trans women who have froenda and support and are able to thereby overcome the overwhelming animosity against us in society.
Do what makes you happy :) if people can't understand that fuck em. I find it very brave to come out especially with some of the ignorant hateful things that come with it.
Im transgender mtf and i have fully embraced myself for who i am and have been fully transitioned for almost 2 years and i have only had 1 surgery because they are pretty expensive btw love the content keep up the great work
P.S. Happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Good job girl! I'm very proud of you! Lots of love.
Girl, YOU are amazing! I was just in tears tonight until I found this video and watched it.
You are so well-spoken and you touched on some things I've been going through.
I started my transition about the same time you did but I still have a ways to go in
a lot of areas, especially self-love. It's the hardest thing for me. I just want to
thank you so much for helping me find some understanding of my existence in
this world as a trans woman. I am much older then you but you are far beyond
your years and gave me some things to thank about. Much love! XOXO
I literary was about to break down, again, in a short time. Really needed some positive content in this see of darkness around us.
This was such a good positive talk. Thank you for sharing your insights so eloquently, such a deep thinker. All my love to you sister xx
One of the best video in ages. Thank you so much for this. I started HRT in Jan and then the whole lockdown happened, worked hard for 8 years so that I could become financially independent and fund my transition. But now things look horrible hope we all make it out. Stay Blessed.
very well expressed . the woman you are is the woman you have always been.
After watching your video. Had me thinking I'm guilty of majority of everything you said. My counselor asked me the same questions I couldn't answer them I started doubting myself, Now I can answer those questions finally. Now I can move on being more confident and stop listening to the haters. Thank you very much
Yeah it helped me too
you being as beautiful as you are and talking about experiencing the same negative thoughts i do is so powerful to hear, maybe i am actually pretty maybe being trans is beautiful.
I was looking up trans TH-camrs, and I came across your channel! This video is amazing
There's so little trans girl talk out there I'm so confused. It's the first thing I need to come to terms with. A lot of cis girls channels are really, really helpful like this, but there are things that I just can't relate to, for obvious reasons. So, I'm grateful you made this video, to have some quality girl talk
Sometimes you just need a Maya video to cheer you up and tell it like it is. When the Dysphoria is talking, Maya is who you need to hear. Thanks Maya You're amazing.
This is the best. I've avoided some of my hobbies because of what others may think or that it was my "old life" interests. This really is a must watch for trans peeps. It applies to us all.
Wow everyone needs to hear this, I could have bought a self help book but you got it all down in this blog with all the realness and sincerity
Wow…that was wonderful. I my opinion that was one of the most helpful videos I’ve seen. I’m so glad I found it and I am going to watch it again soon. Thanks for sharing it.
Thanks so much for this video, I was having a breakdown and needed this.
I have been watching your videos for several years now, and you always impressed me as someone who knows who she is. May be it was just because you are a good actress, but I never got the impression that being trans was all you were about. You seem like a well-adjusted human being. This was a very good presentation that will probably help lots of people feel better about themselves. Thank you. (Glad you got your lovely normal eyebrows back!)
G'day. Thank you for this video. so inspirational.
I am in the final stages of transitioning, and that is presentation. I have been on hormones now for nearly 10 years, but over that time, lack of regular money and my self confidence, especially dealing with deep depression (anxiety, my own safety, nervousness, family reaction, past history of being teased and not liked as I didn't fit in) prevented me from moving forward. As I turn 40 next year, I know its time, and in two weeks time, I will be visiting a place that can with this transition with a new set clothes, and to get my presentation correct. I do feel excited and in the end, I know I am ready.
Love from Sydney, Australia
Had a rough day yesterday, so this will definitely cheer me up. Count me in :)
I’m sorry to hear that, but hopefully I can cheer you up ❣️
@@Mayavhenry You did
Thank you. This is very helpful.
Edit: Especially the be kind to yourself part.
What a content- & powerful essay on the hurdling way of a trans-life and life in general. Transpeople have their own habits of selfharm. You make us aware of it. Thank you so much. Your advices on healthy adjusting our thoughts and views are brilliant and help me avoiding the many tripwires of letting my own selfimage get distorted in the mirror of the society.
Thank you, I really needed this today after a number of rough few days! Being a transgender woman in the early stages of transition can be really hard! 😢
I was unfortunately in the middle of work when this went up. I REALLY REALLY wish I could have been here for it’s initial release, but I’m here now. I literally just came out to the world not even a month ago & I’m learning how to accept myself as a trans person, much less a trans woman. So thank you so much for this!!!!!
As a 58 year old transgender woman I’ve found virtually everyone I know very understanding of transition, they do still find it hard to say she/her etc but I get why.. to a point. I’ve also found a few people can’t really deal with it and won’t bother to try, so sadly they have to go because it’s just exhausting and a waste of time to keep correcting them every single time. Love your videos, keep doing them & be happy 😃❤️
Vicki Waters thanks same to you ❤️😬
Definitely looking forward to this! I've been thinking a lot about my identity recently and am looking forward to your perspectives.
Thank you 🙏🏼
This is what pride is all about! Being proud of who you are. Videos like this are very inspiring. Thank you for sharing 🥰
Thank you so much for putting a voice to the dysphoria. I think a lot of people describe what it is, but you're giving it a voice that I very much relate to so I appreciate that. Thank you! Appreciate all your thoughtful content.
thank u so much for this video! i came out a few days ago and im really scared for my future! thank you for your videos!
My chosen family keeps growing and this really helps to add to my happiness and sense of purpose.
My self love sometimes involves spending a lot of money on myself. Hey, if nobody else is going to date me - I feel ok spending all the money I would have spent on dates on myself instead.
You should watch some of the love forecasts. This might help you feel better.
Been spiralling lately, hopefully this will help and thanks for your responsiveness to my prior comments, your attentiveness shows. 😊👍
I’m sorry to hear you’ve been spiralling! I’ve definitely been there. Hoping this video will help a bit in the self love department 💞💗
@@Mayavhenry thank you! I definitely think mental health and wellness is a big struggle for us especially with the oppression we face, but I am glad when I see that we do have some allies and sometimes transphobes are just being noisy. I am struggling to determine whether I am NB or transfem still but have resorted to self administering oestrogen from imports. Anyway, sorry for the lecture but thanks again for replying! 😊
I'm not a transwoman but trans positivity was just what I needed right now after encountering a transphobe. Thank you really much for helping transwomen and transpeople in general through their life by giving them videos like this one, it really helps 💖
Maya, as a trans woman like myself, I find your words in all these years so encouraging. Love you much.
been following you a few years. i know its been a struggle but what i admire about you is the beautiful woman you came to be. to the rest of the ladies everythings gonna be ok. the end result all of yall are going to be beautiful butterflies
Just starting my transition your words and this video, in fact all your videos have really helped, Thank you Maya :) xx
how long have you been transitioning?
@@alicewhitelhpw7517 Since the start of the year, Just waiting on my Hormone appointment but this covid stuff kinda put a hold on that, Hoping the health appointments will start up again soon :) x
@@Andieelizabeth73 good for you girl. I've been on the hormones for 2 years
@@alicewhitelhpw7517 Omg that is amazing :) So jealous lol x Hope it is all you expected :) I,m being like so impatient right now omg. I know its not a sprint its a marathon. Stay Safe Babes x
Hi Maya thank you for Answering so many questions That I had struggled with being a new transgender woman for only a 1 1/2 years. It really has been like a roller coaster ride with highs and lows.
Such an amazing and comforting video. For 3 years I have been so laser focus on this process of transitioning and not really living life. I completely forgot who I truly am outside of my transition. Like, what do I do for fun? Do I even have a hobby? I need to start advocating for myself and I need to stop talking so poorly to myself in my head. There are days where I will just wake up and from the moment my eyes crack open to the moment I close them, I will be just ripping myself to shreds about the way I look, the way I talk, the way my face looks, my body, just absolutely everything. Saying some of the cruelest things to myself because it's what I think other people are thinking/saying. This needs to change.
Been a long day. Lotsa dysphoria. Some tears. This was good. I needed to hear it. I feel better about myself.
I'm so glad you made this video Maya! I think you should definitely expand this into a book. People from all different walks of life struggle with self-acceptance, not just transgender people. You have so much insight and compassion and empathy to share in that generous heart of yours. I wish I had the inner strength you so clearly have. Thank you for making this post. I'm sure it will help some people get through those dark times of self-doubt and low self-esteem, a chronic condition of the transgender community. I really like the concept of "internalized transphobia." That phrase resonates so deeply with me.
You are such a beautiful woman omg. So feminine but also assertive, which is very attractive. I am ftm but find this very inspiring.
There is much more similarity in the human experience for everyone, more than we realize, no matter if we are trans or otherwise. We are all more alike than we realize. I so enjoy your videos.
There are a lot of reasons to love yourself. Sometimes people can't see it. But that doesn't mean those reasons aren't there. Because they are.
If you are a trans woman, love the fact that you are different. Because if you are different, you aknowledge that you are yourself ;-) And you are at your best when you just be you. And love yourself for it!
And Maya, thank you (in advance) for this video ;-)
Exactly! Thank you for the encouraging words. 💗
I hate being different so much.
@@scowlingcat3870 I used to hate myself for being different but not any more
I have been working harder than I ever have on this transition, even harder than men and it's been the hardest thing I've ever been through and the biggest thing that has helped me is to smile through this and I constantly thank God for everything regardless thank you so much for everything you do
I need this answer to live peacefully
I think we all wish for the perfect answer for self love and happiness. But I believe it is a journey, where many choices must be made and paths must be taken. The road less travelled is often the hardest to take, but the most rewarding ❣️
Hi Maya,
You look amazing, and also nobody would never think you are trans if we don't know. It is so incredible what we can do in these times we live in.
I think trans people in general have to be very gouregeous to go through so many tough things to finally reach their identity. But how was it for you? Did you really feel straight a way when you were still small that you are not in the right body? You really react like a girl/woman like people who are born as girl. There is no difference. So incredible. I can't belief you were born as a different gender. Amazing !!!!
It is great that you can See behind the curtains of our society and the expectations. What I always say is that you dindn‘t transition to play another role. Be yourself. You don’t have to be the most feminine woman if you don’t feel like that.
I ABSOLUTELY AGREE with you Maya. It is not another that makes us happy or sad. It is ourselves. It Is so important to have self. Well done Maya. With much love and respect.❤🤗
im trans female and have been focusing WAYY to much on "my look / passing"
You are so adorable and lovely Maya! Love you!
I'm transmasc but a lot of this still hit close to home. I especially feel the "loosing a sense of self in your transition" right now. I just started T and I worry that these last few years have put so much emphasis on starting my transition that after I finish, I won't have anything left. I worry about what my life will be like and who I'll be after I finish this.
Thank you for putting it into words so well.
Honestly this premiere couldn't have come at a better time.. I was having some really conflicting thoughts about stuff today so hopefully this can make me feel a bit better!! 😅 🥰
Aww I hope so too! 💗🙏🏼
this message is so important.
I'm in my late 30's and I know trans friends and a co-worker who are inspired by your channel. I hope I can live long enough to see a society where no trans woman or trans man ever has to feel like they should ashamed of who they are and content like this makes me optimistic.
Your very grounded. Refreshing. I agree with you! We need other things in our lives then just transition. Life goes on after our personal transition. I was so happy when I finally move on.
Thank you for this video! I needed this today! My dysphoria was so bad this morning and even though I’m 2 months on hrt I feel I’m not making any progress, but thank you for your advice! Always love your content!
Excellent video. While you and i are very different in ways (I'm 56 and came out about a year ago), the intelligent optimism you exude is uplifting. Thank you.
You are an inspiration to many , I watch your videos for the entertainment value all I see is a beautiful confident woman
This is an awesome video and so what I needed today. It’s propelling me forward in my transition by helping me to recognize and release my deeply rooted transphobia+, which fosters self-acceptance and love. You’re an amazing presenter with valuable message and your elegance shines brightly. Thanks for sharing this.
I have to tell you that this is one of the best presentation of its kind. You could substitute almost any negative feeling about your self in place of transgender and it would fit We all seem to have negative feelings about some part of our lives. You presented a template to help get through negative feelings that we all have. Thank you.
Wonderful message, you are a leader, no doubt. That's why I follow you. Keeo your spirits up. Trust me, you are going to need it!
TBT this should be Required Viewing for all ppl...trans AND cis 💖💖
Such an exceptional video! Thank you Maya for taking the time to help others. 💜
Thank you, sister. You're an angel.
Best book I ever read to learn to myself before and while I was doing my transition, was Louise Hay's "You can heal your life"
I’m cisgender but I knew this video would help me because I still have trouble loving myself and not comparing myself. I look up to Maya’s confidence.
i hope i can apply this to being a trans guy, your videos have had a positive impact of me ✨
Your video is so inspiring, I love it.
Wow you make some very interesting points. Thank you for the perspective. I'm going to periodically watch this to remind myself to stay healthy.
Maya, you're such a beautiful wise soul. The information you shared in this video is truly so helpful for all people, not just trans. Thank you so much! You have no idea how much I needed this right now. Much love to you 💕🤗💕
You seemed to have timed this well Maya, lots of us are struggling with our identities and the questions we have for ourselves xx
The nail polish is really pretty on you. Thank you for the tips and advice.
Thank you Maya. This video is exactly what I needed at this point of my life. This actually is a gift. Your experience and the conclusion you made about it is gold for people in early stage of transition like me and I have no doubt for anyone. I watched all your videos and I must tell you, this one is very precious for me. Lot of tips and answers and I feel like someone else went throught the exact same step I am right now!
so good Maya... so much of this video is also very useful to all of us, not just transgender.
thx, stay safe 👍
It took me long time to love myself because I could not be myself. After transitioning I was able to enjoy my hobbies even more.
Jessica Dempsey thank u for saying this, tomorrow is the first meeting with my therapist and im super nervous, this comment has helped me thank u so much beautiful person
This video is not only beautiful, but exactly what I needed. Thank you.
Your videos have helped me so much through a number of rough points in my transition. Thank you!
Great video, thanks for being so thorough!
8:29 "Eating disorders are very high among transgender women"
Me: Mixing 6lbs of tuna salad for myself
I feel called out lol
Maya, this is a wonderful video. So well researched and amazing delivery. I'm a cisgendered woman and lesbian, just FYI and this video even spoke to me in some ways. On another note, I think you should do more ASMR videos as well. Great voice and super relaxing. xo
Very lovely reminders, ty 😊
Maybe this video will be good to hear cause i have not been feeling anyself love for a long time. Love your videos
Thank you Lilly! I hope this video can help you in some way 💗
Thank you sweetie for this wonderful video and sharing your thoughts and experiences on this subject. Very inspiring.
Literally exactly the video I needed
Maya your a credit to trans females everywhere, looking back over your videos which are entertaining and factual. I love the support from your sister and family and the way you address everything and including them on your channel. Hope lockdown isn't too much of an obstacle to you and your other half and family and look forward to seeing more work from you shortly.
Lots of Love! Jessica Scarlett May.
This is so helpful. Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you Maya!
Amazing job. Great information, well presented. Saved this to watch again. Thank you for your time, effort, and generosity in composing and sharing this. Much love and respect, Dear 🥰
You’re so beautiful I’m so happy for you! (I’m a trans woman as well)
Wonderful. You are a natural story teller, I can see you writing and directing your own films if that is what you wanted to do.
you are so wise, thank you maya
This is a fantastic video. You have helped me tremendously. I will watch this many times more. You are an incredible person, very wise and helpful young woman. And I wish you the best in life
This is beautiful and exactly what I needed to hear lately❤️
Thanks for being you as I really appreciate you and needed to hear this now...♡
I’am struggling to be happy and care for my self another’s as a trans woman . Trying to find friends is really hard especially with loneliness. Glad I found this video .
Love you, Maya 💛