Unexpected Signs of Giftedness: Surprising Characteristics and Traits of Gifted Adults
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- Are you wondering if you or someone you know is gifted? Or are you a #formergiftedkid wondering if you're still gifted as an adult?
Here are Ten Unexpected Signs You May Be Gifted!
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Many people believe that the only way to identify giftedness is by calculating IQ test scores. This is not the case. Giftedness isn't about how much you know ... it's about how your mind works differently than everyone else's. These ten behaviors illustrate some of the unique ways the gifted brain works. How many do you have?
00:00 Intro
00:43 Giftedness explained
03:26 You're the first to laugh
04:16 You can read micro expressions
05:10 You watch videos on 1.5x speed
05:46 You turn off your music to read street signs
06:33 When you're reading, you can't hear people speak to you
07:09 You have a "thing" that you know inside and out
07:55 It's not your only "thing"
08:32 You hate injustice
09:33 You hate being interrupted when you're thinking deeply
10:37 You get a serotonin boost from finding answers
11:37 Conclusion
11:52 Wayfinders Facebook group for gifted adults
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Unexpected Signs of Giftedness | Surprising Characteristics and Traits of Gifted Adults
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It's like a gifted brain has a need to be active. Boredom is a major issue.
And if you don’t put it to something good…..it’ll find all kinds of wild problems to solve all on its own
The first person to mention not listening to music while focusing!! I always thought I might be sharing ADHD with being gifted (2e) but when I saw how all ADHDs agreed on how music helps them focus, I got confused?! Music hypnotizes me or annoys me.
Recently stumbled on your channel… I’ve always just thought i think about things backwards, fast, and that I hyperfixate… after listening to a few of your videos I think I might be gifted…. The music thing gets me. Ever since having kids I stopped listening to music completely… in the house it’s just too much stimulation and in the car I just can’t focus.
"serotonin from soliving". YUP I've been sitting here grinning because i finally have a name for my brain.
AHHHHHHHH im so happy man....
A friend of mine has been trying to tell me that I'm Gifted for months and I have been telling her she's crazy... not feeling like she's so crazy now. Nine of these points were 100% accurate to my life.
Welcome to the club :)
I have all of them.
I think for #10 it may also count to bask in the enjoyment of others' brainy solutions. When I try a new tool or technique, and it works, I can say, "This is BRILLIANT!! OUTSTANDING! Who did this? I wanna shake their hand!" For example, I love using those vacuum suction storage bags, where everything shrinks way down... I always feel a sense of satisfaction, like, "A-ha! I win! Take that, carry-on baggage rules!"
YES! I love a good idea 😍 I actually keep a list of really genius, clever places, activities and inventions :)
You're funny, I like it
2E is a pain!
6:43 it’s absolutely comical my inability to pay attention to someone talking while I’m playing a video game. People say I become a completely different person when I’m gaming and it shocks them how deeply and intensely focused I become, haha
Can you do a video about giftedness and autism, please?
I'll put it on my list :)
Pretty much all 10 points. Some not to be proud of.... Luckily I don't get mad mad when someone interrupts me when i'm in my " I'm finally starting to understand this " phase.
Due too allot of childhood trauma my " giftedness " got misinterpreted as autism. And ehh... it hasn't helped me much. I'm only finding out now that it's something else. At 32 years old.... what a waste.
Number 9!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have seriously talked to my wife about having a cabin or separate little work room detached from our house for this reason.
I think you'd like a number 9 and a number 9 large :p
I've told my husband that I want to rent my own apartment. 😂
Im all of them except number 5. I cant even imagine that happening 😊. Thanks for the playback speed advice. Slow videos drive me nuts. Understanding things quickly: i can do this, but not every time. For example, im still trying to get my head round a lot of quantum physics, regardless of how many quantum physics for dummies i read. Is this normal for gifted people?
Absolutely. One common trait of gifted folks is asynchronous development, where we develop different skills at different rates. And also, we each have our own areas of expertise -- we'll learn new concepts in "our" areas quickly, and may learn concepts in other areas more slowly. I talk about this in my video about misconceptions of gifted people if you want to hear more :) th-cam.com/video/Hb-TQ6N-1Es/w-d-xo.html
Same! Though Ive never driven in 49 years.
Not me watching this at 1.75x speed lol
Slacker. I'm watching this at 2x. 😂
Would you not think everyone knows what you know
Do you consider what you describes in this video as being on the spectrum?
Not necessarily. Some gifted people are on the spectrum, and some people on the spectrum are gifted, but they're not exactly the same thing. "On the spectrum" generally refers to autism. Both giftedness and autism are a neurodivergence, but in different ways. People with both are often referred to as twice exceptional, or 2E.
If person on the autistic spectrum ( what was called Asperger's) does not notice or recognize micro expressions, can they still be gifted?
Absolutely! You don’t need to have every sign on this list to be gifted. Giftedness manifests in different ways in different people.
Have a question, we have some gifted people, but maybe not quite on the top of the list, or maybe because we are 2E, gifted and dyslexia, or gifted and BiPolar, so we never had the diagnosis u til adulthood. But now we have a grandson, 6 years old this week. Profoundly gifted. Has lots of things that actually everyone said autism when he was 2 and 3, but now no signs of autism at all. My question is schooling, public just does not work he was skipped 4 years last year, and will be ready for middle school in winter break. We can’t do that, so we will go school. Our problem is getting him to do anything he does not like, he will go through 20 pages of math, he will read his book in a day, rather than 2 weeks. He will do 5 weeks of science and history in 20 min. But then spelling, writing, putting thought on paper, he will not do even in the subjects he loves. It has become a block for both of us. I think it has something to do with him being a 6 year old and not having the fine motor skills he wants to have. Others think it is his stubbingness. How do we get over this, because it is holding him back in all subjects but math. He needs to practice to get better, but we go weeks begging, promising his favorite things if he will do it. I don’t want to punish because that could backfire, oh if it don’t do this I get to go to my room where I can read about space or do countries. Any suggestions?
It's normal for gifted children to have asynchronous development, meaning that they excel in certain areas but are still at their age level in other areas. Try to be patient and set realistic goals that focus on progress rather than perfection. You can also:
Understand the Root Cause
1) Assess Motor Skills: Consider having his motor skills evaluated by an occupational therapist. Improving these skills could reduce his frustration with writing and spelling.
2) Identify Emotional Blocks: Sometimes, resistance can stem from fear of failure or perfectionism. Encourage a growth mindset by celebrating effort and progress rather than just the end result.
Engage His Interests
1) Integrate Interests: Find ways to incorporate his favorite subjects into less favored ones. For example, if he loves science, have him write about a recent experiment or a scientific discovery.
2) Creative Approaches: Use creative methods to teach spelling and writing. For instance, create stories together where he dictates and you write, gradually encouraging him to take over the writing.
Try Practical Strategies
1) Break Tasks into Small Steps: Smaller, manageable tasks can make the work seem less overwhelming. Celebrate the completion of each step to build a sense of accomplishment.
2) Use Technology: Allow him to use a computer or tablet for writing assignments. Typing might be easier for him than handwriting and can be more engaging.
3) Visual Aids: Use visual aids like mind maps or graphic organizers to help him structure his thoughts before writing.
Use Motivation and Rewards
1) Choice and Autonomy: Give him some control over his learning. Let him choose the order in which he completes tasks or select from a list of writing prompts.
2) Positive Reinforcement: Use positive reinforcement, such as a reward system for completing less favored tasks. Make sure the rewards are immediate and meaningful to him.
Collaborate and Communicate
1) Regular Check-ins: Have regular check-ins to discuss his feelings about different subjects and any challenges he faces. This can help you address issues as they arise.
2) Team Approach: Work with his teachers or a tutor who understands gifted children. They might have additional strategies and resources to offer.
Good luck!
I am not gifted 😞
Not necessarily! These aren't the only signs. Check out this video (Smart vs Gifted) for more: th-cam.com/video/lDjZQlSVxe0/w-d-xo.html
I seem to have most of these, with an added issue of being frustrated about my current circumstances and when I get overly frustrated I become lethargic or self destructive