It’s been so hard to understand and to realize that my problems in school, high school, work were not really what I thought. I felt different and I have suffered a lot. I’m crying a lot after watching this video. Thank you so much. It’s time to shine ✨
I was told I was gifted by a teacher when I was 16. Nobody before this said this to me before. My parents were intellectuals and didn’t seem to notice.
Thankyou so much 😭😭😭. Listening to your saying made me feel somehow liberated like i can see myelf from crystal clear lens. I’m from Indonesia. I thought i had BPD or NPD or maybe bipolar etc etc bcs of that intens roller coaster of emotions every single day. And i’m living in simultaneous “emotional pain” dealing with standards. Etc etc etc oh my thank you so mmuch
Really great video. This process of trusting ourselves and being authentic requires us to grieve the fact our family may not have seen us for who we truly are. Then taking the risk of being that person. Terrifying and liberating!!! Xx
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I'm gifted. I've known it because I had to get tested growing up. but I did not understand what it meant so I'm having to learn. this might be life changing. Thank you.
Yes. I was in a gifted program in 2nd grade. I had to leave the regular classroom. We dissected a kiwi. 😂 That’s all the experience I received and then it ended. Until today perhaps. Thrilling
I used to think that I was crazy or something beyond people's understanding. My teacher told me that I was phenomenal when I was in elementary school and they isolated,shamed me for being sharp for my age. I always had a comeback to anything anybody can say about me also, my mother told me that I will get killed if I don't stop being smart fast forward my boss at FAANG resented me for being "a smart ass" 😂 I don't even try to be smart but as soon as someone starts talking about something that I know very well ideas continue flowing without stopping and I can't keep my mouth shut. I love helping people but I'm also scared of them because they're angry,mean spirits sometimes. My solution is to isolate and distract myself around people that can't understand me. They think that I'm a stuckup,shy, introverted,mean, angry all kinds of bs. Thanks for motivating
If you are self aware and understand the impact your mental powers have on people, yet you continue to behave in a way that is detrimental to you, then perhaps you need to develop some emotional intelligence. By this, I mean moderating your behavior when warranted and/or find your way into an environment where your behavior isn't seen as threatening.
I haven’t done an IQ test to put a number to my intelligence, but I don’t feel more intelligent than others. To me the way I perceive it is that so many people seem slower and can’t see the strings that connect the information together. I don’t fully trust doctors anymore, even psychiatrists, I have to fact check, research everything to do with meds especially. And it’s hard to know just how intelligent we are without a frame of reference, and even then it doesn’t seem so simple.
Thank you for mentioning the difference between malignant perfectionism and beautiful perfectionism and including the anxiety that comes with a visionary bent. Very validating!
Thank you Dianne! You are doing great work! Much what you said resonated with me. As I grew up I thought I was stupid, because people around me seemed so sure about everything, while I was questioning everything. People around me seemed to have such finite personalities while I struggled to find my own personality through a bunch of different personas that I used to try to connect to the world. I didn't realise that those with "finite personalities" probably where more one-dimensional than me, and that I had a richer world within me than them. Fortunately I have found great friends in life through my great passion of music, but a romantic relationship is still to come. I think a big reason is that I enjoy my own company so much and don't want to waste my time on a person who slows me down (sounds selfish and arrogant I know ;) ), combined with the fact that it's harder for gifted people to find each other, since we are a minority in society. But I haven't lost hope, and I find myself more forgiving towards myself and others as a get older, which helps in connecting with people. The untypical brain development that you describe was new to me, really interesting! It may explain why gifted people have almost like a "sixth sense", because they can process and filter information in such a rapid way that they see the greater picture instead of getting stuck in details. I have always been ashamed of my gifts because there is no worse feeling than the feeling of superiority towards others. It brings so much guilt, pain and feelings of isolation. Lately I try to see my gifts instead for what they are - gifts. I didn't choose them, they chose me, and then I feel very thankful. And I know that each one of us, gifted or not, have unique capabilities and unique perspectives of life. If we all could aknowledge and celebrate that, then there is a bright future for humanity. Now I have rambled enough haha. Great love to you all, over and out.
Thank you for your comment. Giftedness is not restricted to children so if you relate, you may be more gifted than you have once thought. I am happy you can relate,
Thanks for explaining the trait of wanting speed up videos to keep them interesting. Trying 1.5x on this one. :D Worked great. I noticed the pitch shift and verbal irregularities due to the speed increase were filtered out by my mind. Very neat.
I don't really know if I willfully as gifted. I mean I have a vurbel IQ of 141 but my overall IQ is only 100. So over all not that impressive. I have often wished for an identical twin so I would have a play mate. Not that others never play with me. I would also like to be understood. And know someone who cares about what I care about.
7:51 Oh, yes. I have been called rude when pointed out the obvious in a polite manner. I used to be a rather nice person. Now I don’t give a fuck anymore. I am old, sick and tired of everybody’s bullshit. I am still trying to hide my mind to the point of being accused that I ask ‘stupid questions’ 😂
8:23 Soap operas . They wanted to fire him because he could not hold a conversation about bloody soap operas! 😂 If this alone doesn’t make you depressed, you can’t think. Truth is the others fear and envy to the point of not making use of the gifted’s abilities. Out of sheer spite. One of the reasons for which I cannot stand humans anymore.
I'm seeing flashes of different faces. And I have sleep terror meaning something is in my room. I have a unseen entity touch me more then 1 time.
Thank you for watching. I hope this was helpful.
Instead of colors in the leaves of a tree, Im busy looking at the aura of the different trees. This is highly fascinating..thank you.
I was a gifted child and now im just a crazy person
Ditto. 😎
Me a well😅
@@robyndawn nothing better than that. I’m grateful for my craziness. :)
I hear ya
At 64 I use my old lady crazy as a loon card all the time... 😅
It’s been so hard to understand and to realize that my problems in school, high school, work were not really what I thought. I felt different and I have suffered a lot. I’m crying a lot after watching this video. Thank you so much. It’s time to shine ✨
I was told I was gifted by a teacher when I was 16. Nobody before this said this to me before. My parents were intellectuals and didn’t seem to notice.
Thankyou so much 😭😭😭. Listening to your saying made me feel somehow liberated like i can see myelf from crystal clear lens. I’m from Indonesia. I thought i had BPD or NPD or maybe bipolar etc etc bcs of that intens roller coaster of emotions every single day. And i’m living in simultaneous “emotional pain” dealing with standards. Etc etc etc oh my thank you so mmuch
Thank you for your comment and for watching. I am delighted you now feel more liberated.
Really great video. This process of trusting ourselves and being authentic requires us to grieve the fact our family may not have seen us for who we truly are. Then taking the risk of being that person. Terrifying and liberating!!! Xx
Yes, terrifying and liberating at the same time. Thank you for your comment and for watching. GO for your liberation.
Be sure to take a second and subscribe to the show and share it with anyone you think will benefit. Until next time, remember the world needs your special gift, so let your light shine!
I don't know what my gift is. Lol
I'm gifted. I've known it because I had to get tested growing up. but I did not understand what it meant so I'm having to learn. this might be life changing. Thank you.
Yes. I was in a gifted program in 2nd grade. I had to leave the regular classroom. We dissected a kiwi. 😂 That’s all the experience I received and then it ended. Until today perhaps. Thrilling
I used to think that I was crazy or something beyond people's understanding. My teacher told me that I was phenomenal when I was in elementary school and they isolated,shamed me for being sharp for my age. I always had a comeback to anything anybody can say about me also, my mother told me that I will get killed if I don't stop being smart fast forward my boss at FAANG resented me for being "a smart ass" 😂 I don't even try to be smart but as soon as someone starts talking about something that I know very well ideas continue flowing without stopping and I can't keep my mouth shut. I love helping people but I'm also scared of them because they're angry,mean spirits sometimes. My solution is to isolate and distract myself around people that can't understand me. They think that I'm a stuckup,shy, introverted,mean, angry all kinds of bs. Thanks for motivating
If you are self aware and understand the impact your mental powers have on people, yet you continue to behave in a way that is detrimental to you, then perhaps you need to develop some emotional intelligence. By this, I mean moderating your behavior when warranted and/or find your way into an environment where your behavior isn't seen as threatening.
@@stevedavenport1202 I appreciate the advice!
@@stevedavenport1202
Is this advice similar to the quote, “If you’re the smartest one in the room, you’re in the wrong room”?
I haven’t done an IQ test to put a number to my intelligence, but I don’t feel more intelligent than others. To me the way I perceive it is that so many people seem slower and can’t see the strings that connect the information together.
I don’t fully trust doctors anymore, even psychiatrists, I have to fact check, research everything to do with meds especially.
And it’s hard to know just how intelligent we are without a frame of reference, and even then it doesn’t seem so simple.
Thank you for mentioning the difference between malignant perfectionism and beautiful perfectionism and including the anxiety that comes with a visionary bent. Very validating!
Thankyou this was so helpful
You are welcome. I am delighted it was helpful. Thank you for watching.
Illuminating… ❤
Thank you, Dianne. I just found you and I really needed these friendly reminders today! 🌹
Thank you Dianne! You are doing great work! Much what you said resonated with me. As I grew up I thought I was stupid, because people around me seemed so sure about everything, while I was questioning everything. People around me seemed to have such finite personalities while I struggled to find my own personality through a bunch of different personas that I used to try to connect to the world. I didn't realise that those with "finite personalities" probably where more one-dimensional than me, and that I had a richer world within me than them. Fortunately I have found great friends in life through my great passion of music, but a romantic relationship is still to come. I think a big reason is that I enjoy my own company so much and don't want to waste my time on a person who slows me down (sounds selfish and arrogant I know ;) ), combined with the fact that it's harder for gifted people to find each other, since we are a minority in society. But I haven't lost hope, and I find myself more forgiving towards myself and others as a get older, which helps in connecting with people.
The untypical brain development that you describe was new to me, really interesting! It may explain why gifted people have almost like a "sixth sense", because they can process and filter information in such a rapid way that they see the greater picture instead of getting stuck in details. I have always been ashamed of my gifts because there is no worse feeling than the feeling of superiority towards others. It brings so much guilt, pain and feelings of isolation. Lately I try to see my gifts instead for what they are - gifts. I didn't choose them, they chose me, and then I feel very thankful. And I know that each one of us, gifted or not, have unique capabilities and unique perspectives of life. If we all could aknowledge and celebrate that, then there is a bright future for humanity. Now I have rambled enough haha. Great love to you all, over and out.
I am not sure I am gifted, but watching some TH-cam Videos about gifted children, there was a lot I could relate to.
Thank you for your comment. Giftedness is not restricted to children so if you relate, you may be more gifted than you have once thought. I am happy you can relate,
@@someonegetsme Oh! Thanks.
Gracias!
Best video about the theme!!!!
Thanks for explaining the trait of wanting speed up videos to keep them interesting. Trying 1.5x on this one. :D
Worked great. I noticed the pitch shift and verbal irregularities due to the speed increase were filtered out by my mind. Very neat.
How is giftedness being defined here? If it's not having a gift. What is it?
So now that you know, What are you going to do with it?
Idk because I was 16 and it didn’t come from my primary teachers I never really believed it.
That explains the hoarding. Wanting the intensity by having 30 watches instead of just one.
I don't really know if I willfully as gifted. I mean I have a vurbel IQ of 141 but my overall IQ is only 100. So over all not that impressive. I have often wished for an identical twin so I would have a play mate. Not that others never play with me. I would also like to be understood. And know someone who cares about what I care about.
I'm a genius.
Can you be 70 years old and still be not sure why you have few people to share with yout ideas
Its shades of green
Thank you for watching.
Shades of green
Idk why youtube propose me these videos on gifted 😂 while i am not. Weirdo algorithm 😂
Is like a church, boring message as always
7:51 Oh, yes. I have been called rude when pointed out the obvious in a polite manner. I used to be a rather nice person. Now I don’t give a fuck anymore. I am old, sick and tired of everybody’s bullshit. I am still trying to hide my mind to the point of being accused that I ask ‘stupid questions’ 😂
8:23 Soap operas . They wanted to fire him because he could not hold a conversation about bloody soap operas! 😂 If this alone doesn’t make you depressed, you can’t think. Truth is the others fear and envy to the point of not making use of the gifted’s abilities. Out of sheer spite. One of the reasons for which I cannot stand humans anymore.