I have spent about six months now watching a video or two a day of Professor Vaknin's and thought it was helpful but I wasn't moving on, until I received a hoover attempt recently and my reaction to it was the opposite of all previous hoovers over the last two years. I never replied and further blocked the narc. So I just want to say thank you Professor, I have learned so much and all for free and it has held me in good stead and I am stronger. ❤
All that is said about the Narcissists are well said but the victim also isolated themselves especially after discarded and smeared campaign from the narcissist and their enablers. The narcissist then projects their wrongs on their victim. This is another extension of terrifying abuse putting the victims at risk of more mental and physical harm.
@@taraarrington2285 seems like flying monkeys somehow become possessed by the Narcissists or have something unsavoury the NARC knows about them. So much drama to live a lie. Too many get caught off guard unsuspectingly by the Narcissists and their enablers. If one doesn't have bad intentions towards others and have accommodating nature, they are at the mercy of the Narcissists, especially if the Narcissists are desperate for supplies to maintain their fake superior ego. It's the worst form of abuse playing with people's minds as well as their lives. I was threatened that they will never forget and forgive me no matter how long, because I spoke up. From what I'm hearing about the Narcissists, this is taboo, with this said, I understood but leaves me and suppose many victims fearing for their life. I empathize with everyone that's suffering or has suffered from this health crisis, YES it is a real health crisis and this is rising.
@@synchronis346Never trust people that whine because of their own bad decisions. Doesn't matter if it's about "narcissistic abuse" or something else.
@@synchronis346biggest load of bs, “anyone that claims they were a victim of narcissistic abuse is a covert narcissist”. I see the same kind of moronic statements made by narcissists/psychopaths on most videos about NPD and narcissistic abuse. Prof Vaknin’s whole channel educates about narcissistic abuse and the insidiousness of it, so people know what the hell happened to them! Obviously you aren’t familiar with his videos, you post stupid messages to try to get your ore in. Actually all the narcissists I’ve known, they claim abuse a lot, but they don’t like to use the “n” word. They like to stay clear of it. It’s too close to home you see. But every narcissist on social media thinks they will upset people that have gone through abuse/or educators on it, by calling them narcissists. It doesn’t actually do anything, because it’s just so ridiculous, you actually make yourself look silly.
How long does a collapse last? I'm assuming it varies. I have heard it could take anywhere between a week to 6 months? I was told that some never recover but I assume that's not true after watching this. Thank you Prof. Vaknin I will watch the McGill lecture.
Thank you Dr. Valknin! Youre body of work has been life saving. You have also inspired me to finish my psyd. In Forensic Psychology. Im an only chid of a cerebral narcissist and borderline. Any insights into how this dynamic plays out. Its the perfect 🔺️ - Thank you Sir!
Professor Sam Vaknin Can you PLEASE make it possible for me to get in direct contact with you??? The recovery of my three daughters from their father who used the unfortunate timing of my mother's heart attack / death / funeral as an opportunity to permanently relocate himself and our girls 3000 miles away to punish me and regain his control when just prior to my mother's heart attack I had made it clear and had literally just begun the process of moving myself and the girls to my parents house - in order to protect myself and the girls from the both mental and physical abuse that they had witnessed throughout their whole lives and at that point had begun to transfer over to them... I do not want to explain the rest of the details any further here on your comments section There is NOTHING in your lectures that has been said that I Have Not experienced yet and in fact to the extremes I am in desperate need of someone that understands the complexity and urgency of the proper sequence of moves and counter moves involved with SAFELY removing my daughters from his possession I have ran into wall after wall And greatly dear I will lose them completely Please Help Me Help Myself And The Girls
I pray you can I wish I understood what I was dealing with I last my girls to a narcissistic cult family with lots of money it destroyed their and my lives. I'm happy you know what you're up against I thought I was crazy cuz it seemed so surreal I didn't know what they are until years later with a therapist that explained to me exactly what they are. Knowledge is power and the system is just starting to recognize narcissisism keep at it and don't push God away I made too many mistakes
Dear Professor, Finally, in a descompensation state derived from collapse ; considering the transitions (moratorium "solutions") are not stable for Cluster B personality disorders, ¿ Could a schizoid avoiding/renouncing acting combine with a narcissistic/psychophatic denouncing solution? If yes.. ¿ what would it be the sef supply or self-sufficiency gain in the moratorium through the schizoid phase? Perhaps to avoid another narcisstic injure? Thanks a lot
When my covert narc sibling knocked up a Canadian woman he went off the deep end for about three weeks. He was certain his comfortable lifestyle that made him feel better than others was over. He had several plans to either end the pregnancy or the woman and I suspected ending himself was also on the table. Psychopathic all the way all over pending child support payments.
So the self actualised sense of being collapses, the ego puts walls up until it eventually metamorphose into a new sense of self. Presumably the persons state could be drastically changed in this time as he discards and rebuilds? Would one expect to hear things such as “I’ve changed, I’m different now”?
This video explains a lot of the behaviour I have seen from the narc recently as a result of an earlier collapse. Their behaviour is totally internally driven and rules and time constraints don't seem to matter as long as their goals are achieved. Other people's reality/ideas/needs/rules are of no consequence. Very psychopathic.
How much engagement should my partner have with my two daughters? He states that he is helping me by trying to give them discipline . It’s not discipline. It’s mean. How should my eight-year-old and 17-year-old respond to him?
I have spent about six months now watching a video or two a day of Professor Vaknin's and thought it was helpful but I wasn't moving on, until I received a hoover attempt recently and my reaction to it was the opposite of all previous hoovers over the last two years. I never replied and further blocked the narc. So I just want to say thank you Professor, I have learned so much and all for free and it has held me in good stead and I am stronger. ❤
Exactly, once you know you can never go back to it.
All that is said about the Narcissists are well said but the victim also isolated themselves especially after discarded and smeared campaign from the narcissist and their enablers. The narcissist then projects their wrongs on their victim. This is another extension of terrifying abuse putting the victims at risk of more mental and physical harm.
Exactly. I wonder how so many people become flying monkeys.
@@taraarrington2285 seems like flying monkeys somehow become possessed by the Narcissists or have something unsavoury the NARC knows about them. So much drama to live a lie. Too many get caught off guard unsuspectingly by the Narcissists and their enablers. If one doesn't have bad intentions towards others and have accommodating nature, they are at the mercy of the Narcissists, especially if the Narcissists are desperate for supplies to maintain their fake superior ego. It's the worst form of abuse playing with people's minds as well as their lives.
I was threatened that they will never forget and forgive me no matter how long, because I spoke up. From what I'm hearing about the Narcissists, this is taboo, with this said, I understood but leaves me and suppose many victims fearing for their life. I empathize with everyone that's suffering or has suffered from this health crisis, YES it is a real health crisis and this is rising.
@@synchronis346Never trust people that whine because of their own bad decisions. Doesn't matter if it's about "narcissistic abuse" or something else.
@@synchronis346biggest load of bs, “anyone that claims they were a victim of narcissistic abuse is a covert narcissist”. I see the same kind of moronic statements made by narcissists/psychopaths on most videos about NPD and narcissistic abuse. Prof Vaknin’s whole channel educates about narcissistic abuse and the insidiousness of it, so people know what the hell happened to them! Obviously you aren’t familiar with his videos, you post stupid messages to try to get your ore in. Actually all the narcissists I’ve known, they claim abuse a lot, but they don’t like to use the “n” word. They like to stay clear of it. It’s too close to home you see. But every narcissist on social media thinks they will upset people that have gone through abuse/or educators on it, by calling them narcissists. It doesn’t actually do anything, because it’s just so ridiculous, you actually make yourself look silly.
@@synchronis346that's right, victims. Keep yer mouths shut. Dont expose anyone. Or you're a narc yourself. Dumass
One of your best videos yet.
Thank you, Dr. Vaknin! Your videos have truly improved my life. ❤
Thank you for making me understand Sir.
Brilliant. Simply brilliant.
Very enlightening.
How long does a collapse last? I'm assuming it varies.
I have heard it could take anywhere between a week to 6 months?
I was told that some never recover but I assume that's not true after watching this.
Thank you Prof. Vaknin I will watch the McGill lecture.
Thank you Dr. Valknin! Youre body of work has been life saving. You have also inspired me to finish my psyd. In Forensic Psychology. Im an only chid of a cerebral narcissist and borderline. Any insights into how this dynamic plays out. Its the perfect 🔺️ - Thank you Sir!
Vaknin. Search the channel for "odd couple".
@@samvaknin Thank you. Found exactly what I was looking for.
Professor Sam Vaknin
Can you PLEASE make it possible for me to get in direct contact with you???
The recovery of my three daughters from their father who used the unfortunate timing of my mother's heart attack / death / funeral
as an opportunity to permanently relocate himself and our girls 3000 miles away to punish me and regain his control when just prior to my mother's heart attack I had made it clear and had literally just begun the process of moving myself and the girls to my parents house - in order to protect myself and the girls from the both mental and physical abuse that they had witnessed throughout their whole lives and at that point had begun to transfer over to them...
I do not want to explain the rest of the details any further here on your comments section
There is NOTHING in your lectures that has been said that I Have Not experienced yet and in fact to the extremes
I am in desperate need of someone that understands the complexity and urgency of the proper sequence of moves and counter moves involved with SAFELY removing my daughters from his possession
I have ran into wall after wall
And greatly dear I will lose them completely
Please
Help Me
Help Myself
And
The Girls
I pray you can I wish I understood what I was dealing with I last my girls to a narcissistic cult family with lots of money it destroyed their and my lives. I'm happy you know what you're up against I thought I was crazy cuz it seemed so surreal I didn't know what they are until years later with a therapist that explained to me exactly what they are. Knowledge is power and the system is just starting to recognize narcissisism keep at it and don't push God away I made too many mistakes
Dear Professor,
Finally, in a descompensation state derived from collapse ; considering the transitions (moratorium "solutions") are not stable for Cluster B personality disorders, ¿ Could a schizoid avoiding/renouncing acting combine with a narcissistic/psychophatic denouncing solution?
If yes..
¿ what would it be the sef supply or self-sufficiency gain in the moratorium through the schizoid phase?
Perhaps to avoid another narcisstic injure?
Thanks a lot
Search the comorbidities playlist.
@@samvaknin
Here I go!
The schizoid malignant narcissist: loner sadist one makes sense.
Thank you for your advice.
Best regards
Miss Maggie McGill
Lived on a hill
Her daddy got drunk
And left her the will
When my covert narc sibling knocked up a Canadian woman he went off the deep end for about three weeks. He was certain his comfortable lifestyle that made him feel better than others was over. He had several plans to either end the pregnancy or the woman and I suspected ending himself was also on the table. Psychopathic all the way all over pending child support payments.
Thats a damn shame
Good morning SIr.
So the self actualised sense of being collapses, the ego puts walls up until it eventually metamorphose into a new sense of self. Presumably the persons state could be drastically changed in this time as he discards and rebuilds? Would one expect to hear things such as “I’ve changed, I’m different now”?
Professor Sam, Narcissists seem like they are all about the ego, but they have no ego. I wonder why? Why is this?
Watch the Mind playlist.
👍 Collaspe 👍 ,
is their's natural state of being ,
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✔ throughout their whole life . ✔
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This video explains a lot of the behaviour I have seen from the narc recently as a result of an earlier collapse. Their behaviour is totally internally driven and rules and time constraints don't seem to matter as long as their goals are achieved. Other people's reality/ideas/needs/rules are of no consequence. Very psychopathic.
How much engagement should my partner have with my two daughters?
He states that he is helping me by trying to give them discipline . It’s not discipline. It’s mean. How should my eight-year-old and 17-year-old respond to him?
None. You would do well to remove your partner from their lives and yours.
You cannot have him do that . Sounds odd if he isn't the father I'd keep an eye on him
love, please don't scar your kids for life by allowing anyone to ever get mean with your children....