REVERSE CULTURE SHOCKS! | Going Back to America After Living Abroad in Germany for 8 Months!

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  • Going back to America after living abroad was a bit weird for us!! There were definitely some things that gave us a bit of a culture shock!!
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    0:00 Introduction
    1:42 Driving Differences
    3:45 Landscape differences
    5:02 Hugging + Interactions
    7:33 Carpet
    8:47 Recycling Programs
    11:18 Infant Seatbelt on Airplanes

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  • @ellenschafer1918
    @ellenschafer1918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Carpets were common in Germany as well, but went out of fashion starting in the 90's. Generally carpets are very unhygenic and nasty, even tho it feels more cosy on the feet. Wood, laminat and tiles are easier to clean. If one wants to have more a carpet feeling, there are smaller 'mobil' ones. Easier to keep clean and change if cleaning does not work anymore.

    • @michaelgrabner8977
      @michaelgrabner8977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      "Generally carpets are very unhygienic and nasty"
      I really don´t think so.
      I grew up with carpets in every room...they got vaccuum cleaned every day and wet cleaned at least once per month...So it depends solely on the carpet owners if their carpets are "unhygenic and nasty"..therefore that´s not "generally" ...some households are unhygenic and nasty without any carpets as well...solely either the people are unhygienic and nasty "generally" or they aren´t ....just saying

    • @peterkoller3761
      @peterkoller3761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@michaelgrabner8977 tear out one of those "clean" carpets after a couple of years and then shake them out. I promise you will be grossed out!

    • @leDespicable
      @leDespicable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@michaelgrabner8977 There lies the problem...you need to hoover very often to keep carpets clean, which is just impractical and annoying.

    •  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peterkoller3761 Look at your skin under a microscope. I promise you will be grossed out!

    • @Greenwood4727
      @Greenwood4727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      the problem with wood floors, they can get slippery, and you can easily slip carpets have more grip

  • @bernadetteontour3891
    @bernadetteontour3891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Depending on the area and the age, Germans are big huggers!
    But Covid is a gamechanger and you arrived in the middle of an pandemic!
    I miss hugging, but hopefully sooner than later times will change again!

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes exactly! It’s fun to hear that more Germans are huggers than we thought! 😊

    • @isav5276
      @isav5276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yeah, wanted to write the same. We are huggers. Especially in the south of Germany. But Covid happened and took us our lovely hugging habit :(

    • @electronblue8334
      @electronblue8334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@OurStorytoTell It definitely depends on the region in Germany. When my brother moved to Berlin, he suddenly became a hugger. But I doubt it was ever a common behaviour in the North (north of Hamburg). But one of the first things we were told to stop when the pandemic started was shaking hands and hugging people.

    • @swanpride
      @swanpride 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OurStorytoTell Depends on the area where you life and the circles you move in. Like, students are often huggers, but it is extremely unusual behaviour in a more professional setting.

    • @wandilismus8726
      @wandilismus8726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bahh in northern Germany we hope to go back to 6 to 8m distance. 1,5 to 2m is so close 😛

  • @starseed8087
    @starseed8087 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Carpets are just an outdated thing here and Im happy about it. I grew up with carpets on the floor and every time a glass with juice or something like that felt down it was a mess. Wooden floors look so much better and are so easy to clean, especially for my vacuum robot..

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is too true-Much easier to clean up!

  • @dairuna
    @dairuna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Living in Germany: We used to have carpets in the living-room and the "clean" part of the hallway when I was a child. The entrance, kitchen and bathrooms were always tiled, for ease of cleaning.
    Those carpets used to be glued down and were installed to stay for years! The thought of it makes me shudder, hehe. Nowadays we have a carpet/big rug (washable) in the livingroom between the sofa area and the TV, so we don't get cold feet in winter - everything else is laminated flooring or tiled.
    Also, allergies, yes. Most of my family members have allergies, so keeping the carpets and fabrics to a minimum helps keeping the dust out of the living space.

  • @PeTer-xd8nx
    @PeTer-xd8nx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    It is a pleasure to welcome you back to Germany. You 3 are an enrichment for every community.
    In the north of Germany we say: you can watch on Fridays who comes to coffee on Sunday. But I think in Utah you see it already on Wednesday.
    I think the world would be a better place if every state would spend its military budget to let its young citizens explore other cultures for 2 years. Just to show them that their bubble is not the center of the earth.
    I wish you a happy and healthy stay in Germany - you are very welcome.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much ❤️ Such a kind comment! It really is so important for everyone to better understand the world and how other people live.

    • @MikeS29
      @MikeS29 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rockymtn1291 Say you don't know what socialism is without saying you don't know what socialism is...

    • @rockymtn1291
      @rockymtn1291 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MikeS29 What countries do you think practice socialism?

    • @irenestrmnss4496
      @irenestrmnss4496 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@OurStorytoTell wall to wall carpets are not so healthy for allergies , but many have it in the bedrooms . Not so modern here anymore.
      Strange thing is that in USA people dont take off their shoes.

  • @katriarjava658
    @katriarjava658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can't fathom why people would want to hug strangers. I save hugging to people who I'm close to or have a hugging relationship with. An honest handshake is worth so much more than an empty hug. We Finns value our personal space and I find someone saying "I'm a hugger" and just proceeding to act accordingly really presumptuous. It gives more pleasure to let a relationship develop organically and eventually reach the hugging stage (sometimes sooner, sometimes later). Anyway it is important to learn about other cultures and ways of life and every time the cultures meet there is room for compromise. I do hope you enjoy your time in Europe and can combine the positives of both counties into your life.

    • @christineperez7562
      @christineperez7562 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not every American is going to hug a stranger. I don't talk to people I don't know either.

    • @huskytail
      @huskytail ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am Bulgarian and I'm with you on this. Even the kisses are creepy and unpleasant, hugs.. Just no. One arm length distance is absolutely perfect for strangers and acquaintances 😁

  • @mickey23052
    @mickey23052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I am glad that you like it in Germany and that you feel comfortable here!

  • @BlissLovePeace
    @BlissLovePeace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank You guys! As a German, having lived 16y in the USA myself (14y CA, 2y NM) I can totally relate. My wife, who is American, is more European/German than me meanwhile in everything she expects, appreciates and does not want to live without any more.

  • @bjoern0975
    @bjoern0975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Even though carpets used to be more common in Germany, too, until the 90s, even back then there were differences in comparison to the U.S.: carpeted floors in Germany used to have very thin and "hard" carpets, whereas in the U.S. they were and still are often quite fluffy and thick. Also, in the U.S. you do find carpeted floors even in public areas such as airport terminals. In Germany, there will always be marble or some other kind of polished stone floors.

  • @DavidJones-oc3up
    @DavidJones-oc3up 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Liked the video. I moved to the Czech Republic from Michigan in 2001, and have only returned twice, the last time being two years ago. It was definitely something of a culture shock to me because so many things had changed. I have to say that it was great seeing old friends and eating my favorite dishes again, dishes that I can’t get in the Czech Republic. But I was happy to return to the Czech Republic, and happy that it’s home now. All the best to you guys.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks David! How cool you live in the Czech Republic! We cannot wait to visit your home country someday. 😊 We can relate with you feeling some culture shock & how nice it is to visit the areas, but then go back home.

    • @dudoklasovity2093
      @dudoklasovity2093 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know exactly what you mean. I am Czech and have been living in LA 5 years now. I came to the point of returning back exactly because it’s much better to go back, so many things have changed. I like USA a lot I have part family here and originally came to stay, but my life was more rewarding, meaningful and peaceful in CZ.❤️

  • @annabelv.2400
    @annabelv.2400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    About carpets: when I was little, full carpetting used to be pretty common. But because of the allergies problems , hygiene, durability and just plain easyness to clean, wood and tile or laminate floors have now become more of a norm.
    About the hugging, I think the Covid/social distancing is partly responsible for that.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes all of those things make sense! Thanks!

  • @mojganjazayeri1862
    @mojganjazayeri1862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All comparison were very interesting. I have to say you guys always describe it so well that your videos are interesting to watch. Thanks for sharing your life experiences it is very appreciated. Looking forward to seeing more videos and I am so glad three of you are healthy and you are back to Germany.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That means a lot to hear that! Sometimes we feel like we don’t do a great job so thanks! We are definitely trying 😊 It’s fun to share with you guys!

  • @maxbarko8717
    @maxbarko8717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another reason for not having carpets anymore in Germany might be in-floor heating which became more popular in Germany in the 90s.

  • @tommay6590
    @tommay6590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Finally is someone addressing the main - and for me very obvious - difference between USA and Germany or other European countries: space and topography
    , especially in the west. The possibility to see for miles, the low density of population, creates a feel of freedom not normally found in Europe and thereby „mindsetting“ in the truest sense:-)

  • @erikagoodale9014
    @erikagoodale9014 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It's great to see you happy and healthy back in Germany! I just want to say that I experienced the same feeling to come "home" after visiting family. It was great to not have to go see someone and have a chance to relax. I loved my family but it became stressful to see everyone in a short period of time. We had no downtime! It was exhausting! Once we were home, I so enjoyed to just be with my husband and kids. Enjoy your beautiful home and have fun!

  • @elisabethreinbach9034
    @elisabethreinbach9034 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that you love my country that much, it makes me proud!

  • @regenbogentraumerin
    @regenbogentraumerin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I remember a lot of friends having carpets in the house or flat when I was a child (in the 90s), but nowadays it's not really a thing anymore. We still have carpets on the upper floor in my parents house and just put a new one in about a year ago but we don't use that floor during the day, the carpet just makes it feel more cosy in the evenings when we spend some time in our bedrooms. In the lower floor where people are running around all day and bringing dirt in we have tiles and hardwood floor, it's just much easier to clean.
    About the hugging: Among younger people it's pretty normal to hug strangers when meeting for the first time or at least when saying goodbye, during the pandemic it's just gotten less and less. When it's over I'm sure you'll experience people hugging you way more often.

  • @zeideerskine3462
    @zeideerskine3462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Before Covid, hugging strangers was the normal form of address in Bavaria. In the north, we tend to keep five meters distance, speak up to three words a day, and do not leave our homes unless we absolutely have to and all other options have been exhausted. Most northern Germans did not really notice the quarantine measures.

  • @Uhrenfreund.
    @Uhrenfreund. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello dear people. 🙋‍♂️ Welcome back to your new home. 👍 Nice to have you back. 😁🥰 Looking forward to your next video's. Wish you a nice and quiet Sunday. ✅

  • @Korinthe0203
    @Korinthe0203 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Welcome back home 😘 stay healthy and have a nice turn of the year. A simple tip from us from Northern Germany, stay with us forever. You are welcome. Big hug to the little one.🥰

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love that tip! 😉 Really it means a lot! Happy New Year to you!

  • @bettinab1702
    @bettinab1702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love you being here❣️

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 💛💛 We love being here!

  • @PJHMX
    @PJHMX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wilkommen in Deutschland wieder Taner & Risa !!
    Interesting to know how big the differences are between US and Germany.
    Always happy to watch your videos. Thanks for sharing them ! ❤️

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you PJ! We love sharing our experience! 😊

  • @flofaehrt
    @flofaehrt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh, houses used to have Carpets in the 70ies & 80ies. Then it got old fashioned. I put wooden floors in my whole house. That is a lot better then tiles (too cold and hard) or laminate (ugly). It is very nice to walk on wood. On top of the wooden floor I put carpets. Smaler ones in the hallway and the bedrooms, a big ones in the livingroom and in the diningroom. If you think they are too dirty to only vacuum them, you can hang them outside and clean them with a carpet knocker (Teppichklopfer, that word I had to look up:-). I was surprised the first time how much dirt was falling out of a vacuumed carpet. Or give it to a professional carpet cleaner. Oak in all rooms except the living room there is bamboo, the bathroom has tiles, also the kitchen has tiles. It makes sense not to have wood in wet places...
    Schöne Grüße Florian

  • @Stoll66
    @Stoll66 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Welcome back !

  • @nairbvel
    @nairbvel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Former U.S. Foreign Service kid here... and wow, even though I never *lived* in Germany (after South America, Belgium & the Netherlands were home at different times) a lot of what you talk about is *so* familiar. The landscape differences are, as you mention, totally dependent upon where you are -- but almost everything else is a cultural thing. Of course the pandemic has been a real game-changer for everyone, but I don't see any of these differences going away soon. It's part of the spice that makes travel outside one's home culture so interesting! BTW, except for the kitchen and bathrooms, my townhouse is fully carpeted, as are all the others in my very large neighborhood. This is because it was the cheapest way for the builder to put them up. The only exceptions are those houses where the homeowners have had hardwood, laminate, and/or tile installed themselves. It's very common in this area (I'm in the Mid-Atlantic area on the East coast) for non-carpeted floors to be an extra-cost option in new homes, if they're even available at all.

  • @k.schmidt2740
    @k.schmidt2740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I didn't put wall-to-wall carpeting in our house, when we initially renovated 15 years ago, mostly for cleaning reasons. I am sensitive to dust and just do not like carpet I can't wet clean at least weekly. In the course of the years, that choice has proven to be right for us. It also gives you the opportunity to place some witty and/or beautiful area rugs.

  • @kellybittner1561
    @kellybittner1561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I was little everyone still had carpets in the apartments that was modern my grandma still has carpets everywhere except in the kitchen and bathroom .

  • @ernestmccutcheon9576
    @ernestmccutcheon9576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi guys, welcome back. Regarding carpeting, 25-30 years ago, carpeting was pretty prevalent in German homes. Over time carpeting has been replaced by laminated/wood flooring tile. Probably due to more floor heating, but also due allergies and cleaning issues.

  • @SABRINA.ARMY.BTS.
    @SABRINA.ARMY.BTS. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    About the carpet
    When I was a kid we had carpet everywhere and my grandparents still have carpet almost in every room but it changed years ago and now most houses/apartments have tiles or wooden flooring because it’s easier to clean then carpet!

  • @Beeboop10000
    @Beeboop10000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice to have you here in a good health condition. Interesting video and stay healthy.

  • @Naontaes
    @Naontaes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was raised up with carpets. They lays everywhere, Floor, Childroom, livingroom. I Loved them. Specialy the ones in the livingroom. They Had have briegth Lines who could be interpreted as roads and crossings.

  • @frauvegantje
    @frauvegantje 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Welcome back to Germany :) it’s so funny every time to see Bamberg in your intro :D we live close to Bamberg as well 🥰

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha I bet that is a little weird when it’s so close 😂 We had such a fun time in that city!

  • @summersun3745
    @summersun3745 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good Morning. Glad you made it back in one piece… 😉 Hope all of you recovered well.
    No carpets here. My floors are covered with tiles and wood. Easier to maintain… And I do not have wallpaper in a single room. Instead I have artistic strucktured plaster which I than painted… About the hugging… Ok with people I know and like (!) but never with strangers or people I don’t like… That would seem fake to me…
    Have a nice sunday and enjoy whatever weather you have down there… Here the sun is shining and the birds are chirping. 😎

  • @WolfyLuna
    @WolfyLuna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am from the Netherlands myself, in my home and the one of my parents we never had carpets as it is just easier to clean any other kind of floor. Especially in the living room and dining area where one tends to drop a lot more food and drink stuff to the ground by accident.
    I have seen other people's bedrooms that had carpet in them but my mom is sort of against it herself and I took over her habit :)

  • @dschoas
    @dschoas 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The carpetthing has to do with the change in the heating method. Before there was the so called Fussbodenheizung, almost all households had carpets in their livingrooms. When the Fussbodenheizung came along, you didn't need to have the carpet as an insulation layer to the cold floor. Instead you get a flooring to transmit heat and feels warm when walking on it bare foot. Some used thin wood or Kork to lay the floor instead of a carpet. Another reason is the cleaning, and when using a vacuum robot, carpets are very dificult to be cleaned with.

  • @eagle1de227
    @eagle1de227 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Welcome back home!

  • @jassidoe
    @jassidoe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hahaha the hugging thing is a thing here, too. A friend of mine is from south Germany and she started hugging me from nearly the first meeting on. Usually a hug goodbye, but after we became friends a hug to say hello, too. I am from the north and I still remember me .... totally freezing up. "We have to train you to get used to hugs!" well... I'd say the south is generally more friendly, but the hugging thing, I find, is more common in the south west, closer to France etc. :D glad you made it back ok and are healthy again ^^

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s a funny story! 😊 Thanks for sharing it!

  • @theobald344
    @theobald344 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy to see you mastered the health troubles you ran into in the US. About the carpets (basically MarkusNDS has already written it): I guess they have run a little bit out of fashion here. When I grew up in the 70es I remember it was quite common to have all floors completely covered with what we called "Auslegware". Nowadays especially wooden floors seem to be a lot more fashionable, with a decorative smaller carpet or here and there. Maybe the ease of cleaning plain floors plays a role. Have a very good time in Europe!

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your comment & kind wishes! 😊

  • @emili9715
    @emili9715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In Italy we don't use carpets much. It Is for hygenic purposes, they get veeeery dirty and are hard to clean

  • @Silber7
    @Silber7 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tiles downstairs (kitchen / living room) carpet upstairs (bedrooms) 🙂

  • @patriciamillin1977
    @patriciamillin1977 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Having wall-to-wall carpeting was standard when I first came to Germany. I think with a lot of women going to work at around that time, hardwood floors just became easier to clean after a while. In fact I think it’s really only been like the last 30 years that hardwood has slowly taken over. A lot of older people still have carpeting. Personally, I prefer just small carpets , like under the coffee table or at the side of my bed.
    I’ve often heard from my American friends that recycling is a problem over there, especially in rural areas. It really is something that should be more expanded.

  • @jjivy6310
    @jjivy6310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do a lot of recycling here in rural Texas, but your right, it is much more easier to recycle in Germany! I collect at home and carry to our recycle to our county collection point. It takes more effort.

  • @peterreitmann4496
    @peterreitmann4496 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hi guys! german expat here, living in sun valley idaho usa, funny i lived in ogden for about 8 years my self, 608 douglas st. i' happy for you, that you enjoy germany, the winter time should be fun where you live!

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah so fun to have lived in the same place as you!! We can’t wait for what Winter is about to bring. Thanks for your comment 😊

  • @frauantjeshayday-farmen9517
    @frauantjeshayday-farmen9517 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    carpets are quite common. Especially Teppichboden. You can get Teppichboden at every Baumarkt if you want one for your house. It's just that it takes a little more time to clean them. But of course, there is high percentage of houses with Teppichboden. It just depends on the preferences of the owner.

  • @mpmyprojects6687
    @mpmyprojects6687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    4:00 To get a little of that feeling here, maybe you want to try the north western part of Germany. Right next to the dutch border you'll find Ostfriesland (Eastern Frisia) and when driving on the Autobahn 28 and 31 you'll get a sensation of flat lands. As for cities Leer is quite nice, Greetsiel is a tourist must. For more flatland feelings visit the "Bohrinsel" near Ditzum. Great view on the Dollart from a old, now unused plattform. On the way back plan a stop in Oldenburg, a nice little city with lots of young people and a nice Fußgängerzone. Stay healthy and have a great time!

  • @melly7210
    @melly7210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    there are certainly also houses or apartments with carpets. That changed after the laminate hit the market. Because it's easier to clean. A lot of dirt gets stuck in the carpet. That will be the reason why many no longer have carpets. I only have carpet in the bedroom.

  • @LaureninGermany
    @LaureninGermany 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I originally come from Britain and I also missed the way we greeted people there when I came to Germany. People thought I was strange for offering hugs, „too soon“ I think, and I think they were mistrustful of my intentions (lol that sounds odd- but was and is still painful, tbh).
    Carpet- I miss the feeling of walking on soft carpets, but really appreciate the cleanliness of washable flooring, especially in hotels! Be careful in Germany, barefoot on hard floors can lead to pain. Talking from experience. Hugs from Bavaria (if I may hug, of course 🤗🤗🤗)

    • @Kurikost_
      @Kurikost_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i always thought, hugs are a southern european thing..and no hugs is a central european or more a northern european thing

    • @LaureninGermany
      @LaureninGermany 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Kurikost_ I don’t know about that. I am Welsh, which is already different to how English people tend to behave. And male friends hugging each other in Germany was a massive surprise for me! That was unusual in GB.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s really fun to hear about what your “normal” was for hugging!! Hugs back to you!! 😊 Thanks for your comment.

    • @leDespicable
      @leDespicable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Germans generally only hug close friends, hugging your average acquaintance is kinda weir lol

  • @thecaptain2000
    @thecaptain2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In relation to Carpets, maybe you haven't noticed, but house carpets, in Europe known as "Moquette" are cheaper than a tiles or marmor floor but, at least in Europe, are considered of showing a lesser standing. When you build a house in Europe they will ask what sort of floor you want and you can go for moquette if you with, your house will have a lesser value however, as it had a lesser cost to be built.

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, we had carpet long time but over the years it got less and less for the reasons mentioned. Now I still prefer carpet in children's room, especially for the small ones and in the bedroom but sure also has something to do with floor heating becoming a thing.

  • @JohnDoe-us5rq
    @JohnDoe-us5rq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We used to have carpet in each and every room, when I was a child. I replaced that with hardboard, when I grew older. I think, it is a change in general taste of style. The 90s practically demanded hardboard floors. Most probably since it got way cheaper to install things like that. Before that time it was either carpet or plain concrete. I know my grandparents used to have plain concrete in their flat until the late 60s.
    And a major factor is the ease of cleaning. The carpet in my room had so many stains. Spilled coke from p'n'p sessions and even an old burn mark from when my gand parents lived in that room. 😃

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      All of those things make sense to us!! 😊 Carpet really is much cleaner!

  • @JuliusDiCaprio4471
    @JuliusDiCaprio4471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh man it’s so nice to have you back in old good Germany 🙌🤙🏽 And no carpet in my house I have a hard floor, it’s much easier to clean 🧼 love you

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We definitely feel that with our house now!

    • @falkhermann1061
      @falkhermann1061 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      When they honk
      at you you are simply too slow

  • @Sterndli98
    @Sterndli98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The carpet thing changed here in switzerland about 20 years ago. Before everything was carpet. I‘m glad thats changed because of allergies. But the reason I think is really ease of cleaning, looking more modern and durability.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Makes complete sense! Love seeing you’re from Switzerland. Gosh we love your country so much! Thanks for commenting😊

  • @Alputherock
    @Alputherock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i teared out all carpet , because it gets dirty super quickly , especially with children .. they painted on it with pens , spill everything on it , one of them puke on it when he was sick ... the carpet will never turn new after cleaning, we also put wood floors inside , i am happy .

  • @glamorinepatrick9167
    @glamorinepatrick9167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi guys👋👋
    It's definitely also a big South African thing!!!! Being a hugger♥️♥️
    Im enjoying your videos 🤗

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ahh love seeing your comment from SOUTH AFRICA! That makes us so happy to know someone like you interested in our videos. Thank you 💛 & Hugs!

  • @sebastianist40
    @sebastianist40 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We used to have carpet in the 80ies. Often now people have hardwood floors or orher nonncarpet options. First - wood is much nicer, second carpets are really not hygenic. But a big trend for area rugs comes with it :)

  • @thestonegateroadrunner7305
    @thestonegateroadrunner7305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Utah is a Desert. In Utah the air is so dry, hence you can see incredibly far. In contrast in Europe the air is humid, especially in summer, limiting visibility to sometimes less than 10 kilometers only.
    Carpets actually are a thing in Germany. Many people have them, often as completely carpeted floors not just rugs. Just not in hallways, kitchens and bathrooms.

  • @89five3five
    @89five3five 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The driving thing is what I notice the most when coming back to the US

  • @scanalive
    @scanalive 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Welcome back in germany!

  • @klopferator
    @klopferator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I still have carpet in every bedroom, the corridor and in the living room. It just feels better for me, it's less echo-y and surprisingly it's better for people with allergies because carpet tends to capture the particles unlike hardwood floor. When I read that people here say that "most people dislike carpets in Germany" it's a bit baffling because where I live most people still have and want carpets.

  • @trueamnisias
    @trueamnisias 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most rooms in our house are carpeted e.g. bedrooms and living room, but bathroom, kitchen and hallways are tiled or wooden floorboards.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe it's more of the newer homes or simply because we live in this part of Bayern? Either way, we are happy to have tile. Easy to clean with a toddler constantly making messes 😂

  • @keithhinke3277
    @keithhinke3277 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our house is fully carpeted, even the bathrooms. It was built by us about 37 years ago.

  • @witty2u
    @witty2u 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the 70s carpet was pretty much common. Except in the kitchen and the hall you'd have it everywhere.

  • @markmuller7962
    @markmuller7962 ปีที่แล้ว

    In my apartment the only room with carpets got scorching hot this summer like a oven... The floor didn't release the heat at night so it stayed hot making it unlivable during the day.
    I think I'd rather get rid of these carpets then adding carpets in other rooms that btw helps so much in summer when you walk around with naked feet on a nice fresh tiles floor

  • @naneneunmalklug4032
    @naneneunmalklug4032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Recycling glass was one of my first hously duties growing up. When I was about 9 yo I would put all the glass in a hand dragged cart, take my little sister with me and we would make our way to the nearest glass container in our community. We were very proud helping out ;)

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such food helpers!! 😊 That’s a fun story to hear. Thanks for sharing!

    • @naneneunmalklug4032
      @naneneunmalklug4032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OurStorytoTell yah, we helped with food too 😉

  • @juttas.537
    @juttas.537 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Before Covid it was common to hug friends and family here.

  • @kanevard
    @kanevard 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    In the UK in the 60s and 70s carpets were aspirational (posh people had carpets) so everyone got carpets but then they realised they wore out unevenly became flat in hi traffic areas just about impossible to clean fully and in general more trouble than they were worth so most went back to hard floors .

  • @JuliusDiCaprio4471
    @JuliusDiCaprio4471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wait…. I need some Popcorn 🍿 I’m so excited 🥰

  • @cynthiadoll-hartmann4903
    @cynthiadoll-hartmann4903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I live in Germany most of my life and I DO LOVE CARPETS in particular Persian carpets ;-). Carpets are sort of outdated here due to the upcoming of the fake wooden floors (melamin resin coated photo film placed on spruce timber i.e. which can be more easily built in than an original wooden floor) about 2-3 decades ago. For sure there are pros and cons in regard to ecological issues not to be discussed here ;-).
    Have you been to the "Hotel Vier Jahreszeiten" in Hamburg, this is just around the corner where you had a walk with your daughter on the Jungfernstieg at the Binnenalster. There you can have a particular carpet experience and a cup of English tea, very interesting experience by the way and I loved it ;-)

  • @SuperLittleTyke
    @SuperLittleTyke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    It was so good to see you both looking fit and well after your Covid ordeal in the US. Perhaps in your next video you could briefly say whether you have all recovered fully, because many people in Britain are suffering from long Covid. On your specific points of culture differences, when I lived in Germany I participated in Scottish Country Dancing and our teacher had spent a number of years in America. She said that the standard of driving in America is atrocious compared to Germany. As for recycling, America is such a huge country that people probably don't think it's worth bothering with recycling, because there are vast uninhabited parts where yet another landfill can be constructed. We used to think like this in Britain as well, but in the past 20 years we have taken the hint from Germany and the Netherlands. Our recycling is still not as efficient as in Germany, but at least the government is talking about introducing deposit and return for plastic bottles. There are even some bottle deposit schemes running, but they are still at the pilot stage. The official word from the government is there won't be nationwide return schemes like in Germany until 2024. But at least we have bottle banks everywhere for glass, mainly wine, bottles - because we British do consume a lot of alcohol.

  • @M4tti87
    @M4tti87 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting that you mention the carpet floor :D The paretn sof my ex gf in South Carolina they had a white carpet floor all over the place. IN the apartment Iam living in in Bayreuth its all wood. In my parents house in Hannover its marbel in the first story on the right and the other rooms are cork on that level the second story has wooden floors and the third is al carpet. The basement has carpet in the main hall and the sauna room and so have tiles. I like carpet, but its also hard to kep clean especially with pets :D

  • @mrk131324
    @mrk131324 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well, about the hugging. It‘s the same with Du/Sie or with the meaning of Friend/Freund. If you do it with everybody it is meaningless. If you discriminate, if it is something that has to earned or established first, it has so much more worth to your relationships with people.

  • @hans-dieternichau5467
    @hans-dieternichau5467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Willkommen zurück ,ich Wünsche euch eine schöne Adventszeit ,bleibt Gesund irgendwann wird Corona auch vorbei sein ,dann wird alles wieder normal sein ! Liebe Grüße

  • @andreasklisch3695
    @andreasklisch3695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In Germany, during the 70s, 80s and perhaps also the 90s, carpeted floors had been popular in Germany. Many (although not all) homes had it. But from the mid 90s onwards, carpet floors came out of fashion. Many people began to feel the drawbacks. Carpets are sensitive, you have high effort to keep it clean. Especially with toddlers and pets within the household. And especially for people with allergy (asthma a.s.o.) it is a problem because carpets are all more or less populated with mites. You can never really get rid of all. And renewing the carpets after maybe 5-10 years also costs a fee. So, carpet floors got out of fashion. In Germany, people adapted the Scandinavian habit of having wooden timber piled floors, or they have the expensive parquet, or very often they have laminate.

  • @julek4211
    @julek4211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do have only one carpet (that will come out soon) and the other 7 rooms have pvc for because it's a lot easier to clean and with allergies it's also better without carpet.

  • @momingermany1084
    @momingermany1084 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our home in Germany has all tile and hard wood too. My feet hurt so bad for a couple of weeks getting use to it!

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It definitely takes a while, but we do enjoy them more now!

  • @lestatlegistat6553
    @lestatlegistat6553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    in the 80s - 90s we did have carpet, but at the end of 90s we replaced carpet by parquet instead.

  • @heliosphere9789
    @heliosphere9789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi! Middle aged German here. About carpeting: When I was a child (70s/80s) it was pretty common to have carpeting throughout your house. Also today I know some few people who still have it (only in the living room/bed room and living area, not in kitchens or bathrooms). But it has gone out of fashion (and it is not so easy to clean, as tiles or wooden floors). The typical floor nowadays would be wooden floors or woodish looking floors or tiles (I personally dislike tiles).

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That makes sense! Our floors are tiled or hard wood floor and we do love them! (After the first week or two getting used to it) 😊

  • @dieteroffermann3880
    @dieteroffermann3880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the north part of Germany (Ostfriesland) it´s so flat there, you can see on wendsday how comes to lunch on sunday! :-) :-)

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s fun to learn from you so thanks for your comment!! Sounds like Utah then! 😊

  • @veronicajensen7690
    @veronicajensen7690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Denmark as in Germany and many other European countries, there was a time where carpet were more common, it went out of fashion.
    Wooden floors or tiles is cleaner and look better, I think that is what a lot of us think. Smaller carpets under the tables where you sit and naked floors in main areas are the most common now.

  • @peter_meyer
    @peter_meyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "i can see so far..." - you can have that in northern Germany. From my balkony in the 7th floor i can see 120km on a good day.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what we are hearing about Northern Germany! Fun to learn. Thanks for your comment! 😊

    • @peter_meyer
      @peter_meyer 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OurStorytoTell Good to "have you back". You may want to try visiting the Harz region, the highest mountain in the north.

  • @vlndfee6481
    @vlndfee6481 ปีที่แล้ว

    Carpet used to be a lot in houses,
    But is now more laminate/ wood.
    Greeting from Netherlands.
    Totally flat... felt weird to be in mountains of Sweden.

  • @stephanteuscher6583
    @stephanteuscher6583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's funny that you missed the German Autobahn. I experienced kind of a reverse thing just a view weeks ago:
    I was on vacation in southern Italy and adapted their way of driving pretty soon as always. It was not the "Autostrada", just the general way they drive. Since I'm back to Germany all the other drivers honk and curse at me all the time. I need to adapt back to German driving, because they can't handle that. And I could lose my license! 😨
    We had carpets everywhere for a very long time. But I think it's gone out of style. Today we have hardwood and tiles.

  • @JakobFischer60
    @JakobFischer60 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Carpeting was a big thing in the 80s here in Germany but recently moste people switched to laminate. That is regarded cleaner than carpet and many people have carpets on their laminate now.

  • @HauptmannMumm
    @HauptmannMumm 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Because we have underfloor heating that's why we don't have carpet in the house, a few nice rugs on the tiles. That's enough

  • @SICKYPOPP
    @SICKYPOPP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have carpet in my flat, I don't like the feeling of the laminant vinyl floors ...and I am a hugger to...😉

  • @kus4098
    @kus4098 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hugs make healthy

  • @lilys4161
    @lilys4161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t know very many houses with carpets for sanitary reasons and aesthetics really but up in northern Germany it’s typical to have heated flooring. So the radiator in the floors so walking around in your socks is normal, too. After having lived in Bavaria for two years I have mainly seen cold tiles though so I get what you mean.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We have heated flooring in our house and it is our favorite thing!! 😊

  • @unabresnan5560
    @unabresnan5560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Baby airplane attachment belt has been a requirement for quick a long time in the EU. The reason being is like driving the car. For the child's safety. When taking off & landing its required & then the kiddie can move around unless there is a reason the air hostess advises off.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  ปีที่แล้ว

      Makes sense! It’s weird the US doesn’t do the same!

  • @Orbitalbomb
    @Orbitalbomb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    carpet is a mixed thing. It used to be much more normal in the 90s. I assume that it’s more common in nothern germany where it’s generally colder. nowadays it’s become normal to leave the floors like they are. Also it’s an allergy driver, so with allergies you are better off without any carpets. we personally have one in the living room making it more cosy I guess. But other than that its just hardwood floors.

  • @user-sm3xq5ob5d
    @user-sm3xq5ob5d 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    As I have learned it the US has carpeted floors. But those are not only a layer of industrially woven carpet. There is a layer of thick foam put under it. That is never done in Germany. Houses used to have board floors as a cover of the wooden floor joists. The more money you had the more handmade rugs were put on them. Hamburg used to be the warehouse (in the Speicherstadt) with the largest stock of oriental rugs in all of Europe.
    Modern buildings with concrete floors have mostly wall to wall carpeting. Just to hide the concrete and make the floor warmer. That came with industrially manufactured carpeting. In the last decades floor heating and also a preference for wooden or tile floors in the living room and bedrooms have become the fashion. The idea is that carpet makes more dust and insects (mites) could hide in there.
    What I always wonder is why Americans enter directly into the living room with just a door to the outside. And then they step on the carpet never taking their shoes off.

  • @ludwigsonline3499
    @ludwigsonline3499 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No carpet at our home (completely vinyl). At my parents the are tiles and in the bedroom there is carpet. I think it is mainly for cleaning reasons. When you come out of the wet and dirty muddy ground, you ruin your carpet on the longterm.
    By the way, I am also a hugging person, my wife is not!

  • @robertbauer6468
    @robertbauer6468 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think there are less carpets in germany, because underflour heating becomes very popular. Carpets would prevent effective heating.

  • @jonasfermefors
    @jonasfermefors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Recycling is an argument for centralized government programs. Many European countries have mandated recycling for a long time on a national level which is something I don't see happening in America and without that it will never be as efficient and comprehensive.

  • @BillboardBuccaneers
    @BillboardBuccaneers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you like hugs you have to come to the Rheinland. People here are often much more comfortable with hugs and less reserved than in other parts of germany.

  • @Kikifriedmann
    @Kikifriedmann 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was living in California for 4 Years in the 90tes. I would love to go back there sometimes. I had the best time in my life. Of course, in every country in the world there are good and bad sides. You are really so lovely humans and very open minded!! Let me know when you come back to Hamburg, I show you around. Summer ist the best time, because everything is green and beautiful. Liebe Grüße Katrin;-)))

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so kind!! Thank you so much ❤️❤️ Happy to hear you had a great experience in CA! It is a beautiful state!

  • @wisteria3032
    @wisteria3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I couldn't understand when you said carpet if you mean having a carpeted house (as in every single corner of the floor is carpeted - hopefully except for the kitchen and bathroom) or having a house with carpets (meaning for example that in the living room you can see the floor but the area between the armchair and the loveseat has a carpet).
    The first is really uncommon (I'm Italian btw) although there are some homes like that, because once it gets dirty it becomes really difficult to clean - please keep in mind that culturally we don't take our shoes off at home (we started doing that very recently - about 20/30 years ago. I can remember only starting to take my shoes off at home when I was 10 and we bought a house with a hardwood floor. The house we had before had a stone floor. My dad still keeps his shoes on all the time. guests keep their shoes on usually
    too). The second option is more common because it's easier to take care of but you need some money since no carpet is a bit worse than a clean carpet but a dirty carpet is a lot worse than no carpet, so lots of people don't even bother, especially if they have pets.
    About the lap babies... that's dangerous. I mean not dangerous per se but dangerous for the baby in case of an accident. The lap babies are the ones with the lower probability of surviving because at that speed of the airplane comes to a stop too quickly the baby gets torn away from the arms of whoever is holding on to him. America had enough accidents where only lap babies died that it's just criminal for them to still allow them.
    Incidentally it is your right to ask for a harness for the baby - just like in a car - but since the Airline will look at you as if you're a monster and the price is quite high (you have to book a seat for the baby and the harness itself costs an arm and a leg) even those who know about this possibility often decide not to use it. And the Airlines never ever suggest it.
    Of course the number of accidents nowadays is really low but that's why we call them accidents.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great comment! Thanks for writing! Yes we meant any amount of carpet. Our German home has zero.

    • @wisteria3032
      @wisteria3032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OurStorytoTell depending on the floor quality you might actually want to show the floor. People will probably freak out if you carpet the whole house but if you buy a carpet for the living room or the bedroom they will at most comment on how beautiful/ugly the carpet is - if they notice at all.

  • @VersedNJ
    @VersedNJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In NJ, except for legacy, most people have gone to hardwood or laminate. Recycling is done here.

  • @d34d10ck
    @d34d10ck 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Say Hi to the neighbors"
    Now you know what the seatbelt is for. ;)

  • @tommysellering4224
    @tommysellering4224 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In the 70s everyone had wall to wall carpets in Europe as well, but it was extremely unhygienic. The were producing allergies and simply collecting dirt (even when everyone remove their shoes at the entrance). That's why everyone ripped them out in the 90s at the latest. Today you see that kind of carpets only in cheap hotels in the UK.

    • @MrNicopa
      @MrNicopa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah and dodgy pubs where the carpets stick to the soles of your shoes.

  • @davew8357
    @davew8357 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Carpet topic: beside other reasons, the German houses are trying to save energy more and more. Due to that the floor heating system has become the system you are using when you build a home. But this system does not work very well with an carpet.

    • @OurStorytoTell
      @OurStorytoTell  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh we can definitely see that! We love our floor heaters!! They’re the best!