LUXURY SHOPPING IN 2024 | NEW MINDSET | BEARING TRUTH | VLOGMAS 022

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  • @jacqulynsmither8770
    @jacqulynsmither8770 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    I found you by accident, but after a few minutes you grab my attention. I am very selective who I follow. Your honesty and sense of humor is your strength. There are a lot of influencers now, but they are not all high quality. I currently follow very few but the ones I follow bring more to my life than clothes and makeup. You will grow very fast because once people are introduced to you they will stay. You always put a smile on my face 💗

    • @seekingenlightenment2026
      @seekingenlightenment2026 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @jacquIynsmither87 14:25 70 I agree with you 💯!! Carolyn, I love following you because you approach fashion, style, and shopping with such thoughtfulness. You have so much rhyme and reason to what you do. You are also very systematic and a very conscious consumer. To me that’s so important. I don’t typically experience much guilt in taking care of myself and I really appreciate that you do what you enjoy with so much consideration of who you are and making it all so meaningful!!! I relate to you so much (a fellow Virgo)! You’re my number one favorite influencer. I wish you so much success. You maintain your uniqueness so well in this space and I’m really happy to be a part of your community!!! This year, I plan to follow in your footsteps to add only investment and statement pieces to my wardrobe. Also, I want to do outfit planning weekly so that I can use more of my well-curated items. You have had a great impact on me!! Thank you for doing this entertaining and valuable work. ❤
      Stephanie

    • @sophiagary683
      @sophiagary683 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same for me toooo!!! I love her!!😂❤❤

  • @0967char
    @0967char 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    This is why you’re that girl, you are so real because the way some of “the gworls” shop they make it look like there’s an endless supply of money out there somewhere. No shade, no tea ‘cuz everybody’s gettin’ it how they livin’ but honestly watching the endless acquisition of ALL the super expensive stuff becomes uninteresting. thanks for showing us glimpses of who you really are as a person who has some of the same challenges as the rest of us who enjoy living vicariously through you. Vlogmas was so much fun and you are so hilarious and I also love that you are not afraid to gather the trolls. 👍🏽

  • @csmtcqueen
    @csmtcqueen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Yes, let us all promise to embrace our body in a positive way, even if there are things we are working on.

  • @sylviawhite6250
    @sylviawhite6250 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I so appreciated your commentary today. I am a relatively new cookie (been watching you since NYFW) and I follow you closely because you are real and forthcoming, and I feel that you are on the path to greatness in this space. I am happy to have witnessed your moment of realizing what you are capable of when you trust the process, shut out the noise and stay consistent to working for your goals. This December Vlogmas has gifted you with the ultimate "ah ha" moment. Kudos Carolyn...Kudos!

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Indeeeed 🥰🥰🥰💚💚💚 thank you for watching and for your kind words 🍪🍪🍪

  • @sensto
    @sensto 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Great job on Vlogmas! 👏👏👏 It was chaotic, creative and totally Carolyn. I also appreciate your vulnerability regarding weight and shopping habits, as I can relate strongly to both. Self-love and introspection is an ever-evolving and nuanced process, so be gentle to yourself as you navigate it.

  • @christiebryant5330
    @christiebryant5330 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm going to adopt your not-buying items right away. I will take a step back and reset my mind and soul. I have been shopping too much, too. Thank you for being brave enough to discuss your eating challenge. I am glad you are striving to move past it. You are helping me so much. Thank ypu❤

  • @annealessandri8066
    @annealessandri8066 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You showed up in my recommendations several months ago and I followed you right away. I love people who make me laugh. You’re such a natural and very knowledgeable regarding fashion. You bring a lot more to the table besides fashion. I agree about not using BNPL services. I got caught up in that big time this year and I vowed to not do that anymore. Thanks for your transparency 🌺.

    • @lboogie2679
      @lboogie2679 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally agree! Carolyn is my fave!

  • @styled4me31
    @styled4me31 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Carolyn, your humor, honesty, and transparency are truly refreshing. Don't allow the negative thoughts and opinions of others to disturb your peace. If it doesn't bring you joy, block it out. To thine own self be true!

  • @lisawells6669
    @lisawells6669 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The honesty/vulnerability is so reassuring for the everyday glamnista. Thanks

  • @CNJL1
    @CNJL1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish you best on your new mindset. No more sales for me. Also I can do away with "fear of missing out". Like there are so many beautiful things in the world. I don't have to have that particular thing and I do own beautiful things already. I like planning outfits ahead of time because it's fun to make outfits. I used to love lookbooks on TH-cam but most people do hauls now. Even the lookbook is basically a haul.

  • @flyrealhigh09
    @flyrealhigh09 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Carolyn, you did your thing with Vlogmas! Your personality is such a delight and you keep things luxe, yet relatable.
    As a fashion girlie building my IG account, I feel pressure too, to buy the new arrivals and such. Next year, I want to be more thoughtful in my purchases.

  • @shontemartinez7826
    @shontemartinez7826 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Congratulations and your Vlogmas were a delight. You dropped some gems, fashion and lots of laughs and the cookie community looks forward to seeing CG for 2024. You rock!

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you my dear 💚🍪💚

  • @stunninglymoii
    @stunninglymoii 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love you Carolyn. 🥂Cheers🥂 to an abundance of opportunities that tailored for you and your brand in 2024

  • @Lifewithnomhle
    @Lifewithnomhle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love and appreciate this video so much ❤ would love to see more as everything is so relatable. ❤

  • @mallorylyday5831
    @mallorylyday5831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    CG I wasn't going to say anything because one of your cookies came after me.
    But I decided to share a story with you when I was a teenager I got into trouble my Dad said I'm not raising you to be a tail, he said" use your head" I've never forgot that. have I been a tail yes but I get it now...
    There's a tuber " name Bjonesstyle " she is by far the best at it because no one else has her style.
    Some people I don't watch anymore because it's a infomercial. You give substance and not just buy.
    You're special and watching you grow in this space has been fun
    Blessings to you

  • @inspiredbybeauti7997
    @inspiredbybeauti7997 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video Carolyn! I plan to be very intentional about my spending in 2024. In fact, I've already begun during this holiday season. No spending on unnecessary items just because they're on sale. Glad I found your channel this year and I thoroughly enjoy your style, authenticity and humor. I wish you and Carlos a holiday season filled with love, peace and joy! All the best to you and yours in 2024!!!

  • @kiaholtwilliams6216
    @kiaholtwilliams6216 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “I want it to mean more” is such a word! Thank you!

  • @JaciraDeMatos
    @JaciraDeMatos 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The planning outfits ahead is something I’ll be integrating this in my life 🙌🏾
    Heavy on spending less in the coming year, because I went bag crazy this year 😭

    • @yayablake8963
      @yayablake8963 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @JaciraDeMatos Girl, the bags 👜took over this year! I don't need another purse, wallet, fanny pack, nothing 😂😂😂 Happy New Year to You🎉

  • @nea415
    @nea415 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Your dedication and consistency has been appreciated 🙌🏾💕 I’ve seen Klarna on my credit report. Like what are you doing on there? 😂 I realized that I don’t need to buy another article of clothing or shoe! Especially since I just moved, all I need is home decor and furniture. When you’re packing to move from one house to another you realize how much you don’t need to buy anything else in your life 😂

    • @shev3831
      @shev3831 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Klarna on your credit report?! Is that even allowed?

    • @nea415
      @nea415 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shev3831 Chile idk. I never gave my SSN so I’m assuming they use your address for something. That’s why I only trust AfterPay but like Carolyn said, I’m about to stop using all of them cause I personally don’t need nothing else. Lol

  • @SLSanders1
    @SLSanders1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m so glad I subscribed to your channel this year!! I truly enjoy you and I’m proud of you for pushing yourself and finishing strong. A LOT of things you said in this video is confirmation of what I’ve been thinking and feeling. Carolyn, never be ashamed of the beauty God gave you!! So many people are struggling to look like you, seriously. Embrace your petite body. It’s beautiful!!! Thank you for being your authentic self. Oh and I see you still have that Smokey purple eye😜you did good!!

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🥰🥰 thank you so much my dear !! And yes k you for supporting my channel this year 🥹
      👀 i like that lil Smokey eye look, I’m going to try a lot more in 2024 🥳🥳🥳 happy holidays 💚💚

  • @pricellaspalette
    @pricellaspalette 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Your channel has been one of my favorites all year. Thank you for prioritizing substance and just being you. You and a couple others have inspired me to be consistent on my own TH-cam channel and to shop with more intention. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to you and yours

  • @lesleegrubbs-king5748
    @lesleegrubbs-king5748 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I found you looking for someone that seemed real and authentic. Vlogmas has been awesome. I looked forward to your style and advice everyday. I think im going to take one of your ideas and stop buying from zara, nordstrom on a whim and really plan my purchases. Thank you for vlogmas. I appreciate your advice and your openess. Cookie for life.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @perun8608
    @perun8608 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Girl, it's just a pleasure to watch you. You are not an actor, but live your life and many can identify themselves with many things. You are a good person and your videos are joy and relaxation but also encourage you to think. I also have on the list:
    - nothing is bought that has to be paid off
    - Focus is on quality (in all areas of life) and not quantity
    I wish you a wonderful Christmas and a successful and healthy New Year 🍷🍀🙋🏻‍♀️

  • @theselfishjourney
    @theselfishjourney 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You did so well for vlogmas Carolyn! I enjoy your content. I can overdo a bit with buying things for myself. I did the most this year and haven’t worn anything I bought. So next year I’m wearing and saving!

  • @natty5025
    @natty5025 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You’re so dope! Love your energy and vibe. Happy holidays and thanks for doing vlogmas, I truly enjoyed “spending” time with you, such great content.❤❤

  • @user-zl8wh2co6f
    @user-zl8wh2co6f 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Queen Cookie, first, Merry Christmas to you and Carlos. Second, you have done a great job. Greater things are coming your way. Always remember if you continue to do your part, God is going to do His part.

  • @nicolesmcneil
    @nicolesmcneil 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for thinking of us as your healthy village. And I appreciate you sharing your feelings and opening up about your personal struggles. That's not easy.

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👀 not going to lie, i was contemplating scratching this video because i thought i shared too much and may scare off a few ppl 😂😂but then i thought this is tribe is a safe space for me and someone may be relate and feel freed in thought if i said it out loud. 💚💚 thank you for confirming me and watching 🍪🍪

  • @kathleenharris8824
    @kathleenharris8824 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations Carolyn!!! You did it!🎉 We love you. You have some great goals for 2024. I want to spend less too. Makeup is still fresh and glam!

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🥰🥰🥰 thank youuuu. This was a pleasure to do this month and i can’t wait to upload a new video!!! And i fancy this makeup too👀 look at me stepping out the box a bit 😂😂

  • @dawncoe1293
    @dawncoe1293 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve enjoyed your vlogmas so thoroughly! You’re adorable, funny as hell, and so charming! I’m so glad I found my way here. Blessings to you from a crazy Gigi (grandma) from Brooklyn! Hell yes to no more body shaming. I’m adopting that mindset.

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much my Gigi from BK!! 😂🥰🥰🥹🥹🍪🍪

  • @misssinister7936
    @misssinister7936 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Try to remember everything we buy , we leave behind eventually..so really everything is temporary

  • @Tanni_stylez
    @Tanni_stylez 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I enjoyed this video .. I watched it 3 times because I can relate with everything you said . I plan on doing a no buy every other month and want to also invest in solid gold accessories and a nice bag for my lifestyle that I can wear to work and out about town. Wishing you a blessed Christmas and NYs ..look forward to your 2024 content ! Cheers 🎉

  • @nicolegari
    @nicolegari 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Commiting to yourself…consistantly showing up for yourself…Is my ONLY GOAL. Take your bow Boo🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @Lifestyle_ofTB
    @Lifestyle_ofTB 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Girl PREACH! I love this! Let me tell you, I too struggle with accepting my slim build at times, I’m 48 and still feel self conscious too but just like you I am learning to be happy and confident in my body! Totally agree with you about the purchases! Being very intentional next year and keeping in mind the economic impact that the luxury market has had on consumers. Happy Holidays!,,😊

  • @RamonaAlgarin-27
    @RamonaAlgarin-27 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Enjoyed this month very much. Thank you for taking us along. Super proud.

  • @ninawestlake5005
    @ninawestlake5005 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video, Carolyn. I've done a horrendeous amount of spending in my 20's and i am never going back there. Had i known, what i know now, i'd be rich. I do not buy items unless i can afford it s couple of times over, just like you said. I do not go crazy for items just because its on sale, only buying quality timeless pieces. I do not follow the Jones's, cause i am just not that type naturally. Even when grocery shopping, i don't buy what's not necessary. I am really into saving money, i'm learning how to invest and i'm really excited for 2024. I feel it's the year that will mark the beginning of my best life ever. Thanks for sharing, sweety. Happy holidays🎉💜ps...i think your body looks great.

  • @sherr275
    @sherr275 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish I could like this video 50x. Your openness and honesty is SO refreshing, thank you. I found you in September and you've easily risen right to the top of the list of my favorite content creators. You're so fun & REAL, it's a pleasure to watch. I'm so happy you're coming into loving your body & celebrating it in 2024. It's so important (especially as Black women) that we do. Also, thank you for being so real about how you'll be spending (or not) in the new year. I think this coming year is going to be a wake up call for us all and we'll need to really hold it down to secure ourselves as we move along. I agree with everything you laid out and have had to have some HARD talks with myself this quarter about WTF I've been doing with my money. Truth hurts but it's time to get there. I can't wait to see what you bring in the new year. I know Vlogmas took a lot out of you but, please don't stay away too long in 2024, your energy is appreciated. Happy Holidays! 💜
    P.S., the make up was POPPIN! LOL

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🥰🥰🥰 thank you so much!! I’m so glad this video resonated and that we’re slowing down to think about how we spend / treat ourselves/ and grow. I have alot of ideas for the next year and I feel very excited to see how it pans out. I’m about to be on my spike Lee on TH-cam type of vibes 😂😂 I’m so ready ! Thank you for your support this year.

    • @sherr275
      @sherr275 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY yes! We're here for it! 🙌🏾

  • @jeneenaylor
    @jeneenaylor 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SO PROUD OF YOU COOKIE!!!! 2024 is your year😘😘😘

  • @donasfabulousfindshome6535
    @donasfabulousfindshome6535 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for being transparent and real its appreciated! And im with you about Klarna etc. Its to much if i cant just buy something outright i dont need it it's not for me! "LETS GET HER TO A 100K, PERIOD!!!!!!! ❤

  • @tashaorlatasha
    @tashaorlatasha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Happy holidays you and Carlos! I haven't been watching you for that long, but I have truly enjoyed your content. You have contagious energy and personality and I want to thank you for that. Watching vlogmas has truly been pick me up and inspiration in the mornings.

  • @beyouthfullyyou
    @beyouthfullyyou 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Carolyn...I just love you, love you, love you. Girl when I tell you body shaming works both ways and I would love to be a part of that conversation. But I truly feel you. I spoke a few years ago about how a women you need to watch how you talk to yourself. It's everything! Thank you for doing and saying all the things❤

  • @tanyap.1585
    @tanyap.1585 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos and personality. You’re so open and honest. I love that you don’t just do all fashion and high end fashion videos which makes you so much more relatable. As far as your body, don’t be ashamed of anything. When I was overweight ppl talked about my weight gain then when I lost the weight, for health purposes, people said I’m too skinny. You can’t win so I said F YOU ALL and leave me alone! I’m happy with how I look at that’s all that matters!! Anyway…I look forward to 2024 and seeing what you have in store for us 🎉

  • @kathymartin7912
    @kathymartin7912 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I enjoyed your vlogmas so much and I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability today. So well said -encouraging and words to live by. I
    Hope you and your family have a Merry Christmas ❤

  • @FashionFoodieBUM
    @FashionFoodieBUM 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love this journey with you !! Proud Cookie here we going up in 2024 🫶🏾😘😘🥰

  • @bh1251
    @bh1251 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are simply a pleasure, a delight! Lord blessed you with an amazing captivating and engaging personality and great style w substance. Its the funny for me. I found myself looking for your post and that not me.But I wanted to support you. Its a testament to how God made you in His Image. Thank you for your vulnerability. I am so happy for you and proud of you. You should be proud of yourself for this achievement. It was no easy feat but God has you covered. Please stick with Him and He is going to blow your mind with how far He will take you. Be well and looking forward to whats up in 2024 for us all. Smooches!

  • @l.p.5476
    @l.p.5476 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey, I discovered you after watching Simply Shannah, and she mentioned your name. Anywho, I'm new to your channel, but I enjoy your content, even if you're just talking about things going on in your world. I'm a student of fashion and art and anything creative and to me, you seem to possess that love of creative expression. I love that you went to FIT and have worked in the industry, so you know the game. Also while searching your past videos, I saw some stand-up that you did! It was good! Explains why you always have me cracking up! Well, I can get long-winded, but I really just want to say, I'm a fan and just keep doing you! See you soon...or later. 😁🍪💕

  • @stephanieboyd9472
    @stephanieboyd9472 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So….you obviously don’t know me but I feel like I know you. That’s largely because you opened yourself to your subscribers in such an authentic way!!! You didn’t try to be someone that you’re not ( which is often done), you are “hella-funny”, and your energy is so sweet and easy!!!! In my head, you’re the little sister that I’ve always wanted. It is my prayer that God continues to “use you” for His glory and that He will bless you greatly. You are a gem babygirl and don’t you EVER forget it. I’ll continue to watch you and applaud you from afar. You are a beautiful spirit I am so excited to see just how God will bless you and ELEVATE you!!! Signed, The Big sister in Philly that you never knew that you had…….. Stephanie. Love you to pieces Girl… keep on shining!!!!!

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ohhhhh Stephanie!! Praying over me and blessing me 🥹🥹 DONT MAKE ME CRY!!! Thank you so much for confirming me and sharing light with me 🥹🥹 i love you too! I love me some Philly Girlies!! 💚💚🥰🥰 happy holidays sis and I will keep working hard to meet God half way
      Thank you for your love and support.

  • @bmapso
    @bmapso 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So thankful that I am a cookie! I came across you when you were doing the video on thrifting, and I was hooked. Love your wit, your authenticity and your New York attitude (out in dem streets ha-ha). We are all going through the same thing, whether it's part of our bodies or the whole body. However, the Cookie community is nice place be we affirmed and affirm each other. Yes, I am cutting off extra stuff for 2024, only absolute necessity. Continue trusting God and meeting him half and he will take you the whole way! Blessings for 2024!

  • @tamarajackson7508
    @tamarajackson7508 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m so glad I found your channel. I look forward to seeing you grow in 2024…..all the best!

  • @DebGakpo1
    @DebGakpo1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was an absolute joy to watch Carolyn. Proud cookie over here! 🍪 We love and appreciate all your hard work and how vulnerable you are with us 🤎

  • @alfredlee728
    @alfredlee728 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have done a stellar job!! You kept your commitment to yourself! I am so proud of you. In a addition your content is excellent and I love when you go full in and talk fashion. You can hang with any of "em". I can't speak for him but I am an elder too......I think Leon Andre Talley would be right proud of you! Honey keep shinning!!! Mrs. C. Lee ( and you silly in a sweet and funny way)

  • @bsing101
    @bsing101 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Carolyn, I met you thru a video that Kelly did with you & so enjoyed your personality. Had to subscribe my Sista'. I'm one of your new Aunties without rich in front 😁. I can already tell that your numbers will grow rapidly cause' you're knowledgeable, funny and real. Looking forward to witnessing your bright future at whatever the pace & His plan. Merry Christmas💖👏🏿✨

  • @Styleheiress
    @Styleheiress 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Carolyn for bearing your truth. I thought I had lost my desire to shop after purging my wardrobe, by watching this i realize my desire is to become more of a conscious consumer. To put thought into the items i purchase before actually purchasing them. (BTW I stopped all after pay too. lol. The girls are on to something)☺

  • @salomeha4804
    @salomeha4804 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video! Loved your vlogmas series! I like the planning outfits ahead. I'm not sure if you know, there's a browser Karma (also an app) where you can save items and will get notified when they go on sale. And most things go on sale within a month because of fast fashion in general - the competition and inventory is too much. No spend months can be supplemented with thrift months to balance with luxury spending.

  • @joyclarke335
    @joyclarke335 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, I'm in the middle of purging a bunch of items I purchased this year. I can relate to everything you said in this video. I've always prided myself on purchasing items made of quality materials on sale. I purposely avoided luxury because I felt it wasn't worth the price. This was a hard year for me, and I discovered luxury influencers on TH-cam, which was a recipe for disaster. I've always been a FOMO shopper, a feeling down shopper, a feeling stressed shopper, but I added luxury goods to those habits this year which was a recipe for disaster. I'm sitting here with regret, making a list of items I am going to sell, at a loss, of course. Thank you for this video. I'm not saying goodbye to luxury, but I'm taking your advice. I will only purchase items I can afford to buy six times over and will put a lot more thought into my purchases. I will also add to my list only purchasing items I love and not just like. There's too much out there that I like. Thank you for your honesty and your realness. I needed this video. Happy holidays and have a blessed New Year.

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥹🥹🥹 happy holidays to you too much dear. And don’t be too hard on yourself. This year was crappy for a lot of us and we had so much to learn or endure. Now we know what to do, purging and restarting is a great start and make a no buy list for yourself using photos and put in an area on your phone where you can find it quick in case you’re about to make a purchase you may end up regretting. We are also going to grow new habits on this channel. Ones that done cost so much 😂 or make us regret 🥴

  • @meganrobinson1707
    @meganrobinson1707 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for that. You’re definitely thinking like I’m thinking lately. Fill the void in the closet, and not in myself. ❤

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👀 yeaaaaa we have to take it easy 😩

  • @nicosialifestyled505
    @nicosialifestyled505 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Carolyn, you are beautiful! Your style is impeccable and your body is fabulous! You have such a genuine personality that is easy to connect with. So glad you are here ❤ much love to you and Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays 🥳🎁

  • @caroline9565
    @caroline9565 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Me too I want a camel coat. Love your channel!!

  • @briaunalasean4204
    @briaunalasean4204 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm from NY, I’ve been moving around for the past 6 years. I used to get food poisoning at LEAST once a month when I was living in NY! I was always getting sick! Past 6 years I lived in TX and now WA State and not once did I get sick and we are trying new places all the time! So it's not you NY restaurants are scary! I love trying new places. I would try to keep track of what could have made me sick and after a while, I just gave up eating out.

  • @TyMama26
    @TyMama26 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Girl you did the damn thing! Thanks for pushing and finishing strong 💪🏾 I will need you to keep vlogging you my favorite cookie 😊

  • @ChikaAniagba
    @ChikaAniagba 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I found you on TT awhile back and I do not regret following you. I love how you dress and speak about fashion. I aspire to be more thorough with how I view my closet. This Vlogmas has been so great and I’m looking forward to the 2024 vids!

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🥰🥰🥰 thank you so much for tuning in 🍪🍪 I’m excited for 2024 as well, because it means the connection with this family will grow deeper 💚💚 happy holidays to you and yours.

  • @EverythingQueen
    @EverythingQueen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We're SO proud of you!!!

  • @MaryDavisBrown
    @MaryDavisBrown 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Carolyn you are a GEM!!!

  • @chocolatchaud3011
    @chocolatchaud3011 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This has been my fav vlogmas.

  • @everythingeva4761
    @everythingeva4761 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely one of the best vlogmas series I’ve watched in years. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @deborahmichel6447
    @deborahmichel6447 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg you look amazing in the catsuit!! The way you styled it with that long suit jacket, the jewelry, the make up! You look amazing 🥰🥰❤️

  • @AlishaDixonTV
    @AlishaDixonTV 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chile.... I feel you on the Klarna.

  • @rodneybrown9580
    @rodneybrown9580 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your humor is priceless.

  • @user-hy2fz4lq3s
    @user-hy2fz4lq3s 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So sad vlogmas is over! I’ve really enjoyed watching the vlogs! I’m changing a lot for 2024 as far as shopping is concerned too! Your honesty in this video was so refreshing! I over spent this year and I will not be doing those apps in 2024! I’ve always been a cash and carry gal and I need to get back to that! Once again I’ll miss the daily vlogs but I look forward to your uploads and catching you in IG. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! You’ve been a delight to watch this holiday season! 😊❤

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for tuning in and supporting this channel. I’m excited for new habits in the next year and seeing them pay off long term. I will be going back to regular schedule (Sunday / Wednesday) definitely by the 8th 👀 but i might upload a lil suttin suttin before that 😂😂 I’m already having separation anxiety from the cookies

  • @user-zj6np3we4j
    @user-zj6np3we4j 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yep! Retail Therapy! Instant feel good!

  • @ReedMeFashion
    @ReedMeFashion 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great job!!! I’ve truly enjoyed these video!!

  • @melinda3196
    @melinda3196 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wishing you a very Merry Xmas! I really enjoyed your Vlogmas episodes and I look forward to your 2024 content ❤❤❤

  • @keitia
    @keitia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was a good one! Appreciate the vulnerability! As an OG “The Move” member, you look great at any size. Keep up the good work! Definitely gonna be mindful of thoughtless purchases.

  • @patricialee1039
    @patricialee1039 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessings upon blessings to you in 2024!

  • @betzaidasanella3409
    @betzaidasanella3409 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are such an adorable inspiration! Merry Christmas!

  • @lulurivers3680
    @lulurivers3680 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Chica, this was an awesome video, so many inspiration ideas/suggestions for me to take into 2024. I so enjoy your videos, wishing you so much success going into the New Year, can’t wait to see what’s coming up! And let me tell you before I end you look absolutely amazing!!!❤️

  • @makeupforallshades
    @makeupforallshades 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thoroughly enjoyed your Vlogmas. Happy Holidays to you and yours! 🎉

  • @HayaTurki83
    @HayaTurki83 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank u for this video! Its really want i needed it hear . U talking about this is like a sign for me thank u ❤

  • @LA-CHARM
    @LA-CHARM 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved your honesty do you have a wonderful Christmas you and your family😊

  • @Wernerwoman1
    @Wernerwoman1 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a fellow slim goody, thank you for speaking out on this topic. I can't wait to watch your future videos surrounding this topic in 2024.

  • @AlishaDixonTV
    @AlishaDixonTV 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! ARFID sounds like something I've dealt with for some years. Thank you for highlighting this.

  • @nicolegari
    @nicolegari 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m am about to binge watch your Vlogmas. U are such a breath of fresh air🍿🥂

  • @tomekaross3820
    @tomekaross3820 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Merry Christmas … I really enjoyed and looked forward to watching your Vlogmas daily.. thank you ❤

  • @tayloriastokes6557
    @tayloriastokes6557 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fantastic year with you! Blessing in the coming year is my prayer for you. 😊

  • @karendriscoll5759
    @karendriscoll5759 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved your Vlogmas! You content is great. Keep going!

  • @deniselopes5191
    @deniselopes5191 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love love this video. You and a couple of other influencers are the only ones I can watch and it feel authentic. I know that I am not in a place where I can purchase luxury items so fast fashion is where its at for me lol but you make complete sense with purchasing investment pieces. I am also tiny like you and definitely relate with how you feel when people comment on my weight especially since Ive been thin my whole life. Keep up the great work beautiful lady!

  • @mikismithlifestyle
    @mikismithlifestyle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations on Vlogmas. Appreciate the sharing today and the insights. You’re doing the dang thing! So proud of you! I’m adopting all the things. Love being a Cookie ❤

  • @margaretfederal7378
    @margaretfederal7378 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Something is definitely amiss, C. I was in NYC last week and all the shops along Madison Avenue, etc, (except for Hermes) were empty. I mean, not a soul was in those shops. The sales staff were leaning against the counters and playing with their phones or staring off into space through the windows. All this on the week before Christmas. Crazy. I think part of it is the economic slowdown worldwide but especially in Europe (where a lot of the high end stuff is made), the other part is that the houses are not producing high quality stuff with amazing creative like they used to (thinking about Chanel here, but they're not the only ones). In Hermes, it was bustling, but to me it looked mostly like looky-loos. Happy New Year!

  • @miacherry3281
    @miacherry3281 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved your honesty and wish you the utmost continued success. You are beautiful
    ...thank you for sharing with us!

  • @chonitamcgee9434
    @chonitamcgee9434 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I felt you when said you weren't doing Klarna anymore. Nothing wrong with those programs, but like you said, I have spent too much by using them. I've been asking God for a better relationship with money in 2024 and I'm starting with Klarna. Thank you for the confirmation that I'm on the right track. Happiest New Year.

  • @divalyngordon9193
    @divalyngordon9193 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Carolyn for being so open and honest about your journey. I bid you nothing but blessings in the new year.

  • @Peinaj
    @Peinaj 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so proud of/happy for you! Well deserved.

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you my love🥹 happy holidays Janie 💚💚

  • @stayfly3000
    @stayfly3000 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Carolyn! You are definitely living in your purpose, anyone can see that! Keep going. I will be very selective when making new purchases in the new year. The piece will have to meet a high standard of fit, style, quality and value to make the cut for me. ❤

  • @soniamills
    @soniamills 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you C! Keep being you and the stars will align the right way for you. Sending love from home home 😊❤🎉

  • @michellewhite6692
    @michellewhite6692 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy and prosperous New Year! We will all be here in 2024 to celebrate your success.

  • @tammylockhart3929
    @tammylockhart3929 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Totally agree with every point you have made, especially your Klarna point of view. Looking forward to viewing more of your videos in 2024. ❤

  • @quichajones5660
    @quichajones5660 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So, I had to pause the video to comment on your browser. They are amazing. ❤ ok, going back to finish the video now...

  • @ramonadavis1597
    @ramonadavis1597 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks so much for your transparency. This resonated with me and aligns with how I want to invest my funds when shopping. Truly enjoyed Vlogmas. Content was great as usual!

  • @Gohardchick
    @Gohardchick 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am adopting the no Klarna rule too. When I heard you say it, it stung. No more in 2024. Happy Holidays CG!

  • @shamarmom7220
    @shamarmom7220 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great job CG!! You did an amazing job! I must say, prior to Vlogmas, I’d watch your videos here and there but you had my full undivided attention during Vlogmas. I enjoyed and learned a lot. I’m here to stay. I wish you the very best in 2024!!!

  • @RamonaAlgarin-27
    @RamonaAlgarin-27 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truly adore you. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. 🍪

    • @ITSCAROLYNGRAY
      @ITSCAROLYNGRAY  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💚💚💚 thank you for watching, supporting and receiving me this year 🍪🍪happy holidays 🥰