This is a major red flag!

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ธ.ค. 2024

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  • @emmy.d6303
    @emmy.d6303 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1981

    Not only in a romantic relationship but also in friendships too!

  • @hudSnakes
    @hudSnakes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +816

    Actions speak louder than words 🗣️

    • @pearlgirl7826
      @pearlgirl7826 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Agreed

    • @michaelslater6839
      @michaelslater6839 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@pearlgirl7826I told my wife that all the time, now she’s my ex-wife.😂 wish I was joking.😮😊

  • @bugstomper123
    @bugstomper123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +407

    The best advise I ever heard was "Unless he's wearing a diaper, you can't change him"

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      What tha' 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅

    • @wilhelmbuzzkyll
      @wilhelmbuzzkyll 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      So Biden’s fixable?

    • @tristankiddie1710
      @tristankiddie1710 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@wilhelmbuzzkyll 😂😂😂 Perfect response!!

    • @bugstomper123
      @bugstomper123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@wilhelmbuzzkyll oh I like that lol You can't see it, but I'm clapping my hands

    • @RipleysSanatorium
      @RipleysSanatorium 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's fantastic 😂

  • @Rocky_The_Guinea
    @Rocky_The_Guinea 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    “Never stay to fix somebody” Facts

  • @Wannabearborist
    @Wannabearborist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +183

    A man that doesn’t keep to his word is not a man.
    This is a very important principle that ever man on this earth should live by. A real man’s word is as good as a contract.

    • @geoffreyokrongly916
      @geoffreyokrongly916 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Keep that energy when women decide to divorce. They vowed to stay in the marriage until death, and didn’t. By your logic, those aren’t real women. Because their word is as good as a pinky promise.

    • @Wannabearborist
      @Wannabearborist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@geoffreyokrongly916 I said men not women. A man is supposed to be a respectable trustworthy person, after all a man is the provider in a relationship/family so how can a woman trust her man that he’s gonna provide for the family is she can’t even trust him on what he says

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The women are often worse than the men on this one.

    • @Wannabearborist
      @Wannabearborist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @Dredge22 it’s not your responsibility to make sure someone else keeps to their word.

    • @rayrayraves7
      @rayrayraves7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow. I thought this was a good point and very well said. But then the boys 🍼 entered the chat. who knew such a simple fact would offend them ☠️ 😂 and also, it is DEFINITELY way more important that a man does this than women. They are the stronger part. Which means they need to be MENTALLY, physically, AND EMOTIONALLY stronger too. I think they forget that. They always only focus on strength. They want to yell all day long about how much stronger they are and how much more logical they are and how much smarter they are. Kind of Like they are saying women are weak. But then expect us to act like them... Makes no sense to me. We can be "weaker women" or we can act like men...

  • @ossy3074
    @ossy3074 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    An apology without behavioural change is manipulation.

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    You can’t fix people who don’t WANT to change.

    • @firstlast8258
      @firstlast8258 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Change is the only constant

  • @notdelusionalcowboysfan
    @notdelusionalcowboysfan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +483

    I think a lot of people need to know that a toxic relationship is bad, because right now not many people know that 💀

    • @thestranger5911
      @thestranger5911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Only problem people have this thought in their head that a toxic and abusive relationship is better than no relationship which to me is not true.

    • @cajbaf
      @cajbaf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      ​@@thestranger5911 And then there are these girls who think everyone is toxic that don't treat them like they are some kind of special

    • @mr.nobody2244
      @mr.nobody2244 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It is also important to recognize and identify a toxic relationship which can be difficult if it's someone you care about. Family, friends, romantic.

    • @Getout634
      @Getout634 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@cajbafboth partners should treat each other like they’re special lol. If a girl wants a man to treat her like she’s special then I don’t think that’s inherently bad, as long as she’s treating him the same way.

    • @not.christian.
      @not.christian. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think most toxic relationships happen because there partner is a cowboys fan

  • @janeyrevanescence12
    @janeyrevanescence12 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Dr. Maloney has a great way of putting it: Behavior is a language.

  • @kristina812
    @kristina812 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    This is an ongoing issue I’m facing with friendships as well. No one is sticking with their word and being consistent. They say one thing but their actions don’t show it.

  • @RICHIE11420
    @RICHIE11420 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Totally Preach it Hard sister … many are just out right Brian damaged these days just wanting a Temporary Fix …

  • @LittleWriterSquirrel
    @LittleWriterSquirrel 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    This goes for friendships too!! Chronically single, and I had to learn this same lesson with the mean girl in middle school who I thought was my best friend🫠 don’t even know how many times I must have been laughed at behind my back with all that, major red flags!

    • @elisabethherzog9369
      @elisabethherzog9369 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh I know!! I feel like sometimes friendships can be even worse!

  • @strrts5135
    @strrts5135 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Ur hair is stunning!!
    I also love ur shirt

  • @Allison88886
    @Allison88886 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Absolutely!! Great advice

  • @kates3308
    @kates3308 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    All wisdom coming from Brett. Sooo true! Love this lady!

  • @MiraJune742
    @MiraJune742 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    This is SO true. Somehow they always end up blaming you and acting like their hurtful BEHAVIOR isn't the problem, but instead it's YOU ADDRESSING their harmful behavior that's the problem.
    Never stay with someone who thinks that you advocating for your needs in the relationship is a "PROBLEM". Run

    • @clariceadams2652
      @clariceadams2652 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, took me way too long to realize I needed to run from my bf who was like this

    • @MiraJune742
      @MiraJune742 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @clariceadams2652 Hey be proud of who you are today that you're out now. Imagine if you had stayed? You're clearly the better version of yourself now than if you had stayed. Congratulations!!

    • @clariceadams2652
      @clariceadams2652 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MiraJune742 thank you. I really needed to hear that. I truly am grateful every day to be free of him

  • @MichaelBullins
    @MichaelBullins 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was me a couple years ago and I’m not ashamed to admit it. It took the girl breaking up with me to realize that I needed to do a lot of soul searching and work on myself. All I hope for is that she is happy.

  • @ALYSSSA13
    @ALYSSSA13 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I had a friend who just didn’t know how to be a good friend, we had problem after problem when we were younger but after every problem she grew as a person and got better. Everybody said I should just stop talking to her, but she was putting in effort and she was growing. We are still friends to this day and now we have zero drama or issues. So people can change, but if they’re not even trying too, then ditch them!

  • @ashleyphelps7290
    @ashleyphelps7290 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Literally my last relationship. Spent so much time trying to come to some middle ground when I told him how important quality time was to me but he said "nothing info is ever enough for you". The effort I put in to save our relationship made the break even harder. Don't settle ladies.....

  • @Jvalde2021
    @Jvalde2021 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My buddy is a victim of this in a relationship. His girlfriend hits him and always yells at him and I keep telling him "she's lost her marbles, break up when you can and get far away from her". I almost got him away from her but he stayed with her. This has happened before with the same girl but this time I lost all communication with him since she always has his phone for some reason. So I pretty much lost a friend because of his absolute red flag of a girlfriend. And she would always say she would get better but then it happened again as I said. I can guarantee that it will happen again but I won't be there for him. Hope he finds someone better and we can talk again.

  • @biri7753
    @biri7753 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Unfortunately, I was subjected to this and 3 years of my life were stolen. Towards the end of the relationship, I even started to doubt my own reality. I almost completely lost my sense of trust and today, 6 months later, I am still trying to regain everything I lost.

  • @БорисШувалов-щ5л
    @БорисШувалов-щ5л 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    You definitely deserve more recognition for this!

  • @IS-kf4nr
    @IS-kf4nr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is such a good point. Been there. Not good. Thanks Brett!!

  • @AnnieElizabeth-el4bj
    @AnnieElizabeth-el4bj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Hi Brett! I have started reading a book called “How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul” by Jason and Crystalina Evert and I was wondering if you have heard of it or read it because in the first chapter it covers the top 10 guys to avoid and I would love to see you react to that part of the book! It was recommended to me by my sister and she referred to it as the modern dating bible

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Im adding this to Amazon cart. Is it a good read?

    • @oblivianette2860
      @oblivianette2860 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Also the book " How to avoid falling in love with a Jerk- how to follow your heart without losing your head" is an underrated masterpiece. Reading just the first half made me try harder to be a better person in my friendships and family since im a single pringle.

    • @AnnieElizabeth-el4bj
      @AnnieElizabeth-el4bj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@scotthearts9634so far it is pretty good!

  • @obscuraxxxx
    @obscuraxxxx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I had to learn the hard way that a guy talking to me all the time, flirting with me hardcore, means NOTHING if his actions don't align. Happened to me recently- when I probed about if he was seeing someone after weeks of us flirting, he told me he had a gf... who lived with him. Dropped that man.

  • @goodscharlotte
    @goodscharlotte 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Something my meemaw used to say that always stuck with me- 'sorry without change, is just manipulation'.
    Stay blessed y'all💜

  • @kcpleu7092
    @kcpleu7092 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I know this is not the point of this post--great notes by the way--but where did you get that blouse? It's so fricken cute!!😍

  • @lilsqueezie
    @lilsqueezie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your hair looks so good Brett 👍

  • @jillsavage2834
    @jillsavage2834 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Also if they do something and then make a “heart felt apology” repeatedly without changing their actions… don’t stay because “they seemed sincere”. They weren’t. You better leave while you can it’s never too late! Don’t stay because you feel like they are a lost puppy. You can do better ❤️

  • @amaliaregno5282
    @amaliaregno5282 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love your blouse, Brett! And your hair, but I wondered where the blouse is from? Thanks x

  • @dianaRC
    @dianaRC 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes but mostly your ootd is super cute! Marriage looks good on you, Brett!!

  • @Kaboozee
    @Kaboozee 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hilarious to see someone who’s been married for 5 minutes talk as if they’re an expert on relationships & marriage as they lecture the rest of us.

  • @timothyrangel9897
    @timothyrangel9897 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was the red flag in my past relationship. Not intentionally, but just too ignorant to my own words/actions. Something I will just have to live with, but a mistake I certainly learned from.

  • @VoNewEngland83
    @VoNewEngland83 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautiful self, voice, and talent. Never fails to amaze me, what she comes up with and still be herself. Love her for it, and love the video. ❤❤❤

  • @ISRAELGUERRERO-y1e
    @ISRAELGUERRERO-y1e 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANKS FOR THE ADVICE,AND THANK YOU!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @demonhunterC
    @demonhunterC 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your hair is so nice! ☺️

  • @emas11220
    @emas11220 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    actually the best dating advice!! only be with someone who’s actions match their words and intent

  • @ravenovatechnologies6554
    @ravenovatechnologies6554 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sad that we have to say this. But it is what it is. Thank you for telling the people.

  • @gangmgang_
    @gangmgang_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are such a great influencer and inspiration for young women that I’m so happy you have such a big and amazing platform no lie I’m starting to realize there is nothing wrong with being friends with people as long as the people around you are not dishonest to you and to themselves ❤️‍🔥🙌🏾💙💯

  • @Gracieinspired
    @Gracieinspired 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Side note your hair looks amazing!!!

  • @ericacbrown5873
    @ericacbrown5873 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First, you look beautiful 😍 🤩 ❤. Second, thank you for sharing these chapters. Thank you for all you do. God bless you. ❤❤❤

  • @logantidwell7698
    @logantidwell7698 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It's not always as obvious as "he hurts you then apologizes and love bombs you" either. A lot of the time it's a lot of smaller things that don't seem like the biggest deal, but wear on the relationship over time. She says she'll stop going out with her irresponsible party girl friends, but she doesn't. He says he'll install a cabinet for you, then let's all the parts lay around for a week while he plays COD. Nobody is perfect, we all gap certain things and don't always perform at our best, but if the person you're with has a consistent habit of breaking commitments with you, then maybe you shouldn't be with them.be with someone who does what they say, big and small

  • @bubzilla6137
    @bubzilla6137 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These videos always make me emotional too. But yesterday, for the first time ever, I experienced it in real life. My girlfriend's daughter graduated Navy boot camp so a whole bunch of us went down in two vehicles for the ceremony. I will concede that it's not exactly the same as vets returning from serving because often they don't see each other for years and in this case it's only 3 months. However, the emotions were very real, maybe tears were shed, and maybe hugs and handshakes were happening. I take care of the 3 year old daughter of the new Sailor, and time and time and time again I've heard, "U wanna see Mommy" or "I wanna call Mommy" and my heart breaks every single time. Sometimes we call and she'll leave Mommy a voicemail to say she loves and misses her and I think that helps but it's clear she still misses Mommy every day. So yesterday was extremely special and emotional for sure. Sleep deprivation definitely amplified the emotions too. Lol! 🤣😂💙🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲

  • @madalynnlavaway8758
    @madalynnlavaway8758 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This also goes with people who call themselves christian, but don't live a Godly life. I am not saying you have to be perfect, but a good christian understands that they are doing something and then changes what they are doing. You shouldn't call yourself a christian if you are going to disregard and disobey the laws given to us. I hear all the time I am a christian, but they have lustful eyes. They take substances, use profanity, and never show up to church. It is hard to be a christian with all of the sin around us, but if you give your life to Christ, you should start to see changes.❤

  • @pistolpeteofficial
    @pistolpeteofficial 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Both parties need to take accountability in order for it to work

  • @Ravongesreal
    @Ravongesreal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A good advice is, if they won't change the first time, they likely won't change the second time either.

  • @cognitiveconnectionss
    @cognitiveconnectionss 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your naturally already dropped dead gorgeous, but this outfit and your hair looks so beautiful in these red flag videos ❤🎉

  • @harrygough2810
    @harrygough2810 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You have a Burnett version of Liz Wheeler’s hair! Love it 💜!!!

  • @billydee8444
    @billydee8444 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome & TRUTH

  • @SuperRobertto
    @SuperRobertto 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😍😍😍 Brett! your hair is beautiful 💕😍

  • @brucedoyle4055
    @brucedoyle4055 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Modern Woman:"Unless he is Rich?"

  • @mlg0506
    @mlg0506 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Excellent advice Brett ❤

  • @nieshuchangwhitleyss2468
    @nieshuchangwhitleyss2468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    words of wisdom came from this 23 years old lady's mouth. really she's so underrated who agree with me?

  • @karenterceros3526
    @karenterceros3526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OK, let’s talk about how gorgeous she looks, those hair waves and eyes! Just stunning ❤

  • @rhvoriginals3083
    @rhvoriginals3083 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your hair looks pretty in curls. I bet hubby loves it!

    • @MusicSid-lk2vz
      @MusicSid-lk2vz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You 100% lonely ash

  • @laurajohnson7605
    @laurajohnson7605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Been married to that guy for 21 years. I did try to fix him and he showed his true colors but I saw great potential. Potential and reality don't always line up. Working on a divorce.

  • @Sophieeeeeeee
    @Sophieeeeeeee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s such a little gesture but its so important, Brett clearly stated that it is not only men that can have these problems, but it is women also. Abusive behavior is not subjective to gender and she made that clear.

  • @sufyanmukri9610
    @sufyanmukri9610 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There are several women who pursue toxic relationship and then blame all men.
    Personally, i know some of these women

  • @brennendopwell
    @brennendopwell 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed to hear this 6 years ago 😂. ❤❤

  • @Shravya2007
    @Shravya2007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    drop a hair care routine i need it your hair is gorgeous !

  • @DM56fmx
    @DM56fmx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love how classy you are and dress!! I hope to meet someone similar in that regard 😊

  • @justina.6769
    @justina.6769 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Talk the talk and walk the walk, this I can agree on.

  • @Guineadragon
    @Guineadragon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To women, if your man treats his mother badly, he will most of the time treat you the same way, even if he doesn’t show it immediately.
    To men, it is the same thing, if your girl does not treat her father well, she will most likely treat you the same way in the future.
    (Note I said most likely, not always but it can be pretty common)

  • @Sarah-dh8uy
    @Sarah-dh8uy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I'd like to say, I know someone who's in this situation. They're a friend. I hope they get better this time because they are realizing this and having a hard time currently.
    Pray for them, if you'd be so kind. 🙏
    (I didn't expect myself to be THIS early, I'm first lol)

    • @JohnGramer06
      @JohnGramer06 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're not first.

    • @Sarah-dh8uy
      @Sarah-dh8uy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay 😂😅 ​@@JohnGramer06

    • @driftingdandelion
      @driftingdandelion 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      pray for me too while you guys are at it bc same 🥴

    • @Sarah-dh8uy
      @Sarah-dh8uy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JohnGramer06 okay 😂😅

    • @JohnGramer06
      @JohnGramer06 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sarah-dh8uy you replied to me twice

  • @DianaHernandez-fz5mo
    @DianaHernandez-fz5mo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sorry and totally unrelated but how do you style your hair? You look beautiful

  • @LKbox
    @LKbox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dayum! Real talk 🤙🏼🫡

  • @RelaxThruHeaven_RuleAllHell
    @RelaxThruHeaven_RuleAllHell 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not just romance... Works for literally everything except family... that one is almost impossible to find a solution for.

  • @victoria8319
    @victoria8319 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Brett we need a hair tutorial pls

    • @yxmichaelxyyxmichaelxy3074
      @yxmichaelxyyxmichaelxy3074 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women. 🙄

    • @victoria8319
      @victoria8319 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yxmichaelxyyxmichaelxy3074 yes I’m a woman, I notice nice hair styles, sue me lol

    • @momowillfindu
      @momowillfindu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yxmichaelxyyxmichaelxy3074😂

  • @MishaXG
    @MishaXG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Never stay to fix somebody" i think you should add but start to communicate and tell your partner the problem and what you would like so a discussion can start and then both can see how it goes.
    Just saying "walk away" is a problem cause a relation ship is 2 people building their relation ship especially in a couple.
    You live 24/7 together nothing will be great 100% of the time and few things might be a problem... so first thing first start talking to communicate with your partner before anything else.
    I should probably add: "talk to your partner and not to someone else like your best friend" he/she dpesnt know the situation and only have you story version and not both. So he/she wont be neutral.

  • @ShootFirstNS
    @ShootFirstNS 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I feel like I'm in this type of relationship with my country.

  • @LightsaberGoBrrrrrr
    @LightsaberGoBrrrrrr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God those curls look so good on you

  • @Kapplerartbloomingdale
    @Kapplerartbloomingdale 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Looking good. Thanks for the advice

  • @Yomaingurl
    @Yomaingurl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    SHES RIGHT
    My Older Brother is got out a relationship and in part one and two she has named everything his ex girlfriend did to him so definitely listen to her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @agnogh1
    @agnogh1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well… sometimes we see it but we keep giving chances to the one we care about. It is knowing the right balance between too many chances given and too few when you decide to move on
    … still, great video, thanks for uploading

  • @ixibatgirlixi
    @ixibatgirlixi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "I can't just go, Kim. It's not that simple, ok?!
    My CDs are in his truck!!
    I can't just walk away from 40 or 50 CDs!"

  • @Sinful_morality
    @Sinful_morality 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am a 27 yr old white man who has fully given up on friendships, let alone dating, and I'd like to say that I currently display virtually ALL of the red flags put forth by women, through fault of my own or not, and currently working on fixing the major ones, I have accepted I will never get a date and die alone.....

    • @mattzed11
      @mattzed11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have just three words for you:
      “Is this helpful?”
      What good could possibly come from such a nihilistic attitude? Rejection is part of being a man, friend … it hurts, hurts like hell, but it’s no excuse to put yourself down or give up.
      Work on what *is* within your control; for what isn’t, find someone who will take you as flawed as you are, as flawed as *they* are.
      There is more to life than romance, no matter how loudly our monkey brains shriek otherwise.

  • @robspadre5519
    @robspadre5519 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You, Billie Rae Brandt, Emily King, and Sarah Dawn Moore should do a panel on relationship issues. And have Anna Jorgensen there too.

  • @darkfrostbyte329
    @darkfrostbyte329 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is she always speaking the biggest facts I've ever heard

  • @jackcurtis4906
    @jackcurtis4906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a brilliant young lady...

  • @gmangamer47
    @gmangamer47 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I NEEDED THIS THREE YEARS AGO

  • @JoseRodriguez-uf2pt
    @JoseRodriguez-uf2pt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another red flag is someone constantly trying to fix their partner/friend. Trying to change someone's style, trying to get someone to work less or change jobs from what they're happy with. Sometimes the person stuck in their habits isn't the problem

    • @billsheppard2433
      @billsheppard2433 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is what I came to comment. My world views and hobbies/lifestyle are not beloved by everyone. For example, if a woman demanded I stop riding motorcycles or she would leave, I would happily let her do so. Some people don’t need to be changed. You can’t completely change who someone is and what they believe in just to have someone to show off to your friends.

  • @Deathstroke4810
    @Deathstroke4810 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had a friend like this he bullied me and my family relentlessly and said “oh it’s just a guy thing we all make fun of each other get over yourself” the last straw was when he insulted my great grandfather on his deathbed. And to this day I wonder why I was his friend for the year and a half I knew him.

  • @Woeisme2
    @Woeisme2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is she so beautiful 😍

  • @marc-alainmiller8453
    @marc-alainmiller8453 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A girl from college came back into my life after 10 years and I was convinced she was the one. We both still had the same feelings and I hung the moon in her eyes. Didn't stop her from getting pumped and dumped by a literal random hookup and getting pregnant. Took me two years of precious time in my 30's to get over her. No shit actions speak louder than words.

  • @ericasmith-arndt2678
    @ericasmith-arndt2678 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your hair is on point here 👌💯💁‍♀️

  • @orangemanonsteroids8569
    @orangemanonsteroids8569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A woman living with you. when you come home from a job site 500 miles away (travel for work)
    All the furniture in the house is gone but for a coffee table and 4 lines of coke. Powder nose is explaining to you this is some good shit. Yeah I’m an older
    gen X.

  • @peterhayward4364
    @peterhayward4364 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That’s is definitely my mom and dad, my dad is so oblivious that me and my family are trying to help him but he doesn’t care enough

  • @TheColinAngry
    @TheColinAngry 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sounds like Trump and Mike Pence 😂😂

  • @katrinawagner6842
    @katrinawagner6842 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yet another reason not to rush into a physical relationship!!!!!! Its sooooooo much harder to nreak off a physical relationship than a non physical one. And you dont have the risk of accidentally having kids with a jerk.

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley7652 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's strange to hear a married woman give dating advice when she's not in the market or dealing with how it is now.

  • @oliviayosefor6039
    @oliviayosefor6039 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mom told me something that I keep to the heart, “you can’t change anyone unless they want to change themselves”

  • @songbirds3712
    @songbirds3712 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your blouse!❤️

  • @callie09
    @callie09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so real if you’re gonna date someone or even just be friends they definitely cant be changing up constantly

  • @DANTENINJAITALY
    @DANTENINJAITALY 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What's sad is we all show that red flag twards God in our relationship with Him.
    Over and over we sin and say we'll change and we don't, and yet He still chooses to forgive us.
    We don't deserve Him, God is so good

  • @JasonCharles-e7k
    @JasonCharles-e7k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's totally amazing 😏😇😇🥰🥰😍😍😍💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💓💓💓💕💕💕💕🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @DocDirtrat9472
    @DocDirtrat9472 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actions speak louder than words! Always listen to what others have to say, but watch them closely. People will always show their true colors through their actions, especially when they think they’re not looking..

  • @Noahliebhaber
    @Noahliebhaber 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    BRO MY TEACHER WAS JUST LIKE THIS

  • @Yoshi_STAY
    @Yoshi_STAY 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does this apply in friendships as well?? I had a friend who had redflags but also had a sweet side. I ended up getting hurt in the end.

  • @Darkhate913
    @Darkhate913 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can relate to this red flag 🚩 because I’m toxic ☠️ 😜

  • @westonwittek8135
    @westonwittek8135 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m a 24 year old male, single and living in Nashville. Music is my number 1 passion which I studied in college. The comments section is definitely my most watched channel lol. Would love to meet like-minded friends!