It passes. Slowly get back on track, focus on something new. It takes time, it hurts but it passes. Trust me, when you get back on your feet You feel like you are born again. It's great and worth the pain.
Same cycle over and over... Nah I'm done everybody, I'm not doing this life thing anymore. This'll probably be my last comment, I'm sorry I wasn't strong enough. Goodbye
@@talon3796 sometimes your mind plays tricks on you, tells you you're no good or it's all hopeless...but you are loved and important, you bring things to this world that no one else can, so hold on
Certain things and certain people in life are hard to forget, if they really had a deep impact in your life. Don't let yourself be defeated, fight for what you consider worth.
I'm in this today. It's called _"The Dark Night of the Soul."_ It can go on for years. Mine has! There are some words I want to share with other men going through this... _"Every man has his secret sorrows which the World knows not; And often times we call a man cold when he is only sad."_ Henry Wadsworth Longfellow Also by HWL... _"The lowest ebb is the turn of the tide."_
Strange how these few words are ‘spot-on’,,,, if you want to get what your getting now ,,,keep on doing what your doing now !!! Not easy I know when the ‘demons’ have started ,,,
I ain’t worried about it. It will pass with gods help. I don’t want help. I don’t want friends, a GF or anyone. I have had enemies in the past and still do. I gonna stop living. I’ll be fine whether anyone believes me or not. When I die, I know where I’m going and don’t care when it happens. Only God knows that day. That’s his promise and I will be with him.
I'm a girl but I relate to all this. Though thankfully I have amazing therapists and I still have a few really good friends, my birds, my German Shepherd, my ghost friends and God so things could be a lot worse. Bi matter what you're going through keep going. God bless you all.
This is me, especially after I ended my first ever relationship at 41. I never felt good enough for my ex because she was comparing me to other men and her ex’s. I don’t have any friends and deleted all my social media.
I’ve been where you are and I know how much it hurts. You cannot control what othes say or do but you can control how you react. You have to dig deep but there is a hero in everyone, I found mine but it took time and a lot of positive thinking. Getting off social meds is probably the best thing you can do. It’s toxic. So now you have made the first move to controlling your own life, it’s onwards and upwards! It will be a fabulous journey ❤️xx
@@janiceharris8169 From a personal perspective, I’ve realised in life that no one really cares about you unless you offer them value. Because I have no value, I have no friends. Social media is very toxic and my ex told me that im toxic. She was right. I promised myself never to let any woman hurt me the way my ex did. I tried to get her back and she manipulated me for £225, blew out two hours before collection and told me she wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I’d leave her alone for good. She changed our relationship to situationship, meaning she was probably seeing/getting hammered by BBC. Another thing I’ve realised is you should never look for validation and acceptance from anyone. You’ll be accused of having a victim mindset. I gave up on women after my bad experience and decided to be a recluse at 44 😢. Modern day women are just after BBC
IAM praying for all 🙏🙏🙏🙏do sad my girlfriend partner just took his life yesterday l pray for all to reach out to God love you all 🙏🙏 please get help if you need it it's out there l been threw alot don't give up reach out
Group sport helped me...and I care less about everyting, seems to be working most of the time. There is a line in movie Castaway - just keep breathing and move on...
You have to break your will of what you desire and trust in God's plan for you. You are diverted from danger which God can see ahead but you cannot. You have to let go of your will of what you want and trust God wants to give better! It's a painful process...believe but after difficulty there is relief.
Your parents cant repair you, not your g.f, your wife, nobody in this world can..the only one who created you can rebuild you. Trust in god. Keep faith in him to direct you to right path. Your still "alive for a reason".
Dam I'm all 3 of these gotta find a way back to normal
It passes. Slowly get back on track, focus on something new. It takes time, it hurts but it passes. Trust me, when you get back on your feet You feel like you are born again. It's great and worth the pain.
Same cycle over and over... Nah I'm done everybody, I'm not doing this life thing anymore. This'll probably be my last comment, I'm sorry I wasn't strong enough. Goodbye
@@talon3796 sometimes your mind plays tricks on you, tells you you're no good or it's all hopeless...but you are loved and important, you bring things to this world that no one else can, so hold on
Certain things and certain people in life are hard to forget, if they really had a deep impact in your life. Don't let yourself be defeated, fight for what you consider worth.
Damn.....i think i am broken
I'm in this today. It's called _"The Dark Night of the Soul."_ It can go on for years. Mine has! There are some words I want to share with other men going through this...
_"Every man has his secret sorrows which the World knows not; And often times we call a man cold when he is only sad."_
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Also by HWL...
_"The lowest ebb is the turn of the tide."_
Strange how these few words are ‘spot-on’,,,, if you want to get what your getting now ,,,keep on doing what your doing now !!! Not easy I know when the ‘demons’ have started ,,,
Please god help us all. Narcissistic abuse is the root cause of all these signs.
Thank you I so needed this 😢🙏
I ain’t worried about it. It will pass with gods help. I don’t want help. I don’t want friends, a GF or anyone. I have had enemies in the past and still do. I gonna stop living. I’ll be fine whether anyone believes me or not. When I die, I know where I’m going and don’t care when it happens. Only God knows that day. That’s his promise and I will be with him.
I maybe broke 💴not even close to broken 🥾🥜👀
This is me!!!!
I'm a girl but I relate to all this. Though thankfully I have amazing therapists and I still have a few really good friends, my birds, my German Shepherd, my ghost friends and God so things could be a lot worse. Bi matter what you're going through keep going. God bless you all.
I'm sorry Kevin. That I didn't see the signs sooner. I love you and miss you everyday
Thank you for this video post... needed this 👏
I'm broken....Inherit my life.
My friend needs HELP he is all 3,love him but can't help him😢 PRAY
This is me, especially after I ended my first ever relationship at 41. I never felt good enough for my ex because she was comparing me to other men and her ex’s. I don’t have any friends and deleted all my social media.
I’ve been where you are and I know how much it hurts. You cannot control what othes say or do but you can control how you react. You have to dig deep but there is a hero in everyone, I found mine but it took time and a lot of positive thinking. Getting off social meds is probably the best thing you can do. It’s toxic. So now you have made the first move to controlling your own life, it’s onwards and upwards! It will be a fabulous journey ❤️xx
@@janiceharris8169 From a personal perspective, I’ve realised in life that no one really cares about you unless you offer them value. Because I have no value, I have no friends. Social media is very toxic and my ex told me that im toxic. She was right.
I promised myself never to let any woman hurt me the way my ex did. I tried to get her back and she manipulated me for £225, blew out two hours before collection and told me she wanted to hurt me as much as possible so that I’d leave her alone for good. She changed our relationship to situationship, meaning she was probably seeing/getting hammered by BBC.
Another thing I’ve realised is you should never look for validation and acceptance from anyone. You’ll be accused of having a victim mindset.
I gave up on women after my bad experience and decided to be a recluse at 44 😢. Modern day women are just after BBC
🙏🙏🙏 for my EX
IAM praying for all 🙏🙏🙏🙏do sad my girlfriend partner just took his life yesterday l pray for all to reach out to God love you all 🙏🙏 please get help if you need it it's out there l been threw alot don't give up reach out
Thank you
My x would be happy not sad as he got what he wanted a second beautiful wife.
You can’t post this without some type of direction I’m hanging on by a fucking thread here!
Group sport helped me...and I care less about everyting, seems to be working most of the time. There is a line in movie Castaway - just keep breathing and move on...
You have to break your will of what you desire and trust in God's plan for you. You are diverted from danger which God can see ahead but you cannot. You have to let go of your will of what you want and trust God wants to give better!
It's a painful process...believe but after difficulty there is relief.
Your parents cant repair you, not your g.f, your wife, nobody in this world can..the only one who created you can rebuild you. Trust in god. Keep faith in him to direct you to right path. Your still "alive for a reason".
THIS IS ME 100000%😢😢😢😢😢😢
That's totally me.
This feels familiar
Fast lane
This is not exclusive to Men
I am broken
I am ready to die.
100%
Blah blah blah
You cheating
I'm sorry Kevin. That I didn't see the signs sooner. I love you and miss you everyday
I am broken