Real Families: Tackling Toddler Challenges | House of Tiny Terrors
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- It’s the second day in the House of Tiny Terrors, it’s the day of the beginning of treatment and Tanya is asking why and finding out the problems with the families.
Children - and parents - learning the right way to do things.
The House of Tiny Terrors is a real house that doubles up as a clinic for three very different families with toddlers aged one to five years old. Each of the families is affected by a parenting problem; it could be sleeping, eating or bad behaviour. The house is rigged with cameras and over the course of the week, the families are monitored 24/7 by a presenter and child psychologist. Once problems have been witnessed, our expert gets to work - coaching the parents on how to interact with their child using ‘ear bug’ techniques and providing games, stunts and role-play exercises to help the families look at their issues in new ways. One week later we visit them back home to see if their lives have changed for the better.
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I love jaggers mom she’s so sweet. Even tho jagger behaves like Damien from the omen I’ve seen a sweet side of him when his mum wakes him and hugs him.
That bit made me smile. You can see how much she loves that little boy.
Dr Tanya Byron is brilliant at what she does.
Ive never been more annoyed by a crying toddler than i have by dante- such a spoilt child.
A.M. Why are you annoyed by him? He's simply doing what he was taught to do.
Great sponsorship for Valium !!
U know what they say, spare the rod spoil the child 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Welp that cured the baby fever... lol
micks336 me too not babies for long🌖
The girl twin needs more praise
Oh RENE! I hope you find someone to talk to, dear. There is so much guilt, sadness, anger, loss, and depression that survivors of disasters can feel. I know several people who normally would have been in the Towers on that fateful Tuesday but for some twist of fate...or serendipity. They, too, have a mixed bag of feelings they are carrying around. The bottom line is that it was by NO PLAN OF YOUR OWN MAKING so you really cannot lay a claim to it, Rene. To OWN that I suggest talking with a counselor, a minister, or someone who can help you. You have already carried this burden too long. It is time to lay it down, love, for it is not yours to bear. I promise.❤️
I am always appalled how quickly some parents manage to completely ruin the behavior of their child in a short time. I have been a kindergarten teacher for 40 years, in all those years I have not met a child like dante, this boy will have problems all his life if nothing drastic happens now !!!! i love children but this boy is a bully and i have trouble feeling anything like sympathy for him
i really feel bad for little gia. she doesn't misbehave almost at all from what i can see. all of the attention is going to dante and its just not fair. she doesn't seem happy even when they praise her. ):
Jagger's mom thinks time out is severe punishment. No wonder he is out of control.
Some kids that's all they need. But some people aren't sure what more they can do
I literally read this as I was watching her.
Post Natal Depression is VERY REAL. Believe it, and you must support your wife, and understand what she's going
through. It will only make her feel guilty and she should never have tofeel like that.
The little girl and the baby seem to be well behaved. Poor dears probably do not get enough attention because of their misbehaving siblings.
Those kids are totally insane, yet when I was at their age, I was in control most of the time.
most stressful toddler parent relationship I've ever seen. if my son was like this I'd run away lol. jumping on the couch is my idea of him misbehaving all that tantrum and throwing a fit would drive me up the wall lawwwd.
Dante is absolutely awful and his mom is NO help as just as dramatic as him thinking that hea gonna tell her when hea ready to grow up and move on. Jagger is adorably confused and most of that seems more like his moms fault than his own doing he is allowed to behave in a way that his mom doesn't want to address bc he doesn't have a dad around she is over compensating something he doesn't even notice he is missing out on.
I cannot understand Why they do not have fixed mealtimes for everyone. Eat together at a normal table. Let the Kids learn from each other. Have a Conversation. Not having the other Kids playing in the Background. I dont Think this is an apropiate Setting.
Sandra Mühl worked perfectly in the UK
I can imagine it would only be a nightmare
These kids were there because they don't know good behavior, there are no kids there that they could learn good behavior from.
Yeah, in the UK version that is what they did. Tanya gave that exact reason for it too, that the children with eating problems can be influenced by the ones who don't
I used to love this programme. Dr Tanya is awesome.
Poor Dante. He must have a constant headache from all the screaming and crying. I'm only 10 min in and this is heartbreaking for all. No baby comes with an instruction manual; these parents are doing their best. I hope things have worked out for these families.
Watching this snuggling me daughter and thinking is she saving all of this for later? She's 2 and 3 months now and honestly never been anywhere near this bad. She only throws tantrums when she is tired so we create a little calm down corner for her with cushions and a blanket. The twins...I feel so bad for the little girl. I've only seen her screaming once during this and that was the very first meal and she's not thrown a tantrum since. Her brothers getting all the attention. Personally I'd leave him to it and give her some fuss. He'd come around when he realises that his sister isn't throwing a screaming fit and got parents attention.
I don’t see a problem with Dante’s sister. At all. Why are they including her but saying problems with “the twins”. She needs more positive reinforcement. Poor little girl. 💔
That happen more offen. Im a twin and if one of use did something bad it was always the twins dit it. Not Jolien did it ore Anaïs did it.
anaïs de wilde That makes me 😔 sad. I am sorry.
Probably cuz she cries when he does which actually is very common and from what I understand pretty normal. My 3 year old cousin cries if her 5 month old brother cries cuz it makes her sad.
She and her brother were both extremely picky eaters in the beginning, but she "got with the program" more quickly than her brother, apparently.
The kid that is nearly four said I don’t want to be birth
23:11-23:30 That interaction is so sweet!
40:56 "-do you feel... I mean...
-I feel bad about it, but I can't do anything about it, it's done. I can't do anything. It was a period of 3-4 months in your life, it was tough.
- it was longer than...
- 6 months, maybe. It was tough, but it's over. I can't go back and fix that at this point.
- no but if there was something like that to happen aga-...
- I'd like to but I can't. If it happens then I'll support you more, but it hopefully won't happen again.
- you were not there for me.
- Can you forgive me or can you not forgive me ?"
Girl, no wonder you have doubts about him listening to you once you go home. He won't. This guy keeps interrupting you and almost forcing you to forgive him.
The correct answer here was listening to her til she finishes, an honest apology, then "what can I do to make things better?" not shutting her up saying basically "it's over, I can't (won't) do anything about, it didn't even last that long, hurry up and forgive me."
If that doesn't change, I don't think this relationship will work in the long term, and this man is a bad example for his son, he doesn't know how to listen, acknowledge someone else's pain or make amends, he manipulates and dominates instead. How can you expect the kid to become respectful and mindful of others?
All these people saying Dr Tanya’s methods are wrong lol clearly they haven’t seen this show before haha
We need new episodes. I loved this and tiny tear aways
Omg Dante’s mother is a nightmare
DAAAN-TAAY
I believe in the power of pain. A good smacking does wonders
things kids will do when they are suddenly confused, default to breathing loudly until somethings happens or falls asleep.
Just from experience as the kid. My parents never fought in front of us about anything small or big. We also got clear explanations both good and bad that's just what I had as a kid and I feel it worked well but again I was the kid so
Love how this is retitled house of tiny terrors since so many of us were like... wth is a terraway
I don't understand this eating issue. My daughter wanted to eat only milk and refused solids. Doctor told don't give her milk more than twice a day. Offer food with options in a highchair but don't push her. She might reject food few times but if she is hungry she will ask for food. Healthy children don't starve themselves. His advice worked.
Soooooo glad this is back I live this show
I guess I was just lucky (early on) since my own son NEVER acted-out & "brattish" until he became a teenager...It was a big shock to me as it seemed to come out of nowhere...LOL... *: )*
poppykok5 It never comes from nowhere.
Your son started acting like a brat when he was a teenager because of mood swings due to puberty.
Great documentary. Shows that a lot of times when kids are misbehaving, it's caused by the parents' mistakes
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FUNNY HOW WHEN WE WERE KIDS NOBODY BEHAVED THIS WAY ~ WE WOULD HAVE GOT ONE LOOK
Dante is awful
Bless these parents and their kids!
You can only pick them up when they were little so hold them when you can the opportunity will be gone soon enough.
I know some parents that need this.
Check the names…………jagger???? Sounds like jabber as in the hut🙄😂😂😂😂
Why do you put him in a cot he is 2 year old
I would love to take the vocal cords out silence would be the best thing to happen
dantes family is messed up in my opinion and they are so naive to what is going on around them
is it only me who feels like this
Let's just encourage eachother ☺ as parents
Love this show
All of the judgemental people here need to shut it for a minute and reflect on themselves. First of all I'm gonna assume most of you aren't even parents yourselves. I don't care if you've been a teacher for 20 years it's very different when you are a parent.
Secondly it's always easy when you're on the outside looking in. When I watch this I see certain things where I think oh that should have been done differently but when you are in a bad habit, no matter what it is, you are oftentimes unaware of the little (to big) things that are causing negative consequences. It takes time and lots of effort to change a habit. And a habit isn't formed consciously.
So all you commenters unloading your bs of "give them to me for a week, I'll do better" or "that wouldn't happen to me..." ask yourself this, are you at perfect health? Are your fitness and eating habits perfect? Are any and all of your life's situations completely free of a habit you picked up that is bad? Probably not eh?
Don't ever put yourself on that high horse of thinking it isn't happening/won't happen to you because you are fooling yourself.
And on another note, comments like "give these kids to [anyone but the parent]" are non-starters because children behave differently with every person in their life.
My experience as a
- former daycare teacher
- mom
- single parent
Don't judge someone if you haven't walked in their shoes, instead commend them for putting in the effort and willingness to accept criticism and make a positive change. And then turn to yourself instead and ask what could *I* do better.
Blah blah blah
@@Watchinthefoolshere nom nom nom much troll?
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Only troll is you. You posted a smart a$$ comment on mine. I reciprocated posting on your resume. Sounds like you are an angry woman with a kid that was dumped by the donor.
i fully agree!
They needed Super Nanny NOT this place and those ladies! They really didn't do much or help! These families needed to be in their own home and the children in their own bed to feel more comfortable in the environment. They are all gonna go home and nothing will change! Someone call Super Nanny 😂
I thought they meant one year olds and I was going to say one year olds are practically babies.
Oh damn my 2,4y old son is an angel
I would think that putting these children in an unfamiliar environment would just further complicate things. When we had s big move we kind of had to sleep train all over again. We never allowed our son to sleep in our bed either. I coslept with my own mom, and I know how crazy that was for her every night lol. I wasn’t about to live through that. Little Gia caught on so fast. What a good girl.
Naughty twin brother you need to eat your breakfast 🍳 like your sister dose
This is so stupid, they're not even in their own house, therefore staged, therefore stressed and frightened
MuseDisorder exactly!
Its fine, if you take your children on a vacation it would be no different. These behaviors are the same here in this house as they are at home so she can absolutely work with them. If you have seen the British version of this show you would know that. One family came in and their child was perfectly behaved in the therapy home so she sent the family home to monitor them there because the child was not misbehaving and she didn't know what to work on. When the family returned home the bad behavior returned and she worked with them from home because that is where their main issues with behavior were occurring. The child ran the house. It will be fine and it will work. Bad behaviors can be broken no matter where you are. An example of this are children who are structured in school and follow the rules but in the home they are a holy terror. The behaviors are due to parents not understanding they are reinforcing bad behavior and when they stop doing that the behaviors will get better. Its a family effort and as ling as the family is together they can work together. I understand thinking having them in their home will be the only way to fix this but children need to learn to behave no matter the environment. And this is a good enviroment for children, it us full of activities that will stimulate them for playtime, it has them learning how to interact with other children and yet they have very private quarters where the parents are in the next room to deal with them as well.
No
should try this with the kids on a plane or maybe a movie theatre
Please can we have some more English episodes?? Xx
supernanny is mostly English :)
first time seeing this but my vibe from the parents of the twins are, they didn't want kids but ended up with twins. or thought kids were gonna fix their relationship. can tell they just don't wanna deal with it.
Azazura Azura I feel like something’s wrong with the dad like he’s putting on a show for the cameras. In the kitchen it looks like he’s scanning the room for cameras then he takes him back to his room and gives a 2 year old a speech he obviously can’t understand😂not that the mom is great either but I think her actions come from a place of love. The first nite the mom was trying to put both to sleep and he was just chillin in the other room like they were both hers to worry about.
They may have had a perfectly happy relationship before.
Twins, especially if that is your first pregnancy, is wo derful but challenging. It improves quickly, but the first two to three years of having twins involves a very intense work load without a lot of rest, and if they are your first children, you're also under extra pressure while figuring out lots of things for the first time, like breastfeeding, potty training, how you will discipline, etc.
Any couple who discovers they are pregnant with twins should map out their support network, take classes for parenting infant twins (ask your ob/gyn or pediatricianwhere to find them) and should set aside time regular time to spend with eachother alone.
She is missing a big part. The apology. Supernanny has it better :)
Depends on how you look at it. I don't want to teach my child how to spit out and apology just cause she did something bad. That's literally teaching them to lie.
I love watching Suppernanny 😊
@@supklop1477 true they get so use to apologizing when they don't even mean it 🙍
yeah . never been a fan of super nanny. shock collars all around I say.
The apology is not really necessary.
Lots of nonintellectuals trying to speak against professionals for the sake of their own shortcomings in this comment section.
Justin dad stand against the 🚪 so he can't get out his room
THATS CHEATING!!
And I watched this i was like wtf
My daughter never tantrumed not once my son is a terror.
Oh my god, Jessica, why did you go back in and pick him up. Your there for a reason, ignore the tantrum. She just made it worse. Ugh, some parents should not be parents. I'm a nanny of 14 yrs. Trust me I use these methods and they work. Pay attention when they do good, ignore when they are bad. Simple. It's not rocket science.
TWDSUPERFAN2010 1986 saying that some people should not be parents isn’t very helpful, everyone is capable of improvement and that’s what they are trying to do here - and to me that’s a sign of a great parent, caring enough to put themselves out there to try and be better
Seriously? There are so many kids who get abused and murdered by parents, i wish all kids had "terrible" parents like the ones on this show. Being a nanny is not the same as being a parent 24/7. Get off your high horse.
Are you serious? These are two very loving parents that are struggling with twins, they just need help on how to parent their children.
People who abuse and kill their children those are the people who should never have a child.
Sometimes kids needs hugs when they are having a meltdown. I hugged an autistic kid that had a meltdown in Sunday school and he got over it and found him a snack he liked he was upset because I didn’t have the same snack. Autistic kids get upset easily when something is different.
Mel B Dante is a brat not autistic. You don't reward tantrums and Dante is having tantrums.
Leave those kids with me for a week. I can fix that.
SAME, HERE!
Oh watch out über-moms to the rescue
Lmao
NorthShoreMoana 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
NorthShoreMoana 🙄
@@saraswinerton7202
You seem to need attention.
That poor little boy Dante is crying because he is in a brand new place, probably with new food and new people are there. Ignoring is not helping, people forget kids don’t have emotional regulation. They are not adults that can just get over it, all he wanted was a hug (which the Dad finally gave) but the psychologist wouldn’t let them tend to him so he just cried and cried. I can’t stand when experts expect 2 yr olds to be emotionally mature.
MoonKat Me either
Its not about being emotionally mature. Its letting them cry when they are trying to use crying as a way of controlling their parents. If they are crying simply to get their own way, in not responding to that you are letting them know that crying wont work. Its not awe he fell, lets not pick him uo. Its no you cant hit me and no I wont pick you up because you didnt like me telling you no to something...
If that was true, kids would be going into such a mass hunger strike that every pizza/ice cream/junk food places and amusement parks on the face of the Earth, would be going out of business.
By the way, a 2-year-old is perfectly able to understand what the word "no" means.
And the boy didn't want a hug, he wanted to have everything done his way, as usual, or he'd have a fit until his parents caved in and completely lost control, which is the reason they ended up needing expert help, in case you missed the whole point of this series.
Shows like this annoy me because I wish my child would lol
What happend to the kid who swore,are we going to see that episode or not?
it`s American, I doubt it.
Kids need independence
They need tough love
Lmao remember this
Too many words, all the kids would hear is blah, blah, blah.
No use gurning wee boy
All he wanted was a hug I was right
You don't shout at your kids
The background music is a constant distraction!!!!
Public marriage counseling isn't a good idea. I just don't see how that's beneficial, if anything it feels like it makes things uncomfortable. The lady with the short soccer mom hair seems like she can't just forgive her husband and move on.
Taking the children out of their regular environment is going to cause behaviour...
OMG that's so sad that Renee was close to being there on 9/11
**gacha life treated like a baby has entered the chat**
You put the kids in a house full of toys and fun things to do galore and then expect kids that young to sit and eat and not play?...maybe not the best environment to help kids behavior, just saying
stupid u
Lol thats the point. Your child has to learn to behave amongst lifes distractions. If you put them in a white room sure they will eat, but they are not learning to eat.
I don't agree with your comment per se but I think putting a group of kids together that all have similar quirks/bad behavior isn't helping because there is a big chance that when one rebels another will falter in his good behavior. Now if they would have had those kids sit with behaved kids that's different. I just think there were too many problems from too many different little bodies in one room. Plus I wouldn't personally want to group my child with another that is a biter. I don't think that was very responsible. Granted, and I have seen this, biting can happen at a daycare as well but if the people orchestrating this already *know* he is a biter then I find it a bit disturbing they would knowingly put other kids at risk before they have found some resolution to his behavior.
Nonsense. Kids are surrounded by distractions all the time. They need to learn how to self-regulate even when toys are present. They go to school with fun things and friends there to distract them...they have to manage to do their work or eat lunch.
Nikki R my infant and toddler class can do it in the classroom, toddlers should be able to do it in their home environment
Their NOT baby because
There's no sense in that child just
Constantly screaming
To the top of his lungs only to get cuddles from dad (&mom) - it's just idiotic the way they beha e !!
Why is Elastic girl commentating
Oddy she looks familiar
Who is it
Elegantly Wasted
Karen Duffy
haaaaahhahhahahaa :)) elastic girl
This is way l don't want kids, there all rotten kids I'm 37
dante's mom keeps talking way to much
How can you 60% believe you either do or you don’t 🙄
Moral: Don't start a family.
This is weird
Reminds me of Supernanny
There all spoiled kids
This show is so full of bad advice making them almost as bad as the super nanny, no judgement on the parents they need better help.
Everyone parents different and find things that do and don't work cuz all kids are different there's no perfect parenting technique I agree
Fabulously vague criticism, from someone with fabulously vague expertise and experience.
What about Jaguar's father? How is he with him or is he involved?
Jaguar 😂😂😂😂
BAD PARENTING
- ROY
Just realized, the house is manly all boys, except for one girl. Why are the boys so dramatic. They always act as if someone is killing them.
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My mom always said my older brother was the one who had horrible tantrums as a baby/toddler. He didn’t care where he was and some of his worst were in the isles of the grocery store. Where as I never had a single tantrum and even if I got hurt and fell I never cried, I would just get up, say ow and continue running around like nothing happened. My parents were relieved I was such an easy baby especially cause my brother is 2 years and 3 months apart from me. I don’t know if it was circumstantial that boys tend to be attention seekers and dramatic when they’re little and girls not so much but 9 times out of 10 it ends up that way.
Worked at a daycare a while, yeah younger boys were the drama queens, then as they get older its the girls who takeover with that. Now that isn't true for all of them and there are always exeptions.
Small sample size for that assumption.
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6:31 ummmm
Kid no bad lising to me.behind your kid
Translator please
Was this from bing translate?
Should have got Super Nanny! These people aren't that much of a help to these families!
That's the dumbest thing to critisize a mom who goes to her crying child. And be like "omg! Why did you go to him & "reward" his behaviour? Didnt you see your husband ignoring him all this time?"
I wanna smack the psychologist lady. If your child is crying and shaking, what they need is assurance and security. How would you feel if all of a sudden you felt scared and insecure and didnt know what to do or how to control your feelings. The only thing he can do is let his feelings out & cry. And you're calling this "bad behaviour". Do you really actually expect this scared and confused child to out aside all of his feelings, wipe his nose and tears and decide "hmm, I think they want me to eat this breakfast, maybe then theyll love me again".
Complete BS! The parents should be told to chill out with meal times. If he wants to go out and play instead of eating, then let him. Have regular meal times and snack times & he'll figure out that he was hungry when he didnt eat breakfast. Children aren't dumb, they learn from the natural consequences instead of utter manipulation.
If continued, this manipulation of parents doesnt stop. This reinforces the concept of conditional love. If you're "good", I will love you, if you're not then my love is no longer for you. Children are always looking and learning & they'll learn that they cant trust the parents. I mean if that's what you want your children to learn, then that's your thing.
Basic point, when your child needs you, why deny him/her.
If you want to stop a bad habit, then think about how you are promoting this habit. Children normally have habits that we help them form
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LoL hand em over to adoption,
Lising your yaya
He needs a hug needs to calmed down you mean person you
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They probably have a allergy to the food (I have forgotten the name but its similar to anorexia and is a source of anxiety to them).... they should take them to a doctor 8:20 not this stupid show.... they are not doing it for attention. If a child is hungry they will eat and if they are picky and extremely picky something is wrong.
🙄 let me guess...you have an allergy to WiFi and mold
Jas Hobbs If his bad behavior was *ONLY* present during meal time, I’d maybe agree that it should be looked into further medically, to rule out any underlying problems, but that doesn’t seem to be the case here. His behavioral problems are clearly present in every area of his day to day life, and getting this behavior under control is exactly what needs to be done, because it is certainly not a healthy way to be raised. Most children experience some degree of pickiness at some point in their lives, and most of the time it has absolutely *nothing* to do with the food itself or a health issue, it has to do with *control.* Kids are incredibly smart, and they know the right buttons to push to manipulate their parents, get their way, and seek out attention (good or bad).
Food is a common and easy thing for them to use as leverage, because it works. Parents are often scared of their child going hungry or starving themselves, but it’s rare for a child to go over 24 hours without giving in and eating the food offered to them, even if it’s food they don’t like the taste of. And unfortunately, sometimes the issue has gotten so out of hand with parents who have always given into their child’s demands, that it resorts to a child needing to go up to 24 hours without eating the food that is placed in front of them, until the child eventually gives in and eats the food they were refusing and throwing a tantrum over, thus learning that they are not in control and that they are expected to eat and be thankful for the food placed in front of them. Very rarely does a child make it to that 24 hour mark without giving in. While that may seem extreme, an otherwise healthy child CAN go that long without choosing to eat the food available before it becomes a danger to them (we aren’t talking about restricting fluids). It’s also important to note that you are not withholding food from your child during this exercise, you are still offering and keeping the original meal the child is protesting, and they WILL eventually eat it, because hunger will win out eventually. This exercise of not giving into food demands over that long of a time period is not intended to be done on a regular basis either, and it shouldnt have to be, as parents usually only need to do this once before the child gets the message that they no longer have total control mealtime. Like I said, if these kinds of outbursts and behavioral issues are *only* revolving around meals, then parents should definitely check with their child’s doctor to be certain, but this is usually not the case when behavioral issues carry over to other aspects of life.
I myself was raised to eat and appreciate the food that was placed in front of me, and I was never made a special meal. When I was young and I first tried testing the waters to see if I could get my way and eat what I demanded, my mother had none of it. I was expected to sit at the dinner table while everyone ate, and if I didn’t finish my plate, it would be wrapped up and put in the fridge. Later on, when I would complain of hunger (hoping to play on her emotions to get my way), my mother would get out that same plate of food and warm it up for me to eat. If I refused, the same process repeated. Eventually, as most children will do in this situation, I would give in and eat what was on my plate, and I learned *very* quickly that refusing the meal I was served was not going to change anything. I understood that I wouldn’t have a special meal made in addition to what was already prepared for me, and I realized that protesting a meal wasn’t going to get me anywhere, because I would eventually cave in and eat that food later on when my need of hunger overweighed my stubborn defiance and attempted manipulation. Now, for the items of food that my mother could clearly tell that I disliked the taste of, whether that be a side dish or main meal component, I was only expected to take three normal sized bites before I was able to leave the table. My mother wasn’t cruel about it either, as she made sure that the foods I disliked the taste of weren’t the only foods on my plate, but she made a point to include the foods I disliked often, as tastebuds can change with time. I would have never ended up *loving* broccoli if it wasn’t for her three bite rule, even though it took me several years to like the taste of it. In my opinion, this is how every child should be raised. I find it ridiculous when parents claim that their child will never eat what they are given because they are too picky, and so then they result to eating a PB&J for every single meal, made specially just for them in addition to the food already prepared for the rest of the family. Of course that is what a child will want when faced with new experiences of trying foods, and they have learned that you will cave in and give it to them! Pickiness is an excuse for both the child and the parent. Children need to learn to respect their parent’s time, money, and efforts with the food that was made and served, and they also need to know that they are not the ones in charge. Being relaxed at mealtime and letting your kid call the shots is doing just the opposite of that.
Perhaps the boy in this video wasn’t hungry, but I would be very surprised if that was the case, given his behavior elsewhere. He is on this program to learn, just as the parents are, and respect at ALL times, including meal time, is what should be expected of him. This exercise and the discipline that followed, in response to him trying to manipulate the situation and call the shots, was not harmful to him in any way. His cries are not coming from pain, they are coming from his parents finally taking back control and authority, something it seems he has managed to have in his possession his entire young life, through no fault of his own. As the proper parenting methods are put into place and used consistently, he is continuing to show progress and is adapting to no longer being in control over his parents; signaling that his behaviors have nothing to do with any underlying medical factors, but rather it’s the parenting that is the problem. I’m so happy to see that these parents are putting their own pride aside to become a better parent to their children, as that is definitely not an easy thing to do, especially with the whole world watching. I hope that their success carried over after the show, and I wish them nothing but the best! 💕
Hope you have a good day! 😊
Yes and kids need calming when they cry. I teach an autistic child in Sunday school snd he has had a melt down before I calmed him got him a snack he liked and went on about teaching him. Do you think I would just let an autistic child run off to the bathroom to cry because I didn’t have the same snack no I dealt with it and gave him what he needed a hug and told him I was sorry and it will be okay.
Maybe colitis or ibs too maybe the kid is constipated.
Allergy to food similar to anorexia? Lmfaooo you evidently dont know what anorexia is
Millennials keep it simple whole generation of parents that don't know how to parent WTF