Exactly one year of limerence, seeing her with someone else gave me near death experience , and made me snap out of limerence ... Watching this for old days sake ... You helped me a lot through my hell , and I'm thankful ma'am 😚
Was stuck in the waiting.. they chose someone else but I was stuck waiting… finally accepted I wasn’t chosen and im moving on💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🎉 thank you Evita. It’s okay to accept rejection. The best is yet to come
I’m learning to say no in my head to the fantasies and to see truth and love myself and allow real relationships, mostly friendship right now. I go to SLAA. It’s helpful
I am not capable of changing... i will also not set up myself anymore to fall into limerence... life has always eluded me... i am just different than other people...
Limerence is safe and controllable. Real mutual love is dangerous. I can’t handle real love because I fear engulfment. It’s just unfair to the LO. Thanks for the epiphany. How do I learn to tolerate real love and closeness?
6:31 i am not spending more time with them in my head than i do in real time 9:22 boundaries with self look like: i do not accept to waste more time of my life “waiting” & i am ready to look into myself for the reasons that this waiting has been consuming so much of my life 14:03 someone who 17:03
My reaction to the 13:57 - 14:13 segment… haha ouch. I’ve watched many videos on limerence but fwck this one was the… tough love video 😅 which says it all considering the effect it’s having on me 😭😞 thank you so much for this video and honestly helping me wake up a lot. This video has stung me 😖 for the better for sure 😭🥹🥺
Thank you so much for your videos. Very well explained. I have however one question " is limerence the same as eurothomania " ? will much appreciate your answer
I was with my limerent person for 2 years. We had been in love for years, but didn't know why on either end. Love at first sight. We broke up after 2 years of dating...now I'm stuck with this obsession and she is long gone. We carried feeling for each other almost 8 years prior any of this and were not any where near each other. She loved in a different state. What happened here?
My anxiety created an unhealthy dynamic with someone I dated for 2 months who ended up breaking it off saying he ‘didn’t develop any feelings’ and that ‘it isn’t healthy for me and him to continue’ I was distraught and pretty much in denial, I think I developed limerence after the breakup as it’s been almost 5 months and I am still wracked with the same kind of feelings of despair I had in the past with LOs that I never even dated or sometimes talked to Is it usual for someone who is prone to limerence to develop one for someone who broke up with them?
I've been in this state for 17 months and there's no getting out for me. What do I do. Please help me guys? She's given me zero chance and I want to get over but I can't. It's taken a huge toll on my life. I can't focus on anything now. Anyone there please help
You have to go no contact which includes looking at their socials or any pictures or anything that remotely reminds you of them for a start. This combined with time, sadly there is no quick fix but it slowly gets better.
Because they are not aware that it is a sickness, like limerence isn’t well known. They just think the other person isn’t bad so they keep them around.
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I’m crying while watching this, I need to do better for myself. 🙏🏾
It's so sad. Unrequited love. Unfulfilled. Very very sad and lonely this life is.
Yes, not waiting for no crumbs! Gotta go look for the whole cake!
Exactly one year of limerence, seeing her with someone else gave me near death experience , and made me snap out of limerence ... Watching this for old days sake ... You helped me a lot through my hell , and I'm thankful ma'am 😚
Well at least something snapped you out of it. Sorry it had to be so painful.
@@rockrecordreport7136 Thanks ... 💚
Seeing him with someone else has caused me grief unimaginable, torturous pain that I do not think is normal. I dread the day it happens again.
Will check out the course. Thank you. Was worthless and treated like trash as a kid by both parents. Makes sense why I behave this way.
Agree, what's done is done. Even yesterday cannot be undone.
Was stuck in the waiting.. they chose someone else but I was stuck waiting… finally accepted I wasn’t chosen and im moving on💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🎉 thank you Evita. It’s okay to accept rejection. The best is yet to come
I’m learning to say no in my head to the fantasies and to see truth and love myself and allow real relationships, mostly friendship right now. I go to SLAA. It’s helpful
I am not capable of changing... i will also not set up myself anymore to fall into limerence... life has always eluded me... i am just different than other people...
Limerence is love without vulnerability. Love without vulnerability is manipulation.
Limerence is safe and controllable. Real mutual love is dangerous. I can’t handle real love because I fear engulfment. It’s just unfair to the LO. Thanks for the epiphany.
How do I learn to tolerate real love and closeness?
6:31 i am not spending more time with them in my head than i do in real time
9:22 boundaries with self look like: i do not accept to waste more time of my life “waiting” & i am ready to look into myself for the reasons that this waiting has been consuming so much of my life
14:03 someone who
17:03
I needed to hear all this and it came just at the right time... thank you! Probably gonna watch it again
As an older adult - to have emphasis on this is awesome - it fills gaps for many in mental health. Thx.
My reaction to the 13:57 - 14:13 segment… haha ouch. I’ve watched many videos on limerence but fwck this one was the… tough love video 😅 which says it all considering the effect it’s having on me 😭😞 thank you so much for this video and honestly helping me wake up a lot.
This video has stung me 😖 for the better for sure 😭🥹🥺
Your truly amazing. I have heard limerance explained but your way of deliverance is amazing. You impact. Thank you so much!❤
i always find limerence happens with someone i work with
All I can say is Wow! I needed to hear this and you blew the explanation away! I'm definitely interested in taking one of your courses.
I need this course. Half way through healing but I’d like to Patti in it😋😊😊😊
You're wonderful Evita.🙏🏻 Thank you
“We go out and make movies” 🤣
God bless your heart. 😂💞
So eye-opening and healing🙏 Thank you Evita!
i love this. yes the root and solution lies in self worth
Thank you for the useful solutions 🙏
Wonderful!
Thank you...
😢 truth hurts
Thank you so much for your videos. Very well explained.
I have however one question " is limerence the same as eurothomania " ?
will much appreciate your answer
I was with my limerent person for 2 years. We had been in love for years, but didn't know why on either end. Love at first sight. We broke up after 2 years of dating...now I'm stuck with this obsession and she is long gone. We carried feeling for each other almost 8 years prior any of this and were not any where near each other. She loved in a different state. What happened here?
My anxiety created an unhealthy dynamic with someone I dated for 2 months who ended up breaking it off saying he ‘didn’t develop any feelings’ and that ‘it isn’t healthy for me and him to continue’
I was distraught and pretty much in denial, I think I developed limerence after the breakup as it’s been almost 5 months and I am still wracked with the same kind of feelings of despair I had in the past with LOs that I never even dated or sometimes talked to
Is it usual for someone who is prone to limerence to develop one for someone who broke up with them?
Yes very usual. Some people even get limerent over people they haven't met like actors.
@@aroyals339 yes this used to happen all throughout my childhood into my twenties, I would fall in limerence with actors, celebrities, musicians etc.
I've been in this state for 17 months and there's no getting out for me. What do I do. Please help me guys? She's given me zero chance and I want to get over but I can't. It's taken a huge toll on my life. I can't focus on anything now. Anyone there please help
You have to go no contact which includes looking at their socials or any pictures or anything that remotely reminds you of them for a start. This combined with time, sadly there is no quick fix but it slowly gets better.
Why do limerant objects participate in limerant relationships when they do? It’s just as sick as a person objectifying them.
Because they are not aware that it is a sickness, like limerence isn’t well known. They just think the other person isn’t bad so they keep them around.
please stop believing this.
Love, love, love blah blah blah I bet you can’t even define what you mean by love when you say the word.