I love my lovely wife so much . Any shape . Any age . Any conditions. Because I married her to be with her in Donya and Akhira with mercy and blessings of Allah . I love her endless. She is the first precious lady to me in this world . Alhamdullilah I am blessed to have a such sweet kind loyal wife . Alhamdullilah Masha Allah . I can't wait to be father sooner . In Shaa Allah Pray for me guys . May Allah Grant to me good babies and all Muslims and Non Muslims. Ameen .
I agree with everything you said and I’m very happy to see how you feel about your wife mashaa Allah. However I don’t agree with one thing and that is that your mother should be the first precious lady in your life and then your wife.
This video is so important! I don't understand, how can a man disregard his wife after a change in her figure? Didn't he marry her because of her character? May Allah SWT guide us all. 💖
it happens. A man wont share a good word with his wife bt will be quick in telling and praising other women how beautiful they are..I wish men knew how much that hurts a woman's self esteem
@@OmarMohamed-qx1vq Yes, Beauty never lasts! Subhanallah that's how Allah made our bodies. And the whole world. When you pick a flower because of its beauty, it will eventually become brown and wilted.
If Allah ever gave me a wife...I wouldn't take her for granted inshallah. Some guys have it easy, get married early with no problems and blow it. For some of my fellow brothers who are having a hard time getting married like me...remember the hard times! You'll be more grateful for when Allah finally grants your prayer for a wife!
Many men forget that they got married to start a family, and once your wife bear that child and start up the family, you look for another women and ruin your house, instead, stand by her side and help her to get back in her shape, show her that you are a caring person, and praise Allah for giving you a beautiful healthful child
shipwrech909 this is exactly what I’m telling my self. If my wife ever becomes fatter, I’d do anything to help her get back into shape. I’d register her in a gym even
These issues are so important to communicate openly and fairly. Most women can and do get back into shape. I say this as a mother of two and sat here now 8 months pregnant. Support and care for your wife so she can take care of herself and her home and above all have sabr for that initial 1/2 year period. Do not shame husbands for feeling what is natural but support them to manage and improve their marital relationships. Talk to your wife, have a shared diet and exercise plan. Us women also love to feel and look good. It is better for our well being and mental health. Don't be complacent in these matters and care and support each others needs and wants in a healthy loving way to preserve your marriage and the home of your children.
May the Rahma of Allah be a constant reminder of this life in the dunya. Just like stretch marks which I also bear nothing in this dunya last forever. May Allah through his Infinite Rahma guide us ALL to a better understanding of the true meaning of marriage and supporting each other.May HE also guide us closer to Jannah through our every day struggles. May HE make this life a lesson as well as a Mercy and May HE continue to use men like Mufti Menk to remind us that we are all human.Ameen Ameen Thumma Ameen
This is one of many reasons why I converted to Islam. Allah bless us women in every aspect of our lives. Christianity, Judaism and all others curse women.
MashaAllah. But you reverted or returned to Islam sister. Remember all of us are Muslims before we come to this world. May Allah keep all of us on the straight path. Ameen
today i happen to come across a tweet for a woman who is away from her family and her husband didn’t allow her to go to her family during her Postpartum period and instead of staying with her and comforting her he was out all day playing with his friends and she was dealing with Antepartum depression what made me sad is the comments of men saying that she is overreacting and that he need his time away from her and some comments of people saying when their wife give birth they go marry another one or leave her till the baby starts walking.
Also after a woman who gives birth her hormones are all over the place and your very very emotional, so if you say something thats going to hurt them its going hurt even more and most likely they will cry.
@@muhamaddanial5376 sorry i only so ur comment now... ar.islamway.net/fatwa/18048/%D9%85%D8%A7-%D8%AD%D9%83%D9%85-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AA%D8%B5%D9%88%D9%8A%D8%B1
@@muhamaddanial5376 . The first part: to be in the hand there is no doubt that it is forbidden and that it is one of the major sins, as it was stated in it from the extreme promise, such as the hadith of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them, that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: " (narrated by Muslim), Article link: iswy.co/e3tbi
My cat have last sunday 4 babies cats she fell much jeaulous of yours babies. . But is lovely see Mother cat give Milk for your little cats This is a blessing. .. Thanks my Allah. .
in this time it is difficult to trust people, you can't trust youre own husband anymore. especially now that there is internet and men can talk to other women more easily online. no one can be trusted, only allah. I only have Allah. I have a husband at home that I can't even trust anymore. he has so often damaged my faith in him
Such a beautiful and important talk, mashAllah. The animations are absolutely stunning, its so important to make such videos to attract our youth! May Allah protect the animation team and Mufti Menk, Ameen.
I dont know who these men are who forsake their wives. I'm sorry for the wife. Alhamdullilah my husband only has eyes for me. He is so sweet and gentle and kind and cares for me every way. I think more men are like my husband. I think men who look at other women or forsake their wives are corrupted by western culture that objectifies women
Very beautiful JazakAllahKhair...please make video for women. I have good hubby we have been together 4 years and when we or i find problem i fuss him. I am guilty of fussing him down. And he goes away silently. I feel i am pushing him away we make up immediatly every time but he says to me recently. "Baby tell me if i make u sad or how many more years will u fuss on me?" I felt terrible so bad and i havent fussed on him in weeks now. He is very good man to me. He takes care of all my needs even if i make silly requests. I pray that Allah forgives me and continue to help me recognize and be grateful for who i have bc i dont want to lose him.
Salaam I just seen this video it makes me cry my ex husband only married me so he can have a son after our son was born he tried to kill me and him and his family wanted to take my child India.
Wa lakiuem us salaam, That is horrible. I kinda feel your pain. Just remember we all have our own trial or tribulations. I will pray for you In Sha Allah. And may he also make my trial easy.
There's none better than Allah (SWT).Entrust your life fully on Him.Remember it's a trial from Him.Dedicate yourself to Him and pray that He helps you through it.For He is the sufficient and eble One.
And i cried. Yes, im a mom too. And just before watching this, a friend of mine calling me up, broken, when she just acknowledge she just got pregnant with her fifth baby. From the eldest they were all poor spaced, andeverything she did by herself. Her husband doesnt really care how tired and exhausted and painful she has to face everytime. And her husband scold and scream at her, rejecting the pregnancy. I was so overwhelmed and mad. She did have contraceptive, but failed. her husband cannot simply said that. I just cried. Im so sorry for her. I know that feeling.
@KHABIB TIME!!!no need to be harsh. Just shared whats happening in real life of mine where you, sir, doesnt hv any idea of how it feels cz ur not the victim. U think u so great isnt it.
Why does someone marry the woman for her body??? If he didnt marry for her body then why has problems with her fat body after pregnancy?? I seriously don't understand.
Yeah, he's not supposed to see her figure before the wedding -- only the face, hair, neck, and part of the forearm and forelegs below mid-calf. These parts are sensual, pleasing to look at and maybe triggering fantasy of touch, but they are not sexual like the area from shoulders to knees, nor would they indicate her body fat %. Unfortunately, in some cultures, men get around this rule by sending their mahram to check out her features. The wife of my maternal uncle in India was infertile, and it pissed me off royally that some family members actually thought that if a woman had gone to visit her during the proposal, she might have been able to detect the infertility by the shape of her breasts. First of all, who checks out a woman's breasts like that?! Secondly, the ignorance that a lay woman can diagnose infertility like that is appalling.
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It’s stupid how about you take care of the child so she could go to gym or prepare healthy diet with her and workout with her it’s Teamate relationship not one sided
How about giving her timeout to adjust to her new routine & just support her when she needs it. Let it be her choice if she wants to go to the gym. It's not just about getting back into shape asap. Some women suffer from PND after birth too.
Some women give more importance to children than husband but some men are evil and cruel as well. DONT blame non muslim society blame people character & personality.
Asalam o alaikum.respected mufti Muhammad Ismail menk.your lecture goes directly in my 💓 heart.one think came in my mind.right now after listening this lecture.what?if a husband got a very beautiful wife who do above and beyond to please her husband,and despite gvn her respect she deserves not love ok and all the years is buzy in praising other women in a cheap way making her feel jealous to that extent that her heart start's feeling the highest pain.sir please guide me in your eyes what you think in this pain full situation what a wife should do,and that husband is not ready to change As he thinks He is perfect.i can't tell you the pain when instead of appreciating she gets insult.though ALLAH SUBHA NAL T'ALA has made her soo beautiful and much much better than him in every aspect.anxiously I would wait for your expert opinion.jaza kal ALLAH 🙏
This happens to women but not shared! Why do men blame women on getting pregnant? Isn't it the Lord's will? And the worst part is emotionally torturing a woman for 9 months..May Allah give patience to women who go through this!🙏
As Salam walekum. One of my frnd had a affair with other woman than his wife because she had now 2 kids and she can't give him time the way she use too. That other woman directly said she just want living relation and not intention to marry. Very sad
That is the reason why I always try my best to be in good shape n always take care of my looks... and so on...But.. .there is a catch here...I wear the same Bermudas n t shirt for 3 or 4 days bfor changing to clean ones.... Errr. Sometimes hubby would point this out but then I heck care cos I wear what is simple but comfy.
In American culture a husband can include a weight clause in a prenup meaning she has a max weight she can achieve this is only one bizarre clause you can include in your prenup
Why shouldn't? She is your wife for God's sake.. It's your duty to Protect and give nafkah to her.. With or without a child.. Marriage is not only about having children
My husband is loving and caring but he shows interest in other women because they have perfect body long hair... I don't have perfect body shape like internet girls.. I don't have very long and shiny hair like his jethani... my jeth used to make my laugh because of my hair are thin and not so beautiful... it really hurts😔
This is why women should preserve Hijab & keep there beauty for there husbands. We should not mix in with men folk and there eyes will not wonder. Some simple changes make life very simple & beautiful. Everyone is beautiful in there own way. Nothing lasts forever 💖💖💖
Crazy Driver Alhamdulilah I am a hijabi... but in now a days all the men wants girls having perfect body shape and perfect color ... and this mentality has evolved specially because of internet that shows all type of beautiful and perfect girls all over the world
banana aya playa where did you get this ridiculous logic from I don’t wear a hijab but I fully disagree with your your hair are either down to genetics or your lack of care and allot of women wearing hijab stop taking care of their hair thinking they are covered now no one can see them, everyone I know has very thick hair because they all wash with very cold water many women don’t know hot water aids hair loss
Masrat Javid this isn’t good to wish upon yourself!!! i’m pregnant as well but would never want to die like this leaving my child without a mother. sister, please don’t be selfish... dying during labor isn’t the only way you’re guaranteed the jannah, there are plenty of ways we could die for the sake of Allah and we would be guaranteed the jannah... so why wish to leave your child motherless. maybe you didn’t think about it like this and Allah knows best! ❤️
I’m not Muslim but that video is so important and should be taught to every man
I undrstnd...
May Allah give you hidayah brother
It looks like ع which is pronounced as عين, the arab word for eye
I agree
@Just my Comments May Allah SWT guide you and show you tha righteous path ♡ Blessings xx
Sitting on the floor with my five month old, with tears streaming down my face
Ya Allah, please help us
You ok now? Mind giving an update
How are you doing now? Are u ok?
Are you okay sister😢
Are u okay???
Where do u live sister i wanna help ??
I love my lovely wife so much .
Any shape .
Any age .
Any conditions.
Because I married her to be with her in Donya and Akhira with mercy and blessings of Allah .
I love her endless.
She is the first precious lady to me in this world .
Alhamdullilah I am blessed to have a such sweet kind loyal wife .
Alhamdullilah
Masha Allah .
I can't wait to be father sooner .
In Shaa Allah
Pray for me guys .
May Allah Grant to me good babies and all Muslims and Non Muslims.
Ameen .
It will be beautiful if you tell your wife all this ...or show her this text I mean the one you have typed
Assalamualaikum
Ameen bro.
Dua:Nd gave them the knowledge which is benefits them in dunya as well as in akhirah
I agree with everything you said and I’m very happy to see how you feel about your wife mashaa Allah. However I don’t agree with one thing and that is that your mother should be the first precious lady in your life and then your wife.
@@ioannam.5286 1. Mother 2. Sisters (biologically) and then your wife
Masha Allah
This video is so important! I don't understand, how can a man disregard his wife after a change in her figure? Didn't he marry her because of her character? May Allah SWT guide us all. 💖
it happens. A man wont share a good word with his wife bt will be quick in telling and praising other women how beautiful they are..I wish men knew how much that hurts a woman's self esteem
a lot of guys just marry because of beauty. Too bad they don't know that that doesn't last.
@@OmarMohamed-qx1vq you know its common in India most of the man marry because of beauty.
I respect women in any condition
@@OmarMohamed-qx1vq Yes, Beauty never lasts! Subhanallah that's how Allah made our bodies. And the whole world. When you pick a flower because of its beauty, it will eventually become brown and wilted.
If Allah ever gave me a wife...I wouldn't take her for granted inshallah. Some guys have it easy, get married early with no problems and blow it. For some of my fellow brothers who are having a hard time getting married like me...remember the hard times! You'll be more grateful for when Allah finally grants your prayer for a wife!
Korra in sha Allah brother, also spell in sha Allah like this otherwise it changes the meaning
In Shaa Allah you will have sooner by mercy and blessings of Allah .
May Allah Grant you a good Wife and All of singles.
Ameen
Korra have you been blessed yet?
Hope your wishes came through
Me too can't get guys
Many men forget that they got married to start a family, and once your wife bear that child and start up the family, you look for another women and ruin your house, instead, stand by her side and help her to get back in her shape, show her that you are a caring person, and praise Allah for giving you a beautiful healthful child
shipwrech909 this is exactly what I’m telling my self. If my wife ever becomes fatter, I’d do anything to help her get back into shape. I’d register her in a gym even
shipwrech909 this is exactly what I’m telling my self
Well said
This man is amazing!!!!! He is changing the negative minds that have misused Islam
These issues are so important to communicate openly and fairly. Most women can and do get back into shape. I say this as a mother of two and sat here now 8 months pregnant. Support and care for your wife so she can take care of herself and her home and above all have sabr for that initial 1/2 year period.
Do not shame husbands for feeling what is natural but support them to manage and improve their marital relationships. Talk to your wife, have a shared diet and exercise plan. Us women also love to feel and look good. It is better for our well being and mental health. Don't be complacent in these matters and care and support each others needs and wants in a healthy loving way to preserve your marriage and the home of your children.
Why do their eyes look like the Arabic alphabet: Hamzah lol😂
You asked for it cause it's fun and it's not haram
Affan Sami I never said it was...
Yesdd i was about to say that too...maybe because it's a sin to draw real eyes😮
cute scientist1001 yeah, it’s shirk to draw someone’s facial features or any living things
But this video is alright since it’s for a good cause and they replaced the eyes with something else
I wish my future husband can see this 😊😊😊 may Allah Grant me pious and lovely husband Ameen 😊💗
I saw this🤣
Summa Ameen🥰
Ameen
I wish my current husband could see this lol
May the Rahma of Allah be a constant reminder of this life in the dunya. Just like stretch marks which I also bear nothing in this dunya last forever. May Allah through his Infinite Rahma guide us ALL to a better understanding of the true meaning of marriage and supporting each other.May HE also guide us closer to Jannah through our every day struggles. May HE make this life a lesson as well as a Mercy and May HE continue to use men like Mufti Menk to remind us that we are all human.Ameen Ameen Thumma Ameen
Amen 🙏 sis
Wow u r ugly
This is one of many reasons why I converted to Islam. Allah bless us women in every aspect of our lives. Christianity, Judaism and all others curse women.
Alhamdulillah 😁✨
Alhamdulilah
I hope everyone see how good Islam is
MashaAllah.
But you reverted or returned to Islam sister.
Remember all of us are Muslims before we come to this world.
May Allah keep all of us on the straight path. Ameen
Allah knows best. But this is what I have heard.
@@Pandora21285 lol then can u explain y in the bible it says that King Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines?
Its so easy to please your wife. May Allah guide us all
fatma Mrisho just love them
I love all of the lectures of mufti menk. May Allah grant me to meet him one day. Love from...
Bangladesh.!
Oh.. Why always men are doing that If I were married I'll take care of my wife and I'll make her queen wlhi... May Allah give me good wife
Rukzbliss mohz. Jzkallah
Rukzbliss mohz are you man or woman?
Rukzbliss mohz mashallah are you single or....?
Rukzbliss mohz hhhh don't wonder it a part of questions
Rukzbliss mohz that sound is good
today i happen to come across a tweet for a woman who is away from her family and her husband didn’t allow her to go to her family during her Postpartum period and instead of staying with her and comforting her he was out all day playing with his friends and she was dealing with Antepartum depression what made me sad is the comments of men saying that she is overreacting and that he need his time away from her and some comments of people saying when their wife give birth they go marry another one or leave her till the baby starts walking.
Alhamdulilaah i got married with already having fat and flabs😂 i love my husband ♥️♥️
This made me laugh 😂.
I have 4 kids now and Alhur
Alhumdulilla for all the fats and marks lol
Lol 😂
lmao
i wish the video is even more longer because its mind opening to watch
U can search for a videos related to same concern u can get many videos ....... But select mufti menk video and watch it 👍😊
This is lovely she gave for his a beautiful baby..and your husband very fall in lovely with your wife..
This is a bless...
Also after a woman who gives birth her hormones are all over the place and your very very emotional, so if you say something thats going to hurt them its going hurt even more and most likely they will cry.
Not just when giving birth but also while pregnant or while on period. Men seriously need to be educated on this
I just realized that their eyes are Hamzas lol
hahahaha
Yah me too, because it's haram do design the eyes.
@@katiakati4771 why is it haram to design such eyes?
@@muhamaddanial5376 sorry i only so ur comment now... ar.islamway.net/fatwa/18048/%D9%85%D8%A7-%D8%AD%D9%83%D9%85-%D8%A7%D9%84%D8%AA%D8%B5%D9%88%D9%8A%D8%B1
@@muhamaddanial5376 . The first part: to be in the hand there is no doubt that it is forbidden and that it is one of the major sins, as it was stated in it from the extreme promise, such as the hadith of Ibn Abbas, may God be pleased with them, that the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said: " (narrated by Muslim), Article link: iswy.co/e3tbi
Oh!! Allah grants every woman a righteous husband who cares her wife at any shape.....just love her not only her beauty...... ...
Very informative video. Everyone must watch it.
My cat have last sunday 4 babies cats she fell much jeaulous of yours babies. .
But is lovely see Mother cat give Milk for your little cats
This is a blessing. ..
Thanks my Allah. .
Alhamdullillah as a Muslim we are able to get this information through your channel , may Allah bless you.
in this time it is difficult to trust people, you can't trust youre own husband anymore. especially now that there is internet and men can talk to other women more easily online. no one can be trusted, only allah. I only have Allah. I have a husband at home that I can't even trust anymore. he has so often damaged my faith in him
I am sorry you have to go through this. You're right, some men have no manners in this day and age.
Maybe u r right but u shouldn't show him that u don't trust him even if u do cuz this will just make it wosre
May Allah bless us all
you need to work on those trust issues
May Allah make me easier to conceive. Aamiin.
Umi Latifah Ameen, inshallah Allah will bless you with a child. I will make dua for you sister
Ameen
Such a beautiful and important talk, mashAllah. The animations are absolutely stunning, its so important to make such videos to attract our youth! May Allah protect the animation team and Mufti Menk, Ameen.
So well ellustrated...short and informative videos
I dont know who these men are who forsake their wives. I'm sorry for the wife. Alhamdullilah my husband only has eyes for me. He is so sweet and gentle and kind and cares for me every way. I think more men are like my husband. I think men who look at other women or forsake their wives are corrupted by western culture that objectifies women
Inshallah we all get a good husband Ameen
May Allah protect your love from evil eyes....🙏
Lucky you
LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My husband is very caring for me I m so Lucky alhamdulillah
Very beautiful JazakAllahKhair...please make video for women. I have good hubby we have been together 4 years and when we or i find problem i fuss him. I am guilty of fussing him down. And he goes away silently. I feel i am pushing him away we make up immediatly every time but he says to me recently. "Baby tell me if i make u sad or how many more years will u fuss on me?" I felt terrible so bad and i havent fussed on him in weeks now. He is very good man to me. He takes care of all my needs even if i make silly requests. I pray that Allah forgives me and continue to help me recognize and be grateful for who i have bc i dont want to lose him.
Ameen
Islam is so peaceful religion.
I hope I find a great husband inshallah!
Inshallah
Salaam I just seen this video it makes me cry my ex husband only married me so he can have a son after our son was born he tried to kill me and him and his family wanted to take my child India.
Wa lakiuem us salaam, That is horrible. I kinda feel your pain. Just remember we all have our own trial or tribulations. I will pray for you In Sha Allah. And may he also make my trial easy.
Sister you have been through alot.. i hope you are doing well now, may Allah protect you
Salaam wa lakiuem. How are you doing? How are things
There's none better than Allah (SWT).Entrust your life fully on Him.Remember it's a trial from Him.Dedicate yourself to Him and pray that He helps you through it.For He is the sufficient and eble One.
OMG. Hope you escape soon, insha'Allah
May Allah giv understanding to all the husband..Thank u Mufti Menk
Im in love with the 'aan' Arabic alphabet as eyes.♥️
May Allah subhanwa Tallah bless all the Women with Honest ... humble......And loving Husband ameen
Dream World ameen thumma ameen
@@alishax3399 it's sumameen dear💕😊
Dream World no babe it’s a “thaa” not a “seen”
I’ve been a teacher in Arabic for many years and am qualified
@@alishax3399 oky..... Fine... Jazka Allah❤️
And i cried. Yes, im a mom too. And just before watching this, a friend of mine calling me up, broken, when she just acknowledge she just got pregnant with her fifth baby. From the eldest they were all poor spaced, andeverything she did by herself. Her husband doesnt really care how tired and exhausted and painful she has to face everytime. And her husband scold and scream at her, rejecting the pregnancy. I was so overwhelmed and mad. She did have contraceptive, but failed. her husband cannot simply said that. I just cried. Im so sorry for her. I know that feeling.
Did your friend didnt have relatives like father brothers or cousins tell them
@@salluayar4615 yes she have em, turns out, the husb actually hving an affair behind her. They no longer husb n wife now
@KHABIB TIME!!!no need to be harsh. Just shared whats happening in real life of mine where you, sir, doesnt hv any idea of how it feels cz ur not the victim. U think u so great isnt it.
Ma sha Allah very nice islamic lecture with very good meaning and intentions by my beloved muftie ismial menk.
May Allah give us common sense (Ameen)
To understand the Islam ☪️ more ❤️❤️😇😇
Why does someone marry the woman for her body??? If he didnt marry for her body then why has problems with her fat body after pregnancy?? I seriously don't understand.
EXACTLY .
Yeah, he's not supposed to see her figure before the wedding -- only the face, hair, neck, and part of the forearm and forelegs below mid-calf. These parts are sensual, pleasing to look at and maybe triggering fantasy of touch, but they are not sexual like the area from shoulders to knees, nor would they indicate her body fat %. Unfortunately, in some cultures, men get around this rule by sending their mahram to check out her features. The wife of my maternal uncle in India was infertile, and it pissed me off royally that some family members actually thought that if a woman had gone to visit her during the proposal, she might have been able to detect the infertility by the shape of her breasts. First of all, who checks out a woman's breasts like that?! Secondly, the ignorance that a lay woman can diagnose infertility like that is appalling.
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Y'all so nice I want to marry a person from this comment section wallah😂
Right 🥺🥺
May Allah bless you with peaceful love with your family
v well said its happening silently on mobiles and by keeping wife away
Thank you muftii menk..it was heart touching..
My husband got me pregnant and when i was five months he deny the baby and we divorce.....
That's a sad news but sister.. Take care of the child and make her feel loved.. May Allah bless u and ur child
God bless u and ur child
Hope tou find someone better
And raise your child to be a kind and humble little girl/boy
May allah be with you
May Allah punish him severely.
@@amai6076 Ameen
Beautiful instructions❤❤❤
It’s stupid how about you take care of the child so she could go to gym or prepare healthy diet with her and workout with her it’s Teamate relationship not one sided
How about giving her timeout to adjust to her new routine & just support her when she needs it. Let it be her choice if she wants to go to the gym. It's not just about getting back into shape asap. Some women suffer from PND after birth too.
Crazy Driver yes but I think it’s not bad to have you people to push you forward and to motivate you
Mashallah 😍 very great topic hats off
Thank you Mr. Mufti Menk❤️May God Bless you po.
I love Mufti Menk.
Husbands should learn that wives are still beautiful after giving birth. It's what the inside that counts.
الحمد لله رب العالمين .. اللهم لا اعتراض على قضاءك
Jazak Allah khairan Kaseera
May Allah make me good father
Reality...nice message .
May Allah guard you brother mufti menk
Alhamdulillah.Thank you
I think it would be better if u put the subtitle..I love all the videos of this channel. Love from malaysia :)
Beautiful Lecture. Subhanallah
This is very important for every men.But who don't know English,How they learn?Please please translated all this episode in Bangla..
Ho apu thik e bolcn.ei videota bises kore bangali cheleder dekhano uchit
Some women give more importance to children than husband but some men are evil and cruel as well. DONT blame non muslim society blame people character & personality.
Jameela Peake exactly
No one brought up "non muslim society"
Do you know English, where did the sheikh speak about non Muslim
Shes just creating some beef over something that didnt happen to make herself feel better looool
MA SHAA ALLAH
Thank you my brother thank you so much
Asalam o alaikum.respected mufti Muhammad Ismail menk.your lecture goes directly in my 💓 heart.one think came in my mind.right now after listening this lecture.what?if a husband got a very beautiful wife who do above and beyond to please her husband,and despite gvn her respect she deserves not love ok and all the years is buzy in praising other women in a cheap way making her feel jealous to that extent that her heart start's feeling the highest pain.sir please guide me in your eyes what you think in this pain full situation what a wife should do,and that husband is not ready to change As he thinks He is perfect.i can't tell you the pain when instead of appreciating she gets insult.though ALLAH SUBHA NAL T'ALA has made her soo beautiful and much much better than him in every aspect.anxiously I would wait for your expert opinion.jaza kal ALLAH 🙏
Wow this video made me cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Allah is merciful
Peace be with u Amen preach it sir 🙇🙇
Very well said 👍👍
Why does the man look like prince harry
😂😂
Lol
Their eyes r like hamzah ء
Very good message. But repeatedly you say 'your child'. Which implies child is a outcome of men's action alone
Real men know exactly the difficulty,his wife goes through,a cheap husband forget,a true husband don't forget the scarfices his wife made,
This is so true..
This happens to women but not shared! Why do men blame women on getting pregnant? Isn't it the Lord's will? And the worst part is emotionally torturing a woman for 9 months..May Allah give patience to women who go through this!🙏
But they are ignorant and stupid (not all obviously but those who do) it takes two to tango. A woman doesnt get pregnant on her own
Those men need to be publically ridiculed and then educated. They need humiliation in order to change bc they enjoy the power that comes from abuse
My husband praises other women in front of me. What can i do?
I wish he gave citation of that. It’s not nice when hubby does that.. but gets jealous if anyone looks at me
Show him this video ... tell him that a husband can’t do that. If he truly loves you he wouldn’t do that
Thats haram. Tell him that and show him this
As Salam walekum. One of my frnd had a affair with other woman than his wife because she had now 2 kids and she can't give him time the way she use too. That other woman directly said she just want living relation and not intention to marry. Very sad
You should also talk about those who are pregnant and the baby dies in the whom and those who die bitth still born.
Pls make dua for me and my Husband that Allah gives us pious offsprings.
That is the reason why I always try my best to be in good shape n always take care of my looks... and so on...But.. .there is a catch here...I wear the same Bermudas n t shirt for 3 or 4 days bfor changing to clean ones.... Errr. Sometimes hubby would point this out but then I heck care cos I wear what is simple but comfy.
Thanks a lot
In American culture a husband can include a weight clause in a prenup meaning she has a max weight she can achieve this is only one bizarre clause you can include in your prenup
I love this ♥️♥️♥️
what if we don't have child? should husband protect and give nafkah to wife? is any video to explain about it? Jazakallah...
Why shouldn't? She is your wife for God's sake.. It's your duty to Protect and give nafkah to her.. With or without a child.. Marriage is not only about having children
+anwar rasman Thanks brother...actually I am woman. and haven't got any child with him.
this answer reliefs me.
jazakallah khairan katsiran.
Madq JubeL Laris. wa yaakum
AMAZING :'))))
AAMEEN💕
PREACHHHHH
My husband is loving and caring but he shows interest in other women because they have perfect body long hair... I don't have perfect body shape like internet girls.. I don't have very long and shiny hair like his jethani... my jeth used to make my laugh because of my hair are thin and not so beautiful... it really hurts😔
Show them this video sis. Its haraam to admire another woman's physical being and to make fun of it
This is why women should preserve Hijab & keep there beauty for there husbands. We should not mix in with men folk and there eyes will not wonder. Some simple changes make life very simple & beautiful. Everyone is beautiful in there own way. Nothing lasts forever 💖💖💖
Crazy Driver Alhamdulilah I am a hijabi... but in now a days all the men wants girls having perfect body shape and perfect color ... and this mentality has evolved specially because of internet that shows all type of beautiful and perfect girls all over the world
@@mrsshoaib9187 Like I said this perfectness goes away with age. The internet is fake.
banana aya playa where did you get this ridiculous logic from I don’t wear a hijab but I fully disagree with your your hair are either down to genetics or your lack of care and allot of women wearing hijab stop taking care of their hair thinking they are covered now no one can see them, everyone I know has very thick hair because they all wash with very cold water many women don’t know hot water aids hair loss
Truly 🙌
what if the baby dies or someone has harmed the mother and the baby dies?
Maria Bryce-Thurton Then I think the baby goes to Jannah because they are innocent
It's so shameful
Look bcz of her figure u can't reject her
Those specs 🤐
Bhai why the app is not working
Thnx sir
men dont change that easily
How come the app does not work?
Please give subtitle of Indonesia
I need indonesian subtitle
I'm also pregnant and want to die during pregnancy inorder to go jannah.Aameen
Masrat Javid this isn’t good to wish upon yourself!!! i’m pregnant as well but would never want to die like this leaving my child without a mother. sister, please don’t be selfish... dying during labor isn’t the only way you’re guaranteed the jannah, there are plenty of ways we could die for the sake of Allah and we would be guaranteed the jannah... so why wish to leave your child motherless. maybe you didn’t think about it like this and Allah knows best! ❤️