Until someone stops the free reign of Family Court, men will avoid marriage and women in general. Nowadays, only 6.5 men in a thousand get married due to the following scenario: (1) man gets married, (2) wife refuses to have sex, (3) wife racks up huge credit card debt, (4) wife stop contributing financially, (5) wife stops cooking & cleaning, (6) wife cheats on husband, (7) wife files for divorce and takes the house, cars, savings, and kids, (8) wife falsely accuses husband of abuse and he no longer can see his kids, (9) wife poisons kids against the father. What man in his right mind will sign up for this?
I take no satisfaction out of telling the ladies the facts. I cannot afford to because retirement plan for another woman. There is nothing a judge would enjoy more than making me live out of my car while their client lives my old lifestyle. It is evil. Even single, men must always be thinking about asset protection. Just because you have little now, you will likely have more than you can imagine later and that later is what the state and women BANK on.
Pretty much spot on , California family law is a disaster for men. I remember when I went to court. I looked at the Marshal and I could see it in his eyes. He was telling me that I was going to get F””k”d. The judge was a gay guy my lawyer and knew each other and all three acted like old friends. Meanwhile I was still taking care of my ex wife like an idiot. The judge sent the two lawyers down to some room to run some mystery formula after determining what I own and what I make. That’s how they determined what I was going pay her. Never caring once about what she did to our financial situation or anything else. We ended up there after I forgave her multiple times like an idiot for her financial infidelity. Oh yeah and she divorced me by the way! A do nothing woman who didn’t anything for our marriage only created havoc and chaos where ever she went. She hid things and lied to me about so much I only learned about them years later!
Like the old saying goes "A happy wife, a happy life" which yeah right. I know some guys who are married/ been married, yet their wives calling the shots, of controlling their husband's. Yet their husband's dont want a divorce, but if they controlled their wives, than naturally they will divorce them. So apparently i guess nowadays 90% of young girls/women are being taught to be controllers over their partners.
@@Yanay_A Thats terrible advice. People change and so can their feelings about their partner. Women often marry a man hoping they can change them whereas men often marry women hoping they wont change. So what does a man do when that woman does change? He only has 2 options: divorce and lose everything or just be miserable for the rest of their life. Prenup is protection so they dont have to make that impossible choice down the road if and when their partner does change.
@@williamhermann6635 men want one thing from all woman.....woman want many things from one man.....men care care where she has been....woman care where he is going.
Or if you had a good wife, you could get home till your work out if you want while she’s cooking and cleaning and caring for your child. Offers you a foot and back rub, and even gives your scalp treatments. That’s my marriage. My husband is plenty happy with me honey. Oh, I forgot to mention that I work three days a week as well, because I’m a registered nurse. He was sick over this weekend, and I nursed him back to health.
@@31284502 Funny. But here you are, on a men’s site where marriage is compared to a prison. You have posted several comments. There must be something wrong with you or you have agenda, or both.
Not all women! I never wanna get a divorce, and it says saddens me that death will have to do us part! That part is very sad, and I have my own separate bank accounts, my own 401(k), and I’m a registered nurse, so I make Hella good money honey
The six years I was married was the loneliest, saddest, most mentally exhausting time of my life. After she divorced me, she wanted me back. I said no.
@@blisterbill8477 I feel your pain bro. I was married to a woman for 5 years and I was very good to her. Took her on an overseas vacation at least once a year: Greece, Puerta Vallarta, London, Warsaw Poland, Alaska. Bought her everything she wanted including a 3000 sq foot home with beautifully landscaped yards, 6 BR, 4 Bath. Bought her an SUV, jewelry, etc etc etc. I got deployed to Kyrgyzstan in our 5th year of marriage and I found out within 2 days of my return that she’d cheated on me. I lost my shirt in that divorce. Sum total loss: $75,000 in cash, 1 SUV, about $35K in jewelry, about $20K in furniture, and the list goes on and on. Never, ever again.
Watch the cohabitation and common law marriages in your state. In some states you don't even want sleep-overs, and in some you don't want a paper trail showing her any level of financial connection.
Wife Divorced me , now years later Own two bedroom Apartment Own car Own salary Own pension ( Army full service) Own investments No Debts No Nagging ooooooh the nagging My Money my wallet my choice.
You lose any control over a woman in three easy steps: 1) When you propose 2) When you get married 3) When the first child is born. I am talking from experience. After that you find yourself in high seas where anything can happen.
Hill it's bad enough when boys/ guys have to open doors/ pay for the dates/ pull her seat out. They say "a real gentleman won't allow a woman to pay on dates, or let her open the door, or pull her chair out" sometimes I wonder if that all been a lie, so girls would be taught to expect on their boyfriend's/ future husband's to do all that for her so she wouldn't have to. Which why couldn't she? She is a human being right? Than she can do it herself. Unless she's a handicap, otherwise she saw how easy it is to control over you in the future, if she was that type of a woman.
I don't want a wife, a de facto wife or a girlfriend. I want to come home to a peaceful home after work. On weekends, i want to please myself after a week of pleasing a boss, and customers. No wife, a free life.
Western governments treat women as gods that need men to submit to them , worship them and offer sacrifices. This is blasphemy and men should make a stand against this
Yet it's the men who has to do the approaching of asking out, pulling her chair out, paying for dates, and on & on. Yet women can control over their boyfriend's/ future husband's? Yet the boyfriend's/ husband's did the majority of the risky challenges if she would say yes for a first date, and hopefully continue the dates even marriage if it came to it? Screw that. Cuz women are still human beings, not anything special.
P,s if they want relationships/ eventually marriage, they can ask their boys/ guys out as will. Than they will get the taste of their own medicine, than maybe they will understand the guys view of things..lol.
It’s the weird generation of today. Social media is poisoning peoples minds. I have never in my life been on a dating app, and I would not even know how to use one. When my husband and I met over 20 years ago, we met traditionally. We met in person like a normal people.
The vast majority of relationships, ARE a business Transaction, when you break it down to the grass roots. Before I even consider someone a friend, I first invest time to actually get to know them, and their methodology of interacting with others. And then do a cost/benefit analysis, to decide whether or not it is in both our best interests to continue interacting with one another.
I was married for 15 years. During the marriage, my paycheck went to pay the mortgage, electricity, water, insurance, cable TV, etc. My ex-wife’s paycheck went into her retirement accounts. After the divorce, 50% of my gross income went for child support.
If your lawyer had any brains her retirement accounts would have been split as marital property. Her income also reduces your alimony expenses in most states.
Sounds like you did not choose well. I’m sorry to hear that. We both have money for retirement, we both have careers, and we both pay bills. I do the majority of the cooking and cleaning because I have more days off. Registered nurses typically work about three days a week, and I would never in 1 million years cheat on my husband or want a divorce. I’m already struggling with death having to do us part.
I'm 41 and never married and no kids and never will. I want to live peacefully in my man cave I built all by myself and save up for my dream arcade/pinball collection with my best friend. Just me, my guy friends, beer, wrestling and electronic games having man fun. I mean what man in his right mind wants a wife and kids when you can have the good life with your buddies?
I feel bad for you guys, because my guess is that if you had everything you could want out of a woman, you would not choose to die alone. Y’all need to get off the Internet. Social media is poisoning you’re minds.
8 years ago, I was blindsided by this cancerous feminist culture by my ex-wife of 15 years. At first, I did not understand what was happening. It took a few years after the divorce to start understanding and healing. The first few years after the divorce was her calling, crying and complaining about the new men in her life. It took a toll on me listening to a woman I loved at that time ,talking about her problems with other men. My life started to turn around for the better once I removed her from my life. I honestly don't think this dating/relationship culture will correct itself in this generation. It might take a few generations . It's sad because I've always wanted a soul mate, but this will forever be in my dreams. We all can't have everything in life, so I've made the best of mine being drama free and with peace.
In the modern era men must view women only as a temporary things. This attitude of indifference will protect him from the damage a woman can cause. Never trust one!
This really saddens me, as well as a happily married woman of over 20 years, because we have a very nice daughter and I would like for her to find a nice husband one day. We are definitely not raising her to be a feminist or someone who only looks at them in as a meal ticket. We are hurting her to go to college to get her own bag. She is a very nice kid, it has always been quiet no drama. Just a very nice personality and always smiling. I want her to have what we have, and she sees how well I treat her father.
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've discovered that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost divorcing because of issues in our marriage, but we managed to work through them. It was a tough time, but we came out stronger.
I get why what you're saying is important, and I honestly want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it work. We've tried different methods, like therapy, to fix things.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
A marriage getting repaired is so rare these days, it's almost like a Disney story. Most men stay in a marriage trying to fix a problem that doesn't want to get fixed.
I'm still waiting for a woman to explain what benefit there is for a man to enter into a legally binding marital contract. What benefit does a man get from marriage?
*Bitter, pain-filled expensive experience* Just as the F3minists always intended. (Don't get married, guys... the only sensible thing is not to play the game)
The state made $140,526 via title IV D. For every dollar extracted from you the state earned .666 cents (notice the number and the bill associated with this is the same number, no lie). They know what they are doing is evil. And now you know why the judge and OAG work together to ensure maximum wealth extraction from men.
@@tikifreaky5204 what you don't understand is child support is nothing more than backdoor alimony. 40% of your gross income... That's backdoor alimony.
Don’t marry guys. Always remember that every man is born to serve a higher purpose than marriage. Don’t let marriage and relationships ruin that. Know your value and don’t waste your life for a woman.
Don’t go poisoning the minds of these young men. They just need to stop dating in a lazy way. Some guy was on Reddit saying he gives up on trying to find a girlfriend because he’s swiping left and right. Get off of social media and go meet people real people in person.
@@31284502youre the one doing the poisoning because you want your skank kid to secure a man. Hes right, you have no right ir reason to be here trying to force men back onto the plantation
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life , but to no avail, I’m frustrated , I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7 year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
So did I, buddy! I'm switching jobs, making travel plans, buying stuff I like and won't have to justify etc the list goes on. Getting married again? LOL no!
My recommendation... Friendships only. The p*ssy can blind you so you must avoid it. I am on year three of recovering from the financial abuse that took place during the women's court system wealth extraction process. The cost benefit is not worth it.
Welcome to this side of the light brother. I've walked this road now for almost 6 years and have the scars to show it. It gets better with time and you will emerge better than before. When she's spent all that she's taken from you, she cannot make it back. You however will reach your earning potential and outpace what you were going to have with her because she's not dragging you down and spending it all. Focus on what you want, and go for it.
The most miserable people I know are married with children. Some of them (men and women) have privately warned me not to make the same mistake they made.
Well, that is not everyone’s story. I love my family and my husband. We have a beautiful daughter together, and we have been together happily for 20 years. He has me laughing all the time, and he’s just the sweetest man. He deserves to have sex whenever he wants it without having to ask me, and he deserves to get scalp, back, and foot rubs. I went out and purchased an entire massage table just so I could make him feel better when he gets off of work. Oh, and I’m not a stay at home mother either. I’m a registered nurse so I only work three days a week so you can imagine. I also paid bills. I have a 401(k) that’s separate. I don’t need or want him for his money. I will need and want him for his love, protection, and faithfulness.
@@31284502 Lucky you, I am sincerely happy for you. But I'm not you. I've never had any incentive or obligation to marry, and I absolutely do not want children. Many people in this world, men and women, thrive living alone, and there's nothing wrong with that.
@@txlyons2937shes a gaslighting 304. Shes doing this on a ton of comments trying to use anecdotes to disprove facts because women want mens resources. Shes another scammer
*Ronald Reagan passed the "No Fault Divorce" Act in 1969, when he was Governor of California* Since then, it's been downhill - and accelerating - all the way.
@@beefchief2320 That is true. The poison from the West has traveled far and wide, and corrupted normally conservative cultures. In spite of that, there are still decent women in the East. Just: - Be smart. - Do your research. - Be honest. Tell an Eastern girl you fancy that you are: 1. Not rich. 2. You are not looking for a trophy to take back to the US. 3. You are looking for a wife to take care of you, the potential children, the household. You will encounter Jezebels, no doubt, but just lay out what you want, and see.
Feminism and no fault divorce has destroyed the institution of marriage. But putting all that aside for a moment, there are many good reasons that a man should not have any assets under his social security number except for maybe his daily driver. Having my assets in multiple trusts before my marriage saved my ass in my divorce. And under no circumstances should a man ever consider marriage before his big head has conquered the desires of the little head.
"You gotta play the game guys". No, we don't. Only six out of every thousand guys are even willing to get married anymore. Congrats ladies, you played yourselves.
Well, I can happily married for over 20 years, but I hope that this kind of gets better by the time our daughter grows up, but I am concerned that it won’t get better. Neither my daughter or myself have any blame in this.
@31284502 it won't. I have two adult daughters, both in their 30's, neither are married, and both live with their boyfriends. Marriage is dead, feminism and the state killed it.
I spent decades making a fortune. I have 5 grandsons. The family trust states unequivocally that no family member will inherit UNLESS there is a prenup. Women are no longer trustworthy. They have been trained to take and take.
Please wake up!!!!!!!!!! Prenups are NOT worth the paper they are written on!! The judge will throw it out, it is a fake contract to make the male feel he has protection! The government hates males (especially if you are white) and looks forward to destroying you financially and emotionally!
55 now and ABSOLUTELY no regrets been alone .. Plenty of money .. Property and vehicles are safe . Go out with Friends and do any activity WE WANT . Life is just SO GOOD . THANK YOU LORD . 😁💖👍
Been with my husband married 20 years, plenty of money, Health will be paid off by the time I’m about 52, and he’ll be only 48. I have my own 401(k), I’m a registered nurse, so not only do I make really good money, I’m here four days a week so I can still cook and clean. I guess we just had two different paths in life. Your path certainly does not the negate mine or his. He also gets back, rubs, and foot, rubs, scalp treatments, and sex whenever he wants it. I guess he just has more than you.
A lot of young men dont really understand what marriage is about. If you want get married, you might as well buy a house for a woman you hate and let her rob you of your savings.
3 marriages in my lifetime. First one, I was awarded about 90% of assets, no payments. Second, I got 100%. She died from alcohol. Third, I got about 65%. No payments. (she was a little smarter). Now retired, living with 2 cats, no bills, no real responsibilites life is finally good. Took a lifetime but life is good now.
If he finds the right wife there are plenty of benefits. And why does it seem to be this fairytale train of thought on the Internet that marriage is just a financial burden for every man who gets married. The last time I checked, women are out there working. They are paying bills as well, and most household cannot afford to have just stay at home mothers. Statistically speaking, most of your men are average earners so what makes you think that most women can’t afford to live off of a man?
When two people are just bf/gf the man can walk away at any time if the woman gets out of line. The modern woman knows this and tries to moderate her behavior if she wants to keep the man. Once the ring goes on the finger he can't walk away without legal costs and losing half his stuff so she no longer feels the need to be pleasant and respectful. I saw it in my first marriage, she catered to me and was nice and kind up until the wedding night, she was a completely different and very unpleasant person from the wedding night onward. I saw the same thing in many other marriages of friends and coworkers. The current legal system has created a power imbalance in marriage by completely favoring the woman. Prenups for marriage, cohabitation agreements if you just live together to avoid common law marriage and condoms/vasectomy to avoid unwanted child support. Monk mode is the safest way to go these days.
@@ozsteamer2755 It's their "starter marriage". Once they have that and have manipulated it into a divorce with a permanent stream of income they can start trying to date Chad.
Of course, hill lots of marriages fail because people jump into hoops to fast. My point is, anyone can show their nice friendly side, until their true colors comes out. Stands why the old saying goes "it takes time to find love, not over night".
My wife and I married in 1971 and we're still together. For me there are three things in this order. Respect. Trust. Then love. I got lucky. We take our vows seriously. I feel bad for men these days. It's a lose lose situation.
@@maartenl.1365 it does not matter how the government takes the marriage if they plan on staying together till death do them part. The government wouldn’t even matter.
So happy to finally meet someone like you, because there are a lot of delusional, young people on the Internet today. They are just listening to each other, and I think that’s the real world. I think there’s a big problem with this being the social media generation. No one seems to be meeting traditionally anymore. I have been happily married to my husband who have been with for over 20 years, we absolutely take our vows seriously, and to this day, I have never been with another man. I have never had sex with another man, other than my husband, and the only thing that makes me sad about my marriage is that death will have to do us part one day. I wish you could go on forever, because I love him. We are so in love.
That Asian women got hit with the feminist and leftist movement then destroyed her marriage. Now she doesn't know what love is....That really doesn't sound like an improvement.
3 states are excluded from the divorce rate study to make it 50%. California, Georgia, and Colorado. If those states were included the real number is around 80% divorce rate.
Commenting on the first guy, as a guy, if I'm meeting someone while sitting down, I ALWAYS stand up to greet that person. It doesn't matter who or how well I know them. If I know the person really well, we don't always shake hands. But I shake hands with someone I'm meeting for the first time.
@@adamdavis5312because people know when statements are false & are asking for people to prove them. Single men have a lower life expectancy than married men.
*For a crime you did not commit* In front of a Jury that is path0logically set on convicting you And there's no evidence that you will be allowed to present to the Court which will show you in a good light, nor will you be allowed to prove you are innocent. *_Welcome to the Divorce Court_* and you can thank Ronald Reagan for unleashing that on the Rest Of Us.
Negative ghost rider. I screwed up and spent the first 7 years working 60-80 hours a week so she could go to school and not stress about finances. Come to find out women want that security and money, but you aren't supposed to work that much to ensure your future life is easier. Now we just have a house note on a "two story house" as George and Tammy say.
Even in instances where religion is a driver of marriage, it certainly doesn’t immunize one from divorce. In the US, divorce rates are highest in the so-called “Bible belt“, and I’ve had no small number of self-described Christians come through my office who are multiple divorcés
Those poor Christians still trying to cook the same marriage things as their ancestors, while the ingredients women are lower than rejected by their grandma standards.
*Generally speaking, the male wants the relationship to keep going* The f3male is constantly looking for an excuse to leave (and get with Chad Thunder-gentials, or Tyrone Godzilla-schlong or Ray-Ray or Pookie or Emil or Bubba)
@@ozsteamer2755 you are generalizing there. I am so madly in love with my husband that I can’t even think about the fact that Delta hast to do us part one day. I have everything I need here, and we are going strong for over 20 years. Also, I think it’s disgusting to have multiple partners. I am a registered nurse, and I have never been with another man, than my husband. It will remain that way, even if he passes away before me. I just hope that we can pass away together old and in our warm bed.
As a man today getting married is equivalent to being ignorant (not knowing the law) or being stupid (not understanding the consequences) or being a masochist
As a Christian, I still believe in marriage. Even with how my mother destroyed my father's life, and our family's survival. I do believe in marriage. I am Single, never married, no kids, no debt. I have a Masters Degree, and a full time teaching job as well as being certified in that job. I am 1 year away from buying my own home. I do believe in marriage, but I am not going to give up everything I have worked so hard for.
As a Christian single father who was divorced at 50 - I will never get remarried- Period. Modern Western XX’s and they only want the bag. The plan the divorce before the wedding. Women marry up, to get the retirement package. Men are forced to marry down and get destroyed. No thanks - I will stay single and enjoy my life
@@bobcranston3414 Prenuptial agreement and some other things... Trust me... ONLY CHRIST will be bringing me someone. And I have had no success in my years. So... I don't think many things will change. I will be fine.
1:10 Govt involvement may happen regardless thanks to Common Law Marriage. You Can still get divorced when not married in certain areas. You addressed that perfectly. There is also the risk of paternity fraud.
Yes, I am so shocked. I haven’t happily married in with my husband for over 20 years. He still gives me butterflies when he stands behind me like he did when I first met him. We are madly in love, and the only thing that makes me sad about our marriage is the fact that death will have to do us part one day. What’s going on with this generation? It matters to me because we are raising a beautiful daughter.
Men are interested in marriage. They are not interested in divorce which never ends well for men. Its best not to gamble and avoid the gynocentric family courts.
Marriage license is a government document and it is not to benefit the man neither is the family courts and child support courts men stop playing with your life
That’s a shame that you’re basing your life off of someone else’s. There are still marriages that end in death. Also, if you do decide to change your mind, get a woman that has a damn career in a damn job. A high earner that does not need or want your money.
I'm 53 years old! I have literally never been in a relationship... and have no desire to ever be in one. I was lucky enough to retire at 46 because I've been single all my life and I have no regrets!
Many decades ago. Most married women didn't work, they were "housewives". When a marriage ended, the woman had no assets, no money, no job and no skill. That's why alimony laws were created and divorce settlements divided all the assets 50/50. They figured being a "housewife" contributed as much to the marriage as an income did and the "housewife" shouldn't lose everything in a divorce. Plus, since the woman was unskilled and unable to get a quality job, she needed a steady income to make a living. Today is much different. Most women are educated and earn their own income. Most married couples split the "housework" and child care. There is no longer a need for alimony and the divorce settlement should be based on how much each person brought to the marriage.
It's just so much easier to avoid women entirely. I'm retired, and only see my land lady to pay rent, and using a lady taxi driver for town trips, and I see women cashiers in the little 3rd world farming supply town... I'm pleasant to everybody, but theres a wall before relationshits... Single Moms everywhere, eye me hopefully... No dice Gurlies, been there, done that, you just get schitt on. So I'm more than content they all have to work and support themselves. Way nicer than constant manipulation and nasty times... And all my money goes for things I want. Last town trip a nice desert tan tactical shoulder bag with molly straps etc. to replace my old bag with something nicer. No feeling of needing to justify to anyone. And the store had more kinds of nice tactical bags, Thinking of buying one a month to add to my collection. You get to focus on being good to yourself, and after years of getting jacked around, how to care about yourself finally, and you realize nobody else ever really did. That it was just bullschitt to be able to use you. Now, free, just me and my Mutts, and they are pretty spoiled... I would never go back.. in fact yesterday realizing every woman I ever laid, I wouldnt have done it, knowing what I do now. Just not worth it. Every one of them something negative. Women are like a corrupting force. I feel sorry for the Simps. Just so nice living alone. sleeping well. Enjoying life, and appreciating it... You dont need anyone else to be whole. Every one of us is a complete person. We can be responsible for ourselves, and be good to our dog buddies. It doesnt get any better than that...
I feel horrible for a lot of folks these days! How is it that so many people are miserable and can’t find a suitable partner? What are you guys doing wrong?
@@31284502 Not doing anything wrong... dont need a partner, if I did, I could say so in the neighborhood and likely get introduced to plenty. I've had women, been married, lived with others, laid plenty, I just dont want the problems that come with that. Its nothing to feel sad about... I look around the house and am boggled by the progress since I decided to NOT want a partner. I got two more tactical bags since the last writ, and likely get another in a couple weeks... Also gonna get an electric impact wrench and some over sized end wrenches if still in stock, and all my descretionary spending will add up to less than a date with some woman who would think I was cheap. I dont have to live up to anybody's expectations, I am free of attitudes. Also I find that I can think about God now... Thats way better than being ridden like a donkey.
Marriage is a contract with an undisclosed agreement where they are expected to pay all of bills..Men today have caught on to this and are refusing to sign these contracts that women try to sell. It really is that simple.
If you put everything under a trust or under a parent/holding company and you list yourself as an employee, can divorce courts still come after that and give her half of the trust or parent/holding company?
actually, it's not Ok. If you put your dirty junk in her pristine box, and other 2 holes, common law and the government will hunt your ass down and make you pay dearly. DO NOT think you are smart or avoiding the greatest scam of all time because there is no 3-way contract on the table.
My dad did that, and it ended in divorce in less than five years. She wanted his money and would not stop until she harassed the entire family to get him to send her more money. My dad was eating green beans and rice every day because he couldn’t afford his life with his foreign wife who never had any intentions of moving to America. It has nothing to do with the country that a woman resides in, but way more to do with how she was raised and what kind of person she is. I don’t care what any passport bro has to say about American women, because I will never forget what that woman did to my dad. She just about ruined him, and he was very sick. Never in her life has she stepped foot on American soil. Please spare me.
Romantic love is a myth. It isn’t love at all because it is always conditional and fleeting. It’s a hybrid of infatuation, lust, friendship and companionship. Whereas real love is dispassionate, unconditional and eternal.
Marriage is contractual servitude for the man,and when the contract is broken the man is in even more of a mess.marriage is to expensive,and divorce is to.
Marriage is just for women. It's their "special" day. They want to show off towards their "friends". In reality they are planning divorce long before they get married. I wonder what it would be like opening an Information booth in front of a bridal and wedding fair/shop. Just informing male victims what bad patriarchy has in store for them, what blessings they can expect after she files for no-fault divorce, after having cheated (which clearly was her fault), after having to pay alimony and child support for kids that aren't yours, after losing your assets...Could be fun. Nothing personal It's just a feeling.
"Face It These Single Modern Women Bragging Talking About They Have Money, Cars, and Homes But Are So Afraid To Be Alone, Its Like Oh Well, Too Bad, So Sad, Who Cares Live Your Life and Be Happy Its Not The End Of The World."
My friend got married again and I'm wondering if he learned anything from his first go round. Me personally don't see much sense in it. I have the essential skills like cooking, cleaning, laundry. Why would I need to be married when i can take care of myself? Besides I'm not interested in having kids so that's another reason not to marry.
LoL! My husband gets it whenever he wants it unless I’m under construction down there obviously. Every marriage is not the same, and mine deserves sex when he wants it because he’s a wonderful guy and he’s faithful.
What makes it a prison? The fact that you shouldn’t be out there just sleeping around anymore? That’s the only thing I can think of if your wife is a truly good person. If you cannot keep it in your pants and not sleep with other women, then you do not belong being married.
Marriage Period, forget the contract if you are a man is WORTHLESS. Marriage is one of the few partnerships, that awards one partner for betraying and leaving their partner. And leaves the other partner utterly destroyed. What self-respecting man, would willingly subject themselves to such undue risk to their assets, time and energy?
No such thing as a better contract. You need to understand that Big Brother is waiting for you in the courtroom to punish you for having a penis and jamming it into her 3 pristine orifices.
Prenups are for people who don’t think they’ll make it till death do them part! You’re already going into the marriage not taking it seriously lol! Besides, the last time I checked the statistics, most men are average earners in this country. How much can she truly walk away with? Lmao they also forget that women also work and have 401(k)s that are separate.
Carl Jung, a contemporary of Freud said that what women want is power. But Lord Acton said that power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. And that is the dynamic of marriage. Beware!
As someone who deals professionally on multiple issues on marriage/men and women relationships, etc. I applaud this presentation on this topic. Personally, and as a man, the odds of finding someone to work with you as a team/friend/spouse is a long shot (in my opinion). The question (that isn't asked openly but disquieted in nature) is "what's in it for me" rather than "can this person be a good teammate whereby we blend with integrity, love and selfless caring."
Nor do I like sitting on witness stands after a man tried to rape me on a blind date-who had just gotten out of prison for same crime. No more blind dates at all.
What is the definition of a bachelor?
A man who has cheated a modern woman out of a divorce.
Good one! 👍
Which is the real reason women are so angry now. No marriage means no alimony, which means women will have to pay their own way through.
I am one of those bachelors.
Good for you.😊@@richardcasey7521
Nailed it 😅
Marriage is a way to pay sombody to destroy you.
somebody*
You mean rob you
Only about 10% of divorce cases in the US involve alimony.
Sure could be.
@@tikifreaky5204 THAT'S BULLSHIT
Until someone stops the free reign of Family Court, men will avoid marriage and women in general. Nowadays, only 6.5 men in a thousand get married due to the following scenario: (1) man gets married, (2) wife refuses to have sex, (3) wife racks up huge credit card debt, (4) wife stop contributing financially, (5) wife stops cooking & cleaning, (6) wife cheats on husband, (7) wife files for divorce and takes the house, cars, savings, and kids, (8) wife falsely accuses husband of abuse and he no longer can see his kids, (9) wife poisons kids against the father. What man in his right mind will sign up for this?
Coach Greg Adams' marriage chart nails every step from the marriage to the divorce.
I take no satisfaction out of telling the ladies the facts. I cannot afford to because retirement plan for another woman. There is nothing a judge would enjoy more than making me live out of my car while their client lives my old lifestyle. It is evil. Even single, men must always be thinking about asset protection. Just because you have little now, you will likely have more than you can imagine later and that later is what the state and women BANK on.
unmarried men go through family courts, costing the man sometimes $100k+
Pretty much spot on , California family law is a disaster for men. I remember when I went to court. I looked at the Marshal and I could see it in his eyes. He was telling me that I was going to get F””k”d. The judge was a gay guy my lawyer and knew each other and all three acted like old friends. Meanwhile I was still taking care of my ex wife like an idiot. The judge sent the two lawyers down to some room to run some mystery formula after determining what I own and what I make. That’s how they determined what I was going pay her. Never caring once about what she did to our financial situation or anything else. We ended up there after I forgave her multiple times like an idiot for her financial infidelity. Oh yeah and she divorced me by the way! A do nothing woman who didn’t anything for our marriage only created havoc and chaos where ever she went. She hid things and lied to me about so much I only learned about them years later!
@@jaymanilla289 single men dont though. Single is the only smart decision a man can make
No wife happy life.
Sad truth now, but it's the truth
A good wife and your live will be even better. I think I got last one of them, they don't make them anymore.
@@albertwolanski7688 lies
@@albertwolanski7688 factually untrue. Stop simping
Like the old saying goes "A happy wife, a happy life" which yeah right. I know some guys who are married/ been married, yet their wives calling the shots, of controlling their husband's. Yet their husband's dont want a divorce, but if they controlled their wives, than naturally they will divorce them. So apparently i guess nowadays 90% of young girls/women are being taught to be controllers over their partners.
"Women often get emotional about the idea of a prenup, because they think men don't trust them."
I wonder why that could be...
If you don't trust your girlfriend, don't marry her, it's that simple.
@@Yanay_A Exactly.
@@Yanay_A literally no woman can be trusted then. how many women have you known to be offered alimony by a judge, but turned it down? none? exactly.
@@Yanay_A Thats terrible advice. People change and so can their feelings about their partner. Women often marry a man hoping they can change them whereas men often marry women hoping they wont change. So what does a man do when that woman does change? He only has 2 options: divorce and lose everything or just be miserable for the rest of their life. Prenup is protection so they dont have to make that impossible choice down the road if and when their partner does change.
@@williamhermann6635 men want one thing from all woman.....woman want many things from one man.....men care care where she has been....woman care where he is going.
Walking into my house isn't supposed to be interchangeable with walking into Hell
Quite true. It is supposed to be a refuge. A place to get that rest, support, love, peace. A place to be relaxed and knowing things are worth it.
I guess you met my ex . lmao
Smh 😮😊
@user-tdamn😅i3fe6gg4s
I always say, “I just got off of work, I didn’t come home to work some more…”
I can't imagine getting home from work to another Boss
F that
Prison and school are the only comparisons I can think of.
Yep
Or if you had a good wife, you could get home till your work out if you want while she’s cooking and cleaning and caring for your child. Offers you a foot and back rub, and even gives your scalp treatments. That’s my marriage. My husband is plenty happy with me honey.
Oh, I forgot to mention that I work three days a week as well, because I’m a registered nurse. He was sick over this weekend, and I nursed him back to health.
@@31284502 Funny. But here you are, on a men’s site where marriage is compared to a prison. You have posted several comments. There must be something wrong with you or you have agenda, or both.
@@Colin-b2f 🤣 ahahha
Women get married with the intention to get a divorce and take half
If I was a women I would do the same, thats just how stupid the laws are.
Men marry to get sex to a lowest cost.
Well this is best contact if you are poor and good looking scam the men and take the money.
That’s why I say smart men don’t marry
Not all women! I never wanna get a divorce, and it says saddens me that death will have to do us part! That part is very sad, and I have my own separate bank accounts, my own 401(k), and I’m a registered nurse, so I make Hella good money honey
@@larrydricerice6637 lol
Keep walking away from Marriage, Guys.
You absolutely DO NOT NEED the War that Women are.
Common law isn't in every state (know the laws in your state)
@@harrylong4941 Why the HELL would you.......
@@harrylong4941 .......want to even live with a......
@@harrylong4941 ......woman? 🤨🤔
@@asparrow9876 are you on drugs?
The six years I was married was the loneliest, saddest, most mentally exhausting time of my life. After she divorced me, she wanted me back.
I said no.
Never go back to that trapper snapper.
Never go back to being a slave for no reason specially to the perpetrator be strong
@@blisterbill8477 I feel your pain bro. I was married to a woman for 5 years and I was very good to her. Took her on an overseas vacation at least once a year: Greece, Puerta Vallarta, London, Warsaw Poland, Alaska. Bought her everything she wanted including a 3000 sq foot home with beautifully landscaped yards, 6 BR, 4 Bath. Bought her an SUV, jewelry, etc etc etc. I got deployed to Kyrgyzstan in our 5th year of marriage and I found out within 2 days of my return that she’d cheated on me. I lost my shirt in that divorce. Sum total loss: $75,000 in cash, 1 SUV, about $35K in jewelry, about $20K in furniture, and the list goes on and on.
Never, ever again.
Well written
Good for you
Gentlemen take note. Not 100% of marriages will end in divorce. But 100% of divorces started with a marriage.
Watch the cohabitation and common law marriages in your state. In some states you don't even want sleep-overs, and in some you don't want a paper trail showing her any level of financial connection.
Marriage is a contract that only benefits the woman if she leaves. Unless the Vows are binding and enforced by law, there is no point.
@@dino70253 Big facts all truths no lies spoken.
Mic Drop 🎤
The trouble is that the percentage of divorces is increasing.
After a woman finds a husband, she begins to look for a lover.
She begins to look for her next husband, and enjoying the free samples along the way.
That comment is simply genius, not to mention, spot on!
you probably talk about woman that don't fear GOD/ALLAH
Same thing happened to me. And I was a good Dad. Now my kid don't talk to me
@@georgebarret6458 bro, literally I was gonna say that , stay strong brothers , and if you wanna bust a nut , just call a Whor....😆
Wife Divorced me , now years later
Own two bedroom Apartment
Own car
Own salary
Own pension ( Army full service)
Own investments
No Debts
No Nagging ooooooh the nagging
My Money my wallet my choice.
Nice last line
You also do not have to invest in a scale .
Good
@@billschindler1381 I will try to invest better next time.
@@billschindler1381 money make's money
You lose any control over a woman in three easy steps: 1) When you propose 2) When you get married 3) When the first child is born. I am talking from experience. After that you find yourself in high seas where anything can happen.
Hill it's bad enough when boys/ guys have to open doors/ pay for the dates/ pull her seat out. They say "a real gentleman won't allow a woman to pay on dates, or let her open the door, or pull her chair out" sometimes I wonder if that all been a lie, so girls would be taught to expect on their boyfriend's/ future husband's to do all that for her so she wouldn't have to. Which why couldn't she? She is a human being right? Than she can do it herself. Unless she's a handicap, otherwise she saw how easy it is to control over you in the future, if she was that type of a woman.
Yep your children can treat you really bad when they demand to be fed, clothed and educated. Leeches! 😅
The children is the capture. You can't just leave, you stay you will pay. In fact, then your stuck for an indefinite future....
Imagine paying all the bills, doing house chores, and at night no sex=marriage
A very common thing in today's marriage...
Yeah, I had that, but I had to wait until all the kids were over 18 (3-5 years), and I'm the bad guy for leaving 🤣🙄
You basically described most marriages in west.
Hell might be slightly better.
There are single guys that get a lot more sex than married men. All you need is money and hire escorts. It works for me.
I don't want a wife, a de facto wife or a girlfriend. I want to come home to a peaceful home after work. On weekends, i want to please myself after a week of pleasing a boss, and customers.
No wife, a free life.
Woman are the devels best weapon to destroy man.
It saddens me that you don’t feel that you can have both. I guess happy marriages are not for everyone.
Western governments treat women as gods that need men to submit to them , worship them and offer sacrifices. This is blasphemy and men should make a stand against this
Yet it's the men who has to do the approaching of asking out, pulling her chair out, paying for dates, and on & on. Yet women can control over their boyfriend's/ future husband's? Yet the boyfriend's/ husband's did the majority of the risky challenges if she would say yes for a first date, and hopefully continue the dates even marriage if it came to it? Screw that. Cuz women are still human beings, not anything special.
P,s if they want relationships/ eventually marriage, they can ask their boys/ guys out as will. Than they will get the taste of their own medicine, than maybe they will understand the guys view of things..lol.
Then the woman becomes the man and the man the women. There will be no peace with that predicament.
It is also idolatry.
It’s the weird generation of today. Social media is poisoning peoples minds. I have never in my life been on a dating app, and I would not even know how to use one. When my husband and I met over 20 years ago, we met traditionally. We met in person like a normal people.
Women treat relationships like a business.
When we treat relationships like a business, just pay 50 bucks for 30 minutes with the pr0, then happy we go.
Good. Men should wisen up and treat it like a business too 😅
The vast majority of relationships, ARE a business Transaction, when you break it down to the grass roots. Before I even consider someone a friend, I first invest time to actually get to know them, and their methodology of interacting with others. And then do a cost/benefit analysis, to decide whether or not it is in both our best interests to continue interacting with one another.
@@azman3292 How, it does not work like that.
Well of course after all marriage is a business
I was married for 15 years. During the marriage, my paycheck went to pay the mortgage, electricity, water, insurance, cable TV, etc. My ex-wife’s paycheck went into her retirement accounts. After the divorce, 50% of my gross income went for child support.
really senseless
If there's consistency in how the court handles things, you're entitled to half her retirement that she contributed to during your marriage.
@@bellagatto9670the only thing consistent, is men get consistently bent over unfairly
If your lawyer had any brains her retirement accounts would have been split as marital property. Her income also reduces your alimony expenses in most states.
Sounds like you did not choose well. I’m sorry to hear that. We both have money for retirement, we both have careers, and we both pay bills. I do the majority of the cooking and cleaning because I have more days off. Registered nurses typically work about three days a week, and I would never in 1 million years cheat on my husband or want a divorce. I’m already struggling with death having to do us part.
I'm 41 and never married and no kids and never will. I want to live peacefully in my man cave I built all by myself and save up for my dream arcade/pinball collection with my best friend. Just me, my guy friends, beer, wrestling and electronic games having man fun. I mean what man in his right mind wants a wife and kids when you can have the good life with your buddies?
Childfree bachelor, 43. Keep living the life, man. Best of luck to you.
It’s not men it’s the system who wants to trap in slavery single men has lot of choices and freedom while a married one become a government slave .
I feel bad for you guys, because my guess is that if you had everything you could want out of a woman, you would not choose to die alone. Y’all need to get off the Internet. Social media is poisoning you’re minds.
I agree!!!
"man fun" 😂
The government is out to get men, married or not.
straight white christian men who show any sign of masculinity...
Kinda sorta, the real goal is break society and take control of everything. The easiest way is to divide and Kontrol.
Men are viewed as threat; women as assets
8 years ago, I was blindsided by this cancerous feminist culture by my ex-wife of 15 years. At first, I did not understand what was happening. It took a few years after the divorce to start understanding and healing. The first few years after the divorce was her calling, crying and complaining about the new men in her life. It took a toll on me listening to a woman I loved at that time ,talking about her problems with other men. My life started to turn around for the better once I removed her from my life. I honestly don't think this dating/relationship culture will correct itself in this generation. It might take a few generations . It's sad because I've always wanted a soul mate, but this will forever be in my dreams. We all can't have everything in life, so I've made the best of mine being drama free and with peace.
In the modern era men must view women only as a temporary things. This attitude of indifference will protect him from the damage a woman can cause. Never trust one!
This really saddens me, as well as a happily married woman of over 20 years, because we have a very nice daughter and I would like for her to find a nice husband one day. We are definitely not raising her to be a feminist or someone who only looks at them in as a meal ticket. We are hurting her to go to college to get her own bag. She is a very nice kid, it has always been quiet no drama. Just a very nice personality and always smiling. I want her to have what we have, and she sees how well I treat her father.
Perfect marriages or relationships aren't real; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've discovered that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost divorcing because of issues in our marriage, but we managed to work through them. It was a tough time, but we came out stronger.
I get why what you're saying is important, and I honestly want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it work. We've tried different methods, like therapy, to fix things.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
I promise you will not regret it
A marriage getting repaired is so rare these days, it's almost like a Disney story.
Most men stay in a marriage trying to fix a problem that doesn't want to get fixed.
I am 35 years old and the biggest mistake I have ever made was getting married.
@@Jay-s3o1o every man's biggest regret is being heterosexual
Why????
I know that you feeling.
Same here. But I managed to get out of it after loosing my job. Since then life is good.
I'm still waiting for a woman to explain what benefit there is for a man to enter into a legally binding marital contract.
What benefit does a man get from marriage?
*Bitter, pain-filled expensive experience*
Just as the F3minists always intended.
(Don't get married, guys... the only sensible thing is not to play the game)
At least you get the experience of marriage 😂
@@SpartanMGTOW1 *Yeah, marriage, for a man, is like hitting yourself on the head with a h@mm3r.*
*_It feels really great when you stop_*
They can't. Not even scholars of women can provide an incentive, if any, for doing this. They know there isn't any true benefit for the man.
It's so sad, how things have gone.
Why would a man sign a contract that a woman gets paid to break ? I did it and it cost me $ 200 a week for 22 years .
Only $211,000 according to women this is nothing since all men make $100k plus a year.
The state made $140,526 via title IV D. For every dollar extracted from you the state earned .666 cents (notice the number and the bill associated with this is the same number, no lie). They know what they are doing is evil. And now you know why the judge and OAG work together to ensure maximum wealth extraction from men.
That sucks, but you got off cheap!
Only about 10% of divorce cases in the US involve alimony.
@@tikifreaky5204 what you don't understand is child support is nothing more than backdoor alimony. 40% of your gross income... That's backdoor alimony.
Don’t marry guys. Always remember that every man is born to serve a higher purpose than marriage. Don’t let marriage and relationships ruin that. Know your value and don’t waste your life for a woman.
Don’t go poisoning the minds of these young men. They just need to stop dating in a lazy way. Some guy was on Reddit saying he gives up on trying to find a girlfriend because he’s swiping left and right. Get off of social media and go meet people real people in person.
@@31284502youre the one doing the poisoning because you want your skank kid to secure a man. Hes right, you have no right ir reason to be here trying to force men back onto the plantation
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life , but to no avail, I’m frustrated , I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .
Parting ways with someone you deeply cherish is an agonizing experience. I understand firsthand, having encountered a parallel situation at the end of my 7 year relationship. Driven by an unyielding determination, I explored every avenue to salvage our bond. Seeking guidance from a spiritual counselor proved pivotal, as their intervention played a crucial role in rekindling our love.
That's fascinating! How did you come across a spiritual counselor, and what's the best way for me to contact her?
Meet Suzanne Ann Walters, an outstanding spiritual counselor with the power to restore your relationship with your ex.
I'm grateful for this valuable information; I've just taken a moment to find her online. Very impressive!
@@paulatk44 you've a death wish?
Just got my final divorce judgement a few days ago. Never again.
So did I, buddy! I'm switching jobs, making travel plans, buying stuff I like and won't have to justify etc the list goes on. Getting married again? LOL no!
My recommendation... Friendships only. The p*ssy can blind you so you must avoid it. I am on year three of recovering from the financial abuse that took place during the women's court system wealth extraction process. The cost benefit is not worth it.
Godspeed brother. She left me with nothing but my skin and even that isn't intact, but I'll never regret walking away.
Welcome to this side of the light brother. I've walked this road now for almost 6 years and have the scars to show it. It gets better with time and you will emerge better than before. When she's spent all that she's taken from you, she cannot make it back. You however will reach your earning potential and outpace what you were going to have with her because she's not dragging you down and spending it all. Focus on what you want, and go for it.
Be careful. A high percentage of men get married within a few years of the divorce.
The most miserable people I know are married with children. Some of them (men and women) have privately warned me not to make the same mistake they made.
Well, that is not everyone’s story. I love my family and my husband. We have a beautiful daughter together, and we have been together happily for 20 years. He has me laughing all the time, and he’s just the sweetest man. He deserves to have sex whenever he wants it without having to ask me, and he deserves to get scalp, back, and foot rubs. I went out and purchased an entire massage table just so I could make him feel better when he gets off of work. Oh, and I’m not a stay at home mother either. I’m a registered nurse so I only work three days a week so you can imagine. I also paid bills. I have a 401(k) that’s separate. I don’t need or want him for his money. I will need and want him for his love, protection, and faithfulness.
@@31284502 Lucky you, I am sincerely happy for you. But I'm not you. I've never had any incentive or obligation to marry, and I absolutely do not want children. Many people in this world, men and women, thrive living alone, and there's nothing wrong with that.
@@txlyons2937shes a gaslighting 304. Shes doing this on a ton of comments trying to use anecdotes to disprove facts because women want mens resources. Shes another scammer
@@31284502 How many times are you going to post the same comment?
Marriage isn't a word it's a sentence. Usually a minimum 18 years!
@@AppleyardAndy These days, due to no fault divorce and alimony, only a minimum of 2 years...
Say NO to marriage in these current times!!
Ummmmmm....say NO forever. Not just in these sick times, it will only get worse.
I am not here to upgrade your life. My purpose in life is bigger than a woman.
woman upgrade there life with married
man upgrade there life with there skill
Mind their own business
Mind their own business.
@@budbas what happen pissed girl only truth hurt
And fact +women =3
It my business idiot since im a man
@budbas you mean mind your
To all the young men reading never get married it's not worth it anymore you will loose more than you think be smart
Absolutely true! Young men should be taught about that!
And make sure they use a condom, maintenance is expensive and can spoil yor life for eighteen years!.
She better be bringing money to the table too dw us young guys are smarter now
stay free, stay away
the winning move is not to play
Renting the box is a whole lot cheaper than marriage!
You can't do that either ! Low self esteem hookers joke
Women lie more now so you dont even know if she yours
Even if she isn't cheating on you, she is never yours longterm, it's just your turn.
It's just your turn, they have no love or loyalty now.
@@anthonywilliams7052 anymore* 😂👍
Nothing is worth having you don't have authority over.
Don't forget the saying, "She's NOT 'yours", it's just your turn".
"common law" marriage RUINED marriage !! ... end of story !!
Marriage is declining even more precipitously in the places where common law marriage isn’t a thing
*Ronald Reagan passed the "No Fault Divorce" Act in 1969, when he was Governor of California*
Since then, it's been downhill - and accelerating - all the way.
its aimed at ruining relationships with women
FEMINISM ended traditional marraige bud.
only 7 states recognize common law marriage if you were to start a new relationship now.
Marriage was killed 25 years ago.
Marriage died when Reagan made "no fault"(men at fault) divorce a national law in 1988. Plus gen x and younger women were never raised to be wives.
That is correct. Helen Reddy started it all in the 1970's, it has just progressed from there.
Well, I would happily married for just over 20 years, so not really
"Marriage Is A Trap For Men"
Get your passport, bros!
Sadly, even over seas, a lot of women in the east are taking on more and more traits of western women. But I definitely get it.
@@beefchief2320
That is true.
The poison from the West has traveled far and wide, and corrupted normally conservative cultures.
In spite of that, there are still decent women in the East.
Just:
- Be smart.
- Do your research.
- Be honest. Tell an Eastern girl you fancy that you are:
1. Not rich.
2. You are not looking for a trophy to take back to the US.
3. You are looking for a wife to take care of you, the potential children, the household.
You will encounter Jezebels, no doubt, but just lay out what you want, and see.
@@beefchief2320 yeah but atleast overseas there's no big daddy government to support and spoil them
Feminism and no fault divorce has destroyed the institution of marriage.
But putting all that aside for a moment, there are many good reasons that a man should not have any assets under his social security number except for maybe his daily driver.
Having my assets in multiple trusts before my marriage saved my ass in my divorce.
And under no circumstances should a man ever consider marriage before his big head has conquered the desires of the little head.
"You gotta play the game guys". No, we don't. Only six out of every thousand guys are even willing to get married anymore. Congrats ladies, you played yourselves.
6 out of 1,000 😂
Well, I can happily married for over 20 years, but I hope that this kind of gets better by the time our daughter grows up, but I am concerned that it won’t get better. Neither my daughter or myself have any blame in this.
@31284502 it won't. I have two adult daughters, both in their 30's, neither are married, and both live with their boyfriends. Marriage is dead, feminism and the state killed it.
@@31284502you absolutely are to blame in this and nobody cares about your daughter. She can date other women or adopt a cat.
@@Yetiman152 look it up hag
I spent decades making a fortune. I have 5 grandsons. The family trust states unequivocally that no family member will inherit UNLESS there is a prenup. Women are no longer trustworthy. They have been trained to take and take.
Please wake up!!!!!!!!!! Prenups are NOT worth the paper they are written on!! The judge will throw it out, it is a fake contract to make the male feel he has protection! The government hates males (especially if you are white) and looks forward to destroying you financially and emotionally!
55 now and ABSOLUTELY no regrets been alone .. Plenty of money .. Property and vehicles are safe . Go out with Friends and do any activity WE WANT .
Life is just SO GOOD .
THANK YOU LORD . 😁💖👍
Been with my husband married 20 years, plenty of money, Health will be paid off by the time I’m about 52, and he’ll be only 48. I have my own 401(k), I’m a registered nurse, so not only do I make really good money, I’m here four days a week so I can still cook and clean. I guess we just had two different paths in life. Your path certainly does not the negate mine or his. He also gets back, rubs, and foot, rubs, scalp treatments, and sex whenever he wants it. I guess he just has more than you.
A lot of young men dont really understand what marriage is about. If you want get married, you might as well buy a house for a woman you hate and let her rob you of your savings.
3 marriages in my lifetime. First one, I was awarded about 90% of assets, no payments. Second, I got 100%. She died from alcohol. Third, I got about 65%. No payments. (she was a little smarter). Now retired, living with 2 cats, no bills, no real responsibilites life is finally good. Took a lifetime but life is good now.
Pets offer unconditional love
Congrats
You have good luck!😂
@@Zach-sg5uu yes i do. beat cancer twice and covid too oh and meningitis
You sound like a nightmare! Three marriages. Yeah you should just go ahead and stay single for the rest of your life.
Zero benefit to a man to marry. But lots of possible and probable legal detriment if he so chooses.
If he finds the right wife there are plenty of benefits. And why does it seem to be this fairytale train of thought on the Internet that marriage is just a financial burden for every man who gets married. The last time I checked, women are out there working. They are paying bills as well, and most household cannot afford to have just stay at home mothers. Statistically speaking, most of your men are average earners so what makes you think that most women can’t afford to live off of a man?
When two people are just bf/gf the man can walk away at any time if the woman gets out of line. The modern woman knows this and tries to moderate her behavior if she wants to keep the man. Once the ring goes on the finger he can't walk away without legal costs and losing half his stuff so she no longer feels the need to be pleasant and respectful. I saw it in my first marriage, she catered to me and was nice and kind up until the wedding night, she was a completely different and very unpleasant person from the wedding night onward. I saw the same thing in many other marriages of friends and coworkers. The current legal system has created a power imbalance in marriage by completely favoring the woman.
Prenups for marriage, cohabitation agreements if you just live together to avoid common law marriage and condoms/vasectomy to avoid unwanted child support. Monk mode is the safest way to go these days.
The divorce is planned before the marriage. They are financial predators.
@@GeraldM_inNC *I have met (single) F3males who were openly planning how to Divorce a guy... **_and they hadn't even met the poor sap_*
@@ozsteamer2755 The videos on TikTok openly brag about being financial predators.
@@ozsteamer2755 It's their "starter marriage". Once they have that and have manipulated it into a divorce with a permanent stream of income they can start trying to date Chad.
Of course, hill lots of marriages fail because people jump into hoops to fast. My point is, anyone can show their nice friendly side, until their true colors comes out. Stands why the old saying goes "it takes time to find love, not over night".
It used to be fair to be married until around the 1980s when the government started stripping men of their wealth upon divorce.
The feminist lie it was never about equality
By Bob Lewis
My wife and I married in 1971 and we're still together. For me there are three things in this order. Respect. Trust. Then love. I got lucky. We take our vows seriously.
I feel bad for men these days. It's a lose lose situation.
You take the Vows seriously. The government does not. Yet they co-signed the marriage certificate.
@@maartenl.1365 it does not matter how the government takes the marriage if they plan on staying together till death do them part. The government wouldn’t even matter.
So happy to finally meet someone like you, because there are a lot of delusional, young people on the Internet today. They are just listening to each other, and I think that’s the real world. I think there’s a big problem with this being the social media generation. No one seems to be meeting traditionally anymore.
I have been happily married to my husband who have been with for over 20 years, we absolutely take our vows seriously, and to this day, I have never been with another man. I have never had sex with another man, other than my husband, and the only thing that makes me sad about my marriage is that death will have to do us part one day. I wish you could go on forever, because I love him. We are so in love.
That Asian women got hit with the feminist and leftist movement then destroyed her marriage.
Now she doesn't know what love is....That really doesn't sound like an improvement.
3 states are excluded from the divorce rate study to make it 50%. California, Georgia, and Colorado. If those states were included the real number is around 80% divorce rate.
Commenting on the first guy, as a guy, if I'm meeting someone while sitting down, I ALWAYS stand up to greet that person. It doesn't matter who or how well I know them. If I know the person really well, we don't always shake hands. But I shake hands with someone I'm meeting for the first time.
I fist bump instead of shaking hands, but I agree that it is rude to remain seated when greeting someone.
He’s called Marlon and is very wealthy from an RP channel that was shut down. Don’t worry - he will have destroyed her.
She should not have been expected to press her chest against his, aka a hug.
It’s a respect thing
No surprise that single men have higher life expectancy
Sounds reasonable, but do you have evidence about this?
@@indranilbanik3424I never understood why people in the comments are looking for references .. Do you have google??
Are you joking ? I don't think i'll make it past 33 with this Polaris Star. I'll get memory wiped 100%
@@adamdavis5312because people know when statements are false & are asking for people to prove them. Single men have a lower life expectancy than married men.
I don't want to stay on this wretched planet longer than I have to
Cosmo Kramer:
“Marriage? They’re prisons!
Man-made prisons! You’re doing time!”
*For a crime you did not commit*
In front of a Jury that is path0logically set on convicting you
And there's no evidence that you will be allowed to present to the Court which will show you in a good light, nor will you be allowed to prove you are innocent.
*_Welcome to the Divorce Court_* and you can thank Ronald Reagan for unleashing that on the Rest Of Us.
The women's court system is there to see if you can be turned into an indentured servant after doing your time.
*And I would like to thank Ewe Tube for deleting my comments*
@@ozsteamer2755 TheirTube is a pile of shit
The algorithm and the idiots that run it and feed it are all snowflakes
Well, he must love this prison, because he can’t get enough of it
Married for 12 years and I tell EVERY man I hear thinking getting married not to do it. No ROI.
@@Cobra-vq6qr ROI?
@masterhypnos6783 ( Return On Investment) In other words for what you gain it's not worth the stress.
Wow! Sounds like you chose wrong. Maybe you rushed into the marriage.
Negative ghost rider. I screwed up and spent the first 7 years working 60-80 hours a week so she could go to school and not stress about finances. Come to find out women want that security and money, but you aren't supposed to work that much to ensure your future life is easier. Now we just have a house note on a "two story house" as George and Tammy say.
@@Cobra-vq6qr What does ROI mean here?
Even in instances where religion is a driver of marriage, it certainly doesn’t immunize one from divorce. In the US, divorce rates are highest in the so-called “Bible belt“, and I’ve had no small number of self-described Christians come through my office who are multiple divorcés
Marriage was around a long time before Christianity
The divorce rate for Christians is the same as the divorce rate for non-Christians.
@@rickyaz8640 *Marriage was around a long time before F3minism killed it*
Those poor Christians still trying to cook the same marriage things as their ancestors, while the ingredients women are lower than rejected by their grandma standards.
@@rickyaz8640 well they did say "religion".
I would never get married again. If the relationship is meant to last then it will and if not then it won’t!
*Generally speaking, the male wants the relationship to keep going*
The f3male is constantly looking for an excuse to leave (and get with Chad Thunder-gentials, or Tyrone Godzilla-schlong or Ray-Ray or Pookie or Emil or Bubba)
@@ozsteamer2755 you are generalizing there. I am so madly in love with my husband that I can’t even think about the fact that Delta hast to do us part one day. I have everything I need here, and we are going strong for over 20 years. Also, I think it’s disgusting to have multiple partners. I am a registered nurse, and I have never been with another man, than my husband. It will remain that way, even if he passes away before me. I just hope that we can pass away together old and in our warm bed.
@@31284502 "you are generalizing there"
*Why, gosh, that sounds exactly like ... **_what I actually said_*
As a man today getting married is equivalent to being ignorant (not knowing the law) or being stupid (not understanding the consequences) or being a masochist
I tried so hard to warn my son but now I have to watch him go through the same thing.
As a Christian, I still believe in marriage. Even with how my mother destroyed my father's life, and our family's survival. I do believe in marriage. I am Single, never married, no kids, no debt. I have a Masters Degree, and a full time teaching job as well as being certified in that job. I am 1 year away from buying my own home. I do believe in marriage, but I am not going to give up everything I have worked so hard for.
As a Christian single father who was divorced at 50 - I will never get remarried- Period. Modern Western XX’s and they only want the bag. The plan the divorce before the wedding.
Women marry up, to get the retirement package. Men are forced to marry down and get destroyed.
No thanks - I will stay single and enjoy my life
So you believe in the Mortgage and Marriage scams...😊
Good luck with that plan.
@@bobcranston3414 Prenuptial agreement and some other things... Trust me... ONLY CHRIST will be bringing me someone. And I have had no success in my years. So... I don't think many things will change. I will be fine.
As a "christian", you beLIEve in fairy tales and fairy tale characters!
*ANTITHEISM LIFE*
And this is why a lot of men want to be single, thank you for sharing the insight. 👍
Wedding cake. That's fact.😂😂
Good strain 😅
1:10 Govt involvement may happen regardless thanks to Common Law Marriage. You Can still get divorced when not married in certain areas. You addressed that perfectly. There is also the risk of paternity fraud.
"Knowing where the trap is -- that's the first step in evading it." -- Frank Herbert
Damn......I've been happily married for 34 years. Times sure have changed....as has the people.
Yes, I am so shocked. I haven’t happily married in with my husband for over 20 years. He still gives me butterflies when he stands behind me like he did when I first met him. We are madly in love, and the only thing that makes me sad about our marriage is the fact that death will have to do us part one day. What’s going on with this generation? It matters to me because we are raising a beautiful daughter.
Men are interested in marriage. They are not interested in divorce which never ends well for men. Its best not to gamble and avoid the gynocentric family courts.
I absolutely agree that government should stay out of marriages. I, for one, will never marry again. Not worth the pain.
I am too emotionally depleted.Nothing left
At this skydiving school, only 70% of the parachutes fail. And the parachute packer gets an insurance payout if yours fails.
Marriage license is a government document and it is not to benefit the man neither is the family courts and child support courts men stop playing with your life
The amount of men Ive met with destroyed lives from getting Marriage is enough for me to never get married
That’s a shame that you’re basing your life off of someone else’s. There are still marriages that end in death.
Also, if you do decide to change your mind, get a woman that has a damn career in a damn job. A high earner that does not need or want your money.
@@31284502oh look, you gaslighting again with incorrect information. Why dont you leave this content and be with your hen pecked simp?
i dont feel sorry for everyone who feels relationships are needed in life
I'm 53 years old! I have literally never been in a relationship... and have no desire to ever be in one.
I was lucky enough to retire at 46 because I've been single all my life and I have no regrets!
Many decades ago. Most married women didn't work, they were "housewives". When a marriage ended, the woman had no assets, no money, no job and no skill. That's why alimony laws were created and divorce settlements divided all the assets 50/50. They figured being a "housewife" contributed as much to the marriage as an income did and the "housewife" shouldn't lose everything in a divorce. Plus, since the woman was unskilled and unable to get a quality job, she needed a steady income to make a living. Today is much different. Most women are educated and earn their own income. Most married couples split the "housework" and child care. There is no longer a need for alimony and the divorce settlement should be based on how much each person brought to the marriage.
It's just so much easier to avoid women entirely.
I'm retired, and only see my land lady to pay rent, and using a lady taxi driver for town trips, and I see women cashiers in the little 3rd world farming supply town...
I'm pleasant to everybody, but theres a wall before relationshits...
Single Moms everywhere, eye me hopefully...
No dice Gurlies, been there, done that, you just get schitt on.
So I'm more than content they all have to work and support themselves.
Way nicer than constant manipulation and nasty times...
And all my money goes for things I want.
Last town trip a nice desert tan tactical shoulder bag with molly straps etc. to replace my old bag with something nicer.
No feeling of needing to justify to anyone.
And the store had more kinds of nice tactical bags,
Thinking of buying one a month to add to my collection.
You get to focus on being good to yourself, and after years of getting jacked around, how to care about yourself finally, and you realize nobody else ever really did.
That it was just bullschitt to be able to use you.
Now, free, just me and my Mutts, and they are pretty spoiled...
I would never go back.. in fact yesterday realizing every woman I ever laid, I wouldnt have done it, knowing what I do now.
Just not worth it. Every one of them something negative.
Women are like a corrupting force. I feel sorry for the Simps.
Just so nice living alone. sleeping well. Enjoying life, and appreciating it...
You dont need anyone else to be whole.
Every one of us is a complete person.
We can be responsible for ourselves, and be good to our dog buddies.
It doesnt get any better than that...
And activities with other men. Though being alone feels amazing, looking back quality people have enriched me
@@dggm19 it depends on who. theres definitely a variation in humans.
And sometimes you get lucky,.and sometimes you just get used.
I feel horrible for a lot of folks these days! How is it that so many people are miserable and can’t find a suitable partner? What are you guys doing wrong?
@@31284502
Not doing anything wrong... dont need a partner, if I did, I could say so in the neighborhood and likely get introduced to plenty.
I've had women, been married, lived with others, laid plenty, I just dont want the problems that come with that.
Its nothing to feel sad about... I look around the house and am boggled by the progress since I decided to NOT want a partner.
I got two more tactical bags since the last writ, and likely get another in a couple weeks...
Also gonna get an electric impact wrench and some over sized end wrenches if still in stock, and all my descretionary spending will add up to less than a date with some woman who would think I was cheap.
I dont have to live up to anybody's expectations, I am free of attitudes.
Also I find that I can think about God now... Thats way better than being ridden like a donkey.
Marriage is a contract with an undisclosed agreement where they are expected to pay all of bills..Men today have caught on to this and are refusing to sign these contracts that women try to sell. It really is that simple.
Ask me about that! Did it twice, won't be a third time, EVER!
Should never have been a second time anyway
If you put everything under a trust or under a parent/holding company and you list yourself as an employee, can divorce courts still come after that and give her half of the trust or parent/holding company?
It's okay to have a life partner & be together. You don't need marriage or to sign papers to love each other for that.
actually, it's not Ok. If you put your dirty junk in her pristine box, and other 2 holes, common law and the government will hunt your ass down and make you pay dearly. DO NOT think you are smart or avoiding the greatest scam of all time because there is no 3-way contract on the table.
I feel sad for Western men😢guys please go to foreign countries 😔 i wish u all the best
All women are the same ! Boring !
My dad did that, and it ended in divorce in less than five years. She wanted his money and would not stop until she harassed the entire family to get him to send her more money. My dad was eating green beans and rice every day because he couldn’t afford his life with his foreign wife who never had any intentions of moving to America. It has nothing to do with the country that a woman resides in, but way more to do with how she was raised and what kind of person she is.
I don’t care what any passport bro has to say about American women, because I will never forget what that woman did to my dad. She just about ruined him, and he was very sick. Never in her life has she stepped foot on American soil. Please spare me.
Careful, honey. Women in Canada, UK, Japan, France, Germany, Brazil and many other places.... They're going to be just like these.
Romantic love is a myth. It isn’t love at all because it is always conditional and fleeting. It’s a hybrid of infatuation, lust, friendship and companionship.
Whereas real love is dispassionate, unconditional and eternal.
Marriage is contractual servitude for the man,and when the contract is broken the man is in even more of a mess.marriage is to expensive,and divorce is to.
Marriage is just for women. It's their "special" day. They want to show off towards their "friends". In reality they are planning divorce long before they get married. I wonder what it would be like opening an Information booth in front of a bridal and wedding fair/shop. Just informing male victims what bad patriarchy has in store for them, what blessings they can expect after she files for no-fault divorce, after having cheated (which clearly was her fault), after having to pay alimony and child support for kids that aren't yours, after losing your assets...Could be fun. Nothing personal It's just a feeling.
PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT!!!
Marriage doesn't have to be a religious event. Atheists get married too. Some people don't need religion.
"Face It These Single Modern Women Bragging Talking About They Have Money, Cars, and Homes But Are So Afraid To Be Alone, Its Like Oh Well, Too Bad, So Sad, Who Cares Live Your Life and Be Happy Its Not The End Of The World."
My friend got married again and I'm wondering if he learned anything from his first go round.
Me personally don't see much sense in it. I have the essential skills like cooking, cleaning, laundry. Why would I need to be married when i can take care of myself? Besides I'm not interested in having kids so that's another reason not to marry.
It’s not for everyone, and that’s fine.
Q. What food gives women an allergy to sex? A. Wedding cake.
LoL! My husband gets it whenever he wants it unless I’m under construction down there obviously. Every marriage is not the same, and mine deserves sex when he wants it because he’s a wonderful guy and he’s faithful.
Marriage is double trouble.. First problems with wife then with kids
*The trouble with the "wife and kids" is as nothing compared to the "trouble" she puts you through in the Divorce Court*
@@ozsteamer2755 that also.. I'am happy because single 10 years, money everything going on my bank account and can travel everywhere
Marriage is a prison and the tomb of love.
@@Yanay_Aand women are the crypt keepers. Your inability to handle relationships kills them outright
What makes it a prison? The fact that you shouldn’t be out there just sleeping around anymore? That’s the only thing I can think of if your wife is a truly good person. If you cannot keep it in your pants and not sleep with other women, then you do not belong being married.
I ain't NO partner.😡😡😡😊
If a man and woman can't sort out their own problems, there's no way the government are going to be able to do it either.
Why Pre-Nups? Why not write a better marriage contract? The existence of the Pre-Nup tells you the marriage contract is worthless
Prenup is a costume marriage contract outside of the standard marriage contract.
Prenups are thrown out all of the time as well because of "coercion when signing".
Marriage Period, forget the contract if you are a man is WORTHLESS. Marriage is one of the few partnerships, that awards one partner for betraying and leaving their partner. And leaves the other partner utterly destroyed. What self-respecting man, would willingly subject themselves to such undue risk to their assets, time and energy?
No such thing as a better contract. You need to understand that Big Brother is waiting for you in the courtroom to punish you for having a penis and jamming it into her 3 pristine orifices.
Prenups are for people who don’t think they’ll make it till death do them part! You’re already going into the marriage not taking it seriously lol!
Besides, the last time I checked the statistics, most men are average earners in this country. How much can she truly walk away with? Lmao they also forget that women also work and have 401(k)s that are separate.
Ann Silvers M.A.
Abuse OF men BY women: It happens, it hurts, and it's time to get real about it
"Freedom country" and "No Freedom country"
I heard both in the real world.
I do not know which one is better.
Carl Jung, a contemporary of Freud said that what women want is power. But Lord Acton said that power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. And that is the dynamic of marriage. Beware!
As someone who deals professionally on multiple issues on marriage/men and women relationships, etc. I applaud this presentation on this topic. Personally, and as a man, the odds of finding someone to work with you as a team/friend/spouse is a long shot (in my opinion). The question (that isn't asked openly but disquieted in nature) is "what's in it for me" rather than "can this person be a good teammate whereby we blend with integrity, love and selfless caring."
Nor do I like sitting on witness stands after a man tried to rape me on a blind date-who had just gotten out of prison for same crime. No more blind dates at all.
Not the same thing in the slightest. But leave it to a woman to focus everything back onto her
So many good points made in this video. Facts! Facts! And this video pretty much justifies why I do not care to be married.