INFJ married to a ESTP for 10 years, this is scary accurate of him and very well put together. I love ESTPs but maybe its because everything I lack lol.
@@supersarah5673 unless they’re genuinely that bad a person, it’s hard to hate someone once you understand them. Everyone’s beautiful in their own way. Some of these things just take a while but once you’ve kind of cracked them you’re good to go.
My husband is an ESTP and I'm an INTJ. Sometimes communication is difficult and he sees first hand that I'm very detached from the outside world. This was very helpful to my understanding :)
This might be a little late, but as an INTJ who has a history with an ESTP, I'm curious what your relationship dynamics are like, and why you decided to marry. Hmmm, probably a complicated question for a TH-cam comment section...Ahh well.
as an estp, i can give you the advice to say openly how you feel about things. dont worry about triggering us, you wont. just be open as often as possible, because we tend to not have high levels of cognitive empathy
It's the first time I found such a combination - INTP + ESTP- online, and I have been reading and watching tons of materials about ESTP. I always get INTP result on tests, but lately I met this ESTP and he is like the exact opposite of everything I am, so it got me thinking, maybe I'm actually an INFJ? And more I read about INFJ the more it seems accurate, also I heard INTP and INFJ are often each others mistypes. Do you have a lot in common with your partner? Do you think alike?
you might enjoy the fact that infj and estp (iei and sle respectively) are called the dual relationship in socionics. meaning the most optimal/enjoyable.
Joshua Marshall Yeah -- after I made this video I started looking into that more. I think when first meeting they can have trouble, but over time they can discover they are very similar on a deeper level because of their function axes.
I had an INFJ partner. We understood each other without a single word. Intentions, thoughts, all of it. We just clicked. I lived with her a year, we fought more than I've ever fought anyone and we fed into each other's insecurities. Breaking up was the right decision, we brought out the worst in each other- I felt like an unfeeling robot around her. lol Couple years ago I ended up dating an extremely independent ENFP. she has two degrees, one of which being a master's in psychology, and it's a world of difference. Calm conversations, 0 fights, realistic expectations, passionate adventures, and most importantly the mutual constant support and encouragement to do better for the world around us. We just got a dog 🐶 and we both work at non-profits
I think what make xSxP standout from other type is because Se is on the "upper" function mean that they are the guys/girl who willing to act now and make things happen. the other type that come close to this that are not xSxP that I saw would be ENTJ and ENFJ. Note that I'm quite new on MBTI topic so I might be wrong. Ps. Your channel is a very good place to learn about MBTI
Once your done with the sixteen types, it'd be interesting to see some videos on "shadow" types like the INFJ and ESTP. What you had to say about the repulsion yet dangerous attraction hits the nail on the head regarding my attitude as an ENTP to ISFJ
As an INFP, I find this quite awe-inspiring and intriguing, given I share no functions with this type. Your video has stirred up some really deep-down ESTPiness repressed in my psyche, further down than my ESTJ part of the psyche.
you do not change types. that's the whole point. but as you grow and mature you can become stronger in some areas becoming more well rounded. that is why most tests say to think of early memories of childhood, teen, and young adult years.
I think ESFPs are more aversive to intellectual banter than ESTPs. ENTPs are often noted to be more intellectually or academically oriented than their ENFP sister type, because of Ti. ESTPs can have a certain thoughtful side, but this side is not very pretentious or highly intellectual like some Ni types can come across as.
Nemetonic Ontology Well, I have...but I've also gotten requests to do ESFJ, or ISFJ, or ESFP next....so I'm not really sure who I'm going to do next I'm afraid, but all of those will get done soon enough!
ESTP 22 years old- yes to most of this but I want to challenge you in that very few ESTPs I've met are anti-theory. Jargon is often non-inclusive, you have to be "in the know". Technical language as a tool to learn about theories- is a lot of effort for anyone. Water it down, especially in the US (as my subjective knowledge and experience extends) where the vocabulary rarely extends beyond one, or even two languages, and labor is highly specialized. ESTPs; We're stimulus seeking, and that very directly builds the brain's potential capacity for cognition. One of the reasons they advise having young children/babies listen to music is it engages multiple networks within the brain in order to grow that mesh of connections. I understand that brain development is more complicated than that, but psychology is more complicated than Jung's functions. Stereotypes only continue exist when they're used, you can stop that cycle 🤔 people have a warped and subjective sense of reality. Don't influence it wrongly if you can help it. We live in the information age. I say this as a digital native soaking up books and wikipedia articles 24/7 but a lot of the literature written in the US or in English between 1950-today contains intentional misinformation. Though with older people especially, many here have a broken bullshit-meter when it comes to conspiracy theories. Like thinking the world is flat, or that they hate people on land they've never stepped foot on. and damn. People pay a lot of money to take advantage of this. 😑 A war on the ever-fleeting concept of truth, usually scapegoating other humans or their beliefs.
In the video, the words 'Strategic Waiting' isn't even in the true ESTP's vocabulary. ESTP's act almost always quickly, improvising as necessary. They are terrific first responders. Reflection is only done AFTER the action and its consequences are realized.
My brother typed ESTJ with MBTI, but his vultology type is ESTP. I can definitely see his Se in that he is really focused on the facts, on reality, on the here and now, but may neglect more abstract, 'spiritual' ideas, seeing them as nonexistent. He is also extremely logical and is very much a devil's advocate, almost like an ENTP but more realistic.
@5:16 Fight = challenge ? @7:00 Se = primal instinct and physical aptitude, ability to "read" or attunement to (and ability to manipulate/wield) immediate physical environment and body language. I know you are taking these examples from celebritytypes page but Taylor Swift? Artistic ability is highly correlated with the F function (and femininity). That's why artistic men tend to have emphasized feminine traits. Taylor is most likely an ESFJ. Hemingway is most likely an ISTP. He looks like an introvert rather than a charming/manipulative extraverted talker. Just my 2 cents. thanks for another good video on types :)
My daughter is actually an athletic, energetic, live in the moment charmer, with highly developed powers of persuasion.😂😂😂 I called her a general this morning. You want her on that wall. You NEED her on that wall!😄
Excellent, this reminds me Jordan Peterson lectures in some way. I think that man is an INFJ; is like the didactic passion of the ENFJ combined with the Ni, symbolic and pattern detailed analysis.
@@Cory_P He might developed his Ti, but JBP is all about symbols and patterns (Ni) and he often discredit other theories or facts (Te). He can be incredibly emotional in his lectures, to the point of crying. Also INFJs are the best therapists, like the same Jung.
The inferior introverted intuition of ESTPs tends to result in amusing behavior pertaining to social perceptions. From worrying about the implications of deciding on a name to how people will react to a new haircut. In ESFPs, the inferior Ni may manifest as paranoia and distrust. It is interesting to note that extraverted sensation types may give more credence to obscure potentialities than realistically plausible. Although amusing, the expression of the tertiary function does become obnoxious when the person is caught in the grip of the inferior. Michael, your video was informative and comprehensive as always - though lacking original insight. Your comparisons and analogies make your explanations reasonably entertaining. Have you done any research into Enneagram? Shah
Thank you! And you're absolutely right; I'm a compiler and presenter of information. I knit the rug, but I didn't get the matireal myself, I just organized it. Which is why I can't stress enough the debt I owe to both Jung and CelebrityTypes. I actually haven't done a lot of research into Enneagram, but I am familiar with it.
Michael Pierce I think you're largely underselling yourself. You have an ability to articulate clearly and succinctly that surpasses anything I've seen from Jung or CelebrityTypes.
Michael Pierce INFJ, Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists. I am an INTP, I'm currently learning all the 16 personality types. As an introvert, a highly introvert actually, I only know few people which makes it hard for me to understand some of
Michael Pierce Vince Yutuc He presents his points in a Ti way, but if you pay attention to his word choice and general expression here, you'll find strong Fe pretty quickly.
Interesting what you said about INFJ and ESTP relationships. tend to see the ESTP as the most psychopathic of all (psychopathy seen as a continuum), while the INFJ tends to be a highly sensitive person. "Demons and angels", respectively.
If we do it by your standards here then the most psychopathic types are ESTJ then ENTJ because they have Fi last and love to plan. Also ISTP and INTP as they have Fe last. But ESTP have Fe third and overall you are so wrong on many perspectives here. I guess you don't know enough nor about types nor about psychological issues like psychopathy.
I want to become a campaign manager of a future Indian Prime Minister. I also want to become Prime Minister. Maybe I'll become my own campaign manager.
Roberto Almonaci the subject matter is not boring, but rather the voice is monotone. If you can get past the rather flat vocals, it's a well put together presentation!
@@lucyk2634 hmm maybe monotone isn't the precise fit. Maybe it sounds too " Matter of factly", or maybe it was his cadence. Either way, the narrator did a great job, I'm not knocking him. I can just see how some people might have other preferences.
As an ISTP, I can relate to some of the ESTP traits like loving the "fight" ifor its own sake and enjoying the experience.
You are correct about fight club dichotomy between Edward Norton INFJ and Brad Pitt ESTP. - Great example
INFJ married to a ESTP for 10 years, this is scary accurate of him and very well put together. I love ESTPs but maybe its because everything I lack lol.
I'm an ESTP. I feel like a timebomb sometimes, like I'm about to explode into a million pieces that hopefully does something useful
+Cory Chapman You could be the lead presidential candidate Donald Trump, an overt ESTP. You will never need a teleprompter.
Our glorious emperor Trump is an ESTP. Get it right Tim
Tim Holt
What makes you think this?
Lol I am an INFJ and my boss is an ESTP. Our interactions are always so awkward.
Michael Hudgins I have an INFJ in my team and I love it. Deep dives during a coffee chat, excellent interpersonal advice. I’m fascinated by her Ni-Fe.
My boss in ESTP and I'm INFJ too. I used to dislike him because I couldn't work him out, but I'm now very fond of him
awkward is the word. talking to INFJs somehow makes me uncomfortable and i want to run from it
@@premortem4680 Same!! So glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I always offended my INFJ ex literally just by being myself. It was horrible.
@@supersarah5673 unless they’re genuinely that bad a person, it’s hard to hate someone once you understand them. Everyone’s beautiful in their own way. Some of these things just take a while but once you’ve kind of cracked them you’re good to go.
My husband is an ESTP and I'm an INTJ. Sometimes communication is difficult and he sees first hand that I'm very detached from the outside world. This was very helpful to my understanding :)
Those are my parents' types! My dad's INTJ and my mom's ESTP
....I'm ENFP, so understanding them can be challenging haha :)
This might be a little late, but as an INTJ who has a history with an ESTP, I'm curious what your relationship dynamics are like, and why you decided to marry. Hmmm, probably a complicated question for a TH-cam comment section...Ahh well.
as an estp, i can give you the advice to say openly how you feel about things. dont worry about triggering us, you wont. just be open as often as possible, because we tend to not have high levels of cognitive empathy
I'm an estp female with an intp husband and you do the best job with both of our personalities!
It's the first time I found such a combination - INTP + ESTP- online, and I have been reading and watching tons of materials about ESTP.
I always get INTP result on tests, but lately I met this ESTP and he is like the exact opposite of everything I am, so it got me thinking, maybe I'm actually an INFJ? And more I read about INFJ the more it seems accurate, also I heard INTP and INFJ are often each others mistypes.
Do you have a lot in common with your partner? Do you think alike?
ESTPs are so charming.
Thank you for noticing.
you might enjoy the fact that infj and estp (iei and sle respectively) are called the dual relationship in socionics. meaning the most optimal/enjoyable.
Joshua Marshall Yeah -- after I made this video I started looking into that more. I think when first meeting they can have trouble, but over time they can discover they are very similar on a deeper level because of their function axes.
I had an INFJ partner. We understood each other without a single word. Intentions, thoughts, all of it. We just clicked. I lived with her a year, we fought more than I've ever fought anyone and we fed into each other's insecurities. Breaking up was the right decision, we brought out the worst in each other- I felt like an unfeeling robot around her. lol
Couple years ago I ended up dating an extremely independent ENFP. she has two degrees, one of which being a master's in psychology, and it's a world of difference. Calm conversations, 0 fights, realistic expectations, passionate adventures, and most importantly the mutual constant support and encouragement to do better for the world around us. We just got a dog 🐶 and we both work at non-profits
I think what make xSxP standout from other type is because Se is on the "upper" function mean that they are the guys/girl who willing to act now and make things happen. the other type that come close to this that are not xSxP that I saw would be ENTJ and ENFJ. Note that I'm quite new on MBTI topic so I might be wrong.
Ps. Your channel is a very good place to learn about MBTI
Once your done with the sixteen types, it'd be interesting to see some videos on "shadow" types like the INFJ and ESTP. What you had to say about the repulsion yet dangerous attraction hits the nail on the head regarding my attitude as an ENTP to ISFJ
As an INFP, I find this quite awe-inspiring and intriguing, given I share no functions with this type. Your video has stirred up some really deep-down ESTPiness repressed in my psyche, further down than my ESTJ part of the psyche.
ISTP's are cooler.
Can you please tell me more about ESTP and INFP relationship?
Thank you. -ESTP comrade
you do not change types. that's the whole point. but as you grow and mature you can become stronger in some areas becoming more well rounded. that is why most tests say to think of early memories of childhood, teen, and young adult years.
Thanks man. I used to think ESTPs are like Steve Stifler
but when they are both enneagram 8, the entj and estp become really similar
ESTP/8 yup.
SAWYERRR
from lost...
ESTP - Boromir - Knight
ISTP - Aragorn - Ranger
but I love intellectual banter XD
A lot of ESTPs do. However, they really love *doing* heheh. I know an ESTP and we get intellectual all the time. INTP
I think ESFPs are more aversive to intellectual banter than ESTPs. ENTPs are often noted to be more intellectually or academically oriented than their ENFP sister type, because of Ti. ESTPs can have a certain thoughtful side, but this side is not very pretentious or highly intellectual like some Ni types can come across as.
Very acurate!
please do the SFJs next? Thanks :) i finally get a good portrayal of the estp. very very helpful as one of my main characters is an estp
Excellent work again, Michael. :)
STPs largely shaped my (INFJ) youth. Would You consider doing the ISFP next?
Nemetonic Ontology Well, I have...but I've also gotten requests to do ESFJ, or ISFJ, or ESFP next....so I'm not really sure who I'm going to do next I'm afraid, but all of those will get done soon enough!
ESTP 22 years old- yes to most of this but I want to challenge you in that very few ESTPs I've met are anti-theory.
Jargon is often non-inclusive, you have to be "in the know". Technical language as a tool to learn about theories- is a lot of effort for anyone. Water it down, especially in the US (as my subjective knowledge and experience extends) where the vocabulary rarely extends beyond one, or even two languages, and labor is highly specialized.
ESTPs; We're stimulus seeking, and that very directly builds the brain's potential capacity for cognition. One of the reasons they advise having young children/babies listen to music is it engages multiple networks within the brain in order to grow that mesh of connections. I understand that brain development is more complicated than that, but psychology is more complicated than Jung's functions.
Stereotypes only continue exist when they're used, you can stop that cycle 🤔 people have a warped and subjective sense of reality. Don't influence it wrongly if you can help it.
We live in the information age. I say this as a digital native soaking up books and wikipedia articles 24/7 but a lot of the literature written in the US or in English between 1950-today contains intentional misinformation. Though with older people especially, many here have a broken bullshit-meter when it comes to conspiracy theories. Like thinking the world is flat, or that they hate people on land they've never stepped foot on. and damn. People pay a lot of money to take advantage of this. 😑 A war on the ever-fleeting concept of truth, usually scapegoating other humans or their beliefs.
There is always the contrary ESTP. I can be such a procrastinator. I tend to analyze shit out of everything before acting.
You might be in the grip of your NI
@@babycakes8514 that's me
In the video, the words 'Strategic Waiting' isn't even in the true ESTP's vocabulary. ESTP's act almost always quickly, improvising as necessary. They are terrific first responders. Reflection is only done AFTER the action and its consequences are realized.
@@Phaedrus-th7bi Over time, the desire and ability to strategize develops. ESTPs are not fools, they learn from their mistakes.
My brother typed ESTJ with MBTI, but his vultology type is ESTP. I can definitely see his Se in that he is really focused on the facts, on reality, on the here and now, but may neglect more abstract, 'spiritual' ideas, seeing them as nonexistent. He is also extremely logical and is very much a devil's advocate, almost like an ENTP but more realistic.
@5:16 Fight = challenge ?
@7:00 Se = primal instinct and physical aptitude, ability to "read" or attunement to (and ability to manipulate/wield) immediate physical environment and body language.
I know you are taking these examples from celebritytypes page but Taylor Swift? Artistic ability is highly correlated with the F function (and femininity). That's why artistic men tend to have emphasized feminine traits. Taylor is most likely an ESFJ.
Hemingway is most likely an ISTP. He looks like an introvert rather than a charming/manipulative extraverted talker.
Just my 2 cents. thanks for another good video on types :)
Lol my ex was an INFJ. I always felt a low lying sense of disgust and there were always miscommunications occurring. It was just bad.
Interesting. I feel the same about INFP husband, thinking I need the J. Lol
@@aberdeen14 i’m actually an entj. Lol. I like infps.
My daughter is actually an athletic, energetic, live in the moment charmer, with highly developed powers of persuasion.😂😂😂 I called her a general this morning. You want her on that wall. You NEED her on that wall!😄
Woah, Taylor Swift is estp? I wanna hear why, can someone explain it to me?
Michael. I was typed by DSP as ENTJ TeF SeM
Then by Twfp ESTP
Can you help me out?
Excellent, this reminds me Jordan Peterson lectures in some way. I think that man is an INFJ; is like the didactic passion of the ENFJ combined with the Ni, symbolic and pattern detailed analysis.
I would argue that he is too much of a thinker to be a feeler.
@@Cory_P He might developed his Ti, but JBP is all about symbols and patterns (Ni) and he often discredit other theories or facts (Te).
He can be incredibly emotional in his lectures, to the point of crying.
Also INFJs are the best therapists, like the same Jung.
Valid points. That seems to be true.
~7:55 "I have never procrastinated about anything" Sounds like Donald Trump. Read about his work ethic in "The Art of the Deal"
Gandhi was a terribly deceitful man, by the looks of it. Churchill had good instincts!
The inferior introverted intuition of ESTPs tends to result in amusing behavior pertaining to social perceptions. From worrying about the implications of deciding on a name to how people will react to a new haircut. In ESFPs, the inferior Ni may manifest as paranoia and distrust. It is interesting to note that extraverted sensation types may give more credence to obscure potentialities than realistically plausible. Although amusing, the expression of the tertiary function does become obnoxious when the person is caught in the grip of the inferior.
Michael, your video was informative and comprehensive as always - though lacking original insight. Your comparisons and analogies make your explanations reasonably entertaining. Have you done any research into Enneagram?
Shah
Thank you! And you're absolutely right; I'm a compiler and presenter of information. I knit the rug, but I didn't get the matireal myself, I just organized it. Which is why I can't stress enough the debt I owe to both Jung and CelebrityTypes.
I actually haven't done a lot of research into Enneagram, but I am familiar with it.
Michael Pierce I think you're largely underselling yourself. You have an ability to articulate clearly and succinctly that surpasses anything I've seen from Jung or CelebrityTypes.
good video man, i like
Did talk much about the Ti of estp
Yeah; I go into it more in the revisit video. Check the description for the link.
what is the intro song?
La Campanella
Well explained. My sister is an ESTP. Michael, are you an INTP?
Vince Yutuc Thank you! I actually identify best with the INFJ personality, but I was raised by a very strongly typed INTP.
Michael Pierce INFJ, Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists. I am an INTP, I'm currently learning all the 16 personality types. As an introvert, a highly introvert actually, I only know few people which makes it hard for me to understand some of
Michael Pierce Vince Yutuc He presents his points in a Ti way, but if you pay attention to his word choice and general expression here, you'll find strong Fe pretty quickly.
Hey AndrewS Ross You're here!
I'm really curious, do you type the people you list as examples in your videos yourself, or do you get them from some well established source?
I get them from another source that I agree with: IDRLabs.
@@MichaelPiercePhilosophy Haha yet again it's a mix of both
Interesting what you said about INFJ and ESTP relationships. tend to see the ESTP as the most psychopathic of all (psychopathy seen as a continuum), while the INFJ tends to be a highly sensitive person. "Demons and angels", respectively.
If we do it by your standards here then the most psychopathic types are ESTJ then ENTJ because they have Fi last and love to plan. Also ISTP and INTP as they have Fe last. But ESTP have Fe third and overall you are so wrong on many perspectives here. I guess you don't know enough nor about types nor about psychological issues like psychopathy.
intp, infp and, estp is triforse
how did my ESTP dad and ISTJ mom end up with an INFJ child? how does that work? it's kind of baffling to me lol.
+David Shepard-Alenko I have ESTP mom and ESTJ dad and also ESFP sister that I raised with and I'm INFJ, so yeah...where the hell we come from :P
+AtomicBomb [783] same here guys, i'm a INFJ and daddy is ESTP and mum an ISFJ.
David Shepard-Alenko we came from God guys we came here to change the world.
The fact that ESTPs are parallel-universe, reverse-INFJs might be something to-do with it.
What is the piece in the beginning?
La campanela
I want to become a campaign manager of a future Indian Prime Minister.
I also want to become Prime Minister.
Maybe I'll become my own campaign manager.
Tyler Durden is ENTP.
nehehehehheehe, peter griffin, is he ESTP`?
I know
thats not the case, you must be a sensor. peter isnt really much ofa people inspirer in my eyes, although, I may be wrong.
Angelina Jolie is INFP....
Taylor Swift is ENTP...
Sorry but you need to revise your celebrity types.
Bex Roulette Taylor and Nicki Minaj are both ENTP? o_o Mind blown.
Dana Oira nicki does seem Ne, but doubt it.
Why do talk as if Ghandi wold be an ENTJ? You labeled him yourself as INFJ.
I mean, Churchill was kind of an asshole, so not the best example...
That's why he would be the best example. With all due respect him.
Pretty sure taylor swift is an ENFJ.
She's esfp, with a highly developed intj subconscious.
Seems she is ENTP
this is so boring
Roberto Almonaci the subject matter is not boring, but rather the voice is monotone. If you can get past the rather flat vocals, it's a well put together presentation!
Why you watching then?
@@justanothervote I don't find even the voice monotone. You can clearly hear his ups and downs in speech and recognise easily what he's thinking.
@@lucyk2634 hmm maybe monotone isn't the precise fit. Maybe it sounds too " Matter of factly", or maybe it was his cadence. Either way, the narrator did a great job, I'm not knocking him. I can just see how some people might have other preferences.
as much as I'd like to sit through this, my ADD isn't letting me 🧑🦯🧑🦯🧑🦯