The Paradox of Becoming Present and How It Affects Those Around You
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
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love this. we all get conditioned as we grow, being present removes the conditioning and takes one closer to truth.
This was really good verbiage and bridging the gap between "spiritual" vs "psychological " amd realizing that every emotional psychological issue is a spiritual growth spurt pushing you through some new surfaces. This helped me, it's certainly up and down feeling amazing then completely confused again!!
@@juliegraham2445 I’m glad you found value in it! Yes it is that way. Presence is unchanging but the human is a bundle of everything 💕
Feels like I'm listening to a BioShock audio tape
WOAHHHH lolol that brought me back!!😂
@@RonHoward2008 Can someone fill me in? Haha
wow i’ve certainly noticed this, i’ve even noticed some ppl feel more comfortable around me when im distracted, confused, feeling anxious & depressed, etc, i think they can vibe match me only when im with them in the funk (misery does indeed love company😅)
Yes yes yes, it does. People think that you must not love them if you don’t sink to their level. Though it is quite the opposite. We came here to be an uplifter and that is only possible by setting example. Exactly! When you’re distracted, you can’t “see” them so to speak. Blessings Xx
Amazing that you mentioned this! People do tend to find me more "interesting" and good to be around, when I'm talking about negative things going on! 😂 You'd think it'd be the opposite.
"Presence is like a BS filter." 💯%. Priceless...!!
About the basil leaf... Once when I was deeply present, I bit into a peach and I fully tasted that wonderful juicy peach and in that same moment I was that peach into which I bit... And I too was wonderful and juicy as I was bit into. It sounds crazy but it was so incredibly wonderful. I can never forget it!
You have a very cool mind. Xx
Every single word resonated so deeply with "me."
You're the kinda person I could spend time with in absolute silence and still feel deeply connected.
This video nourished me just like the basil leaves did you.
Aw that’s so sweet of you. I’m so happy it resonated. 🌿 Sometimes silence and eye gazing is the best form of connection. Blessings Xx
@@Janellerose444 💚
Those kind of people are really gifts to find aren’t they?
@@charliehilbrant Absolutely. Their presence is itself incredibly healing.
Wise woman 💚
Also the “present moment” is an illusion. We are never not present. You can’t get out of the moment. You can’t get into something you’ve never left from. Who’s the one to say you weren’t present? It’s just different fluctuations of frequencies, vibrations and flows of energy. We always are and that’s the freedom..
True liberation is the liberation from the Need to be liberated.
That last line could be a viral meme. ❤
this is awesome, thank you for sharing. the direction of our focus and awareness/perception of that focus is what creates the alchemy of that vibration [the power of 3, object, subject, witness]
Presence is silence. Silent sound. When we listen, we realise the silent sound. The one song, dance play. Harmonics. The human experience is almost like an orchestra that can’t hear themselves. When we learn to listen we will hear the silence and from the silence we realise presence.
I used to think you have to hold eye contact 24/7 when talking to someone but that's BS as well.
It's all about balance. Sometimes staring at the ground for 10 seconds straight actually helps me understand what the person is saying.
Or looking up and to the side to visualize what they're talking about.
Absolutely, I know what you mean!
In my culture if you look at people's eyes that's considered disrespectful and Egotistical
@@cigar8241 Interesting! I know there are many perspectives on this. I think it can go both ways.
@@cigar8241 Which culture?
@@Julez108 East African culture
“This cannot be forced” reminds me of when Ram Dass said “You can’t rip the skin off the snake…” very true
Exactly 🐍🌸
@@Janellerose444 None of your video work in getting a women full of packed fraud you tuber all a big waste of time. No monitors bs loads of videos.
I love you, because I am you!
Love you. 😁😇😉✌🏾
Uhh, this is good. I will remember this. Thank you. Much love.
I love all of you because I see you in me, and you are me, and I am you.
that shit really hit different
instead of psihedelics use breath and fruits
That part where you go in and out is exactly what I couldn’t put into words. Under a mask, under trauma responses, under the assumption of who I am when work is being done, feelings being processed, and inner work is being made organically I met being present. It was has and is a great feeling, but days i fall back and days i fall forward. Almost like even in a state of much progression within its all still a balancing act that is so simple yet so complicated. You’ve always been here then one random day you arrive exactly where you are and that in itself a journey of its own making.
Also realize eye contact is an engagement, for its a gateway to the soul.
The misconception is if you can't look in someone's eyes , you dont have enough power to do so.
When in actuality , not looking in certain eyes gives you the same power as looking into the eyes.
Dont make engagement when it is not needed. Energy's transfers through eye sight also
When I make eye contact with you I see all the way in. Sometimes it’s too much.
Beautiful soul 🙏☺️😎
Shrooms are a great natural "drug" since you mentioned. It creates this new self-awareness and bliss identity that helps you understand the moments and who you can be in the future. Being present is very much like a drug. Being truly present, that is.
This is such a glorious confirmation for me. And, for me, these - lately - seem to come through smaller TH-cam Channels more than anything. It is so good, so inspiring to witness that there truely are alreay so many. It makes me feel alot less alienated and weird. Thank you for this beautiful video. 11:11 on the clock. Much love.
This explains the fact I was afraid to be happy and in my joy. My presence triggered others at a young age and I dealt with a lot of projection. Seemed to come from everywhere. The child took it personally and created meaning from it. Also sat in on three mushroom ceremonies in the past year. Small sacred ceremonies with trauma informed practitioners where this pattern from childhood would repeat where I would zig-zag from feeling joy, happiness, fun, play to pain, despair, sadness, grief. Sitting with the awareness during these gatherings was quite challenging. I also spent a lot of my life feeling insecure all stemming from childhood.
I just stumbled upon this video. You are lucky never forget this as much as possible. You make me feel free
"Presence is like a 🐂 💩 filter." 👌💯🤩
Thank you so much. Very helpful, found it at the right time. Grateful ❤
A younger Teal Swan... Nice!
you are so attractive it's insane :)
keep preachin' 🙏
She is like the entire package . I swear
I was never given the choice that the family of which you speak did not give, but was taken by my Father God, and the Angel of the Seraphim(Voice of God), who spoke this Blessing to the Son of Creation(first born). "You Son shall Rule over All that I have Created upon this Earth, Sky, Water, and Air. And All that comes to the Light from Above and Darkness below by the Love of Our Savior Jesus the Christ Our Lord, The Holy Spirit, and The Grace of the Mother Mary. Amen
“Living resolves itself. To a dance. A cinema. More light.”-John Ashbery
Only a few of us are ready for this message…. I thank you for sharing your wisdom. Perpetuate the Love of this Universe, of this World. Thank you for being you!
I thought it was quite risky to share and sometimes wonder if I should have. But like I’ve said before, I think it’s more of a risk to be inauthentic than authentic now in this time of history. Thank you love! Xx
Just manifested your channel now 👍 great stuff ,
I concur 100% and yes life is majical, but very few people see this.
Saw this at 333 likes and its EVERYTHING I NEEDED TO HEAR❤❤❤❤ THANK U🎉
This felt medicinal. I have noticed how certain kinds of people want to pull you out of the present moment, for example, when they ask you a question, and you are pondering it, and they quickly pressure you to rush out an answer. It can be a fairly benign behavior from people that are just conditioned to lack patience, or a more clever abusive behavior intended to give you no time to think about / feel out what your truth is. You can't make a decision or answer a question with authenticity if you are pressured out of your presence. You're more likely to just blurt out what you think they want to hear.
I'm present.but I need Fetty or Coke❄️⛄ to be and feel Organic 😂. I'm convinced this is Soul hell.Positive thinking does nothing
Daaang! That was some real stuff. Her last words truly....TRULY magnified everything that she said prior to that.
Firstly, the incessant rambling about "presence" is just a dressed-up way of saying, "Hey, look at me, I'm so enlightened!" But guess what? True presence doesn't need a 20-minute soliloquy to explain itself. It's not about how many times you can mention the word "presence" but about actually being engaged with reality.
The speaker claims that eye contact is some mystical barrier that separates the present from the ego-driven. Newsflash: it's basic social interaction, not a portal to another dimension. And using psychedelic experiences as a benchmark for enlightenment? Please. It's like saying drowning in a pool makes you an expert swimmer.
Moreover, the incessant need to reassure oneself and others that they're "present" is ironically the epitome of being caught in one's ego. Real presence isn't about self-congratulation or feeling superior to others; it's about genuine connection and empathy, qualities sorely lacking in this self-absorbed monologue.
The attempt to weave childhood trauma into a narrative about enlightenment is not only shallow but insulting to those who have genuinely struggled. Trauma isn't a shortcut to spiritual awakening; it's a wound that requires healing, not grandiose claims of transcendence.
And let's not forget the contradictory statements: "You're never going to be enlightened... oh wait, maybe you will, but only sometimes, like a flickering light bulb." This isn't wisdom; it's confusion masquerading as profundity.
In conclusion, this verbose diatribe might impress the easily impressed, but beneath the layers of pseudo-intellectualism lies a vacuous void of actual insight. If you truly want to understand presence, try actually listening to others instead of listening to the sound of your own voice.
Please can you do a video talking about your experiences with different psychedelics? I’ve always been interested in how they work, feel and the perspectives gained from doing them .. especially from someone who no longer does it and has taken a spiritual journey .. just a curiosity if you care to share, thanks for the great video 💫💫
Hi Janelle, I struggle with making eye contact and I acknowledge my insecurities and its ok, I am also healing, my flame is drawing closer in harmony to THEE.. God Bless you.
The way you build eye contact.
You have to gain stability within yourself.
When your soul is 100% certain and nothing you experience can remove you from yourself.
You'll be able to look at anyone in the eyes
Awesome video! What you are saying really resonates and I can really relate to you I feel, at least the part of you you are talking about here. Eye contact is such a huge thing, and the shift from not daring to make eye contact to naturally doing it is amazing
Hello women.. Firstly nice video, second.. All I have to say is that if you control your sexual energy and have a pure heart.. Things will good for you.. Eat enough protein, take your vitamins, and workout.. You as a woman should really hit lower body and run a lot more, lol.. Us men need to lift weights and be athletic.. All the best, im aware i just yapped a paragraph.. dont gotta tell me
When you imagine something, or remember, strong feeling or event, you will not be looking at the person across from you, your gaze will be usually lowered down, if it goes up, you are imagining ie. constructing what you will say, kind of a way to tell if someone is lying, but they can turn their gaze up if they are trying to come up with words sometimes. I think this is the reason people don't look you in the eye when they have serious internal drama.
WHAT DU YU MEAN BIY THAT EXPLAIN PLEAS ❤❤❤
perfect timing- thank you
This video is great and well-spoken!! Your authenticity truly shines. Excited to watch your vids.
You are beautiful. and I love you. 😘
Thanks YT to recommending this video, I want to know people like you! even if it's just on the internet
I appreciate you trying to talk about things that words and language are often insufficient for. Pretty thorough, and its nice that I'm seeing this in low view count. Also nice keyboard.
One knows exactly what you mean! People who are kind and honest like one's presence and company, and one can count those people on one hand. The world and this reality is being unveiled and exposed. One has to be careful as when those inferior people see and feel your light it doesn't resonate with them and exposes there deceit, thus they cast their problems upon the righteous among us. One feels the resentment but one does not entertain as this is the object of their low thoughts. This whole reality is dualistic and paradoxical. One can learn how to resolve this law. Thanks for sharing Janellle Rose. We are one and share the same consciousness.
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Absolutely love your insight here beautiful soul. You are absolutely right. Thank you for sharing. Blessings your way. Xx
Hey if I'm going to be honest, I'm at the darker side of the spectrum at the moment. Thanks for opening my thoughts though. I enjoyed your video.
@@Janellerose444 Thank you for your kind words.
This was a perfect way too put all of it
Now I'm in this state of consciousness I'm drawing in more people in the same state, I'm thankful for people like you.
I don't make eye contact very well, but it is no problem with a spiritualy tuned person. Matrix programes are a chalange. I Have no name . That. Nice Owl.
Love that. ❤
Interesting talk. I wonder how ADHD affects this. One of the symptoms is racing thoughts / "zoning out". I have the condition and once I started taking meds I'd notice my "presence" turning on more often.
@@irascib1e Well all ADHD is, is usually an inability to focus typically dating back to trauma. It’s the light is on but no one is there. I’m in a room but I’m not present because it’s too painful to be with myself. Usually a coping mechanism believe it or not. I try to steer clear from labels because it keeps one trapped in that paradigm and feeling more helpless when you are not. I was a meth user at 16 and I remember the same feeling. After all, if you are talking about adderal it’s only one hydrogen molecule less than meth. It forces your brain to ultra focus and can seem like you are present. It increases the dopamine in your brain and makes your prefrontal cortex work better, at least in the beginning.
You are so clear, girl! ❤❤❤
I love you because I am you
111k likes is kinda crazy
Paradoxically organically
Please play some piano!
You would never do shrooms again? I never have but heard positive things about it
I did some on the weekend. Very confronting look at myself and where I am in life. I think I was able to see it as a positive experience due to the work I've done so far, but I can understand how others would call it a "bad trip".
Have you ever been at a business networking function? It’s amazing how some of those who walk up and shake your hand don’t look you in the eye. They’re usually shaking your hand while looking around the room for the next person. Underneath the social/professional facade is fear of genuine connection.
Yes, I know exactly what you’re talking about! This is so spot on.
Excellent video 👌
Oh no, it IS hell.
THANK YU ❤❤❤❤
You ever notice when a bunch of leaves blow , it sounds like the ocean
Wow, I’ll have to listen more next time that happens. Beautiful.
Hi. It was very very important for me to see this video today. Thank you.
The White Buffalo was born on June 4th.
bullshit filter. love that
Happy to see another present
New subscriber
Thank you! ❤
@@Janellerose444 are you on Instagram?
We need more women like you
At some point trying to explain and describe it, or make some ideas about how it works is just confusing. The mind loves to play around with concepts, but what you are trying to describe is too subtle for the medium of language. I guess one of the benefits of presence is that your linguistic expressions become more like poetry, artistically guiding the listener to there own insight rather than believing you can accurately describe something true to them
Exactly! Absolutely love this. Because nobody actually ever teaches you, they simply may strike a cord within you that will resonate with an experience you’ve had to make you connect the dots of something that becomes meaningful to you, you see. Xx
Great video, great explanation, this is how i was when i was young. Experiencing life and conditioning helped me beome resentful and hateful. Currently becoming who iv always been.
Thank you
This message popped up on my timeline at a perfect moment. The mirroring of thought is confirmation. Thank you and love ❤️🔥💞😘🤗
Very good. Love it. Everything you talk about, is indeed spot on.
Doesn't hurt that you're absolutely stunning, either. You radiate strongly ❤
well needed
gift of presence
*Hugs* Rare relatable human being, they aren't just some thoughts. If science were honest, it'd have gone mad pursuing truth instead of settling, but here you are putting it into the simple and vital truth. If you know, you know. Love you with all my heart.
Just come across this and you are on the right track for sure! Be nice to have someone like you to converse with as people in my reality do not comprehend such knowledge.
@@paulrowe-c3c I’m in the same boat. But what I do that helps is I drop seeds of knowledge with no expectation. I love them in ways they don’t know they need. I find people elsewhere that can entertain these topics, even over the interwebs. There are so many who feel this way. Bless you Xx
@@Janellerose444
Thank you for taking the time to reply what a kind soul you are 🙏
There are two people you have to look up Janell🙏
Ajahn brahm
Adyshanti
They are both on youtube but particularly Adyshanti will feed you massively so do give them a listen and let me know your thoughts if you wish to communicate further 👌
Best,
Paul.
Thanks for popping up in my feed.
Here’s the biggest paradox.
Small channels are bigger than big channels.
Direct, no fluff and legit.
Another paradox,
I hope you get big, but at the same time stay small. Quality content.
Thank you for making this video. I subscribed
Wowww, the way you explained this helped me feel so much empathy, that really resonated. Also, I’m sorry you had a bad mushroom experience. I’ve had a few experiences, all were very beautiful, luckily.
Just laid in bed and somehow got recommended this video and wow, the algorithm really blessed me tonight haha.
Super beautiful message & words.
This video beautifully explains the balance of being present and its impact on our relationships. Truly enlightening!
Love this!
Great video
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Beautiful x. Wise words Janelle, life is its own purpose, it simply is. The identification with the human ego and all that ensues from that is the human condition, it's simplicity itself - absolutely astonishing! Thanks for sharing x
Superb and beautifully described without any of the interference patterns of societies ideologies that attempt to explain this remarkable phenomena. But it's not really a phenomena - it is the sandbox we are in that truly stands out. Realizing it is just the normal state. I love watching the transition from here to there as Janelle recalled the past, pulling up the memory engram and temporarily entering that timeline. The entirety of our past is before us like a Rolodex letting us zoom into that moment and see all the interconnected threads of dependencies. This has to be the best, plainly spoken, account of this awareness state I have seen.
Can you make a video on all your favourite books that helped you.
Hey! I can do that hopefully in the near future ❤
Beautiful. Through Love all is possible.
i have a lot talks like these i listen to on youtube but i realized that so many are from a male perspective, as a 21 yr old male i appreciate your take, and words of wisdom :)
🙂
Thank you for this video!
Can we be friends? Let's go play in the surf!
Such an amazing being, thank you so much Janelle! 💖
Love & Light 💚✨
Lovely authentic sharing, recounting your own struggles. We humans seem to be very much still evolving. Poor ego, creates a lot of problems and gets a bad rap. I wonder if it’s just innocently trying to do its best caught up in survivalist mode, until Presence shows up and says, “Don’t worry, you can relax, I got this!”
Dude, love this! Looking forward to following you. Thank you for your transparency.
I think they don’t freak me out because I naturally am in the moment. It’s all these other people that want me to worry about the future and the past so much…and they don’t seem very happy. Living alone has changed things for me.
TY. I appreciate your reflections about eye contact and recalling your experience with avoidance.
I’ve also experienced another theme around this, where lack of eye contact was simply following a directive of presence, rather than following a script that I “should” make eye contact simply to satisfy a norm or expectation.
Thank you for sharing this video.
This is very beautiful. I love you too because I am you
Psychedelics are great for revealing the door to awareness that you never even knew existed. They force one into a state of equanimity = not wishing unpleasant situations to end, not wishing pleasant situations to continue. Pure equanimity is enlightenment. When you're in such a state you see reality for what it is, perfection, this absolute shift in your perception especially if your baseline is depression or constant anxiety is what causes fear.
After mediating 1 - 2 hours a day for a year every time I do mushrooms now I achieve an enlightened state that can then just be enjoyed. You look at something and become that thing.
For anyone reading, if you still haven't witnessed the door of awareness give mushrooms a try. Start with 1g, then a month or so later try 3 - 3.5. You will then know what it means to be somebody who develops awareness through integration and the need to spend time just observing.
which one should i try first?