We have to stop relying on the government teachers, relatives, t.v., counselors, etc., to raise our kids. That’s a lazy parents way out! That young girl standing up there with smile on her face like she’s proud becase she’s been to rehab 4 times. Someone needs to explain to this child, she shouldn’t be proud she’s been to rehab 4 times! That’s the parent’s responsibility straight-up!!
The government has nothing to do with the failure of black families. USA is the richest country on earth there is no reason for blacks people to give excuses for this failure. We need to step up our game, get an education or own a business.
I don’t know. Most people I’ve ever known on drugs or dealing with it need multiple stints in treatment and counseling. Meanwhile they lapse and rob, steal and kill. My aunt was one of them. Wished they’d lock her up she might still be alive.
this made me really emotional. at least both women were very forthcoming about their hardships & shortcomings. i hope she gets the help she needs, because her mom is more than a little supportive!!
The mother needs just as much help as her daughters, because mother was failed growing up too. And the cycle of abandonment and dysfunction will continue with Carlisha's kids. Sad.
He cares like no other. I feel it's because hes been in the bad life. Not necessarily hard drugs but he was in the streets. And hes filled with. Heart of gold. Love him
@@meganmartin2037 that’s exactly it. You get a rich kid who becomes a judge because he’s ambitious, and that person can’t even BEGIN to understand what’s going on in poor communities and what causes these types of behaviors and what can be done to fix tell
@@CMM726 exacly girl!! How can someone know what it's like coming from the bottom and having to build an empire if from day one it's been handed to you.
@@meganmartin2037 I think part of the problem our government has had in tackling issues like drug addiction, poverty, and domestic violence is due to the fact that For the longest time, the majority of people in positions of power that dictate public policy were rich White men. They don’t understand what’s causing a person to become addicted to drugs like that. They may have had a happy suburban life growing up. So they may perceive a homeless addict as someone who just chooses to be an asshole, and their solution to that in the past was harsh punishment. They thought “let’s see how they like sitting in jail. I bet they won’t do that again.” But we know how well the war on drugs worked out! This is because we now know that addiction is the symptom, not the disease itself. The cycle of poverty and oppression causes people to feel hopeless. I think the fact that someone like judge Mathis has made it to become a judge and tv show gives me hope, because he’s got the platform to explain these things to the masses. It takes forever for real change to ever occur in government, but I’m hoping to see some positive changes in the future. Although, seeing how 2020 is going, maybe that’s a bit too optimistic.
Mama is smooth, she knew the only way her daughter would get help is to take her to judge Mathis and “sue” over something she definitely didn’t care about, and it worked‼️💖 praying for this family 🙏🏾
Mom needs therapy as well. Sounds like she has a lot of unresolved trauma herself which stopped her from guiding her daughters a bit more than she did. Praying for the whole family... especially those babies😢
Willie Lipscomb was my college professor and I was his class assistant as well. I actually attended the Gun prevention program quite a few times with my class. It was very enlightening and educational we also attended the Detroit city morgue. I truly miss the Judge😌😩God bless his soul 🙏🏾
He truly was awesome. He was a personal friend of my Dad. He bought a lot of my fathers art work and many of my classmates knew and visited his home. I remember having some of his white Chilli. His death was so sad and tragic. He was a really compassionate man and people person. Every body knew Judge Willy! May He rest in power.
This is sooooo sad! I hope she gets clean and stay clean. Hopefully can get her kids back. Please God bless her to overcome this addiction and give you the glory.
I would definitely vote for Judge Mathis for President. You can't convince me that he doesn't care about the ppl... You just can't. I love this man. He is loving caring.... Just awesome
@@876me7 I don't have a reason besides the fact that I believe that they are "selected" and not "elected".... I really felt it was a waste of time and I've never heard a "want-to-be" president convince me enough that they really care about the ppl. I've NEVER heard anyone speak with so much compassion, wisdom, understanding, empathy, etc for ppl of all backgrounds, like I have judge Mathis. In so many words, I've never been convinced they genuinely care
My heart goes out to them. But mom seems to have a lot of excuses. About allowing her daughter to go live with "friends" who ultimately turned out to be her boyfriends grandmother at age 17. I'm sure she regrets it daily. I hope the daughter can get off drugs and get her children back. If you are reading this YOU ARE WORTHY, YOUR KIDS ARE WORTH IT. WE ARE ROOTING FOR YOU!
I absolutely agree. That part of mom's story was upsetting. Also the part about four high-school in 2 years. I hope she is able to heal and get her kids back.
Thank u! I said the same why u let BOTH daughters doing the same thing? I’m sorry but d mom probably got a guy in her life cuz this not adding up if u ain’t on drugs what else keeps u from being a better parent-men
@@Melmel1231 I don't think its a man in her life. I think she wasn't taught or know how to be a parent. She admitted herself (while judge was talking she said it) she's beating her self up because both girls graduated and were good students but went down that wrong path with friends. The mother needs someone to give her courage and have a backbone. She feels like she failed, you see the Judge is helping her with the situation. Thats what the mother needs someone to help and guide her.
@@gl3771 I totally agree. People are saying the mother is hiding something and are saying the mother neglected her daughter, I don't feel that vibe from this particular mother. She had it ruff growing up herself and didn't really have guidance herself so what was she going to be able to give to her daughters??? What the world needs is love, we all need each other. It really does take a village to raise a child and unless folks are ready to roll their sleeves up and get their hands dirty to be a part of that village, they should not be so quick to point fingers. The system and society failed that family.
That girl needs a higher level of treatment than outpatient. She needs inpatient residential for at least 3-6 months THEN an IOP (intensive outpatient) like the judge was speaking on followed by the NA meetings he spoke of. In the meetings she can build a network & a foundation & even get a sponsor who acts as a mentor to guide her through the 12 steps of Narcotics Anonymous. I truly pray that she finds a way out. I once WAS her, minus all the jail stuff, but the judge did the same to my mother over something petty when my kids SHOULD have been with her. I fought like hell to get them back and went through the aforementioned process. It wasn’t easy, but if I can do it...she/anyone can. I haven’t drank or used since 8/8/17. We DO recover! There’s enough of a stigma attached to addiction as it is, all these courts do is further perpetuate it by failing ppl at every turn. Thank you, Judge Mathis, for showing compassion & empathy where others have lacked it. I pray for those babies, the mother and grandma. I hope they get better! 🙏🏼😪💔
Praise God my prayers are for the families to get help like u said sister. She also need a lot of prayers. God delivered me I didn't have to go through rehab only God's 🙏 rehab
I just wanted to congratulate you on your sobriety. It's not an easy thing to do at the best of times, but to stay clean during 2020 took serious guts and determination. Wishing you and your family happiness and success for the years ahead 💕 x
@@georgina-a Thank you! You’re right, it WASN’T easy in 2020 & still gets hard at times even now in 2021...but I keep pushing forward NO MATTER WHAT! I appreciate the kind words, it means a lot! 🙏🏼
This is the most powerful episode I ever watched. I pray for this two ladies , their prosperity and healthy. Judge Mathis is truly so amazing , bless him
Honey, I don't think I like cases like this, it made me tear up. Now, I'm sitting in my car, supposed to be Thanksgiving shopping, but I'm watching Judge Mathis with tears running down my face.... Looking like a sad puppy 😢🤦🏾♀️
The court system in that area makes money on programs that are in place when children are placed in foster care. Please research these states and the money that is made via these programs,
Yes that's very true and it's more widely spread across states than we could ever imagine. I had a childhood friend that asked me to take in her 3 babies and I prepared my family. Those case workers were so against it (paid to be) they said so many things to make her change her mind. It's so sad I was so prepared for those children
Shes also NOT ready to change. Until she is she is going to drag everyone dear to her through. A been there done that got the T-shirt and a bumper sticker to prove what I say I helped my brother by raising his children, adopting them, helping him and also helping my mother (who died trying hang in there with him) and it hurt every last one of us until he was ready.
A person on drugs has to really want to stop using. On top of having a strong desire to stop they also need support... daily support to get on track and stay on track.
@@Bellalovelola we look at the mom who has tried and tried but where the hell is the daddy? I was a single mom raised 4 children but no father. I had no other choice but to do what I had to do. However fortunately I succeeded. Hard work tho. By God's grace and mercy.
Stfu you don’t know what the mother did or didn’t do! It’s not her fault her daughter ended up on drugs. She didn’t introduce her to drugs! She got into drugs because of her boyfriend!
I am a recovering drug addict of 6 years. I never received real counseling, or meetings. I agree 100% with Judge Mathis. I can relate to this girl. I sadly knew a girl who would just throw her friends out of her car too. It's such a sad situation. Society does treat people different. It's awful. My mother was the only one who never gave up on me and helped me to get treatment. One day I want to be a substance abuse therapist and I plan to turn my trauma into a good thing. ♥︎I absolutely agree with the judge.♥︎
@@Nikki-ci5ze girl what ?? i dont know who told you that but thats a lie . He is a former gang member. He nor his mom or dad was a drug addict. He just advocates for people struggling with addiction and loves helping them.
The C.P.S is crazy fpr charging this women for fraud and denying her all because she had someone else's food stamp card dont they know that by now that all of us do that.
The mom is a horrible mother!! I’m sorry but parents need to do better!!! Children need support financially, spiritually, emotionally, plans, & goals ...
Mainly the part about sending her off... she graduated from hs, she could of worked or went to school... then come to find out she went to live off a boy and his grandma? Ofc she’d be pregnant in 3 months... I think Mom loves her kid a lot but mom was doing her own thing and let her do hers
she wasn't raised by a mother and had a father that couldn't parent well. that may have affected her ability to mother. then, there is no mention of a father for her daughters. statistically, children brought up in single mother households are more likely to do drugs, have kids out of wedlock, get divorced, end up in prison. a mother and a father in the house are dire to the development of a child.
Truth be told. First her mother failed her, and then the system failed her as well. This young lady speaks very well. I pray to God that her touch her, and seen her an angel to help her. Please get the help you need, you are a smart young lady. God please and I mean please touch this family. I was in tears looking at this. Thank you Judge Mathis may God continue to bless you.
She’s So Beautiful... As A Young Black Man Wr Have To Protect Out Young Black Queens... I Am So Sorry To Even See This Happening.. I Hope Everything Works Out In Her Favor 😩😩😩
As many tears I produced on here I was expecting one of you to offer me a Kleenex through the screen! I am so grateful that Judge Mathis also uses his Court show to educate the society on +/- knowledge worthy issues. May God give this young lady and her family the guidance they need.💕
This had me in tears because the mother didn’t have anyone to really speak life into her so that impacted her ability to do the same for her daughters. I pray that all generational curses over this family be removed! God’s love over them all!!
I love the way judge mathis actually takes peoples lives into consideration and care about what they are going thru and gives them real life advice. If more judges were like him maybe the crime rates would go down and the world would be a better place
As much as I understand the Judge’s sentiment, expecting a system that was never designed to take care of all equally and responsibly is getting old. The mom could have made better decisions in regards to how she raised her daughter. Just because the young lady is smart, doesn’t mean she’s equipped to handle life’s woes. The onus is on the mother ultimately. Fuck the system! BE the system that equips your child beyond high school, especially when you’re aware of a cycle within your own lineage!
Her daughter is going through enough and her mom is worried about $300. I understand everyone needs help here & there, but this is your child, who is still young and needs your help so that she can stay away from drugs. She needs your support. This is the perfect example of a toxic mother! Shes going through enough & probably doesn't know how to save just spends her money on getting high. She needs to help her build better habits 💯🙏 praying for both ladies.
I don’t think her mom took her to court for the rent I think it was all about trying to get her help from the judge which I am ecstatic that the young lady agreed to
@@cc-tw8on My thoughts exactly. She brought no evidence, nothing. She was just adamant to relate their story to the judge and she knows how he feels about drug abuse.
I feel like the mom didn't really have a case, she just wanted the daughter to get help. I'm so glad she did. I cried hearing how the system failed her, which isn't surprising as a black woman
This breaks my heart. Mom played a pivotal role in the downward spiraling of her daughter. My heart goes out to them both and I hope she not only accepts help but is ultimately successful!
I hope and pray with all my heart and soul this beautiful Queen gets the help that she needs, you can do it baby girl! Don’t give up on yourself, your babies need you, this world needs you!! ❤️
It breaks my heart that that’s the reason the kids had to go somewhere else I grew up in the system it’s worse than the streets God bless the mother and the daughter judge Mathis you’re the best
I know exactly what you mean. I was just thinking about the opium problem they were having and how they jump real quick to help these young people of the different persuasion to help get them off of it. They don’t care about us. This is why we need to get with our city officials and start programs that’s going to help us overcome our addictions and other problems that we have in our community
People of color can get treatment just as well as whites smh There’s PLENTY of clinics/treatment centers in these cities ! U can’t force ANYONE to get help REGARDLESS OF COLOR ! I’m a recovering addict myself that just started going to a methadone clinic a wk ago yesterday !
Some parents can’t see that their lack of parenting contribute to their kids going astray. Blaming everything in their own life for why they wasn’t the best parent. Bull crap
I love how even tho he’s on national tv he’s not scared to call out the bs that goes on in the government and is involved with programs that really help people❤️
What a beautiful, beautiful girl... I wish her healing and the very best in life. She deserves a second chance at life and she can turn it around and be there for her children.
Parenting fail. This keeps going when it’s never corrected. I was young and dumb and had to grow up but somethings have always scares me and that bad men and drugs!
I'm a counselor in Addiction in Toledo Ohio and this is something that is happening here for young people. If it is the same young lady she recently passed away. I pray that people see this and WANT to change and for good.
Mom (plaintiff) is trying! SAD! to hear there wasn't other Family members around to give the plaintiff guidance at a young age; (mother was killed in a car accident when I was young, we (me & 2 brothers) raised by father's Mother & mainly that side of the Family, STRONG female/male family members to help us, SO THANKFUL!), it's NEVER too late for turn their situation around, WISHING THEM THE BEST!
It’s obvious this mother did not think much about her children’s future and well-being. Even after one daughter got pregnant at 18 that did not wake her up to take action for the next one. SMH, that is very poor parenting.
This was a sad case. I really hope she can get herself together. And I'm glad the children will be with family. It was a damn shame why they wouldn't let the mother get them.
I believe that's what she did by accepting the invitation the Judge Mathis show. She tried other ways, and as you heard it didn't work. I really would love an update on Carlisha and her mom and the babies.
You can do this young lady. I am a living witness. I tore my youth up in the streets and drugs but if you want to get clean this is the first step. Its not over for you babygirl.
Just made this I love you you remind me of my grandfather I grew up with him because my mother was in prison I doubt you read this but just know you’re awesome I can feel your spirit that you’re sincere but you’re also still direct and firm your mother raised you well
I love it when he criticizes the government for their incompetence and greed...
Its so true
We have to stop relying on the government teachers, relatives, t.v., counselors, etc., to raise our kids. That’s a lazy parents way out! That young girl standing up there with smile on her face like she’s proud becase she’s been to rehab 4 times. Someone needs to explain to this child, she shouldn’t be proud she’s been to rehab 4 times! That’s the parent’s responsibility straight-up!!
The government has nothing to do with the failure of black families. USA is the richest country on earth there is no reason for blacks people to give excuses for this failure. We need to step up our game, get an education or own a business.
How about putting some blame on the parents the government never has and never will solve anything so relying on the government is a joke
I don’t know. Most people I’ve ever known on drugs or dealing with it need multiple stints in treatment and counseling. Meanwhile they lapse and rob, steal and kill. My aunt was one of them. Wished they’d lock her up she might still be alive.
Carlisha seems so intelligent. I hope she gets clean and gets her kids! She’s so young she still has time to turn it around!
Amen, what doesn't kill u makes u stronger. Been there done drugs before. Thank God been cleaned for years
there are genius junkies. intelligence has nothing to do with addict behavior
Amen!
So she can traumatize those children further. They need a stable house hold to be in
She needs to grow up and change her life around... Other wise her kids need a stable family.. Some body to take good care of them
There’s still hope for this young woman.
I hope so, because I really want her to make it, so many people don't make it.
@@NellieKAdaba same. she's still young enough to get back on track.
Thats true . She needs to know it though
Literally
Hope is a curse word !
this made me really emotional. at least both women were very forthcoming about their hardships & shortcomings. i hope she gets the help she needs, because her mom is more than a little supportive!!
Me too. I couldn’t finish the video
Li
Same I was crying. God bless her
The mother needs just as much help as her daughters, because mother was failed growing up too. And the cycle of abandonment and dysfunction will continue with Carlisha's kids. Sad.
Yes
It’s unfortunate that not all judges have compassion like Judge Mathis. He really cares.
He cares like no other.
I feel it's because hes been in the bad life. Not necessarily hard drugs but he was in the streets. And hes filled with. Heart of gold. Love him
@@meganmartin2037 he’s definitely serving his purpose!!!!
@@meganmartin2037 that’s exactly it. You get a rich kid who becomes a judge because he’s ambitious, and that person can’t even BEGIN to understand what’s going on in poor communities and what causes these types of behaviors and what can be done to fix tell
@@CMM726 exacly girl!!
How can someone know what it's like coming from the bottom and having to build an empire if from day one it's been handed to you.
@@meganmartin2037 I think part of the problem our government has had in tackling issues like drug addiction, poverty, and domestic violence is due to the fact that For the longest time, the majority of people in positions of power that dictate public policy were rich White men. They don’t understand what’s causing a person to become addicted to drugs like that. They may have had a happy suburban life growing up. So they may perceive a homeless addict as someone who just chooses to be an asshole, and their solution to that in the past was harsh punishment. They thought “let’s see how they like sitting in jail. I bet they won’t do that again.” But we know how well the war on drugs worked out! This is because we now know that addiction is the symptom, not the disease itself. The cycle of poverty and oppression causes people to feel hopeless. I think the fact that someone like judge Mathis has made it to become a judge and tv show gives me hope, because he’s got the platform to explain these things to the masses. It takes forever for real change to ever occur in government, but I’m hoping to see some positive changes in the future. Although, seeing how 2020 is going, maybe that’s a bit too optimistic.
You are in my prayers 🙏. My kids are addicted to drugs and alcohol. Please pray for them to
Prayers sent. I know how hard that can be
Praying for you
@@PhillyNaturals thank you so much!! God bless you and your family 🙏
@@fd4002 thank you so much for your prayers. God bless you and your family 🙏
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I hope we can get an update. I want to know she’s doing good, got clean, and that the kids are out of foster care.
Yes I pray she does, matter of fact I KNOW SHE WILL.. I’m going to claim it for her!
Im praying for her
She is doing good
I'm just glad the kids are going to be placed with her cousin.
@@cyborg1275 wth does a man have to do with anything 😂 she just wants to be Optimistic that this woman is doing well and better ever since this show.
Mama is smooth, she knew the only way her daughter would get help is to take her to judge Mathis and “sue” over something she definitely didn’t care about, and it worked‼️💖 praying for this family 🙏🏾
That was exactly her plan. So glad she was able to go before JM
A lot of people have done this in recent years. Judge Mathis is one of the only judges who care. Another one was Judge Glenda Hatchett.
Mom needs therapy as well. Sounds like she has a lot of unresolved trauma herself which stopped her from guiding her daughters a bit more than she did. Praying for the whole family... especially those babies😢
I honestly cried watching this, I hope she gets clean so she can hopefully get her kids back
Your gorgeous
Me too!
Me too, this was sad to watch, they never had the tools. 🥺🙏🏽
Me too
Me too 😭 these are our babies falling through the system. I pray she loses her taste for drugs and gets the help she needs.
Willie Lipscomb was my college professor and I was his class assistant as well. I actually attended the Gun prevention program quite a few times with my class. It was very enlightening and educational we also attended the Detroit city morgue. I truly miss the Judge😌😩God bless his soul 🙏🏾
He truly was awesome. He was a personal friend of my Dad. He bought a lot of my fathers art work and many of my classmates knew and visited his home. I remember having some of his white Chilli. His death was so sad and tragic. He was a really compassionate man and people person. Every body knew Judge Willy! May He rest in power.
The daughter reminds me of the shy girl off set it off 😂
She does! 😂
Just doesn't seem right seeing "LOL" written under this particular video. 😒
I was trying to remember where I knew her from 😖😲😩🤭🤣
How you get here?
Shy Girl : I caught the bus 😂
Far from funny
The judge didn’t even care about that rent he cared about her daughters well being ❤️
Such a beautiful girl this is so sad - her poor babies - what a sad story. Praying for her.
This is sooooo sad! I hope she gets clean and stay clean. Hopefully can get her kids back. Please God bless her to overcome this addiction and give you the glory.
Pray Pray Pray 🙏 ✨ 🙌 ❤
I would definitely vote for Judge Mathis for President. You can't convince me that he doesn't care about the ppl... You just can't. I love this man. He is loving caring.... Just awesome
@Koko Walker exactly. I NEVER voted but I'll vote for uncle Mathis
Why have you never voted?
@@876me7 I don't have a reason besides the fact that I believe that they are "selected" and not "elected".... I really felt it was a waste of time and I've never heard a "want-to-be" president convince me enough that they really care about the ppl. I've NEVER heard anyone speak with so much compassion, wisdom, understanding, empathy, etc for ppl of all backgrounds, like I have judge Mathis. In so many words, I've never been convinced they genuinely care
OMG yes!!! He’s exactly what we need! Problem is, I think if we were to run, the elites would kill him. He would die mysteriously..
shay G. Amazing & brilliant idea. I’m about to go dm him and beg him to run 4 years from now
My heart goes out to them. But mom seems to have a lot of excuses. About allowing her daughter to go live with "friends" who ultimately turned out to be her boyfriends grandmother at age 17. I'm sure she regrets it daily. I hope the daughter can get off drugs and get her children back. If you are reading this YOU ARE WORTHY, YOUR KIDS ARE WORTH IT. WE ARE ROOTING FOR YOU!
❤️❤️❤️
I absolutely agree. That part of mom's story was upsetting. Also the part about four high-school in 2 years. I hope she is able to heal and get her kids back.
Thank u! I said the same why u let BOTH daughters doing the same thing? I’m sorry but d mom probably got a guy in her life cuz this not adding up if u ain’t on drugs what else keeps u from being a better parent-men
@@Melmel1231 I don't think its a man in her life. I think she wasn't taught or know how to be a parent. She admitted herself (while judge was talking she said it) she's beating her self up because both girls graduated and were good students but went down that wrong path with friends. The mother needs someone to give her courage and have a backbone. She feels like she failed, you see the Judge is helping her with the situation. Thats what the mother needs someone to help and guide her.
@@gl3771 I totally agree. People are saying the mother is hiding something and are saying the mother neglected her daughter, I don't feel that vibe from this particular mother. She had it ruff growing up herself and didn't really have guidance herself so what was she going to be able to give to her daughters??? What the world needs is love, we all need each other. It really does take a village to raise a child and unless folks are ready to roll their sleeves up and get their hands dirty to be a part of that village, they should not be so quick to point fingers. The system and society failed that family.
Whew Chile this had me in tears
Why
Me to ,all I did was 😢.I'm praying.
Me to😓😓😓😓
That young sista is beautiful. I pray she get her life together for the good of her, the children and family.
Some powerful comments from Judge Mathis- love this man, his wisdom and compassion
Grandma can’t get her grandkids because of food stamps charge... the government know exactly what they’re doing. Separating families
Yup. It’s sad
Yep government punish you when u are poor
Thats horrible.
Poor families at that.
Yep. That part blew the hell out of me!
Cant stop crying. I'm sure the mom took her to JM to get her help not the money. God bless her soul and i pray she gets the strength to pull through.
I HOPE! defendant takes Judge Mathis up on his offer & RUNS WITH IT!
Praying for this young lady, her health and her children. You can do it baby‼️
I really like that he dismissed the case . Well done
“ The system sometimes just doesn’t have common sense” 💯
This is a great man he really cares about people 👏 ❤
I have hope for her. She will definitely be in my prayers tonight 🙏
That girl needs a higher level of treatment than outpatient. She needs inpatient residential for at least 3-6 months THEN an IOP (intensive outpatient) like the judge was speaking on followed by the NA meetings he spoke of. In the meetings she can build a network & a foundation & even get a sponsor who acts as a mentor to guide her through the 12 steps of Narcotics Anonymous.
I truly pray that she finds a way out. I once WAS her, minus all the jail stuff, but the judge did the same to my mother over something petty when my kids SHOULD have been with her. I fought like hell to get them back and went through the aforementioned process. It wasn’t easy, but if I can do it...she/anyone can. I haven’t drank or used since 8/8/17. We DO recover! There’s enough of a stigma attached to addiction as it is, all these courts do is further perpetuate it by failing ppl at every turn.
Thank you, Judge Mathis, for showing compassion & empathy where others have lacked it. I pray for those babies, the mother and grandma. I hope they get better! 🙏🏼😪💔
Praise God my prayers are for the families to get help like u said sister. She also need a lot of prayers. God delivered me I didn't have to go through rehab only God's 🙏 rehab
I just wanted to congratulate you on your sobriety. It's not an easy thing to do at the best of times, but to stay clean during 2020 took serious guts and determination.
Wishing you and your family happiness and success for the years ahead 💕 x
@@georgina-a Thank you! You’re right, it WASN’T easy in 2020 & still gets hard at times even now in 2021...but I keep pushing forward NO MATTER WHAT! I appreciate the kind words, it means a lot! 🙏🏼
@@lunamonetmonroe My pleasure. Keep fighting the good fight, my friend - you've got this 💕 x
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This is the most powerful episode I ever watched. I pray for this two ladies , their prosperity and healthy. Judge Mathis is truly so amazing , bless him
And that's exactly why this ep was 20 min. It was too powerful to cut down
She's so young. Her 2 babies. Her mother loves her. 10 years will fly by if she doesnt get help AND help herself.
😢😢😢 I'm rooting for you sis! Heal and rebuild.
I’m sooo glad a judge Acknowledges what’s really going on. There is no Rehabilitation in jail….FACTS…
Honey, I don't think I like cases like this, it made me tear up. Now, I'm sitting in my car, supposed to be Thanksgiving shopping, but I'm watching Judge Mathis with tears running down my face.... Looking like a sad puppy 😢🤦🏾♀️
Same exact same..in traffic crying
Same
I feel you. She'll get through it, God's got her 🙏🏾
@@Dee-cu8yr what you doing in traffic watching this sis? I hope you're the passenger 😂
@@Shawna79 lol uh ohh
Looking at this beautiful well spoken young lady i would never have guessed she had a record.
The court system in that area makes money on programs that are in place when children are placed in foster care. Please research these states and the money that is made via these programs,
Yes that's very true and it's more widely spread across states than we could ever imagine. I had a childhood friend that asked me to take in her 3 babies and I prepared my family. Those case workers were so against it (paid to be) they said so many things to make her change her mind. It's so sad I was so prepared for those children
True
Shes also NOT ready to change. Until she is she is going to drag everyone dear to her through.
A been there done that got the T-shirt and a bumper sticker to prove what I say I helped my brother by raising his children, adopting them, helping him and also helping my mother (who died trying hang in there with him) and it hurt every last one of us until he was ready.
The Lord will help you and your kids mama🙏🏿🙏🏿
The same one that put them in that position? 🤔
A person on drugs has to really want to stop using. On top of having a strong desire to stop they also need support... daily support to get on track and stay on track.
The momma got a WHOLEE lotta excuses.
Right, like something is missing.
A single mom is trying. Where the father?
@@Bellalovelola we look at the mom who has tried and tried but where the hell is the daddy? I was a single mom raised 4 children but no father. I had no other choice but to do what I had to do. However fortunately I succeeded. Hard work tho. By God's grace and mercy.
Too many excuses... too much self pity, and didn't help her daughters whatsoever to help shape their future!!!
Stfu you don’t know what the mother did or didn’t do! It’s not her fault her daughter ended up on drugs. She didn’t introduce her to drugs! She got into drugs because of her boyfriend!
My mama grew up without her mother because of drugs I grew up without my mom because of drugs drugs hit the black community like a wrecking ball
The judge has empathy for others it's beautiful how he keeps talking to these young adults that really need to hear him care
Judge Mathis Team, please do a where are they now
I am a recovering drug addict of 6 years. I never received real counseling, or meetings. I agree 100% with Judge Mathis. I can relate to this girl. I sadly knew a girl who would just throw her friends out of her car too. It's such a sad situation. Society does treat people different. It's awful. My mother was the only one who never gave up on me and helped me to get treatment. One day I want to be a substance abuse therapist and I plan to turn my trauma into a good thing. ♥︎I absolutely agree with the judge.♥︎
THIS GOVERNMENT SUCKS!
She’s Still can be Saved. These Drugs ain’t Nothin But Heartache And Pain
This shows how sad the system is
Addiction seems like a personal topic for judge Mathis... I applaud him
@@revettefarrow4111 stop lying his Mother was a drug addict
@@Nikki-ci5ze girl what ?? i dont know who told you that but thats a lie . He is a former gang member. He nor his mom or dad was a drug addict. He just advocates for people struggling with addiction and loves helping them.
@@sexyanonymous4962 jm use to be on drugs
@@essenceaspire6379 thats a bold face lie.
I believe His brother was on drugs.
The C.P.S is crazy fpr charging this women for fraud and denying her all because she had someone else's food stamp card dont they know that by now that all of us do that.
Ohio shit those red states a time
Mom sounds and gives off the "once your 18 you're grown I don't want to be bothered" vibes.
I made sure i had the opposite thinking with my children. They dont be ready for the real world at that age....well i personally wasnt
Yeah, since it's a rerun with her second daughter, you must be right
The mom is a horrible mother!! I’m sorry but parents need to do better!!! Children need support financially, spiritually, emotionally, plans, & goals ...
I feel like something is missing with mom story
Same.
Mainly the part about sending her off... she graduated from hs, she could of worked or went to school... then come to find out she went to live off a boy and his grandma? Ofc she’d be pregnant in 3 months...
I think Mom loves her kid a lot but mom was doing her own thing and let her do hers
Yeah, like why did they have to keep moving?
I Was Thinking That Too
she wasn't raised by a mother and had a father that couldn't parent well. that may have affected her ability to mother. then, there is no mention of a father for her daughters. statistically, children brought up in single mother households are more likely to do drugs, have kids out of wedlock, get divorced, end up in prison. a mother and a father in the house are dire to the development of a child.
I love when judge Mathis care about the community thank you for the love and support. 💜
I'm praying for the daughter.
I love when judge mathis is like this he has compassion for people when he knows they can't help themselves,he does all he can to help ❤
Truth be told. First her mother failed her, and then the system failed her as well. This young lady speaks very well. I pray to God that her touch her, and seen her an angel to help her. Please get the help you need, you are a smart young lady. God please and I mean please touch this family. I was in tears looking at this. Thank you Judge Mathis may God continue to bless you.
that mama ❤️🥺
She’s So Beautiful... As A Young Black Man Wr Have To Protect Out Young Black Queens... I Am So Sorry To Even See This Happening.. I Hope Everything Works Out In Her Favor 😩😩😩
Favorite judge mathis moments🙌 listening and showing the care that she really truly needed. God bless, good luck sweetheart, you got this!
As many tears I produced on here I was expecting one of you to offer me a Kleenex through the screen! I am so grateful that Judge Mathis also uses his Court show to educate the society on +/- knowledge worthy issues. May God give this young lady and her family the guidance they need.💕
Amen sista voilin
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This had me in tears because the mother didn’t have anyone to really speak life into her so that impacted her ability to do the same for her daughters. I pray that all generational curses over this family be removed! God’s love over them all!!
I love the way judge mathis actually takes peoples lives into consideration and care about what they are going thru and gives them real life advice. If more judges were like him maybe the crime rates would go down and the world would be a better place
One of the best episodes I've ever seen!! Thank you judge Mathis for installing hope into this young lady and bringing awareness to your viewers.
As much as I understand the Judge’s sentiment, expecting a system that was never designed to take care of all equally and responsibly is getting old. The mom could have made better decisions in regards to how she raised her daughter. Just because the young lady is smart, doesn’t mean she’s equipped to handle life’s woes. The onus is on the mother ultimately. Fuck the system! BE the system that equips your child beyond high school, especially when you’re aware of a cycle within your own lineage!
dang, you sound like a conservative.
@@jvalencia6876 Way to be constructive
@@Cerys1102 it was a compliment.
Her daughter is going through enough and her mom is worried about $300. I understand everyone needs help here & there, but this is your child, who is still young and needs your help so that she can stay away from drugs. She needs your support. This is the perfect example of a toxic mother! Shes going through enough & probably doesn't know how to save just spends her money on getting high. She needs to help her build better habits 💯🙏 praying for both ladies.
I don’t think her mom took her to court for the rent I think it was all about trying to get her help from the judge which I am ecstatic that the young lady agreed to
@@cc-tw8on Exactly.
@@cc-tw8on My thoughts exactly. She brought no evidence, nothing. She was just adamant to relate their story to the judge and she knows how he feels about drug abuse.
Damn. I’m in Toledo too. I hope she was able to get better for her and her babies.
I feel like the mom didn't really have a case, she just wanted the daughter to get help. I'm so glad she did. I cried hearing how the system failed her, which isn't surprising as a black woman
Exactly. I think the mom wanted her daughter to get help and just used the rent as a way to get into Judge Mathis court
You know JM is a real one when he criticizes the government as a judge on national tv 🤣
This breaks my heart. Mom played a pivotal role in the downward spiraling of her daughter. My heart goes out to them both and I hope she not only accepts help but is ultimately successful!
So glad the judge has decided to assist the young lady with the drug treatment program.
I hope and pray with all my heart and soul this beautiful Queen gets the help that she needs, you can do it baby girl! Don’t give up on yourself, your babies need you, this world needs you!! ❤️
This man honestly cares, you can't fake that type of compassion.
I pray that the young lady recovers and gets her life back on track 🙏🙏
This is heart breaking. Jesus protect us and call us to your will!
Tears ,tears tears...i got very emotional...!! Praying for their quick healing as a family.
mom is definitely hiding something
Her pride is present. because she feels like she failed.
I agree
Thought the same thing. She mentioned the daughter staying with a “friend” however she was staying with the boyfriend’s grandma house........
It breaks my heart that that’s the reason the kids had to go somewhere else I grew up in the system it’s worse than the streets God bless the mother and the daughter judge Mathis you’re the best
They only care when it affects whi- you know what never mind 😭y’all know the story
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I know exactly what you mean. I was just thinking about the opium problem they were having and how they jump real quick to help these young people of the different persuasion to help get them off of it. They don’t care about us. This is why we need to get with our city officials and start programs that’s going to help us overcome our addictions and other problems that we have in our community
People of color can get treatment just as well as whites smh There’s PLENTY of clinics/treatment centers in these cities ! U can’t force ANYONE to get help REGARDLESS OF COLOR ! I’m a recovering addict myself that just started going to a methadone clinic a wk ago yesterday !
@@lailanimessina1473 that wasn’t the point but okay
@@Rita_was_here Yes.. it is the point lol ur making it seem like only white people are able to get help when that’s not the truth 🤷🏻♀️
Some parents can’t see that their lack of parenting contribute to their kids going astray. Blaming everything in their own life for why they wasn’t the best parent. Bull crap
i hate when parents dont help children and make excuses ...not properly raise kids.
You made great points about the government Judge.
I love how even tho he’s on national tv he’s not scared to call out the bs that goes on in the government and is involved with programs that really help people❤️
This is very disheartening. This young lady passed away this year (2022)..She was failed on so many levels by so many people. RIH
This case made me so sad I really hope she gets the help she needs! She seems so bright and intelligent ❤❤ bless her and her mom
What a beautiful, beautiful girl... I wish her healing and the very best in life. She deserves a second chance at life and she can turn it around and be there for her children.
Parenting fail. This keeps going when it’s never corrected. I was young and dumb and had to grow up but somethings have always scares me and that bad men and drugs!
I'm a counselor in Addiction in Toledo Ohio and this is something that is happening here for young people. If it is the same young lady she recently passed away. I pray that people see this and WANT to change and for good.
it is the same young lady
Mom (plaintiff) is trying! SAD! to hear there wasn't other Family members around to give the plaintiff guidance at a young age; (mother was killed in a car accident when I was young, we (me & 2 brothers) raised by father's Mother & mainly that side of the Family, STRONG female/male family members to help us, SO THANKFUL!), it's NEVER too late for turn their situation around, WISHING THEM THE BEST!
It’s obvious this mother did not think much about her children’s future and well-being. Even after one daughter got pregnant at 18 that did not wake her up to take action for the next one. SMH, that is very poor parenting.
This was a sad case. I really hope she can get herself together. And I'm glad the children will be with family. It was a damn shame why they wouldn't let the mother get them.
Instead of suing her daughter she should be trying to help her get her life together
I believe that's what she did by accepting the invitation the Judge Mathis show. She tried other ways, and as you heard it didn't work. I really would love an update on Carlisha and her mom and the babies.
@@MzFine1 the update isn’t good, Carlisha was found dead in an alley in East Toledo
she needs inpatient care
I love me some mathis mannnnn....he said we here for rent but this more important lol
How can we clone The Honorable Judge? God bless you for your fair and righteous insight concerning our flawed legal system
You can do this young lady. I am a living witness. I tore my youth up in the streets and drugs but if you want to get clean this is the first step. Its not over for you babygirl.
May GOD Bless and heal them and watch over the babies 🙏🏽😞😢
The mother is sketchy as heck. I hope this young lady get helps for the sake of her babies.
Just made this I love you you remind me of my grandfather I grew up with him because my mother was in prison I doubt you read this but just know you’re awesome I can feel your spirit that you’re sincere but you’re also still direct and firm your mother raised you well
Aww it's so sad to be so young and on hard core drugs like that I feel bad for her truly make us proud girl
That lack of a father figure, you clearly can see.
I hope she kept her word. This case broke my heart. I would love an update on this one.
Carlisha was found dead in an alley here in East Toledo days ago😔
I pray for hope for this young lady. Got to break that cycle
Unfortunately this Young Lady has passed away on January 4th 2022..... So sad 😪 My heart goes out to the Family... May you Rest in Peace 🙏🏽
I'm just nosy to know, did she overdose