I'm 22 years old and I Have No Friends. More And More Men Are In This Same Position.
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I’m a firm believer of “you are who you surround yourself with”, it’s hard to find good quality people. There’s no rush, be open but most importantly *WORK ON YOURSELF*
Figuring out that you want different things rather than just fitting in and going with the crowd is very mature for young dude. Kudos.
I'm 39 and have no friends. I'm not worried about it. I have peace.
You can’t pick your family, but you can pick your friends. Pick wisely.
yes
I am 54 and am still a lone wolf everything he is saying understand
I agree with you 💯% and I'm a woman.
I feel bad for this younger generation. I grew up in the 90s, we stayed out. Just doing that friends came along
You made friends cause everyone was outside. We all had to get out of the house. It's not the same these days. It's so much harder for these kids today. It's not impossible but more difficult for sure.
@@ComS512it's not difficult. They are just attached to their phones and social media. Kids should be outside playing, instead they are stuck on their phone or tablet.
I don’t have many friends and I don’t care. One of my homeboys stopped talking to me because of the election. I’ve had to cut other friends off because of their behavior in life. Don’t have time to look back!
I had school friends and friends from my block. The school friendships ended when school did. The friends from my block are lifelong friends. We've been friends for 40+ years
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There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I can't live without him, I love him so much. wish I can get him back I can do anything to have him back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
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Bruva-king 👑.
You are not alone.
It's hard being a Genuine man,
In a world of people living in a
"Virtual Reality"...
That's true. I agree
I fully understand the lone wolf concept. The legal counsel of me, myself, & I: works well. NO REGRETS!
I really feel this guy. Without getting into a huge backstory, I had trouble making friends. I only have two people that I basically consider my brothers and could never connect with others the same way.
This is a harsh reality for many people, it's a mindset of self preservation.. choosing the people, places, and things that are good for you is a priority for the wise ♟️
Excellent highlight of an important topic of men’s interest.
I feel exactly where hes coming from. Finding friends aint hard though, but effort can be draining when youre on your purpose
Having friends is cool if you have the right set of friends. If you don’t you are just around a group of people or person whose really aren’t. Having friends can be overrated sometimes.
Be yourself. Talk with people. Hear them out. If you don’t like it then leave, if you do exchange info
One of my “friends” stopped talking to me because I told him he was too easily influenced by social media. That showed me he was never a friend to begin with. Choose your people wisely
And I bet he posted a message on social media about you stating such. Lol
I feel for homie
😎And Years from Now You're going to realize How Much Good That Did For You!!!
[Most guys now compensate with para-social relationships online! We're more introverted and lacking good communication IRL! Loneliness from wombmen aside, we are too often backstabb'd and betrayed by guys in our vicinity! True friends are rare!! Best solution for a man today is to embrace stoicism and organically go out into hobbies and interests one truly likes! In time and serious vetting, they (real friends) will make themselves known! Don't stay cooped-up at home and locked-up inside your own head! Don't give up or give in to the hard times! You are seen, bro!🙏🏼😊]
🎉You can get younger guys and teach them how to be better men, trust me such men will Revere you as they grow. You can take a path to become a teacher to boys, and open doors can come from there, and they will always see you as a friend, therefore, you get genuine friends. Too many fake guys out there. I don't use the term friend often
A generation raised by internet is why we have this.
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Naw I'm 34, and have no friends. Internet has nothing to do with it. People are people and if you don't feel as though the friendship is worth it don't do it. I chop it up at work all day, but once I'm off, I'm antisocial asf
@@anthonywilliams852 no. You are wrong. You are one person which doesn't describe the masses.
Sometimes in life it’s ok not to have friends 🤷🏿♂️
I have alot of friends at a distance because i dont want to be like them I'm also a women with a husband and kids and ya its lonely but at the end of the day I'd rather be with my baby and husband then random hoes that would try influencing my relationship in a negative way. Years ago, I used to be sad that only my husband then boyfriend was the only one to care about my birthday but now getting older I appreciate him more and realized alot of people really have nobody so I'd rather have him and now my daughter.
You also have to run the gauntlet of those people that trade-up to get “better friends”. This is a minor evil. Or young people want cool or beautiful friends. It’s human, but it too is a minor evil. I could hang around this guy because i like to film, but i wonder if he would accept me.
Proverbs 18:24
He who has friends must show himself friendly: and there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
I’m sure there are folks out there that he can vibe with, he’s just got to show people who he is and they can do likewise.
I dont have friends like when i was younger . The older i get i don't need friends. My wife and kids is all i need an my relatives.
That was me n my girl after graduation. Now me and her are married with 2 children. Me n her started dating in high school but she went to a rival school 10 minutes apart.
“That’s a red flag”
I’m Gen Z so my chances of getting a wife doesn’t exist. I guess I’m screwed
I have 3 sons and 1 of them is experiencing this now. It’s my youngest he’s 21 and in the UK right in school. Doing really in that part of his life but like this young cat no friends outside of school. He ask me how do I just talk to random ppl. I tell him all the time you have to be comfortable in your own skin. Now the other 2 are totally opposite of him. They are 5 and 14 yrs older though. So I’m witnessing what you’re going through firsthand and I really don’t have much advice for him bcuz I’m told this generation is just different from what I know. Good luck and keep your head up
At 22 years of age, high school is well over and should be left behind, especially if you have no close friends. This is your opportunity to create your own basket of wellpicked fruit, young bruh 🙏🏽 may The Most High bless you with a great group of true and valuable friends
This is common but once he finds his path those people with similar interests and goals will gravitate towards him and vice verse. He its been since 2020 which was during the pandemic. This feeling is also common for young people.
42 years and have cut off most of my so called "friends" for one reason or another. Didn't keep up with or even want to keep up with folks from school in most cases so yeah. But here's the thing, a lot of people really afraid to face this world alone though I can't speak to their reasoning. What those folks don't understand is that no external force can bring change into your life unless you allow it. The journey always begins with self.
I'm a 50 year old man, and within the last two to three years I'm just now realizing that I am a Sigma Male. If he or anyone else can figure out who they truly are as an individual, that's when they can comfortably navigate through life on a more comfortable path....Figure Out Who You Are!!
Young brother you maybe a Sigma personality. Took me years to figure it out but when I did the light came on we like small circles and just don't hang with everyone for companionship
You're better off, IMO having a couple close friends vs and bunch of "buddies". I have 3 good friends left, 2 passed 2 years ago. Not looking for more now.
Find people that do things you're interested in. Common interests. If it's lifting find people that lift. Video games find people that play similar games that you like. Proud of this man for saying what's on his mind.
I'm understand, completely.
I'm happy for him not following the crowd.
Now that he's an Adult now he can seek out a Mentor.
It's challenging being alone but it can be productive & profitable.
Friendship can be challenging to maintain. Since the death of my mother and sisters, I have come to realize that many people I once considered friends never indeed were. I learned that insulting and belittling someone does not constitute genuine friendship. Those I depended on and helped revealed their true colors during this time. As a result, I have become more selective in choosing friends and now view friendship as something not given freely. I can relate to this young man. Get out and meet people, brothers, and other guys. It will be a challenge, but stay strong and prayed up.
He sounds like a Sigma male. I did not realize there was a name for what I was, until I reach the age of 60. Build on your interest. You have to make an major effort to reach out to the people that get you. Not easy for Sigma but the people that you do let in will be drawn to you.
I don't need family or friend's and they don't need me. Born alone, die alone. That's my reality.
You wanna hang with friends who you can help boss up and friends who can help you boss up. Everybody should be moving forward. Stay Focused!
I understand this young brother dilemma. If he saw this I would tell him for right now you re alone and will be. Embrace times of solitude. This will provide you the time to ‘know thy self’ and focus on your passions and purpose. Your validation shouldn’t always have to come from others, however thru out your life you will encounter those who will be on a similar wave length as you. The best part about being a man is learning to be alone before you can provide for others. ✌️
im 27, im kinda in the same boat, i meet my brother in the military, he lives a couple states away but we are really close, i had some friends from hichschool that i reconnected it when i got out the military(i got out the militarynat 20).i started back smoking weed when i got out the military and they ended up lacing my blunt with fenty when i was 21. it took me 5 years to recover and get back to daily life activites, and another year to want to meet people and follow my dream of singing. alot could have been avoided if i knew they were fake from the start...... all that to say, i agree with him all friends aint good friends and test the spirit.Literally just based of the conversation and body language you can tell if they are good for you or up to no good. stay blessed yall
Even though this is geared to men, I as a woman in her 50's can attest to what this young man is saying. I don't have friends. I remember when Milton hit. I had never experienced a hurricane before coming from the north. Other than my children and some members of my family, when it came to friends, two people reached out to ask if I was okay. I could go on and on, but this is an issue for women too. My heart goes out to all who are experiencing this.
I've had no friends for over 25 years....people all about themselves....
I can definitely feel what this young man feels. I recently did a video piece on my site titled "Whatever happened to the ride or die." and I think it pretty much hits on what he says and feels. With society as it is currently I wouldn't know how to help him. I don't even know how to fix it for myself. I hope he holds his head up long enough to make it out of the storm. ❤
Late 30s yr old black man here and my friends circle and has gotten smaller and smaller over the years due to me doing better than then or they’re doing better than me and they don’t want me around anymore. Being a lone wolf is hard but my focus right now is stock money and buy my first house in this horrible market.
Tbh the best way to find friends is through hobbies you like and what they like to do if you like the hobby they do that equals a good friendship he probably ain't found the right group of friends to hang out with 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I understand this young man, I am a 20 year old female with no friends right now. I only had one friend for a long time and I had to cut that friendship off because it was not benefitting me. I recently thought I had found another friend but I ended up feeling used and disappointed again. It seems like I attract people who constantly need some kind of mental help or who either way are having some kind of drama in their life. I also take responsibility because I see the red flags but I continue to stick around as I can see the good in those people and want to help them out, however I always end up disappointed, and it does hurt.
I want to have a sincere and concrete friendship but I'm also a bit wary to even try at this point. I also don't think I would have much in common with people my age.
And no, it's not that I have problems socializing in person, I push myself to do that too, but for some reason I always find the wrong people to socialize with.
I also agree with the statement " you attract what you are" and that the people you surround yourself with are a reflection of you, that is why it is important to me to find the right people, although at this point I'm starting to think they're not even in this country😂
Sorry, a bit of a needed rant.
Either way thank you for raising awareness of this.
I met a this dude last year who switched up on me after i helped him with his issues and told him im always going to look out for him.Once he got confidence up and started getting his life together and when i started going through stuff he stopped hanging around me when i needed help.🤣
I got betrayed by my mentor who i saw as a father figure the same year and cut of all my school friends and i dont even talk that much to my childhood friend because he didn't want to grow up.
I got through a crazy depression this year and finally figured out how i want to live my life and whats important to me after months of laying in bed.
I turned 20 this year and im not even sure if i can push my self to make friends because i think a lot of people would only be friends with me if theirs something to gain,i do hope i meet genuine people who i can have a reel connection with and elevate with mentally and spiritually.
I hope u find your group of people to connect with and consider family and continue to help people despite facing betrayal and disappointment,at the end of the day you cant go wrong with a loving and peaceful spirit.
im African and moved overseas and hand had a friend or someone to talk to deeply for a whole year besides God,good luck
@HILLSIDEEXCLSV I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that.
Well it's a bit comforting to know that I'm not alone going through this at my age. However it's sad just as much.
Thank you so much for your wishes.
I wish you the best through your journey, and I too hope you find your people, who knows maybe we will meet one day 😂 life works in mysterious ways.
Have a blessed day🙏🏻❤️
@@lunerasmusic8983 if it still gets removed feel free to comment on any comment on my account
I don't care to have friends. People ain't 💩
"Friend" and "I love you" are in the same category. They're not to be taking lightly. Because that's a key invitation to being in your life and sharing yours with them as well. People will break that, sometimes slowly or they'll jump the gun because you look easy and gullible. Twenty-two or not, choose your friends wisely. And I'm just speaking from other people stand points.
I personally Don’t Want to be Cool with Nobody I’m Friends with my Woman.
There's a lot of fake people out there. I've had the same experiences everywhere. Some people don't want genuine minded people I've noticed. It's the same here in London England. London is WORSE I think.
Most of the friends that I have are from church. The best thing to do to find friends is to get involved with a church, community organization, or a club.
He’s set apart from God, this is his time to see what God have for him. This was and still is me, I never fit in with friends.. they loved me but I just didn’t want to do what they did. I’m happily married with children and God showed me things about myself I would’ve never found hanging with the wrong crowd 🤞🏾💯
Im going thru this right now this is my life
Just wait until the kids that were in the 3rd-7th grade during the pandemic grow up. Human connection is a necessity, and not a "nice to have"
I pray for this young man that Jesus and the Holy spirit bless him with love. Love of God, and some friends here on earth to grow with.
I’m in the same boat at 24. I have 2 friends but they both live in different cities so it’s just me unfortunately
I don't get it. I still have my main childhood friends of my life. I guess the difference is, they didn't turn out to be losers.
All my friends are dead tbh. I have made some aquaintances since I suppose but it's not the same. We don't hang out or talk about stuff, etc.
damn where was but mom or dad at for graduation.... sometimes its not everyone else sometimes it us and we have to look inside ourselves and say how can I change. We attract who we are.
If you want friends be friendly go around people with like minded or common interest… you seem cool open up to different types of people… you making me sad lil bro
THIS IS A DIFFERENT GENERATION MY GENERATION WE PLAYED OUTSIDE WE SOCIALIZE THESE KIDS NOW DAYS IS SOCIALLY AWKWARD...
Stop shouting grandpa we can hear you.
@@accidentalmadness1708no grandpa but I understand
@ that’s better pops
I'm the other weirdo and weird mf on earth i never had any friends or even a girlfriend im so use to being alone.also listening to scary music at night helps me sleep plus with the fan on.im about to turn 25 in December 24th
How did you go about finding friends?
It’s not a generation thing. It’s a solo dolo type of lifestyle. You fk with only a small amount because you don’t rely on much outside yourself. I am 34 with a handful of people I talk to that aren’t in the same state or city as me. If I go to jail there is no phone call. I have learned to rely on myself mostly. Sad but it’s reality. This brother needs to stop wanting to be like the pigeons and fly with the eagles.
How you aint still friend with yo elementary or highschool friends?
Because those aren't your real friends , they're just people you grow accustomed to seeing everyday. Not saying you can't build strong relationships with people in a school or job setting but 9 times out of 10 you drift apart after yall graduate or someone leaves.
sounds like you never moved on homie or out from where you grew up at this question just ignorant
Group chat
He is not a comedy legend PLEASE STOP IT
His generation sucks, or average.
Best way to find friends is through hobbies and side activities outside of work imo.
I traveled the world as a child and never really had a "hometown". The high school I graduated from was about the longest time I was in one place, 4 years.
It wasn't until I was grown and owned my own construction company that I had made any real friends. Ironically my two best friends were previous employees. I guess that I wasn't an ass towards the ones responsible for my income.
We need to get rid of social media am sorry but we do not care you don’t have friends my god people love attention 🤦♂️
get off it then your not needed