5:05 Charles, I normally agree with you….but with this situation I disagree. Wm are NOT machines. If the baby daddy causes stress to the baby mama while delivering the child, it causes health problems to the mom and baby. If the guy cannot control his mouth/attitude during the delivery process, then he should leave the delivery room. The doctor and nurses will put the man or anyone else out of the delivery room if they are causing stress to the mom and baby. I agree with the young lady in this situation.
I not talking about in the delivery room of course you should as man do everything to make the delivery as stress free as possible I spoke about how problems don't go away and before the baby comes in that 9 month time frame there maybe problems sometimes and while men should do there best to probably just avoid over stressing the mother that doesn't always happen and that alone should not be enough to remove him from the delivery room
That wasn't the point. She was talking about problems outside delivery. Keeping him out would be a punishment in this case, not a measure to avoid distress. If he really could cause that kind of distress, she probably would have had an early delivery if not a miscarriage. Framed the way she said it, I'll just say she doesn't understand what the word "right" means.
Run🏃🏾♂️🏃🏿♂️ Forrest Run.... is an understatement. SMH 😏. These 304s have, absolutely, NO sense of morals or values. Who gets drunk in front of a man you JUST MET? I'll tell you who! A lost, messed up, goofy, 🤪 alcoholic and disrespectful 304 who decided she wasn't really INTO him and would do WHATEVER she wanted to do in his presence. That's who! Her physical aspects come from her DNA.... NOTHING she did. Don't get too wrapped up with that and be deceived. Inside, she is a clown 🤡 to the second power. She left that book because she was just being PRETENTIOUS. In the words of Tony Gaskins, 🗣️ "Point ☝🏿 blank.... PERIOD!!!"
@@darthsilversith667it definitely sent a message of her being disinterested. Also masking who she really is. She's insecure & brought a *prop* to appear a certain way and it definitely didn't land.
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There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
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She is the EPITOME of finding an issue with something when there isn't one. He didn't mean it literally. And he probably didn't know how much the book cost. If you were as smart as you're PRESENTING to be, why not CALL the bar, explain what happened and see if it's there...She's extra for no reason.
4:35 The real problem with her comment is that she isnt' acknowledging that some women are not peaceful people and the reason why a woman didnt have a peaceful pregnancy may be her own fault. She is assuming all pregnant women are reasonable, rational people and than none of them have mental illness. She is blaming any and all unpeaceful pregnancies on the father which is disgusting.
Firstly, WHY would you show up on a date with a book??? Secondly, she got upset with the phrase, "Big Baller," meant that he wasn't gonna be reaching into his wallet for her.
I’m fighting for my daughter right now for 50/50 or full custody. Sucks that we have to fight to spend more time with our kids. How can we go from a full time father to a 1/4 father seeing our kids every other weekend just cause our relationship didn’t workout 🤬🤬🤬
So many things wrong with what you just said. 1 you should absolutely want the mother of your child to have a healthy pregnancy. 2 men are just as responsible for causing stress in a relationship!!!! Get over yourself and whatever you do NEVER have children! Poor kids 😭
Drunk book girl literally got offended by ish women say ALL THE TIME to men (men also say it to other men), whether the item is cheap or real expensive
Notice, she couldn’t articulate the issue she had with saying what he said…basically she’s overly sensitive and finds fault in nothing just to find fault.
[Shows she doesn't appreciate resources and value! If she can so easily replace something she drew enjoyment from, it's likely that she's the same when it comes to relationships!🤔💭]
I Agree 💯%, Travis Should Definitely not Read or Respond to Social Media, him or his Girlfriend, A Relationship is Hard Enough for two, Don't Bring Another Million People In, He will Live, Learn and Love Just we All Have DONE, but one Suggestion from the Peanut Gallery PRENUP! PEACE, 🙏🖤!!!
Soo, she can't think far enough ahead to understand she won't want to carry a gigantic book on a date? In her hands? Not take a smaller book. Not take a bigger purse? Not even leave the book at home? In the car? Nothing? Once had a client meet me at the office and she brought her 1 year old in, leaving the car seat in the car. So, you're gonna hold your child for the next 30 minutes, ma'am?
That's the same dumb logic these same women will use to keep the father out of the kids lives when they get older. It doesn't matter what they got going on - if he's trying to be there for his child, LET HIM! 6:18
People confuse peace and happiness and think that supersedes duty and responsibility. If a man wants to see he child especially his first child being born he has the right to be there. This aint even a male and female thing it is an adult concept. This thing about withholding a father that right is only creating more friction because like it our not that woman and man have to work together for at least in this economy 21 to 23 years and even after that the work is not done. If I was in that man shoes I would hate that woman forever and to top it off I'm paying child support and getting screwed by the system and of course hurting the child overall all because of "peace". What about peace for the child!!!! Look at the bigger picture!! Maturity is one of the hardest thing for people to realize sometimes.
I disagree. The internet helps what is ALREADY there. Before, you just worried about the people in their immediate vicinity(neighborhood,school,job). The internet just expanded the radius
I'm sorry. What did you miss? She didn't expect him to solve her problem at all. She thinks he's cheap. 9 dollars isn't ballin. That's what I got from it. She didn't expect him to get her book for her or anything. Though I definitely do not understand why you would bring a book to a date. And women wonder why they are still single. Smh
its called a joke of course 9 dollars is not a lot that's obvious its like if you ever been to a super high end restaurant and they serve you a tiny portion and you say how am i gonna finish all this food clearly the joke is the fact its not a lot of food she was comfortable enough to get drunk but not take a small joke which is just weird and off putting , if you cant make light hearted jokes with the person your with without them over reacting chances its not going to work so him did him a favor
She is trying to clown him or say he's got an "issue" when SHE is the one getting tipsy/drunk on a date...Ok.😂 Light-hearted joke versus someone who can't excersize self control or know when to push away from the table when it comes to drinks...
5:23 i normally feel you. But I have to all the way disagree here. I’m a 40-year-old father of five and I was there for all of my children’s births. I would argue that I as a father have a right to see the baby after it is born, but the choice of whether or not I was in the delivery room was entirely up to my wife as it should be. It’s a lot of mental and physical strain and pain giving birth. It would not be right for us as men to interfere with that. If the woman says she doesn’t want you in the room you shouldn’t be there period. That be the equivalent of trying to run an Olympic marathon with your wife nagging at you in your ear.
I agree.. the only people that NEED to be in the delivery room is the medical staff and the soon to be mama, lol! Whatever makes the woman comfortable is what's important.
Thats the difference between 2024 bihs and bihs from 20 years ago. If a man joked like that back then by calling a women big ballen. They would laugh and that be that. It's a reason Kevin Samuel's said get a cat and die to these new age women.
5:05 Charles, I normally agree with you….but with this situation I disagree. Wm are NOT machines. If the baby daddy causes stress to the baby mama while delivering the child, it causes health problems to the mom and baby. If the guy cannot control his mouth/attitude during the delivery process, then he should leave the delivery room. The doctor and nurses will put the man or anyone else out of the delivery room if they are causing stress to the mom and baby. I agree with the young lady in this situation.
I not talking about in the delivery room of course you should as man do everything to make the delivery as stress free as possible I spoke about how problems don't go away and before the baby comes in that 9 month time frame there maybe problems sometimes and while men should do there best to probably just avoid over stressing the mother that doesn't always happen and that alone should not be enough to remove him from the delivery room
That wasn't the point. She was talking about problems outside delivery. Keeping him out would be a punishment in this case, not a measure to avoid distress. If he really could cause that kind of distress, she probably would have had an early delivery if not a miscarriage.
Framed the way she said it, I'll just say she doesn't understand what the word "right" means.
well he shouldn't sign the birth certificate neither... thats HER child
What’s to argue about in the delivery room. Woman find shi to stress about. Want praise for doing what you were made for.
He was making a joke about 'big ballin'...but she thinks HE is the problem
He getting drunk and not controlling herself in the first place is not a problem at all
Bringing a book on a date will get your ass left.
She trying to look smart. Who takes a BOOK on a date!?
My Thoughts Exactly ,so she Going to Read and Have a Few Drink in-between Having A Conversation, THAT ONE GOES IN THE book OF DATING😂🤔🙏!!!
She was skipping steps because she doesn't trust or respect the process.
Funny, exactly what I thought before reading the comments...
Who brings a book on a date! 🤔
Uppity Sista!
PS: you can get that book on your phone. 😁
EXACTLY!! Who does that?? Clearly that sends a msg that she isn't interested in getting to know the date
Right...😂 guaranteed she never even read it...
her getting drunk on the 2nd date was a major red flag! Run Forrest Run!
Run🏃🏾♂️🏃🏿♂️ Forrest Run.... is an understatement. SMH 😏. These 304s have, absolutely, NO sense of morals or values.
Who gets drunk in front of a man you JUST MET? I'll tell you who! A lost, messed up, goofy, 🤪 alcoholic and disrespectful 304 who decided she wasn't really INTO him and would do WHATEVER she wanted to do in his presence. That's who!
Her physical aspects come from her DNA.... NOTHING she did. Don't get too wrapped up with that and be deceived. Inside, she is a clown 🤡 to the second power. She left that book because she was just being PRETENTIOUS. In the words of Tony Gaskins, 🗣️ "Point ☝🏿 blank.... PERIOD!!!"
Bringing A BOOK also have Never heard that one, so she going to Read And Drink Liquor, 🤔🤔
Her bringing a book on the 2nd date is a far bigger red flag than her getting drunk. I wouldn’t even say getting drunk on the 2nd date is a red flag..
@@darthsilversith667it definitely sent a message of her being disinterested. Also masking who she really is. She's insecure & brought a *prop* to appear a certain way and it definitely didn't land.
1. Getting drunk on the second date is crazy 2. Why are you bringing a book too Is insanity
Didn't make a lick a sense.
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There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Facts
He found out her Book wasn't the only thing that was $9 her mindset is worth $9 too 😂
She is the EPITOME of finding an issue with something when there isn't one. He didn't mean it literally. And he probably didn't know how much the book cost. If you were as smart as you're PRESENTING to be, why not CALL the bar, explain what happened and see if it's there...She's extra for no reason.
And she's still wondering why she's still single. Sometimes, the trash will take itself out.
He literally was making a joke with the book girl 😂
4:35 The real problem with her comment is that she isnt' acknowledging that some women are not peaceful people and the reason why a woman didnt have a peaceful pregnancy may be her own fault. She is assuming all pregnant women are reasonable, rational people and than none of them have mental illness. She is blaming any and all unpeaceful pregnancies on the father which is disgusting.
Let’s just start with…….Who takes a book on a date? Make it make sense?
No discipline, no self-control. Run!
Lmao, she expected dude to offer-up to buy her another book… Chick please… Smh
Yes, she tested him with some nonsense! He said no way… he should thank her.
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Right, dodged that bullet like Neo…
The book wasn't the only thing she lost.....have you lost your damn mind
Firstly, WHY would you show up on a date with a book??? Secondly, she got upset with the phrase, "Big Baller," meant that he wasn't gonna be reaching into his wallet for her.
The only kind of communication a woman expects from you is what favors only her, the rest is just a waste of breath which can be used on her later.
You can't make this shit up lol. Had a chick get next level upset because I jokingly said okay broski in a text. They wild out here
I’m fighting for my daughter right now for 50/50 or full custody. Sucks that we have to fight to spend more time with our kids. How can we go from a full time father to a 1/4 father seeing our kids every other weekend just cause our relationship didn’t workout 🤬🤬🤬
Bringing a book to a bar is hilarious.
It's hypocritical for a woman to demand peace during pregnancy and deny peace whenever she chooses in a relationship.
So many things wrong with what you just said. 1 you should absolutely want the mother of your child to have a healthy pregnancy. 2 men are just as responsible for causing stress in a relationship!!!! Get over yourself and whatever you do NEVER have children! Poor kids 😭
Yes please run 🏃🏃🏃right now and don't tally!!😂😂😂
Why is she reading on a date!?!?!?
He dodged nukes like neo.
Drunk book girl literally got offended by ish women say ALL THE TIME to men (men also say it to other men), whether the item is cheap or real expensive
Notice, she couldn’t articulate the issue she had with saying what he said…basically she’s overly sensitive and finds fault in nothing just to find fault.
Social media don’t ruin relationships.. ppl wanting attention is ruining relationships
Had he purchased the new book, it would set a very bad precedent down the line.
He immediately cut his losses.
Why purchase a new book when he could have kept the book, unless they left at the same time and it was under the table. That situation is weird.
That's not his child. That's why she said what she said.😮😮😮😮😮
[Shows she doesn't appreciate resources and value! If she can so easily replace something she drew enjoyment from, it's likely that she's the same when it comes to relationships!🤔💭]
Call me old fashioned, but I think the babies father and the husband should be in the delivery room.😊
Why did I think "Book" was a euphemism for something.
I Agree 💯%, Travis Should Definitely not Read or Respond to Social Media, him or his Girlfriend, A Relationship is Hard Enough for two, Don't Bring Another Million People In, He will Live, Learn and Love Just we All Have DONE, but one Suggestion from the Peanut Gallery PRENUP! PEACE, 🙏🖤!!!
Getting drunk on a second date is nasty work fasho and she sounds like a straight up goofy tbh i swear😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's it?! I was actually expecting something more idiotic. So a joke, which I'm assuming it was, and you take it as a problem. Smh.
She wanted him to jump in and offer to replace the book.
I definitely Understand the Problem..
Bless the Nubian woman for protecting her son against what some women do God bless her 🙏🏾
The book guy just was making a joke that’s wild… I give up!
You have to be kidding me, fam ...🤯
Was it a book on what not to do on a date? Chapter 1. Don't bring a book on a date
Ive been saying it since 2019.
Women don't know love until they have a son. Not a daughter, a SON
ROFL. In my head the book she had was “The Oddesy”
Ok I just watch every video I’m ready for life lol
She’s right. That comment was cringe. 😂
She brought a book on a date… and to a bar?
Title of the book “10 ways to lose a guy”
Soo, she can't think far enough ahead to understand she won't want to carry a gigantic book on a date? In her hands? Not take a smaller book. Not take a bigger purse? Not even leave the book at home? In the car? Nothing? Once had a client meet me at the office and she brought her 1 year old in, leaving the car seat in the car. So, you're gonna hold your child for the next 30 minutes, ma'am?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I Don't Feel Bad For The Simp!!!! . . He Got What he deserves!!!!
I'm the delivery room because that's my child too,I'm here to provide for the baby,not you if We not together.
8:50 And it's not just social media it's also who she choose and who the man decides to keep
She just felt like it was a sneak dissimilar but couldn't really understand it.
Kai gonna get played in the end. Cmon, man! They look like any kind of match to yall? She wins 🏆
Yeah, none of those lawyers or attorneys looked like they gave a damn about kids in fatherless homes
Someone can't hold their liquor it seems
50 cent is a great celebrity example for these young celebrity Brothers to examine when it comes to romance with women...
Young dudes don’t have that type of discipline to give up sex for years, most ppl don’t
@Wgz945 it's not even about giving up sex, it's about keeping women in prospective and treating them accordingly.
That's the same dumb logic these same women will use to keep the father out of the kids lives when they get older. It doesn't matter what they got going on - if he's trying to be there for his child, LET HIM! 6:18
True statistics!
If you don’t download Kindle wth 😂
Not every book is on Kindle.
She has no self control... Move on
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9:16 the internet exposed the cracks. Even if the couples weren't on the internet they would still had ended and for the same reasons.
People confuse peace and happiness and think that supersedes duty and responsibility. If a man wants to see he child especially his first child being born he has the right to be there. This aint even a male and female thing it is an adult concept. This thing about withholding a father that right is only creating more friction because like it our not that woman and man have to work together for at least in this economy 21 to 23 years and even after that the work is not done. If I was in that man shoes I would hate that woman forever and to top it off I'm paying child support and getting screwed by the system and of course hurting the child overall all because of "peace". What about peace for the child!!!! Look at the bigger picture!! Maturity is one of the hardest thing for people to realize sometimes.
Statistically women dont give a damn about there son's ......😂
It’s sad when some women glorify foolishness, we don’t care
How about just smile at the lighthearted joke and keep it moving. WTF!!!
Guess I'm part of the problem.....and not HER
Then I guess I am apart of the problem
To me, a woman getting drunk is a red flag and honestly unladylike IMO
Who brings a book on a date???
Shaking my head
I can not blame the young lady but the women’s movement which has been an obstacle to black relationships.
I disagree. The internet helps what is ALREADY there. Before, you just worried about the people in their immediate vicinity(neighborhood,school,job). The internet just expanded the radius
Self sabotage. Imma get rid of you before you get me. Seen it a thousand times.
Send that clip to kai please I knew she wasn't there for kai she is there just for his money please send that clip to kai
She's ignorant !
.....and the purpose of the book. Why post this mess. Channel change on post three. Zzzzzzzzz.
I'm sorry. What did you miss? She didn't expect him to solve her problem at all. She thinks he's cheap. 9 dollars isn't ballin. That's what I got from it. She didn't expect him to get her book for her or anything. Though I definitely do not understand why you would bring a book to a date. And women wonder why they are still single. Smh
its called a joke of course 9 dollars is not a lot that's obvious its like if you ever been to a super high end restaurant and they serve you a tiny portion and you say how am i gonna finish all this food clearly the joke is the fact its not a lot of food she was comfortable enough to get drunk but not take a small joke which is just weird and off putting , if you cant make light hearted jokes with the person your with without them over reacting chances its not going to work so him did him a favor
Excuses
She is trying to clown him or say he's got an "issue" when SHE is the one getting tipsy/drunk on a date...Ok.😂 Light-hearted joke versus someone who can't excersize self control or know when to push away from the table when it comes to drinks...
No you're the problem!
You're the problem why did you even being a book on a date to begin with.
You want to be a gold digger and you know you do
Her nose is making me dizzy
5:23 i normally feel you. But I have to all the way disagree here. I’m a 40-year-old father of five and I was there for all of my children’s births. I would argue that I as a father have a right to see the baby after it is born, but the choice of whether or not I was in the delivery room was entirely up to my wife as it should be. It’s a lot of mental and physical strain and pain giving birth. It would not be right for us as men to interfere with that. If the woman says she doesn’t want you in the room you shouldn’t be there period. That be the equivalent of trying to run an Olympic marathon with your wife nagging at you in your ear.
I agree.. the only people that NEED to be in the delivery room is the medical staff and the soon to be mama, lol! Whatever makes the woman comfortable is what's important.
Who taking Mickey mouse out
Sigh
I bet the mom ain't married just trying to sound good for the video and get out of here you chameleon
Thats the difference between 2024 bihs and bihs from 20 years ago. If a man joked like that back then by calling a women big ballen. They would laugh and that be that. It's a reason Kevin Samuel's said get a cat and die to these new age women.
Um.i don't understand the problem