When they say spiritually ready,mentally ready,emotionally ready,this is what they mean.1st time watching and I’m so impressed about how you held it down and didn’t let him intimidate you,bully you. Ths is what a host does. He came to belittle you and th mbokodo in you showed up ke sana👊🏾👌🏾
I have never heard a person speak so many words with a load on nothing. I still think that he does not understand the word called accountability, talk about dilulu😂
I don't think I would be able to patiently sit through this disrespect and gaslighting, big ups madam speaker for standing your ground and remaining calm and respectful 👏
The poor man missed a great opportunity to clean his image. He just came to reprimand, intimidate and point fingers at you right from the first sentence. Madam Speaker, you are patient. Yhoo!
I was a little frustrated by Madam speakers generalizations😢😢 i found that to be unfair. I know so many people who are known in their own right and those who are not, who made bad decisions at 22.... Some of those choices are career related, business and relationships.... I still don't understand how madam speaker kept saying WE WERE ALL 22 AND NOT IRRESPONSIBLE. This man was solid in that stand and i give it to him. U wanted to generalize ma'am and it was unfair
1. Madam speaker should've asked for consent to request for the edited parts where he took accountability, if those are given to her I feel that bishop deserves an apology (I'm not taking sides) 2. I respect the calmness bishop is handling this conversation. 3. Also we need to take into consideration that, we come from different backgrounds where financial knowledge isn't afforded to us hence we have alot of black kids on "i blew it" 4. Age is a factor, and all of us know that our reasoning changes along the way and we make mistakes that stick with us for a long time. That's what I'm hearing bishop saying(I stand to be corrected) NB : THIS IS JUST MY OBSERVATION, IM NOT TAKING SIDES & IM NOT JUSTIFYING HIS DOINGS
Overall, age is a factor even for the girls who were throwing themselves at him so it is wrong that they should take the blame for destroying his marriage when they knew mamfundisi was there. 20 years later ,There’s no accountability there just shifting blame.
Wa tseba my husband and I had a conversation ka Bishop Moloi that he can blame Christians all he likes but until he accounts for his actions the devil will always have something to use against him, being defensive and intimidating won't help him especially because his being entrusted to teach bana ba Modimo. He needs to account so the devil won't have anything to use against him.
I fully agree with you. Disagree with respect. I respect Madam Speaker for allowing him to be speak his mind and also challenging him when he was trying to side step matters. Power to her.
You can’t talk and talk to this type of people ne, but when they are not ready to take accountable you won’t even get anything from them. They will call you names and twist things. I admire your patience and emotional intelligence sisi 😅🤞🏾 yhuuu hai Lolol mina yena never lol 😅
Wow my lady you are my hero in this interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾you rocked it , this narcissist thought he was coming there to control the narrative without responding to the questions Well done my lady
I respect you Madam Speaker for your patience and emotional intelligence. He said nothing but used big empty words. I am a church girlie and I know how the man are never taught accountability.
I understand the pastor more than anything..the pastor is real and you can't accept the truth..we all made mistakes and not responsible..I'm 26 but lived my 22 recklessness that reality for some of us.. next don't conclude everything madam
@@sunflawa it's all about women...women this.. women that.. even if a women bully or kill a man it's not an issue but a defence..that's why men can't speak because everything is about you guys
Your emotional intelligence is unmatched madam speaker! This interview could have gone south very fast but he went from hating you to liking you (his words) halfway into the interview
Proverbs 14:7-9 Stay away from a fool, for you will not find knowledge on their lips. The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the folly of fools is deception. Fools mock at making amends for sin, but goodwill is found among the upright. Madam Speaker this is my advise to you are very wise and full of respect,This whole interview felt like you were sitting with a Highschool Student honestly wow I have never seen such in my life ooooh
This guy owns masters of all kinds of unnecessary defence 😢😢😢. 😮😮 He was here to outshine Madam Speaker and belittle her with everything in his disposal.
The manyonyoba show is a good example of a person learns from their mistakes, if u know wat i mean, so madam speaker u had wisdom in this interview and i hope and wish he listens to this so he can learn again
Big up madam speaker ,I love you more after today 🎉. The way you handled these interviews was very assertive an still drive the point across, professionally
I like how you conduct your interviews, the way you listen to your guests and offer them an opportunity to express their views without interrupting them.
Madam speaker as human beings it’s difficult to accept defeat but remove your emotions and watch and listen to this interview and where this man is coming from. He said a lot of things to learn from. Things that will help you and you channel grow.
You two are engaging shem, I love even the blows cause both of you are serving. I haven't finished the episode but my wow and yhooo jar is running empty already ❤
For growth purposes, Madam Speaker as your follower i would advice you to sit and listen to this man again when you are more calmer, he said a lot of truths and information that can help you going foward.
Between me and this man I’d like to believe I was the calm one. You’re right about him giving information that can help me grow although it was served with a lot of gaslighting, intimidation and superiority complex.
I believe he was not happy and he made that clear, he was definitely throwing jabs. Yes you remained calm. would have walked away in the first 15 minutes so I applaud you for that 😊
@@portiamalobane5062 seriously and when he says he’s here to correct the narrative blahblabla I am like in whose channel? Go correct the narrative on your own channel I was like he has no followers if he has😀
Its my first time to watch and listen to this podcast. I love the honesty of this guy. Sometimes we have our own expectations about preachers. Ministers of the gospel are human beings too saved by grace.
I have been learning to process that behind everybody there is a story,humility is about acknowledgement that it's their story so trying to rationalize or evaluate can be disillusional.I like the emotional maturity from both.Have learnt & reflected frm this interview.Ego!Ego!Ego lives in all of us & our assignment is to reduce or kill it completely
I like the way the bishop cleared the air when he said talk to the person before you talk about them. I think that’s the responsible way to handle life not to go off on any situation we have no idea about. I believe you would have felt the same way madam speaker. I also appreciate you inviting and giving him a chance. Thanks for this real interview
I disagree with you regarding talking to a person before talking about them. There are so many people out there who share their stories the same way that Bishop did. How realistic is it that I’m going to get a hold of every single celebrity before doing a commentary video and sharing my opinion and lessons learned from their stories? Talking to people before sharing my opinion is not being realistic. Being able to get a hold of Bishop Moloi is one in a 100 possibilities.
@@madams___speaker I agree madam but for fairness sake you reach out and if they ignore then you proceed. I think it courteous to do that though most people would still not reply. Regardless, I am really impressed you called that bishop to the show. It's an addition to your credibility. Trust me it was an awesome interview in its own realm. I like your content and love the fact that madam will uphold her integrity what so ever. That is a rare quality. But this one had you madam and you slithered through it like a pro. Thanks for the content ❤️
This interview is a classic example of Emotional thinkers vs Logical thinkers. Men are logical and women are emotional. Let's appreciate the differences as we watch this dialog... Salute to both host and Bishop for making this interview happen, at least.
I think on this interview it was vise versa, being able to throw insults, gaslighting and intimidation etc. that’s being emotional. So being an emotional thinker is more suiting to the Man than the woman in this interview. Thank you for the appreciation 🙏🏿
Sho! This was a hard to watch. Sisi you are such a strong woman!!! I love how you were not trying to show that you are right and even giving him a chance to speak. Kodwa the man of God has a lot of excuses for his actions. Plus ne English ngapha 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. He is playing with words.
What a beautiful interview. So much to learn from ths two amazing people🙏. I wish most content creators can watch this video. There's so much to learn here! Two things i picked from the interview.. 1. Much of the debate was on semantics.. Absolutely interesting how both parties see things and their choice of words. 2. When we are subjective (Sometimes without even realising it) and our focus is on proving our point, we will miss the opportunity to see things from a different angle. Totally enjoyed this interview! Bishop Moloi was a lovely guest! Madam speaker, beautiful Work 💕. Keep shining.
The Bishop needs to go back to prayer. This is why I don't allow people to put their hands on my head when they pray for me. They have their own demons to lay down. He has to heal.
This man is a narcissist, he wants us to understand that at 22 years he was young he must be exempted from the sins he committed then. He shouldn't be blamed. Now he is older, but still blames young/older women in the church for his lustful behaviors. Why he didn't protect his marriage because those who were after him didn't know anything about marriage?😂😂😂😂
So much dark energy on this man but let me keep quiet. Let's talk about emotional intelligence on Madam. He came to intimidate and shut you off but I guess it didn't go well
He was being harshly judged for his truth…unfair and he was willing to share more but couldn’t. It’s very unfair to compare him with people he doesn’t even know. It’s about him, should’ve been about him.
Not him trying to reprimand you like a child. Narcissist this one and you delivered multiple injuries he’ll never recover from. 1 million excuses, zero accountability.
First time here not a subscriber yet I watched the whole video I have a lot to say but I don’t want to judge coz I don’t know you guys, one thing I have noted and applaud you for is having to keep a conversation with this bishop I couldn’t have done that , trust me security would have intervene 😂. Well done 👍
I enjoyed this interaction a lot. The Bishop is a brilliant man and Madam Speaker was gracious in taking the punches in. If you appoint yourself as a watchdog and critique of others, you must be humble enough to receive same.
Bishop is not a brilliant man. He is childish. He listens to respond and not to understand. He was defensive the whole time. What we call a man-child. It's pointless to tall to people like this man. It's like talking to a brick wall.
I think madam speaker is using her platform responsibly and opens up conversations that are frowned upon where people tend not to talk freely about. Continue ranting Madam!❤
Bt he was accountable just u where not willing to hear him out kept on generalising,sometimes it's not about being right everybody has its own story to tell and we must stop being judgemental
My new years resolution is to have the emotional intelligence kaMadam speaker. Hands down you held that interview like champ in the raging face of a textbook narcissist. The subtle insults, the negging and intimidation, where is the decorum kulobaba ngaze nganamhloni bazalwane
I think Bishop must focus on self accountability. This time he is blaming content owners not himself, which I disagree with his remarks. I was expecting Q&A session, but it sounded like a argument session between two individuals. Thanks
You held your own Ntombi!!!!. You are sharp and an amazing communicator. This man thought he was coming there to dismantle you.... he even ended up saying he likes you😂 coz truly he is not used to being challenged 😂 I thoroughly enjoyed your composure and logic🎉
Valid points were made from both sides. Madam speaker take the feedback and apply it. As for the bishop, he came in strong and tried to take control of the conversation from the beginning. Big ups to you for sitting and continuing with the conversation.
He said "forget about becoming a mzalwane, bazalwane are evil?" How are we supposed to feel when he said that? He used a blanket statement, but yena is now hurt because you said hes not accountable? Haiboo!
1.1Samuel 15 v 20 & 21 Saul was blaming the people 2. Adam was blaming Eve and the snake 3. Pls pastors let us learn to take responsibility for our actions and stop blaming others
I wish I could communicate like this with my partner, both parties are matured…even if it’s hurtful they still listening and calm. Madam speaker I respect you.
Great conversation, I appreciate the respect in the midst of all that disagreement. We can agree to disagree, but agree to respect each other. Whether you learn out of the discussion is up to you. More interviews of this nature please.
And bishop you are allowed to have mistakes as you grow,but each and everyone including you must be accountable for their mistakes even 20 years later as you imply
I was a boy - Christian must stop marrying children then, because it is clear they are not ready. "Children" must not get married that is a fact. Many Christians marry to avoid sexual sin, not because they are ready for the institution. They marry because of peer pressure, many because of fleshy desires - like beauty, handsome, money etc.
"What do you do as a man of God when ladies throw themselves at you". But the bishop could have taken this opportunity afforded to account on this platform according to the biblical standards, not natural human standards. Blaming age and poverty for ill decision in this regard is not accounting. He is a man of God. Paul is clear to Timothy about the kind of conduct a man of God must posses.
@@user-xn9sw8ib5bthey have accounted for their sins. They have repented, that is how they differ from this so-called Bishop of yours who blames poverty and women for his loose pants😂
@@madams___speakerthis guy is really frustrating me with his arrogance I’m a mother of a late 20’s son who came from the village with me to the city and got to experience better life good schools,money,traveling but he exercised self control and he knows to say sorry I shouldn’t have done that, I shouldn’t have said that…
Madam Speaker i really hope u knw wat u carry with you my sister....m impressed❤u were really called for this,,,,big ups for handling this man in a matured mannee
I think this might be the reason why most men don’t speak out about their struggles, sone of us judge them harshly and dont allow them to tell “their story”.
I learnt a lot from the both of you. Big ups to you for sitting through this entire interview. It shows great maturity to sit and listen to someone saying things that you don't necessarily agree with. It shows a willingness to grow! Indeed you are a LIFE COACH. I love you mama❤❤❤.
I love you Madam u a the boss lady .I cnt wait to c more guest .some ppl will never take accountability in life . Thank you standing up for the truth ❤❤
You are born for this,Madam speaker, i believe in you and you dont get intimidated easily, stand your ground and keep it up, you are our medication, you heal us for standing for the truth
The guy doesn't want to admit he did wrong and take responsibility and accountability. Yooh you were so patient hle. This was a chance to advice young ministers and take accountability of the difficulties of being a minister of God and having resources and misusing them.
@@peternkosi7115 he is blaming the young girls at the church and saying young bishops must be aware of evil bazalwane. Why isn’t he encouraging self control as that is one of the fruits of the spirit? Distancing yourself from what you did by blaming everything else around you except yourself, that’s not accountability
Superiority complex in this man is at another level. If you are a Bishop, you are accountable to people. Second to God. Scripture says we must be an example. He is not prepared to account to himself. There is nothing wrong with calling a person Mr Moloi
Both of you should work in the Parliament or debate space. I was waiting to see who will lay a hand first. So impressed to your professionalism. Big Up!!!!
I agree, he made a lot of sense , especially when you listen without emotions on his background , I wonder whose this pastor , 😂 I wish he could create his own podcast to align influencers .... I love the presenter though.
The man is clearly saying i made mistakes i could have done better. I am more muture now i am no longer the same person but we are moving in circles because being a content creator is more important than finding out the reality at hand.
I am a born again Christian, I love God with all my heart. This "Bishop" really disappointed me, you don't win a "soul" that you think is lost by flashing a belt in their face 😢😢😢. His intentions were to belittle you, crush you and destroy you. These "men of god" need Jesus, NO!
@@primrosenokuthula6595 you follow and say amen to the title?? Even if 1+1 is not giving 2... Even if ua "just a Christian with no title" test the spirit mtakabawo... No hard feelings
I’m 22mins in and enjoying this interview, I don’t know how the “conflict” started but I understand both parties…he is correct about the content stuff…and you are regarding accountability
People must get it that self control is possible by the grace of God and it is possible. Preachers or rather Ministers of the word must practice purity at all times.
@madams___speaker you were exposing your bias in this interview. You had your questions and answers but never wanted to listen to him. A blanket approach doesn't work for everyone.
Big up to you madam speaker..you are truly in control of your emotions...but now the Pastor is taking time for him to get into the real issue he is here for😢 But as speaker, I am learning so much into how to be in control of reactions and also considering audience' s point of view😢❤
I don't think I could have handled this well but I respect you madam for staying calm, I could hear the pastor side he is human and allowed to make mistakes but when you in a position of leadership more is expected from you❤
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When they say spiritually ready,mentally ready,emotionally ready,this is what they mean.1st time watching and I’m so impressed about how you held it down and didn’t let him intimidate you,bully you. Ths is what a host does. He came to belittle you and th mbokodo in you showed up ke sana👊🏾👌🏾
Yes he was on a mission, he thought by meeting her personally she will be intimidated.
Thank you 🙏🏿
I share the same sentiment, he feels very big and he came here to shrink her. He is a narcissist this boy
The aim was to belittle and try to intimidate, it never worked 🤣🤣🤣 I really love Madam❤️
I have never heard a person speak so many words with a load on nothing. I still think that he does not understand the word called accountability, talk about dilulu😂
I don't think I would be able to patiently sit through this disrespect and gaslighting, big ups madam speaker for standing your ground and remaining calm and respectful 👏
Thank you Zama 🙏🏿
Same here! Pastor drove me mad nje and Madam Speaker was able to contain herself, I wouldn't have 🤞
It is difficult to watch: umfundisi aurora emits aggression, condescending and defensive 😮
The umfundisi is a bully. I have watched and listened to him on a couple of times
He thought he was going to threaten madam speaker
The poor man missed a great opportunity to clean his image. He just came to reprimand, intimidate and point fingers at you right from the first sentence. Madam Speaker, you are patient. Yhoo!
😅😅I also didn’t know I was this patient
Very patient , I would never shame
True colours came out
Is your image clean
@@Champ_Samaritan you’re pathetic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was a little frustrated by Madam speakers generalizations😢😢 i found that to be unfair. I know so many people who are known in their own right and those who are not, who made bad decisions at 22.... Some of those choices are career related, business and relationships.... I still don't understand how madam speaker kept saying WE WERE ALL 22 AND NOT IRRESPONSIBLE. This man was solid in that stand and i give it to him. U wanted to generalize ma'am and it was unfair
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Agreed.
1. Madam speaker should've asked for consent to request for the edited parts where he took accountability, if those are given to her I feel that bishop deserves an apology (I'm not taking sides)
2. I respect the calmness bishop is handling this conversation.
3. Also we need to take into consideration that, we come from different backgrounds where financial knowledge isn't afforded to us hence we have alot of black kids on "i blew it"
4. Age is a factor, and all of us know that our reasoning changes along the way and we make mistakes that stick with us for a long time. That's what I'm hearing bishop saying(I stand to be corrected)
NB : THIS IS JUST MY OBSERVATION, IM NOT TAKING SIDES & IM NOT JUSTIFYING HIS DOINGS
My sister on point number 1 those edits are not there. I confirmed it with PR & the guy who did that episode. Nothing was cut out
Overall, age is a factor even for the girls who were throwing themselves at him so it is wrong that they should take the blame for destroying his marriage when they knew mamfundisi was there. 20 years later ,There’s no accountability there just shifting blame.
Wa tseba my husband and I had a conversation ka Bishop Moloi that he can blame Christians all he likes but until he accounts for his actions the devil will always have something to use against him, being defensive and intimidating won't help him especially because his being entrusted to teach bana ba Modimo. He needs to account so the devil won't have anything to use against him.
Amen to that
This interview was educational... Beside the drama.. I learned so much about communication from both parties
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I fully agree with you. Disagree with respect. I respect Madam Speaker for allowing him to be speak his mind and also challenging him when he was trying to side step matters. Power to her.
You can’t talk and talk to this type of people ne, but when they are not ready to take accountable you won’t even get anything from them. They will call you names and twist things. I admire your patience and emotional intelligence sisi 😅🤞🏾 yhuuu hai Lolol mina yena never lol 😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can’t believe I did this either
Wow my lady you are my hero in this interview 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾you rocked it , this narcissist thought he was coming there to control the narrative without responding to the questions
Well done my lady
Learning from both of you without taking a side.
Yaa true I also learned from both of them
Lol as a person listening to both for the 1st time I’m impressed, I could never…my temper and defensiveness would take over
I respect you Madam Speaker for your patience and emotional intelligence. He said nothing but used big empty words. I am a church girlie and I know how the man are never taught accountability.
Thank you 🙏🏿
I understand the pastor more than anything..the pastor is real and you can't accept the truth..we all made mistakes and not responsible..I'm 26 but lived my 22 recklessness that reality for some of us.. next don't conclude everything madam
@@ramakwa what did I conclude?
This is the biggest problem... The church does not teach accountability on man... But women are pushed to apologies even when they are not wrong
@@sunflawa it's all about women...women this.. women that.. even if a women bully or kill a man it's not an issue but a defence..that's why men can't speak because everything is about you guys
As Christians we’re accountable to each other. It’s biblical and has nothing to do with superiority and positions.
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You are my type of Cristian...yes soo very much yes, we are accountable to one another
💪🫡 nje
Your emotional intelligence is unmatched madam speaker! This interview could have gone south very fast but he went from hating you to liking you (his words) halfway into the interview
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She's Cool...Madan speaker is damn intelligent
Proverbs 14:7-9
Stay away from a fool, for you will not find knowledge on their lips. The wisdom of the prudent is to give thought to their ways, but the folly of fools is deception. Fools mock at making amends for sin, but goodwill is found among the upright. Madam Speaker this is my advise to you are very wise and full of respect,This whole interview felt like you were sitting with a Highschool Student honestly wow I have never seen such in my life ooooh
This guy owns masters of all kinds of unnecessary defence 😢😢😢. 😮😮 He was here to outshine Madam Speaker and belittle her with everything in his disposal.
The manyonyoba show is a good example of a person learns from their mistakes, if u know wat i mean, so madam speaker u had wisdom in this interview and i hope and wish he listens to this so he can learn again
Big up madam speaker ,I love you more after today 🎉. The way you handled these interviews was very assertive an still drive the point across, professionally
Thank you so much 🙌
Bishop would make a great politician
Correct
Exactly 😩😩
True
Clergy men are politicians at heart...bonke baphila ngamazwi(lies).
Bad one
I like how you conduct your interviews, the way you listen to your guests and offer them an opportunity to express their views without interrupting them.
Thank you 🙏🏿
Madam speaker as human beings it’s difficult to accept defeat but remove your emotions and watch and listen to this interview and where this man is coming from. He said a lot of things to learn from. Things that will help you and you channel grow.
I’m not sure about the emotions and defeat part but I totally agree with you on learning a lot of things to make my channel grow
Exactly 💯
Powerful comment
He too he failed to tell her all about himself, you know nothing
...This interview can help many content creators. 🙏🙌🏼
Accountability feels like an attack when one is not ready to acknowledge how their behaviour hurt others. That is all i can say on this😊
Facts 🙌💯
they hurt you neh
@@Champ_Samaritan so what?
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He's never prepared to listen but to belittle the host
Very manipulative this one. Imagine him saying you attacking him
Imagine how his congregants feel each time he opens his mount 😭😭
First time seeing you madam speaker and you have earned a subscriber ❤❤🎉🎉your emotional intelligence humbled me... Love you ❤
Madam speaker is such an amazing woman, she’s so smart yoh!
Thank you 🙏🏿
You two are engaging shem, I love even the blows cause both of you are serving. I haven't finished the episode but my wow and yhooo jar is running empty already ❤
🤣🤣🤣🤣thank you 🙏🏿❤️
For growth purposes, Madam Speaker as your follower i would advice you to sit and listen to this man again when you are more calmer, he said a lot of truths and information that can help you going foward.
Between me and this man I’d like to believe I was the calm one. You’re right about him giving information that can help me grow although it was served with a lot of gaslighting, intimidation and superiority complex.
I believe he was not happy and he made that clear, he was definitely throwing jabs. Yes you remained calm. would have walked away in the first 15 minutes so I applaud you for that 😊
He can have his personal view on what you say but he doesn't want you to have your personal view on issues. Moloi is here to be relevant and popular.
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Yazini only his view matters 🤦🤦
The arrogance 😮
@@portiamalobane5062 seriously and when he says he’s here to correct the narrative blahblabla I am like in whose channel? Go correct the narrative on your own channel I was like he has no followers if he has😀
Madam Speaker I salute how calm you were. This was a good interview. Even men get hurt.
Thank you so much 🙏🏿
Moruti, go a pala ka wena stru.
From which university did you become
Its my first time to watch and listen to this podcast. I love the honesty of this guy. Sometimes we have our own expectations about preachers. Ministers of the gospel are human beings too saved by grace.
I have been learning to process that behind everybody there is a story,humility is about acknowledgement that it's their story so trying to rationalize or evaluate can be disillusional.I like the emotional maturity from both.Have learnt & reflected frm this interview.Ego!Ego!Ego lives in all of us & our assignment is to reduce or kill it completely
This interview was amazing, l enjoyed every second of it. Thank you Madam speaker and the Bishop
I like the way the bishop cleared the air when he said talk to the person before you talk about them. I think that’s the responsible way to handle life not to go off on any situation we have no idea about. I believe you would have felt the same way madam speaker. I also appreciate you inviting and giving him a chance.
Thanks for this real interview
I disagree with you regarding talking to a person before talking about them. There are so many people out there who share their stories the same way that Bishop did. How realistic is it that I’m going to get a hold of every single celebrity before doing a commentary video and sharing my opinion and lessons learned from their stories? Talking to people before sharing my opinion is not being realistic. Being able to get a hold of Bishop Moloi is one in a 100 possibilities.
@@madams___speaker I agree madam but for fairness sake you reach out and if they ignore then you proceed. I think it courteous to do that though most people would still not reply. Regardless, I am really impressed you called that bishop to the show. It's an addition to your credibility. Trust me it was an awesome interview in its own realm. I like your content and love the fact that madam will uphold her integrity what so ever. That is a rare quality. But this one had you madam and you slithered through it like a pro.
Thanks for the content ❤️
This interview is a classic example of Emotional thinkers vs Logical thinkers. Men are logical and women are emotional. Let's appreciate the differences as we watch this dialog... Salute to both host and Bishop for making this interview happen, at least.
I think on this interview it was vise versa, being able to throw insults, gaslighting and intimidation etc. that’s being emotional. So being an emotional thinker is more suiting to the Man than the woman in this interview. Thank you for the appreciation 🙏🏿
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Bishop Moloi was soo logical I agree
So here, who was the emotional thinker and who is the logical thinker?? Lol please enlighten me oh wise one😂
@@madams___speaker i fully agree on this interview madam speaker was logical and bishop was highly emotional.
Sho! This was a hard to watch. Sisi you are such a strong woman!!! I love how you were not trying to show that you are right and even giving him a chance to speak. Kodwa the man of God has a lot of excuses for his actions. Plus ne English ngapha 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. He is playing with words.
Thank you sis. Hectic stuff
Damn this pastor is on point 🔥💯
What a beautiful interview. So much to learn from ths two amazing people🙏. I wish most content creators can watch this video. There's so much to learn here! Two things i picked from the interview..
1. Much of the debate was on semantics.. Absolutely interesting how both parties see things and their choice of words.
2. When we are subjective (Sometimes without even realising it) and our focus is on proving our point, we will miss the opportunity to see things from a different angle.
Totally enjoyed this interview! Bishop Moloi was a lovely guest! Madam speaker, beautiful Work 💕. Keep shining.
Good job madam speaker.
The guy came while his emotions are still high and he sounds angry bitter.
He could have done much better if he was humble.
I have enjoyed this profound discussion. I take off my hat, and you are both the best to listen too.❤🎉
The Bishop needs to go back to prayer. This is why I don't allow people to put their hands on my head when they pray for me. They have their own demons to lay down. He has to heal.
This man is a narcissist, he wants us to understand that at 22 years he was young he must be exempted from the sins he committed then. He shouldn't be blamed. Now he is older, but still blames young/older women in the church for his lustful behaviors. Why he didn't protect his marriage because those who were after him didn't know anything about marriage?😂😂😂😂
So much dark energy on this man but let me keep quiet. Let's talk about emotional intelligence on Madam. He came to intimidate and shut you off but I guess it didn't go well
He is just too scary for a Bishop title, But let me keep quiet.
I like how you kept saying "HAOWA"🤣🤣🤣🤣. The gaslighting and intimidation that was coming your way was intense but you stood firm. We appreciate you❤❤❤
Thank you 🙏🏿 🤣
Akere , big ups to her ❤
He was being harshly judged for his truth…unfair and he was willing to share more but couldn’t. It’s very unfair to compare him with people he doesn’t even know. It’s about him, should’ve been about him.
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True
Not him trying to reprimand you like a child.
Narcissist this one and you delivered multiple injuries he’ll never recover from. 1 million excuses, zero accountability.
First time here not a subscriber yet I watched the whole video I have a lot to say but I don’t want to judge coz I don’t know you guys, one thing I have noted and applaud you for is having to keep a conversation with this bishop I couldn’t have done that , trust me security would have intervene 😂.
Well done 👍
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I'm with you on that "security intervention" part 🤣🤣🤣
I enjoyed this interaction a lot. The Bishop is a brilliant man and Madam Speaker was gracious in taking the punches in. If you appoint yourself as a watchdog and critique of others, you must be humble enough to receive same.
Bishop gave her left right and center😊😅😊😅
Yes he had a problem of self control which a lot of people go through this is life
Good Bishop I love you
Bishop is not a brilliant man. He is childish. He listens to respond and not to understand. He was defensive the whole time. What we call a man-child. It's pointless to tall to people like this man. It's like talking to a brick wall.
Yoh yah no I really enjoyed this interview. You guys are a match 😂😅. You handled it very well Madam
Thanks waka 🤣🤣🤣❤️
I love how he stood up for himself.
Amazingly so. Solid as a rock!?! Bishop sir you were such a gentleman. A good role model for generations before and still to come. Thank you.
Me too
Basically we need him as a speaker on men's conference 14 Feb - 17 Feb
The man admits he was wrong and he had no self control. But the lady is still pushing her stupid narrative 😂😂😂😂
Lol this bishop is an idiot. He sounds like a child.
He comes accross as very defensive. Like someone hard to repremand too maybe it is too early lets see
You saw through him from the onset
Every human being is like that though
Madam speaker ke tsamaya le wena my sisters you're very smart and respect 🎉
Thank you so much 🙏🏿
This interview was so great to watch. Loved it❤
Thank you 🙏🏿
I think madam speaker is using her platform responsibly and opens up conversations that are frowned upon where people tend not to talk freely about.
Continue ranting Madam!❤
This guy is really good
Bishop Moloi is on point, you need to listen to him with sobererity.
He also needs to take accountability with sobriety
Sobriety? What’s the intoxication?
A good talker with no accountability...
Bt he was accountable just u where not willing to hear him out kept on generalising,sometimes it's not about being right everybody has its own story to tell and we must stop being judgemental
I’m anxious even before watching this…thanks for saving it😊
Hope you enjoyed it!
My new years resolution is to have the emotional intelligence kaMadam speaker. Hands down you held that interview like champ in the raging face of a textbook narcissist. The subtle insults, the negging and intimidation, where is the decorum kulobaba ngaze nganamhloni bazalwane
Thank you so much
Lol the insults and the talking over her, had me by the tip of my chair. Lord this woman bit her tongue and was calm. God bless her ❤
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I think Bishop must focus on self accountability. This time he is blaming content owners not himself, which I disagree with his remarks. I was expecting Q&A session, but it sounded like a argument session between two individuals. Thanks
I appreciate your input. Thank you
You held your own Ntombi!!!!. You are sharp and an amazing communicator. This man thought he was coming there to dismantle you.... he even ended up saying he likes you😂 coz truly he is not used to being challenged 😂 I thoroughly enjoyed your composure and logic🎉
Mina i am seeing someone who is defensive someone who don't want to take responsibility.this one is like this he always defend himself
Moloi and Zondo same what's up group, i feel pity for their church members😭😭
Correct
Valid points were made from both sides. Madam speaker take the feedback and apply it.
As for the bishop, he came in strong and tried to take control of the conversation from the beginning.
Big ups to you for sitting and continuing with the conversation.
Thank you 🙏🏿
He said "forget about becoming a mzalwane, bazalwane are evil?" How are we supposed to feel when he said that? He used a blanket statement, but yena is now hurt because you said hes not accountable? Haiboo!
Arg please I am a born again Christian myself, dont act like you don't know how cruel bazalwane can be
1.1Samuel 15 v 20 & 21 Saul was blaming the people
2. Adam was blaming Eve and the snake
3. Pls pastors let us learn to take responsibility for our actions and stop blaming others
So proud of you mbokodo ntate Moruti sounds like a common man on the street iyo
That's not true. They had a incredible respectful debate. Both of them are very outspoken and stand firm on their views.
The man destroyed her, she thought this was tik tok where she just rant without anyone debating her back
I agree, Bishop is for the streets lol
I love the both of you. I can listen to you two the whole day. Such conversations are 👌
Thank you 🤩
I wish I could communicate like this with my partner, both parties are matured…even if it’s hurtful they still listening and calm. Madam speaker I respect you.
Great conversation, I appreciate the respect in the midst of all that disagreement. We can agree to disagree, but agree to respect each other. Whether you learn out of the discussion is up to you. More interviews of this nature please.
And bishop you are allowed to have mistakes as you grow,but each and everyone including you must be accountable for their mistakes even 20 years later as you imply
Thank you 🙏🏿
But he was accountable, he said I was 22 and irresponsible what other form of accountability do you want from him?
I was a boy - Christian must stop marrying children then, because it is clear they are not ready. "Children" must not get married that is a fact. Many Christians marry to avoid sexual sin, not because they are ready for the institution. They marry because of peer pressure, many because of fleshy desires - like beauty, handsome, money etc.
@@fashionfocus970maybe English is a problem... Putting it like that is an excuse not being accountable😢😅😂aowa
Pastor well done, you can't account for other people. Madam speaker going forward learn not to generalised and be personal . Love this interview.
I respect both you.Not everyone can handle engagement like you did.I also learned a lot from your engagement.
"What do you do as a man of God when ladies throw themselves at you". But the bishop could have taken this opportunity afforded to account on this platform according to the biblical standards, not natural human standards. Blaming age and poverty for ill decision in this regard is not accounting. He is a man of God. Paul is clear to Timothy about the kind of conduct a man of God must posses.
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Akere
Bathoooong even le bo King Solomon bo David were human beings.
@@user-xn9sw8ib5bthey have accounted for their sins. They have repented, that is how they differ from this so-called Bishop of yours who blames poverty and women for his loose pants😂
@@madams___speakerthis guy is really frustrating me with his arrogance I’m a mother of a late 20’s son who came from the village with me to the city and got to experience better life good schools,money,traveling but he exercised self control and he knows to say sorry I shouldn’t have done that, I shouldn’t have said that…
Madam Speaker i really hope u knw wat u carry with you my sister....m impressed❤u were really called for this,,,,big ups for handling this man in a matured mannee
I think this might be the reason why most men don’t speak out about their struggles, sone of us judge them harshly and dont allow them to tell “their story”.
Men really suffer in silence. Especially when you deal with a person who suffered before. I can tell you many will be quiet ...
Exactly my point in every platform man are the ones who are always wrong in every situation from women
The Bishop is to the point, his points are well articulated, l admire his self control.
yhoo i am took anxious to listen to this and finish the video in one sitting 🤣....Madam speaker you are a healed hun, you emotional intelligence wow😘
Say that again.... I am emotional as we speak😅😅
I learnt a lot from the both of you. Big ups to you for sitting through this entire interview. It shows great maturity to sit and listen to someone saying things that you don't necessarily agree with. It shows a willingness to grow! Indeed you are a LIFE COACH. I love you mama❤❤❤.
I am enjoying and learning from the 2 of you, wow guys bo comrade 👏 ❤😅
🤣🤣🤣🙌🙌🙌thank you
Comrades 😂😂😂
The lady is smart, the man is a gaslighter 😂
Joh😢!Ntate o Mara, he is full of excuses no facts. He is trying to look good no accoutabity. Pride, ego etc
🤣🤣🤣🤣zero accountability this side
I love you Madam u a the boss lady .I cnt wait to c more guest .some ppl will never take accountability in life . Thank you standing up for the truth ❤❤
Thank you Thato ❤️
You are born for this,Madam speaker, i believe in you and you dont get intimidated easily, stand your ground and keep it up, you are our medication, you heal us for standing for the truth
Im getting best friend vibes at the end of an interview i would listen to you two whole day😊
Yeah this rival thing wasn’t working out so we had to become friends 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Well done Madam Speaker.
The guy doesn't want to admit he did wrong and take responsibility and accountability. Yooh you were so patient hle. This was a chance to advice young ministers and take accountability of the difficulties of being a minister of God and having resources and misusing them.
Exactly. Now young ministers will behave the way he did and think it’s ok
He did take accountability and said due to his age and immaturity what what.
But he admitted that when he was 22 he was irresponsible and had no self control . How must he admit? Lol aowa contant neh 😂😂😂
@@peternkosi7115 he is blaming the young girls at the church and saying young bishops must be aware of evil bazalwane. Why isn’t he encouraging self control as that is one of the fruits of the spirit? Distancing yourself from what you did by blaming everything else around you except yourself, that’s not accountability
Superiority complex in this man is at another level. If you are a Bishop, you are accountable to people. Second to God. Scripture says we must be an example.
He is not prepared to account to himself. There is nothing wrong with calling a person Mr Moloi
Thank you, he honestly feels he doesn't need to account for anything, he blames anything and anyone except himself, not leading by an example
Thank you for this comment.
Aw Shem wow, well said brother
I could never hold a decent conversation with this man. I'm shocked😮😮😮
I tried to hold it down hey 😅😅😅
Yhoo this guy is full… nothing more to say 😮
@@madams___speakeryou're the best 😭
Yoh😮 the arrogance! Yoh hhayi ngeke
Aah noh you tried sheem. Yirr 😢 Nna askies bt I feel for his Wife
So everyone has their match! Learned something very valuable today.
Who's matching who?
Both of you should work in the Parliament or debate space. I was waiting to see who will lay a hand first. So impressed to your professionalism. Big Up!!!!
Defensive, arrogant, he thought he will come there n intimidate you, no wonder his marriage lasted for 6 months no woman can stay with such a man
True .
He really thought he was going to intimidate me with the gaslighting 🤣🤣🤣
@@madams___speakerwhat is gaslighting... Are you also part of the community of self appointed psycho analysts who go and call every man a narcissist?
Lol...coz a failed marriage is always a man's fault...I get you.
@@Meandyouisnus okay
We are within 🙌
Moruti you are bully
For some reason i loved bishop😂in this interview he threw in some good points..loved this interview
Me too 😅
I agree he had some very good points
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I agree, he made a lot of sense , especially when you listen without emotions on his background , I wonder whose this pastor , 😂 I wish he could create his own podcast to align influencers .... I love the presenter though.
@@vinoliahmkhondo5437 love the presenter too…
Madam speaker my prayers are with you as from today. I just discovered you a minute ago. You so intelligent, i will be daily follow u.
The man is clearly saying i made mistakes i could have done better. I am more muture now i am no longer the same person but we are moving in circles because being a content creator is more important than finding out the reality at hand.
The “ I could have done better “ is you saying it on his behalf.
Powerful.... Very mature input 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Lol the interview could have actually been shorter, but it was the going around in circles and fighting the facts with assumptions and high emotions
Exactly
Exactly hle 👏👏
I am a born again Christian, I love God with all my heart. This "Bishop" really disappointed me, you don't win a "soul" that you think is lost by flashing a belt in their face 😢😢😢. His intentions were to belittle you, crush you and destroy you. These "men of god" need Jesus, NO!
You said it well you are Just a Christian. The man of God is teaching many of us something here listen
@@primrosenokuthula6595 you follow and say amen to the title?? Even if 1+1 is not giving 2... Even if ua "just a Christian with no title" test the spirit mtakabawo... No hard feelings
Content creator to content creator and you ate it. 🥳🥳. He has a lot of opinions about you and you can’t say your opinions about him🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️, njani??
Yhoo madam speaker you handled it very very well wow 😮
Thank you 🙏🏿
It is the very first time I see an interview that starts at level 100.🙆♀️🙆♀️
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I swear!!!
😂😂Di thomile le go tloga!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Incase he fainted mid way he wud hv vented already. Atleast
Jesus was once 22 ,as Christian strive to be Jesus like. All this thing of saying you didn't play is an excuse.
I’m 22mins in and enjoying this interview, I don’t know how the “conflict” started but I understand both parties…he is correct about the content stuff…and you are regarding accountability
But you're not factual....
This lady have anger against men
People must get it that self control is possible by the grace of God and it is possible. Preachers or rather Ministers of the word must practice purity at all times.
My first time here. I am impressed. Very beautiful interview. You are a good interviewer who does not allow emotions get in the way. Well done.
Bishop has mastered the art of diverting
He’s so good
Inja yeGame 💯
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So true. Exactly what I am thinking
hes so damn good
I love how you give him a chance to explain himself ❤❤
I’m giving him enough rope 🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
While explain a whole lot of nothing🙄
But he doesn't give her an opportunity to talk
She never did.
@madams___speaker you were exposing your bias in this interview. You had your questions and answers but never wanted to listen to him. A blanket approach doesn't work for everyone.
Big up to you madam speaker..you are truly in control of your emotions...but now the Pastor is taking time for him to get into the real issue he is here for😢
But as speaker, I am learning so much into how to be in control of reactions and also considering audience' s point of view😢❤
I don't think I could have handled this well but I respect you madam for staying calm, I could hear the pastor side he is human and allowed to make mistakes but when you in a position of leadership more is expected from you❤