A Prison Guard's Shocking Story. Every Man Has a Story

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  • @EmyBrowndogMom
    @EmyBrowndogMom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A great interview! This man has been through it all. Much respect!

  • @psbucs
    @psbucs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks for opening up about your experiences as a Prison Guard Peter. much appreciated, good luck to you.

  • @oncall21
    @oncall21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great interview Mark. Thanks for sharing!

  • @patsfanb6
    @patsfanb6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Iam retiring in August from massachusetts state police with 26 years in...with a hefty retirement plan. Thanks for all your vids. you made my mind up.....

    • @Imold774
      @Imold774 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most of the police/firefighters pensions in the US max out at 75% of your final salary. California is boss…. they max out at 90% percent after completion of 30 years with and average pension salary of 100k/ year. The cost of living increases for some retirees are incredibly generous also. Congrats on receiving your pension.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for watching. I hope we meet some day

    • @lisagordan9136
      @lisagordan9136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too going back home

    • @marcrichard7251
      @marcrichard7251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Imold774 Many police and firemen retire after 20 years….

    • @craigross341
      @craigross341 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Imold774 Of course it's unaffordable! The unfunded pension liabilities of western countries are greater than their debts. (I've got a teachers' pension, so I'm part of the issue!)

  • @loopydaloo7425
    @loopydaloo7425 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for another great video!! Hope he does decide to live in PI full-time. Lucky folk to have him as a neighbour - security trained and a guard dog!!

  • @retiredinbali9565
    @retiredinbali9565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another wonderful interview Mark.

  • @garycarlson6859
    @garycarlson6859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This guy should also be casted in a Hollywood Movie...good presence and authenticity...watchable...good delivery

  • @garycarlson6859
    @garycarlson6859 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of the Best Interviews I've ever seen and heard...good rhythm timing and information....very much appreciated

  • @ronnyvillanueva9404
    @ronnyvillanueva9404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing your prison guard story….

  • @maloupevans3914
    @maloupevans3914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been living in London for the last 36 years,although I was born in the Philippines but before I planned to go back home for good I built a house in cavite and purchased some condo unit to rent out. I lost my husband 14 years ago to a cancer but life goes on and travelled on my own or with group of friends. Last May I was home for 2 months after 3 years of absence due to covid . Yes I will be going home for good very soon.

  • @ronnienestor
    @ronnienestor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of your best vlogs. The tough Aussie guy has a very interesting story about his work.

  • @jjyolo7249
    @jjyolo7249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I worked corrections for 5 years in Indiana years ago. He was spot on. It changes you and even if you try not to you end up bringing it home to family. Your trust level goes way down with unfamiliar people. I wish him luck and hope he can decompress from years of hyper vigilance. Three more years as a police officer and I'll be looking to retire. Maybe the Philippines will be my future home as well. Cheers

    • @midlifewanderings
      @midlifewanderings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true. I am a wife of a former correction officer (thank God he got out of that job). It is a very subtle change so much so that it was my friend and church family who pointed it out to me. My gentle, kind husband has changed to one who's rude, temperamental and moody sometimes. He was a totally different man even to the way he dealt with our growing boys. The loving, doting dad has become a disciplinarian. Anyways, I am just glad he got out of that job.

  • @LukeyBoy78
    @LukeyBoy78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a champion.
    Great Aussie attitude.
    Everythings going to fine for you mate, it's your time for YOU now.

  • @brianmitchell4957
    @brianmitchell4957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great interview with Peter

  • @daisycaunan
    @daisycaunan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My husband was retired from prison also and we have been together for 14 years and counting - very happy

  • @pq3586
    @pq3586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very enjoyable listen on way to work laddy.☘🇮🇪☘🇮🇪

  • @sinjersable
    @sinjersable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Mark, this was a fascinating story with a straight-up Aussie bloke. A few stressful years as a Correctional Officer obviously took its toll on him but he's clearly weathered the storm. The Philippines will be good for him (and he will be good for the PH).

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Chris. I agree. Peter is a very nice guy.

  • @50619531953
    @50619531953 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great interview, no holding back here.from a PERTH guy. retired.

  • @johncee8084
    @johncee8084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Peter. Thank you for sharing your story with us viewers. I hope everything works out for you.
    Great interview Mark!
    I'm glad you'll be introducing him to your friends.

  • @TWCH
    @TWCH 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Peter is a good man, very likable. It will be nice to see him back in the Philippines when we will no doubt begin to see his $9000.00 Filipino smile a lot more:)

  • @stephenbordenave6893
    @stephenbordenave6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Hello Mark, I'm a new subscriber to your channel....jumped over from Paul and Baby Mae's channels I've also recently discovered. I'm a retired Naval Officer from New Orleans by way of Texas. At the end of 2015, I sold just about everything I had in the US...house, cars, packed up 4 large suitcases, and came to the Philippines on a leap of fate. I'd never been here in my life....Haven't looked back since. I guess I have a story too...come to think of it! haha. I've been married for six years now currently living in Iloilo. My wife and I also lived in Palawan for 2.5 years, and moved to Iloilo City in 2018 to expand our business ( which we closed due to the pandemic). It was mall based, and I was not going to pay them out my pocket during the closures and very slow recovery. From watching you, Paul, and Baby Mae, we are actually wanting to come and check Dumangete and Valencia out. I know your vlogs are great for guys that may be considering doing what we all did, but I find it very helpful even for a seasoned expat as myself. The human interest stories and personal experiences, such as the gentleman you interviewed here, are interesting and valuable. I'd like to know his dentist and location (seriously). His teeth looked great! Would like to keep in touch and hopefully meet all of you when we make it to the area. In the mean time, I'll be watching all of the team!

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi Stephen. Please look me up if you come to Dumaguete. I would love to meet you. Thanks for watching

    • @stephenbordenave6893
      @stephenbordenave6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@everymanhasastory Will do Mark, thanks!

    • @stephenbordenave6893
      @stephenbordenave6893 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@boyscout-p3u Thanks James! I did hear the gentleman mention the name, but I could not make it out clearly. Will follow-up.

  • @novak4594
    @novak4594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Interesting interview.

  • @graerindley6312
    @graerindley6312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    clearly this man was lost (unhappy) before he found joy in the freedom of the Pilippines. He does not smile, but he can smile from now on if he chooses to.

  • @piacash5216
    @piacash5216 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow Very interesting Thanks for Sharing 👍👍👍✌️👋🙌👌

  • @sarahtlibanan7294
    @sarahtlibanan7294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed listening Watching from Samar Philippines 💕✌️🎉

  • @Ana-yp5es
    @Ana-yp5es 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very interesting interview

  • @rolosnickers8562
    @rolosnickers8562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'll be retired from Corrections in Wisconsin USA in a few years and retire in the Philippines with my wife

  • @reidadams4277
    @reidadams4277 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I guess we average citizens never think about the toll on prison guards. We all have to make a living. Interesting interview.

  • @mirmir9806
    @mirmir9806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Fascinating interview. The bit about the dogs bringing a cage full of brawling inmates into a full standstill is impressive. THey have to be german sheppards. I cant imagine a parade of chihuahas commanding that kind of attention.🤣

  • @CVP83
    @CVP83 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good story. Hope he's able to break a smile eventually after all he's been through after a failed marriage and a stressful job. Being in PH he's halfway there.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Took him swimming after the interview. He smiled the rest of the day

  • @michaelmorris2623
    @michaelmorris2623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    G'day Mate 🤠

  • @peterthomas6486
    @peterthomas6486 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview Mark, I live near Brisbane where Pete lives, and serviced waste bins at a Prison, maybe where he worked, used to hear some horror stories from the guards. Flying up to Manila in November for the first time to meet a friend. Looking foward to meeting her and getting a feel for the place, she lives 2 hours outside the big smoke.

  • @cryptoburger2914
    @cryptoburger2914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of your best interviews, thus far!👍TFS!

  • @StephenOshea
    @StephenOshea 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    great video much appreciated . i hope you enjoy your time away from the work place and find a relaxing environment

  • @wayner1272
    @wayner1272 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Time to destress after those hard years!

  • @kwokweng76
    @kwokweng76 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i like your channel............interesting stories & things to learn from ur videos

  • @josephbanys8396
    @josephbanys8396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    great interview

  • @mbluetraining
    @mbluetraining 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A very honest interview!

  • @les8518
    @les8518 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was a Corrections Officer in New Zealand for 25 years. I have been retired for over 2o years now and still keep my back to the wall.
    The job does change you.

    • @mikelou2422
      @mikelou2422 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im currently a Corrections Officer in NZ , 23 years now and Im always vigilant too

  • @garyt7232
    @garyt7232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another great interview. Best wishes to Peter and his PI search. Best wishes to you and Jen.

  • @densem7447
    @densem7447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Check the Australian tax law about renting and living overseas over 183 days , re capital gains
    Not sure about state taxes of Tasmania as the Qld laws are dreadful

  • @xMister.Misterx
    @xMister.Misterx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “I became a prison guard-my passion’s always been animals.” The irony is strong with this one 🤣

    • @BradR1232
      @BradR1232 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s got that dog in him 😂

  • @Angelwinggsaustralianpinay
    @Angelwinggsaustralianpinay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeyy aussies ..wohh ..we are in Bacolod .. 🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @aryan6536
    @aryan6536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great guy, that sure is one tough job. Retire mate as soon as you can and move mate. You have a backup plan however I doubt you will need it.

  • @glendooer6211
    @glendooer6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Need to talk to an Aussie about migration?

  • @2tmacisback
    @2tmacisback 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That sounds interesting. Are there any female dentists there?

  • @59simonh
    @59simonh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Outstanding interview!
    One of your best😀

  • @Angelwinggsaustralianpinay
    @Angelwinggsaustralianpinay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Part of my plan moving to Philippines is to share my life to my fellow pinays so they can be better partners or wives to foreigners .. coz my heart beats so fast watching foreigners wanting to have another go in thier relationship to be happy ..
    Good luck Peter to your plans about philippines .. hope it turned out good for you later ..💖🇦🇺

    • @aryan6536
      @aryan6536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you want to move so that you can help locals be better wives (or husbands I guess) for foreigners? Wow you really care for the foreigners, how about you help foreigners to be better husbands ? LOL PS We sent (England) all the people in our joils to Oz so it cant be that great!

    • @criswilson6972
      @criswilson6972 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Going back home to the philippines too for retirement,,hope to meet an expat!!!

    • @Angelwinggsaustralianpinay
      @Angelwinggsaustralianpinay 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@criswilson6972 yes thats good , youll meet good expats there 👍

  • @vincentgray870
    @vincentgray870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good bloke. Like 'im.

  • @sandan778
    @sandan778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Really? wow did not know that what's happen to people who work in prison, you become suspicious of everyone because of the people you take care of.

  • @markt4297
    @markt4297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Mark, I guessed I missed the " Shocking Story"

    • @aryan6536
      @aryan6536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am shocked. I should expand, that he gets followed and threatened. Saftey of his family. Imagine going to work and they do that to your family. If your not shocked then you must be from the US of A ... Number one Prison INC in the world.

    • @Hook1229
      @Hook1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Rock Construction the homelessness problem in the U.S is getting unbearable.California and Philly and other parts of the U.S are nasty ,with drug junkies on the streets freely doing their supposed illegal stuffs😂

  • @Mrright1in7eyes
    @Mrright1in7eyes ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The atmosphere in a province life with beach and ocean will calm a mans storm. Better if you find a wife and build a family with simple living away from the world. Many places in philippines are paradise and peaceful with friendly neighbors that wont bother you, but there ready to help and hang out if you get bored. Philippines is a country you socialize with people or hide peacefully like a hermit somewhere in remote town, beaches or island. And towns have fiestas which is very fun and annually

  • @michaeldemarillac9992
    @michaeldemarillac9992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Australian's can move overseas for 6 years but after that you lose the right to benifits from capital gains tax relief on a house valued over $110,000. So the only option to release the capital gains into your pocket is to sell it before 6 years are up, while you are resident in Philippines. The rules are forever tightening on overseas based Australians. I think after 5 years you lose your Medicare coverage and have to commit to moving back to Australia permanently in order to get it back. Also veteran benifits cease after 6 weeks overseas depending on what category you are under. Not insurmountable problems. Build an Earthbag home in WA valued at $109,000, rent it out and you are sweet.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That doesn't seem fair

    • @LukeyBoy78
      @LukeyBoy78 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Only if you have set it up with capital gains rite? If he owns it and directing renting it, out of the eyes of the tax man, he's good to go.

    • @densem7447
      @densem7447 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I heard that There is a 183 day rule if u live overseas beyond this time where u loose your permanent residence and pay full capital gains if u sell it in the future
      Please check this
      See ATO residency the 183 day rule
      We have rules for everything

    • @densem7447
      @densem7447 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry Michael, check ato residency 183 day rule
      The world is getting smaller for Australia

  • @michaelbfree2run883
    @michaelbfree2run883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    point of contact of the Dentist? many thanks if provided

  • @craigsphilippines466
    @craigsphilippines466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish I could contact him and tell him my story, I was at a similar place when I first came to the Philippines, I am an aussie as well , I lived a big part of my life where he is from , I would love to let him know he has to come here , it will change his life forever as it did me , ther Philippines saved my life , my only regret was I didnt come here sooner

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you come to Dumaguete look me up
      markfthornton@yahoo.com

  • @jamesbowie6925
    @jamesbowie6925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice dude😊

  • @marierocher4422
    @marierocher4422 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very interesting interview. Australia is like the EU, Universal Healthcare. My plan is live like 8/9 months in the PH then 3 months in France for health follow ups and family visits. Quite expensive for major health problem in the PH.

    • @aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669
      @aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We Canadians have something similar in our govt run health care , ours is ussually paid thru Employer contributions on behalf of the employee, everyone and resident is issued a Health card ,regardless of income or ability to pay, one of the rules tho is one cannot be out of the Province/ Country for longer than 6 months ( quite generous , IMHO).

    • @wallykloubek4079
      @wallykloubek4079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669 ...I’m a BC resident, retired. I spend two to three months in the Philippines yearly and have used the BC medical plan twice in Iloilo. You have to pay out of pocket over there and BC reimburse you up to the BC limit when you submit your bills with a “ Out of country claims form” which you can find on the internet. As you said, BC medical is only covered for six months. If you’re out of Canada longer, you lose your medical coverage and you have to re apply for reinstatement which takes 90 days. By the way, hospitalization only covers you at $75 CDN per day which is about the cost of a single room at the hospital win Iloilo...this is the reason I don’t go to the USA where a bandaid costs more than that in their hospitals and due to pre existing conditions, travel insurance is crazy expensive...going to the Philippines, I don’t bother with insurance and solely rely on my BC medical plan. Looking forward to my next visit....cheers🍷🇨🇦

    • @wallykloubek4079
      @wallykloubek4079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      By the way, I’d like to add that BC medical covers you anywhere but all receipts have to be in English which thankfully is the case in the Philippines. Any other language you would have to hire a official to rewrite the information into English and that can get expensive...cheers 🍷🇨🇦

    • @aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669
      @aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wallykloubek4079 I'm looking to retire back to my native Philippines 🇵🇭, but will probably be a permanent affair , I do not have any health issues and feel winters are too long in Ontario, I do have 2 grown sons who live in BC, I think my pension and property sale of a house should be able to support a Province Rural country mini farm style of life, Dumaguete ,Iloilo or Laguna and Batangas are options.
      Edit; all 9 of my siblings live in California, most work in the Health care industry ,we were considered Poor to Middle Class growing up near Manila, but none of them want to go back and live back in the Philippines.

    • @steadylearner1
      @steadylearner1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Makati Medical Hospital in Metro Manilal is world class. And relatively inexpensive.

  • @craigross341
    @craigross341 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why the hell would a man with a heart issue want that stress?!!

  • @perryhenrickson7750
    @perryhenrickson7750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Mark. Just subscribed. Your visitor on this vlog deserves to start a new chapter in his life. Help him do just that if he decides to stay in the Philippines.

  • @Gospel-of-Geoff
    @Gospel-of-Geoff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    good interview .. AGAIN !!?
    what a miserable person one must be to hate this man.

    • @aryan6536
      @aryan6536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why hate him, he is doing a service for the people. I mean who the hell would want to be followed by criminals!

    • @Gospel-of-Geoff
      @Gospel-of-Geoff 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aryan6536 its mark they hate on

    • @aryan6536
      @aryan6536 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gospel-of-Geoff OIC now the comment about epstein island makes sense.

  • @daddybob6096
    @daddybob6096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can see by Peter's body language the effect that job has had on him. No criticism of Peter intended, but noticeably he has forgotten how to smile, having worked amongst the dregs of society, although i hasten to add, i guess not all inmates would be like that.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We went for a swim after the interview and he couldn't stop smiling 😊

    • @MakaiIELTS
      @MakaiIELTS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@everymanhasastory Mark please have a video also of you and other expats enjoying and swimming there in duma.

  • @johnfranks9817
    @johnfranks9817 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need dental work done as well. Can we get that dentists name and number?

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't have it. But there are loads of dentists here all very inexpensive

  • @ChromeLuxx
    @ChromeLuxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice floor!

  • @allencoffland1685
    @allencoffland1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    interesting that he chose to become a prison guard even after already quitting his business due to stress.

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He only did it five years

  • @aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669
    @aurelio-reymilaorcabal9669 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wonder if our Aussie Correctional friend can get a 🦮Rescue & Guard🐕‍🦺 Dog Bznz started as a foreigner /Investor , as he likes animals and has the experience.