Im 67 years old and have been around horses all of my life. When i saw you stand behind him, I really feared for your life! I have been kicked, bitten, thrown off, broken my arm, stepped on and pushed down! After being kicked in the knee, I respect those hindquarters! It only takes a second for a horse to react! No matter how well you know them and considering he has issues already, I would be more aware where you stand. I am not trying to put you down, I am saying I also had high confidence around horses, but I also learned from my mistakes! PLEASE be carefull!!!
You grew together, mistakes happened , same with babies, men, life, you took a chance, you both needed one another, everything is a chance or an adventure, depends how you look at things 😮
I’ve known horses who wouldn’t be so calm when someone was behind them! He did look at you occasionally to check what you were doing, but he trusts you completely!
I cried while reading this 😢 reminds me of my 17 hand grey Arab Reese, it took me years to gain his trust, he was dangerous and a trench digger if i put him in a small stall, hours and hours to get him trailerd just to go 10 miles away 😔 he was definitely abused before i had him. The Lady who gave him to me had a very very abusive trainer and said that Reese had been green broke, this couldn't have been farther from the truth, what they actually did was reverse halter breaking, well maybe more on the broken side of that phrase. I thought i had made a huge mistake taking on such a crazy horse. I started with just sitting in the middle of the arena for hours and just allowing him to approach me without any pressure at all. Since he was so nervous about himans i figured this was where i needed to start. The funny thing is, i sat out there for hours and he never approached me, but when i went inside the house and looking out the kitchen window i see my 8 year old daughter getting his trust first ❤ you really can't stop a natural horse girl, they will connect with that horse!
Awww thank you so much for sharing! I love that story! Horses truly are amazing and all it takes is the right, patient soul to be able to unlock their true potential! 🥰 such an amazing story, thank you!
Glad that you kept him. My dad had a horse, Hard Rock to Handle. He had won the AQHA World Conference Championship as a Yerling. Boy did he live up to his name. As a stud, no one could go into his stables with him but my dad and my cousin, who had been his handler and showman. He would charge at you with teeth bared trying to bite. Finally, my dad had him gelded due to his constant foundering. Afterwards, all of my kids were able to ride him , put him in parades, etc.. He became the most gentle baby sitter for my little girls and my nieces.
Ruddy doesn't appear to be thrilled with the "girly braiding session", twice he's moved sideways in effect saying, "okay already, quit fiddling with my tail". He's being very patient with you.
Wow! I just joined your channel and have watched a few of your videos and I can't believe how far you came with Rudnik. Absolutely Amazing! Rudnik is so lucky to have you in his life! I've not been around horses much but I've always adopted my dogs and cats. I've had 1 dog that was that way for me. I was at the end of my rope, at the front door ready to take Asha back to the pound. When i reached for the door knob I looked down at her, made eye contact and i couldn't do it. I sat right down on the floor and we literally had a talk. I explained to her that i couldn't have her destroying my house and if it continued I would have to take her back. A miracle happened! From that moment on she became a perfect dog! The bond that comes from an experience like that is very special. Enjoy it, You both are lucky to have each other!
A few years back a friend decided to get a mustang from the auctions. She was a high spirited 1 year old. We were also in the round pen lunging. Suddenly my friend saw me fly over the fence as her filly decided to spin around and kick so hard she took the panels out right where we had both been standing. I don’t know what scared my friend most, the horse kicking out or my lightening fast reactions. My friend asked me how I knew the horse was going to do what she did. I just had a sense of the change in her energy and then the power building up in her hind quarters. I believe that Rudnik realized that your responses to him during these naughty moments meant he could trust you no matter what. He knows you as his leader and that you will keep him safe and so he has built up this bond of trust with you. When you are at one with a horse, then you will anticipate and react just the way they do. If you keep that in mind it may just save you from serious injury when they have these so called wild moments. He is still very young so don’t allow your love of him to cause complacency when working around him. It’s okay to have all the loving moments that you can both express between each other but continue to treat him like he is a crazy wakadoo 6 month old colt. He is still beautiful though and worth the hard work you put into him.
Never owned a horse and have only been riding probably 20 times in my life and in that short riding career one tried to snuff me by galloping at full speed through an apple orchard and scrape me off on a low branch, luckily I was able to get my feet out of the stirrups and jump. Come to find out she wasn't fully broken/trained, I chose her because her name was "Kisses" and figured she had to be sweet, What a bunch of horse shit that was, no pun intended. I still can see her running incredibly fast down the dirt road after I jumped, stirrups flying erratically back and forth from the saddle to her sides, and the dust rising up as she got smaller and smaller on the horizon, never slowing down.
Definitely not a good idea but if they’re trained to know how to behave, and in this instance he knows I’m braiding his tail and won’t react. But many people will stand being their horses to do tail braids etc with no issue.
@@MaryR7256- Horse’s are inherently dangerous. They can pretty much kick 360 degrees - consider they scratch their ears with back feet much like a dog. Big risk of being behind a horse is startling them. They also so their most powerful kicks straight back where they can kick both feet at the same time. For this reason they’ll point back end toward a threat or if they’re planning to kick you. Basically let them know you are there and don’t let them swing their butt toward you - otherwise you’ll probably be safe. All that said, I always approach from front or forward half of side. Going around back I sometimes loop way out but usually put my hand on their back a inches from trear as I walk around. Just like punching, they need a little distance to get power into a kick.
I'm in that place now. My confidence has been knocked so low with my green ttb that I'm doing a lot of things with a fence between us because I feel calmer which I hope transfers to him. But like you, I will persevere and enjoy just being in his company.
Yes! Don’t give up! They see our persistence and learn from it. They just need to see that someone isn’t going to give up on them like everyone else did You’ll get there!! Good luck to you both! 🥰
I remember the day I had a breakthrough with my mare. Or at least with the way I worked with her. It was after watching a video about calming a stallion. Stallion Behavior - Redirected Behaviour / Self Mutilation / Aggression in horses by LoSoFoEquineBehavior. I realized that day, I did not have to escalate. At all. I didn't even need to sooth her (special case). All I needed to do was be there and support her while she worked through her mental knots. I learned how to prevent her from halterbreaking by just giving her more room. She learned how to stand calmly tied while I groomed her. Just grooming, no expectations. I would do that when she paced for hours or weaved for hours. That video saved her and me.
You should all follow Steve Young Horsemanship. He learnt from the best, an American. The original 'Horse Whisperer!!! Never do more than the basics at first, which is teaching them to choose, where to put their feet. Without that control, such a dangerous situation 🤔
After watching this video flick that is the right mom for the right horse. And yeah, I’ve been bit and stepped on a time or two. And kicked. My fault every time. Horses are so much smarter than you think and will out smart most people. They lure you in with cuteness for you to bring them apples and carrots. And then the ear scratches begin and brushing and then you are hooked forever more than any drug. When that happens they know they own you. I reckon that’s a pretty good deal for me too.
She knows her horse, what will and won’t spook him. He trusts her. She wouldn’t do it if it were dangerous. It’s likely he wouldn’t allow a stranger to mess with his tail.
May seem silly but try leaving the gate open about a foot so he can see that he’s not closed in entirely,It does work as some animals need to know that they can escape.
That’s so interesting- could you share when the ‘break through’ point was that he stopped being so scared and defensive?? Love your channel and your relationship with Rudnik ❤️🙏👏
I don’t there there really was a ’breaking point’, which is one of the reasons I’d get so discouraged. It was a very slow process over a few years and as his trust slowly built he very slowly began to come out of his shell. I’m doing a series that shows our progress over the years but yeah to be honest, we never really had an ‘ah ha!’ moment. He really made me work for that trust 🥲😂
Definitely! It was almost as if he could only take so much before he would snap. As someone who’s dealt with anxiety most of my life, I definitely understood how he felt
My 2yr old colt would rear to challenge for a day or two when I first got him.....I tied a plastic bag to the end of a stick....I walked in the paddock with it hidden behind my back...he went up and instantaneously got a tap on the head between the ears with my scary bag and stick...he never went up again Horses are simple creatures
Some horses are like that. My trainer worked with a similar horse and he reared up at her. SHe turned the lunge whip around and bonked him square in the noggin with the butt end. Not hard at all. Absolutely confused him and he stood there for a whole minute and thought about that. SHowed he was a well trained horse after! And yet, if I did that to one of my horses, he wouldn't take it as kindly. Thankfully he doesn't do that. Or my mare, with no whip on the lunge, can "randomly" explode and flee. What I learned with her is if she doesn't pull away, stop her and praise her. Thinking I would be reinforcing bad behavior? No. Turns out it's a severe PTSD reaction, even with her almost 10 years of trust in me. And she always did the same with and without me holding a whip. Since stopping and praising her bolts have majorly diminished, and now she even plays on the lunge. Though, it still happens. Horses are so unique.
Natural horsemanship.... And...flower essences. You Will certainly find one in your area who can help you. It will work wonders....and mostly the owner gets a personal blend as well. You Will be amazed. I use it for my clients. Success all the time. Animsls included❤.
There's no such thing as natural horsemanship just a fancy word to scam people out of money training a horse means that you're training it to do something it's unnaturally willing to do
For Rudnik and his mom, if you still need answers to what Rudnik is thinking, you may think I’m weird and that’s fine, I’m cool with that! I encourage you to seek help, advice, answers from a lady named Karen A. Anderson, she has a website and you’ll find her on TH-cam, and has written books, the one I bought I’ve not read fully yet but her backstory is extremely interesting. The book, Hear All Creatures!: The Journey of an Animal Communicator If for no other reason than for you to know what Rudnik wants, needs, and he’ll hears you, I think he does. Angel Blessings to you all 🥰🥰
God doesn't make Mistakes: You were meant for each other--Love, Patience and Mercy made a Bootiful Relationship where you Both Learned from the other♥️😇💯‼️ You both have much to be Grateful and This Love has been shared around the World: We've Learned♥️💯‼️😇😁🌝 deb in RudniksLoveTravels, SC🐴 07/02/2024🐎🏇🌻
I’m not sure the actual name - it’s a commercial sound that TH-cam won’t flag but on the editing app I use it’s called “Little White” by SWM. I hope that helps!
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Im 67 years old and have been around horses all of my life. When i saw you stand behind him, I really feared for your life! I have been kicked, bitten, thrown off, broken my arm, stepped on and pushed down! After being kicked in the knee, I respect those hindquarters! It only takes a second for a horse to react! No matter how well you know them and considering he has issues already, I would be more aware where you stand. I am not trying to put you down, I am saying I also had high confidence around horses, but I also learned from my mistakes! PLEASE be carefull!!!
Agreed! Around horses all my life n U best know one quite well B 4 U put yourself in vulnerable position!
You grew together, mistakes happened , same with babies, men, life, you took a chance, you both needed one another, everything is a chance or an adventure, depends how you look at things 😮
@@starsofandromeda7219 Reminds me of the time a guy gave me two "acres"- kicked me right in the nuts!
HE IS BEAUTIFUL!!! I have never seen a horse of this color - slate grey, charcoal smooth as satin!!! Incredible
I'm so glad you kept trying to break through his aggression. Poor guy was just afraid and then realized he didn't have to be😊
I’ve known horses who wouldn’t be so calm when someone was behind them! He did look at you occasionally to check what you were doing, but he trusts you completely!
It's amazing how far the two of you have come.❤
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I cried while reading this 😢 reminds me of my 17 hand grey Arab Reese, it took me years to gain his trust, he was dangerous and a trench digger if i put him in a small stall, hours and hours to get him trailerd just to go 10 miles away 😔 he was definitely abused before i had him. The Lady who gave him to me had a very very abusive trainer and said that Reese had been green broke, this couldn't have been farther from the truth, what they actually did was reverse halter breaking, well maybe more on the broken side of that phrase. I thought i had made a huge mistake taking on such a crazy horse. I started with just sitting in the middle of the arena for hours and just allowing him to approach me without any pressure at all. Since he was so nervous about himans i figured this was where i needed to start. The funny thing is, i sat out there for hours and he never approached me, but when i went inside the house and looking out the kitchen window i see my 8 year old daughter getting his trust first ❤ you really can't stop a natural horse girl, they will connect with that horse!
Awww thank you so much for sharing! I love that story! Horses truly are amazing and all it takes is the right, patient soul to be able to unlock their true potential! 🥰 such an amazing story, thank you!
Absolutely gorgeous horse this is the first time watching your video, beautiful horse
Glad that you kept him. My dad had a horse, Hard Rock to Handle. He had won the AQHA World Conference Championship as a Yerling. Boy did he live up to his name. As a stud, no one could go into his stables with him but my dad and my cousin, who had been his handler and showman. He would charge at you with teeth bared trying to bite. Finally, my dad had him gelded due to his constant foundering. Afterwards, all of my kids were able to ride him , put him in parades, etc.. He became the most gentle baby sitter for my little girls and my nieces.
Ruddy doesn't appear to be thrilled with the "girly braiding session", twice he's moved sideways in effect saying, "okay already, quit fiddling with my tail". He's being very patient with you.
Wow! I just joined your channel and have watched a few of your videos and I can't believe how far you came with Rudnik. Absolutely Amazing! Rudnik is so lucky to have you in his life! I've not been around horses much but I've always adopted my dogs and cats. I've had 1 dog that was that way for me. I was at the end of my rope, at the front door ready to take Asha back to the pound. When i reached for the door knob I looked down at her, made eye contact and i couldn't do it. I sat right down on the floor and we literally had a talk. I explained to her that i couldn't have her destroying my house and if it continued I would have to take her back. A miracle happened! From that moment on she became a perfect dog!
The bond that comes from an experience like that is very special. Enjoy it, You both are lucky to have each other!
What a sweet story. I feel the ones really worth fighting for will really make you work to earn their trust too! Thank you so much for sharing! 🥰
A few years back a friend decided to get a mustang from the auctions. She was a high spirited 1 year old. We were also in the round pen lunging. Suddenly my friend saw me fly over the fence as her filly decided to spin around and kick so hard she took the panels out right where we had both been standing. I don’t know what scared my friend most, the horse kicking out or my lightening fast reactions. My friend asked me how I knew the horse was going to do what she did. I just had a sense of the change in her energy and then the power building up in her hind quarters. I believe that Rudnik realized that your responses to him during these naughty moments meant he could trust you no matter what. He knows you as his leader and that you will keep him safe and so he has built up this bond of trust with you. When you are at one with a horse, then you will anticipate and react just the way they do. If you keep that in mind it may just save you from serious injury when they have these so called wild moments. He is still very young so don’t allow your love of him to cause complacency when working around him. It’s okay to have all the loving moments that you can both express between each other but continue to treat him like he is a crazy wakadoo 6 month old colt. He is still beautiful though and worth the hard work you put into him.
Great video beautiful horse 🐴
Best wishes for your continuing success with Rudnik. Thank you for sharing your story. 😊
Never owned a horse and have only been riding probably 20 times in my life and in that short riding career one tried to snuff me by galloping at full speed through an apple orchard and scrape me off on a low branch, luckily I was able to get my feet out of the stirrups and jump. Come to find out she wasn't fully broken/trained, I chose her because her name was "Kisses" and figured she had to be sweet, What a bunch of horse shit that was, no pun intended. I still can see her running incredibly fast down the dirt road after I jumped, stirrups flying erratically back and forth from the saddle to her sides, and the dust rising up as she got smaller and smaller on the horizon, never slowing down.
They failed to tell you "Kisses" was just the first name The last name is "Of Death".
I'd love to hear about when that moment came, when he realised he did not need to be afraid.
Thanks to your patience, kindness and compassion, Rudnik was able to get rid if his fears and trust you.
I would never stand behind a horse 😳
Definitely not a good idea but if they’re trained to know how to behave, and in this instance he knows I’m braiding his tail and won’t react. But many people will stand being their horses to do tail braids etc with no issue.
@@rudniktheroan Ok! I have never had a horse so I don't know anything about them! Just seems dangerous 😳
@maryr7256 For those unfamiliar with horses ,it's better that you continue to avoid standing behind them.This woman knows what she's doing.
@@MaryR7256- Horse’s are inherently dangerous. They can pretty much kick 360 degrees - consider they scratch their ears with back feet much like a dog. Big risk of being behind a horse is startling them. They also so their most powerful kicks straight back where they can kick both feet at the same time. For this reason they’ll point back end toward a threat or if they’re planning to kick you. Basically let them know you are there and don’t let them swing their butt toward you - otherwise you’ll probably be safe.
All that said, I always approach from front or forward half of side. Going around back I sometimes loop way out but usually put my hand on their back a inches from trear as I walk around. Just like punching, they need a little distance to get power into a kick.
@@finngamesknudson1457 I have heard of stories where people have been kicked and killed by horses so that is why I am afraid of them 😳
What a gorgeous boy❤❤❤❤
She is very brave. The horse can't be that aggressive. If she can stand behind it like that
The story being told happened 4 1/2 years ago - he’s come along way since then
I'm in that place now. My confidence has been knocked so low with my green ttb that I'm doing a lot of things with a fence between us because I feel calmer which I hope transfers to him. But like you, I will persevere and enjoy just being in his company.
Yes! Don’t give up! They see our persistence and learn from it. They just need to see that someone isn’t going to give up on them like everyone else did You’ll get there!! Good luck to you both! 🥰
I’d also love to hear how you make out to please keep me updated if you like! Sending you both love ♥️
Beautiful horse!
I remember the day I had a breakthrough with my mare. Or at least with the way I worked with her. It was after watching a video about calming a stallion. Stallion Behavior - Redirected Behaviour / Self Mutilation / Aggression in horses by LoSoFoEquineBehavior.
I realized that day, I did not have to escalate. At all. I didn't even need to sooth her (special case). All I needed to do was be there and support her while she worked through her mental knots. I learned how to prevent her from halterbreaking by just giving her more room. She learned how to stand calmly tied while I groomed her. Just grooming, no expectations. I would do that when she paced for hours or weaved for hours.
That video saved her and me.
Always ; Patience, Time, and Vision., sweetheart
Thank you for sharing your Rudnik stories❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for watching! 🥰
You should all follow Steve Young Horsemanship. He learnt from the best, an American. The original 'Horse Whisperer!!!
Never do more than the basics at first, which is teaching them to choose, where to put their feet. Without that control, such a dangerous situation 🤔
I follow Steve Young too. And Ryan Rose.
"Born to Be Free" ❤️🇺🇸❤️
Just keep loving him and working with him, but I don't need to tell you that.
After watching this video flick that is the right mom for the right horse. And yeah, I’ve been bit and stepped on a time or two. And kicked. My fault every time. Horses are so much smarter than you think and will out smart most people. They lure you in with cuteness for you to bring them apples and carrots. And then the ear scratches begin and brushing and then you are hooked forever more than any drug. When that happens they know they own you. I reckon that’s a pretty good deal for me too.
he's stubborn and didn't know what he needed . a purpose
She knows her horse, what will and won’t spook him. He trusts her. She wouldn’t do it if it were dangerous. It’s likely he wouldn’t allow a stranger to mess with his tail.
May seem silly but try leaving the gate open about a foot so he can see that he’s not closed in entirely,It does work as some animals need to know that they can escape.
That’s so interesting- could you share when the ‘break through’ point was that he stopped being so scared and defensive??
Love your channel and your relationship with Rudnik ❤️🙏👏
I don’t there there really was a ’breaking point’, which is one of the reasons I’d get so discouraged. It was a very slow process over a few years and as his trust slowly built he very slowly began to come out of his shell. I’m doing a series that shows our progress over the years but yeah to be honest, we never really had an ‘ah ha!’ moment. He really made me work for that trust 🥲😂
And thank you!!🥰
@@rudniktheroan💙🤗🐎🖖🏼🫡🌅
Love the tail braid! It sounds like he was getting into a real panic attack when he would strike out.
Definitely! It was almost as if he could only take so much before he would snap. As someone who’s dealt with anxiety most of my life, I definitely understood how he felt
He didn’t want that tail bothered
Trust me if he didn’t want it he would have let me know. He really didn’t care that much
My 2yr old colt would rear to challenge for a day or two when I first got him.....I tied a plastic bag to the end of a stick....I walked in the paddock with it hidden behind my back...he went up and instantaneously got a tap on the head between the ears with my scary bag and stick...he never went up again
Horses are simple creatures
Some horses are like that. My trainer worked with a similar horse and he reared up at her. SHe turned the lunge whip around and bonked him square in the noggin with the butt end. Not hard at all. Absolutely confused him and he stood there for a whole minute and thought about that. SHowed he was a well trained horse after!
And yet, if I did that to one of my horses, he wouldn't take it as kindly. Thankfully he doesn't do that. Or my mare, with no whip on the lunge, can "randomly" explode and flee. What I learned with her is if she doesn't pull away, stop her and praise her. Thinking I would be reinforcing bad behavior? No. Turns out it's a severe PTSD reaction, even with her almost 10 years of trust in me. And she always did the same with and without me holding a whip. Since stopping and praising her bolts have majorly diminished, and now she even plays on the lunge. Though, it still happens.
Horses are so unique.
Horse people are different sort of people.
I mean you’re not wrong
Good boi
Natural horsemanship....
And...flower essences.
You Will certainly find one in your area who can help you.
It will work wonders....and mostly the owner gets a personal blend as well.
You Will be amazed.
I use it for my clients. Success all the time. Animsls included❤.
There's no such thing as natural horsemanship just a fancy word to scam people out of money training a horse means that you're training it to do something it's unnaturally willing to do
Rudnik needed you. Only you.
Would really like to hear how the breakthrough finally 😢😢came about.
I’ll have to make a video about it! There wasn’t really a specific moment it happened but more so a gradual ‘breakthrough’ that happened over time.
For Rudnik and his mom, if you still need answers to what Rudnik is thinking, you may think I’m weird and that’s fine, I’m cool with that! I encourage you to seek help, advice, answers from a lady named Karen A. Anderson, she has a website and you’ll find her on TH-cam, and has written books, the one I bought I’ve not read fully yet but her backstory is extremely interesting. The book, Hear All Creatures!: The Journey of an Animal Communicator
If for no other reason than for you to know what Rudnik wants, needs, and he’ll hears you, I think he does.
Angel Blessings to you all 🥰🥰
Whoah.. please don’t stand behind unfamiliar horses or for that matter ANY horses! They can be spooked by anything
This is good advice however Rudnik is not unfamiliar to me and very well trained at this point
@@rudniktheroanhow else a gonna braid his tail, right?
Where do you live? I mean the country in the background looks western.
Western Canada!
God doesn't make Mistakes: You were meant for each other--Love, Patience and Mercy made a Bootiful Relationship where you Both Learned from the other♥️😇💯‼️ You both have much to be Grateful and This Love has been shared around the World: We've Learned♥️💯‼️😇😁🌝 deb in RudniksLoveTravels, SC🐴 07/02/2024🐎🏇🌻
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If that is diatomaceous earth you put on him you both should not breathe it in. It was very windy I see not good to do on a windy day.
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Just fly spray 🙂
is the tail braiding for him or looks?
It keeps his tail from getting matted and looks nice. Also help to have an extra snap when he’s whipping away flies s
@@rudniktheroan thanks now i know. i wonder is standing behind him taking a chance he might buck without malice.
Just my opinion: I don't think he likes his tail messed with like that. He keeps looking around at you.
Trust me if he didn’t like it he’d be doing a lot more than just looking at me😂
@@rudniktheroanyep😊
@lynnclark4208 His tail is not being messed with. Or did you simply wish to be rude? Hopefully not ;)
Horses look around when they are trying to see stuff, like what you are doing.
@@Abi-Grey8the horse is actually giving clear signals hes not comfortable with what is going on
I'm not a fan of standing behind a horse or braiding their tails, either.
It depends on the horse and how well you know them. But I definitely don’t advise people to do it
Name of music!!!
I’m not sure the actual name - it’s a commercial sound that TH-cam won’t flag but on the editing app I use it’s called “Little White” by SWM. I hope that helps!
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