How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People
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One of my favorite teachings I obviously needed to hear again during this very special month of compassion, Elul.
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I did listen all... after... and realize that in my, before, post I represented myself as victim. No more. Tnx a lot Rabbi.
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Absolutely god always works any disappointment out for the greater good..
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@@mariebarrett7177 Yes, everything, whether we perceive it as beneficial and not, is from G-d and it all is good.
Greater good? For His purposes. Not ours. Greater good implies we benefit communally, globally. That's not His goal. G-d has a plan, unknown to us.
@@Y1836Y everything and everyone is connected for god's greater good and for his purpose
@@mariebarrett7177 Thanks for responding. The term 'greater good' has been said as part of woke, liberal, socialist, ideology more than G-dly Torah teachings. We deder to Torah. No extra words put in. Hashem was very specific with His word choice in Torah. Not one extra word. Nothing though about the greater good. Lots of other phenomenal ideas, relevant today as then. .
@@Y1836Y has it? Been used in woke culture, oh right.. I do apologise.. my mistake.. I mean "works everything for good" and yes I just checked the scripture haha Romans 8 28
@@Y1836Y you learn something new every day... I've always said greater good I really thought that's what it said, I appreciate you putting me right.. need to work on scripture I think, bit more reading.
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This is such a wonderful way to explain a concept! It shows us the “free will” which God gave us. Thank you Rabbi Friedman!
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The moust hurtful is that when you do something you need friend...and all project go ...and when you are hurt you need time to forget and to see people on positive way
Very moving. My problem: if I exempt the person who hurt me because he isn't responsible for the end result, it increases my anger towards the one who is responsible....
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I got hurt enough, I hope the New Era will be Great For US!!! I feel bitter for years, that is enough for me. I hope I deserve peace; ;back, front, left & right in the New Era.
Sorry to.hear that. Pain without a reason is upsetting. Almost intolerable. There were reasons. G-d had them. What they were you might not find out or figure out.
Why can't write God? @@Y1836Y
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In pure logic, you could say that God allows child abuse, but children just don’t have the faculties to process this philosophy to the point of choosing not to feel hurt or victimized by beatings. The parents certainly are culpable for their actions and choices. It certainly helps to admit the wrong and ask the children for forgiveness at some point!
Yes there are "bad" parents. Why God would allow helpless children to be abused is one of the most challenging ideas to face. I struggle with it. I had terrible parents yet there are parents worse than mine. No easy answer I suppose. I am not a perfect parent myself but I don't want my children to suffer at my hands so I think about my actions.
Your opinion is understandable. We can't have "free will" though "until" --- it's uncomfortable. There would be no pain, etc, nothing to fix. This is the lowest of worlds G-d sent us all to, for a reason.
What G-d praised be He gives each victim is strength to survive, to be survivors instead of merely victims. Unreconcilable for our limited brains and minds is that there were reasons. Yes, it sounds horrible. It is. That realization, shock, horror and intolerance of evil, is from G-d. We didn't invent it. We don't have more of it than the Creator.
Part of our perfecting this world is redeeming or eliminating evil like abuse, torture. Unfortunately we have to know where and what it is to do that. With G-d's help we will eradicate all of it. For Him, Who cries with us, comforts us, and wills us to do what He needs.
@@ThePinkPantha21May God make it easy on you...
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I wish I could become a Rabbi. But is it too late? I am 72 years old, and I am not Jewish. I like listening to Rabbi Friedman.
What about a judge that puts someone away for a crime they didn’t commit?
“You’re a murderer, you just can’t shoot straight.” 😂 Indeed.
so, someone does me wrong, God just had someone do his job not to wrong me but to teach me something? That’s cool. Everything is for our benefit then. Still painful. Will you still remain in a relationship who has just not shown he is an honest sincere friend?
Isaiah 53 a man of sorrows > when thou makes his soul an offering for SIN
How long did it take you to build this emotional strength?
@@Babylon2060 A lifetime? We can all have emotional strength when we know that G-d is in control. Nothing is within ours. He does His job, we do ours. We simply have to do His will.
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Please explain , about those Israeli captives who were killled/died in the underground tunnels of Gaza, was this all for the best for them?
You sound upset and horrified by the things that happened in and out of the tunnels. Understandable as most people are who learn the details.
Who said 'all for the best for them'? Not in this or any other Chabad Chassidic teaching Ive heard or read. Sounds like a non Jewish idea I've heard.
The teaching is that G-d, not people, decides who lives and dies and when. Those that were involved in the particular details, including any horrors inflicted prior to or after death, have to account to G-d for their involvement, G-d forbid. It's a serious situation.
I know you want an answer from Rabbi Friedmen, not me... but I want to put my two cents in anyway.
Hashem is good and only does good. With our finite minds and limited awareness, we can't understand how it's good that 6 beloved kedoshim were cruely kidnapped, tortured and murdered. And yet, we know that, from a higher spiritual perspective, it is good and that it is G-d, the Master orchestrator of all of His creation. Ultimately, He is the only existence and power within that existence. Hamas has no power and no perminant existence. So we bow our heads in humility, not knowing anything of the big picture, only knowing Hashem is good and only does good. Yes, those 6 beautiful souls came to this world and left in exactly the right time and the right way - for them, for us, and for Hashem. Yes, it was good for them, though we do not understand how or why. Yes, our enemies will pay for their crimes. Yes we must live the paradox of complex reality, knowing what is evil and must be destroyed, and knowing that Hashem is One, and all is good. Inside the center of that paradox we can meet Hashem.
Thank you for your wise advice. How about the man that intends to do evil but instead does good?
You answered your own question
Interesting question. We have to.repent for the intent. Without doing it, which involves returning to the us who doesn't think to intend evil, that evil us still part of us. Repenting, teshuva for Jews, means return, to G-d and our G-dly selves, resolving not to again. Being fallible, we may intend, or carry out, sin or evil. More return, with a stronger resolve "not to". .
@@Y1836Y That makes so much sense thank you for your wisdom.Also I think there is something special about the fact that maybe this person who intended evil but did good hopefully will do good again.
@@danielfeldman4291 let's see what Rabbi thinks especially Rabbi Tovia Singer
@@j.lsantos9106 I understand.
My coworker is always trying to hurt me
Genesis 50:20
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How do you escape the anger towards Exes though? I can't keep a girl because a lot of them say I'm not getting a better job fast enough, or I'm not tall enough etc.... so Hashem degreed that I lose them, but they CHOSE to leave. My ex fiance chose to leave me a month before my wedding. Her parents chose to hate me bc I wasn't getting a better job fast enough.
If your fiance was to be your wife you'd be married. There are no mistakes in that. You sound angry. Angry with yourself, others, maybe even with G-d. understandable. You want and it hasn't happened. Who's to blame? Noone.
We end up marrying when we like the idea of marriage on its iwn merit. Not for love Not for security. Or we're lonely. We are whole. Bored with thinking of only ourselves. Want to focus on soneone else's needs, not ours that we have figured out are unimportant. We find the one person who we can't think of being without. When we start thinking of others others see us as giving, needed rather than taking and needy.
May you find your wife and devote yourself to her happiness for decades to come.
@Y1836Y thanks for your input. I sincerely hope you're living a happy life. It's comforting to know that if I can't be with the love of my life, that others have it. It's very existence is a beautiful thing whether I possess it or not.
Once I had a vision that I would raise a family in the way my mom and dad raised me. With values like communication, yiddishkeit, and warmth. I offered loyalty and hard work. I did my best to make the people I had the gift of spending time with valued and their voices heard.
But now I'm almost 40. The dream of children is dying, and my mom and dad are already accepting the fact that they may not have grandchildren.
I do have needs, but I don't ask for much. Is it too much to ask to connect with someone who doesn't care how tall I am? Or how rich? Or whether I'm vaccinated or not? Or that I don't have the intelligence to be a programmer? Or that I want to fall in love and not just have sex and fall in love later? Or that I'm too Jewish? Or that I'm not Jewish enough?
Here are MY requirements. Here's what I need from them:
- the ability to receive love
- the ability to give love
-a kosher home
-children (would be nice)
@@glennroback9102You sound like a wonderful man! Perhaps your Beshert is being born (through conversion) right now. ❤
@DrD2You thanks so much! You seem to have a lot going for you. I wish you luck with your school! I hope your degrees are serving you well.
Question: When the "story" is about a parent and their child.... who is the story about? The parent or the child????
If the reader is a parent, then the story will absolutely be about the parent. If the reader is a child, the story is obviously about a child.
3:04 lol
8:44 - 11:44 wow
11:45- 12:55 wow
What about rapist n murderer who went to prison? I think they sent themselves not d victim
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Was this talk given at a prison?? I’m curious as to why people could not leave… wow, yes, he says inmate!
🤔🤔😶🌫😶🌫I choose Hashem who teaches. I need my brothers and sisters. This means exactly I did not choose to be here. Yet I have a work. This is my living call.
anyone needs to 'know' the Difference between the 'Freedom of Choice' of someone, compared to someone else, that they find themselves in a similar Situation, and the 'Individual' that 'has it harder', to 'freely choose' for 'HaTov' instead of 'HaRä' will be 'rewarded' with much more 'Prizes', by G.d than the 'Individual' that 'had it easier' to 'choose' for the 'straight Way', made of 'universal Love', 'correct Judgement', instead of the 'perverted Way', made of 'Jealousy and Envy'. 'Shlom' for everyone, simultaneously, through 'Tzdqh', and 'the Law' of 'universal Love, correct Judgement' is 1, and the 'Manners' to artistically express it, manifest it, are 1000.
Cain should have never killed Abel he had a freedom of choice Genesis 4 Then the Lord said to Cain why are you angry? why has your face fallen ? If you do what is right will you not be accepted? but if you do not do what is right SIN crouches at the door it desires to have you but you must rule over it SAMUEL 2 then she spake saying they were want to speak in old times saying surely they will all ask COUNSEL at HEVEL and so they ended the dispute
I m fully aware that those who i love can hurt me yet not a chance i m going to stop.
Is going yo be difficult to be in israel for high hollidays Manish yet we ll see.
101 hostages to bring back for the holidays (Bezrath Hashem)
If that make you happy don t be afraid to say it hurts not having them freed yet.
Well R. Freedman forgot West Side story : There s a place for us .....
free from what?
Aren't you listening?
was this teaching in a jail?
A prison.
Then I don't want to hear about October 7th again =)))
@@mewsez B'ezrat Hashem, I don't want it to happen again.
I don't want to hear from the global extremists again
This can also be explained using a hidden markov model ))
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It is complicated. The Rabbis tell us for God to protect you against someone's free choice takes a very big merit. If someone decides to shoot you in the head you need a miracle to save you. Just because you died doesn't mean that God decreed that you should die. It just means that you were not a great enough righteous person to be saved from someone else's free choice.
This is beautiful! Thanks a lot.
Wow ❤️🩹👌👏
Thank you.