It’s so sweet of you to share some tips on this issue. Being turned away is actually the only thing I knew about conversion growing up and it sounded so frustrating
My husband totally understands the frustration, and its been a side dream of his to reach out and help others who were in his position. Its incredibly frustrating for those sincerely looking to become Jewish!
The process has stood the test of time. I have known many geirim. Conversion isn't a topic to take any other than seriously. That is why the Rebbe discouraged shluchim taking part in the process generally speaking.
I am 100% self learned. I converted myself over 25 years ago simply by reading 2 chapters of the Torah per day. Mine wasn't really a conversion as my mother was Jewish. However despite my mother being Jewish, I had absolutely no knowledge of Torah over 25 years ago. I am now so knowledgeable in Torah that I teach Torah to 4 students by phone and not in person due to pandemic. I practice Orthodox Judaism, and I wear Tefillin each morning with the exception of the day of rest. Conversion is absolutely meaningless unless one reads the entire Torah multiple times over and observes the Creator’s commandments, laws & statutes as many people who consider themselves highly religious typically don’t give a dime to the poor & needy. There is tremendous power in knowledge of Judaism & in performing Mitzvahs.
Way to go!!! Self taught is very impressive. I’ve learned off and on for 10+ years and I’m always learning. Converting yourself? I didn’t know that was possible but I’m proud of you stranger.
I bawled my eyes out for months when a rabbi pushed me away. Made me wonder if HaShem was pushing me away. Maybe someday I will try again but in the meantime I stay involved and study and live as "Jewish" if only in my heart. ❤
I don’t get why. Imagine a religion that pushes you away and ends so close to Pharaoh. It’s way too short sited and tribal. Imagine conflating Chosen People with God’s people on earth (everyone)
@Riktamorty Let me explain why. God created way for jew and for gentile to be close to God. You can find more about Noahid, who observe 7 commandments. So you have your way. We, jews, supposed to be a nation of priests . We want it or not. And God asks from us for every mistake. If you want join, you should be ready to do what God wants priests to do. And this is not simple even for those who grow up with this. It is much harder when one converts. So unless you and your rabbi sure that you need it, we should reject you. Why should you take more responsibility on yourself, unless you thirsty for it?
It's a favor. True it's a very rewarding religion but it's also full of restrictions. If you violate those things you're in deep trouble. The gatekeepers are doing you a huge favor.
@@yudelroxthey are only restrictions if you don't Revere God. Did you listen to your mom and dad when you were growing up? Why? Because they knew what was best for you so does the most high. After all he created you he must know.
I really appreciate the specific views that are expressed here in relation to Jewish Conversion. I know there are many people throughout the world who make the decision to convert to Judaism on a daily to weekly to monthly to yearly basis. Videos presented like this can definitely help with people who want to get a actual knowledge and general understanding of the process of conversion. I really liked the part of this video were you said the potential convert to Judaism would feel like they are searching for a treasure that there's and they can not sleep or eat or rest until they get that treasure, I think that is an awesome concept. Thank you so much for another wonderful video Chana!
Baruch HaShem! Everything you said is pretty spot on. I went through all of the things you listed on my own without knowing the processes; I was just following the Ruach. Hearing what you said and having it match up so closely with what I experienced is validating. Thanks!
I have no Jewish ancestry. I just want Hashem's will in my life. I'm identifying through foods, making latkes and Challah and of course tznius (I hope I spelled that correctly.) I'm getting this overwhelming love I've never felt. I'm excited for my conversion journey.
I have experienced my Rabbi just CLOSING me out when i ask qu and try to understand many concepts. She says she will call me back, or will try to get me help. I have studied Judaism now for a whole yr. I have attended Shabbat, Torah study for over a yr. She was helpful, concerned and open at first. Now when i asked her to convert me, at first, she said yes but yet now as i press for more active progress on her part, she shut me out. No replies to my emails, or my texts. None. Why? Why? What's THAT about? M. Kaye, Elgin IL.
It is possible she sees a genuineness in you, and, unfortunately, many Rabbis who do "conversions" do not convert in the proper way according to what the Torah says about how to convert a person to Judaism. She may be closing you out because she can't answer your genuine questions, and is doing you a big service by not making you go through a conversion that does not render you a Jew in the end. Nowadays, the only conversion to Judaism that follows biblical law are Orthodox conversions. Keep learning and studying. :)
@@JewishEducationatHome . I have been DEAD serious for decades. I have completed a 16month conversion course, with this same Rabbi. But i don't understand the sudden coldness. She has mentioned 3 others that 'went wrong' but i do not fully know the details. What IS this?? I have investigated a rabbi, (marc -something) who will do a conversion after taking his 16 week course, on line, for 1000$. Is this correct? Is this Rabbi the one to help me become a Jew? Maybe so.... M. IL
For instance, I asked her what's the difference between Salvation, Repentance, atonement, and sanctify. She answered "i really don't have time for that, you can find those answers in study or asking others". WHHHAAAAT? M.
Its a good question... salvation means help from Hashem, repetance means to return to Hashem, atonement is the process of Hashem forgiving you, and sanctify in Hebrew means separate, meaning taking something mundane and bringing it up to holiness.
You have apparently been dealing with the wrong "Rabbi's". A female "Rabbi" is a giveaway that the "conversion" is a farce. The ONLY kind of conversion that is kosher is through an Orthodox beis din. Nothing wrongg with studying to become Jewish online, but someone who is sincere in converting you would want to meet you at least once a week to gauge your progress. Rabbi's get calls all the time about conversions and 95% of the time the callers never bother following up. Perseverance is important. You are mostly being tested for perseverance. Perseverance is a prerequisite to being Jewish. What is the website you are looking at?
Most Rabbis won't even help other Jews who are trying to become observant. There's a thing like "I'll show you how to put on Tephilin one or two times, then I will never speak to you again." I'm just trying my best, but I'm ready to quit. This has happened too many times.
Also, the rabbis that help you on the way and the beit din that give you that conversion are also spiritually accountable if you go astray afterwards, so it's not only the consequences on your own soul, but also in the soul of other (most times, righteous) people. It is a huge responsibility
Yes! so glad you said this, the rabbi takes on a huge responsibility by agreeing to convert someone. My husband's rabbi told him that his merit comes from those he converts. He deeply feels this connection to his rabbi.
I don't necessarily agree with a person being responsible for someone going off. As long as someone takes the right precautions and is reasonably careful, you cannot control what people do. It is like one's children going off. That doesn't mean that the parents were not good parents.
Are we talking about Orthodox Judaism or Reform/Conservative Judaism? With conversion, I found it to be a smooth transition with a Reform conversion, but ended up Conservative and am interested in Modern Orthodox. I'm nervous now, because if I ever went for conversion to Modern Orthodox Judaism is there a chance they'll shun me?
I'm a Muslim from Arabia. My tribe can be traced all the way back to Ishmael, And my root name is Maimoni. I guess most Jews know what Maimoni means 😅 Any way I have a Jewish ancestors that goes all the way back to the Prophet Muhammad timeline, and they converted to Islam back then when they accepted him. I just wanted to say hello to the people of my ancestors.
Hello, Thank you for your message! ✌️😊 That’s so interesting! would you want to share more about your ancestry? We find history and heritage fascinating!
@@JewishEducationatHome Sure, thanks for asking. My father descended from the tribe "AlMutairi" You can search for it, it can be traced all the way back to Ishmael. The tribe have many roots (small communities) mine is called Maimoni. It descends from a man called Maimon. Judaism was the official religion of the Maimonis, however most of them converted to Islam after a lot of conflicts with prophet Muhammad, they finally believed in he's message. If you want to know anything else feel free to ask. Nice to meet you.
@@alidk5923 Incredible! Me and my husband were looking it up, and there’s very little info! Do you have any customs you keep that would be considered Jewish? We have a Pashtun neighbor who says she knows women in Afghanistan who light candles on Friday night as an ancient custom, though they’ve fully embraced Islam for generation. 😊
This is such an interesting take on this! I appreciate you posting this. This is a story I've shared with very few people but I'll share with you all. My conversion took around 9-10 years. I did not convert for marriage. I converted because Hashem called me to do so. I talked to 5 different Rabbis (Reform, Conservative, Orthodox) during my long conversion process. I read books, talked to people, took many classes from a synagogue, and prayed for guidance many many times. My conversion took so long because I was not at all religious. I believed fully in Hashem but did not believe in religion due to bad experiences with it as a child and teen. With my health challenges I knew that I would never be able to be Frum or a perfect Jew in following all the many rules and I was honest with Hashem about that. As I prayed I said to Hashem so many times, "Why do you call me to become Jewish? I am not a perfect Jew and I don't think it will ever be possible for me to follow everything to become a perfect Jew due to my physical health issues." Yet Hashem still called on me to convert so here I am today - An imperfect Jewish convert who some Jews would claim is not a Jew but I did what Hashem asked and I try my best to bring light into the world though I admit it is a never ending journey to be a better person and a better Jew. 🙏 for 🇮🇱 & for the hostages to be rescued or released. We all deserve to live in a world of love and peace.
Im wanting to convert but i have a couple of hurdles... 1. Moving near a community.. here in South Carolina is a little difficult because everything is so spread out. Plus I'm on SSDI so it's not so simple.. 2. Notifying my christian family... I have both of those books. I also have the JPS Tanakh and Siddur. Im learning so much...
Converting is really not necessary. If you love the God of Israel and He (obviously) loves you back then there is really no need in doing so. Furthermore, if you know that your relation with the G'd of Israel is spot on in the sense that you know He cares for you every single day, then whatever a roav ('rabbi') says doesn't matter anyways.
Absolutely! Agreed! Every single person is loved by G-d! You don’t need to be Jewish to have a special relationship with G-d! And 100%, what G-d says is the most important, not the rabbi’s! (Though, on the flip side, some people DESIRE a Jewish connection with G-d, and if that is someone’s deep desire, then there is a way to go about it, and there is a kosher way to change that relationship with G-d.) :)
@@JewishEducationatHome Thank you for answering! I did not say you don't have to be Jewish to have a relationship with God. I said that you don't need to _convert_ to have a relationship with God... In my point of view, converting or 'becoming Jewish' is an absolute 'impossibility concept'. But *being Jewish* (in the sense of being a 'jechudi', as one who renounces idolatry) is something anyone can accomplish.
I was born Jewish, but didn't find out until I was in my thirties. It took a lot to learn, as there were many gaps in my knowledge, but knowing I was Jewish made a lot of things make sense about my family.
I picked up a copy of the To Be A Jew, will grab the other when get paid again. Where or who can I talk to about learning Hebrew though? Is there a good source?
Your best bet is to search online, and it’s free. This is a great place to start. Good luck, and I hope you like the book! www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/4069287/jewish/The-Hebrew-Alphabet.htm
Did people who wish to convert ever thought about the Olocaust? What will you do if after your conversion you are submitted to a wave of antisemitism? Are you going to be happy that your Passport does not mention your religion. I mean Jewish. This is the most crucial question, As far as I know (out of the six millions), not even one rejected Judaism in order NOT to die.
It’s a good question.. 1st of all, rejecting Judaism would not have helped anyone during the Holocaust. Also, one of the things my husband was told by his converting rabbi is exactly what you mentioned: if there was another Holocaust, (chas v’shalom) you will be walking to your death with the Jews, as a Jew. It’s a very serious, real question, and people who convert will accept this.
If someone wants to convert to Judaism. Even before becoming a Jew, if he has knowledge of Jewish life through learning, he can or should practice it in his life. Does he need the Jewish knowledge that he has and is learning, does he need to, or if he wants to, can he use it before converting to a Jew?
Yes, put into practice what you’re learning, though some things would start after the conversion, like kashering your kitchen, wearing tefillin (for a boy). Also keeping Shabbat you should do under a rabbi’s instructions.
@@JewishEducationatHome Thanks alot for the calm reply ma, I really love to have this conversation Because It seems the Jews cannot practice half of what the torah says without the temple and the official Levitical priesthood. So is being a Jew now different from Judaism ? Like Can we receive all these as a culture or as a religion? Because since the AD 70 full destruction of the temple. Its either lots of the commandments have been suspended or replaced because the temple is the focus of almost all the instructions and prayers ma Thanks alot
Youre asking a good question… I hesitate saying Judaism is a religion or culture. it’s a relationship with G-d. Like, the more one learns Torah, the more one builds their faith in G-d, and then the more one does mitzvos like keep Shabbos, kosher, etc. Because as Jews, we do what Hashem wants, and that’s clearly outlined in the Torah how a Jew should live. Lots of commandments are suspended, because we just can’t do them. Like sacrifices. But it’s in our hearts. Our prayers replace the sacrifices. At weddings we break glass to remind ourselves of the destruction, for example.. Also there should be a small piece in our home that is unfinished, to remember the Temple. Our mitzvos are like bricks, and every brick adds to the rebuilding. So everything we do is still about the Temple, to remember and to rebuild. Please feel free to respond, ask, etc. 😊
I totally understand why it's so important be sure about converting. I'm a non Jew. I went to Israel and lived on a Kibbutz, many years ago. I stayed for ayear. I went with a three Jewish friends. They were actually more than friends. Their family looked after me when I was young. Unfortunately i lost touch with them and haven't seen or spoken to them for years. Recently I been getting a feeling that I would like to know more about Judaism and God. I don't know whether, I can explain it. but want to know more. I have been listening and reading to one of the 5 books of Moses, Exodus. As you know, I've recently subcripted to your channel. I also watched others channels on TH-cam. I recently went to a Chabad House, in my city and asked whether they could recommend a book for me to read on Judaism.. I spoke to a man and told him this story. He asked me if I spoke Hebrew, I told him that I didn't. He recommended I read Towards a meaningful Life by Simon Jacobson. I wonder if you have read it? Forgive me for writing such a long comment but I felt you would understand. 😂
God offered resurrection to eternal life in God's new paradise creation after the second coming of the messiah brings the final judgement and everything from this failed paradise is destroyed. Essentially they continue the human race in an evolved spiritual form after this abomination of humanity is exterminated. The required piousness is very strict, only a minority of Orthodox Jews are following the orders of God correctly. The vast majority of jews have committed horrendous offences against the will of God, just epic fail territory. The order to never again take a homeland until this world is destroyed is very pertinent. Israel being claimed as the Jewish homeland by zionists is one of the most offensive acts against the will of God ever perpetrated. The human race is currently making an extremely good case for its permanent deletion.
If you do not encourage converts, you and refer them to The Chief Rabbinate, in Israel. That will likely end their journey, as the Rabbinate essentially stops non Jews from even considering conversion. He has said that he believes in "keeping the DNA of the Jewish people in the Rabbinate."
Spiritual DNA. Jews believe in reincaranation and that the soul chooses it's mother and it's entire life before being re-born into this world. So if your soul is part of that Jewish soul collective it will choose a jewish parent. If your need to become a jew is that strong then they will let you, but they don't want people to convert just to try it out. First step is to tell the person they don't need to convert, there's nothing wrong in not being a jew. And then it's a long process to make sure that the convert actually practices a daily jewish way of life in the long term. It's all or nothing mentality when it comes to converting.
Thank you for the information I hope to one day convert to Judaism but first I need to do more research and learn so Hebrew, the only problem I face is that there really isn't a Jewish community where I live.
yes, same for my husband. they will require you to move to a community so right now, it’s learn learn learn, and when you feel ready you will have to uproot.
Hi, hope you are well! Good question, once someone converts, they have the same status as every other Jew, so if they go off the derech, yeah they would be a baal teshuvah!!
Lovely!!! my wife wanted to convert. i did not encourage nor discourage. well, maybe i discouraged a bit. i wanted her to do it for herself, not for me...she lost interest quickly. we divorce after 6 years. all for the best.
I think the reason for there not being a lot of information about conversion is that you kind of have to dig really deep and search like your life depends on it. Le fum tzara agra, right? The more you make efforts towards something, the more deeply you appreciate it when it becomes a reality
Hi, thank you for this insightful video! I am just interested in learning and understanding. You said, as a Jew you have spiritual power that, even if you are not aware of it, being a Jew and not following kosher Judaism, will have very negative consequences (at least in the unseen realm?). Did I get that right? If yes, then I assume that this is also the case for all the people born Jewish, that do not follow kosher Judaism? I am aware, that the Tanakh speaks and reports about consequences for the nation of Israel, if they do not follow the Mosaic Law. Is this what you are referring to? Or just part of it? I would really like to understand, what you mean by this and where this concept (apart from the Tanakh, where, as I understood it so far, it is more of a nation thing and especially of the leaders, that are helping the people to either follow G-D, like King Josiah of that are leading them astray to worship idols like King Ahab). Thank you very much! Very best wishes!
This is all a huge discussion! A Jew who doesn’t keep Torah, and let’s say for example, they were never taught about Shabbat or eating kosher food… (so you can’t blame them for not being more observant) they are not held responsible, but to the best of my understanding of Kabbalah and chassidus, there is still a spiritual blemish. As far as in the Torah and the consequences the Jews had… the Jews SAW the sea split, with literal miracles upon miracles, and still they kvetched and wanted to go back to Egypt lol. G-d is not a punishing G-d, He is very good and kind and understanding of our level and environment and questions and doubts we might have. But He also wants us to overcome and do the right thing. And yes, the leaders take a huge responsibility on their shoulders, which is one reason why many rabbis don’t deal with conversions, because of the massive responsibility they have to the people they convert!
It goes like this: What do you call a Jewish convert? A Jew! So, yes, they will accept the potential convert and take an active interest in making him part of the community. HOWEVER... If one's conversion was through Conservative or Reform Judaism, is it NOT recognized by the Orthodox community; the individual will be considered a righteous gentile. They will not read from the bima or count in a minyan.
Once an Orthodox conversion is completed, the person is a Jew, as Jewish as everyone else, and nothing will ever change that. Becoming Jewish means he/she entered an eternal covenant with G-d. This person will always be a Jew. (Though, before the fact, a person is screened for sincerity by the rabbi, and also that they understand the choice they’re making)
I stopped eating pork when I found out I had Jewish ancestors. I’m not Jewish because my mom isn’t, but my ancestors were, many of them, and I deeply desire to convert
It's an oral Torah command to discourage 3 times for good reason there's always Noahide if people find it hard to commit to laws for Jews it's still Judaism.
Discouraging someone who wants to convert is not anyone else’s business except the beis din. As a regular community member, it’s our job to just be kind to others and be helpful, not discourage (or encourage!) anyone to convert. :)
Is it okay if I don't call him HaShem? And, instead, call him "I AM"? . I know HaShem means "The Name". But I'm not comfortable with saying HaShem considering Shem, son of Noah, is the father of the Semitic people. . Can I just say "I AM", as God told Moses his name was?
The word Hashem is a bonafide term that was given down by our Sages. We trust they gave us the proper term. Anyone can make up a name and call it G-d, and there’s no end. I understand what you mean about being a word too close to Shem, but maybe you’re overthinking?
@@JewishEducationatHome God said his name is "I AM THAT I AM". OR "I AM". To Moses when he asked him what he should tell Israel his name is. That's why I call Him "I AM".
First start with the Alef Beis, and learn the letters. www.chabad.org/library/howto/trainer_cdo/aid/138150/jewish/Aleph-Bet-Trainer.htm#0=1228&1=v27 Thank you so much! :)
Peace to humans! Essentially what I understand is being Jewish is aspiring to be good for all! Maybe you help only your community to sustain that good will! The essence of every religion is to do good for all..Be good,do good to ourselves and others... nothing is more worthy.....than any religion. I am sure the colour of blood is same for all of us ! May the almighty God guide us and enrich our conscience for the good of all...🙏
Absolutely! As a parent, I love watching my kids help others, give, share, encourage, say nice things to each other…. and I believe it’s the same feeling (though infinitely greater) for G-d when we show care and love to others, and do our part to make the world a kinder place! 😊
I’ve never heard that. Rabbis simply want to make sure that the convert to be is really prepared. Sorry you’re making a blanket statement. Each synagogue and their clergy are welcoming.
If I was seeking APPROVAL, I would have BEGGED this (or that). It´s my hunch many have liked to be hugged by GOD instead of a community BUT, we (or I) did the things wrong. However, the good thing, it is GOD who ALWAYS has invited ppl to join other people and, if a religious or BELIEF system was needed, HE personally will convict humans to convert, to be transculturalized... and that´s not always His ways.
JewishEducationatHome well in my Country it was barely possible to pass ghiur because there is a general close view towards gherim. In Russia I found an Charedi rabbi. It was challenging for the ghiur itself and the language, but I finished the conversion :-)
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Because its an enormous responsibility, not an easy transition and a very, VERY SERIOUS spiritual obligation with serious consequences if you dont meet your o obligations to live according to Torah/the rulings/teachings of the Sages .
Shalom , dear Chana when I always think about religons , I immediately think about Judaism ! Because It is the first religons and the oldest one ! But I heard from a lot of people that if your mother is not jewish , you can not be jewish.... sometime I think I should talk to some rabbi but I'm scared they won't be happy about that ....
I know of someone who is in the process of converting for ten years already. He keeps every mitswot he can, he dresses Jewish, he moved to a town with a Jewish community and did lots of studying, but I hear from his son who's my friend, that his rabbi is failing to help completing his conversion process. I suspect the rabbi thinks his intentions aren't pure ore he screwed up somehow because maybe he has a somewhat difficult character.
Hanna I'm a Christian and I have meny Jewish friends in Toronto and Televiv and The call me the angel of the community my heart is Jewish I know why god loved his ancient people love Israel and it's people
I got told from the Synagogue, there isn’t much that can be done. All they suggested was to follow the laws of Noah. But then they said if you are Jewish let us know. So they were quite happy to help a member more so. They are going to have a hard time expanding, so closed door.
It's a faith that's founded on ethnic superiority - there isn't any way around it. If you are descended from a particular ethnic group, you are part of God's chosen people, if you aren't, you aren't (according to the Torah). That isn't to say that the average Jewish person is racist, especially in the US, because many Jewish people just ignore the Torah when it isn't convenient. But the religion itself is clearly and explicitly racist; if you substituted literally any other ethnic group (for example, "White people are God's chosen people") it would be immediately recognized as such.
I can’t change what the Bible says! Yes, the Jewish people are G-d’s Chosen people! Doesn’t mean other people aren’t important or have a special purpose! 😊
Because they believe if your not born a Jew but born as a gentile then you should only follow the 7 Noahide Laws and not the Torah in other words all other nations other than Israel only have to follow the 7 Noahide Laws and not Torah 613 laws
This is something I am hearing being spread around, and with all due respect, couldn’t be further from the truth! The Talmud is VOLUMES AND VOLUMES, with THOUSANDS of teachings and discussions. One quote out of thousands is easy to misconstrue. I’ll be happy to explain anything that is bothering you, so please feel free to ask. I *might* be able to convince my husband to make a video answering any questions about what you think it says about non-Jews. :)
@JewishEducationatHome Sure, why is there explicit verses in the Talmud rating non-jews as less than human. Why would anything like this exist in a book that would be used in modern day teachings. Given what some of it says, what proof can be given that anything said is legitimate due to the things it supposedly permits? Honest and genuine questions. Also, why does the orthodoxy in Israel think it's okay to spit on Christians?
First, if you can please direct me to the place where it says that about non-Jews? I would be able to better answer if I knew what exactly you’re referencing? The Torah is eternal, so whether it’s from ancient times or modern, we still follow the Torah. The only thing I can say is there are crazies in every group… spitting on anyone is disgusting and not okay!!
@JewishEducationatHome baba mezia 24a Sanhedrin 58b Baba kamma 37b Baba kamma 113a Yebamoth 98a Abodah zarah 36b Abodah zarah 22a-22b Sanhedrin 54b verse 20. Ive read a lot of biblical and religious texts. This book is by far the most diverse and everyone has a different opinion of the importance of the text. My trouble is that across all the texts, regardless of author, they seem to have a disdain for non-jews. Which many believe you cannot convert to. I fervently reject the idea anyone is born into a special status. My contention is not that this is what most people believe. My contention is that like with the Muslim world, there needs to be a reformation that galvanizes the respective religions into one group with an agreed on set of morals. Interpretations can be different, but discussing and putting into religious law that having sex with 9 year olds has no place whatsoever in any book on the face of this earth. I have my discrepancies with other books, but I will not levy those on you since they're not related to your practices in anyway.
I completely understand why you would not want converts. But can I suggest a political wing? Or something like it. My husband was a Jew, my son is not considered a Jew, but that is ok and completely understandable. I suppose I am trying in a clumsy way of trying to give you my support and feeling so desperate for you . I am very afraid of the huge Muslim community now numbering 4 million and rising here in the uk.This is not an attempt at division, but a real reaching out.
I’m definitely checking out your channel! I’m not dating. Not going to. I have a relationship that is very complicated. I’m doing this for HaShem and myself. Thank you for the links. Blessings to you. Shalom Edit- sorry You are describing how I feel. It’s so fantastic. Also I’m emotional about it. ❤
But it does not matter if your husband converts, your children are still Jewish because the mother (you) is Jewish. I am a Lutheran Christian male and unmarried (which I prefer), but if I married a Jewish woman (and Jewish women are beautiful, intelligent, and part of the body of Israel, i.e. "chosen") my children would be Jewish. In any case, blessings to you, your household and family, and may your TH-cam channel prosper yourself and others.
❤You don't have to convert to Judaism (become spiritually part of the nation of Israel) to be in right standing with G-d. You have two options: Either become a Muslim, or, a Ben Noach. Both believe in the G-d of Israel and defend the prohibition against idolatry (against reducing G-d to the image of a man like what Christians do). However, I personally would recommend that you become a Ben Noach instead of a Muslim. Because a Ben Noach is under the Rainbow Covenant that was established to Noah after the Flood. The Covenant is for all non-Jews to follow and affirms that the Tanakh, the Hebrew Bible as the inspired written Word of G-d. With Muslims, they believe the Tanakh and Torah have been corrupted, and they follow the Quran. But I still consider them like my brothers and sisters because we still have alot of central tenets in common. Now, the path of the Ben Noach or Noahide is very straight forward. You just simply live a righteous life to please G-d, and not for any self interest but for G-d's glory. A Noahide must keep what is called "The 7 Laws of Noah." But its not just 7 laws you keep. But rather its 7 "category" of laws that can exegetically be extracted from the Torah. But for a simple understanding, basically, I would say a Noahide commits to KEEPING ALL THE MORAL LAWS of the Tanakh that applies to non-Jews, and you keep these moral laws to glorify G-d. As well, life is a test to determine your loyalty for G-d. As well, a Noahide must abstain from keeping those laws given through Moses directly for the Jews - like holy days, sabbaths, civil, and ceremonial laws. A Ben Noach must not imitate a Jew. And that's basically what a Ben Noach or Noahide does. Its a very straight forward Covenant. And the one who strives always to live righteous for G-d is assured salvation in the World to Come. King David declares the beautiful words in Psalms 103:17-18 - *"But the mercy of the L-rd is FROM EVERLASTING TO EVERLASTING upon them that reverence Him, and His righteousness unto children's children; to such as keep His covenant, and to those that remember His commandments to do them."* 🙏🏽♥️ Shalom From a Ben Noach
If you convert to Judaism know that you will be not only part of a community but also a citizen of the nation of Israel. Additionally, your relationships with the family and friends you had before your conversion will be totally different now. You should consider what you may be giving up because there will be no going back. It may even cost you your life as was the case in Pittsburgh when a Temple was attacked.
How can the God of Abraham instill such separation amongst his own children. Where in any familial relationship amongst any species is this same principle visible. I'm curios because I believe Christ was king, he was a Jew but he preached love and inclusion not separation and division. What happened to 400 years of the King James Bible being excluded, odd no?. Btw didn't God say there were Gentiles and Jews so how does Man convert a Man from being a Gentile to a Jew. I know such pessimistic questions from a true believer.
Every single person has a special purpose. Like the human body - each organ, muscle, etc has its own purpose for the full body to function. Same thing with Jews and Gentiles! We each do our special function! We all fulfill our purpose, and that’s not separation, that’s love and acceptance and the beauty of this earthly system! SOMETIMES, a person wants to live with a Jewish purpose, and for that, we have a conversion process. With conversion to Judaism, you're basically moving your soul from one side of Heaven to another side, to have the Jewish connection to G-d. But of course, everyone has a connection to G-d!! :)
Hebrew Jews are children of Abraham, Issac and Jacob. So it's very odd that a gentile can convert to become a Jew despite not being ethnically a Hebrew and descendant of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. It's like converting to be an Arab. Trans-ethnic . To be a Jew one must descend from a Hebrew Jew mother.
With all the trans identity politics going on, you can’t just “feel” Jewish, and expect everyone to go along and say you’re a Jew, lol! Judaism is not an ethnicity like Arab, it’s a COVENANT. There are 2 ways to be part of this covenant… through a maternal bloodline or by a kosher conversion. Jethro, Moses father-in-law converted, Ruth, Obadiah also converted… there are many of our Sages who converted or descended from converts. (Rabbi Akiva, Onkelos…)
Jewish by birth or Jewish by choice? What actually is a Jew? Judaism has a strong ethnic and cultural element to it. Most Jews who live in Israel for example are not religious at all, but they're still Jews, right? It's not all about religious practices or traditions. As far as conversions are concerned, not all Rabbi's agree on what makes for a proper convert. Orthodox Jews don't recognize conversions in the reform on conservative factions. Haredi Jews believe that the state of Israel is an illegitimate sovereign state and its creation is antithetical to the teachings of the Torah. Conservative settler Jews on the other hand believe that by default, Israel is their chosen land. The take away is that being Jewish in whatever iteration is a lot more fun than being a dull catholic or hellfire and brimstone Baptist :)
That's a pretty bad practice, if that's what it is. You don't discourage ppl by rejecting at first; Quality control, if that's your premise, is done by, say, natural selection; I. e. If 20 ppl convert and 7 fade out, or go back, thats on them, but 13 stayed and flourished. That 13 carried on the faith and continued to be observant. The 7 that left can not have, essentially, the power to deny or give a bad name, to the others that stayed, just because that 7 did not follow their vows. What a horrible assault on the 13. Or even, likewise, if the numbers were switched- If 7 stayed, out of that 20. M. IL. ✡
Judaism is not about quantity, and its not a legal right. Its a privilege. The Jewish people are like 1 body, and all who are part of this body need to be doing their part. When even 1 Jew is not doing their part, it affects the entire nation. :)
Jew is a race. Judaism is a religion. Yes, you can convert to Judaism that doesn't make you a jew. People are confused in this issue. Plus converting how much makes you authentic? so that Rabbis discourage conversion. Prodominant rabbis are calling stick to your religion. For example, in Israeli society, especially IDF, some non-Jewish people call themself Jewish.! IDF funeral process rabbis refuse to go to their religious burial. Mostly Russian ethnicity falsely claims to be Jewish. The seeing is believing! They are not at all Jewish race. In short: you have to respect their religious boundaries. If you want to serve Hashem (G.D) you don't need to be converted.
Please stop this. It's doesn't even make sense anymore. Stop bringing Zionists logic to Judaism. Jew is a religion and nothing more. Anyone can be Jew. God Called Abraham to serve him, and wanted others to serve him. It's a Religion stop making it a Race or Ethnicity. When she says once you are a Jew, you always be a Jew. That's actually true. Because if you read the Bible, it's instructed that if one wants to leave his faith it should be Killed. This shows that once you are in, you are in. But in modern world, you don't kill people for leaving a religion.
I think what this person is talking about are people who call themselves Jews, but they’re just not, maybe because the conversion was not kosher or because the mother was not Jewish. Also with identity politics in the US, this is becoming more of a problem. And 100%, the Jewish covenant with G-d is eternal! Thank you for commenting, and Shabbat shalom! 😊
@sheiladang11. Perhaps not.... But there is the Meaning of the Law that at times would not be clear or has a meaning Not immediately understood, and Why it is so etc etc.....and So, a Rabbi can be quite helpful. He, or She depending on the community can help Recommend reading material, or a group.
How do you put on Totafot? How do you slaughter cattle and sheep to ensure they are kosher? What species of fruit do you wave on Succot? I have literally about hundred thousand more questions like that, but I'll wait to see if you can answer those 3
It’s so sweet of you to share some tips on this issue. Being turned away is actually the only thing I knew about conversion growing up and it sounded so frustrating
My husband totally understands the frustration, and its been a side dream of his to reach out and help others who were in his position. Its incredibly frustrating for those sincerely looking to become Jewish!
The process has stood the test of time. I have known many geirim. Conversion isn't a topic to take any other than seriously. That is why the Rebbe discouraged shluchim taking part in the process generally speaking.
Yes, your channel is supportive and kind, and thank you very much for lending us your support and help in what you do and how you do it. :)
I am 100% self learned. I converted myself over 25 years ago simply by reading 2 chapters of the Torah per day. Mine wasn't really a conversion as my mother was Jewish. However despite my mother being Jewish, I had absolutely no knowledge of Torah over 25 years ago. I am now so knowledgeable in Torah that I teach Torah to 4 students by phone and not in person due to pandemic. I practice Orthodox Judaism, and I wear Tefillin each morning with the exception of the day of rest. Conversion is absolutely meaningless unless one reads the entire Torah multiple times over and observes the Creator’s commandments, laws & statutes as many people who consider themselves highly religious typically don’t give a dime to the poor & needy. There is tremendous power in knowledge of Judaism & in performing Mitzvahs.
good for u bud
you didn’t covert then :) what you did was Hazara be-Tshuva, not Giyur.
@@unisophia According to Judaism if your mother is Jewish then you’re Jewish & don’t need to convert.
You don’t make sense what the hell are you saying 🤦🏻♂️You sound very confused.
Way to go!!! Self taught is very impressive. I’ve learned off and on for 10+ years and I’m always learning.
Converting yourself? I didn’t know that was possible but I’m proud of you stranger.
I bawled my eyes out for months when a rabbi pushed me away. Made me wonder if HaShem was pushing me away. Maybe someday I will try again but in the meantime I stay involved and study and live as "Jewish" if only in my heart. ❤
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I don’t get why. Imagine a religion that pushes you away and ends so close to Pharaoh. It’s way too short sited and tribal. Imagine conflating Chosen People with God’s people on earth (everyone)
@Riktamorty Let me explain why. God created way for jew and for gentile to be close to God. You can find more about Noahid, who observe 7 commandments. So you have your way. We, jews, supposed to be a nation of priests . We want it or not. And God asks from us for every mistake. If you want join, you should be ready to do what God wants priests to do. And this is not simple even for those who grow up with this. It is much harder when one converts. So unless you and your rabbi sure that you need it, we should reject you. Why should you take more responsibility on yourself, unless you thirsty for it?
It's a favor. True it's a very rewarding religion but it's also full of restrictions. If you violate those things you're in deep trouble. The gatekeepers are doing you a huge favor.
@@yudelroxthey are only restrictions if you don't Revere God. Did you listen to your mom and dad when you were growing up? Why? Because they knew what was best for you so does the most high. After all he created you he must know.
It takes a lot of commitment to keep the Jewish Laws. Thanks for the video. Much blessings for you and your family BH ❤
I really appreciate the specific views that are expressed here in relation to Jewish Conversion. I know there are many people throughout the world who make the decision to convert to Judaism on a daily to weekly to monthly to yearly basis. Videos presented like this can definitely help with people who want to get a actual knowledge and general understanding of the process of conversion. I really liked the part of this video were you said the potential convert to Judaism would feel like they are searching for a treasure that there's and they can not sleep or eat or rest until they get that treasure, I think that is an awesome concept. Thank you so much for another wonderful video Chana!
Hi and thank you so much! I do hope this is helpful and reaches those it is intended for. You are so sweet, many blessings to u!
Baruch HaShem! Everything you said is pretty spot on. I went through all of the things you listed on my own without knowing the processes; I was just following the Ruach. Hearing what you said and having it match up so closely with what I experienced is validating. Thanks!
Aww, BH! Much success to you with everything!!
I have no Jewish ancestry. I just want Hashem's will in my life. I'm identifying through foods, making latkes and Challah and of course tznius (I hope I spelled that correctly.) I'm getting this overwhelming love I've never felt. I'm excited for my conversion journey.
Wishing you lots of success!
Neither do the Ashkenaz but that hasn't stopped them from claiming Zion.
I have experienced my Rabbi just CLOSING me out when i ask qu and try to understand many concepts. She says she will call me back, or will try to get me help. I have studied Judaism now for a whole yr. I have attended Shabbat, Torah study for over a yr.
She was helpful, concerned and open at first. Now when i asked her to convert me, at first, she said yes but yet now as i press for more active progress on her part, she shut me out. No replies to my emails, or my texts. None. Why? Why? What's THAT about?
M. Kaye, Elgin IL.
It is possible she sees a genuineness in you, and, unfortunately, many Rabbis who do "conversions" do not convert in the proper way according to what the Torah says about how to convert a person to Judaism. She may be closing you out because she can't answer your genuine questions, and is doing you a big service by not making you go through a conversion that does not render you a Jew in the end. Nowadays, the only conversion to Judaism that follows biblical law are Orthodox conversions. Keep learning and studying. :)
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I have been DEAD serious for decades. I have completed a 16month conversion course, with this same Rabbi. But i don't understand the sudden coldness. She has mentioned 3 others that 'went wrong' but i do not fully know the details.
What IS this??
I have investigated a rabbi, (marc -something) who will do a conversion after taking his 16 week course, on line, for 1000$.
Is this correct? Is this Rabbi the one to help me become a Jew?
Maybe so....
M. IL
For instance,
I asked her what's the difference between Salvation, Repentance, atonement, and sanctify.
She answered "i really don't have time for that, you can find those answers in study or asking others".
WHHHAAAAT?
M.
Its a good question... salvation means help from Hashem, repetance means to return to Hashem, atonement is the process of Hashem forgiving you, and sanctify in Hebrew means separate, meaning taking something mundane and bringing it up to holiness.
You have apparently been dealing with the wrong "Rabbi's". A female "Rabbi" is a giveaway that the "conversion" is a farce. The ONLY kind of conversion that is kosher is through an Orthodox beis din. Nothing wrongg with studying to become Jewish online, but someone who is sincere in converting you would want to meet you at least once a week to gauge your progress. Rabbi's get calls all the time about conversions and 95% of the time the callers never bother following up. Perseverance is important. You are mostly being tested for perseverance. Perseverance is a prerequisite to being Jewish. What is the website you are looking at?
Most Rabbis won't even help other Jews who are trying to become observant. There's a thing like "I'll show you how to put on Tephilin one or two times, then I will never speak to you again." I'm just trying my best, but I'm ready to quit. This has happened too many times.
I’m sorry this is happening to you! Please don’t quit, it’s about you and G-d, and no one can stop that connection! Shabbat shalom.
I've purchased "To Pray As A Jew" I look forward to reading it. Watching in the UK. ❤
My husband’s favorite! I hope you enjoy! :)
Also, the rabbis that help you on the way and the beit din that give you that conversion are also spiritually accountable if you go astray afterwards, so it's not only the consequences on your own soul, but also in the soul of other (most times, righteous) people. It is a huge responsibility
Yes! so glad you said this, the rabbi takes on a huge responsibility by agreeing to convert someone. My husband's rabbi told him that his merit comes from those he converts. He deeply feels this connection to his rabbi.
I don't necessarily agree with a person being responsible for someone going off. As long as someone takes the right precautions and is reasonably careful, you cannot control what people do. It is like one's children going off. That doesn't mean that the parents were not good parents.
I really appreciate how simple and clear you explain and educate.
Thank you, that is very kind of you to say!!! :) :)
Are we talking about Orthodox Judaism or Reform/Conservative Judaism? With conversion, I found it to be a smooth transition with a Reform conversion, but ended up Conservative and am interested in Modern Orthodox. I'm nervous now, because if I ever went for conversion to Modern Orthodox Judaism is there a chance they'll shun me?
They won’t shun you, they will be happy you are doing a proper conversion. Please let me know if you have any questions, Good luck! :)
You won't be recognized... Orthodox Judism is different than reform. Completely different
I'm a Muslim from Arabia.
My tribe can be traced all the way back to Ishmael, And my root name is Maimoni.
I guess most Jews know what Maimoni means 😅
Any way I have a Jewish ancestors that goes all the way back to the Prophet Muhammad timeline, and they converted to Islam back then when they accepted him.
I just wanted to say hello to the people of my ancestors.
Hello, Thank you for your message! ✌️😊 That’s so interesting! would you want to share more about your ancestry? We find history and heritage fascinating!
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Sure, thanks for asking. My father descended from the tribe "AlMutairi"
You can search for it, it can be traced all the way back to Ishmael. The tribe have many roots (small communities) mine is called Maimoni.
It descends from a man called Maimon.
Judaism was the official religion of the Maimonis, however most of them converted to Islam after a lot of conflicts with prophet Muhammad, they finally believed in he's message.
If you want to know anything else feel free to ask. Nice to meet you.
@@alidk5923 Muhammad did not come from Ishmael. There is no link according to Islamic writings.
@@bestKaffir.underTheSon Its you opinion not fact. There are dozens of links. Arabs are the best people in tracing ancestry and preserving them.
@@alidk5923 Incredible! Me and my husband were looking it up, and there’s very little info! Do you have any customs you keep that would be considered Jewish? We have a Pashtun neighbor who says she knows women in Afghanistan who light candles on Friday night as an ancient custom, though they’ve fully embraced Islam for generation. 😊
This is such an interesting take on this! I appreciate you posting this. This is a story I've shared with very few people but I'll share with you all. My conversion took around 9-10 years. I did not convert for marriage. I converted because Hashem called me to do so. I talked to 5 different Rabbis (Reform, Conservative, Orthodox) during my long conversion process. I read books, talked to people, took many classes from a synagogue, and prayed for guidance many many times. My conversion took so long because I was not at all religious. I believed fully in Hashem but did not believe in religion due to bad experiences with it as a child and teen.
With my health challenges I knew that I would never be able to be Frum or a perfect Jew in following all the many rules and I was honest with Hashem about that. As I prayed I said to Hashem so many times, "Why do you call me to become Jewish? I am not a perfect Jew and I don't think it will ever be possible for me to follow everything to become a perfect Jew due to my physical health issues." Yet Hashem still called on me to convert so here I am today - An imperfect Jewish convert who some Jews would claim is not a Jew but I did what Hashem asked and I try my best to bring light into the world though I admit it is a never ending journey to be a better person and a better Jew.
🙏 for 🇮🇱 & for the hostages to be rescued or released. We all deserve to live in a world of love and peace.
Amen, Mashiach now!
You sound like an amazing Jew to me. You may not be perfect but you are great regardless.
Im wanting to convert but i have a couple of hurdles... 1. Moving near a community.. here in South Carolina is a little difficult because everything is so spread out. Plus I'm on SSDI so it's not so simple.. 2. Notifying my christian family... I have both of those books. I also have the JPS Tanakh and Siddur. Im learning so much...
I feel your pain...I have the first problem in NC...moving to Shalom park in super expensive.
Converting is really not necessary. If you love the God of Israel and He (obviously) loves you back then there is really no need in doing so. Furthermore, if you know that your relation with the G'd of Israel is spot on in the sense that you know He cares for you every single day, then whatever a roav ('rabbi') says doesn't matter anyways.
Absolutely! Agreed! Every single person is loved by G-d! You don’t need to be Jewish to have a special relationship with G-d! And 100%, what G-d says is the most important, not the rabbi’s! (Though, on the flip side, some people DESIRE a Jewish connection with G-d, and if that is someone’s deep desire, then there is a way to go about it, and there is a kosher way to change that relationship with G-d.) :)
@@JewishEducationatHome Thank you for answering! I did not say you don't have to be Jewish to have a relationship with God. I said that you don't need to _convert_ to have a relationship with God... In my point of view, converting or 'becoming Jewish' is an absolute 'impossibility concept'. But *being Jewish* (in the sense of being a 'jechudi', as one who renounces idolatry) is something anyone can accomplish.
I was born Jewish, but didn't find out until I was in my thirties. It took a lot to learn, as there were many gaps in my knowledge, but knowing I was Jewish made a lot of things make sense about my family.
Sounds like a journey to go through!!
Can we keep the Torah as a non-Jew? I don’t want to do something wrong yet I feel compelled to live as Hashem’s people do.
I picked up a copy of the To Be A Jew, will grab the other when get paid again. Where or who can I talk to about learning Hebrew though? Is there a good source?
Your best bet is to search online, and it’s free. This is a great place to start. Good luck, and I hope you like the book!
www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/4069287/jewish/The-Hebrew-Alphabet.htm
Did people who wish to convert ever thought about the Olocaust?
What will you do if after your conversion you are submitted to a wave of antisemitism?
Are you going to be happy that your Passport does not mention your religion. I mean Jewish.
This is the most crucial question,
As far as I know (out of the six millions), not even one rejected Judaism in order NOT to die.
It’s a good question.. 1st of all, rejecting Judaism would not have helped anyone during the Holocaust.
Also, one of the things my husband was told by his converting rabbi is exactly what you mentioned: if there was another Holocaust, (chas v’shalom) you will be walking to your death with the Jews, as a Jew. It’s a very serious, real question, and people who convert will accept this.
If someone wants to convert to Judaism. Even before becoming a Jew, if he has knowledge of Jewish life through learning, he can or should practice it in his life. Does he need the Jewish knowledge that he has and is learning, does he need to, or if he wants to, can he use it before converting to a Jew?
Yes, put into practice what you’re learning, though some things would start after the conversion, like kashering your kitchen, wearing tefillin (for a boy). Also keeping Shabbat you should do under a rabbi’s instructions.
As Jews, how do you carry out the Stoning adulterers to death Law according to the torah.
we don’t do it nowadays because we don’t have the Sanhedrin and the judicial structure anymore for the past 2,000 years.
@@JewishEducationatHome Thanks alot for the calm reply ma,
I really love to have this conversation
Because It seems the Jews cannot practice half of what the torah says without the temple and the official Levitical priesthood.
So is being a Jew now different from Judaism ? Like Can we receive all these as a culture or as a religion?
Because since the AD 70 full destruction of the temple. Its either lots of the commandments have been suspended or replaced because the temple is the focus of almost all the instructions and prayers ma
Thanks alot
Youre asking a good question…
I hesitate saying Judaism is a religion or culture. it’s a relationship with G-d. Like, the more one learns Torah, the more one builds their faith in G-d, and then the more one does mitzvos like keep Shabbos, kosher, etc. Because as Jews, we do what Hashem wants, and that’s clearly outlined in the Torah how a Jew should live.
Lots of commandments are suspended, because we just can’t do them. Like sacrifices. But it’s in our hearts. Our prayers replace the sacrifices. At weddings we break glass to remind ourselves of the destruction, for example.. Also there should be a small piece in our home that is unfinished, to remember the Temple. Our mitzvos are like bricks, and every brick adds to the rebuilding. So everything we do is still about the Temple, to remember and to rebuild.
Please feel free to respond, ask, etc. 😊
I totally understand why it's so important be sure about converting. I'm a non Jew. I went to Israel and lived on a Kibbutz, many years ago. I stayed for ayear. I went with a three Jewish friends. They were actually more than friends. Their family looked after me when I was young. Unfortunately i lost touch with them and haven't seen or spoken to them for years. Recently I been getting a feeling that I would like to know more about Judaism and God. I don't know whether, I can explain it. but want to know more. I have been listening and reading to one of the 5 books of Moses, Exodus. As you know, I've recently subcripted to your channel. I also watched others channels on TH-cam. I recently went to a Chabad House, in my city and asked whether they could recommend a book for me to read on Judaism.. I spoke to a man and told him this story. He asked me if I spoke Hebrew, I told him that I didn't. He recommended I read Towards a meaningful Life by Simon Jacobson. I wonder if you have read it? Forgive me for writing such a long comment but I felt you would understand. 😂
Thank you for sharing your story, and I love that book! its a GREAT book! definitely recommend!!!!
Thank you, so much for your comments. I hope you're all well.
I recieved the book a couple of days ago. I'm really looking forward to reading it.
Good explanation. I always wondered about that. It makes total sense.
Thank you.
Can you please elaborate on what you mean regarding "spiritual power"? Thanks
God offered resurrection to eternal life in God's new paradise creation after the second coming of the messiah brings the final judgement and everything from this failed paradise is destroyed.
Essentially they continue the human race in an evolved spiritual form after this abomination of humanity is exterminated.
The required piousness is very strict, only a minority of Orthodox Jews are following the orders of God correctly. The vast majority of jews have committed horrendous offences against the will of God, just epic fail territory. The order to never again take a homeland until this world is destroyed is very pertinent. Israel being claimed as the Jewish homeland by zionists is one of the most offensive acts against the will of God ever perpetrated. The human race is currently making an extremely good case for its permanent deletion.
Then may the Messiah come and clear it all up!!!
Wonderful video! Thankyou for sharing!!
If you do not encourage converts, you and refer them to The Chief Rabbinate, in Israel. That will likely end their journey, as the Rabbinate essentially stops non Jews from even considering conversion. He has said that he believes in "keeping the DNA of the Jewish people in the Rabbinate."
Spiritual DNA. Jews believe in reincaranation and that the soul chooses it's mother and it's entire life before being re-born into this world. So if your soul is part of that Jewish soul collective it will choose a jewish parent. If your need to become a jew is that strong then they will let you, but they don't want people to convert just to try it out. First step is to tell the person they don't need to convert, there's nothing wrong in not being a jew. And then it's a long process to make sure that the convert actually practices a daily jewish way of life in the long term. It's all or nothing mentality when it comes to converting.
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Thank you so much
Thank you for the information I hope to one day convert to Judaism but first I need to do more research and learn so Hebrew, the only problem I face is that there really isn't a Jewish community where I live.
yes, same for my husband. they will require you to move to a community so right now, it’s learn learn learn, and when you feel ready you will have to uproot.
Id like a source from the Oral Law that states we are to push away at first potential converts.
Yevamot 47a/b
What if a convert goes a little off the derech but does teshuvah and comes back? Is that like being baal teshuvah?
Hi, hope you are well! Good question, once someone converts, they have the same status as every other Jew, so if they go off the derech, yeah they would be a baal teshuvah!!
If they come back, yes. We are only human. Hashem understands and yearns for us to return.
Lovely!!! my wife wanted to convert. i did not encourage nor discourage. well, maybe i discouraged a bit. i wanted her to do it for herself, not for me...she lost interest quickly. we divorce after 6 years. all for the best.
Thank you for sharing, I am sorry about the divorce.
I think the reason for there not being a lot of information about conversion is that you kind of have to dig really deep and search like your life depends on it. Le fum tzara agra, right? The more you make efforts towards something, the more deeply you appreciate it when it becomes a reality
This is one reason why converts are more beloved to Hashem!!!
Hi, thank you for this insightful video! I am just interested in learning and understanding. You said, as a Jew you have spiritual power that, even if you are not aware of it, being a Jew and not following kosher Judaism, will have very negative consequences (at least in the unseen realm?). Did I get that right? If yes, then I assume that this is also the case for all the people born Jewish, that do not follow kosher Judaism? I am aware, that the Tanakh speaks and reports about consequences for the nation of Israel, if they do not follow the Mosaic Law. Is this what you are referring to? Or just part of it? I would really like to understand, what you mean by this and where this concept (apart from the Tanakh, where, as I understood it so far, it is more of a nation thing and especially of the leaders, that are helping the people to either follow G-D, like King Josiah of that are leading them astray to worship idols like King Ahab). Thank you very much! Very best wishes!
This is all a huge discussion! A Jew who doesn’t keep Torah, and let’s say for example, they were never taught about Shabbat or eating kosher food… (so you can’t blame them for not being more observant) they are not held responsible, but to the best of my understanding of Kabbalah and chassidus, there is still a spiritual blemish. As far as in the Torah and the consequences the Jews had… the Jews SAW the sea split, with literal miracles upon miracles, and still they kvetched and wanted to go back to Egypt lol. G-d is not a punishing G-d, He is very good and kind and understanding of our level and environment and questions and doubts we might have. But He also wants us to overcome and do the right thing. And yes, the leaders take a huge responsibility on their shoulders, which is one reason why many rabbis don’t deal with conversions, because of the massive responsibility they have to the people they convert!
Will the community accept a potential convert?
it really depends!
@@JewishEducationatHome As a born Jew, I feel it shouldn’t have to be so difficult for someone who really wants to convert and is willing to learn.
It goes like this:
What do you call a Jewish convert?
A Jew!
So, yes, they will accept the potential convert and take an active interest in making him part of the community.
HOWEVER...
If one's conversion was through Conservative or Reform Judaism, is it NOT recognized by the Orthodox community; the individual will be considered a righteous gentile. They will not read from the bima or count in a minyan.
What happens if someone converts and then leaves at any point?
Once an Orthodox conversion is completed, the person is a Jew, as Jewish as everyone else, and nothing will ever change that. Becoming Jewish means he/she entered an eternal covenant with G-d. This person will always be a Jew. (Though, before the fact, a person is screened for sincerity by the rabbi, and also that they understand the choice they’re making)
Full playlist of conversion to Judaism videos on this channel: th-cam.com/play/PLbDK_KmRn2b6MZ4gg3vsGUlX_AH_AcgIw.html
Great video Chanah. I want to convert from Christianity to Judaism. Watching from London UK 🇬🇧
You made me laugh at the “eat pork again” LOL
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Shalom I am not a Jewish
But I personally think Torah is a true religion of Hashem
I don’t know, but I’m willing to learn.
I stopped eating pork when I found out I had Jewish ancestors. I’m not Jewish because my mom isn’t, but my ancestors were, many of them, and I deeply desire to convert
Do you know which of your ancestors are Jewish? It might be worth looking into the ancestry on your mother’s side!
Again, so very helpful. Thank you!
So glad this was helpful! :)
No idea what this is about, I just watched it because you look so friendly
Thank you so much for sharing I really appreciate it! Once someone is really sincere on converting how do you actually contact a rabbi?
Tell them your name, how long you've been learning about Judaism, and that you want to convert. Then see what they say!
JewishEducationatHome thank you !
It's easy to convert to Judaism, as long as your heart is not what's guiding you.
It's your soul, not your heart. Many have hearts of stone, you know what I mean don't you?
Thank you so much for sharing this video. Will subscribe now 😂
Chana, what about a single person in their late 60’s. is there hope?
YES of course!!!
What if a Masorti Rabbi lies to you and almost practicality slamed a door ?
I am sorry to be blunt, but you move on and find another rabbi.
It's an oral Torah command to discourage 3 times for good reason there's always Noahide if people find it hard to commit to laws for Jews it's still Judaism.
Discouraging someone who wants to convert is not anyone else’s business except the beis din. As a regular community member, it’s our job to just be kind to others and be helpful, not discourage (or encourage!) anyone to convert. :)
@@JewishEducationatHome thing is it's OK to be Noahide, people should really be informed the difference.
@@JewishEducationatHome many think they must convert but it's not the case
@@jasonpurnell4118 Yes, agreed! It’s a very holy and beautiful way to live!
Is it okay if I don't call him HaShem? And, instead, call him "I AM"?
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I know HaShem means "The Name". But I'm not comfortable with saying HaShem considering Shem, son of Noah, is the father of the Semitic people.
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Can I just say "I AM", as God told Moses his name was?
The word Hashem is a bonafide term that was given down by our Sages. We trust they gave us the proper term. Anyone can make up a name and call it G-d, and there’s no end. I understand what you mean about being a word too close to Shem, but maybe you’re overthinking?
@@JewishEducationatHome God said his name is "I AM THAT I AM". OR "I AM". To Moses when he asked him what he should tell Israel his name is. That's why I call Him "I AM".
What is a good source to learn Hebrew? Love the videos! They super informative!
First start with the Alef Beis, and learn the letters. www.chabad.org/library/howto/trainer_cdo/aid/138150/jewish/Aleph-Bet-Trainer.htm#0=1228&1=v27 Thank you so much! :)
Chabad.org has some great resources. www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/4069287/jewish/The-Hebrew-Alphabet.htm
Shalom madam
Can i ask some questions please
yes of course, what is your question?
@@JewishEducationatHome are you from Benjamin tribe jew
Yisrael
Is religion about the people or" The Created"?
I’m not sure I understand the question?
Peace to humans! Essentially what I understand is being Jewish is aspiring to be good for all! Maybe you help only your community to sustain that good will! The essence of every religion is to do good for all..Be good,do good to ourselves and others... nothing is more worthy.....than any religion. I am sure the colour of blood is same for all of us ! May the almighty God guide us and enrich our conscience for the good of all...🙏
Absolutely! As a parent, I love watching my kids help others, give, share, encourage, say nice things to each other…. and I believe it’s the same feeling (though infinitely greater) for G-d when we show care and love to others, and do our part to make the world a kinder place! 😊
Shalom all I Love Jews
I’ve never heard that. Rabbis simply want to make sure that the convert to be is really prepared. Sorry you’re making a blanket statement. Each synagogue and their clergy are welcoming.
where is the ark of the covenant, are the tablets in the ark
Under the Temple Mount, and the tablets are in the ark.
If I was seeking APPROVAL, I would have BEGGED this (or that). It´s my hunch many have liked to be hugged by GOD instead of a community BUT, we (or I) did the things wrong. However, the good thing, it is GOD who ALWAYS has invited ppl to join other people and, if a religious or BELIEF system was needed, HE personally will convict humans to convert, to be transculturalized... and that´s not always His ways.
It took me almost 4 years and I needed to change Country
Yeah, it does sometimes take quite a long time, and sometimes you will have to change where you live if the place isnt ideal for living a Jewish life.
JewishEducationatHome well in my Country it was barely possible to pass ghiur because there is a general close view towards gherim. In Russia I found an Charedi rabbi. It was challenging for the ghiur itself and the language, but I finished the conversion :-)
Because its an enormous responsibility, not an easy transition and a very, VERY SERIOUS spiritual obligation with serious consequences if you dont meet your o obligations to live according to Torah/the rulings/teachings of the Sages .
Yes!! Thank you for sharing this!
Shalom , dear Chana when I always think about religons , I immediately think about Judaism ! Because It is the first religons and the oldest one ! But I heard from a lot of people that if your mother is not jewish , you can not be jewish.... sometime I think I should talk to some rabbi but I'm scared they won't be happy about that ....
There are 2 ways to be a Jew… through a maternal bloodline, or through converting. Some rabbis are more accepting than others….
I know of someone who is in the process of converting for ten years already. He keeps every mitswot he can, he dresses Jewish, he moved to a town with a Jewish community and did lots of studying, but I hear from his son who's my friend, that his rabbi is failing to help completing his conversion process. I suspect the rabbi thinks his intentions aren't pure ore he screwed up somehow because maybe he has a somewhat difficult character.
Thx you beyond words ✌️✌️✌️🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
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Wonder are they many converts to Judaism?
yes, BH!
If you convert which tribe would you be in ? .
Yisrael
Hanna I'm a Christian and I have meny Jewish friends in Toronto and Televiv and The call me the angel of the community my heart is Jewish I know why god loved his ancient people love Israel and it's people
Genesis 12:3!!! May G-d continue to bless you
I got told from the Synagogue, there isn’t much that can be done.
All they suggested was to follow the laws of Noah.
But then they said if you are Jewish let us know.
So they were quite happy to help a member more so.
They are going to have a hard time expanding, so closed door.
I know it can be frustrating….
It's a faith that's founded on ethnic superiority - there isn't any way around it. If you are descended from a particular ethnic group, you are part of God's chosen people, if you aren't, you aren't (according to the Torah).
That isn't to say that the average Jewish person is racist, especially in the US, because many Jewish people just ignore the Torah when it isn't convenient. But the religion itself is clearly and explicitly racist; if you substituted literally any other ethnic group (for example, "White people are God's chosen people") it would be immediately recognized as such.
I can’t change what the Bible says! Yes, the Jewish people are G-d’s Chosen people! Doesn’t mean other people aren’t important or have a special purpose! 😊
These comments are making me anxious lol! I want to convert. I’ve never I’ve so sure of something in my whole life.
Wishing you much success! 😊
@@JewishEducationatHome thank very much ☺️
Because they believe if your not born a Jew but born as a gentile then you should only follow the 7 Noahide Laws and not the Torah in other words all other nations other than Israel only have to follow the 7 Noahide Laws and not Torah 613 laws
Please fast track righteous gers converts now, we need them
Because they dont want people to read the torah and figure out what they think of everyone else.
This is something I am hearing being spread around, and with all due respect, couldn’t be further from the truth! The Talmud is VOLUMES AND VOLUMES, with THOUSANDS of teachings and discussions. One quote out of thousands is easy to misconstrue. I’ll be happy to explain anything that is bothering you, so please feel free to ask. I *might* be able to convince my husband to make a video answering any questions about what you think it says about non-Jews. :)
@JewishEducationatHome Sure, why is there explicit verses in the Talmud rating non-jews as less than human. Why would anything like this exist in a book that would be used in modern day teachings.
Given what some of it says, what proof can be given that anything said is legitimate due to the things it supposedly permits?
Honest and genuine questions.
Also, why does the orthodoxy in Israel think it's okay to spit on Christians?
First, if you can please direct me to the place where it says that about non-Jews? I would be able to better answer if I knew what exactly you’re referencing?
The Torah is eternal, so whether it’s from ancient times or modern, we still follow the Torah.
The only thing I can say is there are crazies in every group… spitting on anyone is disgusting and not okay!!
@JewishEducationatHome baba mezia 24a
Sanhedrin 58b
Baba kamma 37b
Baba kamma 113a
Yebamoth 98a
Abodah zarah 36b
Abodah zarah 22a-22b
Sanhedrin 54b verse 20.
Ive read a lot of biblical and religious texts. This book is by far the most diverse and everyone has a different opinion of the importance of the text.
My trouble is that across all the texts, regardless of author, they seem to have a disdain for non-jews. Which many believe you cannot convert to. I fervently reject the idea anyone is born into a special status.
My contention is not that this is what most people believe. My contention is that like with the Muslim world, there needs to be a reformation that galvanizes the respective religions into one group with an agreed on set of morals.
Interpretations can be different, but discussing and putting into religious law that having sex with 9 year olds has no place whatsoever in any book on the face of this earth. I have my discrepancies with other books, but I will not levy those on you since they're not related to your practices in anyway.
Not one group as in one religion, but one respective community for Muslims, one for jews, one for christians.
I think they can refuse you three times and then they have to accept. Are you speaking of Reform? Orthodox is not so easy. Carole
Not necessarily do they have to accept you after 3 times.
No I guess there are people who should not convert. Very interesting. The Mitzvot are not easy. Carole
I guess my studies have taken me further. It is in the Talmud. Carole@@JewishEducationatHome
And I’ll add that everyone has a special purpose in this world, whether Jewish or not! ❤️
Is the rabbi God ? I have not heard one word about God or salvation?
I completely understand why you would not want converts. But can I suggest a political wing? Or something like it. My husband was a Jew, my son is not considered a Jew, but that is ok and completely understandable. I suppose I am trying in a clumsy way of trying to give you my support and feeling so desperate for you . I am very afraid of the huge Muslim community now numbering 4 million and rising here in the uk.This is not an attempt at division, but a real reaching out.
I understand, and I wish you so many blessings, for safety and security, and for a lasting peace and Messianic world ❤️
Man doesnt decide who gets grafted in to the tribe of Judah. God does.
@That's True. G-d Also Deceids Who gets "de-grafted', so the Real people can be grafted Back in.
Would I have to deny Jesus as the son of God?
YES! There is One G-d, the only Creator of the universe
Yes, believing in Jesus is idolatry for a Jew. A sin far too much to bare!
I love you!!!!
I’m definitely checking out your channel! I’m not dating. Not going to. I have a relationship that is very complicated. I’m doing this for HaShem and myself.
Thank you for the links.
Blessings to you.
Shalom
Edit- sorry
You are describing how I feel. It’s so fantastic. Also I’m emotional about it. ❤
But it does not matter if your husband converts, your children are still Jewish because the mother (you) is Jewish. I am a Lutheran Christian male and unmarried (which I prefer), but if I married a Jewish woman (and Jewish women are beautiful, intelligent, and part of the body of Israel, i.e. "chosen") my children would be Jewish.
In any case, blessings to you, your household and family, and may your TH-cam channel prosper yourself and others.
I want to convert to jew but I don't know how
❤You don't have to convert to Judaism (become spiritually part of the nation of Israel) to be in right standing with G-d. You have two options: Either become a Muslim, or, a Ben Noach. Both believe in the G-d of Israel and defend the prohibition against idolatry (against reducing G-d to the image of a man like what Christians do).
However, I personally would recommend that you become a Ben Noach instead of a Muslim. Because a Ben Noach is under the Rainbow Covenant that was established to Noah after the Flood. The Covenant is for all non-Jews to follow and affirms that the Tanakh, the Hebrew Bible as the inspired written Word of G-d. With Muslims, they believe the Tanakh and Torah have been corrupted, and they follow the Quran. But I still consider them like my brothers and sisters because we still have alot of central tenets in common.
Now, the path of the Ben Noach or Noahide is very straight forward. You just simply live a righteous life to please G-d, and not for any self interest but for G-d's glory.
A Noahide must keep what is called "The 7 Laws of Noah." But its not just 7 laws you keep. But rather its 7 "category" of laws that can exegetically be extracted from the Torah. But for a simple understanding, basically, I would say a Noahide commits to KEEPING ALL THE MORAL LAWS of the Tanakh that applies to non-Jews, and you keep these moral laws to glorify G-d. As well, life is a test to determine your loyalty for G-d.
As well, a Noahide must abstain from keeping those laws given through Moses directly for the Jews - like holy days, sabbaths, civil, and ceremonial laws. A Ben Noach must not imitate a Jew.
And that's basically what a Ben Noach or Noahide does. Its a very straight forward Covenant. And the one who strives always to live righteous for G-d is assured salvation in the World to Come. King David declares the beautiful words in Psalms 103:17-18 -
*"But the mercy of the L-rd is FROM EVERLASTING TO EVERLASTING upon them that reverence Him, and His righteousness unto children's children; to such as keep His covenant, and to those that remember His commandments to do them."*
🙏🏽♥️ Shalom
From a Ben Noach
If you convert to Judaism know that you will be not only part of a community but also a citizen of the nation of Israel. Additionally, your relationships with the family and friends you had before your conversion will be totally different now. You should consider what you may be giving up because there will be no going back. It may even cost you your life as was the case in Pittsburgh when a Temple was attacked.
How can the God of Abraham instill such separation amongst his own children. Where in any familial relationship amongst any species is this same principle visible. I'm curios because I believe Christ was king, he was a Jew but he preached love and inclusion not separation and division. What happened to 400 years of the King James Bible being excluded, odd no?. Btw didn't God say there were Gentiles and Jews so how does Man convert a Man from being a Gentile to a Jew. I know such pessimistic questions from a true believer.
Every single person has a special purpose. Like the human body - each organ, muscle, etc has its own purpose for the full body to function. Same thing with Jews and Gentiles! We each do our special function! We all fulfill our purpose, and that’s not separation, that’s love and acceptance and the beauty of this earthly system! SOMETIMES, a person wants to live with a Jewish purpose, and for that, we have a conversion process. With conversion to Judaism, you're basically moving your soul from one side of Heaven to another side, to have the Jewish connection to G-d. But of course, everyone has a connection to G-d!! :)
Psalm 110.
hello sirs from india ne w delhi i am converting to judaism immediatly
Hebrew Jews are children of Abraham, Issac and Jacob.
So it's very odd that a gentile can convert to become a Jew despite not being ethnically a Hebrew and descendant of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.
It's like converting to be an Arab.
Trans-ethnic .
To be a Jew one must descend from a Hebrew Jew mother.
With all the trans identity politics going on, you can’t just “feel” Jewish, and expect everyone to go along and say you’re a Jew, lol!
Judaism is not an ethnicity like Arab, it’s a COVENANT. There are 2 ways to be part of this covenant… through a maternal bloodline or by a kosher conversion. Jethro, Moses father-in-law converted, Ruth, Obadiah also converted… there are many of our Sages who converted or descended from converts. (Rabbi Akiva, Onkelos…)
Jewish by birth or Jewish by choice? What actually is a Jew? Judaism has a strong ethnic and cultural element to it. Most Jews who live in Israel for example are not religious at all, but they're still Jews, right? It's not all about religious practices or traditions. As far as conversions are concerned, not all Rabbi's agree on what makes for a proper convert. Orthodox Jews don't recognize conversions in the reform on conservative factions. Haredi Jews believe that the state of Israel is an illegitimate sovereign state and its creation is antithetical to the teachings of the Torah. Conservative settler Jews on the other hand believe that by default, Israel is their chosen land. The take away is that being Jewish in whatever iteration is a lot more fun than being a dull catholic or hellfire and brimstone Baptist :)
2 Jews, 3 opinions 🤪
Quality control. That's why.
That's a pretty bad practice, if that's what it is.
You don't discourage ppl by rejecting at first;
Quality control, if that's your premise, is done by, say, natural selection;
I. e.
If 20 ppl convert and 7 fade out, or go back, thats on them, but 13 stayed and flourished.
That 13 carried on the faith and continued to be observant. The 7 that left can not have, essentially, the power to deny or give a bad name, to the others that stayed, just because that 7 did not follow their vows. What a horrible assault on the 13.
Or even, likewise, if the numbers were switched-
If 7 stayed, out of that 20.
M. IL. ✡
Judaism is not about quantity, and its not a legal right. Its a privilege. The Jewish people are like 1 body, and all who are part of this body need to be doing their part. When even 1 Jew is not doing their part, it affects the entire nation. :)
@@JewishEducationatHome
Insightful.
Powerful. Thank you.
Eloquent.
M. IL.
Jew is a race. Judaism is a religion. Yes, you can convert to Judaism that doesn't make you a jew. People are confused in this issue. Plus converting how much makes you authentic? so that Rabbis discourage conversion. Prodominant rabbis are calling stick to your religion. For example, in Israeli society, especially IDF, some non-Jewish people call themself Jewish.! IDF funeral process rabbis refuse to go to their religious burial. Mostly Russian ethnicity falsely claims to be Jewish. The seeing is believing! They are not at all Jewish race. In short: you have to respect their religious boundaries. If you want to serve Hashem (G.D) you don't need to be converted.
Please stop this. It's doesn't even make sense anymore. Stop bringing Zionists logic to Judaism.
Jew is a religion and nothing more. Anyone can be Jew. God Called Abraham to serve him, and wanted others to serve him.
It's a Religion stop making it a Race or Ethnicity.
When she says once you are a Jew, you always be a Jew. That's actually true. Because if you read the Bible, it's instructed that if one wants to leave his faith it should be Killed. This shows that once you are in, you are in. But in modern world, you don't kill people for leaving a religion.
I think what this person is talking about are people who call themselves Jews, but they’re just not, maybe because the conversion was not kosher or because the mother was not Jewish. Also with identity politics in the US, this is becoming more of a problem. And 100%, the Jewish covenant with G-d is eternal! Thank you for commenting, and Shabbat shalom! 😊
Nobody should convert before reading and fully understanding the Talmud. Go into this with your mind and eyes fully open.
If you convert you can also kiss Shell fish good bye no gills
And all those food stands at the mall with all those good smells lol
Your husband is a lucky Man for marrying you.
you don't need a rabbi to follow law
@sheiladang11. Perhaps not.... But there is the Meaning of the Law that at times would not be clear or has a meaning Not immediately understood, and Why it is so etc etc.....and So, a Rabbi can be quite helpful. He, or She depending on the community can help Recommend reading material, or a group.
How do you put on Totafot? How do you slaughter cattle and sheep to ensure they are kosher? What species of fruit do you wave on Succot? I have literally about hundred thousand more questions like that, but I'll wait to see if you can answer those 3
Theology is too demanding. Glad I am a atheist.