How To Attract A Woman Without Saying A Word

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  • Today I delve into the subtle art of attracting women without uttering a single word. Discover the secrets of non-verbal communication that will magnetize the object of your affection towards you effortlessly. From confident body language to irresistible eye contact, learn the techniques that speak volumes without making a sound. Whether you're shy or outgoing, this video unlocks the keys to silent charisma that will leave a lasting impression. Tune in and embark on your journey to becoming a silent seducer today!
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  • @stacyjaye6350
    @stacyjaye6350 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    As a woman who is part of the Men's Rights movement, working to change the custody and child support laws, and who advocates for men's health care awareness, it's so nice to know I'm not the only one out there! Straight men are my absolute favorite group of people, they don't get their due. Sending you peace and love and continued success from Oklahoma 👍😍💖😘

    • @panchopistola8298
      @panchopistola8298 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sarah is a fake men’s rights activist . She is still a 304

    • @jakeblankenship1408
      @jakeblankenship1408 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fellow Okie here - good to see us well represented online! My brother and I were talking a week or so ago about how our entire life (I'm early 40s, he's early 50s) men in ads and TV have consistently, almost exclusively, been portrayed as dimwitted, helpless, uninformed, emotionally immature, easily manipulated rubes who, without women, simply could not function in society. In other words, just unfuckable losers. Up until about a decade ago, it was always played for laughs, "Oh that poor clueless man!" Now, it's portrayed as harmful, dangerous, and even evil. Truly, the only acceptable segment of the population that can be safely maligned; straight men.

    • @curtis8906
      @curtis8906 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      God Bless You.. 😊

    • @mrb6916
      @mrb6916 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you Stacy 😊

    • @OregonDARRYL
      @OregonDARRYL หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank You!

  • @paulschoonover2084
    @paulschoonover2084 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    When women come up to me, it's usually to get something off the top shelf at the grocery store

    • @heshy14
      @heshy14 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same here.

    • @thecadman68
      @thecadman68 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Why are you not seeing the signs or taking advantage of that opportunity? Yes, sometimes that is all they want from you, but often, if a woman approached you for help, they are really hoping you will have the balls to engage with her. In high school, I used to approach all girls I thought were cute and if I got rejected I just moved on. It was a sort of game. Why have men become so afraid of a “no thanks”? I don’t see women out in public throwing drinks in men’s faces like in Hollywood. That’s fake.

    • @no_more_free_nicks
      @no_more_free_nicks หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thecadman68 Good one.

    • @mkm44
      @mkm44 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Me too, but they usually old ladies.😂😂

    • @Sarahdawnmoore002
      @Sarahdawnmoore002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up to the above name and follow the instructions...

  • @mikebell2750
    @mikebell2750 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    The easiest way to deal/talk to a woman is to simply realize that she is “just a person,” she has flaws,she has insecurities and no matter how attractive she may appear, she really isn’t much different than you. Putting anyone on a pedestal, is a huge mistake, because you have already put them out of reach…

    • @RobertSmith-cp1is
      @RobertSmith-cp1is หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts

    • @Sarahdawnmoore002
      @Sarahdawnmoore002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up to the above name and follow the instructions...

    • @DaRyteJuan
      @DaRyteJuan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What’s even weirder is when you’ve put someone on a pedestal and she sexually molests you.
      It’s kind of impossible to make sense of. Why would a woman do that? Just to humiliate you for thinking well of her, attractive even?

    • @calvinfatman7918
      @calvinfatman7918 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Just imagine her having diarrhea.

  • @richmoreno9938
    @richmoreno9938 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Live your life and do things that you love. Be in it for yourself and don’t worry about attracting women.

    • @rationalthinker9181
      @rationalthinker9181 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I agree

    • @Mrbfgray
      @Mrbfgray 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Don't *worry* about it, just do it.

  • @jamesrgriffinjr8282
    @jamesrgriffinjr8282 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Welcome back, Sarah. love the background, and you look happy. 🫂🙃

  • @tompchromedome
    @tompchromedome หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    In Australia in the mid 1980s, I worked with an American fella who had read in a Psychology magazine that " If you directly asked 10 women for sex, statically 1.8 would say yes" I think the criteria was you had to be on first name terms .
    As I found out later, he had asked every woman in our engineering company for a root as we say in Oz.
    I do not know how successful he was but over time all the woman talking amongst themselves realised he had put the word on all of them. Oh dear wasn't he in the bad books and was ignored by them all to the point that he left the company.
    Again this is the problem with women, nobody knows what they want , they don't know what they want as everything is fluid depending on the circumstances, the phases of the moon or what the queen bee of the group decides depending on what kind of day she has had , who knows, nobody .
    The plethora of these types of advise shows only confirms this.
    I found the best thing was "speed dating" everyone who shows up is in the game for a shag and if you "match" you are of the a good start.
    I am amazed it is not more popular.
    There is a business opportunely from me free of charge.

    • @beezle1976
      @beezle1976 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thats not really true at all. If a woman is really into a guy she's abundantly clear with what she wants. If she's iffy and wishy-washy its because she doesnt know how she feels about you. Its not exactly rocket science. All people regardless of gender are like this.
      Men can also be wishy washy and their moods can change with the wind as well.
      Sounds like you're doing your best to convince yourself of what you've proposed to a point its become self fulfilling, but its really pretty simple.
      If a woman is into you they'll generally fall into their feminine selves and that's often a little submissive and wanting the man to be a man. It's not about domination though, its about primal male/female instincts.

  • @dstevens7614
    @dstevens7614 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As a young man all these fears happened. Then I worked for the National Park Service in a uniform. 🤔. Beautiful Women ,actors and actresses would approach me and start a conversation. 😳. After many of those I started to figure it out. Be Nice / Polite ,maintain eye contact and answer the question. Some of the jobs were on nude bathing beach, so act the same😮. JMO.

  • @rickiecloyd3937
    @rickiecloyd3937 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this new format and the sound is awesome and so are you

  • @OregonDARRYL
    @OregonDARRYL หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You, Sarah are SO appreciated for your advice, kindness and inspiring bravery. Much respect for you, Lady.

  • @jp34604
    @jp34604 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great advice great format great video great everything thank you

  • @richardcipollone7069
    @richardcipollone7069 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for sharing a vulnerable moment, Sarah Dawn. It is important for men to understand that even attractive women like yourself, still get rejected. I believe a lot of men would find this unfathomable, but we also need to learn rejection is experienced by women as well. This makes us all human.

  • @JoeJ-8282
    @JoeJ-8282 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I don't EVER put ANY woman "above" me or on a "pedestal", and I definitely know my true and complete worth, I just don't appreciate the instant and automatic, totally negative attitudes towards men in general that the mass majority of modern women have nowadays, like you're automatically considered to be just an "annoying nuisance" to her, just for simply LOOKING at her, smiling at her, or God forbid, trying to strike up a conversation with her!...
    I've never gotten ANY woman to be interested in talking with me in my entire Life, and I'm already 50, and I've attempted to talk to so many girls and women over the years, with absolutely ZERO positive outcomes, that now I've pretty much just totally given up on women altogether and just went completely MGTOW, focusing mostly on my own personal hobbies and interests and stuff that gives me total Peace and happiness... Modern women definitely do NOT do that, LOL!

  • @Snarge22
    @Snarge22 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    "...women are paying more attention to a man's delivery or tone...."
    Honestly, for both sexes, it's why we can't remember someone's name when we first meet them. It's all visual, manner, and tone. ....oh well. ;-)

  • @dquanissavage6287
    @dquanissavage6287 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sarah Dawn Moore Such A Awesome Video Today!!💎❤️🙏

  • @thecadman68
    @thecadman68 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I call it “pre-approach connection” Be truly confident in your self worth and take the approach of just enjoying interactions with EVERYONE you engage with regardless of gender, etc. and you will have very confident body language and demeanor. Women will throw out the “I’m willing for you to talk to me” signs and if you know what to look for and how to smile/smirk at her, the connection has already started BEFORE a word is spoken. An average looking confident man is way more attractive to women than an insecure good looking one.

  • @bullpups
    @bullpups หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Getting a woman is easy, keeping one happy is impossible.

  • @PulseCodeModulate
    @PulseCodeModulate หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    100% true. Remember when you were five years old, how naturally you interacted with the girls? SLOW down, be deliberate and fluid with your body movements and speech and think outcome independence. The woman has already sized you up from across the room- if she is glancing your way walk over and say "Hi." Jeffrey Z in SC

    • @Sarahdawnmoore002
      @Sarahdawnmoore002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up to the above name and follow the instructions...

    • @Sarahdawnmoore002
      @Sarahdawnmoore002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up to the above name and follow the instructions...

  • @CTree.Po.
    @CTree.Po. หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thank you for the reminder, it's given me strength.

  • @ZachAJ77
    @ZachAJ77 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This is harder than it sounds. You can feel extremely confident in yourself annd your worth, but not in your ability to interest women. And unfortunately for men, theres no feedback mechanism to help you improve. It isnt like training for a sport with a coach who guides you on what you did wrong -- instead, you just get negative reaction after negative reaction, but no clue on how to change it.

  • @gregmcdonell6773
    @gregmcdonell6773 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sarah Dawn , Having been wounded in the throat during the war I have just recently lost my voice and am unable to speak . I have never suffered from shyness in any situation and have always sought out and openly engaged the opposite sex , until now. I am having to recreate my " new " self and your content has provided an amazing incite into crafting a strategy for communication . Hope springs anew , Thank you , and keep it up .

  • @Rick2012C
    @Rick2012C หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Very high quality microphone, your voice has such a easy to listen range!

    • @rumblethis2023
      @rumblethis2023 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

    • @GregoryTheGr8ster
      @GregoryTheGr8ster หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, her voice is so smooth and soothing.

  • @backyardrailroader
    @backyardrailroader หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Honestly, I have no problem coming up to a woman to chat, dance, and interact with her.
    I just do not expect for any woman to consider me anymore than a friend, aquaintance, or a dance partner.
    I had Bell's Palsy on the left side of my face and is still affects my facial features.
    I hope for the best and expect nothing.

    • @thecadman68
      @thecadman68 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I bet you do way better than most men out there. I take the same approach and if it leads to more, great, if not, I might have a new friend or at least a decent one time interaction with someone.

    • @davecostello560
      @davecostello560 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think expecting nothing gives you a freedom, as you have no ulterior motive and you are staying in the present moment, which gives you confidence.
      Btw, have you considered a series of acupuncture sessions for your Bell's?

    • @backyardrailroader
      @backyardrailroader หลายเดือนก่อน

      No, I have not consider acupuncture.

  • @stevenpurdy2235
    @stevenpurdy2235 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    C O N F I D E N C E

    • @Sarahdawnmoore002
      @Sarahdawnmoore002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up to the above name and follow the instructions...

    • @Mrbfgray
      @Mrbfgray 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Confidence must be EARNED, only dumb women fall for fakery and bluster. Experience and tackling difficult challenges, facing fears, getting out of comfort zones and realizing that failure is just a step toward success.

  • @royhenley2396
    @royhenley2396 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good advice. Be flexible and enjoy situations. You can spot someone who's not sincere and/or has ulterior motives, women are experts at it. Even then, if a woman gives you a go signal, it's only an invitation to say hi. You're not going to talk her into anything that's not her idea already. So be cool and let it happen, or wait for something else.

  • @glennoropeza3545
    @glennoropeza3545 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Sarah Dawn!

  • @tangosierra9649
    @tangosierra9649 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great advice from a very grounded and beautiful woman. My only comment with respect to all of the social anxiety we see these days, especially between the opposite camps, is that we mustn't forget to give due credit to our lovely, elite social engineer masters. They’ve made absolutely sure that being able to build a healthy mental mindset is nearly impossible. “Shadow work” with yourself is key

  • @Gorbi1985
    @Gorbi1985 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Hey girl, I'm married to my truck, but I would consider cheating on it with you." XD

    • @imdjc4
      @imdjc4 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yup....car f**ker here. She goes everywhere I want to go. I win every argument. But occasionally...she has some bad gas.

  • @QXZJX
    @QXZJX 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sarah , you have such a wonderful voice❤

    • @johnmccree8941
      @johnmccree8941 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah... voice that supposedly knows it all.
      Tell you it's dark but it's damn sure daylight.
      Humor always gets me friendly with the women.

  • @williamleblanc7537
    @williamleblanc7537 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Sara, now the dots all connect when you say you were a Tomboy. I know longer have to wonder how a lady can be so cool. A Tomboy that’s still a big time Girly Girl is a deadly combination to single men who plan on staying that way😉.

  • @boogiejones3899
    @boogiejones3899 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Simp city out there…next door neighbors with Trauma Bond city & Gaslight city😂🤷🏽‍♂️✌🏽

    • @panchopistola8298
      @panchopistola8298 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And Ridden hard and out away wet city

    • @thegrimharvest
      @thegrimharvest หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Take me down to the gaslight / (trauma bond) city, where you think it's fine, as I treat you shitty!"

    • @troyvan6952
      @troyvan6952 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LoL! Beautiful man ​@@thegrimharvest

  • @EduardoASaad
    @EduardoASaad หลายเดือนก่อน

    Inner work
    And being at ease with myself first
    Not let her take my power away
    Thank you for this content
    Bests!
    E

  • @briansaulnier8456
    @briansaulnier8456 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks!

  • @stevengraham5454
    @stevengraham5454 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love and best wishes sarah dawn

  • @waterson1955za
    @waterson1955za 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Much appreciated 👏 🎉❤

  • @PJ-uu4cp
    @PJ-uu4cp หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another video with great insights. I like what you said about "testing for interest" in a carefree way. I will try this! btw...I think you meant to say "implore" instead of "employ". Maybe you combined "encourage" with "implore" :)

  • @mikecarroll5853
    @mikecarroll5853 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Rejection is the stepping stones to finding the one. Letting someone know you see them is not creepy. Less is more and a smile is all you need. Timing is everything. Rebounds are the best score.

    • @Sarahdawnmoore002
      @Sarahdawnmoore002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Look up to the above name and follow the instructions...

    • @carlodonnell146
      @carlodonnell146 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True...a man has to put his pride on the line all the time...while the female keeps hers intact...

    • @DarkKhagan
      @DarkKhagan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@carlodonnell146
      You just hit a proverbial nerve...switch and make her have to work at making you keep your interest! 😎

    • @Mrbfgray
      @Mrbfgray 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Failure a step toward success.

  • @aspiringprogrammer2820
    @aspiringprogrammer2820 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    Hit the gym,be tall and look rich 🤑

    • @heshy14
      @heshy14 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You better be more than “look” rich 😉

    • @simonac688.
      @simonac688. หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣😂🤣

    • @CommodoreN64
      @CommodoreN64 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@heshy14only if you want to keep her.

    • @heshy14
      @heshy14 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@CommodoreN64 I can see that.

    • @Adiscretefirm
      @Adiscretefirm หลายเดือนก่อน

      I guess 1 out of 3 won't cut it?

  • @peternewman7940
    @peternewman7940 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just brilliant - such a needed message. Just like to say that dancing is good because the whole culture is for guys to go up and ask. So as a guy you get used to approaching a lot of women. And its no big deal - its a dance. Further if you work on the steps that alone will build your confidence and women sense it. Having some common activity - especially an hour or so a week - is huge - way easier than trying to initate something in a bar.

  • @peterhaeberlin7479
    @peterhaeberlin7479 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like your channel! Always good advice!
    Fun fact out of context: In Europe we are always naked in saunas. I never saw andbody wearing anything in a sauna, exceot the towel to sit on.

  • @imhatchmantoo
    @imhatchmantoo 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh she got an SM7 finally, frickin sweet. The Shure SM7 is excellent for death metal vocals. You're gonna do great

  • @sidneymitchley9827
    @sidneymitchley9827 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your work sister your a beautiful soul thank you for your help . I want to make small changes

  • @briansaulnier8456
    @briansaulnier8456 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Haha it's a marathon! Wear your happy, it's very cool.

  • @Golden_Ghoul
    @Golden_Ghoul หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    have money.

    • @TB-ModelRR
      @TB-ModelRR หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😆 at that point, you're renting a woman.

    • @isaaclosh8082
      @isaaclosh8082 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I pull bitches all the time and they have no idea what my money situation is

  • @HELMET007-jy3oh
    @HELMET007-jy3oh หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    SIMPLE,SHOW THEM STACKS OF 100 DOLLAR BILlLS.

  • @WillN2Go1
    @WillN2Go1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like talking to anyone and everyone. Good practice. How can I engage with this person? Maybe put a smile on their face. Women have noticed and commented on this. It's a lot easier to speak to someone you're attracted to if you've just had friendly chats with other people. Speaking to the next person for me is like continuing a conversation that's already started.
    The best is to just ask a question and listen to the answer. Amazing what you find out. Just interviewing people at a computer trade show I asked another question or two to a woman, and she started telling me about exchanging letters with a French film director for years. And what did you write about? She could've published those letters. What you want to know is not the first or the second questions to ask, but what the third, fourth and fifth questions should be.

  • @friedmule5403
    @friedmule5403 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like your video, I may use it in another way than most:-)
    I use it to find out how to best stop women from becoming interested in me. My issue is that women mistake my "don't give a sh*t" as having confidence, while I really don't give a sh*t about what they think and preferrers them to just bother somebody else.
    I have listened to your advice, and I am doing my best to reverse them. No more suit and tie, no more just talk to a woman and all in all has it done, so I most of the time get ignored by women and sometimes gets women to move away. So thanks:-)

  • @adbraham
    @adbraham หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your stuff btw. I think the internet dating has, to some extent at least, relegated walking up to women in bars obsolete, at least partially. I have a suggestion for you Sarah, why not cover how to be attractive by text/DM/what ever; how to write an enticing and attractive profile on a dating site. Apologies if you’ve already done this!😉 Keep up the good work!

  • @lostinmo9644
    @lostinmo9644 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen sister!

  • @adbraham
    @adbraham หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also how to handle the thread of messages, back and forth, in such a way as to maximise the chances of a face-to-face opportunity

  • @benjaminowen9428
    @benjaminowen9428 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've gone up to a lot of strange women.. my brain tells me to go for it

  • @mycanadianlifestyle
    @mycanadianlifestyle หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did you get to watch the movie or read the book of 'The Time Travelers Wife'? It contains a unique relationship aspect to observe. One person ages but the other doesn't.

  • @1977Timp
    @1977Timp 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's not social anxiety..
    It's simply not a good feeling to be constantly rejected..

  • @jakemiles422
    @jakemiles422 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sarah you are so gorgeous.

  • @waterson1955za
    @waterson1955za 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank ✌️ you ✌️ 😘 ❤️ ❤❤

  • @ericsonhazeltine5064
    @ericsonhazeltine5064 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Need this info because as soon as I talk they lose interest.

  • @highlanderknight
    @highlanderknight หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honestly, I assume (just by chance) that the first thing I will say, or message if on a dating app, will fall flat no matter how genuine or interested I am. Have to try although I don't get the chance often. And with one exception recently, I have been correct, they fall flat. That one exception was when I said I was 'Old Fashioned' as she hoped to meet a man who was. My mistake, I thought that meant being polite and chivalrous like a gentleman. Silly me, I later learned her meaning for 'Old Fashioned" was that she can quit work and stay at home so I can support her.
    Still have to try and practice no matter how high your failure rate.

  • @zenon_kokon
    @zenon_kokon หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great content here. If only frustrated guys could listen instead of bitching around

  • @jjhantsch8647
    @jjhantsch8647 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In past years I did advise guys and I told them to talk to ten other women before talking to the one he was really interested in. Try your lines out on those ten eligible women and then the one you are really interested in. You'll feel the confidence build.

    • @jjhantsch8647
      @jjhantsch8647 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It also helps if you imagine ten lines that will fail miserably and laugh at those first.

  • @stevenvereen6948
    @stevenvereen6948 หลายเดือนก่อน

    All you have to do to be more interesting to a woman. Is after the first question? "Listen" to what she says, use that answer to initiate a Potential conversation it's really that simple.
    Slow down and think before you talk, Slow down..
    Thanks Sarah......❤

  • @KevinWilliams-dy1sm
    @KevinWilliams-dy1sm หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sarah, need advice - the lady broke up bf of 3yrs. We connect on every level but she can’t commit now.
    What can I do?

  • @jimmyg3855
    @jimmyg3855 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can’t fake it! You need to gain it!

  • @brianthompson3060
    @brianthompson3060 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are such a amazing looking woman

  • @bjorkstrand7773
    @bjorkstrand7773 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    run

  • @Steve24527
    @Steve24527 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was confident I was going to gym I asked personal trainer out and she said yes but unfortunately there was nothing there I then developed a crush on another girl at gym that had everything I wanted but when I asked her out she said sorry she has a boyfriend and this crushed me because I really fell for her ie kept thinking about her! Anyway that was 7 months ago and she now totally ignores me when she’s at gym which hasn’t helped with regaining my confidence back

    • @troyvan6952
      @troyvan6952 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are you letting some inattentive woman define the situation?
      Move on.... it's not like you're never going to meet another.
      If she's ignoring you, just ignore her back.. it's now totally behind you.
      Have mental strength.

  • @coomodus2592
    @coomodus2592 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Drop some $100’s on accident

    • @DaRyteJuan
      @DaRyteJuan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If you want to be seen as a broken ATM machine. Sure.

  • @johnedgar7956
    @johnedgar7956 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If I may, I don't think it's fear of rejection so much as it is a very real fear of vicious and humiliating mockery, especially in a public place like a bar. I'd rather take a beating than ever endure that again, and your odds of being treated thus are scary.

    • @thecadman68
      @thecadman68 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Interesting, I had a similar occurrence to me once when I was 15. I didn’t let it bring me down. Maybe I was just too stupid to let it. I never see that as an adult out in public.

  • @fringemajority8805
    @fringemajority8805 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Have purpose, be comfortable and confident...they will flock to that energy.

  • @srbaruchi
    @srbaruchi หลายเดือนก่อน

    I find that if I can approach with some humor, fine; however, often I approach with just a comment or question. Within seconds, I get a feel if the woman is someone interested and willing to engage. It is surprising how READY some people are to step outside their bubble. I speak Spanish, so an easy approach to anyone looking latina (the Indians sometimes fool me), or with a Hispanic accent, is: "Hablas espanol?" If so, I'll say, in Spanish, "Oh, I love to practice my Spanish!" (which is very true), and we are off to the races.

  • @jasonfitzpatrick414
    @jasonfitzpatrick414 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks. I'm working on this. Beautiful women make me nervous. They are just the same as me, feelings, likes, and dislikes. The beautiful woman I want is slowly ebbing away from me. It makes me sad. I'm rethinking my entire life and the way I live.

  • @allenshepard7992
    @allenshepard7992 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Comment: Men need a deep voice. Women seem to like that.
    Question: Man bun. IMO it is a turn off but I could be wrong.
    Magic tip: Be yourself. People are like puzzle pieces - only way more complicated. It takes time to find the right matching piece even if they all look similar.

  • @MichaelDHaines
    @MichaelDHaines 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have cerebral palsy, and myself limiting beliefs are at an all time low. I'm in a wheelchair and my speech is slurred. How can I get around this and attract my the love of my life?

  • @spencerwhite4056
    @spencerwhite4056 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have trouble watching her videos because The sound is choppy, and every time she pauses it cuts off the first couple of words of her next sentence. This happening to anybody else?

  • @LeoR4U
    @LeoR4U หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey guys, forget about the pick-up line. Just say: “Hi, what’s your name? I’m …”
    It works in 8 out of 10 times. At least in my experience. Just be yourself and don’t overthink.

  • @xzeke666x
    @xzeke666x หลายเดือนก่อน

    my thought on that "one line" that will work is that how would that work when all women arent the same so to say, same as all men arent the same so there isnt one thing that would work on all men.

  • @jimgraf2450
    @jimgraf2450 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmm...I miss the red sheet on the wall! 😮😅

  • @isaaclosh8082
    @isaaclosh8082 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Women come up to me all the time, passing on sidewalks they look into my eyes and smile and say hello: you have to be welcoming and safe for them to be vulnerable. They can sense that vibe in 5 seconds. Woman want to connect but there’s fear. Take away that fear and give them “permission” that they won’t be hurt being vulnerable and taking risks

  • @katywrightgallery6523
    @katywrightgallery6523 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just got a message claiming to be Sarah, saying "I wanna talk to you privately" (all in bold type, btw) ... heads up, fyi.

  • @jimmyg3855
    @jimmyg3855 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I say hello to everyone who walks in the sauna and it’s awesome we have great conversations if I were single it would be easy to start a potential friendship.

  • @bryanhull7885
    @bryanhull7885 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Why don't women just come out and ask men out. That would be get. Men don't understand women at all.

    • @natsudia4265
      @natsudia4265 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Afraid of fr rejection this s is why!!

    • @rogerbritus9378
      @rogerbritus9378 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They do, believe me. You just have to impress them enough. That takes confidence, looks, and signs of wealth.

    • @thecadman68
      @thecadman68 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@natsudia4265true, but more afraid of looking easy. Unfortunately, men are the ones who are afraid of rejection. It didn’t used to be that way. Very sad.

    • @grzegorzplak5751
      @grzegorzplak5751 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Believe me they do. They don't ask you out. They ask other men out.

    • @trigcat3107
      @trigcat3107 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Asking someone out actually changes the relationship dynamics, she become pursuer and she'd have to do more effort to get less from him, also there's chance of rejection and girls don't like getting rejected. Girls would rather be with 4/10 than ask out a 7/10 man. Its also a confidence issue

  • @user-ws9mp9rq5m
    @user-ws9mp9rq5m หลายเดือนก่อน

    best advice I’ve ever heard. was just introduce yourself.ask her name. go from there. walk away politely if she goes all feminist on you. if she’s a lesbian, congratulate ndy walk away

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have question for you over affairs.
    what type of affair would be i am girl who like to text and meeting up and holding hands and kissing and hugging and watching films without never never having no sex? what type of affair would it be?
    1 emotional affair
    2 just emotional and physical Affair without having no no no sex?
    What option is it.
    2 I have question can i have affair without having no sex
    Ps can you answer my question with yes or no and what options it is .

  • @user-ux8yj7lf8n
    @user-ux8yj7lf8n หลายเดือนก่อน

    Confidence and not caring about the outcome.

  • @aaronhemry4841
    @aaronhemry4841 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So what you’re saying is get more into the Word & pursue the heart of my Heavenly Father & the healing from my Lord & savior Jesus. I can do that

  • @CommentorX
    @CommentorX หลายเดือนก่อน

    On attraction, I have just one thing to say:

  • @robjbowen
    @robjbowen หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    At some point I'll have to say something ----- then it all ends.......

  • @Ike.V
    @Ike.V 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think it is a fantasy for women, in general and present day especially, to have men approach them and not be intimidated but honestly it's not worth it to just approach a women at a bar or out in public.
    It's not really even the fear of rejection for me. It's more that I'd rather not pump up their ego and give them free validation.
    They wouldn't have any intention of sleeping with me anyway, so it'll just make me seem needy and wanting of something.
    If she doesn't say something first, it's probably going to end in like 5 seconds when she starts thinking "This guy wants to sleep with me".
    Like sure, but since the only think I know about this new person is that I like the way that they look.
    We have all been told that "only wanting one thing" is unacceptable. Women tend to like to pretend that they don't even like sex, when talking to me, but will instadrop their pants for some other dude. I'll just let them and continue with my life.

  • @VEttariPEPC
    @VEttariPEPC หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Beautiful Face And Beautiful Voice

  • @Nabruj7
    @Nabruj7 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you look handsome, somewhat rich, a job, , built-in confidence ,then you don’t need to do much.
    Women will approach you.
    A doctor with a house and Mercedes and got it all-together is what women want. I know first hand.
    My girlfriend got picked up in her favorite bar by this guy.
    So much for love, right?
    Of course when • you open your mouth you tell the world who you are and apparently HE scooped her up.

  • @simonac688.
    @simonac688. หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Being Attractive no 1 : dont try to be anything but yourself & well mannered and dont look too much guys Woman arent Cars or objects give them respect and shut down that litlle voice in your head and be nice...⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @Golden_Ghoul
      @Golden_Ghoul หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      that still doesn't work. Fake it till you make it does

    • @teckard8202
      @teckard8202 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@Golden_Ghoul two things can be true at once. Its a matter on what kind of woman you are talking to

  • @curtis8906
    @curtis8906 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍👍

  • @user-my6ss4mz4l
    @user-my6ss4mz4l หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Simple, just open your wallet and have a bunch of C notes inside

  • @Trifler500
    @Trifler500 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to become platonic friends with a very attractive woman in college in order to get accustomed enough to talking while turned on to look her in the eye and not stammer.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Who are these dudes who have never been in a relationship? Most men who’ve ever been in a relationship usually end up deeply traumatized and need years of therapy and/or introspection to get over it.
    The kind of behavior you’re describing is like someone from high school who’s too afraid to ask Lisa to the senior prom.

  • @ironclad452
    @ironclad452 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Have money
    Don't express emotions
    Validate their entire existence

    • @JedEkert
      @JedEkert หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Perfect, simplicity, to capture a low quality 304. Is there any good women that value a sincere heart over all else? I'll wait.

    • @mdnz5700
      @mdnz5700 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@JedEkert amen to that!

  • @thegrimharvest
    @thegrimharvest หลายเดือนก่อน

    Be yourself. But be batman. But be yourself.

  • @elosogonzalez8739
    @elosogonzalez8739 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does it help to be famous; OK, Somewhat famous?😊

  • @swanee9414
    @swanee9414 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Talk to women as if they were just regular people because most of them are...and the ones that aren't, well, no big loss.

  • @vansyckel
    @vansyckel หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good Lord…Why in the world would a Man jump through hoops to talk to a Woman. If she has an attitude or is stand offish when you are just being polite or friendly then…”NEXT”. Talking to a Woman doesn’t need to be a project or a job.

  • @macbaar6073
    @macbaar6073 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    do the neandertaler....

  • @kd1872
    @kd1872 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was working as a vender at the farmers market this morning. It was raining and women were coming in rained on and wet. I was asking them why they were sweating so much. Some got asked "was it because of me?" It was fun. Asking them if they were wet because of me, would be too far, what do you think?