Fixing the Family

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  • @theenergyisoff
    @theenergyisoff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    Whew four children, at 22, is a lot of work and financial responsibility.

    • @deuceswild6350
      @deuceswild6350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      High sex drive or poor choice in men. But I hope she gets her things together.

    • @dionned.6176
      @dionned.6176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@deuceswild6350 both

    • @randymontano8803
      @randymontano8803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Financial responsibility for the tax payers

    • @dadabg8747
      @dadabg8747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's why she'll never leave dude.... 😂 😂 😂

    • @TooMuchSauce_HQ
      @TooMuchSauce_HQ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@deuceswild6350 wow. You do know it takes two people to create a child right?

  • @prettyinscrubs_rn4883
    @prettyinscrubs_rn4883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +581

    She really seems like a sweet girl but she gotta slow down. 22, 4 kids and she’s been married and divorced already?! Sheesh. Wish them all the best though, they both have some maturing to do for those babies.

    • @jennzifur
      @jennzifur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Girl, yes. She has more than enough to occupy her free time (if there is such a thing for her now lol).

    • @kevinknox1239
      @kevinknox1239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's her fault I guest they don't make birth control where they live

    • @DirkDigglerN757
      @DirkDigglerN757 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Preach queen!

    • @Utriedit215
      @Utriedit215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Girl she had kids with her husband it didn't work out and she got divorced I'm pretty sure your mama got a bunch of kids and ain't never been married and you bout to follow in her footsteps let that girl live the way she want to at least she ain't out here having 5 kids with five baby daddies

    • @potentspirit3096
      @potentspirit3096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Starts with the father. No father figure to teach and be a woman’s first love in a Man. I guarantee her father was a bum who wasn’t involved in her life. I truly feel for her because we all have so much potential to explore within ourselves and she seems far away from believing that. Never too late to begin

  • @SassyLibra2
    @SassyLibra2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +382

    She’s a beautiful young woman. She reminds me of my mom. She was married with 4 children by the age of 21, It was financial and stressful. My mom left my dad for his multiple adulterous affairs. My dad attempted to murder my mom, committed suicide. My mom survived but was paralyzed with a spinal cord injury from the attack. We children always had everything we needed, and I thank God she knew how to manage her finances. 🙏🏾👏🏾

    • @My2lovess
      @My2lovess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      God Bless!

    • @shannonmarieh.794
      @shannonmarieh.794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Bless you

    • @farahvilme
      @farahvilme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thank you for sharing god bless...

    • @designerkikiTV
      @designerkikiTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow God bless you and your family

    • @janetmccoy7945
      @janetmccoy7945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I’m so sorry to hear what how your mother suffered.

  • @andreawalker1104
    @andreawalker1104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    ain’t no way ima drive to another state to meet a man & i got 3 kids already & divorced 🥴🥴

    • @beecher127
      @beecher127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She got a decent man tho! Do you?

    • @andreawalker1104
      @andreawalker1104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@beecher127 i do ! one i didn’t have to drive to a whole different state for & he keeps me & our child well taken care of 🥰🥰🥰

    • @andreawalker1104
      @andreawalker1104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@beecher127 & he can’t be too decent if he denied his namesake even belonging to him . mine never questioned if his child was his love

    • @lKINIGIHITOIN
      @lKINIGIHITOIN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They stay on the states line/border. The cities they're from in ALABAMA are no more than 30 miles from COLUMBUS GEORGIA.

    • @andreawalker1104
      @andreawalker1104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lKINIGIHITOIN i live in ga & i said what i said 🤣🤣🤣

  • @toyatierra3034
    @toyatierra3034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    I'm 32 with 3 kids and it's not always easy. I couldn't imagine being 22 with 4. I hope she focus on her and the kids and build something for herself💙

    • @lisai2110
      @lisai2110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      And get some birth control

    • @rhondaharris93
      @rhondaharris93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Whose watching her other 3 kids?? While traveling state to state

    • @sheilae.9670
      @sheilae.9670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@lisai2110 exactly! I feel for her, she's so young with 4 kids however like you stated birth control. There are different forms of birth control these days no excuses. We women have to take control of our sexual health because at the end of the day raising kids lies on the woman. Hell I'm 35years married with 2 kids and I'm on birthday control because not only is it hard having 2 kids, I refused to be getting pregnant every damn year.

    • @laranini9660
      @laranini9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Her youth being spent taking care of kids, these young women should want better for themselves in my city a young woman had twins last month and ended up killing them a couple of days ago. I think she was 23 😔

    • @laranini9660
      @laranini9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @jojo bean bean yes she was

  • @ooakRAREGEM
    @ooakRAREGEM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    She sure knows how to pick them. Keep bringing innocent kids in their mess. It was a shock, but you were sleeping with him. Work on your SELF ESTEEM!!!!

    • @corneliusfarrell8673
      @corneliusfarrell8673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Smh sad

    • @rashardstallworth9240
      @rashardstallworth9240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maybe it's not the Men

    • @omarbagent9829
      @omarbagent9829 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let her live her life. She gone be 40 with already grown children so will have her time to splurge.

    • @dreekdoe448
      @dreekdoe448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I Mean... Bc She Is Clueless. Poor lil tink tink

    • @Drayonis
      @Drayonis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@omarbagent9829 40 and broke with grown children

  • @dcchitown6892
    @dcchitown6892 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Fathers we have to step up with our daughters.....

    • @TYB26
      @TYB26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Absolutely agree. And also agree that men and women must choose their partners wisely.

    • @charliebrown1125
      @charliebrown1125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Step up with your daughter sir

    • @komiyahyahsharal316
      @komiyahyahsharal316 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are rebellious and don’t listen!!

    • @blossom122ify
      @blossom122ify 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ~ word

  • @MeaghanTamara
    @MeaghanTamara 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Why on Earth would you raw dog a 22 year old with 3 kids? She super fertile. Like the breadbasket of America.

    • @bfighter8930
      @bfighter8930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You get comfortable with the situation and next thing you know, you're in child support court.

    • @thatlsk
      @thatlsk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Y'all people real reckless with your genitals

    • @Alesana907
      @Alesana907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thatlsk fr that concept is insane to me. It's ridiculous to raw dog anyone that you're not planning on having a life long commitment with or else it's the child that truly suffers.

    • @lilliewalker8879
      @lilliewalker8879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They're gonna have 3 mo...watch!

  • @reinamacaren-a4132
    @reinamacaren-a4132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    Poor girl doesn't know how to take time out to love self first. From one guy to the other😰

    • @Longpipejang
      @Longpipejang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She can love herself 100xs more over and she probably still will never have a healthy long term relationship. People aren't raised to be husband or wives

    • @LukeandLeia15
      @LukeandLeia15 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Baby from each one. I just can’t get the logic.

  • @corettejones
    @corettejones 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Birth Control is a Real Thing people for men and women. Recently divorced woman with three children, Dude! This is sad state of affairs.😐

    • @leir2005
      @leir2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We men need to be putting on condoms. If I'm being blunt and honest here it doesn't slow us down....much and for men who just aren't interested in having children at all they should proceed with a vasectomy and get off this Macho BS that has them thinking that it makes them less of a man. I got one at 40 and I never looked back and I never once regretted it

    • @tiarast628
      @tiarast628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      4 kids i believe

  • @jaydendavis8751
    @jaydendavis8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    22 with 4 kids and an ex husband!?!...sheesh. Talk about baggage 😂🤣🤞

    • @corneliusfarrell8673
      @corneliusfarrell8673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yea a lot of it 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @brightmeme2419
      @brightmeme2419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      23 with 3 kids and married since 18

    • @crystalvouse7015
      @crystalvouse7015 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How many have 4 and no ex husband

    • @drunbekannt11
      @drunbekannt11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brightmeme2419 why would you marry at 18???

  • @iwillsurvive1335
    @iwillsurvive1335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    I stay on birth control even when I'm single. My worst nightmare is to be a single mother. You can't just be out here reproducing with everybody like that 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @knsworld66
      @knsworld66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      That was my worst nightmare too. I'm a single mom now. Rough stuff. Just make sure you have kids with the right person when that day comes

    • @mademoiselle_tami3705
      @mademoiselle_tami3705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      That’s was my biggest fear as well. Unfortunately I am a single parent after 8 years of togetherness. Unfortunately in life being a single mother is something you cannot run. from.

    • @BeenJanky
      @BeenJanky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      That was also mines but one thing I know for a fact. When people say pick someone blah blah is a croc of BS because you can know someone for years and they can truly be good humans but soon as kids come into play people change for better or worse! So to all my strong, beautiful super moms that's reading this comment...dnt feel like your a single mother because of anything you did or because you decided to give the deadbeat some of your cookies. Men can truly become bums and deadbeats right after you become pregnant, during the pregnancy, after the birth of the child or at the same damn time!!

    • @stephenjinabo4557
      @stephenjinabo4557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow girl you are smart 🤓, I appreciate u

    • @mademoiselle_tami3705
      @mademoiselle_tami3705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BeenJanky very true

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This girl don't learn.

  • @rockinrobin4681
    @rockinrobin4681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    That’s sad that she wants to start over with a guy that has already been cheating on her 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @thatlsk
      @thatlsk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She 22 with 4 kids, she better take what she can get.

    • @rockinrobin4681
      @rockinrobin4681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@thatlsk it would be better for her to be alone with her 4 children than to settle for this low grade man who will have her stressed out, being an emotional wreck, exposing her to diseases, and possibly having side babies. No sir. What is he bringing to the table besides a bunch of stress. Goodbye 👋🏾

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She needs to be alone because of the kids sake because she is picking the wrong men. She needs me time n healing.

    • @dspenderella9671
      @dspenderella9671 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right, that is sad, but just look at the comments; the internet exposes that the avg blk person has ZERO standards for men and thinks he's a prize just b/c; they'll tell her it's all her fault and she should be glad she can even find him, so just settle for what he has to offer (nothing). I'm starting to see how as a community "we" don't value the women and children enough, and I use "we" very loosely since we all don't subscribe to this sad foolishness, but many of us do, and this helps keep us a disenfranchised struggle group collectively... Settle for less, "we" get less. We can't afford to carry on like yte trash when we don't have yte privilege to compensate.

    • @maxxpopp2373
      @maxxpopp2373 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she’ll have 8 kids before she’s 30 and he will be running around as usual. them guys know they don’t want to be home with nobody with a bunch of kids even tho it’s their own kids

  • @checkmychedda1866
    @checkmychedda1866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    In spite of everything y'all are saying, they both seem like good people.

    • @chvncx955
      @chvncx955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nah fr everybody so judgmental smh not one person in the comments knows them personally lol

    • @lawofashley4241
      @lawofashley4241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      They really do

    • @Sherelle216
      @Sherelle216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly just a little misguided no one is perfect u can see they love each other and they are both tryiing

    • @brookelynnkeele6841
      @brookelynnkeele6841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯

    • @TheSolitary1
      @TheSolitary1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well i know some folks are perfect but for me, i see that they both are young and can change for the best. I give blessings to change, even if someone is 80 years old. 🌼

  • @sidel3080
    @sidel3080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Sorry, but she’s more interested in having a man than she is raising the children she has. Smdh. She has a lot of growing to do.

  • @iDreamOfJeanii
    @iDreamOfJeanii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    He doesn’t have to focus on the baby bc they’re arguing, but she does? Tf judge? They need Judge Lynn advice.

  • @wordplay1415
    @wordplay1415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Sad they knew each other only 6 months before bringing a baby into the world. They didn’t know each other well enough for that type of relationship, especially a 4th kid!

  • @dominiquejenkins5495
    @dominiquejenkins5495 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Doyle standing back there like a proud pops lol

  • @chasitystrawder420
    @chasitystrawder420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I've been in her shoes. I hope she sees this is a destructive pattern of meeting/dating uncommitted men. She can't change his cheating. Long term, I hope they get some counseling & develop a healthy relationship for the sake of their son.

  • @blackwomanwatching9700
    @blackwomanwatching9700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    She needs some serious therapy.... falling for someone w/o really knowing them is a huge red flag. Plus she should be leery of allowing ppl around her kids -- no telling what kind of person they might be 😳

  • @app1mxh
    @app1mxh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Her body language was priceless when she asked 'Can we start over'. Wish my wife would act like this. Half the time she is yelling at me. 🤣

    • @rickrgg
      @rickrgg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      lol

    • @josl1345
      @josl1345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @ANGELAKCLAY
      @ANGELAKCLAY ปีที่แล้ว +2

      📣ASK' Your WIFE what She wants from You/Her expectations of You as a Husband. 💕It might also be Helpful if the TWO of YOU start Dating. Put some Romance, FUN & Excitement back in Your Marriage.💕
      🎈🎈🎈Also plan some Family Activities with The Children. Buy some WATER GUNS, Game called: "RING TOSS or HORSESHOE, Card Game Called CONCENTRATION: Place each Card Face Down, each Player Turns Over TWO CARD'S at a Time, trying to Match TWO of the same; (two KINGS, 5's, 8's, etc. Whoever has The most Matches WINS. The Game Version of, "Toss Across/Tic Tac Toe with the BEAN BAGS, TWISTER.🎈🎈🎈

  • @sweetbeloved623
    @sweetbeloved623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    He was back and forward with both of those ladies that why the other women always harassing her i believe.

  • @toyatierra3034
    @toyatierra3034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Who else binge watching 👀

    • @evette2867
      @evette2867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me 👀👀
      I Love This Show

    • @trecialangley5535
      @trecialangley5535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m GUILTY

    • @toyatierra3034
      @toyatierra3034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@evette2867 this and paternity court

    • @evette2867
      @evette2867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@toyatierra3034 Dont forget Divorce Court now I love me some
      Judge Lynn Toler

    • @Dollasnig
      @Dollasnig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't even know why I am though 😂

  • @nikbarker3640
    @nikbarker3640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I was dying when JM was explaining what “catfish” is ,,, he said it , as if it was something brand new ! And he was laying knowledge on them hahaha 🤣 poor JM

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He knows his audience is mostly old people and kids home sick from school with they granny

    • @melissalsmith883
      @melissalsmith883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You’d be surprised how many people fall for scams. It’s still people out here who fall for the e-mail from a nigerian prince who claims you’ve won millions of dollars but can’t access it until you send him a couple of hundreds/thousands 🙁🙄

    • @nikbarker3640
      @nikbarker3640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melissalsmith883 Yeah- you’re absolutely correct especially for the older generation who is finally learning how to access the computer and use the Internet it is all brand new to them, so you’re right , i stand corrected. It’s sad to be honest:( my son has fallen victim to it. So I can’t even say the older generation!
      The young young young people learning the internet also falls victim to the BS too :(

    • @jew-el1
      @jew-el1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And these shows are old…sometimes many years older

  • @juliethomas-begay1742
    @juliethomas-begay1742 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "I was on the show previously for a paternatest.." Lol When your nerves are acting up you make up new shorter word's... I like that one.. Lol

    • @locafly
      @locafly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO Did she say that??!! LMAO

    • @SmileyGirl4L
      @SmileyGirl4L 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm in the middle I slid all the way back to the beginning to hear paternatest 😅

    • @camelabell3140
      @camelabell3140 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @callmemaybelline3514
      @callmemaybelline3514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @papalegbasson2447
    @papalegbasson2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    There comes a time one must ask themselves, what is it about me that I keep having babies by trifling men. Maybe I should find away that I don't get pregnant.

    • @mwalimuwade6910
      @mwalimuwade6910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No home training

    • @d820m
      @d820m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Must be something in the air that keeps her getting pregnant.
      Yep....her damn legs!!!! 🤣🤣

    • @deetheefoodie
      @deetheefoodie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why not talk about the men that’s not taking care of their kids?!?

    • @lauriejames9740
      @lauriejames9740 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deetheefoodie Avoidance, a lack of accountability, never discuss responsibilities. Smh@these high value men.

  • @bluebutterfly1933
    @bluebutterfly1933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    When trust is broken “sorry” means nothing.

    • @lisahopegp3739
      @lisahopegp3739 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nope not at all. Just best to go your separate ways🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @k9.p
      @k9.p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly!

  • @tomgoddy4467
    @tomgoddy4467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She liked him cause he took to her kids well but then she got pregnant with his baby and he had second thoughts hahaha come on bru

  • @estherbradley3218
    @estherbradley3218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I pray that they are able to figure it out... 22 is really young WOW!

    • @eli-jr2148
      @eli-jr2148 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea they both to damn young an don't have the maturity of raising 4 kids an playing house together

  • @jasonclyburn1499
    @jasonclyburn1499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    So she 22 with 4 kids damn

    • @mrglass311
      @mrglass311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was MARRIED with 3 kids, people. But I can't front, when she said she was 22, I was like "whoo that cat hot and fertile". With all due respect.

  • @natalietylerrobinson
    @natalietylerrobinson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    4 kids at 22 years old... she's a strong girl. Good luck to them and I hope they work out and get counselling (together and separate)

    • @casiousleggett4804
      @casiousleggett4804 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't think that makes her strong, more like irresponsible.

    • @casiousleggett4804
      @casiousleggett4804 ปีที่แล้ว

      But she seems like a good person.

    • @natalietylerrobinson
      @natalietylerrobinson ปีที่แล้ว

      @@casiousleggett4804 it makes her strong because she stayed and is raising them. She is strong.

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Silly young woman and man

  • @Valencia5_11
    @Valencia5_11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is so random but that lady in the pink shirt tattoo clean af 🔥 I see ya Sis 😂

  • @tlr4974
    @tlr4974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    How can getting pregnant be a shock? The decisions these chics make!

    • @kuroichan101
      @kuroichan101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      And men. They dont wear condoms then get upset about ending up on child support lmfao

    • @tlr4974
      @tlr4974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kuroichan101 and the women that fake being on birth control to have babies with those very same men…ain’t that something

    • @HAZYHEAUX
      @HAZYHEAUX 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hate when ppl say that! Its like they dont think of the possibilities when having sex...idk maybe I was raised different

    • @kayshawnsimmons6822
      @kayshawnsimmons6822 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They both doing those kids a disservice 🤡🤛🏾😒

    • @ephraimwolobah9152
      @ephraimwolobah9152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Safe sex is best sex👌

  • @7GodIsTheTruth7
    @7GodIsTheTruth7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A BEAUTIFUL ending to the story. That was really lovely.

  • @coreyedmonds815
    @coreyedmonds815 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The judge demonstrated more (much needed) therapy and guidance, than legal judgement on this one. Kudos JM, and good luck to these young people.

  • @SimplyEb3
    @SimplyEb3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why dole was shaking his head answering the questions at the end 🤣😂🤣

    • @larhondalivelife
      @larhondalivelife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This comment makes me wanna fast forward to see Doyle 🤣🤣🤣

    • @SimplyEb3
      @SimplyEb3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@larhondalivelife he’s hilarious

  • @ayisyen2009
    @ayisyen2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This was one of the best paternity cases I’ve seen no telling,name calling,disrespect or screaming occurred they both conducted themselves like civilized people 👏🏾 I’m glad they’re willing to work things out not only for them but,for the well-being of their son it would truly be a blessing if there were more couples like them 💯 May God bless them and their family especially their newborn son 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @cici7844
    @cici7844 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    22 with 4 kids? Ain’t no way I’d everrrrrrrr lol

  • @chelechiffon9222
    @chelechiffon9222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A sweet young couple. Learn to communicate without arguing and you guys can make it. Be blessed. You both seem really nice.

    • @angelfrmheaven
      @angelfrmheaven 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ikr! They're broken up as of 2022😭 oh well though hope they're both happy and taking care of their son.

    • @chelechiffon9222
      @chelechiffon9222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelfrmheaven true

    • @PrincessZaire100
      @PrincessZaire100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelfrmheaven Aww that’s disappointing

  • @bre1980
    @bre1980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Seems like a nice couple...hope it works out with them.

  • @getin3949
    @getin3949 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this judge, he has a great sense of humor and fairness.

  • @jones6433
    @jones6433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Awww I pray that God stays in the mist of this Beautiful Union they just babies with babies

    • @jamesdirtony4582
      @jamesdirtony4582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I Love your Comment.Youre a Sweet Person.

  • @alnisacoleman6004
    @alnisacoleman6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love the ending😍god bless😇💕

  • @cinnamonrollonapancake
    @cinnamonrollonapancake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble."
    1 Peter 3:8
    Praying for this young couple and their children.❤️

  • @valarielavalis9176
    @valarielavalis9176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She was shocked she got pregnant 😳. Four kids and she still don't know how babies are made. Smh

  • @tonystokes1119
    @tonystokes1119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    When she first came out and the camera was all on her,you could tell she was getting uncomfortable, like hurry the f up and get that out of my face😂 i don't blame her i would have stared making weird faces 😋😝🤤😂

  • @tiasway
    @tiasway 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I disagree with the judge... you're supposed to separate your feelings from the father/mother when it comes to your child

    • @josl1345
      @josl1345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree, didn't like that comment at all. Even though many carry on this way, it's unacceptable, and the burden shouldn't be placed on her only to keep the peace.

    • @dspenderella9671
      @dspenderella9671 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts, but that's too mature and too much like right in this dysfunctional azz backwards culture/ community🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @MrsB320
    @MrsB320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She really love her fb crush , he doesn’t love her the same 😕 I feel so sorry for her . 🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️

  • @shawandam8213
    @shawandam8213 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how Doyle be in the Amen corner when JM makes a point. Doyle be like umm hmm lol

  • @Vanessa_Martinez
    @Vanessa_Martinez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She was thirsty. These women be having babies by men they don't even know 5/6 months. You don't know a person in 5/6 months... I have realized you really don't know a person until after 1 1/2 years.

  • @RestorationEdenMinistries
    @RestorationEdenMinistries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hopefully they grow up so these babies can grow up.

  • @monicajones7058
    @monicajones7058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    the ending turned out great 👍🏾

    • @cheraun
      @cheraun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SPOILER ALERT

    • @alifan3285
      @alifan3285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She seems like such a sweet young lady but stop having all those babies....

    • @beecher127
      @beecher127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was a heavenly ending

    • @monicajones7058
      @monicajones7058 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alifan3285 you right about that 😌

    • @moneka1030
      @moneka1030 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@monicajones7058 I’m only commenting bc you have my whole name !!! 😂😂
      So hey girl heyyyy 😂

  • @Raheemy1987
    @Raheemy1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ why does this stuff happen seriously....

    • @KINGKING-wr4of
      @KINGKING-wr4of 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because they refused to keep the laws of God

  • @righttoouropinionthanks4710
    @righttoouropinionthanks4710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol!! Now she really has the proof he’s the child’s father! So next time they fight, she gonna throw it in his face about taking him to court for child support, not let him see the baby, etc. Unfortunately to parents that young, they tend to use the child as a weapon in their fights!! Sad, but very true!

  • @iamnicole303
    @iamnicole303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Poor choices on both sides

  • @Itsme-m5o
    @Itsme-m5o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How is getting pregnant a shock 😳 after being skeeted in 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @WauniasJ.Israel
    @WauniasJ.Israel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree Israel,it's good that they both decide to work things out between the two of them,instead giving up on each other.

  • @saturnladee110
    @saturnladee110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People have negative things to say about her and her children but he is 26 and living between a woman with 3 children and his Parents. He has a son now, time to get somewhere to live of his own.

    • @gritsnwavy3059
      @gritsnwavy3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right. People keep saying she has 4 kids blah blah. Rarely blame the trifling asss man.

    • @saturnladee110
      @saturnladee110 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gritsnwavy3059 which is why they continue to be trifflin', no accountability.

  • @Price8903
    @Price8903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You do not have to allow yourself to get pregnant just bc you’re in a new relationship. Women learn you are in control of your fertility.

  • @233joyce
    @233joyce 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Having 4 kids are hard regardless of her age. That being said, hopefully she will slow down and if she’s not on birth control she need to get on birth control and focus on herself. She is so young with 4 kids already.

    • @JAM2USA2018
      @JAM2USA2018 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She need 2 more

  • @shanzi9009
    @shanzi9009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "How many months after meeting or weeks after meeting did you get pregnant?"....3:36. Then every time she says I drove from Georgia to Alabama Judge is like Wow.....

    • @dionned.6176
      @dionned.6176 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was embarrassed cuz she knew it was a short period of time

  • @DEDE-of3fn
    @DEDE-of3fn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The judge diss you, then laughed mockingly to say he's just playing with you. He's not playing. He's serious.

    • @VRamirez-8995
      @VRamirez-8995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behind EVERY JOKE there’s truth

  • @shanzi9009
    @shanzi9009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She looks very sad

  • @misslornamae
    @misslornamae 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was a shock to fall fall pregnant when not using protection and she already had 3 kids. Yeah no. She needs to learn about contraception and so do her partners.

  • @tarjayday3062
    @tarjayday3062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s a really big family at such a young age. I couldn’t imagine being in her shoes. Pregnancy scares the daylight out of me.

  • @Zen_Nurse
    @Zen_Nurse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tevin? Give that name back to the original Tevin Campbell 🎶🎵... Can We Talk🎶🎵

    • @reign4980
      @reign4980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U CRAZY 😆

    • @grigrig9107
      @grigrig9107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stupid as hell😁😖😁

  • @horacelilbigbrother9215
    @horacelilbigbrother9215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lmao... she's too adorable. Good bless and hopefully get better

  • @ejones9924
    @ejones9924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The ending....
    Awwwwww

  • @IAmSomaliChannel
    @IAmSomaliChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sis I gotta catch up lol im 28 no kids, no man 🥴

    • @generationalcursebreaker5397
      @generationalcursebreaker5397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You ain’t missing nothing sis! Take your time your doing wonderful!!!

    • @IAmSomaliChannel
      @IAmSomaliChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@generationalcursebreaker5397 thank you sis 💕

    • @jacks4009
      @jacks4009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Chillleee let's enjoy the freedom

    • @bryantparham4024
      @bryantparham4024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What's up Somali? I'm 40 with no kids work in corporate america, own property have good credit and no woman.

  • @laranini9660
    @laranini9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How tf can you be off and on for two months 😒🙄

  • @dbizzle85
    @dbizzle85 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She knows good and well shes not going to find someone to take care of her kids, nobody in the right mind (that doesn't need citizenship or a place to stay) is wifing a single mother of 4

  • @lamarlamar3101
    @lamarlamar3101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope and PRAY they both break the mold of this world and recieve ALL God has in store for them and their family 💥👊🏾💯

  • @chocolatethundercherry143
    @chocolatethundercherry143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t even feel sorry for these little girls nomore how are they falling in love with bs men over and over again !!! It’s the children I feel sorry for …. With parents like this and a mother with low self esteem they don’t have a chance !!!

  • @daimonmarioperez9501
    @daimonmarioperez9501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    22, and 4 children 🙄

  • @tommeltaylor9996
    @tommeltaylor9996 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good job young brother. Stay with her and be patient with her. The two of you can do something special. She was very excited to start over. You said be too.

  • @brianabananas3289
    @brianabananas3289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She needs to stop having kids Jesus... is it fun?

  • @kimberlynoel5635
    @kimberlynoel5635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awwww the ending is so sweet

  • @leyahruizdeloreto6420
    @leyahruizdeloreto6420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People always "finding out" they're pregnant; amazing how people don't know how that happens! It's always such a shock! 😲

  • @robinwilliamsdaniels1716
    @robinwilliamsdaniels1716 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes you have to be like...Boy Bye!...and mean it. Especially with children.

  • @generationalcursebreaker5397
    @generationalcursebreaker5397 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He’s handsome and she’s beautiful

  • @beecher127
    @beecher127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That is So freaking beautiful! Makes my heart swell up

    • @tiarast628
      @tiarast628 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Messy... With a beautiful ending. Too many babies involved anf Their just babies. I hope they stick together for the kids and both need some college!!

  • @youwishyouknew1312
    @youwishyouknew1312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hasn't she learned from baby number 3 that babies won't keep a relationship? But then baby number 4...God bless this young woman!

  • @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596
    @rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I Like Her, She's Cute and Seems Nice. I Believe She Had 3 Young Children From Her Ex and 1 With Him. Yeah, I Think it Would Be Best She Not Have Anymore Children Anytime Soon, She is Pretty Young. Dude Don't Seem So Bad Either. He Just Needs To Grow Up and Put That Cheating in Check, if He Really Wants To Hold Their Family Down.

  • @phyllissowhat
    @phyllissowhat 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode made me tear up. JM is so WISE. I’m not much younger than him, but just…

  • @men385
    @men385 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    JM a trip 😂❗️let me see the ⌚️you got catfished

  • @stephaniediaz826
    @stephaniediaz826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wonder how many children were born from a relationship that started on FACEBOOK 🤔

  • @thematerialisticreview
    @thematerialisticreview 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The energy between the two is almost non existent..

  • @kimberlynoel5635
    @kimberlynoel5635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge Mathis is so hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love him ❤❤❤

  • @latoyafisher7900
    @latoyafisher7900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right someone has to be the bigger person, and leave the situation alone.

  • @jbusytaty3989
    @jbusytaty3989 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The ending is priceless can we start over? Love endings like dis

  • @reptilemetaljen
    @reptilemetaljen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Judge knows lol love the end with his impression lol 😆

  • @Fatty305
    @Fatty305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    22 w 4kids whoa 😮 she is a fast one !!! With some good good 😺

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's young so she has that snap back body. 4 kids and still petite. Driving to meet a dude off Facebook within a week from a rando who saw her on the show was a dangerous move but I'm happy it worked out. Hopefully they work out. If it doesn't, it's gonna be hard to get a good man when you're already a household of 5, no matter how good you look. Best wishes to them both.

  • @J_.esmzzz
    @J_.esmzzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oof, I hope this girl realizes that these results isn’t going to stop him from cheating. That’s a lot to go through especially when you have 4 children.

  • @akila5591
    @akila5591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the ending ✊🏽❤️

  • @1eaglefan960
    @1eaglefan960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He has to be doing something because no woman is going to post a man pictures so that everybody including her family and friends and see that she's in a complicated relationship. When it's all said and done we as women have to come to find out at some point if you don't trust him and keep it moving. Man or woman, if you take them back they'll just find a different way to do it and every time you take them back they will get Slicker and Slicker with it.

  • @meeksluvspink9047
    @meeksluvspink9047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Whew yall Judgemental! Smh. Im so Thankful that GOD is the ONLY true judge because yall condemning this young lady and have never walked a mile in her shoes.

    • @jaydendavis8751
      @jaydendavis8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Going to have critics when you air out your dirt on national television.

    • @laranini9660
      @laranini9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She went on TV, we gonna judge cause she went on TV to get some answers 😒🙄

    • @laranini9660
      @laranini9660 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jojo bean bean well that would be sad

    • @jaydendavis8751
      @jaydendavis8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laranini9660 umm. Yeah

    • @jaydendavis8751
      @jaydendavis8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@laranini9660 I wouldn't say judge. It's my opinion of what I see. She allowed us to look thru her window of life

  • @ohshakeys6078
    @ohshakeys6078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aww I hope they make it 😍

  • @prettybrowngirl71
    @prettybrowngirl71 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope everything works out. She is very young with four kids and ex husband and baby’s daughter. She hasn’t had time to mature and l live life for just herself. A lot of responsibility for such a young person