@@TroubledGothMime she might have to exfoliate every now and again but she has soap running down her legs three times a day. Her legs are gonna be clean enough.
Shayne quietly joking about Olivia saying exactly what he said and then looking at Damien and having to hold his laughter in is such a testament to their friendship. Who hasn't had to hold in a laugh with their bestie?
@@Kavriel I've always found it weird how people love to refer to two individuals as siblings but view shipping as wierd because in both cases, you're defining their relationship the way you want to see it. And before you say siblings is not as wierd, Courtney has said calling them siblings is wierd to her.
I live in Japan and I said the comment about it being bad for your hair once and everyone, and ive never seen this before, got upset. immediate rebuttal. i now do the hair washing once a day even though im going very bald.
@@wasteinyourandmytime i would guess that reaction is likely due to genetic/cultural differences with hair washing. i'm korean and my scalp and hair get super greasy if i don't wash it every day. i imagine it's likely a greater population of east asians have that condition as well. but you definitely shouldn't wash your hair every day if it's hurting you!
@@wasteinyourandmytime Asian hair is a lot more thicker and robust. White people bald more easily. These two facts make me think that Asian hair can tolerate a lot more washing before it takes its toll
My brain works in a way where if somebody tells me to do something I basically have to, but if they give me advice I can't. I don't know why my brain draws a line there.
I think a really important thing that was missing from Shayne and Olivia talking about showering every day is the idea of working out. Shayne and Olivia are both very fit, so they probably work out almost every day, and if you've worked up a big sweat, you need a shower. Plus it feels great after a workout.
Yeah, it makes sense that the two people who always work out will shower every day. And I get the whole shower being a reset thing and sort of therapeutic... but I sometimes don't shower for 3 days because I'm just not bothered lol. As long as you don't stink or feel sweaty, what's the point? Just change your clothes and do what feels good for you.
I have a strong opinion on tipping. Americans employers should and must pay their employees the amount enough for living expenses. Tipping should not be the norm, it must only be optional
@@yoshuatree8538 even less depending on where you are. I was working in Arkansas at Cheddars as a server for the three years at $2.63/hr +tips. While I worked at this restaurant, all of my paychecks were nulled or maybe $5 if I worked 80hours in the paycheck time frame because of taxation on my hourly rate, but also taxes on my tips if they were on card. That’s another point to discuss. I could lie and pocket my cash tips at work and not “claim” them so I could survive a little longer on the little money I had because they can’t tax cash tips unless you report them at the end of your shift. With all these machines being added to restaurants/cafes, the tips will always be taxed. It’s despicable. After working in restaurants and bars for almost 10 years and have gotten out, I can agree with the idea of increasing base rate pay and lessening the idea of tips being mandatory/heavily influenced to do it. If companies can’t pay a decent living wage so workers aren’t over stressing their minds and bodies to put a meal on the table, then that business shouldn’t be open.
Exactly, they really need to change it at this point. The expected tipping amount is starting to get really high too because of inflation. Pay the employees! They deserve a good flat rate (so tips can be extra). They shouldn't have to rely on customers knowing how to tip to afford their rent
I was gonna mention, it's really hard to even get out of bed, let alone practice self-care when deeply depressed. This is called rumination. My thought process when it happens is "I'm stuck in this dark pit. I just want to rot and die. I could care less how I look or feel." Eventually, your external appearance reflects how you feel internally...
My problem with this is Olivia naively believes that if something was $0.51 that they'd round it down to $0.50, when we all know darn well that they'd round up to $0.55 or $0.60.
As someone with depression, I have a really hard time maintaining my personal hygiene. There's been days where I haven't showered in three days and physically can't bring myself to brush my teeth. It's nice to know that I'm not being shamed for something that's hard for me to complete
You shouldn’t be shamed for that type of stuff, but you should definitely try to find a way to motivate yourself to take care of yourself better. As hard as it is when you’re dealing with depression, I’m sure you can find a way to push yourself to take better care of your hygiene. If you adopt the mentality that it’s ok to not take care of your hygiene, that’ll only make your situation worse.
@@hrvbox no one can conceptualize what depression is until they get it,i genuinely believe that. I think that people should be more empathetic and open minded to possibilities like these(missing hygiene because of depression) but there shouldn't be complete acceptance and tolerance to wrong behavior. When you you're in a depressive episode the single worst thing you can do is do things that make you feel even worse about yourself.
@@hrvbox physically impossible? umm no, if you're depressed it's definitely physically possible. There's not something literally stopping you from taking a shower, except yourself. Everyone feels depressed at some point in their life.
@boomfamgdb me in my adolescence was so bad. There'd be times where my hair would be pretty much matter and absolutely greasy and I couldn't feel enough shame to get up and get in the shower. I'm a bit better now, at most only last one to two weeks before I force myself, but it takes me at least ten minutes once I'm in the shower to start doing stuff and not just standing their avoiding it
Love seeing genuine Olivia, not in any character. Her characters she commits to or exaggerations she does sometimes, they are hilarious, don't get me wrong! But this is refreshing and sweet.
When Damian explains the “I won’t do something cause you told me to” I totally feel that!! I thought it was just a really weird thing I had, but I guess other people have it as well
For anyone still going to school: please, for the sake of sanity, do NOT stick gum under desks/tables. Sincerely, a custodian who has to scrape all that shit off during the summer.
I went to a private school and they made us scrape them once a month or if there was writing on the tables we had to clean them too. Cause we have to respect the custodian and not give them extra work they didn't sign up for.
@@glitxhhh i dont stick gum under the table a lot, maybe like once in 6 months, but sometimes its so scary to just go up to front of the class and spit it out
Shayne, I'm born and raised in Wisconsin. I love it, and it will always be my home. If you think for one second the people I grew up with would clap at a plane landing...you are absolutely right. We're fucking dorks.
Opposite experiences had being born and raised in Minnesota. We don't like to draw attention to ourselves, and clapping would immediately draw eyes. Obviously there are exceptions, but flying from Minnesota to another location seems to be a less engaging experience than flying from other locations. We keep to ourselves, but might try to throw in small talk.
I don't really get it, I'm from belgium and clapping at a plane landing used to be quite normal here (read: the whole plane did it everytime). To me it just felt like some sort of etiquette to show appreciation towards the pilot for the nice flight, like thanking the bus driver you know. While the custom has died out over here, I kinda never saw or considered it as something negative, it was a bit useless perhaps but I don't really get the argument of olivia of doing it out of self importance or anything, it's quite the opposite in fact.
I just came to the realization that when Olivia starts talking, I automatically watch Shayne's reaction. Just when Olivia is talking. Has anyone else gotten into that habit?
"i shower all the time, it's the save point" THATS SO TRUE. shayne just put my feeling toward showering into words omg also case for sequels sometimes being better, three words: Top Gun Maverick.
This seems like a really good series, I think the debates could be a little longer (everyone back their opinion), or there should be a few more questions being asked!
Edit*: Omg, I'm cackling at the "height matters to me when dating". I love that Ian and Amanda give off like older siblings/aunt and uncle vibes. 😂 I love this era of cast is just so great. I look forward to every single video across channels.
When Amanda said, "Dogs are so loyal. If you get lost in the woods, they will follow you!" STORY TIME... Growing up, I lived in the country. We didn't have a farm or anything, just 10 acres of land with some woods. When I was 4 or 5, I decided to go on my own little adventure and I went into our woods. Our cat, Mama Kitty, and our dog, Shren, followed me and herded me back to the house. I very vaguely remember it, but I remember looking behind me and both of them were keeping up with me and making sure I was going in the right direction. Both animals showed love and loyalty and made sure my dumbass baby self was safe. :D Cats and dogs are amazing and I'm so happy they exist.
Good thing they were there for you and got you safe 😊. Reminds me of a video online where a cat was preventing a baby to fall down the stairs. Great stories about the goodness of pets.
Good thing they were there for you and got you safe 😊. Reminds me of a video online where a cat was preventing a baby to fall down the stairs. Great stories about the goodness of pets.
Omg same. And the way Damien was like "maybe someday I'll unpack this" I was like please I'm ready I wanna know what's going on in my brain lol. The worst for me is when I fall asleep on the couch. If I wake up to start to head to bed and someone tells me to go to bed, I get so upset and will sleep all night on the couch that night.
damien talking about not wanting to do something when someone tells you to after you were already planning on it - ACCURATE AND IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU
Im the same way, and I feel like it's some weird kinda control thing (as many things are.) Like we get frustrated when someone tells us to do something cuz like we were choosing, by ourselves, to do a thing, but when someone tells us to do it, now it feels like were just doing what were told, and not what we chose to do. Idk, might be talkin out my ass, but that tracks for me 🤷♂️
I like going for a walk to get stuff for the house. But then someone is like "get .... from ....." and suddenly it feels like a chore and something I gotta do. Not just me stretching my legs.
Amanda and Olivia have such fun explanations for everything haha. Also I relate extremely hard to Damien on the not wanting to do something once somebody else tells me to do it thing.
I relate to Damien's unwillingness to do things I was already planning on doing when I've been told to them. My theory/observation is that it feels inauthentic and ruins the satisfaction of self-starting when someone else recommends or instructs that I do something.
THIS!! I'm very big on being independent, it makes me feel good. So when someone tells me to take care of something I was already thinking about doing, I lose all motivation cause now it doesn't feel like my good idea anymore, its *their* good idea. Ruins the satisfaction of being independent.
It could be that but it’s also something one should bring up with a therapist/psychologist especially if that person has previously been diagnosed with ADHD (and maybe also autism) since oppositional defiant disorder is a frequent enough comorbidity. ODD for adults is more common with those with ADHD than those without it
@@Corrugated_Boxi know there’s a symptom of autism called “pathological demand avoidance” & it’s exactly that. whenever you feel a lessened sense of autonomy or like someone is telling you that you HAVE to do something, there’s a visceral feeling of needing to deny or avoid that. it can often be seen from other people as just ‘being difficult’, but it’s a strong feeling of needing to maintain control
I was also thinking, "Well yeah, he's more introverted. If we're not going out as a specific outting with friends, we'd rather just watch it at home." Because anxiety and introversion is like, "You want me to go where and do what?" Speaking from all the experience.
Personally as someone who has done both in MS & HS, I like going in a group better. When I was alone, I felt like everyone else thought I was a loser with no friends lmao.
I'm the same way. I have gone to movies by myself, but I always don't really like it. I wanted to see a movie once, and none of my friends were available or wanted to see it. When I was alone, I cried because I felt lonely. It was weird, and embarrassing. But totally get the "spooky and hard" part of it.
A couple of times iv3 driven to the movies, been too scared to go in, and driven straight home again. Well not straight home, I had to have a breakdown in the car first.
It's 100% real, there's no writing or scripts, or acting. Just them having fun with casual debates. Well ppl always tend to have an on-camera personality that's slightly different from off camera, they exaggerate themselves a bit and keep a higher level of energy. But this is subconscious/habitual. Unless you're Olivia, I really don't think she does this at all lol.
this video is actually the reason i watched a movie on my own, and i also happened to be the only person in there, so it was cool and i allowed myself to cry at the emotional part
That showed a lack of understanding, honestly. I used to call into radio stations in the middle of the night when I was 17 because I was stuck in an abusive home, home-schooled and isolated, and I desperately needed to talk to someone. I would have killed myself if I didn't have that. I heard a lot of other people in similar positions ring - or people who were on the verge of suicide, or whose mum had just died, or something. Talk radio is there for a reason.
@@JudojugsVtuber i disagree because earlier this month one of the biggest internet providers in all of canada had a nationwide outage and the debit went down on the same day so everyone was scrambling to get their hands on some cash. If we could prevent something like that from happening, then sure get rid of it, whatever, but there's no guarantees it won't happen again
The showering question is hard because depression sometimes takes over. "I work with Courtney every day and I don't think she's ever showered in her life." SHAYNE NO.
So many of my people with depression in this comments section specifically coming out to talk about showering and brushing our teeth. I love you all so much ❤ it do be a reeeeal struggle sometimes
this series is fun. the diversity of the cast really lends itself to this format, everyone has such wildly different perspectives informed by their backgrounds. i'd like to see more crew members in this show from time to time, itd be a neat little way to learn a bit more about everyone.
I don’t think Olivia and I have much in common, but I felt a special kinship when she said “I was not build for this world” in relation to her sensitive mouth. The struggle of not being able to eat cereal that is TOO crunchy without destroying your mouth is very real.
15:10 That's a common occurrence with anxious people, to be fair, and I suppose it comes mostly from the feeling of control being taken away. It doesn't matter that I'd already set my mind on somethin; when someone tells me to do it, it feels like they're deciding for me, and I just want to wrestle back my "free will" the clearest way possible - doing the exact opposite of what they said.
As a short guy myself, I feel like society has pushed us to be hyper virtuous on height-requirement and rejections otherwise we're seen as "small man syndrome" or "Nepolean complex". I think I'm okay with people having a height requirement, but I'm not okay with people using those terms.
totally agree man, as a short individual my self(5"1')when i see things like 6 feet and up only i respect it but it still hurts when it basically says i won't even be given a chance
I'm 190cm so I haven't faced any height discrimination in my life, but it strikes me as incredibly superficial. To me putting a height requirement in a profile it's more or less the same as someone writing "no women with small breasts" on their profile. We all have our preferences of course, but to instantly disregard someone because of a single physical attribute rather than considering their entire package is just so unbelievably one-dimensional.
The only reason people care about height as much as they do now is because of the internet. You're being compared to EVERYONE on the internet now, not just the people you meet in real life. So now people are entitled thinking they're going to wait for that perfect someone that they've seen online, but will never meet in real life.
16:44 "It's all going to a landfill whether you poop in the trash or you spit it out now." I love how every agrees and doesn't question pooping in a trash can.
15:05 I don't know if this is helpful but Damien actually pointed out something very common with autistic people. I know there's a term for it but if you're in the middle of a task and someone tells you to do it, you just instinctively can't continue doing it even if you wanted to, it's like a mental block. Happens a lot with cleaning too, like if you're cleaning your house and someone walks in going "hey can you help clean" and then suddenly you just CAN'T clean anymore because you wanna crawl out of your skin rather than complete the request.
I finally went to the movies alone and it was so freeing. If there's ever a movie you're excited about and don't have someone equally as excited to go with - go alone, trust me.
i know this isn't the most recent one but i actually really enjoy these series i'm assuming these are your genuine opinions and more insight to you guys as individuals it's a very awesome way to connect to your audience keep it going i say
The discussion about height was really interesting to listen too because I’m a 6 foot tall woman who is bisexual, so listening to Amanda talk about the importance of height in a partner through her eyes and also how tommy was talking about gay relationships. I definitely feel both of those points they made. To me height is never something that is a big deal but other people often make a big deal about. Others often expect or assume my type for men to be 6’5 and big, and women to be 5’0 and petite. I don’t know I just like who I like height is barely a factor. There is this weird social construct that a man needs to be taller and women need to be this smaller thing he needs to protect. Overall definitely agreed with shaynes take on it the most. I respect people are going to like what they like if you are a girl who puts in their tinder bio 6 foot and above you do you. I just don’t like when other people get all weird about it when I date someone shorter than me.
As a fellow bi, height isn't a big deal for me when determining if someone is dateable or nor. With that said, I favor more androgynous builds so super big manly men and small petite women don't really do it for me. If anything I find myself more attracted to the inverse; big muscly girls and small feminine guys.
Damien at 15:15 - Demand Avoidance! Haha ☺️ I've recently been figuring it out for myself. Even if it just feels like a something I feel like people say I should do something there's the underlying urge to absolutely not do it
"id survive a zombie apocalypse" damien: i wouldnt want to, whats the point, what are you living for? amanda: you dont have a choice damien: yes you absolutely do damien is my mood
Another note for showers. People can have issues with executive function. Meaning they may have issues with "common" tasks like brushing teeth, showers, eating, changing clothes. Also many people with disabilities dont have access to bathing areas.
Very true. Things like mental illness can effect how often people do these things. When my depression gets bad sometimes I just cant bring myself to do that kind of stuff for a while. Also, where I live, the mineral content in the water is so high that if you take a shower every day your skin and hair get SO DRY, and it's just genuinely bad for your skin.
i really need to push myself or have others push me to brush my teeth. showers too. (better recently because i shower after working out because even I can smell myself). no seratonin drop on my brain from common tasks.
I shower once every 3 or 4 days. Only because I'm in my head way too much and getting 24/7 distracted with thoughts of oo what's this what's this what's this. Then something interesting comes along and you focus solely on that thing then something stupid ALWAYS gets in the way like school and work because after you finally notice what time it is after you finally get out of your head enough to notice the time you just skip the shower from the rush of oh shit oh shit oh shit forgetting it entirely because of not having time to take one then after work. It's like the cycle repeats itself.
I can't tell you the amount of times somebody suggested I should or shouldn't do something only for me to say 'don't tell me what to do' and do the exact opposite of what they suggested. A couple months ago, I was at work when my colleague jokingly said 'don't eat that receipt!'. I looked straight at her as I put the paper in my mouth, chewed and swallowed...I'm 34, I'm pretty sure I should have grown out of this by now!
For me, I could go either way, but I super relate to Damien. If someone asks me to do something out of the blue or to help them, I'll probably do it. However, one of my biggest pet peeves is someone telling me to do something I was already gonna do, or, worse yet, telling me to hurry up what I'm doing. If I'm off to do a chore, and someone says, "hey, you should do that chore," then I will feel less inclined to do it. My basest example is that if I'm crossing the road with a green pedestrian light, and a car honks at me, I would walk slower, or sometimes even stop just to spite them. A small part of me thinks that doing this might help reinforce in them that that kind of behavior doesn't work when trying to motivate other people to do something you want them to do.
I looove this series so much, don't you dare ever take it away. The one about not doing things when you're told hits hard. If you tell me I need to do something, you just put it off another week or so, regardless of me wanting to get it done, like Damien said, I'll probably unpack that someday. But it works the other way too, sometimes I'll want to go get a coffee but not be sure if I wanna spend the money and my partner will say "you really shouldn't, you don't have a lot of money rn" and I'm out the door so fast to get my coffee, I will not be told what to do...given some exceptions of course, like if I wanna go to a concert and someone says I should, their opinion already didn't matter cause I had my mind set it stone.
17:28 I took a screenshot of this because this is such meme material. Shayne looking like he's trying to guiltily explain himself while everyone looks at him with shame. Perfect.
“Maybe the next Amanda will be better.”
One of the single greatest roasts to ever leave Tommy’s lips.
No one roasts better than Tommy
@@Kelly-ib1hf idk, Noah as some strong roasting capabilities. Just not on screen as much as Tommy anymore.
tommy is so funny
I SCREAMED
What banger to go out on.
Olivia's chaotic perspectives vs Shayne's bewilderment will always be entertaining
Yes Shayne is constantly trying to figure her out and it bothers him so much 😂
for real I love how it's pure confusion on his face with some of the conversations
She was spittin tho
Fr I love their dynamic 😂
“Chaotic perspectives” is such a kind way of putting it.
Now we know that Olivia goes into the shower three times a day, but does NOT wash her legs in it.
The Olivia lore deepens.
I mean if she's showering three times a day I'd be surprised if her legs have any dirt on them lol
@@FORGOTTENMINDFREAK23 idk, I feel like you gotta like scrub debris off bc like getting wet doesn’t clean tbh
@@TroubledGothMime she might have to exfoliate every now and again but she has soap running down her legs three times a day. Her legs are gonna be clean enough.
@@TroubledGothMime I mean the shower has pressure
@@JT-295 that reaches the top of ur body not legs and soap is still gonna clean better than water
"Clapping is equivalent to calling in to radio stations."
- Olivia Sui, 2022
that was so fucking funny and it makes complete sense too
Shayne quietly joking about Olivia saying exactly what he said and then looking at Damien and having to hold his laughter in is such a testament to their friendship. Who hasn't had to hold in a laugh with their bestie?
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@@anxiasmr 2:45
That was so funny
what are you waffling about lmao
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LOL Shayne throwing straight strays at Courtney when she not even there🤣
that was a legit courtney question
You just know she's gonna punch him in the shoulder and yell at him next time they see, love the brother-sister messing around energy they have.
@@hamzaabbas9795 a very homeschool question 😂
I'm half expected for Courtney that she would listen to this video, drive to the office and straight up hit him, like "oh F*** YOU SHAYNE!" XD
@@Kavriel I've always found it weird how people love to refer to two individuals as siblings but view shipping as wierd because in both cases, you're defining their relationship the way you want to see it. And before you say siblings is not as wierd, Courtney has said calling them siblings is wierd to her.
Amandas, "You looks really cool right now." To Shayne leaning on the wall made me laugh way more than warranted.
The Pharoh High promo's are getting out of hand.
Thing is, she's not wrong, Shayne looked cool af too
LOL Same
Then immediately confirming she can't date short guys
did you catch Damien's *so so, hand gesture just afterwards haha
olivia's reaction when she realizes shes the only one in the disagree lane for the shower question is simply incredible
I live in Japan and I said the comment about it being bad for your hair once and everyone, and ive never seen this before, got upset. immediate rebuttal. i now do the hair washing once a day even though im going very bald.
@@wasteinyourandmytime who cares what they think? keep your hair healthy
@@wasteinyourandmytime i would guess that reaction is likely due to genetic/cultural differences with hair washing. i'm korean and my scalp and hair get super greasy if i don't wash it every day. i imagine it's likely a greater population of east asians have that condition as well. but you definitely shouldn't wash your hair every day if it's hurting you!
@@wasteinyourandmytime Because it's not bad for your hair. its a myth that it is.
@@wasteinyourandmytime Asian hair is a lot more thicker and robust. White people bald more easily. These two facts make me think that Asian hair can tolerate a lot more washing before it takes its toll
Damien describing pathological demand avoidance is my favorite thing ever because same!!
I searched for this comment , I knew the neurodivergent's would be here ahahaha
My son is like this. I've been fighting for YEARS to get him diagnosed. And I struggle with it too.
A found you my fellow neurodivergents.
My brain works in a way where if somebody tells me to do something I basically have to, but if they give me advice I can't. I don't know why my brain draws a line there.
i love watching damien in videos and noticing things i do and pointing at him and going "autism"
"why do you feel so... self important enough to clap and make a loud sound in a public place"
Olivia understands. Thank you Olivia.
Shayne's impression of Courtney was absolutely spot on.
I think a really important thing that was missing from Shayne and Olivia talking about showering every day is the idea of working out. Shayne and Olivia are both very fit, so they probably work out almost every day, and if you've worked up a big sweat, you need a shower. Plus it feels great after a workout.
True, shower after a workout feels great
Mah just like Tommy said, if you're doing nothing it's kind of fun to chill in your sweat x)
And it feels so clean before bed
Olivia works out frequently
Yeah, it makes sense that the two people who always work out will shower every day. And I get the whole shower being a reset thing and sort of therapeutic... but I sometimes don't shower for 3 days because I'm just not bothered lol. As long as you don't stink or feel sweaty, what's the point? Just change your clothes and do what feels good for you.
Also, depending on the type of hair you havewashing it every day might be what it needs
Olivia is probably at least 15% responsible for the california drought.
Her and Dwayne Johnson.
@@ZacLJones Dwayne sweats through diesel right
Someone needs to stop her
😂
But her person is too small 😂
Damien's wide stance ehile explaining why he likes people clapping on planes was so flipping funny😂
I have a strong opinion on tipping. Americans employers should and must pay their employees the amount enough for living expenses. Tipping should not be the norm, it must only be optional
Agree man, why tf put extra stress on everyone else to make sure that person makes enough money?
I agree. Tipping has made it acceptable for a company to pay employees 4$ an hour
@@yoshuatree8538 even less depending on where you are. I was working in Arkansas at Cheddars as a server for the three years at $2.63/hr +tips. While I worked at this restaurant, all of my paychecks were nulled or maybe $5 if I worked 80hours in the paycheck time frame because of taxation on my hourly rate, but also taxes on my tips if they were on card. That’s another point to discuss. I could lie and pocket my cash tips at work and not “claim” them so I could survive a little longer on the little money I had because they can’t tax cash tips unless you report them at the end of your shift. With all these machines being added to restaurants/cafes, the tips will always be taxed. It’s despicable. After working in restaurants and bars for almost 10 years and have gotten out, I can agree with the idea of increasing base rate pay and lessening the idea of tips being mandatory/heavily influenced to do it. If companies can’t pay a decent living wage so workers aren’t over stressing their minds and bodies to put a meal on the table, then that business shouldn’t be open.
agreed completely. I didn't even know tipping existed untill I watched American TV shows and the concept has always seemed so strange to me.
Exactly, they really need to change it at this point. The expected tipping amount is starting to get really high too because of inflation. Pay the employees! They deserve a good flat rate (so tips can be extra). They shouldn't have to rely on customers knowing how to tip to afford their rent
As someone who is having a really hard time and hasnt showered like 4 days, this made me feel a lot better for myself.
Sorry to hear you're having a hard time, I hope you get through it!
That sounds rough. Maybe a shower would help you feel better?
[this was a joke. hope you feel better]
I was gonna mention, it's really hard to even get out of bed, let alone practice self-care when deeply depressed. This is called rumination.
My thought process when it happens is "I'm stuck in this dark pit. I just want to rot and die. I could care less how I look or feel."
Eventually, your external appearance reflects how you feel internally...
that’s nasty :)
@@JW-cvnt shut up
Shayne talking about Courtney swallowing gum was the funniest thing I’ve ever seen and so accurate probably actually
"Height is important to me when dating." (the two tallest people in the cast agree)
I love how Shayne suggests they should just round it off, and Olivia comes up with exactly the same idea and is completely oblivious LMAO
My problem with this is Olivia naively believes that if something was $0.51 that they'd round it down to $0.50, when we all know darn well that they'd round up to $0.55 or $0.60.
@@timburke8855 As a canadian, I can confirm we round down in that scenario. However , I would obviously expect capitalist america to round up however.
@@0001letias a Dutchman, we also round down when appropriate.
As someone with depression, I have a really hard time maintaining my personal hygiene. There's been days where I haven't showered in three days and physically can't bring myself to brush my teeth. It's nice to know that I'm not being shamed for something that's hard for me to complete
You shouldn’t be shamed for that type of stuff, but you should definitely try to find a way to motivate yourself to take care of yourself better. As hard as it is when you’re dealing with depression, I’m sure you can find a way to push yourself to take better care of your hygiene. If you adopt the mentality that it’s ok to not take care of your hygiene, that’ll only make your situation worse.
@@hrvbox no one can conceptualize what depression is until they get it,i genuinely believe that.
I think that people should be more empathetic and open minded to possibilities like these(missing hygiene because of depression) but there shouldn't be complete acceptance and tolerance to wrong behavior. When you you're in a depressive episode the single worst thing you can do is do things that make you feel even worse about yourself.
@@hrvbox physically impossible? umm no, if you're depressed it's definitely physically possible. There's not something literally stopping you from taking a shower, except yourself. Everyone feels depressed at some point in their life.
I've gone a month without showering. I'll wear a hood at school so people don't see my hair and then I'll just spray perfume and wear deodorant.
@boomfamgdb me in my adolescence was so bad. There'd be times where my hair would be pretty much matter and absolutely greasy and I couldn't feel enough shame to get up and get in the shower. I'm a bit better now, at most only last one to two weeks before I force myself, but it takes me at least ten minutes once I'm in the shower to start doing stuff and not just standing their avoiding it
I have never related more to Olivia then when she said "I can't even eat a toasted ciabatta sandwich without scraping the roof of my mouth".
Amanda's take on the take-a-penny, leave-a-penny tray was low key quite profound. Touching on that desire/need for support and community hit me hard.
I’ve honestly never heard or seen of these, but they sound quite nice and I enjoy the thought of it
I leave my pennies there because I have literally no use for pennies because they are outdated, useless tokens of Zinc
That almost changed my mind on the penny
we could just change it to a nickel
The physicality that Tommy had when talking about "The Gay Dynamics" was the funniest thing I've ever seen
And he was SO RIGHT
Love seeing genuine Olivia, not in any character. Her characters she commits to or exaggerations she does sometimes, they are hilarious, don't get me wrong! But this is refreshing and sweet.
I always think of the time she was so enthusiastic about the MIMAL man.
It's kinda sweet...but of the six in today's video she was the most judgy.
Olivia is literally wilder than any of the characters she plays.
When Damian explains the “I won’t do something cause you told me to” I totally feel that!! I thought it was just a really weird thing I had, but I guess other people have it as well
@cakepiewafflesthat fits with the eye tick thing he has going on.
For anyone still going to school: please, for the sake of sanity, do NOT stick gum under desks/tables.
Sincerely, a custodian who has to scrape all that shit off during the summer.
I went to a private school and they made us scrape them once a month or if there was writing on the tables we had to clean them too. Cause we have to respect the custodian and not give them extra work they didn't sign up for.
Dude I salute you, I don't WANNA imagine the kinds of things you have to scrape off if school LOL
I've never understood why it's so hard to get up and use a garbage can for some people
@@glitxhhh i dont stick gum under the table a lot, maybe like once in 6 months, but sometimes its so scary to just go up to front of the class and spit it out
Dont*
Shayne and Ian roasting Courtney when she's not even there is so funny to me, even funnier is knowing even if she was they'd still roast her LOL
Id like the camera to capture Courtney's retaliation.
Shayne, I'm born and raised in Wisconsin. I love it, and it will always be my home. If you think for one second the people I grew up with would clap at a plane landing...you are absolutely right. We're fucking dorks.
Opposite experiences had being born and raised in Minnesota. We don't like to draw attention to ourselves, and clapping would immediately draw eyes. Obviously there are exceptions, but flying from Minnesota to another location seems to be a less engaging experience than flying from other locations. We keep to ourselves, but might try to throw in small talk.
I don't really get it, I'm from belgium and clapping at a plane landing used to be quite normal here (read: the whole plane did it everytime). To me it just felt like some sort of etiquette to show appreciation towards the pilot for the nice flight, like thanking the bus driver you know. While the custom has died out over here, I kinda never saw or considered it as something negative, it was a bit useless perhaps but I don't really get the argument of olivia of doing it out of self importance or anything, it's quite the opposite in fact.
I just came to the realization that when Olivia starts talking, I automatically watch Shayne's reaction. Just when Olivia is talking. Has anyone else gotten into that habit?
Nah I just watch Shayne the whole time
@@sosophone1526yeah same😅
"i shower all the time, it's the save point" THATS SO TRUE. shayne just put my feeling toward showering into words omg
also case for sequels sometimes being better, three words: Top Gun Maverick.
Damien’s joke of “that’s true doe” as a pun on “Trudeau” went way under-appreciated
I was gonna say everyone slept on that joke
I'm surprised I had to scroll down this far until I found a comment on that.
This seems like a really good series, I think the debates could be a little longer (everyone back their opinion), or there should be a few more questions being asked!
Yesss agreed! Would love to hear more questions! This series is so fun!
Guess a lot is cut due to potential controversies, if they could delete anything anyone said they would
also less "it's okay to..." questions. Makes it too easy to agree.
yes !!
Edit*: Omg, I'm cackling at the "height matters to me when dating".
I love that Ian and Amanda give off like older siblings/aunt and uncle vibes. 😂 I love this era of cast is just so great. I look forward to every single video across channels.
When Amanda said, "Dogs are so loyal. If you get lost in the woods, they will follow you!" STORY TIME...
Growing up, I lived in the country. We didn't have a farm or anything, just 10 acres of land with some woods. When I was 4 or 5, I decided to go on my own little adventure and I went into our woods. Our cat, Mama Kitty, and our dog, Shren, followed me and herded me back to the house. I very vaguely remember it, but I remember looking behind me and both of them were keeping up with me and making sure I was going in the right direction. Both animals showed love and loyalty and made sure my dumbass baby self was safe. :D Cats and dogs are amazing and I'm so happy they exist.
Good thing they were there for you and got you safe 😊.
Reminds me of a video online where a cat was preventing a baby to fall down the stairs.
Great stories about the goodness of pets.
Good thing they were there for you and got you safe 😊.
Reminds me of a video online where a cat was preventing a baby to fall down the stairs.
Great stories about the goodness of pets.
WE NEED A HOT TAKES LIKE THIS WITH ANTHONY, DAMIEN, SHAYNE, IAN, TOMMY, CHANSE, AND ANGELA!!
i’ve been really enjoying the laid-back energy in pit and smoshgames. keep it up!
I'm with Damien and Tommy. I HATED when someone tells me to do something that I'm planning to do. And no I won't do it after they tell me to do it.
"Well now I'm not gonna do it >:( "
@@daethenix669 hahaha XD
Exactly!!!!!!!
When my mom comes out of the shower and tells me to take out the trash when I've already done it, most aggrevating shit in the world
Omg same. And the way Damien was like "maybe someday I'll unpack this" I was like please I'm ready I wanna know what's going on in my brain lol. The worst for me is when I fall asleep on the couch. If I wake up to start to head to bed and someone tells me to go to bed, I get so upset and will sleep all night on the couch that night.
damien talking about not wanting to do something when someone tells you to after you were already planning on it - ACCURATE AND IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU
Im the same way, and I feel like it's some weird kinda control thing (as many things are.) Like we get frustrated when someone tells us to do something cuz like we were choosing, by ourselves, to do a thing, but when someone tells us to do it, now it feels like were just doing what were told, and not what we chose to do. Idk, might be talkin out my ass, but that tracks for me 🤷♂️
I like going for a walk to get stuff for the house. But then someone is like "get .... from ....." and suddenly it feels like a chore and something I gotta do. Not just me stretching my legs.
I will be getting ready to take out the trash and my dad will say “take out the trash” and now it’s a chore so I don’t want to do it
Y’all should look into demand avoidance and how it relates to neurodivergence - even if it’s not relevant to you, it’s a good thing to be aware of!!
Amanda and Olivia have such fun explanations for everything haha. Also I relate extremely hard to Damien on the not wanting to do something once somebody else tells me to do it thing.
Shayne's "you're a serial killer" was so hilarious and it went so unnoticed
LOVE THIS SERIES
Also, “Maybe the next Amanda will be better” Jesus tommy 😂
Another zinger another zinger by Thomas Bowe from Smosh
I relate to Damien's unwillingness to do things I was already planning on doing when I've been told to them. My theory/observation is that it feels inauthentic and ruins the satisfaction of self-starting when someone else recommends or instructs that I do something.
THIS!!
I'm very big on being independent, it makes me feel good. So when someone tells me to take care of something I was already thinking about doing, I lose all motivation cause now it doesn't feel like my good idea anymore, its *their* good idea. Ruins the satisfaction of being independent.
Same here...
It could be that but it’s also something one should bring up with a therapist/psychologist especially if that person has previously been diagnosed with ADHD (and maybe also autism) since oppositional defiant disorder is a frequent enough comorbidity. ODD for adults is more common with those with ADHD than those without it
@@Corrugated_Boxi know there’s a symptom of autism called “pathological demand avoidance” & it’s exactly that. whenever you feel a lessened sense of autonomy or like someone is telling you that you HAVE to do something, there’s a visceral feeling of needing to deny or avoid that. it can often be seen from other people as just ‘being difficult’, but it’s a strong feeling of needing to maintain control
Yes, it demotivates you because it robs you of your agency, and agency is essential to successfully self-actualize.
Olivia: I’m not built for this world.
Everyone: We know.
😂
Olivia’s built different
@@DelightfullyGrace "Your honor, she been like this."
@@mfitzburger5137 oh my gawd the reference humor is strong with you lol 💜
She takes three showers a DAY. She wouldn't last in a zombie apocalypse.
Damien going to the front made me NERVOUS but plane clapping as a filter mechanism for assholes BRILLIANT I should never doubt him
Olivia ABSOLUTELY gives cat energy
Her showering 3 times a day honestly contributes to this vibe
Damien: going to the movies alone sounds spooky and hard
Anxiety gang let's goooo
I was also thinking, "Well yeah, he's more introverted. If we're not going out as a specific outting with friends, we'd rather just watch it at home."
Because anxiety and introversion is like, "You want me to go where and do what?" Speaking from all the experience.
Personally as someone who has done both in MS & HS, I like going in a group better. When I was alone, I felt like everyone else thought I was a loser with no friends lmao.
woot woot
I'm the same way. I have gone to movies by myself, but I always don't really like it. I wanted to see a movie once, and none of my friends were available or wanted to see it. When I was alone, I cried because I felt lonely. It was weird, and embarrassing. But totally get the "spooky and hard" part of it.
A couple of times iv3 driven to the movies, been too scared to go in, and driven straight home again. Well not straight home, I had to have a breakdown in the car first.
Amanda: "You lose the chance to stick it under a desk"
Shayne: (automatic) "ooh, F*ck you!"
I relate to that on an entirely different level.
The energy and realism of these vids is so cool can’t wait to see more!
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Totally agree it’s got that funny feel but when they speak there mind they make good points
It's 100% real, there's no writing or scripts, or acting. Just them having fun with casual debates. Well ppl always tend to have an on-camera personality that's slightly different from off camera, they exaggerate themselves a bit and keep a higher level of energy. But this is subconscious/habitual. Unless you're Olivia, I really don't think she does this at all lol.
this video is actually the reason i watched a movie on my own, and i also happened to be the only person in there, so it was cool and i allowed myself to cry at the emotional part
Tommy’s yell-laugh is my favorite thing on planet earth
"Clapping is like equivalent to calling in radio stations." (Sui, 2022)
idk why but I get what she was trying to say
@@rantingegalitarian4043 I totally agreed with her. It’s like you’re trying to get attention but no one cares even if it’s an audience lol
That showed a lack of understanding, honestly. I used to call into radio stations in the middle of the night when I was 17 because I was stuck in an abusive home, home-schooled and isolated, and I desperately needed to talk to someone. I would have killed myself if I didn't have that. I heard a lot of other people in similar positions ring - or people who were on the verge of suicide, or whose mum had just died, or something. Talk radio is there for a reason.
Tommy’s continued disgust toward literacy is hilarious 😂
and relatable
Shayne's idea to remove the penny and just start rounding is exactly what we've been doing in Canada since like 2013
i think we should abolish physical currency altogether cause it's a waste of metals and paper.
@@JudojugsVtuber i disagree because earlier this month one of the biggest internet providers in all of canada had a nationwide outage and the debit went down on the same day so everyone was scrambling to get their hands on some cash. If we could prevent something like that from happening, then sure get rid of it, whatever, but there's no guarantees it won't happen again
Wrong, we don’t exist didn’t you hear Ian tell the real truth about our fake country
All I say, is keep the penny so we have fodder for those machines that smash them and make fun designs!
@ashlynbrissette4094 But we could do this with all the pennies we have currently, at least for a while.
The showering question is hard because depression sometimes takes over. "I work with Courtney every day and I don't think she's ever showered in her life." SHAYNE NO.
So many of my people with depression in this comments section specifically coming out to talk about showering and brushing our teeth. I love you all so much ❤ it do be a reeeeal struggle sometimes
“i ‘work’ with courtney every day and i don’t think she’s showered once in her life.” -shayne
I came here for this exact comment LMAO
this series is fun. the diversity of the cast really lends itself to this format, everyone has such wildly different perspectives informed by their backgrounds. i'd like to see more crew members in this show from time to time, itd be a neat little way to learn a bit more about everyone.
I don’t think Olivia and I have much in common, but I felt a special kinship when she said “I was not build for this world” in relation to her sensitive mouth. The struggle of not being able to eat cereal that is TOO crunchy without destroying your mouth is very real.
I'm eating pretzels right now and I can taste the scrapes
Amanda and Tommy always get wheezy belly laughs out of me.
That's it. That's my comment. Thanks you two.
Shayne: I work with Courtney every day …..
Subtle Shayne, subtle.
21:58 when Shayne said, "...If you're playing Magic: The Gathering." I was playing Magic The Gathering. it is a burn from truth...
I would love to see this - but everyone is blindfolded.
knky
some ideas:
- it’s better to shower at night rather than in the morning
- it’s better to take shoes off in your home
- cold weather or hot weather
15:10 That's a common occurrence with anxious people, to be fair, and I suppose it comes mostly from the feeling of control being taken away. It doesn't matter that I'd already set my mind on somethin; when someone tells me to do it, it feels like they're deciding for me, and I just want to wrestle back my "free will" the clearest way possible - doing the exact opposite of what they said.
Yeah for sure it's like now someone's expectant of me performing the task and it's all of a sudden more pressure to do just a simple thing
It's also pretty common with people with ADHD which I think Damien has?
Omg thank you this makes perfect sense
Oh… another thing… great
I do that too. That makes sense. social anxiety disorder and didnt even realize it was related to that.
The whole part starting at 17:18 with Amanda standing in the front and Shayne way in the back 😂 she looks double his size!
I definitely feel this was one of the best games smosh plays, it's makes me think what would I do why and listen to the opposing points. 10/10
As a short guy myself, I feel like society has pushed us to be hyper virtuous on height-requirement and rejections otherwise we're seen as "small man syndrome" or "Nepolean complex". I think I'm okay with people having a height requirement, but I'm not okay with people using those terms.
totally agree man, as a short individual my self(5"1')when i see things like 6 feet and up only i respect it but it still hurts when it basically says i won't even be given a chance
Also Napoleon wasn't even particularly short, just a bit of trivia that people for some reason never know.
I'm 190cm so I haven't faced any height discrimination in my life, but it strikes me as incredibly superficial. To me putting a height requirement in a profile it's more or less the same as someone writing "no women with small breasts" on their profile.
We all have our preferences of course, but to instantly disregard someone because of a single physical attribute rather than considering their entire package is just so unbelievably one-dimensional.
The only reason people care about height as much as they do now is because of the internet. You're being compared to EVERYONE on the internet now, not just the people you meet in real life. So now people are entitled thinking they're going to wait for that perfect someone that they've seen online, but will never meet in real life.
Amanda: “You look very cool right now [Shayne].”
Damien: *so-so hand gesture*
I missed that, brilliant
16:44 "It's all going to a landfill whether you poop in the trash or you spit it out now." I love how every agrees and doesn't question pooping in a trash can.
i dont think they realised 😭
I don't think I'll ever get over Shayne's Courtney impression it was so spot on
15:05 I don't know if this is helpful but Damien actually pointed out something very common with autistic people. I know there's a term for it but if you're in the middle of a task and someone tells you to do it, you just instinctively can't continue doing it even if you wanted to, it's like a mental block. Happens a lot with cleaning too, like if you're cleaning your house and someone walks in going "hey can you help clean" and then suddenly you just CAN'T clean anymore because you wanna crawl out of your skin rather than complete the request.
Being from Wisconsin I was at first offended and then remembered who I grew up with so fair. You win this time Shayne….
I finally went to the movies alone and it was so freeing. If there's ever a movie you're excited about and don't have someone equally as excited to go with - go alone, trust me.
I could easily watch 3h of this. Great series, keep coming'em.
i know this isn't the most recent one but i actually really enjoy these series
i'm assuming these are your genuine opinions and more insight to you guys as individuals
it's a very awesome way to connect to your audience
keep it going i say
The camera work at 1:47 is so perfect. I died it's soooo good
I'm really glad Amanda is in so much of these now. I think she's awesome, and for some reason I agree with every take she had
Video idea: Send Damien to the movies by himself. Or just say you're doing a video at a theatre and then no one else shows up.
No someone should drive him there, make sure he gets a ticket and then make an excuse to go to the bathroom and then out the door. 😂
If no one shows up Damien would probably just leave the theatre to find them 😂
that sounds like a nightmare and flashbacks to school bullying no thx
I just keep thinking about the April Fools video of Damien doing a puzzle all by himself for an hour. He really doesn't like to be alone.
@@katy6729 Yeah tricking people into doing shit involving abandonment is not cool at all
The discussion about height was really interesting to listen too because I’m a 6 foot tall woman who is bisexual, so listening to Amanda talk about the importance of height in a partner through her eyes and also how tommy was talking about gay relationships. I definitely feel both of those points they made. To me height is never something that is a big deal but other people often make a big deal about. Others often expect or assume my type for men to be 6’5 and big, and women to be 5’0 and petite. I don’t know I just like who I like height is barely a factor.
There is this weird social construct that a man needs to be taller and women need to be this smaller thing he needs to protect.
Overall definitely agreed with shaynes take on it the most. I respect people are going to like what they like if you are a girl who puts in their tinder bio 6 foot and above you do you. I just don’t like when other people get all weird about it when I date someone shorter than me.
As a fellow bi, height isn't a big deal for me when determining if someone is dateable or nor. With that said, I favor more androgynous builds so super big manly men and small petite women don't really do it for me. If anything I find myself more attracted to the inverse; big muscly girls and small feminine guys.
19:44 NOT THE ZOOM IN ON SHAYNE😂😭
23:21 cheetah girls 2, high school musical 2, dark knight etc there are so many incredible sequels
okay but tommy and amanda are the BEST duo dynamic in smosh
I NEED more Tommy and Amanda together. I need it. They are are sequel to Shane and Courtney.
In that case, sequels are not better than originals because Shourtney chemistry has been unmatched
@@ldarkllrevanl181 kinda sad that even the combined name has to bring up Shane's height
22:47 like it how the guys nod when he says courtney never showers before realising he was joking lmao
Damien at 15:15 - Demand Avoidance! Haha ☺️ I've recently been figuring it out for myself. Even if it just feels like a something I feel like people say I should do something there's the underlying urge to absolutely not do it
"id survive a zombie apocalypse"
damien: i wouldnt want to, whats the point, what are you living for?
amanda: you dont have a choice
damien: yes you absolutely do
damien is my mood
i would genuinely watch an hour long episode of this
Lol I loved Tommy saying “maybe the next Amanda will be better” perfect comedic timing.
I love how serious Damien takes these videos
23:42 "Maybe the next Amanda will be better" Lmao burn
Shayne’s “That’s a great ideall” after he just got done saying the same thing killed me
I paused at 4:05 and that power standoff between Damien and Olivia is POWERFUL
Another note for showers. People can have issues with executive function. Meaning they may have issues with "common" tasks like brushing teeth, showers, eating, changing clothes.
Also many people with disabilities dont have access to bathing areas.
Very true. Things like mental illness can effect how often people do these things. When my depression gets bad sometimes I just cant bring myself to do that kind of stuff for a while. Also, where I live, the mineral content in the water is so high that if you take a shower every day your skin and hair get SO DRY, and it's just genuinely bad for your skin.
i really need to push myself or have others push me to brush my teeth. showers too. (better recently because i shower after working out because even I can smell myself). no seratonin drop on my brain from common tasks.
I shower once every 3 or 4 days. Only because I'm in my head way too much and getting 24/7 distracted with thoughts of oo what's this what's this what's this. Then something interesting comes along and you focus solely on that thing then something stupid ALWAYS gets in the way like school and work because after you finally notice what time it is after you finally get out of your head enough to notice the time you just skip the shower from the rush of oh shit oh shit oh shit forgetting it entirely because of not having time to take one then after work. It's like the cycle repeats itself.
I have never related more to Damien and Tomey then when they said they don’t like when ppl tell them to do stuff.
I can't tell you the amount of times somebody suggested I should or shouldn't do something only for me to say 'don't tell me what to do' and do the exact opposite of what they suggested. A couple months ago, I was at work when my colleague jokingly said 'don't eat that receipt!'. I looked straight at her as I put the paper in my mouth, chewed and swallowed...I'm 34, I'm pretty sure I should have grown out of this by now!
For me, I could go either way, but I super relate to Damien.
If someone asks me to do something out of the blue or to help them, I'll probably do it.
However, one of my biggest pet peeves is someone telling me to do something I was already gonna do, or, worse yet, telling me to hurry up what I'm doing.
If I'm off to do a chore, and someone says, "hey, you should do that chore," then I will feel less inclined to do it.
My basest example is that if I'm crossing the road with a green pedestrian light, and a car honks at me, I would walk slower, or sometimes even stop just to spite them.
A small part of me thinks that doing this might help reinforce in them that that kind of behavior doesn't work when trying to motivate other people to do something you want them to do.
It's absolutely wild because their justification about not reading is exactly my own justification about not reading.
shanes sigh at 19:22 is the most depressing sigh i've ever heard lmao
Guess what? 🤣😅
Courtney's not even in the video and shayne still roast her - true friendship
I looove this series so much, don't you dare ever take it away.
The one about not doing things when you're told hits hard.
If you tell me I need to do something, you just put it off another week or so, regardless of me wanting to get it done, like Damien said, I'll probably unpack that someday. But it works the other way too, sometimes I'll want to go get a coffee but not be sure if I wanna spend the money and my partner will say "you really shouldn't, you don't have a lot of money rn" and I'm out the door so fast to get my coffee, I will not be told what to do...given some exceptions of course, like if I wanna go to a concert and someone says I should, their opinion already didn't matter cause I had my mind set it stone.
2:30 “that’s Tru-Deau” I see what you did there Damian
“It makes no difference whether you poop in the trash or throw it out now!” Damien… are you shitting in a trash can?
Alright let's get a tally. Shitting in a trash can is better than going straight to the landfills to shit:
*AGREE* / *DISAGREE*
17:28 I took a screenshot of this because this is such meme material. Shayne looking like he's trying to guiltily explain himself while everyone looks at him with shame. Perfect.
Love the honesty and awkward moments