I would like you to continue with Love is Blind season. I have watched the whole series a few times. But I would love to hear your thoughts because I really did enjoy your take away from the show.
Feelings come and go. Not a stable foundation for a long term relationship. They are indicators of needs being met or not. I m sill learning to recognise the need
I love this video, Marianne! I was resistant to watching it because I wasn’t clear about what it would be, but I am captivated, touched, and enthralled. I enjoy listening to both your insight and your truths and redactions as they live in you. It feels very relieving and connecting to me. And I also feel excited and grateful in that I’m having an opportunity to learn. I recently prayed about learning to communicate and express emotions. I feel largely in touch with my emotional world but often unable to discuss it without it becoming a dialogue of thoughts, and feeling empty. I’m feeling support from this video in learning about how to change this. I appreciate the exposure to the wisdom, truth, and love of you and what you’ve learned from NVC, practice, and your life. I want to thank you and let you know the luckiness and joy I feel. 🤍
I think you really nailed it about the couple Mark and (?) being stuck in their head rather than connecting to their own feelings and heart, and it really drove home the point that we need to connect to ourselves before we can connect with others.
This is GREAT. I've been looking for a way to learn emotional intelligence and communication through daily life, and this is exactly it. I would love to see more like this. A thought - I wonder if the producers chose people who could express some level of emotion, or if the nature of not being able to see non-verbal communication creates a situation where people put more effort into speaking? I watched some of the first season and felt that Jessica was not very in touch with her own emotions, she has a lot of issues to work through in order to be able to communicate about her needs. Whereas Mark is much more aware and able to express himself in a very sensitive way.
I love that you did this. You are a wonderful teacher of empathetic communication. Grateful for your input. I think it would be hilarious if you watched Twilight and commented on it. haha. Don't know if you ever watched it before. haha. Love and Light.
I really like this original idea of you to comment this reality show; at first I felt kind of worried how it could be for them to have commented (not judged, you are very respectful with that) their behaviour but I guess who’s ready for a reality show probably doesn’t mind ;-). Said that I just learned so much from this and being very very grateful as you are closing a gap, nobody really teaches us this: How to date being vulnerable and setting the roots for a deep connection, a lot more difficult to establish further on. WOW! Liked to substitute promise with “having a strong intention” to not risk disappointment and defining a conflict “2 people expressing and no one listening”. Your invitation to dig more in the vulnerability part (about 27. minute) “Can you elaborate this? I really want to get it!” probably leads to more connection and at the same time I imagine for me being afraid to make the other person feeling uncomfortable. Maybe I would in this case show my own vulnerability and add “Do you feel comfortable to share, I am worried about that”. Finishing this long comment, I loved your honesty about not getting touched by some words and see it as a sign of a POSSIBLE disconnection in the person. Helped me a lot as a clue, HAPPENS SO MUCH. Inspired by your enthusiasm to spread CNV, it could be also really interesting to share some scenes of film when there are examples for successful giraffe-language or to connect and then correct the jackle in these interactions. These kind of examples are a lot easier to remember... I am really learning so much from you, thanks Marianne!
I would like you to continue with Love is Blind season. I have watched the whole series a few times. But I would love to hear your thoughts because I really did enjoy your take away from the show.
Let me know what you thought of this!
We request more of this please.
Good concept, very interesting to get your insights of these situations. Thanks!
Yay good to know!
I never watch this kind of shows, but i love the way you explain emotions and whats behind it. Awesome. so happy that i found your channel
yay, thanks!
Feelings come and go. Not a stable foundation for a long term relationship.
They are indicators of needs being met or not. I m sill learning to recognise the need
I love this video, Marianne! I was resistant to watching it because I wasn’t clear about what it would be, but I am captivated, touched, and enthralled. I enjoy listening to both your insight and your truths and redactions as they live in you. It feels very relieving and connecting to me. And I also feel excited and grateful in that I’m having an opportunity to learn. I recently prayed about learning to communicate and express emotions. I feel largely in touch with my emotional world but often unable to discuss it without it becoming a dialogue of thoughts, and feeling empty. I’m feeling support from this video in learning about how to change this. I appreciate the exposure to the wisdom, truth, and love of you and what you’ve learned from NVC, practice, and your life. I want to thank you and let you know the luckiness and joy I feel. 🤍
I think you really nailed it about the couple Mark and (?) being stuck in their head rather than connecting to their own feelings and heart, and it really drove home the point that we need to connect to ourselves before we can connect with others.
This is GREAT. I've been looking for a way to learn emotional intelligence and communication through daily life, and this is exactly it. I would love to see more like this.
A thought - I wonder if the producers chose people who could express some level of emotion, or if the nature of not being able to see non-verbal communication creates a situation where people put more effort into speaking?
I watched some of the first season and felt that Jessica was not very in touch with her own emotions, she has a lot of issues to work through in order to be able to communicate about her needs. Whereas Mark is much more aware and able to express himself in a very sensitive way.
Loved this, I would enjoy seeing another reaction. Thanks
More of these please. I like the NVC examples too.
good to know!
I love that you did this. You are a wonderful teacher of empathetic communication. Grateful for your input. I think it would be hilarious if you watched Twilight and commented on it. haha. Don't know if you ever watched it before. haha. Love and Light.
i havent watched it, but im curious now!
I really like this original idea of you to comment this reality show; at first I felt kind of worried how it could be for them to have commented (not judged, you are very respectful with that) their behaviour but I guess who’s ready for a reality show probably doesn’t mind ;-).
Said that I just learned so much from this and being very very grateful as you are closing a gap, nobody really teaches us this: How to date being vulnerable and setting the roots for a deep connection, a lot more difficult to establish further on. WOW!
Liked to substitute promise with “having a strong intention” to not risk disappointment and defining a conflict “2 people expressing and no one listening”.
Your invitation to dig more in the vulnerability part (about 27. minute) “Can you elaborate this? I really want to get it!” probably leads to more connection and at the same time I imagine for me being afraid to make the other person feeling uncomfortable. Maybe I would in this case show my own vulnerability and add “Do you feel comfortable to share, I am worried about that”.
Finishing this long comment, I loved your honesty about not getting touched by some words and see it as a sign of a POSSIBLE disconnection in the person. Helped me a lot as a clue, HAPPENS SO MUCH.
Inspired by your enthusiasm to spread CNV, it could be also really interesting to share some scenes of film when there are examples for successful giraffe-language or to connect and then correct the jackle in these interactions. These kind of examples are a lot easier to remember...
I am really learning so much from you, thanks Marianne!
This is really helpful and amazing thank you!!
Thanks Hannah for your appreciation!
Thank you!
I like how she talks
It's interesting to use the word irritable sounds less direct/harsh then the word irritated . What's your opinion on this?
Why bisexual? He said it wasn't about sexual atrraction, only the emotional part of love.