I have a feeling Ollie and Demi make it! I really thought he wasn’t good enough for her but after talking about his ADHD it shows we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover and immediately take someone’s actions as a reflection on their personality.
100% agree. I could see now that when Jasmine was coming out him Ollie was reacting the way he was because of rejection sensitivity which is extremely common with people with ADHD.
Yeah he definitely seemed more confused and hurt than aggressive or angry back. Also I would’ve FLIPPED if I was Demi and he left to just go talk to Bobby but now we know what we know it’s understandable. I also think he should’ve disclosed that in private to her so she wasn’t in the dark too maybe? I don’t think anyone needs to disclose personal information like that but I think it would’ve given everyone a different view if we found out in the pods about his ADHD. I hope they do work it out and get married :)
Catherine should’ve just walked away if having a history of cheating is a deal breaker for her, and then she was upset about a prenup.. I think she just wanted to be on TV.
The hosts missed the point. Jasmine is a red flag. She raised her point four times. Ollie stated that he felt overwhelmed multiple times. Ollie, a black man, can never be introverted or overwhelmed can he?! It’s awful that he had to become frustrated for her to listen. We just permit poor behaviour by women and frame it as ‘being a great friend’.
I wonder how intoxicated she was. It was belligerent IMO. As in her brain was partially offline and she didn’t realize it. That’s the kind of junk that makes the US LIB so trashy. All the alcohol fueled conflicts.
It would have been better if Jasmine had approached it like she was asking him his perspective rather than going, "Demi feels like x and what are you doing to cause it? What are you doing about it?"
First of all, Charley and Ash are super lovely! Second: I totally agree with Ollie, Jasmine came from a good place but she was being pushy and Demi is a grown woman that can defend herself. She gave her advice and when she told Ollie he should've spoke with Demi directly first that should be it. Jasmine might need to learn when to stop a confrontation, but I also get that she is a good friend.
@@robotfortnite_YT_GT lmao veryyy tipsy, you could see it on her facee! i could tell because her words were slurring and she just wanted to talk her mind reapetedly. as much as i think shes very confrontational normally she probably wouldnt have repeated herself soo much, right?
I flipping love Ollie and Demi! Demi is an amazing human who sees Ollie for who he is. And having ADHD happens to the best of us. The genius creatives, many of us have ADHD.
UK is fhe BEST LIB yet !!! Forget LIB America, ppl jus wana do ot for tv fame THIS is how its done properly Love how the brits talk, the different lingo they use Theyre straight forward. But at the same time proper Lol 🙌
@17:00 Ollie is a whole liar! He was turned around when he saw Cat. I think when she called him out for lying on her name he decided he would spin it like he didn't care when he saw her, but we all saw him licking his chops and acting stupid like he did later when he saw Sharlot for the first time at the bar.
How did he lie on her name? You do know you can rewatch the clips at any time. Ollie was clearly going into the pods to break up with Cat. Cat felt it, cut him off so she could say she broke up with him first. He wasn't worried about it at all, yet she made a huge deal about it because she's insecure.
just finshed ep 9 today, i don’t exactly know when the final itself is coming out, all i know is that the next set of episodes are coming out the 21st of August (i think)
Jasmine and Cat could not stand how Ollie was a confident and articulate guy. They just had to try and break him down. Jasmine acted like an absolute brat to Ollie for no reason, and acted like Ollie treated Demi wrong. And Cat spent the whole time trying to make the group dynamic awkward when Ollie was in proximity. They both act like a pair of school girls.
Love is blind UK seems soo real the maturity,the way they speak and the concept and the focus is real marriage...but love is blind US is like very immature and like all about sex
By the way, where was the tall dark skinned black girl when they all got together? We saw Charlotte who was gorgeous and we never did see on the show but there was another black girl that was tall like a model and very pretty. What happened to her?
Love Charley & Ash. As a woman I don't mind picking up the bill. I check with my date what they would like to do. My xbf never liked me paying but happy for me to get coffee or ice cream. We liked to treat each other. 💸
Can you elaborate, as I don't understand what you mean? Prenuptial agreements are available in the UK. Prenups are available and can be disrupted in any Western country. Just like a marriage can be annulled in any Western country.
@@kayfay7674 sorry still don't quite understand. I won't Google it as I know the law. If you mean to enforce as force a person, yes, you cannot. But if you mean to obey the law, then yes you can. Given you sort adequate council. The solicitor has experience with prenuptial agreements. A legal agreement can be contested, such as Will, spousal support, even child support. So, a prenup can be contested years, months even weeks after it has been signed. It depends on the legal verity of the document as in, was it fair, the solicitor as in, do they have adequate knowledge of the prenuptial agreements and court as in, it has to be permitted by the court. Not at a solicitors office.
Initially I thought they were a good match but Cat has proved to be a red flag ...,. manipulative... emotional baggage still about her adoption she must sort out Freddie's a good soul, not just a good looking guy with a home & business... He's right about protecting his assets with a pre nup...why should Cat get half of his estate after a few months or year or two of marriage ending in divorce ??? Marriage as it is today encourages escapism...not hard work, counseling or therapy....encourages women to leave their husbands...they get custody of the kids, the home, alimony in the U.S., child maintenance, half the assets... so why shouldn't men try protecting themselves ...statistically 80% of divorces are initiated by WOMEN
I was watching it and I was saying stop. But people have different levels of what is appropriate and what it is not. If a man spoke to a woman that way, about not being affectionate, I don't believe you would say it was right. If you understand ADHD, Ollie's reaction made perfect sense. I noticed he had ADHD in the pods. But like I said, people have different levels/understanding of what is appropriate language.
@@dazedconfuseds And you’re basing that belief on what lol? Outside of your own preconceived notions? If the roles were reversed, I would see it the same way. A friend trying to stand up for and support someone they care about, even though it was a bit much. You don’t have to slap an agenda on everything. 😂
@@diamcole if a male berate a female about her not showing affection to his friend, I believe alot of people would think that man was out of place to do so. Secondly Ollie behaved like any textbook ADHD patient with rejection sensitivity. It takes time to fully feel you can be vulnerable with a partner. This is the same thing that happened in LIB Mexico. A female has ADHD and her male partner didn't understand why she didn't want to be vulnerable instantly. You can or dismiss what I say. Doesn't change the truth
@@dazedconfuseds You might be better off discussing this with people of a similar mindset! I'm not going to be able to give you what you're looking for.
This is great that they added this type of podcast/interview format as an extra. And loving Emma and Matt as hosts.
@@letzsnuggzz I know right! I love these!
SAME! Matt and Emma are incredible hosts, everything just feels more wholesome and personal.
UK love is blind is superior. Most people are kind, self reflective and respectful. Some people need healing though like Sam and Cath.
I agree and they were also older. They also shared some rather traumatic situations😢
That's because the singles are more mature and don't have emotional baggage like the American ones.
Yes!!
It's an actual reflection of real ppl and real life
Not a put in, just to be in reality tv !
Bravo Brits! 🙌
Well it would help massively if the US production didn’t cast influencers in their 20s…
It's SEASON ONE, so the people are more genuine. Season One of LIB US was GREAT! Lauren and Cam 4 ever❤❤❤
These are the host we need for Love Is Blind US!!!
The male host looks like Jessie Williams to me! Does anyone else see it?! 😍 Beautiful couple!
Yes!!!!
I was just going to comment. Is this the guy from Grey’s Anatomy?😂😂
What? How? Um NO‼️😂
I have a feeling Ollie and Demi make it! I really thought he wasn’t good enough for her but after talking about his ADHD it shows we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover and immediately take someone’s actions as a reflection on their personality.
100% agree. I could see now that when Jasmine was coming out him Ollie was reacting the way he was because of rejection sensitivity which is extremely common with people with ADHD.
Yeah he definitely seemed more confused and hurt than aggressive or angry back.
Also I would’ve FLIPPED if I was Demi and he left to just go talk to Bobby but now we know what we know it’s understandable. I also think he should’ve disclosed that in private to her so she wasn’t in the dark too maybe?
I don’t think anyone needs to disclose personal information like that but I think it would’ve given everyone a different view if we found out in the pods about his ADHD.
I hope they do work it out and get married :)
Catherine should’ve just walked away if having a history of cheating is a deal breaker for her, and then she was upset about a prenup.. I think she just wanted to be on TV.
The hosts missed the point. Jasmine is a red flag. She raised her point four times. Ollie stated that he felt overwhelmed multiple times. Ollie, a black man, can never be introverted or overwhelmed can he?! It’s awful that he had to become frustrated for her to listen. We just permit poor behaviour by women and frame it as ‘being a great friend’.
I wonder how intoxicated she was. It was belligerent IMO. As in her brain was partially offline and she didn’t realize it. That’s the kind of junk that makes the US LIB so trashy. All the alcohol fueled conflicts.
Why make it about colour? I noticed the USA LIB people made a great deal about colour. Here it didn't come up.
It would have been better if Jasmine had approached it like she was asking him his perspective rather than going, "Demi feels like x and what are you doing to cause it? What are you doing about it?"
First of all, Charley and Ash are super lovely! Second: I totally agree with Ollie, Jasmine came from a good place but she was being pushy and Demi is a grown woman that can defend herself. She gave her advice and when she told Ollie he should've spoke with Demi directly first that should be it. Jasmine might need to learn when to stop a confrontation, but I also get that she is a good friend.
Jasmine gets it from her mama
Jasmine going after ollie is prove she's her mother's daughter. Bobby beware
@@reemarimz6830 I thought she was being extra and it was poor taste on her part as a mental health nurse.
Plus she was a little tipsy😂
@@robotfortnite_YT_GT lmao veryyy tipsy, you could see it on her facee! i could tell because her words were slurring and she just wanted to talk her mind reapetedly. as much as i think shes very confrontational normally she probably wouldnt have repeated herself soo much, right?
PROPER HOSTS?! WHO WOULD'VE THOUGHT? WHAT A FOREING CONCEPT!
GO ON, UK! SHOW US(A) HOW IT'S DONE!
The relationship between Cat and Freddy is so so toxic.They looks good together for sure but that's all.
Cat is red flag , I hope he walks away .
I flipping love Ollie and Demi! Demi is an amazing human who sees Ollie for who he is. And having ADHD happens to the best of us. The genius creatives, many of us have ADHD.
Their laughter is so contagious 😆 i found myself laughing along 😂
@@sjjws I thought the same too! And they have great energy too!
Not one mention of Nicole and Beniah was disappointing. My faves
You just did ❤.
UK is fhe BEST LIB yet !!!
Forget LIB America, ppl jus wana do ot for tv fame
THIS is how its done properly
Love how the brits talk, the different lingo they use
Theyre straight forward. But at the same time proper
Lol 🙌
Why didn’t we meet any of Ollie’s family or friends
Apparently, that was edited out, according to others who saw a post from Demi explaining that.
Ok so prediction: everyone but Freddie and the cat get married for the first time in LIB history we get 5 married couples or 4 at minimum
Idk about Tom & Maria either lol
Agreeeeed
Tom & Maria really shouldn't. Jasmine needs to check her mom before she walks down the aisle.
I think there will be only 1 couple sadly
Nope
@17:00 Ollie is a whole liar! He was turned around when he saw Cat. I think when she called him out for lying on her name he decided he would spin it like he didn't care when he saw her, but we all saw him licking his chops and acting stupid like he did later when he saw Sharlot for the first time at the bar.
How did he lie on her name? You do know you can rewatch the clips at any time. Ollie was clearly going into the pods to break up with Cat. Cat felt it, cut him off so she could say she broke up with him first. He wasn't worried about it at all, yet she made a huge deal about it because she's insecure.
I think Jasmine and Bobby, Nicole and Benaiah, Sabrina and Steven will get married on the show.
You called it!
when is the final? I didn't expect info before the final and the reunion. surprised by this Uk version. I wish they had invited Freddie. ❤
just finshed ep 9 today, i don’t exactly know when the final itself is coming out, all i know is that the next set of episodes are coming out the 21st of August (i think)
21st
Jasmine and Cat could not stand how Ollie was a confident and articulate guy. They just had to try and break him down. Jasmine acted like an absolute brat to Ollie for no reason, and acted like Ollie treated Demi wrong. And Cat spent the whole time trying to make the group dynamic awkward when Ollie was in proximity. They both act like a pair of school girls.
But he wasn’t into Demi 🤦🏽♀️ and was playing it cool. Should’ve just been honest!
@@marymorgan6448 that doesn’t excuse their behaviour toward him does it?
Loved these ladies!
Love is blind UK seems soo real the maturity,the way they speak and the concept and the focus is real marriage...but love is blind US is like very immature and like all about sex
By the way, where was the tall dark skinned black girl when they all got together? We saw Charlotte who was gorgeous and we never did see on the show but there was another black girl that was tall like a model and very pretty. What happened to her?
Shirley! She was gorgeous!! 😍
@@birdiewolf3497she seems to be in a relationship now (basing this on a random photo). She seems to as much of an Insta model as a junior doctor.
I knew Tita (Auntie in Tagalog 🇵🇭) was gonna come in strong 😅
Titi in Portuguese ❤or Tia
Yep a prenup is a no-brainer.
Love Charley & Ash.
As a woman I don't mind picking up the bill. I check with my date what they would like to do. My xbf never liked me paying but happy for me to get coffee or ice cream. We liked to treat each other. 💸
If they sought love based on emotional attachment why choose people who are super fit except one or two
Lol prenups aren’t enforceable in the UK. It’s a pointless conversation
Can you elaborate, as I don't understand what you mean? Prenuptial agreements are available in the UK. Prenups are available and can be disrupted in any Western country. Just like a marriage can be annulled in any Western country.
@@dazedconfuseds you’re talking about availability, im talking about enforcing them. You can easily google this
@@kayfay7674 sorry still don't quite understand. I won't Google it as I know the law. If you mean to enforce as force a person, yes, you cannot. But if you mean to obey the law, then yes you can. Given you sort adequate council. The solicitor has experience with prenuptial agreements.
A legal agreement can be contested, such as Will, spousal support, even child support. So, a prenup can be contested years, months even weeks after it has been signed. It depends on the legal verity of the document as in, was it fair, the solicitor as in, do they have adequate knowledge of the prenuptial agreements and court as in, it has to be permitted by the court. Not at a solicitors office.
You can get a pre-nuptial in the UK.
Initially I thought they were a good match but Cat has proved to be a red flag ...,. manipulative... emotional baggage still about her adoption she must sort out
Freddie's a good soul, not just a good looking guy with a home & business...
He's right about protecting his assets with a pre nup...why should Cat get half of his estate after a few months or year or two of marriage ending in divorce ???
Marriage as it is today encourages escapism...not hard work, counseling or therapy....encourages women to leave their husbands...they get custody of the kids, the home, alimony in the U.S., child maintenance, half the assets... so why shouldn't men try protecting themselves ...statistically 80% of divorces are initiated by WOMEN
19:53 I have never heard of making eye contact when cheers-ing. Is this a UK 🇬🇧 thing? American 🇺🇸 here so maybe it’s regional.
Mate trust me it’s not a thing. I was also confused by this and I’m English. No one does that!
My husband is from Florida. I'm from Ohio. 🇺🇸 He got me doing it! Lol
The toxic people: MIL -Jasmine's mom..
Sam ,maybe cat..ollie on rhe fence
They were funny😂
I think it would be great if cat and freddie broke it off. And hilarious if cat went and started dating sam 😅
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Nicole doesnt seem real...she is not ready...beniah and demi would have been lovely
Demi would never date him. Y'all have a strange perception of Demi lol. Everyone is projecting a specific personality onto her when she's not that.
Honestly think Jasmine had a reason to be concerned and sure, it was a tad monotonous but was she wrong? Lol absolutely not.
I was watching it and I was saying stop. But people have different levels of what is appropriate and what it is not. If a man spoke to a woman that way, about not being affectionate, I don't believe you would say it was right. If you understand ADHD, Ollie's reaction made perfect sense. I noticed he had ADHD in the pods. But like I said, people have different levels/understanding of what is appropriate language.
@@dazedconfuseds And you’re basing that belief on what lol? Outside of your own preconceived notions? If the roles were reversed, I would see it the same way. A friend trying to stand up for and support someone they care about, even though it was a bit much. You don’t have to slap an agenda on everything. 😂
@@diamcole if a male berate a female about her not showing affection to his friend, I believe alot of people would think that man was out of place to do so. Secondly Ollie behaved like any textbook ADHD patient with rejection sensitivity. It takes time to fully feel you can be vulnerable with a partner. This is the same thing that happened in LIB Mexico. A female has ADHD and her male partner didn't understand why she didn't want to be vulnerable instantly. You can or dismiss what I say. Doesn't change the truth
@@dazedconfuseds You might be better off discussing this with people of a similar mindset! I'm not going to be able to give you what you're looking for.
@@dazedconfusedsAgreed, it was far too much from her.
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These hosts need to replace the us version…Stat. Just might save the show
Jasmine repeated the question over and over because Ollie didn't answer.
I mean he literally did💀 and I’m not even an Ollie fan or whatever but she was overdoing it
He actually did tho
This isn’t about jasmine he got frustrated and angry because of the Demi! Everyone can feel the tension
He absolutely did . She just didn’t believe his answer
I feel like this one was heavily staged including the cast i think they were playing roles