Only 1/3 in and I really appreciate how invested the hosts are to this show. The American LIB in contrast seems like not at the same level and commitment.
I saw an interview from her and Sabrina spilled the real tea. He misrepresented himself as successful and his life together but he’s not. She owns her home and he shares a flat. She can’t live with him in London with roommates. So now she has to cover her mortgage on her house and split rent with him somewhere else. No.
The excuse of not being into texting and calling is bs. When you are truly in love with someone, esp at the beginning of a relationship, you wanna speak to them. You wanna be around them and if it's long distance, the only thing you have left is communication. Steven didn't do any of it. And for Sabrina, the issue wasn't even about the long distance, it was about the lack of involvement, effort and time he put in the relationship. That's the true issue. I feel like he misrepresented who he was. For me, the main red flag came when he talked about his ex who was ill and broke up with him. When Sabrina asked him how she was now he had no idea if she was even alive or not. That shows that he probably was not helpful to that lady and she had to focus on her own survival and not have a dead weight who was a burden to her ( whether by his lack of commitment or help or something else). If he cared, he would at least know if she survived her illness. The fact that he did not was telling.
Sam always has an answer for everything… not a great trait to have!. But Emma, you forgot to ask him what he meant by “I don’t care what anyone thinks, you’re beautiful”!!!
Right?! Such an absurd comment, and weak for hosts to leave it unchallenged. Sam and Cat both slipped through the vetting process, committed slimy microaggressions and still were given an easy ride by hosts at the reunion
Sam called Nicole ugly in so many ways on the show. It felt like he tried to humiliate her any chance he got. Even during the reunion he couldn't dignify her with a genuine apology. The backlash he got and is still getting is absolutely justified.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
Sam is a narcissist who lacks empathy and care for others. He is egocentric...I mean he did get a nose job because he was concerned about how others saw him. He bases his actions on how he wants others to see him, but has no real identity outside of that. I think he got emotionally stunted in his youth.
not a narcissist. That term is thrown about too loosely these days. He doesn't lack empathy, he is just a deeply insecure and hurt little boy who is not very self aware. He has a lot of inner healing to do.
I didn't recognize Sam either, such a lying charlaton. Then to learn that he allegedly commented after the proposal that Sabrina wasn't his type but he`d go through w/it...yuck!🤢
What? You guys… Stevens body language was looking guilty and all he could do was say that’s a lie to defend himself. She on the other hand… she was holding baaaack a lot of information. How did u miss that? Your take on Steven is wild 😂
And that’s coming from me. I was a Steven fan in the beginning. But I totally now see through the bs. The living situation, the roommates he neglected to mention, how he handled the long distance, inviting his ex to the wedding, the list goes on 😂 cmon now girls
@21:00 The classist, judgemental comments Marisa made were on par with Tom's comments toward Maria being a makeup artist, and yet she doesn't get the reaming on any of these platforms that Tom got. Saying that someone who doesn't have formal education past high school is unable to be at the mental level of someone who has is false and cruel. You would think that as an immigrant she would have empathy toward that sort of judgement, but I guess not.
Actually Marisa faced a lot of backlash online after the comments she made! Since I’m the one that actually went through the situation, I think my opinion should be the one that matters most. I’ve forgiven her and moved on so I feel that everyone else should do the same 🙂
@@WilliamsPinchIt has already been established that her comments were offensive ( uneducated I might even say) and she got backlash from it. At some point, people need to move on. Social media is the only place where a mistake you made or something you said a while ago will be dragged and rehashed forever. Bobby forgave her. And most importantly she seemed to have learned from her mistake. That's all that matters.
@@WilliamsPinch Well I appreciate you being offended for me on my behalf. I get it wasn’t easy viewing but again, I was the one that the comments were aimed at so I feel like if I’m over it, it’s time for everyone else to get over it too 🙂
I feel like Bobby always liked Jasmine more than she likes him, in his head during the reveal, he was thinking he hit the jackpot coz he's got the hottest girl in the bunch
@@jammingwiththejohnsonsyou guys don’t have to prove your love to anyone. Everyone will have opinions but you know each other better than anyone watching. Protect your love and nourish it. I teared up watching your segment at the reunion because true love is so beautiful and rare. May God cover you with his love and mercy❤
I genuinely just think Sam is autistic or on the spectrum because I can relate to his kind of communication, the reason it seems like an act is because it is! He doesn’t understand fully how neurotypical people interact and he’s trying to copy that. He was bullied when he was younger and so I can imagine he’s just trying to “act” how he thinks people want him to. I do think he’s misunderstood.
interesting take but honestly i do not agree. im also neurodivergent but i dont get that vibe from him at all. i think he just has narcissistic qualities and he's learnt to be superficial as a way to get ahead in life after being bullied and not accepted. seriously look into narcissism because i dont think its that he's a bad person, i think he's just learnt the tools to cope. he genuinely wants to be loved, and so he's acting out a role and trying to do the surface level script to get that. it's not about the other person ever, it's about how they can make HIM feel... thats why it was always about 'im just a boy who wants to love a girl' and the obsession over if the other person actually likes him. he never took the time to actually understand if HE even liked the other person.
Everytime dickheads get armchair diagnosed as autistic or neurodivergent, it makes life so much harder for those of us who are and don't treat people like this! Perhaps there's a conversation to be had about the tendency to "gamify" dating, pickup culture etc and how it can appeal to *some* neurodivergent men who could learn better tools elsewhere without the accompanying misogyny. But manipulative, harmful behaviour is what it is regardless of whether someone is neurotypical or not.
Am I the only one who thinks "I think I love you" is way more real than just saying "I love you" after a few days of knowing each other? 😂 Let’s be honest, most of these couples break up anyway! When they're stuck in that bubble, they *think* they’re in love, but in reality, only a few actually make it after the show. That just proves they thought they were in love, but they weren’t. The realest thing to say is, "I think I love you, and I hope we actually fall in love when we get back to the real world."
You are absolutely right Wafa. That's the realest and most reasonable thing to say in this situation. However with Sam, the problem lies in the contrast between what he told Nicole before ( you're the one from the first moment we spoke, I knew it was you, we're gonna have a great life, trust me, trust me, trust me... Marry me) and " I think I love you". There is a dissonance there. Sam's entire persona on the show was fake and manipulative. And I hated that they took away from Nicole and Ben's time during the reunion to try to give Sam some type of image rehabilitation. They should have focused on the couple we all wanted to see. Sam did not evolve. He barely apologized and even when Demi asked him to, he still did not personally apologize to her. He just blabbered a general apology but nothing intentional. Like the 2 ladies said here: he is totally clueless.
@QueenyKay I think they brought him so he could apologise. I don't think he's behaviour is fake though. I think he's has some qualities that are not the best and I don't think he realised that the audiences would have so many strong opinions so he's just trying to defend himself at any chance given
@@t.e.m.i_d What is there to defend? Even in the US version, the girl who was horrible to Zach ( I believe her name is Irina) apologized and took ownership of her mistakes. Everybody moved on after the reunion. She admitted she was horrible and nasty and apologized. End of story. She never tried to find justifications for the way she acted. Sam however showed he did not evolve even after the backlash. He went on the show to defend himself and to find excuses for his behavior without owning up to his mistakes. He never apologized to Nicole personally for trying to humiliate her any chances he got. He is fake and only wants fame. Now he's known and most of the viewers dislike him. Maybe he can capitalize on that.
Imho "I think I love you" isn't real, it's kind of cheating because it gets the L word out without having to mean it. When I think I love someone, I don't say it until I am sure. "I am developing strong feelings, I'm falling really hard, I've never felt this with someone so quickly before" are other ways to say it more honestly
Uk men have redeemed themselves on this show sorry but Prince Harry the skowling man child ruined what uk men are like. But this show demonstrates to the world that uk men are gems. ❤
@@nattyangel-zs1irSo Harry who is a royal and who wasn't raised as any common person is your reference to judge UK men in their entirety? Sorry but your comment says more about you than anything Harry must have done. Lol
I love Clara and Julie as guests. Their answers are very perceptive and well articulated.
Only 1/3 in and I really appreciate how invested the hosts are to this show. The American LIB in contrast seems like not at the same level and commitment.
I saw an interview from her and Sabrina spilled the real tea. He misrepresented himself as successful and his life together but he’s not. She owns her home and he shares a flat. She can’t live with him in London with roommates. So now she has to cover her mortgage on her house and split rent with him somewhere else. No.
Which interview!
Which interview!!
I must see this interview ! Plase share :)
What??? Where?
I assume its the podcast called Out of the pods
I love how the UK does this show. It feels so much more real. Well done to the UK Team. From 🇳🇦
The excuse of not being into texting and calling is bs. When you are truly in love with someone, esp at the beginning of a relationship, you wanna speak to them. You wanna be around them and if it's long distance, the only thing you have left is communication. Steven didn't do any of it.
And for Sabrina, the issue wasn't even about the long distance, it was about the lack of involvement, effort and time he put in the relationship. That's the true issue. I feel like he misrepresented who he was. For me, the main red flag came when he talked about his ex who was ill and broke up with him. When Sabrina asked him how she was now he had no idea if she was even alive or not. That shows that he probably was not helpful to that lady and she had to focus on her own survival and not have a dead weight who was a burden to her ( whether by his lack of commitment or help or something else).
If he cared, he would at least know if she survived her illness. The fact that he did not was telling.
Everything you said was straight facts
Yess Bobby & Jas 🙌💖💖 The best couple ever on Love Is Blind!! Love them ❤️❤️ They need their own podcast!
This was the best (guest) analysis breakdown of the LIB cast. Clara and Julie were spot on.
Had so much fun!! I hope we get another season soon!
You killed this! need you and Clara back
The "friend" Sam needs is a therapist!
Bobby and Jasmine just always seem so sweetly balanced out & in love, and I love that for them🤍
As a Ghanaian🇬🇭 I was so gassed hearing Nicole and Ben will be coming down this December...😊 Gonna be fun fun
I wish they had mentioned that Nicole is of Ghanaian heritage 😂 there was no context on that one.
@@MaSheri33 yeah.
Love is blind UK way better than the American version ❤
Word up.
-Stateside
U cant say that yet! Its just one season! The American version was fire 🔥 the first seasons
Sam always has an answer for everything… not a great trait to have!. But Emma, you forgot to ask him what he meant by “I don’t care what anyone thinks, you’re beautiful”!!!
Right?! Such an absurd comment, and weak for hosts to leave it unchallenged. Sam and Cat both slipped through the vetting process, committed slimy microaggressions and still were given an easy ride by hosts at the reunion
He has an answer for everything but none of it is saying “I’m sorry” 🤫🤣
Argh!! I wish i mentioned this because i think about it all the time!
Sam called Nicole ugly in so many ways on the show. It felt like he tried to humiliate her any chance he got. Even during the reunion he couldn't dignify her with a genuine apology.
The backlash he got and is still getting is absolutely justified.
@@julieadenuga8657 Julie, I was waiting on you to ask if not Emma… but hey ho, maybe one day we will find out 😜 💋
I would like to recommend to please put close caption for the ones that not fully understand English.
Loved the guests energy and answers! Happy for Jasmine and Bobby!
Julie and Clara were the bestt guestss to have especially for the last episode
I totally love jasmine and bobby ❤ they are my number 1 couple ❤
Love the ladies' comentary❤
Thank you very much for this excellent video!💞💞
When my beautiful sis, commented on Emma watching Big Brother's late night feed, she said, "You never know." 😁😆
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
Sam is a narcissist who lacks empathy and care for others. He is egocentric...I mean he did get a nose job because he was concerned about how others saw him. He bases his actions on how he wants others to see him, but has no real identity outside of that. I think he got emotionally stunted in his youth.
not a narcissist. That term is thrown about too loosely these days. He doesn't lack empathy, he is just a deeply insecure and hurt little boy who is not very self aware. He has a lot of inner healing to do.
I still watching netflix.❤
I didn't recognize Sam either, such a lying charlaton. Then to learn that he allegedly commented after the proposal that Sabrina wasn't his type but he`d go through w/it...yuck!🤢
What? You guys… Stevens body language was looking guilty and all he could do was say that’s a lie to defend himself. She on the other hand… she was holding baaaack a lot of information. How did u miss that? Your take on Steven is wild 😂
And that’s coming from me. I was a Steven fan in the beginning. But I totally now see through the bs. The living situation, the roommates he neglected to mention, how he handled the long distance, inviting his ex to the wedding, the list goes on 😂 cmon now girls
16:21 - 16:31 Period!!!💯
Get me a Benaiah please, Nic is so lucky
@21:00 The classist, judgemental comments Marisa made were on par with Tom's comments toward Maria being a makeup artist, and yet she doesn't get the reaming on any of these platforms that Tom got. Saying that someone who doesn't have formal education past high school is unable to be at the mental level of someone who has is false and cruel. You would think that as an immigrant she would have empathy toward that sort of judgement, but I guess not.
Actually Marisa faced a lot of backlash online after the comments she made! Since I’m the one that actually went through the situation, I think my opinion should be the one that matters most. I’ve forgiven her and moved on so I feel that everyone else should do the same 🙂
@@bobbyj4k just because you have forgiven her, that doesn’t mean that her broad comments aren’t still immensely offensive to countless viewers.
@@WilliamsPinchIt has already been established that her comments were offensive ( uneducated I might even say) and she got backlash from it. At some point, people need to move on. Social media is the only place where a mistake you made or something you said a while ago will be dragged and rehashed forever. Bobby forgave her. And most importantly she seemed to have learned from her mistake. That's all that matters.
@@WilliamsPinch Well I appreciate you being offended for me on my behalf. I get it wasn’t easy viewing but again, I was the one that the comments were aimed at so I feel like if I’m over it, it’s time for everyone else to get over it too 🙂
I feel like Bobby always liked Jasmine more than she likes him, in his head during the reveal, he was thinking he hit the jackpot coz he's got the hottest girl in the bunch
I don't think she's the hottest...but okay. She also has been discovered to not be the girls girl that she presented herself as.
Nah. Her mom even thinks she loves him more. Because of how she tried to reason out with her for loving bobby.
I agree
Yet here we are a year later still happily married 😅
@@jammingwiththejohnsonsyou guys don’t have to prove your love to anyone. Everyone will have opinions but you know each other better than anyone watching.
Protect your love and nourish it. I teared up watching your segment at the reunion because true love is so beautiful and rare. May God cover you with his love and mercy❤
I genuinely just think Sam is autistic or on the spectrum because I can relate to his kind of communication, the reason it seems like an act is because it is! He doesn’t understand fully how neurotypical people interact and he’s trying to copy that. He was bullied when he was younger and so I can imagine he’s just trying to “act” how he thinks people want him to. I do think he’s misunderstood.
Can we stop excusing every weirdo by assuming they are neurodivergent 🙄🥴?
interesting take but honestly i do not agree. im also neurodivergent but i dont get that vibe from him at all. i think he just has narcissistic qualities and he's learnt to be superficial as a way to get ahead in life after being bullied and not accepted. seriously look into narcissism because i dont think its that he's a bad person, i think he's just learnt the tools to cope. he genuinely wants to be loved, and so he's acting out a role and trying to do the surface level script to get that. it's not about the other person ever, it's about how they can make HIM feel... thats why it was always about 'im just a boy who wants to love a girl' and the obsession over if the other person actually likes him. he never took the time to actually understand if HE even liked the other person.
Or he is simply a jerk.
No he’s a straight up class act
Everytime dickheads get armchair diagnosed as autistic or neurodivergent, it makes life so much harder for those of us who are and don't treat people like this! Perhaps there's a conversation to be had about the tendency to "gamify" dating, pickup culture etc and how it can appeal to *some* neurodivergent men who could learn better tools elsewhere without the accompanying misogyny. But manipulative, harmful behaviour is what it is regardless of whether someone is neurotypical or not.
Am I the only one who thinks "I think I love you" is way more real than just saying "I love you" after a few days of knowing each other? 😂 Let’s be honest, most of these couples break up anyway! When they're stuck in that bubble, they *think* they’re in love, but in reality, only a few actually make it after the show. That just proves they thought they were in love, but they weren’t. The realest thing to say is, "I think I love you, and I hope we actually fall in love when we get back to the real world."
I think that was the most reasonable thing Sam said 🥴. Everything else that came out of his mouth was nonsense.
You are absolutely right Wafa. That's the realest and most reasonable thing to say in this situation. However with Sam, the problem lies in the contrast between what he told Nicole before ( you're the one from the first moment we spoke, I knew it was you, we're gonna have a great life, trust me, trust me, trust me... Marry me) and " I think I love you". There is a dissonance there.
Sam's entire persona on the show was fake and manipulative. And I hated that they took away from Nicole and Ben's time during the reunion to try to give Sam some type of image rehabilitation.
They should have focused on the couple we all wanted to see.
Sam did not evolve. He barely apologized and even when Demi asked him to, he still did not personally apologize to her. He just blabbered a general apology but nothing intentional.
Like the 2 ladies said here: he is totally clueless.
@QueenyKay I think they brought him so he could apologise. I don't think he's behaviour is fake though. I think he's has some qualities that are not the best and I don't think he realised that the audiences would have so many strong opinions so he's just trying to defend himself at any chance given
@@t.e.m.i_d What is there to defend?
Even in the US version, the girl who was horrible to Zach ( I believe her name is Irina) apologized and took ownership of her mistakes. Everybody moved on after the reunion. She admitted she was horrible and nasty and apologized. End of story. She never tried to find justifications for the way she acted. Sam however showed he did not evolve even after the backlash. He went on the show to defend himself and to find excuses for his behavior without owning up to his mistakes. He never apologized to Nicole personally for trying to humiliate her any chances he got.
He is fake and only wants fame. Now he's known and most of the viewers dislike him. Maybe he can capitalize on that.
Imho "I think I love you" isn't real, it's kind of cheating because it gets the L word out without having to mean it. When I think I love someone, I don't say it until I am sure. "I am developing strong feelings, I'm falling really hard, I've never felt this with someone so quickly before" are other ways to say it more honestly
Uk men have redeemed themselves on this show sorry but Prince Harry the skowling man child ruined what uk men are like. But this show demonstrates to the world that uk men are gems. ❤
@@nattyangel-zs1irSo Harry who is a royal and who wasn't raised as any common person is your reference to judge UK men in their entirety? Sorry but your comment says more about you than anything Harry must have done. Lol