I was a virgin until I was 30 years old and never went on a single date before that. I had a near death experience that woke me up to the fact that I didn’t want to die without knowing what love and sex was like. I didn’t give a shit anymore about impressing women or putting on a show. So I went on a dating app and on my first date I met the most beautiful woman and over time we both fell in love and spent 8 years together, two of which we were married. Unfortunately I had more demons to address that wreaked havoc on our relationship and eventually we got divorced. She is still a big support in my life though and we still have love for one another. I learned many things about love and attraction in that relationship and about myself. I am seeking professional help for my issues but the point is there is hope. Good luck to you.
I do believe sex is normally for procreation and emotional bonding (not to mention that a strong emotional connection between partners may contribute to a supportive environment for raising a child) not just for fun and pleasure.
@@AZrakoon exactly i think society has hyped it up to be a big deal for no reason plus what you see in videos most of the time is not how it goes down naturally in real life
@@Cheezy_Planterz_Nutz That is straight up cope, there isnt better high than being desired, wanted and lust over by your own peers. Stop coppinng and accept you missed out on living.
Don't worry about being called a "virgin" and what not. People act like it's some sort of status symbol for lose it. It's just a result of society normalising sleeping around with people. Focus on yourself and you'll get a wife one day bro!
I've have a wife for 12 years and only have sex with her. If you're dating tho man almost everyone has sex with many people that they date. Congratulations on your virginity but then again you only live once so might as well enjoy it. @@AZrakoon
Im a guy I'm gonna be 30 in 25 days, and i never had it. I had opportunity's to do it. But what happened to me as a kid im afraid of intimacy, like physically and mentally. I can give hugs to people no problem but when it comes down to being intimate i get physically ill and freeze up and run away. Eventually when i get my stuff sorted out ill go for it, but as of now nope. You're not alone man, there is plenty of people out there that are in the same situations. I still do beat myself about it, but over time you realize its not a race. Everyone has there own path to follow. Some start early and some start later, its about the journey not the destination.
Something mental is holding you back, by the sound of it. I grew up religiously, and I had the nagging thought that I'm committing an unforgivable sin. Give yourself permission to enjoy it. Start off small, like placing your hand gently over your date, make eye contact and smile. You can go in for a kiss, consensually of course. Sex is a bigger deal, because it could lead to an unwanted pregnancy.
Yes, I have. I know we are all short on time, but if you can make sometime to watch the video to understand what it is about. Let me know your thoughts.
what helped me when i was watching lots of porn and getting depressed a lot was working out, not to get laid or look better it just helps with ur mental health u get the bad energy out u feel more fullfiled and u prob get healthier, id def recommend to everyone to at lest go for walks or some. stay safe everyone🖤🖤
Humans are shallow bro, just accept it, hating the game doesn’t mean you shouldn’t play, it all you gotta do is lose the extra weight you’ve got some great features deep-set, eyes good, eyebrows, above-average lips, teeth, and an amazing hairline for your age you’re not even balding, everything you need is there you just have to put in the work and stop eating your feelings my English is pretty bad, but it sucks seeing a white man with above avg features wasting his potentials, go get that gym membership, starts a diet (doesn’t even have to be strict), get that life that is meant for you
Hey guys just to drop a little truth on this. Neither one of you have a hymen only girls and women do. Men and boys are not virgins lol great video brother. 🦁❣️🕊
u can go to segs workers, if you get good at it, its not that expensive and you make some friends, i dont regret, also segs workers are just normal people and many are or were married and have kids or intend to, also good vibes is what sets the tone if you want to have some fun with them and in life in general.. u seem to have good vibes, cheers!
I agree with you on everything, except having segs with segs workers. I used to work next to strip club, and the strippers were really down to earth folks. Many of them leave that work after they find work that pays better.
@@AZrakoonBut many people don't want escorts because they feel what's the point of only doing it once a month with the rest of the month being $3xual frustration, plus most of the people lacking romance and $ex are on disability so they'd only be able to hire one escort per month with using up $55 their montly trillium, and $140 from their main cheque and they only have $290 disposable income after that each month.
All I feel is 24/7 sexual frustration everyday as a 26 year old who has only had three sexual experiences. My autism social cue issues and uncontrollable freeze up issues makes pursuing extremely difficult and I just stay home with sexual frustration everyday
@@AZrakoon I tried for 7 years straight from ages 16-22 with no results which is why I don't bother going out anymore. No results from constantly going to events, bars and clubs for mutiple years which lead to me isolating myself with frustration everyday. I have deformities which don't help with it either when women only care about looks.
@@AZrakoonGood things aren't coming. I'm gonna be unfairly deprived forever. And I know I've ruined more of my chances by isolating myself everyday but I just don't see a point to try anymore with trying for 7 years straight with no results from women mistreating me for my autism freeze up and stuttering. Women instantly misjudge me not caring to get to know me more in person outside of bars, clubs and dating apps. I can't stand that my entire life lacks romance and $3x and I feel extremely stressed over it everyday. My head, and shoulders tremble from it too much, and I have stiff pains in head, shoulders and privates constantly from it. Places really need to be more like Netherlands that realizes the importance of $3xual health and at least provide one disability coverage escort once per week for an hour each. I'm so tired of this life lacking romance and $3x and constantly look up painless ways out for myself.
Hello, don’t worry about these kind of things. Someday you will meet the love of your life and spend the rest of your life together happily i believe in you just don’t give up :).
Lots more men are virgins nowadays. It's very much generational. Lots of factors have conspired against ordinary men, from the s3xual revolution through into online dating. You're legion, sir. 😂
I don't think people actually look down on virgins Sex is one of the most enjoyable things in life, not only that it's the only way to produce the next generation are you saying you recommend being a virgin over that?
What I'm saying is that some people think there something wrong with being a virgin. Nobody needs to give away their virginity to just anybody. You should give it, to someone you care about.
My man I can tell you something. You are full of love and you will find the right woman. Sex is over rated and you can prevail. Having sex with woman is great but falling in love is better. You can have a woman to grow old with. I am 49 and yes I have had sex with lots of ladies and only been in love once with a woman.
You choose everything but ahrdcore diet and weightloss/exercise. Im not knocking you man, but youre making videos about it, if it really bothers you, then you can fix it.
I was a virgin until I was 30 years old and never went on a single date before that. I had a near death experience that woke me up to the fact that I didn’t want to die without knowing what love and sex was like. I didn’t give a shit anymore about impressing women or putting on a show. So I went on a dating app and on my first date I met the most beautiful woman and over time we both fell in love and spent 8 years together, two of which we were married. Unfortunately I had more demons to address that wreaked havoc on our relationship and eventually we got divorced. She is still a big support in my life though and we still have love for one another. I learned many things about love and attraction in that relationship and about myself. I am seeking professional help for my issues but the point is there is hope. Good luck to you.
Wow! Thanks for sharing your story. It takes a lot of courage to be honest and open. Time heals everything.
You are so incredibly wise!! Blessings :)
Blessings! Thanks so much for the kind words.
I do believe sex is normally for procreation and emotional bonding (not to mention that a strong emotional connection between partners may contribute to a supportive environment for raising a child) not just for fun and pleasure.
Thanks for your thoughts!
Sounds like virgin cope
@@JCchadcel You're exactly the type of ridiculous people movies like American Pie are made to make fun of.
trust me brother u are not missing much man focus on yourself you got this
Cheezy, you're absolutely right. Once you get rid of it, you will be in shock for a little bit. Then, you go about your life as it never happened.
@@AZrakoon exactly i think society has hyped it up to be a big deal for no reason plus what you see in videos most of the time is not how it goes down naturally in real life
@@Cheezy_Planterz_Nutz That is straight up cope, there isnt better high than being desired, wanted and lust over by your own peers. Stop coppinng and accept you missed out on living.
You look young.
Thanks, I appreciate it!
He hasn't had to deal with women
There is nothing wrong with that. You seen a wonderful man
That's right, thanks for the kind words!
Don't worry about being called a "virgin" and what not. People act like it's some sort of status symbol for lose it. It's just a result of society normalising sleeping around with people. Focus on yourself and you'll get a wife one day bro!
Yeah, it's something a immature teenager in high school would stress about. Solid advice!
I’m 36, and personally I’ll be ticked if I’m NOT a virgin by 40. I worked too hard to not reach that milestone! 😂
I really think it should be something to be proud of, anyone could get laid if they wanted to. If you wait for so long, it's an accomplishment.
I've have a wife for 12 years and only have sex with her. If you're dating tho man almost everyone has sex with many people that they date. Congratulations on your virginity but then again you only live once so might as well enjoy it. @@AZrakoon
Im a guy I'm gonna be 30 in 25 days, and i never had it. I had opportunity's to do it. But what happened to me as a kid im afraid of intimacy, like physically and mentally. I can give hugs to people no problem but when it comes down to being intimate i get physically ill and freeze up and run away.
Eventually when i get my stuff sorted out ill go for it, but as of now nope. You're not alone man, there is plenty of people out there that are in the same situations. I still do beat myself about it, but over time you realize its not a race.
Everyone has there own path to follow. Some start early and some start later, its about the journey not the destination.
Something mental is holding you back, by the sound of it. I grew up religiously, and I had the nagging thought that I'm committing an unforgivable sin. Give yourself permission to enjoy it. Start off small, like placing your hand gently over your date, make eye contact and smile. You can go in for a kiss, consensually of course. Sex is a bigger deal, because it could lead to an unwanted pregnancy.
My man, just hit gym and get right with God.💪🏽❤️
Thanks for the advice
Didn't you say you had girlfriends before?
Yes, I have. I know we are all short on time, but if you can make sometime to watch the video to understand what it is about. Let me know your thoughts.
@@AZrakoon it's because the titles you use for your video, they sound so personal that I take it it's about you first most.
I’m 22 and a virgin and not by choice just no luck finding girls I give up 😢
Be patient, if you put in the work the ladies come.
what helped me when i was watching lots of porn and getting depressed a lot was working out, not to get laid or look better it just helps with ur mental health u get the bad energy out u feel more fullfiled and u prob get healthier, id def recommend to everyone to at lest go for walks or some. stay safe everyone🖤🖤
Never underestimate the power of the 30 minutes of light exercise.
Thank you so much, again 😊🤗
You are so welcome!
Your heart ❤️radiates ✨through the screen. Thank you for creating 🌈❤️🌈
Wow, thank you!
@@AZrakoon ✨❤️🕯️✨❤️🕯️✨
Humans are shallow bro, just accept it, hating the game doesn’t mean you shouldn’t play, it all you gotta do is lose the extra weight you’ve got some great features deep-set, eyes good, eyebrows, above-average lips, teeth, and an amazing hairline for your age you’re not even balding, everything you need is there you just have to put in the work and stop eating your feelings
my English is pretty bad, but it sucks seeing a white man with above avg features wasting his potentials, go get that gym membership, starts a diet (doesn’t even have to be strict), get that life that is meant for you
Thanks for the advice, I appreciate the encouragement too!
Hey guys just to drop a little truth on this. Neither one of you have a hymen only girls and women do. Men and boys are not virgins lol great video brother. 🦁❣️🕊
In today's world, what is a woman? ......lol
@AZrakoon right 🤣😮💨
u can go to segs workers, if you get good at it, its not that expensive and you make some friends, i dont regret, also segs workers are just normal people and many are or were married and have kids or intend to, also good vibes is what sets the tone if you want to have some fun with them and in life in general.. u seem to have good vibes, cheers!
I agree with you on everything, except having segs with segs workers. I used to work next to strip club, and the strippers were really down to earth folks. Many of them leave that work after they find work that pays better.
@@AZrakoonBut many people don't want escorts because they feel what's the point of only doing it once a month with the rest of the month being $3xual frustration, plus most of the people lacking romance and $ex are on disability so they'd only be able to hire one escort per month with using up $55 their montly trillium, and $140 from their main cheque and they only have $290 disposable income after that each month.
All I feel is 24/7 sexual frustration everyday as a 26 year old who has only had three sexual experiences. My autism social cue issues and uncontrollable freeze up issues makes pursuing extremely difficult and I just stay home with sexual frustration everyday
We can all overcome our obstacles! Good things are coming!
@@AZrakoon I tried for 7 years straight from ages 16-22 with no results which is why I don't bother going out anymore. No results from constantly going to events, bars and clubs for mutiple years which lead to me isolating myself with frustration everyday. I have deformities which don't help with it either when women only care about looks.
@@AZrakoonGood things aren't coming. I'm gonna be unfairly deprived forever. And I know I've ruined more of my chances by isolating myself everyday but I just don't see a point to try anymore with trying for 7 years straight with no results from women mistreating me for my autism freeze up and stuttering. Women instantly misjudge me not caring to get to know me more in person outside of bars, clubs and dating apps. I can't stand that my entire life lacks romance and $3x and I feel extremely stressed over it everyday. My head, and shoulders tremble from it too much, and I have stiff pains in head, shoulders and privates constantly from it. Places really need to be more like Netherlands that realizes the importance of $3xual health and at least provide one disability coverage escort once per week for an hour each. I'm so tired of this life lacking romance and $3x and constantly look up painless ways out for myself.
Hello, don’t worry about these kind of things. Someday you will meet the love of your life and spend the rest of your life together happily i believe in you just don’t give up :).
Thanks for the support, I appreciate the kind words!
Lots more men are virgins nowadays. It's very much generational. Lots of factors have conspired against ordinary men, from the s3xual revolution through into online dating. You're legion, sir. 😂
Thanks for comment
I don't think people actually look down on virgins
Sex is one of the most enjoyable things in life, not only that it's the only way to produce the next generation
are you saying you recommend being a virgin over that?
What I'm saying is that some people think there something wrong with being a virgin. Nobody needs to give away their virginity to just anybody. You should give it, to someone you care about.
Rome itself was dependent on a virginal cult. But its tge body and failure, you also can run a mile or do a push up.
Thanks for the advice
My man I can tell you something. You are full of love and you will find the right woman. Sex is over rated and you can prevail. Having sex with woman is great but falling in love is better. You can have a woman to grow old with. I am 49 and yes I have had sex with lots of ladies and only been in love once with a woman.
Thanks for sharing your experience. Many young men think having sex with a lot of women is so great.
You must have Chad looks and have no severe disabilities ever.
I'm 27. I'm catching up to you soon. Damn I hate this life.
It gets better, give it time. Put your peace of mind as the highest priority. Be good to yourself.
@@AZrakoon I'm trying. This life is a literal piece of poop
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Do you play Yugioh by any chance? I’m 31 going on 32. A CPA accountant making $130,000 a year but I’m a virgin.
In Arizona, you would live like a king! I never could get interested in Yu-Gi-Oh, it's was popular back in high school with some friends.
@@AZrakoonyeah unfortunately I’m in New Jersey. So I’m pretty average over here. I was considering moving to Texas.
Where are you live?
I live where the land meets the sun, and the cactus and sand are everywhere. Where the coyote doesn't chase the roadrunner. AKA Arizona.
Go carnivore. Then everything will become clear
You choose everything but ahrdcore diet and weightloss/exercise. Im not knocking you man, but youre making videos about it, if it really bothers you, then you can fix it.
Titles can be misleading, definitely take the time to watch videos.