Finding Calm in Covid Chaos // Decluttering // Depression Motivation
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
- In todays video I am disinfecting after being sick for two weeks & decluttering.
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I have had depression and anxiety for over 25 years. Mostly from childhood traumas, I used to be able to push it down or ignore it, but the last few years it's gotten worse, I'm in therapy now and doing better. I hired a cleaning crew to come in once a month to do whatever I can't get done, it helps a lot and kind of makes me feel like I can start over, instead of feeling like I'll never catch up. I mainly just try to do the dishes, laundry, sweep, vacuum, cleaning the toilets, sinks, and take care of my animals, anything else I get done is icing on the cake. I used to be way better at keeping my house together, I think I was better at it when there were more kids in the house, which is funny, because you'd think it'd be easier now, but the house is still just as big, but with less help and even though there's only 3 of us and the cats in our house now, it still get dusty and dirty, and it's a lot for one person to try to do the majority of it, it gets monotonous and over whelming. I feel like a lot of people are down on SAHM or SAHD when their houses get out of control, but it's different when you work versus being at home. At work, you get commended for what you do, awards, bonuses, promotions, you get recognition and it makes you feel good about yourself, you also get days off, or time alone, even if it's just your commute in the car when you can play whatever music or podcast you like, with SAHM or SAHD's there is always somebody you are caring for and you hardly ever get thanked because it's just expected that you take care of those things, sometimes it can make you resentful. I'm thankful I have a wonderful spouse who appreciates what I do around the house and does help out when I need it and who was also about to have a career that allowed me to stay at home for the majority of my kids childhoods, so I could be there for them, but even with all the goodness, it can still be hard. People who have not experienced anxiety or depression at some point in their lives, also, do not understand how debilitating it can be sometimes and if you add to that a couple of health issues, like I have, then that makes it even harder. Sorry for the rant. Thank you for sharing with us.
I too suffered abuse as a child. I have major issues because of it. Panic attacks in my sleep is one of them. Being a SAHM is SO hard. You are so right, we don't get bonuses ect, I wanted to clap when I read that!! You're spot on. We never get days off. Even when we're asleep, we're listening for our kids. My daughter was recently sick and asleep on the floor in our room, she woke up throwing up at around 4am. I shot up in bed so fast, we don't get breaks. Ever. My husband helps a lot when I'm sick, or if I'm really tired he'll make dinner. I'm thankful for him and thankful he provides enough for me to be a SAHM. Because honestly I wouldn't trust anyone except my MIL to watch my son who has special needs. He takes up all my time, which I'm ok with because I love him with all my heart. He's a sweet boy. But sometimes he has outbursts and wants to hit people. Those times I just want to cry in a room by myself. It's so exhausting and draining. Depression can be so debilitating. You can't get yourself out of bed or off the couch. You just want to sleep and make everything go away. People who do not have depression/anxiety or something else do not understand. They say things like "just change your mindset, think differently, have a good day" it doesn't work like that. I wish it did. But it doesn't. We can't fix ourselves, we're broken. I take 4 different pills for anxiety/depression/PTSD. Even on them I can't function like I should. Some days I just want to lay down and not do anything. I don't even care about the mess. You just want to lay there and cry. Scream into a pillow. I understand how hard life can be. This is getting long so I'll end it here! 😊❤️
Glad you feel better,beeing sick is so annoying😢i had covid and didn't feel sick at all,not even vaccinated,happy for that! Great motivation my friend ❤
Thank you! I've had it 3 times now, and this was the worst. I couldn't breathe, I couldn't talk, it was so bad! But I disinfected everything! Here's hoping it doesn't come back for a second round!
Here for you ❤
Thank you, I appreciate that 😊❤️
I love your videos. I feel for you girl. Your plate is full. I hope making these videos help you, It is nice to have a place to get out your flustrations . I am hear to listen. if you were cleaning a clean house i would not be watching. There is just to many KARENS in the world and they just need to SHUT UP. they have no idea what it is like to raise a severely special needs child and to take care of the rest of the family, You do a wonderful job. Keep up the great work. I am very glad your are feeling better. Hang in there and until next time God bless
Thank you so much! That means a lot to me! Yes it's so hard raising a severely special needs child. So hard, exhausting and draining. Mentally and physically. Karen's of the world need to all shut up and get a hobby! 🤣❤️
All off you karens😂 you're awesome ❤
Haha thank you! You know it's true. They exist out there! Waiting behind their keyboards 😂
@@kingsathome they do 🤣😂🤣😅
Came back to just say that people can be real *ssholes,don't lett them get you down! You're giving all You're love to him,that's the most beautifull thing ever,if You're house is a mess,it's normal..you give all You're love and time to You're kids!don't forget you're worth honey!💓
Thank you SO much, means a lot to me!! 💕
Hello I have subscribed to your channel I've got my own channel myself and I get covid all the time 🥰
Welcome to my channel! Thank you for the sub! What is your channel name? ❤️
@@kingsathome This Crazy Mums Life
Subscribed! 💕