Mwikali most men wants very few basic things from a wife. Respect is number one. I agree with pastor. This guy is on point 💯👌 1. Respect 2. Appreciation 3. Food cooked at home 4. Unconditional conjugal rights The moment you give your man those and avoid embarrassing him in public for the sake of his ego, you are sorted 100%. Never dare a man or use sex to communicate to him. Bad mistake ladies
Those intellectuals picking out mistakes. Let me tell you. We all have different perspectives to life. We all do take different decisions in life each day based on our convictions. We may take wrong or right decisions knowingly and or unknowingly. We may regard the decisions of others as right or wrong. We may have a right or wrong reasons to judge others. We have a choice to condemn or uplift others regardless of their situation. May we, instead of finding reasons to condemn, find reasons to uplift this wonderful man and the entire show
Yes. Women need to be loved but they need to be loved in different ways...for us first love is when we feel secured by our men meaning financial security, assurance that we are the only ones in their lives, sometimes we love small gestures such as them holding our hands when we're walking together, when they hold doors for us, when they compliment us and when they appreciate and encourage us and tell us that they love us....if you do that you will have a submissive woman.
As for me, hapo kwa holding hands in public is where I disagree with you. Africans ain't known to show a public display of affection. We can hold hands in the house but in public, It's more of western culture than African.
@@mercantilebasicvideo9786 I guess I am a western then....I am African raised in the USA and my man is African raised in the USA and the way we do things I guess it's different to how u guys do your things. My man gotta show me affection even in public...that's how we do it here 🤷♀️
I am agree with him and disagree. I for one need more that just love or words of affirmation as he put it. The support, protection and provision is what I need. On the part of respect it makes sense but I think it should come from a place of friendship and understanding and not some that sounds like the woman is a maid
Hi Mwikali. Love your show so much. I just had to say that I was a little bit disappointed with his response re what women need. It is undeniable that women need love but we also need a leader and provider. Security (emotional and financial) is very important for women. Maybe you should give him a second chance to redeem himself.
A leader and a provider to his family.It should not be confused with being in a position of leadership in the society.Nooo...women want men qho have leadership ability(to lead the family in the right direction) and a man who will love them.That communicatiin your gets emphasizes cannot happen if there is no love and provision.
I love the shows🔥💯educative💯 I also beg that you do away with your native language instead use English throughout to help the world in totality. Personally I remain wondering when you use your language. I thank You.
Love is right but we need a leader, provider and protector as the example in the Bible of Adam was given. God gave Adam a purpose and authority to lead and with that came the responsibility which includes protection of all that was entrusted to him and he was given the resources to be a provider. So if a man is sitting at home not doing anything while the woman is the breadwinner, that is totally out of order. Eve was called to help, not to be responsible for the entire financial well-being of the home. If another woman (sidechick) is trying to come in, it is his duty to "protect" his marriage, not leaving his wife to do that.
I've seen lots of women with tatoos and they are happily married and there are those ones with no tatoos with all the qualities and they are divorced so this thing is a matter of once choice.
Anyway... His clothes are at least 2 sizes too small... But then again his math about the 1st and 2nd born is also off so... lets just conclude he has an issue with numbers. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes kuna ukweli but why categorize women only love break it down as you did with men because as a woman I need respect don’t talk to me as your maid or a kid. As a woman I need food too. Nipeleke out or spoil me by cooking for me or join me in the kitchen tupike ama pick a meal you want us to cook. Apo pa sex pia tuko nisirukiwe kama kuku na uhakikishe nimefika safarini ala…ala. pia sisi wanadamu….. Arudi tena with complete homework done.
Eiiiiiish😳 if you come home late, leave towels in the sink, text Tanasha while we’re in bed …..just RESPECT. That is mbwakni kabisa. My friend carry your respect and goooooooo
Yes things are alot but first priority shouldn't be sex..we man need to understand this, actually like for me i would say 'do whatever she value most' and offer a free time for opinions. I like this though🙌
Nonsense!!!! My male colleague is my equal!!! No comparison btwn husband and any other male person. Differentiate the two. This conversation is extremely STUPID!!!
Where did he compare? He said a wife to submit to her own husband. But what we find happening is they submit to the boss, men of God but disrespect their husband. Or did I hear my own things?
I wish every woman can get it right from this gentleman
He's touching the love nerves in our homes 🙂
This man spoke like 10 elders. respect kwanza
Thank you for saying it so well.When she's loved she will naturally submit.
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It’s so true ❤️
Best conversation I've heard this morning it's so educative..thank you
Wow loving this thank you for the information
Very very informative and helpful information right there... Thanks to Mr Odadah Okello .
yes!
This man is a Legend
Mwikali most men wants very few basic things from a wife. Respect is number one. I agree with pastor. This guy is on point 💯👌
1. Respect
2. Appreciation
3. Food cooked at home
4. Unconditional conjugal rights
The moment you give your man those and avoid embarrassing him in public for the sake of his ego, you are sorted 100%. Never dare a man or use sex to communicate to him. Bad mistake ladies
So true replacing you with I does the magic in any conversation
Love , understand, trust,and God-fearing
This is so educative
Those intellectuals picking out mistakes. Let me tell you.
We all have different perspectives to life. We all do take different decisions in life each day based on our convictions. We may take wrong or right decisions knowingly and or unknowingly. We may regard the decisions of others as right or wrong. We may have a right or wrong reasons to judge others. We have a choice to condemn or uplift others regardless of their situation. May we, instead of finding reasons to condemn, find reasons to uplift this wonderful man and the entire show
U guy my guy,uhave made my day ooo.
Ha! easy said than done but I have learned something today.......I will start practicing 😃
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Very True.
wow very true boss. women need to learn hatutaki mambo mob. heshima ni muhimu sana both ways.
This guest is awesome
I agree aki....
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Yes. Women need to be loved but they need to be loved in different ways...for us first love is when we feel secured by our men meaning financial security, assurance that we are the only ones in their lives, sometimes we love small gestures such as them holding our hands when we're walking together, when they hold doors for us, when they compliment us and when they appreciate and encourage us and tell us that they love us....if you do that you will have a submissive woman.
That's western culture... you've been misled by western culture to believe what love is ..
As for me, hapo kwa holding hands in public is where I disagree with you. Africans ain't known to show a public display of affection. We can hold hands in the house but in public, It's more of western culture than African.
@@mercantilebasicvideo9786 ati holding hands!! Tha heck!!! That's the problem with our Nairobi women..just want to emitate western culture...
@@mercantilebasicvideo9786 I guess I am a western then....I am African raised in the USA and my man is African raised in the USA and the way we do things I guess it's different to how u guys do your things. My man gotta show me affection even in public...that's how we do it here 🤷♀️
@@mpendakiswahili3053 Halafu mimi si mkenya I am Congolese raised in the US I guess it makes sense 🤷♀️
Married for 18years, first born daughter is 17years, the second born is 19.....mmmmm, or am I hearing my own things???
Maybe his second came with his wife
😂yeah i had to listen it twice
@@elvisngenoh7855 Then that is the first born child, not second!
I thought i heard it wrongly...
Maybe he meant 9
Really informative
Yhoooo, men are difficult though, we just never know what they want
I am agree with him and disagree. I for one need more that just love or words of affirmation as he put it. The support, protection and provision is what I need. On the part of respect it makes sense but I think it should come from a place of friendship and understanding and not some that sounds like the woman is a maid
Sounds like he wants to be babied
Hana mwingine...very important.
Be blessed man..18 , years 🙏🙏
Hi Mwikali. Love your show so much. I just had to say that I was a little bit disappointed with his response re what women need. It is undeniable that women need love but we also need a leader and provider. Security (emotional and financial) is very important for women. Maybe you should give him a second chance to redeem himself.
Yes a leader and a provider. You can only love someone if they are leaders
Well put!
A leader and a provider to his family.It should not be confused with being in a position of leadership in the society.Nooo...women want men qho have leadership ability(to lead the family in the right direction) and a man who will love them.That communicatiin your gets emphasizes cannot happen if there is no love and provision.
You can't lead or protect someone you don't love..
True that
I like your shows mama Mwikali and I want this such of topics to get more correction information because the minority got wrongly information
Men are more complicated than us women
With all due respect I respect this man.
Learning
This is the problem I have with my husband.... please help me.
Mwikali at 9:24 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Women need more than love, they also need Security.
I love the shows🔥💯educative💯
I also beg that you do away with your native language instead use English throughout to help the world in totality. Personally I remain wondering when you use your language.
I thank You.
Jesuuuus am being rebuked as a woman
Hawa viumbe hata uwaheshimu aje, bado watakuangusha tu... Infact they are the viumbe Thaifu na sio sisi wadada
If the man respects the woman..he keeps his friends but he gives them up for her...but of course still keeps his friends
Love is right but we need a leader, provider and protector as the example in the Bible of Adam was given. God gave Adam a purpose and authority to lead and with that came the responsibility which includes protection of all that was entrusted to him and he was given the resources to be a provider.
So if a man is sitting at home not doing anything while the woman is the breadwinner, that is totally out of order. Eve was called to help, not to be responsible for the entire financial well-being of the home.
If another woman (sidechick) is trying to come in, it is his duty to "protect" his marriage, not leaving his wife to do that.
Very true, it's the Law of Gender
Yes ma'am
wow...this guy is deep deep..
where has he been all this while?
please let him do e-books, church sessions, wah
Wow
Somehow its trick to understand the mind of a man
I've seen lots of women with tatoos and they are happily married and there are those ones with no tatoos with all the qualities and they are divorced so this thing is a matter of once choice.
The exceptions do not make the rule
@@eujo_ke254 true th-cam.com/video/LI2g5qgpzrU/w-d-xo.html
This is funny,,my first born daughter is 17 and the second is 19.
This is tricky.
I thought it was just me...I posted same comment elsewhere
You can never and will never see a forest for a tree.
The 2nd child is 09years old.
Anyway... His clothes are at least 2 sizes too small... But then again his math about the 1st and 2nd born is also off so... lets just conclude he has an issue with numbers. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Thought I was alone,especially the pants😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...I thought I heard it wrong
😂😂😂😂
What. About those men who complain about everything?
Men kazi yenu ni ngumu... I want a woman who was born a woman, I give her love, she gives me love 😂😂😂period!
Yes because WABABA!!!
I leave men I don't respect...100% IF I've no respect for him I will be critical n that's not good
Top priorities/needs of a man
1. Respect
2. On point / straight forward information
3. Food
4. Sex🤔
Needs of a woman
1. L.O.V.E
Good information.
"I need more information."
I give. I need a woman too.
Wait the first daughter is 17 yrs and the send is 19 how doest happen or how did it happen 😳
Kumbe umeskia hiyo...
A disrespect woman it wost than a
Toothache .# 1 need for a man is respect. # 1 need for woman is love.
how is his second daughter 19 and the first one is 17?
I heard it too. I had to rewind the video.
I also had to rewind the video twice, the math does not add up😂😅
Am wondering the same too
Long story short: #both species need to be PROPERLY #Appreciated; or, they’ll go where they #Are!
You’re welcome!
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HI MWIKALI....KINDLY LET YUOR VISITORS PLACE THE MICROPHONE WELL... CLOSE TO THE MOUTH...MOST OF THEM CANT BE HEARD WELL..
Yes kuna ukweli but why categorize women only love break it down as you did with men because as a woman I need respect don’t talk to me as your maid or a kid. As a woman I need food too. Nipeleke out or spoil me by cooking for me or join me in the kitchen tupike ama pick a meal you want us to cook. Apo pa sex pia tuko nisirukiwe kama kuku na uhakikishe nimefika safarini ala…ala. pia sisi wanadamu….. Arudi tena with complete homework done.
Eiiiiiish😳 if you come home late, leave towels in the sink, text Tanasha while we’re in bed …..just RESPECT. That is mbwakni kabisa. My friend carry your respect and goooooooo
That's your problem... you're dealing with boys.. why would a man move in with a woman...my house my rules...
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The number one need of a male is sex because God design him to be a progenerator.
Unfortunately that's the message that most men send out,so you can't blame the women for that.
A lot of women struggle to find men who are.... RESPECT-ABLE.
If a man feels nagged, he is not .... ummmmm ....
Yes things are alot but first priority shouldn't be sex..we man need to understand this, actually like for me i would say 'do whatever she value most' and offer a free time for opinions.
I like this though🙌
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏sex itoke kwa list hadi..i like the fact that it's number 4
He will come back broke & with dangerous diseases .
Nonsense!!!!
My male colleague is my equal!!!
No comparison btwn husband and any other male person. Differentiate the two.
This conversation is extremely STUPID!!!
Where did he compare? He said a wife to submit to her own husband. But what we find happening is they submit to the boss, men of God but disrespect their husband.
Or did I hear my own things?
I think you have serious dady issues. Shingo hali zidii kichwa