I LOST 140 POUNDS! (10 stone) | Gastric Sleeve Surgery

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  • I had gastric sleeve surgery and in this video I discuss:
    - gastric sleeve surgery vs gastric band
    - bariatric surgery
    - which clinic to pick for gastric sleeve
    - English hospital recommendation for gastric sleeve surgery
    - gastric sleeve before and after
    - loose skin after gastric sleeve
    - why I had a gastric sleeve operation
    - all the secrets of bariatric surgery
    - liver diet for gastric sleeve surgery and bariatric surgery
    - what you should know before having bariatric surgery
    Mega thank you forever and a day to my auntie Ash who stepped up and paid for this surgery. I will never stop being grateful for a second chance at life.

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  • @HubNut
    @HubNut ปีที่แล้ว +414

    I admire this video, and the honesty contained within SO MUCH. Well done.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Thanks Ian and thanks to you and Carly for being so supportive ❤️❤️

    • @Leathersladekitchen
      @Leathersladekitchen ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Totally echo what Ian says

    • @drd6416
      @drd6416 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      For once, I get to love a HubNut comment back! ❤️

    • @stephenhall3515
      @stephenhall3515 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ian, heartily agreed and I would write direct to Steph if I dared but we psychologists can be as boring as hell. You and the Hubnuts are in support and that is priceless.

    • @tommoso55
      @tommoso55 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I only pop in and out of your videos for some reason, but watched the triumph one yesterday and thought I was watching the wrong video as you look so amazing and very pretty, blimmin wish I was a hundred years younger I would be giving you boyfriend a bit of competition lol. A very big well done for such a honest video, nearly bought a silly old biker to a few tears xx

  • @edsilvester
    @edsilvester ปีที่แล้ว +65

    The people who left such comments were unaware of the fact that their comments reflected more about themselves than you.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I still think about some of them!

    • @ciartdsfa4899
      @ciartdsfa4899 ปีที่แล้ว

      One hundred percent mate, these imbeciles wouldn't dream of saying boo to a goose in a bar but spout nasty bs about others from the safety of their front room.

    • @alansimpson835
      @alansimpson835 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idriveaclassic I know it's easy for us to say - we're not the ones they were directed at and would feel exactly the same on the receiving end - but rhe following has to be said to reinforce the fact it's not ok or clever to behave like this.
      - They're the ones that end up looking like complete knobs and not you. Most IDAC viewers are here because they like you and your content
      - They're probably insecure and if their way of feeling better involves provoking a rise out of you then they need help
      - I bet they couldn't do what you do, both in terms of the channel and surgery
      - Why are they spending the limited time they have on this earth doing something so useless?

    • @michaelstamper5604
      @michaelstamper5604 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@idriveaclassic if you do think about them, pity them. Poor, sad fools.

    • @samspade975
      @samspade975 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What spirit you have, you’re indefatigable.

  • @raymondee100
    @raymondee100 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Hey Steph, I must be honest I never thought about your weight when watching the videos I just loved watching a young person talking about classic cars, also another thing that drew me to your channel is your look, very retro!
    It must have been hard for you reading disgusting comments, and I always feel those people have more issues going on with themselves which might be a tool to use in the future if you get a crappie comment. All I can say is you're an amazing person and speaking for myself, it warms my heart when I see your passion for old classics and if you could bottle your passion you would be rich beyond belief. Thanks for the upload and all the best wishes for the future.
    And Happy New Year..

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This comment made me well up. Thank you xx

    • @VauxhallViva1975
      @VauxhallViva1975 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      " I always feel those people have more issues going on with themselves" - Oh, DEFINETLY.

  • @richnewall8564
    @richnewall8564 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I admire your honesty Steph, and am sorry to hear the amount of pain you went through.
    I can't believe how vile and cruel some people can be, especially when they are safely hidden behind a keyboard! Shame on them, and I hope karma catches up with them.
    You're looking fantastic, and wish 2023 will be filled with nothing but positive, happy energy for you! 🎉🤗

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Thanks so much ❤️❤️❤️

  • @simonbarnwell7787
    @simonbarnwell7787 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    For someone who struggled with self esteem issues , this level of honesty is beyond brave .

  • @sonofatwitch82
    @sonofatwitch82 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I know my issues are nothing compered to yours but, as a disabled 40 year old male, I struggle with confidence and this video sort of highlights that for me. I had groin surgery in 1989 and on my legs in 1994 to help me walk. I understand the emotions that come with this and it feels dreadful that your thoughts are that people laugh and point or wispar, but you are what and who you are and no one can take that away. So thankyou for the video and it helped me ease my depression. Wish you luck and happy, SAFE driving.

  • @MatthewBrannigan
    @MatthewBrannigan ปีที่แล้ว +47

    You look fabulous Steph, although you always did. I'm so glad you got to the place you needed to go - lots of love to you.

  • @Roverjoe
    @Roverjoe ปีที่แล้ว +53

    You’re an inspiration Steph, it takes a lot of Courage to make a video like this, well done! Proud of you!

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks Joe that’s really nice of you ❤️

  • @richardhoulton4016
    @richardhoulton4016 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    You always looked amazing Steph, but it definitely feels better not to be carrying excess. If the last 12 months journey makes you a happier person then all of it was worth it. Congratulations on this post and on your very entertaining channel.

  • @gevetsrm
    @gevetsrm ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This has to be one of the most refreshingly honest videos i have ever seen. You are such a terrific communicator and, from all the other comments, reaching out to a wide audience that needs your support as much as the dupport you have received from them. Keep it up young lady and my very best wishes for your future. XX

  • @automotivetales
    @automotivetales ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I can’t believe how heartfelt and honest this video is, yet you manage to retain your sense of humour! You’re inspirational Steph, and it’s so lovely that you’ve taken the time to share your experience for people who might be in the same sitch you were in 2021! You’re a sweetheart ❤
    Keep up the good work and keep being you 💪🏻

  • @jgh548
    @jgh548 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is tremendous work. Honest without being self indulgent, brave without being self pitying and most of all, tremendously helpful to the many thousands of people watching it over the years who have experience with body dysmorphic tendencies.
    I can say that because I'm one of them.
    Well done Steph, you have my deepest respect and by the way, you look cool!

  • @chrispenn715
    @chrispenn715 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Really pleased for you Steph. Looking great. Well done!

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks Chris! Can’t quite believe it.

  • @paullickorish6772
    @paullickorish6772 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Hello Steph, I'm so sorry to hear about the horrible comments that you received, there really are some nasty individuals around. You're a lovely young lady and I wish you all the very best, happy new year to you! X

  • @glennmckenzie1096
    @glennmckenzie1096 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have had no teeth for three years and as a performer (singer) my career and my life was over, but an anonymous person has given the money for dentures - soooooo grateful! Many of us only survive because of the kindness of others. Even kind words can help us through another day.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww that’s so lovely!!! I hope you’re singing every moment of the day and loving having your voice back ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @glennmckenzie1096
      @glennmckenzie1096 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@idriveaclassic Pity we're not in the same country - I'd love for you to drive my bright red 1987 Honda Civic hatchback (only 50k miles!).

  • @llqvz116
    @llqvz116 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    What an interesting, moving and informative video Steph, thank you. Your post operation experiences are a bit of a revelation for me; I never realised the physical and mental after effects of such surgery. So often the image we have of ourselves is shaped by others, well done for liberating yourself from that mindset. Best wishes for the future, and I hope you go from strength to strength in all areas of your life.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah it was bloody testing 😂😂

  • @andy14landy
    @andy14landy ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Always found Steph inspirational. Even more so now.

  • @CharlesSmith-zt7vt
    @CharlesSmith-zt7vt ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I wish I could like this video more than once! So many strong messages about what it takes to face up to everyday challenges - I particularly love the one about having compassion for yourself. Go well into the new year!

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you! I think more compassion would make the world a much easier place to fumble through life in

  • @anthenning
    @anthenning ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Steph, I've watched your journey on Twitter, and I honestly think you're an incredibly brave person. Taking charge of your life when it feels like it's falling apart is the hardest thing ever, but you did it and stuck with it, and been open and honest about how it's affected you good and bad. Well done for not giving up and sticking around so the rest of us can keep living vicariously through you driving those awesome classics!

  • @edsilvester
    @edsilvester ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Steph. I enjoyed this video more than I expected. (I’m here for the cars.). I found old you quite delightful on screen and I saw your weight in the same way I saw your hair do and your dress sense. It was a style. Your style. You can change it; it’s yours. You own it.
    I found your honesty refreshing and uplifting. Im sure you are going to continue to recover and strengthen up physically and emotionally. Keep being you.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha I’m here for the cars too but I thought, if people keep asking I’ll keep telling ☺️

  • @mrbeancounter90
    @mrbeancounter90 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    LOVE YOU STEPH. Saddening to hear that it was been a painful journey to get here on New Years Eve, but you look fabulous and delighted that you have met someone who can treat you like a Queen (and seemingly goes to Motor Shows with you!)

  • @silverelgrandlow6298
    @silverelgrandlow6298 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Being one of your hosts in Malaysia, and also hearing what you have shared there and then and in this video, I was really worried about dietary issues or restrictions when you were in Malaysia, and I was really relieved and happy that you have enjoyed our food and shops. And I want to put this out there that Steph is such an amazing and bright person that it is such an honour to bring you around in Malaysia.
    Your outward appearance should NEVER. I repeat, NEVER be the indicator of how you are as a person.
    You are my inspiration as well to work harder on my business and myself after a traumatic accident that nearly cost my life.
    You absolutely deserve the success and happiness you are having right now and in future.
    You are, right now an absolute star and a celebrity, a friend, an inspiration, a sister and definately such a brilliant and strong person.
    I am only wishing you all the best for your future to come!

  • @charlotte2004jd
    @charlotte2004jd ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have always enjoyed watching your videos, your taste in cars and clothes coincides with mine, but this video has taken you a much higher level in my estimation. Very impressed with your honesty and you look fantastic. Now I just have to learn to drive and get my own Morris. Way to go,girl.

  • @hunchanchoc8418
    @hunchanchoc8418 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exasperated by media full of either unpleasant aggressive feminists or ditzy airheaded makeup artists with Groucho Marx eyebrows, THIS is an example of a REAL woman to aspire to. A staggeringly, staggeringly honest broadcast. Wow. Just wow. I am overflowing with admiration. All this, AND a love of classic cars - what a person, what a woman! Hats off to you Steph 🙂

  • @steveburn8125
    @steveburn8125 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hope you don’t mind me saying this Steph, but you have always looked lovely, I really enjoy your content and knowledge about cars. You’ve travelled a very courageous journey, anyone who would leave comments like that reflects on their own levels of self worth. I know for a fact, names hurt. Much love to you Steph

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Steve you’re very kind x

  • @spacegangster2588
    @spacegangster2588 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have no idea who could write offensive comments on your videos, only inadequate people. For me, Your videos are the epitome of English retro style.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! Some people are just no lifers sadly

  • @profrumpo
    @profrumpo ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oh Steph I'm so sorry you have suffered from horrible people sending you vile comments. Thanks for sharing your story, and what a wonderful lady your Auntie is. I'm sure your honesty will help people who are considering the same surgery. Wonderful that you are feeling much happier and the surgery has been so worthwhile.

  • @marvindoolin1340
    @marvindoolin1340 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If it matters what an elderly, long happily married guy who is interested in older cars around the world thinks, you have introduced me to a number of vehicles that I'd never heard of in the American Midwest. While I'm very happy for you, I was never in any way "turned off" by your appearance, but always impressed by your knowledge. All the best to you.

  • @gareththompson538
    @gareththompson538 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such an amazing story. It is incredible that you have found the strength to share this with the world. And it is so sad that people were leaving such horrible comments.

  • @matthanna7162
    @matthanna7162 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing remains the same before & after your surgery is the fact you are a very talented presenter 👏

  • @simonhodgetts6530
    @simonhodgetts6530 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That was a brave video to do Steph - your journey has been incredibly brave. It’s a great shame that trolls can’t see beyond appearances - your car videos have always been very engaging, entertaining and informative. It’s great to see you at the other side - and I must say you’re looking great - so I hope that your recovery continues, and please, please don’t stop the great classic car content! Best wishes for 2023!

  • @jackkinkead868
    @jackkinkead868 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've always enjoyed your videos, but have often seen some fairly troubling comments regarding your appearance - some downright creepy. Even though lots of people give really positive feedback, those negative & creepy comments are hard to forget. So well done for keeping going at all! Congratulations on all the positive steps forward & for having the conviction to take action & speak out. It's so heartbreaking to hear of anyone at such a low ebb, so honest stories of recovery are so vital for the benefit of others. I'm a Vicar, & the thing that drew me into this life is all about supporting & validating people, whatever their life philosophy - your story is so encouraging, so thank you again for sharing it.

  • @Simon-ui6db
    @Simon-ui6db ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Massive respect to you Steph for doing this video. Hope you and everyone in the scene have a great 2023.

  • @DavidMFranks
    @DavidMFranks ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've always thought that you are beautiful - big or not. And this brutally honest video makes some damn good points. Way to go, Steph.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks David that’s so nice of you

  • @michaelcope856
    @michaelcope856 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Does James Martin get similar comments on his channel? I suspect not. This is as much about misogyny as anything else. A very brave video. So happy for you. Have a great 2023.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      James is such a talent I am a big fan. I have never discussed it with him but I know Mike brewer does.

  • @milosit
    @milosit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've watched and enjoyed many of your videos over the past few years. Today, I became a subscriber because you're a genuine, honest and beautiful person.

  • @bri77uk1
    @bri77uk1 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Well done for being so brave and honest with your story, Steph Hopefully this will help others in a similar position. So happy for you! 🤗

  • @rhys_thomss7013
    @rhys_thomss7013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you raising awareness!!! Don’t listen to the people that treated you badly your car videos are amazing!!

  • @Unlimited_Slip
    @Unlimited_Slip ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I really do appreciate this video. I myself am struggling with weight and hearing your story does give some perspective and hope that I can make things better for myself. I hope your journey leads you to more happiness and success!
    Also, love the channel! Getting insight on the history and cultural context on classic cars from someone outside my country is always fun. The similarities and differences in how cars were received and where they fit in the culture is fascinating.

  • @lrs3
    @lrs3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s just awful that some people are horrible enough to leave hate comments.
    Well done for being brave enough to get the surgery and have a happy new year!

  • @beardsandbangers
    @beardsandbangers ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Normally on a TH-cam video one expects a degree of a facade or something similar. This is a truly brave, honest, refreshing and inspiring video. Thank you!

  • @exasperated
    @exasperated 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Had the definite pleasure of briefly bumping into Steph yesterday, and she fielded a random (and somewhat sun dishevelled) stranger recognising her well.
    She also (not that looks matters when it comes to her channel's content) looked fantastic. Hopefully, because this is what really matters, she's feeling fantastic too.

  • @rodhili3946
    @rodhili3946 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Steph, you are an absolute star 🌟 Your honesty is so refreshing and your courage is amazing 👏 I hope 2023 will be a fantastic year for you and your subscribers ❤️

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you Rod and I’m hoping for a brilliant year for you too x

  • @drummingriffin
    @drummingriffin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The nasty comments say more about the individual making them than the person they're talking about Steph. You just keep being you. Auntie Ash, you little STAR!! From what I'm seeing here, I think you saved Steph's life. No question. Happy new year and wishing you both all you would hope for. Norm 🥰🥰xx

  • @StevesMachines
    @StevesMachines ปีที่แล้ว +13

    That sounds like quite the journey you are on Steph, interesting to hear what you've been through so far.
    I wish you all the best for the rest of your journey and very glad to hear you are enjoying even more vintage clothing, your style has always been superb 😀

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks Steve! I do love my clothing x

  • @philiphawksley9690
    @philiphawksley9690 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Isn't it sad you had to filter through all those abusive comments? Especially sad for the posters that is, in that they were so inadequate they had to spew their frustrated bile in your direction. You have done the right thing for you, your loved ones and your future - not them. Your former appearance was none of their business, nor indeed mine, which is why I would never have referenced it. You have advanced skills in the fields of car design and mechanics, film presenting and editing and - it transpires - dressmaking! I'd like to bet they do nothing other than just watch videos all day! Anyway, I wish you well with the remainder of your journey and look forward to seeing you donning the obligatory "blue jeans" when you reach your destination. Have a very happy new year!

  • @D...M...A...
    @D...M...A... ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dearest Steph , I have watched for years and always loved you , for you ...

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you x

    • @D...M...A...
      @D...M...A... ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@idriveaclassic You are loved , hugs to you from New York ... Happy New Year , Englander ( cute , Englander ) ...

  • @keithmountain9437
    @keithmountain9437 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very brave lady with remarkable self awareness and clarity of thought. You deserve a wonderful life.

  • @smac4749
    @smac4749 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow - just, wow. What an incredibly brave, honest, informative, alternately sad & happy but ultimately inspirational video.
    You're looking so much happier now than you did just a year ago which is great to see.
    Wishing you and yours everything you would wish yourselves for 2023 & beyond!

  • @ApolloFreya
    @ApolloFreya ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done girl you look great . My x is going shortly for sleeve I have shared your video with him to give him insight to what’s involved. Also your car videos take me back to my child hood yes am old lol. Good luck and ignore the negative people in this world 😊

  • @jovice9867
    @jovice9867 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Steph. Really important vlog you have made for your channel. Such a brave thing too. I cannot believe how vile people are on these platforms but the majority of people still are decent and can admire someone that has a passion, created a channel to share that passion and has a style all of her own, which takes courage to stand out and be different. Always followed you, keep going and all the best to you Steph. X

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People are awful at times. It’s shocked me because I’m lucky enough to have a whole raft of people in my life who would never behave like that

    • @jovice9867
      @jovice9867 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@idriveaclassic
      That's good to hear. Happy New year to you .

  • @jonathanwheatley622
    @jonathanwheatley622 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You look fabulous steph

  • @WrenchingWench
    @WrenchingWench ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So so proud of you for this, and so happy to see you happy too! A lot of fantastic advice in this video that's not just related to losing weight too. "Comparison is the thief of joy" is definitely a quote I'll be carrying into the new year!

  • @deanstevenson7517
    @deanstevenson7517 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I very rarely comment but you are so brave to share your story. I obviously only know you through your videos but have always found you knowledgeabl and entertaining and I really enjoy the cars and your opinion. Good luck and i hope you have even more better days to mash the not so good ones.

  • @GazzaView123
    @GazzaView123 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow! Much respect Steph for being so candid. I wish you all the best for 2023 & beyond.

  • @briandamaged323
    @briandamaged323 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an amazing human being. Well done, onwards and upwards in 2023. Big Love xx

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks and a jolly 2023 to you too xx

  • @parne1978
    @parne1978 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well done Steph you look fabulous I had to look twice when I met you at Beaulieu as wasn’t sure it was you lol took some guts to share this with the world keep the great vids coming take care x

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah I was pretty sunburnt to be fair

  • @parkecorepersonaltrainingp2601
    @parkecorepersonaltrainingp2601 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your honesty I had the pleasure of meeting you at the last NEC classic car show.
    You have done wonderful and have kept entertaining us and love all your videos.
    You have been and are an inspiration. Xx

  • @saxoman66
    @saxoman66 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Steph I think you are amazing and always have been. Your honesty is a tonic to me having suffered with mental health issues for a number of years. I did get emotional listening to you and remembering where I was and am now. Like you there are more good days than bad and I try to use the strategies given to me during my therapy sessions. I wish you every success and happiness in your personal and professional life and hope your channel and life continue on an upward curve. Best wishes for 2023. Dave x

  • @nigelh4617
    @nigelh4617 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so glad that you're where you are now, Steph. It's clearly been a tough journey, mentally and physically and you experienced the lowest of lows. It's a relief to see you back, the classic car world (and the world in general) would be a poorer place without you.

  • @MarksWheels
    @MarksWheels ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well done Steph. Weight can be such a huge internal struggle and as someone who lost 3 stone, i know how hard it can be to not just be motivated but also keep that motivation and not break down. I know this video will help many people out there who are, or will be going through the same and this video will help encourage them. Thank you

  • @Ed_start
    @Ed_start ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I watch and enjoy all your car videos - they are interesting and informative, but I never realised about your personal struggles. I’m so impressed by your actions and by the bravery of your brutal honesty in sharing the personal issues of your journey to help others in similar circumstances. Well done, you have my deepest respect and complete admiration. Best wishes for the rest of your journey - and keep sharing the excellent car videos too!

  • @PeakVT
    @PeakVT ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video. I think a lot of people will benefit from your experience and honesty.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope so! Nobody was that honest with me.

  • @andrewboon8733
    @andrewboon8733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your a very courageous woman. Thank you for being open and honest about something very personal to you. 😘

  • @briforks7681
    @briforks7681 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I bowed out after 1 minute because I have a habit of passing out when hearing about operations and hospitals but I hope you achieve all your goals as your honesty,hard work and enthusiasm is inspirational.

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey that’s ok! Sorry if I made you feel a bit *wiggles hand about*

    • @briforks7681
      @briforks7681 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@idriveaclassic I bowed out very early just in case.I am fine when I get injured but hopeless around anyone else talking medical.

  • @gregscally5119
    @gregscally5119 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can only endorse the many comments which have already been made. Your video is a very valuable contribution for people who have faced similar life issues. Your courage and honesty is awe-inspiring. Congratulations and well done.

  • @philiproberts4325
    @philiproberts4325 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Watched because I was interested in your choices and the results. But it's your life, live it for you. That said, you look happier and thanks for sharing. Happy new year to you and all yours. Hope next year is as good for you. Well played young lady.

  • @petesmith2132
    @petesmith2132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My total admiration for you Steph, not only for achieving your weight loss, but for being publicly honest. Well done!

  • @robertmaitland09
    @robertmaitland09 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're an inspiration Steph. So brave to go through what you did and such admirable honesty.

  • @julianlyons711
    @julianlyons711 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect and admiration to you for being so honest about such a sensitive issue… its truly diabolical how people can be so abusive and insulting .. so your strength of character shines through this and all your other videos

  • @rocketsock4297
    @rocketsock4297 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Steph, haven't watched the whole video yet but i appreciate you take others with you on that journey. I startet watching your videos a long time ago and last year you Instagram storys have shown your weight loss. I never struggeled with weight myself but you brought that stigmatized topic to a lot of car guys that otherwise wouldn't have thought about it or felt maybe ashamed or similar. I love your content, it encouraged me in the past to drive my old cars more often. Lots of love from a young german Guy from the internet - sorry if i don't find the best/most fitting english words🙈. ♥

  • @Alexsp228
    @Alexsp228 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve watched you for years Steph, and as a larger person myself, it’s inspirational to see you feeling good in your own skin ❤

  • @michaeltreadwell777
    @michaeltreadwell777 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Steph Steph Steph Steph Steph ! That was BRILLIANT ! I'm a 68 year old man and am SO PROUD of you. Your journey has been amazing and now look at the result ! The video is / was obviously good therapy for you and I'm so pleased for you. To be honest, I never really noticed your weight deminishing, but when you put up the 'before' shots - WOW, stunning. I could go on for ages, but won't, but I will say we are ALL so pleased for you, and Fred too - how lucky is he ! Life can only get better every day, and we are with you all the way. HAPPY NEW YEAR Steph, and we're looking forward to all your future videos. Take special care, always 🙂 X X X X

  • @johncarlton6689
    @johncarlton6689 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When I found your chanel, watching you was like having an interest with a good friend, and listening and learning. I did then and do now love watching them, and that is because of you. I will say no more. You and your videos are fabulous. John. x

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you John. It’s so appreciated ❤️

  • @jasondear8440
    @jasondear8440 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bless you Steph you are an amazing woman, I know about pain sweetheart believe me, have followed you from the start on utube, your love of cars quirky, old and not so old grips me as your honest reports are fascinating i have learnt so much! wishing you a fantastic new year! all my very best! x

  • @LouiseMannigel
    @LouiseMannigel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so intelligent, brave beyond measure, and extremely gifted. You are also a great gift to us, your viewers. Thank you infinitely.

  • @Lenkilburn
    @Lenkilburn ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Steph how wonderfully honest of you to show us your video it takes a lot to be this frank and power to you for it I think you look great and what a wonderful person your aunt ash is helping you like she did amazing 👍

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh she’s bloody amazing. I owe her my life x

  • @oxfamshop
    @oxfamshop ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2 comments . Regarding the motoring stuff it is amazing , love the gold standard content of what you do. Regarding this video I had always heard that the kind of treatment you have had is no quick fix and the work is ongoing . Very best wishess to you . Carry on being megga

  • @geoffvalenti
    @geoffvalenti ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a great video Steph. You really nailed it.
    A frank, and at times very moving, account of a real person's life trials, and how she beat them. This should be compulsory watching for anyone considering gastric surgery.
    Good luck with your continuing journey. It's always a struggle but I can see that you've more than got what it takes to carry on.

  • @andrewbeer4715
    @andrewbeer4715 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Steph for being so honest with us.
    I'm one of those people who wouldn't have bothered to ask about your change of look, I just enjoy your car videos whatever. I guess though that informing your TH-cam community in this way does head off some of the questions that people are bound to ask.
    When you first mentioned that you had had surgery, I was concerned that it had been solely down to negative comments online. Now I know that t was more to do with counteracting the effects of a hormone disorder and lock down. None the less, you did mention the sort of comments that you used to get and it is very upsetting that people would say such things.
    For me, Steph is someone that loves to share her passion for classic cars and indeed you did inspire me to buy my own Morris Minor (fortunately my wife likes it too) . I love your presentation style and to be honest I don't really care what the presenter looks like, I just want to know about the cars. This is in the same way that I liked Hubnut with long hair and now with short hair and I could never understand the negative comments Ian got about his long hair. I have however always admired your outfits and your whole late 1960's kind of look.
    Your video was very informative, hopefully I will never need such drastic surgery myself (oh the custard Creams!), but I now have a better understanding of what people having this surgery are going through.
    On the subject of toxic friends, some people to seem to home in on negative energy, perhaps because it makes them feel better about themselves, others can desert you in times of trouble and some indeed when you succeed. Who needs such friends?
    Anyway, enough waffle from me, I wish you well and I look forward to more car videos.
    Cheers
    Andy

  • @vsanti83
    @vsanti83 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Bless you Steph. You've had a hard journey and are doing so well. Thank you for your honest account. We love the cheerful enthusiasm you are able to share. You're inspirational. Happy New year to you and yours

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy new year to you too darling x

  • @ibs5080
    @ibs5080 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Steph. Ibrahim in Canterbury here. I'm watching this now and literally have tears in my eyes. Having met you in person twice, you are such a lovely, interesting and intelligent person and a very kind and gentle person. You certainly don't deserve those nasty judgemental comments. I've been subscribed to your channel for quite a while now, since before COVID and have loved watching your videos and your cheery manner. I have huge respect and admiration for your knowledge of cars and not once did it ever occur to me to judge you on your appearance. And it's been truly the icing on the cake to meet you in person twice and I'm sure mum and I will meet you again at more car shows in the future, especially the two annual NEC ones.
    As a dual Brit Canadian who sort of got "stranded" back in Blighty far longer than I had planned, it made me realise that there is a great deal to like back here and I've since made the decision to spend far more time back in the UK now, versus my other homeland of Vancouver, as much as I love it there too. Together with that, there are certain key things that make me love being back here and without sounding patronising, I can honestly say that knowing that mum and I will meet you at future cars shows means something to me. It's that connection between your videos and meeting you in person that's one of the little things that make me feel at home back here. I'm not sure if I've explained all this very well but it's lovely to see your videos throughout the year and then go to car shows and meet you in person.
    As for your procedure, Thank you so much for making this video and huge respect and admiration to you for what you have achieved! You should be very very proud of yourself and hold your head up high. And now I will go back to watching the rest of this video. Happy New Year to you and your family. 🇬🇧 🇨🇦

  • @androidtablet1082
    @androidtablet1082 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    good on you, Steph, for being so upfront and honest. Like others have mentioned, I come here to see your interesting and informative reviews of classic cars but this was just as interesing. Looking forward to seeing more in 2023. It's going to be a good year :)

    • @idriveaclassic
      @idriveaclassic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for watching despite it containing no car reviews hehe x

  • @mrcraven1739
    @mrcraven1739 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wonderful video. Honest and informative. The message about self compassion and the power of words to build up people or hurt and destroy is so true. Have a fantastic year ahead with your lovely man.

  • @patrickcarr9678
    @patrickcarr9678 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for sharing this, Steph. You were fabulous before and you're fabulous now, but I'm so glad you're happier. Your ability to give the warts'n'all experience shows how much your confidence has grown. Truly inspirational.

  • @stefansworld3351
    @stefansworld3351 ปีที่แล้ว

    People are disgusting. How dare anyone cast vile, hurtful and crass comments and opinions on someone who comes across as genuine, upbeat and positive as yourself. I have encountered such behaviour towards myself in the past and have witnessed others expressing their hate on to others. I don't understand why people can't just be kind to one another. They are the ones with the issues. I hope you feel better within yourself during the mental and physical journey you've undertaken. You look great! Keep up the good work with yourself and your channel. Regards, Stefan 😁

  • @Michistrasse97
    @Michistrasse97 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing your journey with us, I'm so glad to hear that you're feeling much better! Your bravery and strength are an inspiration to all of us.

  • @bertbristow7172
    @bertbristow7172 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The most meaningful vid I've watched in a while and to be applauded for all the reasons others have commented, but also for me because you dislike "reaching out" as much as I do! Like your Aunt, I live in Australia and agree it is a popular op, and in the experience of two Aussies that I personally know, not a one way street nor a quick fix.

  • @drwho534
    @drwho534 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thankyou Steph for sharing all you've been through. You are a brave and beautiful person that so many of us appreciate for all the time and energy you put into your channel that all us car crazy people love. You're looking great. So appreciate your positivity on life! Wishing you a great New Year ahead and can't wait for more of your classic car adventures! Cheers!

  • @peterlindop4491
    @peterlindop4491 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done Steph, your car series are excellent. Ignore those idiots on social media or, give them a mouthful of something they won’t like.

  • @davidneen4907
    @davidneen4907 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow, you look fabulous. What an amazing journey you have been on. Look forward to more fantastic videos from you. 😊

  • @metricstormtrooper
    @metricstormtrooper 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the best and most important video you have ever made. Bravo.

  • @edwardtrickett6064
    @edwardtrickett6064 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    First of all Steph, you look amazing and well done for losing such a terrific amount of weight!
    I LOVE your no holds barred, totally honest and open approach to all of what you have gone through, you should be extremely proud of making such a great decision for you
    I hope that 2023 is a brilliant year for you x

  • @triodehexode
    @triodehexode ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think you have helped many with this post. I have watched you from the start I love your enthusiasm about cars and vintage.

  • @The-Rectifier
    @The-Rectifier ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your courage and honesty is refreshing, Steph. Some ppl have totally no bounderies to call this names to an other person , that say way more about them tham they realize.
    Have a magical 2023 and we all looking forward to see more vlogs.
    😘

  • @mlambourne5344
    @mlambourne5344 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steph. You made my cry, Sorry to hear of the communication of the small part of your digital audience that don't she you for the amazing women you are and always have been.
    So touched by this chip and can I wise you a wonderful 2023.
    One Great youtuber.
    Thanks Martin x

  • @frazermountford
    @frazermountford ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well done Steph, what a journey you have been trough. Incredible

  • @TompaFloda
    @TompaFloda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Steph you are an amazing woman in a man's world (the car industry/business). I admire your confidence and your way of making classic car test drive videos. The woman/feminist way of doing it is so welcome😍. Even though I can understand and feel with your strugle you really shine Steph! I wish you all the best on your personal journey. Keep on doing classic car tests cause you are the best😍

  • @richardcollings371
    @richardcollings371 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    A great video. Thanks for being so honest with us on your journey. Wishing you all the best for 2023 and beyond.

  • @Stephenb033
    @Stephenb033 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My love for Steph is so strong. Hope this video helps others on their journey.