you know whats crazy. its soo true not to reach out in fear. I always message my twin and keep getting blocked. I actually felt into this energy to see where its coming from and really its because I fear my twin speaking to me and replying back to my messages and moving a step closer that actually creeps me out, i cleared the fear and did the exact same thing with my comment and didnt get blocked! the energy and the way i feel like the fear has also gone so theres no more trigger... this actually works, when you clear the fear. because theyre reacting to your fear which they feel lol when theres no fear theres nothing to react to. its crazy
You’ll love them whether they are there or absent, whether you have a shot at a 3D relationship or not. The made up 3D cultural relationships are an invented fiction as opposed to the eternal love that exists in your heart.
Hey Elle, My flame hasn't contacted me in over two years. I'll be darn if I respond to his call when he does decide to contact me. Yes, I want to be with my twin one day but I know what type of twin I'm dealing with. If I respond the first time he contacts me after this long, he's going to swear he has the upper hand and has control over when we speak like he did before when I was his codependent junkie. So, I'll be darn if I let him have control over when we speak; never again, not after all this work I've done on myself trying to balance my energies. I've already made up my mind I'm not going to answer his call when he calls, at least not the first time. It's gonna be months or a year or so before I respond to his his call. He will never again have the upper hand over me because it doesn't feel good to be at someone's beck and call. That's a horrible feeling!! YUCK!!!!
Last Thursday my twin flame texted me randomly in the middle of the night that he hoped I had a good day, well, I rolled over and tried to go back to sleep, but he double texted me that he missed me and my kisses and “everything”, so I felt like he needed me to validate him by texting him back and telling him that I missed him too, well, he ghosted me all Halloween weekend and just today texted me that I didn’t send him a picture of my costume. This video was my sign to let this fine gentlemen wait it out for my response. Thank you!!
This was SO helpful. After 5 years mine finally sent me a message last week. I didn't reply just gave it it a "heart" and let it be. It's just what felt right to do, and so glad I did now. Thank you for this. The not obsessing is the hard part because it's an evil habit that is hard to kick. Plus I'm a Cancer so obsessing is kind of my thing lol I know this is a test to keep me in that calm, inviting self-loving zone I finally have been able to get into. He felt that and I did too, so the work must be done to stay there and that means focusing on myself yet again.
Whoa. Hmm. This just happened last week. I was feeling very in tune, just going with flow, joyful. And then I heard from her. And yes! I got really excited and had to do grounding, but I responded for the very reasons that you said. Also because there is this push a lot for compassion and understanding. I like how you explain why not to respond. That made a lot of sense.
😳 before I even knew this I blocked my Twin the first time he tried coming back in because I felt my intuition telling me to block him. 5 months ago I wouldve never thought I'd be able to overcome the obsessive energy so quickly 🤭 (Oh and I didnt block him out of any type of spite or negative feelings, I've been at peace and felt nothing but love for him, I just had a weird feeling like he wasnt coming in with the best intentions so I decided to distance myself. If you wanna come back, come correct 😂)
I " saw" me learning and applying all this when i first looked at my twin 8 years ago- with my internal vision! Like how to apply exactly these teachings playes out right before my eyes- ive lives to see so much from those visions come true!
4:47-5:14 summarizes everything and I kind of inferred it before learning about your videos and the whole twin flame thing but never put it in words! there is this person I now suspect to be twin flames with and been trying to keep communications neutral as an intuitive way of keeping what you refer to as fear-based energies leveled by pointing out at factual situations and universal concepts rather that emotions, as a means to foster communications without falling for the whole push pull trap. It was challenging to keep it levelled, as I feel I tend to get sucked into the push side of the 3D until you worded it the way you do in your videos, now am very convinced about how this thing goes ❤
THIS video resonates extremely well. Now I feel I am ready for a plan to manifest. I had my initial phone call, got some material to get started on. I feel so much more empowered. Just today I was in tears because of the fear based crap, but tonight I can DO IT! What an amazing idea this is, and so thank you for helping me. I cannot thank you enough.
This is almost the hardest part...would love more videos on how to handle this stage of the journey...feel like I'm going backwards which is not what I want! I know you say you can't go back on this journey...so maybe I'm ok! but would love to learn more about how to handle this...
You can NOT go backwards. Don’t worry about that. Elle explains in one of her videos how the path along the journey is like a spiral. This is, by far, the most challenging part of the entire journey. That is why we added an additional 6 months of coaching onto our Magnetize Your Twin Flame Coaching Program. As soon as the twin flame is magnetized in, everything changes and it becomes increasingly more challenging. How it is presented and what needs to be identified is unique and individual for everyone. This is why personal coaching is so important on this journey and no video could help with this topic. This channel is for people who are not our students and, therefore, have not learned our process of navigating this journey and magnetizing their twin flame back within the ideal energetic space necessary to move on to the more advanced parts of the journey. As such, we do not do videos about the advanced aspects of the process and journey on this channel. If you would like to learn more, we suggest scheduling a coaching session with one of our coaches. They will be able to provide clarity to you regarding your personal journey and what your next steps need to be to help you stop feeling like you are going backwards. The link is in the description. 💜
Mines is keep messaging me for sex I told him that won’t solve his problem he said yes it will. I honestly believe he’s unaware of what twin flames actually is he know something is happening between us we’ve known each other since childhood this connection has always been there. I figured what we were a few weeks ago. He keeps messaging me for sex and dirty pictures and he thinks this is something that will solve his stressful issues. Little does he know his soul is crying out to be merged as one with me. I’m going to enjoy this journey. I just wish I wasn’t the twin flame that was picked to do the hard parts.😒
Thx a great lesson again lol he did ghosted me again But yes i had this feeling to react but did not as if he like to come back it needs to be for both on our terms and yes thats a thing with him fear x love ya i am so calm with myself since long time Thank you so much
Hi there, thank you for all of your video posts. I have a question. You say doubt is a huge part of this journey. And you've also said you know it's real by what's going on with you and how painful it is after they leave (if they leave) my question is, can the pain start before an actual seperation happens? Specifically if there are things keeping you apart at the time? For me personally, I had doubt this person had any feelings at all, before I'd discovered what twin flames were. Despite them saying they did. It just seemed too good to be true, lol. Though the pain began so early, and the following months, I was in near almost constant pain, only subdued by being with them or talking to them. Which took a lot of work to try balance, its still not there. But now I'm wondering, now that an actual seperation has started, does the less intense pain indicate this person is just another person? I guess that was two questions, sorry 😂
My twin flame ghosted me and went cold turkey for awhile from the addiction that we had for one another and then it was Birthday the other day and text him ....Happy Birthday and he responded and let him text me back last and I didn't get excited about his reply!
I feel since I'm middle aged that ghosting or ignoring is childish. He and I have had that conversation. If he sends a good morning text, I'll acknowledge his existence and show I'm still alive with a simple "No." That tells him I'm over the games he's played.
It's not so much about whether you respond or not, or even what you say if you do...it's about the energy behind it and where the focus of that energy is. If you would like to gain more clarity about how the sneaky, fear-based push energy keeps you and your twin flame in a chaotic relating experience, we invite you to schedule a clarity consultation where you can speak with one of our clarity coaches to see all the ways we can help you stop the push-pull energy so you can have a peaceful, loving relating experience with your twin flame. You can schedule the consultation here: bewithyourtwinflame.com/clarity-consultation 💜
@Be With Your Twin Flame I hvnt seen him for 6 years but he didn't ghost me. We never even got the chance to pursue a relationship. As soon as we found each other we went into separation by "default". It wasn't by choice. We never exchanged numbers before either. So if he hppnd to find me on Facebook (he doesn't live in the same town anymore) and msgd me does it really count in this case? Should I still not respond even if we didn't lose contact on bad terms? I always remember every TF journey/relationship is different. I respect your advice but I question if it's relevant to ALL TFs situations. If so, I know to be more careful when the time comes. Thx😊
Mine looked for me three times in a row and I ignored him and then I bumped into him and had to talk to him. Then he disappeared again. Sometimes it sort of just happens to you it seems. lol! It set me back.
What do you do if they ask to see you?Can you respond to them at that time? I don't want to be rude or miss a chance if he should contact me and want to see me
Thank you for this. I have had the worries you mention. When he first came back after 7 months, part of me was like, "oh, no, I am in a good place here, I don't really know if I want to speak to you". Of course I did. He is in and out and to be honest, don't want to speak to him right now. However, I was worried it might hurt him, but, duh! As you say, he didn't care about hurting me when he ran off into the sunset. I now know that when he comes back around, it is okay to ignore him until I feel ready.
I have a question: after years of being in this situation, I started balancing my energy and I did see my TwinFlame but after not seeing him I DID NOT FEEL GHOSTED. Is that Natural after you understand how energy works?
So how do you know when you’re ready to respond to one of their attempts to contact? How do you know you’ll be able to respond and not be in a tiny bit of push energy still?
Thank you.getting some understanding.just want to be myself.without twin being there in my meditation.and getting rid of this addiction .but not sure if this persone was my twin or just a narcisist.first there was this energy connection.maybe that was the honeymoon phase.then all the crap start happening.just left in limbo all the time
Mines is keep messaging me for sex I told him that won’t solve his problem he said yes it will. I honestly believe he’s unaware of what twin flames actually is he know something is happening between us we’ve known each other since childhood this connection has always been there. I figured what we were a few weeks ago. He keeps messaging me for sex and dirty pictures and he thinks this is something that will solve his stressful issues. Little does he know his soul is crying out to be merged as one with me. I’m going to enjoy this journey. I just wish I wasn’t the twin flame that was picked to do the hard parts.😒
So how do you know when you’re ready to respond to one of their attempts to contact? How do you know you’ll be able to respond and not be in a tiny bit of push energy still?
you know whats crazy. its soo true not to reach out in fear. I always message my twin and keep getting blocked. I actually felt into this energy to see where its coming from and really its because I fear my twin speaking to me and replying back to my messages and moving a step closer that actually creeps me out, i cleared the fear and did the exact same thing with my comment and didnt get blocked! the energy and the way i feel like the fear has also gone so theres no more trigger...
this actually works, when you clear the fear. because theyre reacting to your fear which they feel lol when theres no fear theres nothing to react to. its crazy
You’ll love them whether they are there or absent, whether you have a shot at a 3D relationship or not. The made up 3D cultural relationships are an invented fiction as opposed to the eternal love that exists in your heart.
Hey Elle, My flame hasn't contacted me in over two years. I'll be darn if I respond to his call when he does decide to contact me. Yes, I want to be with my twin one day but I know what type of twin I'm dealing with. If I respond the first time he contacts me after this long, he's going to swear he has the upper hand and has control over when we speak like he did before when I was his codependent junkie. So, I'll be darn if I let him have control over when we speak; never again, not after all this work I've done on myself trying to balance my energies. I've already made up my mind I'm not going to answer his call when he calls, at least not the first time. It's gonna be months or a year or so before I respond to his his call. He will never again have the upper hand over me because it doesn't feel good to be at someone's beck and call. That's a horrible feeling!! YUCK!!!!
Last Thursday my twin flame texted me randomly in the middle of the night that he hoped I had a good day, well, I rolled over and tried to go back to sleep, but he double texted me that he missed me and my kisses and “everything”, so I felt like he needed me to validate him by texting him back and telling him that I missed him too, well, he ghosted me all Halloween weekend and just today texted me that I didn’t send him a picture of my costume. This video was my sign to let this fine gentlemen wait it out for my response. Thank you!!
This was SO helpful. After 5 years mine finally sent me a message last week. I didn't reply just gave it it a "heart" and let it be. It's just what felt right to do, and so glad I did now. Thank you for this. The not obsessing is the hard part because it's an evil habit that is hard to kick. Plus I'm a Cancer so obsessing is kind of my thing lol I know this is a test to keep me in that calm, inviting self-loving zone I finally have been able to get into. He felt that and I did too, so the work must be done to stay there and that means focusing on myself yet again.
Whoa. Hmm. This just happened last week. I was feeling very in tune, just going with flow, joyful. And then I heard from her. And yes! I got really excited and had to do grounding, but I responded for the very reasons that you said. Also because there is this push a lot for compassion and understanding. I like how you explain why not to respond. That made a lot of sense.
😳 before I even knew this I blocked my Twin the first time he tried coming back in because I felt my intuition telling me to block him. 5 months ago I wouldve never thought I'd be able to overcome the obsessive energy so quickly 🤭
(Oh and I didnt block him out of any type of spite or negative feelings, I've been at peace and felt nothing but love for him, I just had a weird feeling like he wasnt coming in with the best intentions so I decided to distance myself. If you wanna come back, come correct 😂)
really grateful for all your videos it’s definitely helping me so much along this journey!
I " saw" me learning and applying all this when i first looked at my twin 8 years ago- with my internal vision! Like how to apply exactly these teachings playes out right before my eyes- ive lives to see so much from those visions come true!
4:47-5:14 summarizes everything and I kind of inferred it before learning about your videos and the whole twin flame thing but never put it in words! there is this person I now suspect to be twin flames with and been trying to keep communications neutral as an intuitive way of keeping what you refer to as fear-based energies leveled by pointing out at factual situations and universal concepts rather that emotions, as a means to foster communications without falling for the whole push pull trap. It was challenging to keep it levelled, as I feel I tend to get sucked into the push side of the 3D until you worded it the way you do in your videos, now am very convinced about how this thing goes ❤
That's awesome. So glad you are finding the content helpful. 💜
Thank you soo much 💗 I feel very blessed to finally find a great teacher like you❤️❤️ur videos helps me a lot ❤
So true and thank you❤️.. So on point so I dont have any questions, make so much sence
Stunning energy here. So i know this is right 👍🏽♥️🌹🌹🌹
you are really making me feel better and your videos are the perfect guide to this journey
THIS video resonates extremely well. Now I feel I am ready for a plan to manifest. I had my initial phone call, got some material to get started on. I feel so much more empowered. Just today I was in tears because of the fear based crap, but tonight I can DO IT! What an amazing idea this is, and so thank you for helping me. I cannot thank you enough.
I learned so much from your channel, thank you so much
Interesting. I wished I had known this, each time he returned.
This makes soooo much sense!! Thank you!🙏🏼❤️
This is almost the hardest part...would love more videos on how to handle this stage of the journey...feel like I'm going backwards which is not what I want! I know you say you can't go back on this journey...so maybe I'm ok! but would love to learn more about how to handle this...
You can NOT go backwards. Don’t worry about that. Elle explains in one of her videos how the path along the journey is like a spiral. This is, by far, the most challenging part of the entire journey. That is why we added an additional 6 months of coaching onto our Magnetize Your Twin Flame Coaching Program. As soon as the twin flame is magnetized in, everything changes and it becomes increasingly more challenging. How it is presented and what needs to be identified is unique and individual for everyone. This is why personal coaching is so important on this journey and no video could help with this topic. This channel is for people who are not our students and, therefore, have not learned our process of navigating this journey and magnetizing their twin flame back within the ideal energetic space necessary to move on to the more advanced parts of the journey. As such, we do not do videos about the advanced aspects of the process and journey on this channel. If you would like to learn more, we suggest scheduling a coaching session with one of our coaches. They will be able to provide clarity to you regarding your personal journey and what your next steps need to be to help you stop feeling like you are going backwards. The link is in the description. 💜
Mines is keep messaging me for sex I told him that won’t solve his problem he said yes it will. I honestly believe he’s unaware of what twin flames actually is he know something is happening between us we’ve known each other since childhood this connection has always been there. I figured what we were a few weeks ago. He keeps messaging me for sex and dirty pictures and he thinks this is something that will solve his stressful issues. Little does he know his soul is crying out to be merged as one with me. I’m going to enjoy this journey. I just wish I wasn’t the twin flame that was picked to do the hard parts.😒
thank you, my dm ghosted me for 5 years and now he is texting me. i say let him wait double the time .
Does my twin flame also feel core wound pain in separation ? Or it's only me? Thank you 😊
Thank you for your videos.They are very helpful to me.❤
So glad you are resonating! 💜
I can see thoughts like its my turn to ghost and the ego definitely wants them to hurt but that would be self harm
Thx a great lesson again lol he did ghosted me again But yes i had this feeling to react but did not as if he like to come back it needs to be for both on our terms and yes thats a thing with him fear x love ya i am so calm with myself since long time Thank you so much
Hi there, thank you for all of your video posts. I have a question. You say doubt is a huge part of this journey. And you've also said you know it's real by what's going on with you and how painful it is after they leave (if they leave) my question is, can the pain start before an actual seperation happens? Specifically if there are things keeping you apart at the time? For me personally, I had doubt this person had any feelings at all, before I'd discovered what twin flames were. Despite them saying they did. It just seemed too good to be true, lol. Though the pain began so early, and the following months, I was in near almost constant pain, only subdued by being with them or talking to them. Which took a lot of work to try balance, its still not there. But now I'm wondering, now that an actual seperation has started, does the less intense pain indicate this person is just another person? I guess that was two questions, sorry 😂
My twin flame ghosted me and went cold turkey for awhile from the addiction that we had for one another and then it was Birthday the other day and text him ....Happy Birthday and he responded and let him text me back last and I didn't get excited about his reply!
You are awesome 😍
Haaaahaaaa "cos it wants it now now now". The way you said it 😂
I feel since I'm middle aged that ghosting or ignoring is childish. He and I have had that conversation. If he sends a good morning text, I'll acknowledge his existence and show I'm still alive with a simple "No." That tells him I'm over the games he's played.
It's not so much about whether you respond or not, or even what you say if you do...it's about the energy behind it and where the focus of that energy is. If you would like to gain more clarity about how the sneaky, fear-based push energy keeps you and your twin flame in a chaotic relating experience, we invite you to schedule a clarity consultation where you can speak with one of our clarity coaches to see all the ways we can help you stop the push-pull energy so you can have a peaceful, loving relating experience with your twin flame. You can schedule the consultation here: bewithyourtwinflame.com/clarity-consultation 💜
amazing..I really love the way u explain things..
Ghost you or not ! It shouldn't matter,follow the heart not the head !
Iam a new subscriber ❤️Love and light to you
Thank you for this!*! I just became a subscriber!*!
Love it❤
So glad you are resonating! 💜
Thank you so much Elle! What do we have to do to get them to the "meh" state? Will it transfer to them energetically as we grow it in ourselves?
Hey Anita, we will forward your question to Elle. Here is a video Elle did on meh th-cam.com/video/UHVMaucFgCA/w-d-xo.html
@Be With Your Twin Flame I hvnt seen him for 6 years but he didn't ghost me. We never even got the chance to pursue a relationship. As soon as we found each other we went into separation by "default". It wasn't by choice. We never exchanged numbers before either. So if he hppnd to find me on Facebook (he doesn't live in the same town anymore) and msgd me does it really count in this case? Should I still not respond even if we didn't lose contact on bad terms? I always remember every TF journey/relationship is different. I respect your advice but I question if it's relevant to ALL TFs situations. If so, I know to be more careful when the time comes. Thx😊
Mine looked for me three times in a row and I ignored him and then I bumped into him and had to talk to him. Then he disappeared again. Sometimes it sort of just happens to you it seems. lol! It set me back.
Thanks a lot 💐💖
What is the easiest way to balance my energy?
What do you do if they ask to see you?Can you respond to them at that time? I don't want to be rude or miss a chance if he should contact me and want to see me
Thank you!!!
I am on my way thx to the books rest is secret as it should .
Thank you for this. I have had the worries you mention. When he first came back after 7 months, part of me was like, "oh, no, I am in a good place here, I don't really know if I want to speak to you". Of course I did. He is in and out and to be honest, don't want to speak to him right now. However, I was worried it might hurt him, but, duh! As you say, he didn't care about hurting me when he ran off into the sunset. I now know that when he comes back around, it is okay to ignore him until I feel ready.
Thank you Elle 💞
I have a question: after years of being in this situation, I started balancing my energy and I did see my TwinFlame but after not seeing him I DID NOT FEEL GHOSTED. Is that Natural after you understand how energy works?
Its a slow slow process,be like the horse !
Good video 🙏🏼
So how do you know when you’re ready to respond to one of their attempts to contact?
How do you know you’ll be able to respond and not be in a tiny bit of push energy still?
Thank you.getting some understanding.just want to be myself.without twin being there in my meditation.and getting rid of this addiction .but not sure if this persone was my twin or just a narcisist.first there was this energy connection.maybe that was the honeymoon phase.then all the crap start happening.just left in limbo all the time
Mines is keep messaging me for sex I told him that won’t solve his problem he said yes it will. I honestly believe he’s unaware of what twin flames actually is he know something is happening between us we’ve known each other since childhood this connection has always been there. I figured what we were a few weeks ago. He keeps messaging me for sex and dirty pictures and he thinks this is something that will solve his stressful issues. Little does he know his soul is crying out to be merged as one with me. I’m going to enjoy this journey. I just wish I wasn’t the twin flame that was picked to do the hard parts.😒
I watched this video way too late,and got ghosted by my twin flame yet again
Hehh im gonna leave them on read *flips hair*
So when to response?
And what if it's not the first time he comes back?
That is push-pull energy 💜
I don’t understand. I’m not supposed to be addicted to them. I’m lost on how I show them that i care
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So how do you know when you’re ready to respond to one of their attempts to contact?
How do you know you’ll be able to respond and not be in a tiny bit of push energy still?