Sometimes I doubt whether I've typed myself correctly because I feel like as an ISTP I don't use that much Se because I think I have a tendency to loop, but then I was talking to my INFJ friend about introversion and extroversion and she was like "Oh, you're way more outgoing than I am." I was so confused because I don't really like talking to people, but she is great at it and is a lot more social than I am. So I asked what she meant by that and she said that I am more willing to do things in a social setting than she is, like dance at a concert or join a game of volleyball. That was when I realized that I prefer active social settings over ones that are more conversation heavy. It kind of validated my Se for me. So, technically I think she's actually more outgoing, but I'm more adventurous.
I found as E/INTJ that it's usually the Te that comes out when I really extraverted. I am a reluctant leader but it comes out when I feel it's necessary. I have a tendency when I approach a boss at work with a problem to already suggest a solution. Most bosses are appreciative of this, but I have had some bosses that have a hard time with it. Usually, the ones that feel they must always have the solution. If my Se goes crazy, it can often lead to emotional eating.
This is really helpful for the introverts. Personal experience: It's the most futile- and actually harmful- for an introvert to seek extraversion out of his secondary function. For example, an INTJ might really suffer if he seeks being more of an "Fe" kind of person /or being a party animal , an "Se"one! The best would be to pivot on "Te". Thanks Alexis!
Thanks! I have found that maybe 5% utilization of Se is helpful and no more (as long is it's in alignment with what Ni already wants). (For example, my new microphone and writing on the screen has been Se helpful for my Ni-Te goal of youtube). Party animal-ing definitely isn't helpful, but a hint of Se provides a good advertisement that draws people in, and they stay for the Ni-Te. I agree that Fe-ing probably isn't helpful, although I've never tried it. Te works as a pretty good substitute imo for Fe.
Exactly, entp me goes out for people which is idea....we dont run around that much...but if we are experience so far travel mainly we were always getting ideas somehow....we have ne fe in our function stack not se❤
Is that fire burning there ? If that fire burns alot , wont that pen stand will be melted if that pen stand is plastic ? Or does that fire burner have some kind of coating ? Or is that some kind of artificial fire , if that is an artificial fire , how its formed ? On ur table ! , some doubts , Hope you will see this , If you didnt see , then my bad.
You are probably the best MBTI teacher on TH-cam, simple, clear, no attitude.
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Sometimes I doubt whether I've typed myself correctly because I feel like as an ISTP I don't use that much Se because I think I have a tendency to loop, but then I was talking to my INFJ friend about introversion and extroversion and she was like "Oh, you're way more outgoing than I am." I was so confused because I don't really like talking to people, but she is great at it and is a lot more social than I am. So I asked what she meant by that and she said that I am more willing to do things in a social setting than she is, like dance at a concert or join a game of volleyball. That was when I realized that I prefer active social settings over ones that are more conversation heavy. It kind of validated my Se for me. So, technically I think she's actually more outgoing, but I'm more adventurous.
I found as E/INTJ that it's usually the Te that comes out when I really extraverted. I am a reluctant leader but it comes out when I feel it's necessary. I have a tendency when I approach a boss at work with a problem to already suggest a solution. Most bosses are appreciative of this, but I have had some bosses that have a hard time with it. Usually, the ones that feel they must always have the solution. If my Se goes crazy, it can often lead to emotional eating.
Your content is so good, watched loads of your videos the past 24 hours. Super intelligent explanations!
This is really helpful for the introverts. Personal experience: It's the most futile- and actually harmful- for an introvert to seek extraversion out of his secondary function. For example, an INTJ might really suffer if he seeks being more of an "Fe" kind of person /or being a party animal , an "Se"one!
The best would be to pivot on "Te".
Thanks Alexis!
Thanks! I have found that maybe 5% utilization of Se is helpful and no more (as long is it's in alignment with what Ni already wants). (For example, my new microphone and writing on the screen has been Se helpful for my Ni-Te goal of youtube). Party animal-ing definitely isn't helpful, but a hint of Se provides a good advertisement that draws people in, and they stay for the Ni-Te. I agree that Fe-ing probably isn't helpful, although I've never tried it. Te works as a pretty good substitute imo for Fe.
awesome video. you have awesome content - thank you so very much
Thank you, Erica!!
Nice explanation
This was super helpful, thanks so much mate!
Exactly, entp me goes out for people which is idea....we dont run around that much...but if we are experience so far travel mainly we were always getting ideas somehow....we have ne fe in our function stack not se❤
My extroverted intuition kinda drives my girlfriend crazy 😂
More scenarios and examples on Ni and Ne please.. :)
I really appreciate when you said Ni is a hard function. Hearing it from you is a breather.
I am ambivert most def.
Is that fire burning there ? If that fire burns alot , wont that pen stand will be melted if that pen stand is plastic ? Or does that fire burner have some kind of coating ? Or is that some kind of artificial fire , if that is an artificial fire , how its formed ? On ur table ! , some doubts , Hope you will see this , If you didnt see , then my bad.
You know some of the things you describe to Fe either feelings type can share
WHAT type are you. Lol Im literally a ENFP and ENFJ mix.
INTJ mimicking Fe 👀
Ohhh so you misspelled extrovert on purpose, I see.
All ambiverts but different extroversion preferences
Collectivist ideal
Fe - Belonging
Ne - New projects