Nia Long Is Still Processing Her Fiancé's Affair | Cocktails with Queens

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  • The Queens are talking about Nia Long speaking out on her marriage scandal and how she is dealing with the news of her fiancé's affair.
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  • @salmaal-shaoily5809
    @salmaal-shaoily5809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +350

    Cheating on someone is a character issue, not indicative of flaws within the person being cheated on. That's is all.

    • @mantamocha5739
      @mantamocha5739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Facts! 💯

    • @i.p.freely5974
      @i.p.freely5974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You talking like they didn't have an understanding. Nia is the one that didn't want to be married.

    • @mantamocha5739
      @mantamocha5739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Even if she didn't want to be married, that doesn't give him the right to cheat because they're still in an exclusive relationship.

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@mantamocha5739 Exactly. 🤷

    • @shermurr9566
      @shermurr9566 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      If he didn’t like the terms of the relationship (not getting married) then leave! Don’t cheat!

  • @sharonjudd7786
    @sharonjudd7786 2 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Been thru this with a husband of 20 yrs who was almost 60 years yrs old. He fell for a married woman who dumped him ultimately. I dumped him too. I’m a strong believer in move on…….they never respect you again when you forgive them. Nia, you are gorgeous, and have so much going for you, move on. You deserve way more than this.

    • @lm8499
      @lm8499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Good for you.

    • @MontseNgomoM
      @MontseNgomoM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It has nothing to do with being gorgeous, every person need to be respected and valued. I'm not the most attractive lady, but I couldn't leave with my ex with the fear of being cheated again...

    • @WordWoman111
      @WordWoman111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      “They never respect you when you forgive them.” I had to learn that the hard way. Blessings to you.

    • @breshaylasmamaspeaking4283
      @breshaylasmamaspeaking4283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏🏿👏🏿 sorry for you but kudos to you for having that strength..you’re right no matter the age they will cheat

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You were smart to move on. For some reason I feel like Nia has been down this road before

  • @adriennelloyd1734
    @adriennelloyd1734 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I love the way the ladies are 10 toes down for Nia.

  • @cc5200
    @cc5200 2 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    People who down play cheating do not understand the emotional trauma someone can suffer from being humiliated and disrespected. I can only imagine what it feels like to go through this publicly. How stupid of him to defecate where he eats.

    • @lm8499
      @lm8499 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They do they just don’t care. More cheaters are self absorbed narcissists.

    • @bertaalvin9917
      @bertaalvin9917 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get rid of that pig 🐖

    • @LA-ux8iv
      @LA-ux8iv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At this point, there should be legal consequences of cheating or people will never chill on it. People cheat because they know nothing will happen even if they are caught, then when the hurt person reacts it's a problem, but that pain and emotional trauma hits hard.

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I think the embarrassment of everything being out in the public is worse part for Nia

    • @teeyateeyah233
      @teeyateeyah233 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LA-ux8iv what? That WAS a crime, back in the day.

  • @BajanKelly
    @BajanKelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    “Dude, you do not even have the same hairline to cheat. The audacity!” Lol. Claudia is rough.

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He deserves that comment

    • @jali276
      @jali276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      SAVAGE🤣

    • @Kevindeal1987
      @Kevindeal1987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The audacity of any chick on this panel talking about someone’s hair.

    • @GL_FAB
      @GL_FAB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You do not even have the same hairline to cheat? Lol

    • @priscillayoung2987
      @priscillayoung2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Kevindeal1987 Yeah! They should just focus on his complete and total failure and lack of self control and his self destruction.

  • @sylviarosario6503
    @sylviarosario6503 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Syleenas hair is EVERYTHING. Yyyeeesss, Girl. She looks AMAZING 🤗❤️❤️

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes The...MOP!!! IS GONE!!!🤗🤗🤗🙏🏿🤗

    • @firesign4297
      @firesign4297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤗👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿

    • @leeleemee
      @leeleemee 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is one beautiful woman!!

  • @arethawalker1724
    @arethawalker1724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Affairs never shock me! I agree with Sylenna. You're right, there's so many levels to this. Luv Sylenna's hair and makeup 💄😍

    • @mswille2576
      @mswille2576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Absolutely gorgeous 😍 the total look is very grown and sensual

    • @Jannbright24
      @Jannbright24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sylenna can rock any style.

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Jannbright24 Tea. I love her

  • @afrank1416
    @afrank1416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    The most hurtful part is how he had her to uproot their son and her life to move to Boston knowing a scandal was about to come out. That kind of betrayal is devastating. To have one of the persons he was messing with to make the travel plans and to have met her before is insulting.What a POS.

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Totally, Agree with all of it. WTF dude!!

    • @jasminemonroe5784
      @jasminemonroe5784 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly Ime knew tha💩was about 2 come and said Nothin to Nia hopefully she changed her mind in regards to moving completely to Boston. Ime doesn't Realize nor care about what Nia gave up to move to Boston!!!

    • @MontseNgomoM
      @MontseNgomoM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jasminemonroe5784 cheaters do not care about the emotional trauma someone can suffer fron being disrespect and humiliated in such way, they are narcissists and care only about themselves.

    • @sabrinar.purnell3869
      @sabrinar.purnell3869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dirty AF.

    • @BriteEyes1
      @BriteEyes1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Cheaters don’t care because all they are concerned about is themselves. They’ll bring ‘em to your house, screw them in the bed you both share, bring ‘em to your job, take ‘em to your favorite restaurant, your fav vacation spot. They are only thinking of their pleasure, what they want. They ain’t thinking about you or your feelings.

  • @milkhoney6419
    @milkhoney6419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Claudia: You don’t even have the hairline to cheat!😂

    • @GL_FAB
      @GL_FAB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don't even have the same hairline to cheat? Lol

    • @lovinglife419
      @lovinglife419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That made me chuckle 😂

    • @byst8729
      @byst8729 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or the waist line either!

    • @pamelaowens3826
      @pamelaowens3826 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dat Prt 💯 l lmaoooo

  • @arethawalker1724
    @arethawalker1724 2 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Nia is still scandal-free! Her partner on the other hand....after a certain age, it time to grow up!

    • @i.p.freely5974
      @i.p.freely5974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nia didn't want to get married!

    • @nappyblack8002
      @nappyblack8002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      FACTS

    • @priscillayoung2987
      @priscillayoung2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@i.p.freely5974 I can see why.

    • @i.p.freely5974
      @i.p.freely5974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@priscillayoung2987 can you see him?

    • @priscillayoung2987
      @priscillayoung2987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@i.p.freely5974 Ummm…. When I say I can see why, it’s simply my stating that after this complete and total humiliation by his lack of trustworthiness and self control, I can understand why she would be hesitant to marry him.

  • @paige4128
    @paige4128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I agree. Whether it's to be expected because he's a black ball player, coach, blah, blah, or not, it's still painful because whether we know Nia in real life or have followed her career since the 90s and feel as if we do know her and/or have love for our fellow sistuh, it's hard to hear about this happening to her. Think if it was our sister, mother, aunt, best friend, and imagine the pain it would cause us? I feel sorry for her. I pray she gets through this and I pray she handles this on HER terms and not worry about what the peanut gallery in the world of social media says she SHOULD do. Only she knows what's best for her and her family. Be blessed, Nia.

  • @spagirl1
    @spagirl1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I agree 💯 % with LisaRaye. It's so disappointing and REDICULOUS that men in there 40's, 50's and 60's are STILL cheating thinking they wont get caught. It ALWAYS comes out eventually, especially if you're in the public eye. And for her to be blindsided by this, was disrespectful. II'm sure she's strong and God will get her through this difficult season. 🙏🏽

  • @mokahgirl5165
    @mokahgirl5165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Claudia!! "You don't even have the same hair line TO cheat on me with!!"😬🤭😫🤣 classic

  • @sheilaprice6192
    @sheilaprice6192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I truly believe he been doing this for years.

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He has

  • @pebbles70forsure98
    @pebbles70forsure98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Our black men ain't gon learn. That's the disappointing part of all this. Until a real man learn to RESPECT HIMSELF it will continue

    • @cbusjones2657
      @cbusjones2657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How does he represent all black men? There's plenty of BM who are completely loyal to their spouse.

    • @diannejowers7857
      @diannejowers7857 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Listen he validate the one code took a bite from the forbidden fruit bad mistake.

  • @levellamontgomery2234
    @levellamontgomery2234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hello thank you ladies for keeping it 💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @jamaldee2355
    @jamaldee2355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Definitely feel bad for her I hope she’s doing alright

  • @Reevay762
    @Reevay762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ooooo that's right, Karma is gonna get you! It's so true. Any man who puts his family and career /job under threat because he doesn't have self control is not worth it. What example is he setting for his children as well? 😲 Wow

  • @doreenisblessed1234
    @doreenisblessed1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    👏🏾👍🏾 Some men cheat, some get caught & others don't. Sisterhood activate in whatever Nia chooses to do. Great commentary ladies👍🏾

    • @patriciajones4918
      @patriciajones4918 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am very sorry this happened to Nia but I my self would go the legal route of marriage so when something like this happen (ultimate betrayal) I have the option to get satisfaction through the courts. Nia seem to be a strong woman she will get through this with much prayer 🙏 his actions have destroyed the trust in their relationship and she also have to get over the hurt 😔 destroying your family is not worth it.. no affair is worth it!!

    • @doreenisblessed1234
      @doreenisblessed1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@patriciajones4918 Amen. I'm married so I get it. Courts will make you somewhat whole. Can't say the hurt goes away. Continued prayers for their family.🙏🏽👍🏽

  • @mrttamara
    @mrttamara 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Great point Syleena! Makes a lot of sense.

  • @sunnydaysatl
    @sunnydaysatl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mrs Johnson is looking amazing

  • @seattlestunna
    @seattlestunna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Not that he doesn't even have the same hairline 🤣🤣 C-Mudaaaa

    • @VocallyYours3
      @VocallyYours3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL I AM DONE WITH YOU AFTER THIS MESSAGE!!☝🏽😂

    • @seattlestunna
      @seattlestunna 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VocallyYours3 lmoo

  • @chanel-5397
    @chanel-5397 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Damn,I am so sorry this happened to Nia Long or ANY man or woman,being cheated on is TERRIBLE and embarrassing, hopefully she'll move on,take her time to heal and find the RIGHT man for her, that's my wish,plea and hope to all the honest & GOOD men & women looking for love,may the Lord send you your king/queen,be safe and blessed my sisters and TRUE brothers🙏

  • @janwoburn447
    @janwoburn447 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I do not know specifics of her circumstance but as a female/human being I can sympathize and by no means wish her nor anyone else to have to go through what's suppose to be a private matter between her and husband. The fact the she is in the public eye and have stories everyday told about her does not mean her life should be open for discussion. What price does a person have to pay for their dignity and privacy!?

  • @thelightofthebodyispineal7137
    @thelightofthebodyispineal7137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The Engagement…for that long, means he doesn’t want to be legally married because he’s having relationships under the auspices of “I’m not married”. Therefore, this should not be a surprise to anyone. The problem is that it involves a married staffer.

  • @kimberlyjordan2845
    @kimberlyjordan2845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Syleena’s hair & makeup is everything 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You like it because it looks just like yours. Like attracts like.

  • @bakeembakeem
    @bakeembakeem 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Syleena, pure beauty

  • @latashajones8933
    @latashajones8933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Love Syleena hair and makeup 💄 ❤️👑

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tasha, i'll get you dame do , don't u worry mama. You finna look boooooomb !

  • @Racism-n3j
    @Racism-n3j 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What I noticed is Nia name and photo being all in the media but the other woman is absent.

    • @wally6914
      @wally6914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because Nia is the most well-known person

    • @mrsx7944
      @mrsx7944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because Nia is famous. Duh

  • @paige4128
    @paige4128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The sad part is regardless if a man is 20 or 90, they will forever let that third leg mess them up EVERY TIME!!! Big dummies!!!!

  • @deborahbrown1753
    @deborahbrown1753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    It's so many layers to this story, no need to point the finger he did wrong and his punishment is a result of his actions, regardless of his age the real one he cheated on was his self respect

    • @henrywilson1879
      @henrywilson1879 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That "self respect" comment was spot on.

  • @erickab6471
    @erickab6471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    No cheating is a surprise anymore.

    • @cat56789
      @cat56789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Which is sad, cheating has become the norm

    • @erickab6471
      @erickab6471 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cat56789 the worse part about it is all the feelings that carry afterward but not by the cheater

  • @Lashika100
    @Lashika100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You ladies made some vital points. Marriage should be sacred and not so dismissive because of our choices. 🙏🏾 When it’s over please decide to walk way before things get difficult. Quote “ A woman can do good or bad all by herself, no need for the extra drama & cheating”.
    “I been betrayed by a black man before too and I wish this on no one.”

  • @quinnelmonte9435
    @quinnelmonte9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love your hair cut @ Syleena 😍

  • @1Sakks0
    @1Sakks0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Nia is going to handle this graciously in public BUT trust me he is getting the business at home.

  • @gerrifortecaster7007
    @gerrifortecaster7007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    SYLEENA YOU HAVE NEVER LOOKED MORE BEAUTIFUL…YOUR HAIR IS FIRE…YOUR FACIAL PRESENTATION SPEAKS VOLUMES AS A BLACK WOMAN TRYING THEIR DAMNESS TO LOOK LIKE REPUNZEL, SNOW WHITE, A WOMAN OF INDIAN HERITAGE OR ANYTHING OTHER THAN LOOKING AUTHENTIC

  • @brownsugako7772
    @brownsugako7772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Syleena was on point, that was karma at it's finest!

    • @wally6914
      @wally6914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hers or His karma?

    • @brownsugako7772
      @brownsugako7772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wally6914 Nia didn’t loose a job or money, so who’s “she”?

    • @wally6914
      @wally6914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brownsugako7772 Do you know Nia personally?. Have she told you all of her wrongs and rights?....Maybe it's her karma..who knows and I don't care. Let them 2 grown people figure their own lives out, and you do you...and I'll do me. ✌️

    • @omphilemoerane2569
      @omphilemoerane2569 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Big karma. If the team loses he's going to feel like sh!t. If they win he's going to feel like sh!t. I love it😁

  • @terrisl.edwards2743
    @terrisl.edwards2743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Well said Syleena! Prayers for Nia Long and her sons! Ime Udoka shameless!!! There is more to this terrible story!!!

    • @i.p.freely5974
      @i.p.freely5974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What kind of understanding did they have in the relationship. Nia is the one that didn't want to get married.

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@i.p.freely5974 don't mean he can string her along bozo

    • @i.p.freely5974
      @i.p.freely5974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@weaveandwelfaretookblackme string who along bozo

    • @vernellguillory2959
      @vernellguillory2959 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@i.p.freely5974 wow He could have been man enough to just walk away and I use the term (man) loosely

    • @i.p.freely5974
      @i.p.freely5974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vernellguillory2959 why are there rumors that they have had an open relationship for years? We don't know the TRUE nature of their relationship. You can't judge other people's relationships based on yours and vice-versa. Let's think like a adults.

  • @jeremiahtaylor5979
    @jeremiahtaylor5979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I tell all my friends when your 5,000 miles apart from your significant other it never works because your not seeing each other. FaceTime only goes so far.....this isn't a surprise!!!!!!!

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don't believe in long distance relationships..You barely know, what they're doing when you're in the same city and state..What the heck you think they're going to do when you're not..WTF! 🤔

    • @toddwhite3463
      @toddwhite3463 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So, true. Know that from personal experience. The distance equates to " Out of sight, out of mind."

    • @wintersantiago2274
      @wintersantiago2274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      They struggle to be faithful when you’re in the same house so you know damn well they’re fkin up when you’re on the other side of the country.

  • @kamax4700
    @kamax4700 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The full story has not been released. The suspension and possible loss of job..

    • @1991Meka
      @1991Meka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Possible? He will be fired the day after the year is up. TRUST

    • @lovinglife419
      @lovinglife419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I believe there was sexual harassment, which led to the investigation. And that’s fair. There’s a reason why companies have policies against bosses dating employees. And of course, you can’t go around soliciting people and expect not to lose your job.

    • @applepie1923
      @applepie1923 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No disrespect but like what Kobe did. He didn’t get fired or suspended. He was married too. Tiger Wood was married too but those two would never have been fired or suspended. Not the sport’s Cash Cows!!!

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@applepie1923 yeah they the players not the manager Hun manager, coaches are held to a way different standards because all of what he did can post lead to a lawsuit. He knew what he signed. Shit even Applebee's and waffle house have those policy's upper management doesn't fraternize with lower level employees 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @splendid_is_she1614
      @splendid_is_she1614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@applepie1923 Kobe, nor Tiger Woods had an affair on their jobs, with a staffer, for the company they work, for. Wellll, Tiger's was with their Nanny at his home! Lol! But not on the company which goes against the company policy on many jobs, most within the same department. Yet, two can have relationships in other departments on many jobs, but not within the Department.

  • @barbaraharley3149
    @barbaraharley3149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is not our business, people get cheated on all the time. We are not shocked. Nia is strong woman just take care of you and and your children.God Bless you and your children. We love u Nia you are an Amazing person.

  • @rochelleharden50
    @rochelleharden50 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why are we shocked? This happens to women everywhere regardless of what you look like or your status. However, Nia has to process this disrespect in the public eye. The emotional and mental trauma is difficult to get offer. Like Vivica said, his Karma and being exposed is a gift🎁.

  • @sabrinaclark4196
    @sabrinaclark4196 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love Selena's hair! She looks beautiful with her natural hair.

  • @TomikaKelly
    @TomikaKelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Vivica is a class act!

  • @cassandracole7498
    @cassandracole7498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Syleena you broke it down…..it’s straight Karma…he got the job and got the big heads …when Will our leaders realize that we can’t play their game cause the odds tipped i their favor…be strong Miss Nia yo man messed up his bank…who gives a damn if he screwing someone …his money got messed up

  • @hisfavvv
    @hisfavvv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    What he did was despicable! This was his first season on the team and he went right into it breaking their rules!!! He deserves all the bad karma. Kept Nia in the dark, had her uproot her young child to move from sunny LA to cold ass Boston. Nia's name is on EVERY SINGLE headline and they're keeping the adulterous woman's identity hidden. This is a whole mess!!! I truly hate this for Nia. Ime should have been fired. I hope the Celtics win it all this year without him.

  • @lifeisgreat4220
    @lifeisgreat4220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Come through Sylenna with the hair🔥🔥🔥 this is theeee look for you 🙌🏾

  • @phyllisjohnson8456
    @phyllisjohnson8456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Men cheating never shocks me. A faithful NBA player would shock me. Ime just f’ed up his relationship up with Nia though.

  • @km7943
    @km7943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love this show!!!!!

  • @lindadavis6567
    @lindadavis6567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ladies I love your conversations. The Nia Long, situation is not new most of us women have had a cheater and a liar at one time or another. When our Black men get high positions they have to realize they are not exempt to the judgement of the other race no matter what your status is or how much money you have made for the outsiders of the team. One day our men in general will get this. The choices will be personal however life along with experiences teach women to love themselves more than anyone else. Therefore, no matter what comes or goes you will be okay because all of the expectations for your life is not in the hands of another person.

  • @theresavinson6466
    @theresavinson6466 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nia is STILL scandal free; this is his scandal-not hers🙄

  • @blazebrown9102
    @blazebrown9102 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    In my opinion, unfortunately one's has nothing to do with the person who is the cheater... it's about their character, etc.! 🙄🤨🧐🤔

  • @kimson305
    @kimson305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Selena normally be on point but no excuses. Just because he in the NBA doesn't make it acceptable. If they want to sleep around don't get married or be in a committed relationship.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly all the other rhetoric is not needed cheating is wrong point blank period!!!

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She wasn't making excuses..Syleena was just saying it's not shocking or surprising that he cheated.

    • @wintersantiago2274
      @wintersantiago2274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t think she was trying to say it was ok. I think she was saying that it wasn’t surprising.

  • @michelerobinson8954
    @michelerobinson8954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No one is exempt from being cheated on! It doesn’t make it right!! But a sad situation ! I don’t wish infidelity on anyone..God bless Nia ❤

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart goes out to Nia and her sons🌺 Praying for God’s blessings upon them at this difficult time !
    I absootooly LOVE these ladies
    Ms. Jordan🌺, Ms. Fox🌺, Ms Raye-McCoy🌺 & Ms. Johnson🌺 you ladies are your SISTERS KEEPER 💕, much love to you all❤️

  • @according2cathy309
    @according2cathy309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kudos to all of you QUEENS for being so supportive and honest about this situation. Y'all kept it classy and that's why I love this ensemble. Unfortunately, I am no longer surprised when an NBA person is caught cheating. Claudia did you have to mention his hairline or lack thereof! LOL!

  • @preciouswilliams22
    @preciouswilliams22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wholeheartedly agree with Syleena about karma, & it's catching up to Ime Udoka! You betrayed Nia Long, your kids, & compromised your job FOR AN AFFAIR!! Bruh, that's IGNORANT AF, & you compromised something sacred for something temporary... Unbelievable!

  • @annettescott9623
    @annettescott9623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    @The Queens, hold on to your stockings Ladies!😳 Im a Bostonian. There's a whole LOT more to this story that has yet to come out!🤯 I'll check in to see what your responses are next week. 🤦‍♀️ 👀

    • @MJ-xj2tz
      @MJ-xj2tz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👶🏼👶🏽

  • @agedriven4093
    @agedriven4093 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Claudia, the hairline comment was on point!

    • @ichellexcel
      @ichellexcel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂yes!

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ime is a gorgeous man. What does his hairline have to do with anything... Women who wear other women hair, cakedup makeup, fake body parts, plastic surgery, injections, and etc. SHOULD NEVER speak on anyone's physicality.

  • @Mack462
    @Mack462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sylenna hair looks great!

  • @rgreallife
    @rgreallife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Let them people resolve their issues in private 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He's not a private figure, by choice. This isn't Mr. & Mrs. John Doe from Anytown, USA.

    • @rgreallife
      @rgreallife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TomikaKelly imo it doesn't matter..between man, woman and GOD

    • @mel...s
      @mel...s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rgreallife but u here... In their business 🤦 and what does God have to do with 2 unmarried ppl shacking up?🤦

    • @MontseNgomoM
      @MontseNgomoM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They are two public figures and unfortunately this is what goes with fame.... "No privacy included"

    • @Multifacted_Brotha
      @Multifacted_Brotha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They're public figures so nothing they ever do will be private for them unfortunately.. That's what they signed up for going into the business

  • @Ms.Frazier
    @Ms.Frazier 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why did ViacomCBS block yall premiere video😒 ? What did yall say or show?

  • @donlamont2909
    @donlamont2909 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nia did break up with him in the early 2000s.... She never publicly went on a smear campaign once the break up happened.... They got back together and was in a good place..... I really hope Arnelle Simpson reach out to Nia.... That was her best friend for years.... She has a lot of homegirls that keep a very low profile........ She use to have a whole crew with her back in the day, when stuffed popped off in the 90s...... I agree with Lisa Raye completely.... I believe he didn't care about getting caught with another woman...... I think he was being extremely carefree once everything started getting out of control...... Nia is just really focused on protecting her youngest son from any pain...... Her oldest son is staying out the way but supporting his mother.....

  • @Gods1andonly
    @Gods1andonly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is not the first time Nia has been in this situation with her Fiance'. Theory people who are shocked is us ad it really isn't our business to comment. Prayers 🙏 for all involved. Nia is the one who has to say, "enough is enough" and focus on moving forward with her children. (or not)

  • @imonlineshopper
    @imonlineshopper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I always love these ladies’ take but Syleena is a very perceptive woman. A spiritual reckoning is no joke, karma does not play. Self sabotage IS a thing. I also hope the woman gets exposed.

    • @brittney5563
      @brittney5563 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. She does not deserve to be protected. Her reputation needs to be destroyed too. Period.

    • @domesticviolencemastery3609
      @domesticviolencemastery3609 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Online Shopper, the woman's name is Kathleen Nimmo-Lynch!

  • @rosemarywatson1231
    @rosemarywatson1231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Men very rarely stop cheating, age is not a factor. If it works, it will be used. The biggest question for me is, why didn't he think about the consequences of getting caught? Nothing is that good that you would want to take the chance of losing all you've worked for. Or was it?

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Obviously it was worth it to him. 🤷

    • @rosemarywatson1231
      @rosemarywatson1231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@marciawade9101 You think!

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rosemarywatson1231 Typical shit, just a new face. 🤷

    • @rosemarywatson1231
      @rosemarywatson1231 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Balie Yads thank you for the prayer, although I don’t understand why you sent it.

  • @cassandralewis6982
    @cassandralewis6982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadly, it won't be the last we hear of situations like this.

  • @krazykingyahschannel
    @krazykingyahschannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Does anyone know why the re-run hasn't aired yet? I missed last night😔

  • @LucaB0830
    @LucaB0830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shocked???? Who? Trust and believe NOBODY was shocked🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @redafro321
    @redafro321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    @SYLEENA JOHNSON I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR HAIRSTYLES! PERIODT‼️

  • @robinwhite2471
    @robinwhite2471 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Claudia Jordan, dude you don't even have the same head-line to cheap! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Now that's funny!♥️✌🏿💪🏿🌹

  • @pharvey2473
    @pharvey2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love all of you ladies perspectives concerning this matter, I am team Nia, this will let her know if she will continue with this man and do some reflections , it's so much deception, rumors and secrets will be revealed, selah

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't be quick to be team Nia. she probably had her own side piece. They oughta have had agreement but the side piece ( like nearly all of them do ) got in her feelings and tried to be first lady in the room. when you are a side piece know your place. I was a side piece for 7 years and i never tried to be main guy.

  • @larondakelley41
    @larondakelley41 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    From what I hear her husband is either VP basketball operations but he’s also the one that blew them out of the water and exposed the affair

    • @Aquariangirl126
      @Aquariangirl126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He’s done in Boston, mark my words.

  • @malcolmxpanther
    @malcolmxpanther 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Has anybody thought that Nia Long is in a open relationship. Who else you know has been engaged for 10 years lol

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe someone who wants to protect her assets . Look at the countless women that had to take care of there broke men after leaving

  • @marshawilliams4454
    @marshawilliams4454 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love Nia. She's beautiful. His cheating have nothing to do with her. He made a bad choice. Hopefully they can get through this

    • @deeperbeauty4147
      @deeperbeauty4147 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think, Nia was aware of his cheating. Perhaps, not this latest mess..but I'm sure this is not the 1st time he cheated. I think, they will be fine. Nia, not leaving. I will be surprised if she does..

  • @deniseclarkbar3804
    @deniseclarkbar3804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He Is A Fool, He Thinking With His Little Head Done Cost Him 3 Million Dollar Salary. Ms Nia Hold Your Head Up, Stay Blessed My Beautiful Sister. 😘💪🏾✌🏾🙏🏾

  • @Riogi
    @Riogi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am sorry this happened to beautiful Nia. I pray she will heal from the betrayal and remain strong as she heals.

  • @michellemason8498
    @michellemason8498 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am not shocked, I agree with Selena.

  • @AJ-qn5hk
    @AJ-qn5hk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From the sound of things as new info continues to emerge ain’t no working it out or fixing it. One women can be considered a lapse in judgment & possibly the moment. More than one & possible pregnancies requiring & necessitating a female check up is a wrap. Ain’t nothing to work on just something to work toward now. I love you Nia wishing you & your boys peace & blessings

  • @angeliquemcfarland171
    @angeliquemcfarland171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Casey Jones - black NBA head coach of Boston during the Larry Bird (Celtics) vs. Magic Johnson (Lakers) era.

  • @firesign4297
    @firesign4297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    They saying he had the lady help.nia move😳😳😳

    • @Creyole
      @Creyole 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep, one of the women who Ime allegedly cheated with was the team’s travel agent. So she booked him into hotels every away game and she had access to all Nia’s personal information as well, unless her accommodations were paid for by him. Either way I would feel like they were laughing behind my back and thinking they got away with something.

  • @kida758
    @kida758 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Claudia is Hilarious!

  • @1991Meka
    @1991Meka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He cheated with multiple women. The team found out, told him to stop, and HE DIDN'T!!!

    • @torriebrown9607
      @torriebrown9607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yessssss and someone got one the ladies on video. Question why the women are NOT being outed?

    • @carymyers5616
      @carymyers5616 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sounds like this dude has an addiction that requires pro help.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly! He kept pursing her. At a certain point, this wasn't a mistake it was a choice.

    • @tyjohnson1550
      @tyjohnson1550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WOW! Really! Dude is Gone! One was the VP of operations wife!(white) Fat, balding but still thinking he the man! Career and Black representation for us Gone!

  • @lifeisgreat4220
    @lifeisgreat4220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He had a great career, fire woman, a kid then lit 🔥 a match and blew it all up….why🤔 a therapist would say self sabotage coz he didn’t think he was worthy of it all OR narcissism 🤷‍♀️

  • @georgiaturner7829
    @georgiaturner7829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ime is beyond having good character traits.
    Herky -Jerky 😎

  • @toriwalker1118
    @toriwalker1118 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok Ms. Syleena, you spoke. fresh word today on the coach situation!!!

  • @dorothylogan4575
    @dorothylogan4575 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nia Long is a beautiful wonderful actress she a star and I don't know her personally but she a black woman God got her and she going to be strong again God Bless You Nia my sister❤

  • @k.simmons862
    @k.simmons862 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s definitely a character flaw if he just cheated to cheat. I’d understand better, if he had the conversations with his spouse about what he needed to be fulfilled in his relationship and the spouse ignored the requests, but that’s not what it sounds like, especially when the spouse is moving towards you.
    Also, I have to agree with these ladies. If you are going to do your dirt, be smart about it. Don’t do it where you lay your head or where you make your money. That’s an immediate set up.

  • @charce3
    @charce3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where’s the full episode?

  • @Tia-to2qc
    @Tia-to2qc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ime didn't invent cheating. Shaq had a sidepiece in every city across the country in his heyday. Infidelity happens every hour of every day. We all love Nia but all this feigned outraged is overkill.

  • @Coolmike19
    @Coolmike19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok I feel sorry for Nia, she been trying to get this to work for a long time. She been drama free from day one it's just sad 😥 Now for Ime he blew up so big in his first year as Head Coach He just went crazy when he step over that line and he could not control himself, I feel the Celtics gave themselves ( Ime ) suspension so they can unpack a whole lot of stuff here which will ultimately lead to Ime being fired. This is so hard on many levels 😪

  • @cherry0078
    @cherry0078 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much

  • @valeriemaddox9770
    @valeriemaddox9770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of the women made great points but I wholeheartedly agree with what Selina said the most, I believe that Ime Udoke is experiencing reaping/karma. Perhaps this experience will bring humility his way.

  • @TheLovely990
    @TheLovely990 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm not shock. He got caught. She is not his first. For the organization suspended him for year, it's really ugly. Waiting for all the facts to come out.

  • @liteeyes1882
    @liteeyes1882 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm glad all the Ladies are showing love & support for Nia, she didn't deserve to be drug into this man's trifling transgressions!!!

  • @YC-dx5vl
    @YC-dx5vl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    From what I understand they have been engaged for 10 years, this in itself is a problem to me.

  • @FreshAir79
    @FreshAir79 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You Damn right it's a character issue, bc people are quick to say, if he was a a Chr Christian, he wouldn't cheat. Christian or not, we all have issues.. Lemme say this... a man/woman have to want to please and love God more than they do their spouse, bc if they did they wouldn't so easily get caught up. It's their duty to stand up for their marriage, their relationship, nevermind what the other person got going on. You stand up for yours. You know the games people play, stop entertaining that shyt and if you want out of your marriage be grown about it, talk to that person and handle yo business. Some things don't have to be messy, it can be handled right and privately.

  • @sophierobinson887
    @sophierobinson887 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And the husband may have no had known if he did hear their conversation on the ring camera . It’s sad but God wrath is always the worse one that no man can undone. Sending love to parties involved.

  • @theresenydahl9531
    @theresenydahl9531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Vanessa Williams was Miss Universe and got cheated on so no one is "safe". It always surprises me to see how the mistresses are never as good looking nor charismatic as the cheaters' wives. I guess that's neither here nor there, it's about other things.

    • @pb9695
      @pb9695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most times a man don’t cheat cause of looks or what the other woman may have going on. He does it cause he can and feel like he want something new. So for everyone talking about being surprised about Vanessa Williams or Halle Berry, not about the looks all the time

    • @weaveandwelfaretookblackme
      @weaveandwelfaretookblackme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pb9695 usually they just lack self esteem and need outside validation

    • @sbusisiweshaba1715
      @sbusisiweshaba1715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Men don't marry women, because they are pretty, beauty is not a formula for making any relationship to work or even getting a quality man. So why would you think everyone is not safe?

  • @derice7375
    @derice7375 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with Nia long,she asked people to respect her privacy.i understand her feeling as a woman.may God recomfort this family and bring peace.i don't want make any comment on it .