Is it EVER Okay to Hit a Woman? | Cocktails with Queens
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ส.ค. 2020
- The Queens breakdown Vado & Tahiry's Marriage Boot Camp incident and whether the physical altercation could be justified in certain situations.
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She threw apples at his face. Like hurled them at him. What he did was not right but she need to keep her hands to herself as well!
RIGHT ON!
And I would've nicely picked up an orange and scalped her with it🍊🍏🍎 see how she likes it.🤭
She shouldn't have hit him in the face with those apples. She wouldn't been crying if he had thrown two back at her. She instigated that. 100% her fault. She totally disrespected him. No sympathy. He DIDN'T hit her. She DID gave a weapon. APPLES FELT LIKE ROCKS! She's outta control
@@spices4624 you are so right
Agreed. She started that whole situation and then mad that he finally reacted. Keep poking the bear and you gonna get bit. PERIOD
Vado's issue was, he didn't check Tahiry when she threw the apples at him earlier. He let it fester and now he'll forever be seen as an abuser.
chippc exactly. The show set the narrative that it’s okay for a woman to hit a man
@Joe Hendrix we are talking about how h fb e show handled the situation.
It’s not ok to attack anyone man or woman just don’t freakin hit people!
Agree
Except. In self defense
Exactly
Case Closed!!
@@cteezy1983 precisely
It’s not ever cool for a man to hit a woman but she blasted him with two apples in the face at the table earlier in the day. Those are like baseballs
I love you lisa that right 💋women have big mouth she need that 💋she pass apple around the table💋 that why black man go to white women?? Keep your hand to yourself💋 don't feel sorry for her 💋 put are black men down 💋watching she going to stay with him
So if she did, then it absolutely is ok. Where do people get this craziness from. All women are not helpless victims and not all men are stronger than all women. My point is this, sit yo a** down and don't hit a man if you don't want him knocking the ish outta you
@@happy-wn9qc Learn how to properly conjugate a sentence.
Steph Kat it’s also not cool for a woman to hit a man
Benjamin Hardy that’s my point on here they thought he just attacked for no reason I was saying that she attacked first. Neither one was right but as a man in most cases you have the ability to do more damage than I can to you.
Someone should have watched the entire episode before discussing this situation. Tahiry was totally out of pocket for throwing apples at his face and constantly disrespecting him. Vado WAS NOT the aggressor. Females want a pass but come at men like they're a dude. I'm not saying Vado was right, I'm just tired of this double standard.
The story was the lack of protection for black women. The apples have nothing to do with a room full of black men blinking as Vado hemmed her up. It's a tragedy WE network will profit from this sad display.
Thanks for acknowledging that double standard ma'am.
@@extrasmokedragon3915 that was part of the story
Exactly. I seen the whole season
It's never okay for anyone to put hands on anyone. Being a mother of 4 men and 1 woman. I don't play that I have always told my men to never put their hands on a woman but also don't ever let a woman put her hands on you. Vice versa with my daughter because she used to always start a fight with her brothers and boys in the streets. I had to quickly check her on that because it is not right at all
Amen cause I got 4 girls an 1 boy an they never fight cause it was instill do not put your hand on anybody an as they as Periodt
@@Godfavorabletome exactly and you are raising them right.
That’s what I teach my son too and he’s 9. I don’t even let him play fight with his girl cousins (he’s the only child) or talk aggressively them.
@@angeleyes3386 that's a good thing
Good for you! you did right.
True or false:
Men you should keep your hands to yourselves.
Women you should keep your hands to yourselves.
You have the right to defend yourself from any aggressor if you are being attacked.
If you are the aggressor your gender is not a shield.
If you are the aggressor your emotions are not a justification.
If you can answer “true” to these questions then abuse is easy to identify and deal with. If not then you are are blurring the lines and are a part of the problem.
Wendell Berry I say true. I agree with you.
Perfect explanation.
Facts! I agree completely
True. You ain’t tell not one lie.
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She hit him with two apples in the face, and a couple episodes before this one she hit him with a bottled water in the face! She's the definition of toxic...a woman thats knows how to push a man to his breaking point, then act as if she doesn't kno how they got there! She said herself he's never done anything like that before and thats never been in his character. A 20 year friendship down the drain🤦🏽♀️ jus like that!
Claudia's story..caught me in my.core.. awww. That is sad..
Denisa Anthony
me too really sad
because I been her shoes accept that I didn’t put my hands at all on this jerk.
He was just straight up woman beater .
Who cares. Her story more so than Syleena?
@@ajohonly3721 he needs a baseball bat to head
that story is so sad for real
Hell what did Claudia do or say? Some women think its ok to talk down or DISRESPECT men and it isn't cool. Hell I bet she changed her approach to the next man huh!!!!
It’s not ok to hit anyone. Everyone should keep their hands to themselves. She threw apples at him like they weren’t hard enough to hurt him, she started it; now he should have reframed from choking her or grabbing her but she should have kept her hands to herself as well.
Exactly i have a son
smithrh100 Yesssss, has they stopped and pulled them to the side and spoke with them about THAT maybe all of this would not have escalate to that point. Shit his face was probably still stinging from them damn apples.
She threw those apples close range with power intentionally trying to hurt him. Ntm she also laughed about it & said maybe he can make a song about applesauce. Where he goes wrong is he's passive aggressive & allows his anger to sit & stew & then he attacks. Thus he looks like the bad guy & she looks like the victim
Domestic violence is NEVER acceptable!!
If she mouthy - boy move on🤨
If he handsy - girl say bye🤨
I love this. It catchy I’m going to use this for my therapy sessions ❤️ always gonna give u credit.
Na!
I understand what LRaye is saying. If someone is yelling in your face and getting in your personal space, I would push you or hit you because I feel threatened. Tahiry is so aggressive and violent towards him. I guess he got fed up! I feel like if a woman hits a man she shouldn’t get upset if he hits her ass back. Now if he hits her when she’s not doing anything..... that’s a different story like Syleena said, We are gonna square up
B.S. MBA Agreed! I only liked her on Love and HipHop years ago
IDK......say whatever you want, but don’t put your hands on me. If you don’t like what I saying and don’t want to hear it, walk TF AWAY. The problem is some men think you have to ball up your fist and punch someone before you call it physical abuse. Don’t let them off the hook either. Call the police.
He's probably beating her up behind closed doors. That's why.
Yup she kept pulling on da trigger.
Do unto others as you’d have them do unto u right?! Lol aye. But then she didn’t even understand the damn game they were supposed to be playing. 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Not one of the women stopped her from throwing apples at his face. I'm not insinuating its tic for tat but she verbally & physically abuse the man before he reached that breaking point.
Right!
I've noticed one thing about women...they will try and continue to torment the man who is not the abuser type. The men who are the real wife/woman beaters never get apples thrown at them and tormented constantly because they know good and well what will happen to them. But they forget that men are human beings too with emotions and at a point in time people will lose it same as how abused women sometimes snap (there's even a show about this).
exactly
"tit for tat" an infliction of injury for which one has suffered in return has caused injury. We not talking about a breath mint here tic tac.😂🤣😭
Yep exactly, no one rushed in and pulled her out the room and gave her the y’all but when he reacted they all domestic violence police
The last time a man hit me...he almost died when I faught back...and he never hit me again... straight Ike and Tina in the car....if you attack me be ready to die#savageselfdefense
Glad your okay. Some dont make it out. Woman are killed at higher rates by their significant other than any other reason. 😪
Clare Ye ok does that’s what h was doing. She’s been attacking him for a good Lil bit.
I agree w/both Syleena & Lisa Raye.
I understand what Lisa is saying..he grabbed her up and that was probably his first time and it more than likely shook her up and will make her think twice. I don't agree in no way whatsoever for a man to HIT a woman or exude violent behavior ..BUT as a woman myself, when a man shows me he is serious it teaches me to not keep testing him. You can NOT expect ANYONE to always keep their cool so stop thinking that he won't ever react. BUT LIKE I SAID..I DO NOT CONDONE A MAN HITTING!
If a man is dealing with a mouthy, physical woman, it is his responsibility to break up with her though.
@@Shayvideos1 y
I feel sorry for you if this is what you have been raised to believe.
@@kelcibee1648 This is not the world of fantasy land chivalry, so wake up...if you are confrontational toward another human being in this reality, you can't control how they respond...dont play with your life...
I really wish Vado would’ve walked away instead of reacting. Now Tahiry gets to play the victim when she was clearly over the top with disrespect towards him from day one! She should’ve been asked to leave the show when she hit him with the apples. It’s wrong to send the message to women that it’s ok to hit a man and he should never hit you. Keep your hands to yourself!
So glad for Selena J and Lisa Ray for keeping it 💯
she hit him before the apples too! He was sleep and she threw a bottle at his head! Claudia u should have showed her throwing things at him on two occasions! She is violent too
@@kiyonaleesmith2606 I actually don't watch the show but I do NOT agree with her throwing shit ether. I think they have a very dysfunctional relationship and need to leave each other alone
Yes
DatPrt
Selina stupid. You gunna fight a man then play victim no!
Show what happened before that part of the clip. With that being said, he should have left after he got hit by the apples. Facts Selena. Production should have stepped in early.
thats what i said, i guess their wait until he was joking her to blamed him, even doh she started it first
Yea they are spinning it because I watched the episode twice and saw what she did first. Thumbing down and moving on.
Yeah.they are both toxic and need to go their separate ways. She threw apples at his head like a baseball player a few minutes before. He was seething after that when they started the next scene
4naymsake RW right! He was pissed and embarrassed but it was a show for her.. I did not like it at all.
She hit him with two green apples. They were doing an exercise in which they were shocking each other remotely. They got to the point of shocking each other out of spite and both were mad. So she hit him in the kitchen with the apples just before they sat down for this debriefing.
In Jamaica we call men like this "waste man" I could NEVER EVER EVER EVER stay with a waste man.Women RUN for your LIFE!!!
Your country has the perfect word. I would like to borrow it please (I'm from Nigeria 🇳🇬). We need it sister.
. I never heard that term.
That’s a damn lie!! Jamaican women are known to say, “if he ain’t beat me, he doesn’t love me.”
Listen, dont nobody need to hit nobody!
LISA LOOKS LIKE ONE OF THOSE LADIES AT CHURCH WITH THE WHITE GLOVES THAT CATCHES PEOPLE WHO FALLOUT FROM THE HOLLY GHOST.
It’s never ok to hit a woman unless in self-defense . But with that being said: Keep your hands and objects to yourself. Self-control is a virtue that is often lost nowadays.
It's never ok to hit a man unless in self-defense. It's never ok to hit anyone unless it's in self-defense.
I hate when y'all say that so it's ok for a woman to hit a man?
I hate that some women feel that its ok to physical assault men with their hands or objects, and then be shocked that he retaliated in the same way. EVERY BODY NEEDS TO KEEP THEIR DAMN HANDS TO THEMSELVES "PERIOD"
Whats crazy is its the women who are aggressive and love to hit people are the ones who thinks no one should ever touch them.
I don't know why men are always expected to interfere with somebody else's domestic dispute.. men know if it is between a man and another woman that's their business.. it's actually a way you could get killed or arrested
I agree with lisa raye lol
And they should have showed both clips cuz she hit him in the face with that apple 😣
Indeed
I thought they did. I saw when Tahiry threw two apples at him
@@joshuamcdowell9745 no they only showed when he put his hands on her
Ashley A. Hard asf too. Cud have taken an eye out. I felt it. Even tho he didn’t even react right then I felt he wasn’t simmering in it.
Ashley A. Oh and the fact she plunking him on television. Ya never kno wat a bruised ego gonna do. I kno my cut limitations.
So if it’s not a fair fight and you know this, DON’T PUT YOUR HANDS ON A MAN! PERIOD
🗣🗣🗣
Y'all forgot to show the clip prior when she threw two hard azz apples in his face.
She threw mad hard apples in his face
Exactly I'm with Lisa Raye sometimes you gotta shake the ish out of somebody!
I as a man can appreciate the fact that there's women who understand that sometimes for a guy, u should be able to defend urself
He still should not have done that. All she was doing at that time was talking.
@@zakiyareignshinellc4299 she was deflecting. He was doing what the show asked. She got mad. She took the bracelet off, she should have kept it pushing. She stayed pissed and ultimately threw those big ass Granny Smith apples at his face. Even announced she was getting ready to do it. He didn't even choke her. He jacked her up.
She should got her teeth knock out. He didn't hit her.
LisaRaye kept it real and made the most sense...dont start a physical fight with a bigger human, man or woman, if you do, there are repercussions, just like many things in life...
He should leave her the relationship is toxic.
☆Kindergarten rules: keep all hands, feet and other objects to yourself.☆
Wait for it around the 3:29 mark. Lisa Raye is 😂. I never condone violence against women but she kept it real.
What ever happened to keeping your hands to yourself? This "men shall not lay a finger on a woman" mindset has gotten a lot of women hurt, thinking they can assault a man and not get hit back. Men are not monolithic. There are some men who won't hit you back, but there are some who will. You don't want to risk it. Keep your hands to yourself
Preach
FOR THOSE WHO DIDN'T WATCH THIS EPISODE SHE THREW 2 APPLES AND ONE HIT HIM IN THE FACE REALLY HARD ,BUT THIS NOT NEVER EXCUSE TO HIT A WOMAN.
He was being passive aggressive & even tho she'd been disrespecting him several times, he should've had more restraint BUT that DOESN'T excuse her throwing apples at his face. She was wrong & even tho that happened, he shouldn't have done that because he's on TV & he has more to lose. At a point when he was getting that pissed, u gotta leave her alone
@@shaunphillips3236 I agree no man should never HIT a woman if you have to go there the person is not for you period!
@@crystalamos9044 a lot of females for whatever reason like to challenge men by pushing them by punking them to see if they're "man" enough for them. She seems to be that type to push a man as far as he's going to let her but then wants to be the victim when shit goes down
@@shaunphillips3236 That is the problem some women think they can disrespect a man then they want to file for domestic violence even though they provoked the situation by hitting him first most get away with it if you in a toxic relationship just move on That go both ways .women can be abusive to a man also who don't believe in hitting a woman and paid the price and got killed.
I'm tired of y'all females keep normalizing that woman hit men first then y'all don't do ish about it but when a man does it y'all get mad hypocrites
Listen, did you all see the hold show? She DID hit him with like 2 or 3 apples in his face. She had provoked him talking and threw the 🍏 and hit him. They should have addressed that. I do not uphold him putting his hands on her period and same with her. I’m team Lisa Ray! Folks keep your hands to yourself.
I know right everybody talking about him how much do we suppose to take as men and I'm talking about everything we suppose to shut up and say nothing
Was it in the face bc I only saw body shots. (Not condoning her throwing them at all!!!!)
Felicia Walls it was in his face
Ppl act like being hit by a woman is just a walk in the park. Woman came kill men easy because men will always hesitate
LisaRaye said sometimes you gotta shake the sh*t out of them 😂☠️☠️
She was hitting him in other scenes. She was throwing stuff at him, that's why men didn't get involved. She smirking abt it.
I agree, he just shook her out of frustration.. But still uncool.
She deserved that one anyway, playn with that man's emotions👀
He didn't attack her because of the abuse. He attacks her because she said he mad her abuse him. And I get what he was upset. He's been hit every time by her just to sit in a group of ppl and watch her lie.
“Have any of y’all been hit by a man?”
Syleena: I’ve been in fights 😂😂😂 aka I was getting in that ass too
I have a cousin who was being hit on by her boyfriend. Then she started to fight back.
When her brother jumped in to stop them she snapped on her own brother for getting in between her and her boyfriend. So there are black men who will protect a balck woman.
LisaRae...the man needs to walk away if she's coming at him with words only😏
That’s was horrible that she thinks it’s ok to hit a women or thinks it would be a fair fight . My 4 sons better ever hit a women on less their life is in danger . They need to walk away if they feel the need to hit a women
@@jacquelinebrooks4491 LisaRaye is male identified so it's not surprising she would feel this way😒
Well she came at him with the bullet apples first. Thats when the intervention should have taken place
@@jacquelinebrooks4491 nobody should put hands on anyone. Period. Women don't get the right to put their hands on a man & not expect anything to happen. However, no "man" that's a real man should ever put his hands on a woman. Period. Respect is key & it's a 2 way street
@@rjs1602 LisaRaye comes from a different era than this generation. I can see where she's coming from. She's not supporting abuse, she's supporting a man checking his woman when she & the situation needs to be checked & controlled
I feel so sorry for Claudia because these ladies aren’t getting it. This is insensitive and tone deaf on such a topic
Fulufhelo Kwinda 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You DID hear her say she SLAPPED him right??
After having my first son I’m a little on the fence about men hitting woman because I refuse to let my son sit there an get beat on
I have a son and I’ve been in an abusive situation where the man was the aggressor. I teach my son to never hit a woman (not from words or a couple apples. Have more self control because it’s a trap) but to never allow a woman to beat on you or never provoke a woman to hit you. My ex would follow me as I was tryna to leave hostile environment, locked me in a room even pinned me down to a bed and verbally attacked me. None of that is ok. I tell my son, If she does physically assault you, restrain her or push her away and leave for good and document somehow in case it comes back on him. Call the cops if you find it necessary but make sure you’ve done everything right and have proof. Once he lays hands on her, he’s in violation and will be subject to jail or sometimes death...It’s too dangerous for anyone to go toe to toe nowadays.
No it’s never ok to hit a women. We are not as strong . A good men stays away and doesn’t go back . A men is strong enough to restrain a women . Please don’t say this to your son and he thinks it’s ok to hit a women when all he has to do it’s walk away and date someone else!
@@jacquelinebrooks4491 Some women are strong as hell now lol. The 1960 days of all women being sweet and weak are over.
@@jacquelinebrooks4491 it's never ok for a "grown" person to put their hands on another "grown" person. Being a woman doesn't give u the right to beat up on a man & not expect any consequences. Subsequently, being a man DOESN'T give us the right to mistreat our women. Respect is key
@No
What if years down the line, your son shows this CONTROLLING/ABUSIVE relationship towards his Woman/Wife?
Claudia: "and he put his back into it"
My ignorant ass singing the ice cube song: "I can do it put yo back into it"
Ladiesssss, this is reality tv. Anything and everything goes for them ratings. She had thrown hard ass green apples at him - nobody stopped it or checked her. He was embarrassed, he was steaming and he was trying to let it go. She started talking that victim mess and he lost it. He should not have tried to choke her AND she should not have been throwing apples. All of it was disrespectful - BUT - that’s reality tv and them trying to get ratings.
Man when she hit him in the face with that last apple I thought that he was going to lose it and then in the confessional she said she was playing.
YESSSSSSSSS, and in reality he didn't even try to choke her, he grabbed her up by her jacket put they angled the camera as though he choked her.😤
Claudia looks disgusted as they are telling their fighting stories.
Why Claudia acts like she was in abused relationship when she wasn't
Thank you Claudia! Somone needed to stand strong against this nonsense talk. Cause some of things Lisa said are unacceptable.And she is part of the problem. She turned me all the way off right now. I'm disgusted.
She had an apple and a baseball arm.
I wonder what the conversation would’ve been like if they saw the clip where Tahiry threw the apples at him. Not saying that it’s ok but conversation needs to be had because some women are out here hitting on men and then playing the victim. Abuse is not one sided.
She threw 2 green apples and hit him in the head on purpose..hard
"Slow singing & flower bringing" 😂 SYLEENA!
I remember I was 14 and my boyfriend at the time became angry that I told him to stop cursing at me. He was doing it in front of his friends and my girlfriends. I was shocked by that because he had never done that before. So I told him if he did again it was over. So he did and I was turning to walk away, he grabbed me and spun me around saying who was I to dump him in front of his boys and smacked me catching my eye I had surgery on just couple of months prior. He could have blinded me. Be fore. I could gather my composure of the girls brothers came out and called him out for hitting me and whooped his ass. Next day he called me apologising and asking to forgive him. Told him NO! A week later found out he use to beat on another girl I knew just the year before. He started doing this to girls at 11.
This my 3rd episode and LISARAYE thank you I luv you❣❣❣ Continue to preach
Loving how these ladies are speaking on personal situations they've been through!
U need to show the entire clip
This was a good video and topic....although very triggering....WE all need to do better! Thank you for the conversation!
I love it how women want our protection but say we don't need no man
If you give a man an excuse to hit, he will always look for one. There is never an excuse to abuse a woman, ever!!
Eff all those men for not even reacting and if I was her I would've left the show because there is no saving the marriage after that. It's not even just that. He actually said "you lucky I didn't hurt you". What??!!
Thank you Syleena!!! I would’ve definitely stopped/checked him! 👑🙌🏾
That’s the problem when people don’t watch the show... NO ONE SHOULD EVER LAY HANDS ON ANYONE PERIOD... but she threw those apples and preceded to act like she was innocent and started telling everyone else “he made me look like I was crazy to y’all” that’s when he tried to choke her... he did NOT hit her and BTW when he wrote the apology he decided to end it with her, he knew this would never work in turn helping her find healing because if he didn’t set that boundary she would have went back to him
I admire all the women on this show for different reasons and I think they all blend well together. My favorite segment on fox soul for sure 💜
Lisa Raye kept it real even though I don't agree with beating on a woman
Then how she keep it real if you don’t agree?? 🤔🤨 inquiring minds wanna know?
I love that all of you guys can look at things differently since you guys did it ALL in the business. Us folks out here don't know about editing that could be missing. But ...what I DO need is the reaction thumb nails reactions of all of you girls right after the clip was aired. I WAS TOO SCARED OF ALL OF YOU.
I agree with claudia 100% no matter what a woman say it should not give a man a pass to hit a woman .He has the option to leave.
Yeah I just aint here for women or anyone making excuses for WORDS making a man hit. chick. Leave her ass. I do however have an understanding that if a woman attacks or hits a man that is going to get met with a response. My whole thing is WORDS making u hit a girl. As for her throwing apples at him---totally wrong for that. I dont think thats cool nor do I think its cool to humiliate your mate on tv or in front of people.
She threw two apples at his face
Claudia spoke with the most class. Don’t listen to these other women, if you fight a man even in defense you lose your power. You’re not physically more powerful then a man but we’re powerful in other ways.... use your power to the best of your abilities don’t stoop to the level of man
Here here!!
I hear you Claudia you are 100% correct!
If a woman throw an apple and hit my son in his face, then talk down to him, he better lay her ass out. What are we trying to make out of these men? One of the first things we teach our children is, if anyone hit you, you better hit them back.
ugh, when is the full episode going to be posted on foxsoul.com? I had to work late and missed last monday! :(
I agree 💯 EVERYONE KEEP YOUR HANDS TO YOURSELF.
Every woman don't have "people" to get or can fight back, so I think a more serious conversation needs to be had about domestic violence
That happen so fast that no one expecting it!
If you hit someone, except to be hit back. Prior to that, Tahiry threw two apples in his face
I love an all black cast with sassy sauce💯 this is what we want on TV. Real shit!
It doesn’t matter if a person has a month Lisa Raye ...a man .. a real gentleman takes his strength and power and walk away !!! There’s no excuse to hit on anyone!!!
I'm glad Claudia has the courage to speak about her abuse. It is disappointing these other ladies were so tone deaf and negligent to remark that men can ever put their hands on a woman, especially knowing Claudia's experience. The other women were insensitive and I felt heartbroken for Claudia.
THANK YOU CLAUDIA for stepping up to your co-hosts. That convo needed to be checked.
No it didn't and she didn't check anything
Lord....my crazy ex than got a new fake identity. lol leave me alone and go get a life. Namaste... non-respectfully
I had to tag his ass....I hollered. LMAO
Why do strong independent women need protection from men? You got yourself to protect.
Why Lisa Raye dressed like she getting ready to go to church 🤣🤣🤣
You ladies r GREAT, I enjoy the Candor conversion,& different opinions.
No violence! Either way! None!!! I’m with Claudia on this one. Love you alll though
Why didn’t y’all show the clip of her attacking him!? Like y’all not that old
Ladies, while it is a 1000% wrong for a man to hit a woman, women out here have become so aggressive to the point that a man has no option but to hit back! I'm a witness as my former sister in law was the aggressor in the relationship. My brother knows not to hit a woman but this girl was beyond. She threw things at him, directly in his eyes, rushes to him and slapped him, when he tried to walk out, she blocked the door etc. Over the years she told lies and pretended. Until one night couple of years ago she started her aggressive acts at 2am. This led to their seperation. Now she's blaming the family because he left her. If that is not the highest level of the abusers tactics, I don't know what else is! Men beware and walk away.
People want to act like these kinds of women don't exist. A 350 lbs NFL player just got a bloody nose from his GF getting mad and punching him in the face. But some people swear women can't cause bodily harm to men.
@@kevinlee9929 they exist! Everyone needs to understand that hitting another person is flat out wrong. And most women know when the police gets called, they take the man away. It has got to stop. I'm not in support of man hitting back because I was also on the other end where he was abusive and violent. However, his first attempt to lift his hand became his last as I ended the relationship immediately! I'm grown and I don't intend on trading my peace EVER!!!!!!
@@matildao1433 I'm sorry that happened to you. But like you I think people, rather it be man or woman, should keep their hands to themselves. People defending women hitting men need to stop. Wrong is wrong regardless of who do it.
My motto is: keep your hands to yourself!!! I taught my sons to never hit a female but don't ever let one beat on you either. Females are too quick to hit a man in his face and expect him to take it...no ma'am! Don't touch my son in a violent matter and my son better not put his hands on you. Six months ago a young couple was arguing in front of my house and as I looked out the window, she started punching and slapping him. I called the cops on her to prevent him from destroying his life by knocking her butt out.
No matter what she did before, in that moment if he felt that urge he should have got up and walked away
Claudia.. how can someone contact you about the show?
I didn't hear Vado say 'she hit me', but I did hear him say 'she hit me with two apples' - which they did show on the episode. I agree with most everyone should keep their hands to themselves. Every action has a reaction.
I agree with Syleena! I will definitely fight back!!!
I totally agree with Lisa Raye! Women can be absolutely antagonistic and provoking ! Words are weapons no matter your gender. Aint no damsel in distress when you get a reaction you keep poking to get. Men and women are both equally responsible for their actions and if you cant control yourself both should walk away. You want to be equal well here it is, hit someone you get hit back period.
This is a really good segment. First of, men and women are humans, there will be arguments and there will be disagreements. If one person raises their hands on the other regardless the reason, there's a huge incurable problem. The treatment is separation immediately. If an argument/nagging/togging is escalating to the point no one sees a physical fight coming, is another huge incurable problem. One of them has to be able to identify what's called unhealthy. No one wants to give up, everyone wants to win by not realizing the giver up is the winner and the next step is looking for help.
That Moment alone, killed it for me..smh Oh my God, I pray that she moved on with her Life, Come on Sistergirls!! Lisa McCoy you have lost a Fan here, it is never okay to Shake or Hit A Woman ever, Keep your Got Dam Hands to Yourself!!! Period!!!
We need this conversation again
Everyone has an opinion but I'm a mom and i don't necessarily condone violence but I've already told my son defend yourself periodt!!
FACTS. But I can't say more than that or my comment gets deleted.
Yes! Ladies say that 😂💯❤️ Stand up for yourself, defend your self don’t let no body put no hands on you.
Vice versa for men stand up for yourself don't let no one out they hand on you regardless of sex. If a woman hit me I'll break her fucking face
These women keep saying it's not a fear fight...ok....so if you know it's not a fear but don't EVER abuse the position and cross the line with any man, keep your damn hands to yourself and don't purposely provoke men by shouting in his face and being disrespectful... simple
I’ve been in that situation and repeatedly had to defend myself. Some people don’t know how to communicate effectively verbally and they feel their only outlet is to be physical and some people are just bullies.
So are we going to over look her throwing apples at him? I'm not saying she deserved to be grabbed up. Let's be clear he grabbed her not hit her. She should be held accountable for her actions as well.
Are we going to act like an apple thrown at him is going to kill him like a choke in the throat from a grown man would to a woman? The two are not equal! Stop! And we all need not provoke people but let's not act like the response equaled her aggression in light of this mans size and strength.
Renee Reese no u need to stop. And he didn’t choke her he grabbed her. Y’all need to stop giving women excuses to do any & everything aggressive or physical to men. IT IS NOT OK ON BOTH ENDS
Renee Reese and she chucked them apples at that man’s face. She could’ve busted his eye, nose etc. I guess that would be ok as well right because he’s a man.
The subject wasn't the apples. It was the dudes not moving to stop this situation from going down. Nobody checked on Vado. All those people would smoke with Vado but nobody after a couple apples to the head says boo to him?! Garbage!!!
WHY is the Show Beeping your words now... I love the realness of you guys
Men shouldn't hit women but women shouldn't hit men either. If both parties are mad to the point where possible violence can ensue, WALK THE HELL AWAY!!!! There is NO SHAME in walking away from bullshit!!
Facts!
OMG Claudia. I am so sorry that happened to you. Yes, men and women should keep their hands off each other. Domestic violence isn't cool.
But it wasn't. She turned the guy down she never dated him. Claudia lies. Did he push you down or did he slap you first. My guess she hit him and he shoved her.