Jay, maybe you could drop a venmo or a crowd source and we could all pitch in to get you a cricket. You could make a new shirt for every family function!!!
Dr. Heinz Doofenshmirtz from “Phineas and Ferb” the best ‘villain’ Disney dad. Made time for and supported his daughter’s goals. Edit: forget about Goofy. Had to add villain
A video came up in my feed that said something like "family is sacred, yes. And that's why you can leave. They already broke that sacred deal a long time ago when they were abusing or refusing to take care of you. You have no obligation towards them, you're free." And I couldn't agree more.
Nicque: Darth Vader Me: He was trying to get some father-son time in, even after he chopped off Luke's hand! He wanted to rule the galaxy together as a family!
The trauma certain relatives left me with is as real as the fact that we are related by blood, so I have the right to talk all the shit I want about them 👏
Just start replying with, "have you reminded them of that because I'm the one they terrorize and I'm their *insert relationship in reverse*. And yet I'm the only one yall try to remind like I don't already know that and it wasn't a contributing factor to why I cut them out since they weren't acting like it..."
It's always "don't react like that, they're still a member of your family" and never "how could they do this to you? how could they do this to a family member?"
As the child of an abusive addict this just made me feel so much better about the negative feelings I have for my father, so many family members are like “well he’s your father so you have to love and respect him” no I don’t, no one is required to love or respect or really feel any particular way about another person unless they earn it.
THIS THIS THIS, I don’t get why people demand you respect your father when he took that respect and abused the power he had from it. Everyone keeps telling me to respect him, but he’s gotta earn that $#!+
@@cj_comments I mean in every other aspect of life you are told that if you want respect you have to earn it, what makes parents any different? Nothing. Most people respect their parents because they’ve worked to make a good life for their kids aka earned it.
“Their still your family member” is always the weakest excuse I wouldn’t condone child abusers racist or homophobes in real life so why would I care there In my family 🤨
I have asked people who follow that ass backwards logic that "well they are your relative, you should still love them" Two things. 1. Why weren't you giving THEM a "love your relative speech" when they were abusing me?? and 2. If it would be considered wrong for a romantic partner/friend/coworker/stranger in the street to treat me this way, why is it ok for a relative to do it? If family is "supposed" to love you? I never get an answer, only this blank ass expression😐
That Karmic hand of justice finally comes around for their ass and took it's nice juicy bite!! Suddenly they want to act all prayed up and forgiving...PLEASE!! That is the number one reason why I don't subscribe to the notion of forgiving other people things. I'm more of a believer in Karmic Justice.
The Third Hokage: Yeah, he neglected Naruto and let him raise himself into a somewhat feral child, but at least he provided housing and some funds for the small child to live on with no adult assistance.
Frankly the fact that Naruto didn't turn out more mal-adjusted is the real miracle. Being shunned by everyone for something outside your control would fuck a kid up.
@@eduardomantilla2143 the fact the living superweapon somehow managed to develop a desire to stop his abusers by being awesome instead of slaughtering them all is the bigger miracle.
I meeeeeean aside from from the whole "take over the universe" and physical mutilation bits Vader actually WAS a pretty good dad. Immediately went to look for his adult kid after someone finally told him they exist, actively wants to be a part of their life, tried to connect with them the best he could, offered them a job where they would be working in close proximity to try and make up for lost time together, and ultimately sacrificed everything he had spent the better portion of his life building so that his kid could have a chance at the life they wanted...
Wenwu: Trained his kid to be the best assassin on Earth and when he knew said kid just straight up ran away and abandoned the mission, gave him 10 years to live his life, got him to reunite with his sister and when he realised he was wrong, left him his strongest weapons as inheritance. Also saved him from a soul-eating monster after having a fight with him
My mum just passed away the other day and I feel the "oh but she was still your mother" thing. 🙄 Fortunately I don't think I'll be made to speak at her funeral, but I'm still not looking forward to having to socialise with people who don't know how toxic a relationship it was... 😓
My Dad abandoned me as a little kid because ‘he can’t stand little children’ despite me completely idolising him. He ignored me every time I begged for his attention or praised him. I continued to idolise him after he left because I was too young to realise that he had actually left us. Years later, he came back when I’m a teenager and more mature. I quickly realise how much of an ass he really was and stopped idolising him. He didn’t like this and accused me of turning against him like my mother did. My mother didn’t start hating him until he forced her to quit her job with the promise that he would support us but instead left her with two kids to raise on her own with no job. I can’t believe that he’s surprised that we all hate him.
He sound like shit. Wow. My heart goes out to your mother, as well to you and your sibling. That's just messed up what he did. And that he thought that he can just come back into your lives after abandoning you all? Because he "can't stand little children" he thought he could leave his kids' lives when they were young and return into thier live when they were older and more mature? Naw, that's just ridiculous. I hope that you, your mother, and your sibling are doing well now. 🙏
You get what you give. We know they're your parents but at the same time they do deserve this. Death should not be the reason to change how you feel about someone. Make it right while you still have the chance for genuine good reasons.
I always wondered what I’d say if they asked me to give a eulogy for my father, because “He was a manipulative asshole who caused 90% of my personal issues and the world is better off without him in it” probably wouldn’t go over well
Hey, if that's all true(I'm trusting the word of a random internet stranger), then you've grown into an honest person! There should be honesty in a eulogy, right?
Honestly, if someone is perfectly apt to give an eulogy of someone, it's their kid. The funeral is primarily for you and your siblings. (And the SO/parents if they're still alive, but I suppose the father here is an older person. And even then I think the kids take precedence). Not the friends who only knew him on his good days. You are the most impacted by your father's death, so you can say whatever you want at the funeral.
On top of that at least for Gamora Thanos seemed to actually care about her. Even going as far as sitting on the steps when Gamora said she didn’t like his chair.
“He was still your father” “Who spent all his money on alcohol or drugs or in the betting offices and he was not shy about telling everyone who he owed money too that he couldn’t pay them back because he had to pay child support. In fact he did his best parenting by staying far away from me and just being an example of how not to act. There that’s your positive thing.”
Girl I am right there with you 100% found out my dad had a health scare the other day. I started laughing when I heard the news. He’s a terrible creature, not even human.
My old man is still shit, kicked me out at 9 years old. Then made me walk to my grandparents house that was 19 km away in a apex predator area during the fall time... the time of the year that animals eat anything and everything to bulk up for hibernation.
Endeavor is having a redemption arc so there is that, we know that the Firelord loved Azula and he took Zuko back that one time, Asami's dad also had a redemption arc and died for her, Midoriya's dad still probably sends money, Ging talked to Gon that one time, Shang-Chi's dad also died for his kids and left them his organization and some cool rings, Lucious was a monster to other people but we know he loved Draco, Odin died apologizing to most of his kids
Yeah I feel this one. My dad died about 2 years ago...actually right around now, don't remember exact day. But yeah, didn't even really care when I heard he died. Avoided him like the plague for the last 25 years of my life, don't really care that he's gone.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I really appreciate your honesty. I didn’t even go to my dads funeral (it was actually a Zoom memorial but yeah). It’s interesting the thought process of people. He’s still “your father” but never acted or treated you like he was your father….that’s not a father that’s some ninja that skeeted then BOOM you appear. Yes, I still have issues I’m working out about my “father” lol 😂 🤣🤣🤣
“He’s still your father” “she’s still your mother” ….and what??? Literally terrible people produce children all the time. I HATE that line it’s literally “disregard everything they did they are the reason you exist” I don’t gotta do anything for them I practically live my life to spite the middle finger they gave it originally
I've dreamed of this sort of situation since I was 8. My biodad was abusive and it wasn't until I finally cut him and anyone who even listened to his bullshit that I realized. My life is more full and bright without him invading my thoughts. Poisoning my current mind with thoughts of him. And I made a promise to myself. If he dies. I won't go to the funeral. But if he is buried. I will spit. Or curse his darned grave to give myself that closure to know one less monster is in the world. Because I don't need the validation of the family that consorts with a man who is a class 3 sex offender. But I'm up for my mental health getting to close the book on one of my worst personal demons. And idk what happens when we die and maybe hexing a grave makes his afterlife worse?
“I’m so sick and tired of hearing but they are still ____ “ I heard that all the time when my father passed. I was 13. childrens love is a not a commodity to be bought and sold it’s not a implied power to make your kids feel guilty for being born. Someone being dead doesn’t negate what they did to other while they were still alive. Death shouldn’t erase mistakes.
Hi-key, I’m always proud of people who can own these feelings & get them out. I love your content & wish you the best. You deserve this moment and I hope you continue alchemizing every part of this life experience into more success. ❤️🙏
Me: (Goes to his funeral after years of being disowned) Everyone: ... Me: (Clears my throat, looks in his coffin, and sheds a tear) Backstabbing stepmother: "Why-why are you crying? I thought you hated him." Me: "I did, but I'm upset cause I wasn't the one who pulled the plug."
Family: He was still family, be nice on his funeral at least. Nicque: This is the nicest I can be with him. PS, sorry for spelling mistakes Also, wish you to have a peaceful healing process.
Darth Vader 😂😂😂😂 my abusive mother died in March and I am SO feeling your whole series here like a window into my soul. I’m not sorry your dad died, but I am sorry for all the crap he put you through!!
Ya know, this is probably gonna be my cousin at her deadbeat/absent but still living in her house but papers are coming soon dad's funeral when his smoking and drinking catch up to him. I'll be clapping as she roasts him. (He deserves it, he has threatened to kill their young cats for scratching my younger cousin, and said it too her.)
Thanos actually cared about his kids even though he tried to kill and killed them if you look 👀 at his face it pains him too hurt them. Ps: please don’t hurt me
It weirdly makes me feel a little better to see you openly disliking your dad Like, don't get me wrong, I'm so sorry you had a shitty dad and I wouldn't wish that on anyone But I always feel kinda guilty for resenting mine over things he did, because my family is the "yeah he's shitty BUT HES FAMILY AND YOU NEED TO LOVE AND FORGIVE" type. It's nice to see someone not taking it just because of that
Not only did Vader just want to get his son a job (as the co-ruler of a galaxy-spanning empire), he also gave up his job and his *LIFE* to save Luke from Palpatine!
he's still your father Me: and im still the daughter that while on the floor having a panic attack he caused, he spent that hour on his phone looking at stock and going through my cabinets.
When my dad died I was able to get them to delete his memorial page by telling them how he really was. Vader would have been nicer atleast he had a Cape hahah have a great day
This. I was just happy that his "lady" friend was such a dupe that she paid for everything. And ole gal was jealous so she was talking sh*t about me and how her kids are the only ones he had. I was like cool cuz at the repast I got a huge ass plate of food, hugged my aunts and dipped out with my cousins. We all got drinks and got so f-ed up talking about the dysfunction in our family. We all came to the conclusion of f that guy/girl
When people hear about the abusive relationship with a father/mother/family member, they will go "bUt ThEy'Re fAmiLy", but if you'd change the name into "bf/gf/significant other", suddenly everyone will tell you to run...
I'm sorry for your loss. Not the whole relationship thing with your dad but the whole people trying to force you to feel how they want you to feel. You get the closure the way you want and don't take crap from nobody. It's okay to be angry, sad, happy, relieved or indifferent. It doesn't make you different. This makes you human.
"She's your stepmom and she cares for you" "But she isn't my mom and I'm not her daughter so when she disrespects me I have the right to tell her off and disrespects her since respect is earned" "You still hold a grudge don't you" "Ofc I hold a grudge,I would've had a eating disorder if my mom didn't step in"
My friend had a terrible dad (mum ran away when he was 7 bc he abused her in like all ways, and she couldn't divorce him because he would have probably killed her and her plan was that he and his brother were removed by social services, sadly his little brother (5) died due his father's negligence and my friend was removed). He was loved by his grandparents who were foster parents and has a loving family now. Recently his dad called because he has cancer. He wants to make amends while taking no responsibility for his sins (basically blaming my friend for being small and weak rather than a quarterback). He is also very homophobic and my friend is gay so there's that. His dad will die soon and probably pull some shit. I'll send him this to prepare his speech.
I am honestly so happy since I moved away. I never knew about real family until I met my family in law. They treated me so much better and actually showed they loved me. I felt like family the moment I first met them. I am glad I had the opportunity to escape but I am praying for all that didn't get that chance.
"...still family..." Genetic disposition doesn't guarantee a relationship, or make it automatically mandatory to "play nice". Why is that so hard to grasp?!
Ya know at least my family (his side included) understands. 😂😂 Cuz we all out here acting like he's voldemort. Oh and in case we have to refur to him it's just: you know who, it, (name), my other (blank)
Didn't attend my father's funeral. Got so much shit about how I was a terrible daughter. Like yea well who raised me to be so terrible? 😆 Sorry daddy-o just taking a page from your book
Family : He is still your father
Me : And I am still the child he disowned so shut up and let me talk shit about him
😂😂 right!
Can i get this on a t-shirt or decal 😭😭😭 imma wear it to every family function
I got a family function in August, if i could get this on a T shirt I'd start a tradition and never let it die.
Jay, maybe you could drop a venmo or a crowd source and we could all pitch in to get you a cricket. You could make a new shirt for every family function!!!
@jay you could then start a redbubble page for all your best ideas !!!
Family: you have to love them they’re your blood relative
Me : where was this sentiment when they were abusing me 🧐
True
Freaking exactly
They never have an answer for that question
@@comedyblastYT Never. Or they hit you with the "be the bigger person" BS. Nah, I'm exercising my right to be small and petty.
Fr, speak the truth.
Dr. Heinz Doofenshmirtz from “Phineas and Ferb” the best ‘villain’ Disney dad. Made time for and supported his daughter’s goals.
Edit: forget about Goofy. Had to add villain
He f*cked up sometimes, but with his childhood I don't blame him. He wanted to give to her daughter what he never had, a loving parent.
Dan povenmire
Dr. Doof is one of the BEST fictional Dads. EVER. He is supportive and loves his daughter very much.
Dan Povenmire (creator of Phineas and Ferb and voice of Doof) is on TH-cam and tiktok. You should check it out, his videos are pretty funny
He's a badguy but not a bad guy
"She's still your mother"
"I'm still her daughter, but she didn't think about that when she was raising me in a mental Arkham."
Right? Funny how family is supposed to matter to us when it never mattered to them.
@@l.g.2888 ikr
💀 I thought you meant Arkham asylum for a sec I was so confused I thought you were quoting something
@@agarcia1252 I think they meant to say asylum and it somehow autocorrected to arkham lol
@@agarcia1252 but I thought the same thing tbh
A video came up in my feed that said something like "family is sacred, yes. And that's why you can leave. They already broke that sacred deal a long time ago when they were abusing or refusing to take care of you. You have no obligation towards them, you're free." And I couldn't agree more.
Such amazing words. Screenshotting this.
Oh sh!t, that's good
Thank you for saying this!! I'm screenshotting this too
Nicque: Darth Vader
Me: He was trying to get some father-son time in, even after he chopped off Luke's hand! He wanted to rule the galaxy together as a family!
He also threw the motherf*cker that was electrecuting his son down a reactor
Vader just wanted to reunite his family that he had left
People think chopping off Luke's hand was a band thing but really he got a cool robotic arm and turned into a Cyborg. How cool is that? lol
@@rubybee2180 luke: AAAAAAAAAHHHH!!! Vader: I remember my first time....
You could say Vader chopping off Luke's arm was Vader trying to have things they could bond over.
"But they're your *insert random blood relative here* ."
And?
The trauma certain relatives left me with is as real as the fact that we are related by blood, so I have the right to talk all the shit I want about them 👏
Just start replying with, "have you reminded them of that because I'm the one they terrorize and I'm their *insert relationship in reverse*. And yet I'm the only one yall try to remind like I don't already know that and it wasn't a contributing factor to why I cut them out since they weren't acting like it..."
“ he’s still your dad “ those are the words of someone who didn’t have an abuse parent.
I think you just summoned half my family
That just means I have more dirt on them than any of their buddies
"Mum, you said that if I didn't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all, so I'm going to sit here and wait until I can get food"
That's literally every visit I have with family. Just shut up and eat and hope I don't have to spend the night because I can't keep quiet forever.
"We're here to turn up, sorry! Here to celeb--Shit sorry! Here to congratu--sorry."
“I know they did X but they’re still your Z” everyone who says this to justify abuse or toxic behavior needs to be backhanded
With a hammer
Yup! 👊🏾
No, not backhanded. They need to relive their live with an abusive parent and get the trauma for themselves
With a chair...to the face. 🙃
It's always "don't react like that, they're still a member of your family" and never "how could they do this to you? how could they do this to a family member?"
Lucius mafoy he signed his son up for a colt so he wouldn’t die and when Draco told him about his problems he listened
I would like to add to the list of shitty but not too shitty fathers:
- Tywin Lanister
- Homer Simpson
- The Emperor of Mankind (Warhammer 40.000)
Dads who aren't too shitty:
- Hal from "Malcolm In The Middle"
- Dean and Sam's Dad from "Supernatural"
- Bowser
@@TheEmbessyNetwork Dr. Doof is one
@@robin9759 yeah but like Doof's lowkey a really good dad tho. So he he doesn't belong in the list of "shitty but not too shitty dad's" per say.
@@robin9759 Don't you dare lump Doof in with all these deadbeat assholes. John Winchester could NEVER.
Endeavor: at least tried to fix his relationship with his kids
Homie even hated himself at the end.
And he was training Shoto.
Been searching for this comment lol😂
As the child of an abusive addict this just made me feel so much better about the negative feelings I have for my father, so many family members are like “well he’s your father so you have to love and respect him” no I don’t, no one is required to love or respect or really feel any particular way about another person unless they earn it.
THIS THIS THIS, I don’t get why people demand you respect your father when he took that respect and abused the power he had from it. Everyone keeps telling me to respect him, but he’s gotta earn that $#!+
@@cj_comments I mean in every other aspect of life you are told that if you want respect you have to earn it, what makes parents any different? Nothing. Most people respect their parents because they’ve worked to make a good life for their kids aka earned it.
Sounds like the kind of thing that should be taught to you by your father.
*sips tea*
“Their still your family member” is always the weakest excuse I wouldn’t condone child abusers racist or homophobes in real life so why would I care there In my family 🤨
*gets disowned*
Family: "but he disowned you, not the other way around, so you gotta play nice, and talk like he was a good dad-"
"He's still your father."
Dead dad who disowned her: no I'm not
Her: ya, no he's not
At least Gon’s dad showed him to go out and get whatever you want 😂
XD Yes 👏
Yup
And did make time to catch up
I have asked people who follow that ass backwards logic that "well they are your relative, you should still love them" Two things.
1. Why weren't you giving THEM a "love your relative speech" when they were abusing me??
and
2. If it would be considered wrong for a romantic partner/friend/coworker/stranger in the street to treat me this way, why is it ok for a relative to do it? If family is "supposed" to love you?
I never get an answer, only this blank ass expression😐
Family: He’s still your father
Me: mmmm I don’t remember having a “father” who actually raised me
At least Tywin wanted Tyrion's children to rule the north. That man was creating opportunities for his son😂😂😂😂
FR it’s like people expect you to completely forget about everything a person did to you just because something tragic happened to them.
Right
@@karaigrayson8198 the only reason they don’t want you saying shit is because they don’t want to feel uncomfortable 😒
EXACTLY
That Karmic hand of justice finally comes around for their ass and took it's nice juicy bite!! Suddenly they want to act all prayed up and forgiving...PLEASE!! That is the number one reason why I don't subscribe to the notion of forgiving other people things. I'm more of a believer in Karmic Justice.
“Hes still your dad.”
“Hilter was also a dad.”
Lmfao fr
“He just wanted to get me a job…that’s kinda nice..”
The Third Hokage: Yeah, he neglected Naruto and let him raise himself into a somewhat feral child, but at least he provided housing and some funds for the small child to live on with no adult assistance.
Frankly the fact that Naruto didn't turn out more mal-adjusted is the real miracle. Being shunned by everyone for something outside your control would fuck a kid up.
@@eduardomantilla2143 the fact the living superweapon somehow managed to develop a desire to stop his abusers by being awesome instead of slaughtering them all is the bigger miracle.
@@eduardomantilla2143 I think Iruka Sensei's probably to thank for that.
@@alexcurrie4514Iruka sensei, shikamaru, choji, and kiba are the MVPs of his childhood
4 fire lord ozai, he helped his son bond with his uncle and become friends with the avatar.
I meeeeeean aside from from the whole "take over the universe" and physical mutilation bits Vader actually WAS a pretty good dad. Immediately went to look for his adult kid after someone finally told him they exist, actively wants to be a part of their life, tried to connect with them the best he could, offered them a job where they would be working in close proximity to try and make up for lost time together, and ultimately sacrificed everything he had spent the better portion of his life building so that his kid could have a chance at the life they wanted...
Wenwu: Trained his kid to be the best assassin on Earth and when he knew said kid just straight up ran away and abandoned the mission, gave him 10 years to live his life, got him to reunite with his sister and when he realised he was wrong, left him his strongest weapons as inheritance. Also saved him from a soul-eating monster after having a fight with him
I think Shang did kill his target, but didnt want to return to his sister that way.
Everything is still facts tho!
My mum just passed away the other day and I feel the "oh but she was still your mother" thing. 🙄 Fortunately I don't think I'll be made to speak at her funeral, but I'm still not looking forward to having to socialise with people who don't know how toxic a relationship it was... 😓
At least you don't don't have to put up with her bullshit
You've got my sympathy and empathy. Recently dead dad myself, way too many people making excuses for his toxicity.
Don't go?
Bring confetti to the funeral
You don’t get to say “he’s still your father” to someone the man *disowned*
My Dad abandoned me as a little kid because ‘he can’t stand little children’ despite me completely idolising him. He ignored me every time I begged for his attention or praised him. I continued to idolise him after he left because I was too young to realise that he had actually left us. Years later, he came back when I’m a teenager and more mature. I quickly realise how much of an ass he really was and stopped idolising him. He didn’t like this and accused me of turning against him like my mother did. My mother didn’t start hating him until he forced her to quit her job with the promise that he would support us but instead left her with two kids to raise on her own with no job.
I can’t believe that he’s surprised that we all hate him.
He sound like shit. Wow. My heart goes out to your mother, as well to you and your sibling. That's just messed up what he did. And that he thought that he can just come back into your lives after abandoning you all? Because he "can't stand little children" he thought he could leave his kids' lives when they were young and return into thier live when they were older and more mature? Naw, that's just ridiculous. I hope that you, your mother, and your sibling are doing well now. 🙏
Yep. I can’t believe he’s surprised either. Wishing the best for your life.
I can’t believe he would do that to you. Glad you’re doing better now.
You get what you give. We know they're your parents but at the same time they do deserve this. Death should not be the reason to change how you feel about someone. Make it right while you still have the chance for genuine good reasons.
"He is still your father"
Me: Do I look like I care? Oh wait I do. I'm full of emotions for him. And they're all hatred.
Don’t let them know your next move
I always wondered what I’d say if they asked me to give a eulogy for my father, because “He was a manipulative asshole who caused 90% of my personal issues and the world is better off without him in it” probably wouldn’t go over well
Hey, if that's all true(I'm trusting the word of a random internet stranger), then you've grown into an honest person! There should be honesty in a eulogy, right?
Honestly, if someone is perfectly apt to give an eulogy of someone, it's their kid. The funeral is primarily for you and your siblings. (And the SO/parents if they're still alive, but I suppose the father here is an older person. And even then I think the kids take precedence). Not the friends who only knew him on his good days.
You are the most impacted by your father's death, so you can say whatever you want at the funeral.
On top of that at least for Gamora Thanos seemed to actually care about her. Even going as far as sitting on the steps when Gamora said she didn’t like his chair.
“He was still your father”
“Who spent all his money on alcohol or drugs or in the betting offices and he was not shy about telling everyone who he owed money too that he couldn’t pay them back because he had to pay child support. In fact he did his best parenting by staying far away from me and just being an example of how not to act. There that’s your positive thing.”
I was honestly waiting to hear Ozai listed off
"He took his son back when good enough was good enough," might hurt too much for everyone who knows these characters?
Imagine she said Zhou tucker from Fullmetal alchemist 💀, i would have died
Girl I am right there with you 100% found out my dad had a health scare the other day. I started laughing when I heard the news. He’s a terrible creature, not even human.
“I won’t cause any drama.” Famous last words
I would've got up there and straight up said
My dad was a bitch but my family is forcing me to say fake nice stuff about him
My old man is still shit, kicked me out at 9 years old. Then made me walk to my grandparents house that was 19 km away in a apex predator area during the fall time... the time of the year that animals eat anything and everything to bulk up for hibernation.
May I borrow your speech for when my dather dies. Lol 😆
Endeavor is having a redemption arc so there is that, we know that the Firelord loved Azula and he took Zuko back that one time, Asami's dad also had a redemption arc and died for her, Midoriya's dad still probably sends money, Ging talked to Gon that one time, Shang-Chi's dad also died for his kids and left them his organization and some cool rings, Lucious was a monster to other people but we know he loved Draco, Odin died apologizing to most of his kids
I didn't realize there was so many bad fathers, T.V/movies WTF.
@@animerockgirl1 I mean, fiction often tends to reflect reality so......
Darth Vader was trying to give Luke the family business. But he didn’t like his business partner or business practices.
Yeah I feel this one. My dad died about 2 years ago...actually right around now, don't remember exact day. But yeah, didn't even really care when I heard he died. Avoided him like the plague for the last 25 years of my life, don't really care that he's gone.
Not me who keeps laughing on the fact that the book is closed while shes reading😆
I was like "is she gonna go for Endeavor?" Lol, whenever someone talks about horrible dad characters, he's the first to pop up in my mind
What about that guy from Fullmetal alchemist? Who literally turned his wife, daughter and dog into monsters.
@@animerockgirl1 I've never watched that show, is it good?
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I really appreciate your honesty. I didn’t even go to my dads funeral (it was actually a Zoom memorial but yeah). It’s interesting the thought process of people. He’s still “your father” but never acted or treated you like he was your father….that’s not a father that’s some ninja that skeeted then BOOM you appear. Yes, I still have issues I’m working out about my “father” lol 😂 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 I’d probably name other fictional dads in movies then talk about him also! Still my father my fat butt😝
"he's still your father"
Relative Kai should soon learn the fatal mistake they did b saying this sentence
“He’s still your father” “she’s still your mother”
….and what??? Literally terrible people produce children all the time. I HATE that line it’s literally “disregard everything they did they are the reason you exist” I don’t gotta do anything for them I practically live my life to spite the middle finger they gave it originally
I've dreamed of this sort of situation since I was 8. My biodad was abusive and it wasn't until I finally cut him and anyone who even listened to his bullshit that I realized. My life is more full and bright without him invading my thoughts. Poisoning my current mind with thoughts of him.
And I made a promise to myself. If he dies. I won't go to the funeral. But if he is buried. I will spit. Or curse his darned grave to give myself that closure to know one less monster is in the world.
Because I don't need the validation of the family that consorts with a man who is a class 3 sex offender. But I'm up for my mental health getting to close the book on one of my worst personal demons. And idk what happens when we die and maybe hexing a grave makes his afterlife worse?
She didn’t *cause* any drama, she simply *exposed* some… *While pouring hot tea on his corpse!*
“I’m so sick and tired of hearing but they are still ____ “ I heard that all the time when my father passed. I was 13.
childrens love is a not a commodity to be bought and sold it’s not a implied power to make your kids feel guilty for being born. Someone being dead doesn’t negate what they did to other while they were still alive. Death shouldn’t erase mistakes.
Hi-key, I’m always proud of people who can own these feelings & get them out. I love your content & wish you the best. You deserve this moment and I hope you continue alchemizing every part of this life experience into more success. ❤️🙏
Me: (Goes to his funeral after years of being disowned)
Everyone: ...
Me: (Clears my throat, looks in his coffin, and sheds a tear)
Backstabbing stepmother: "Why-why are you crying? I thought you hated him."
Me: "I did, but I'm upset cause I wasn't the one who pulled the plug."
Family: He was still family, be nice on his funeral at least.
Nicque: This is the nicest I can be with him.
PS, sorry for spelling mistakes
Also, wish you to have a peaceful healing process.
Darth Vader 😂😂😂😂 my abusive mother died in March and I am SO feeling your whole series here like a window into my soul. I’m not sorry your dad died, but I am sorry for all the crap he put you through!!
Ya know, this is probably gonna be my cousin at her deadbeat/absent but still living in her house but papers are coming soon dad's funeral when his smoking and drinking catch up to him.
I'll be clapping as she roasts him.
(He deserves it, he has threatened to kill their young cats for scratching my younger cousin, and said it too her.)
I would love to say the same thing when my dad dies
Thanos actually cared about his kids even though he tried to kill and killed them if you look 👀 at his face it pains him too hurt them.
Ps: please don’t hurt me
Me: “Endevour- at least he had money and fame, my father is a lazy broke bum”
Yo can I borrow this When my dad's time comes.
It weirdly makes me feel a little better to see you openly disliking your dad
Like, don't get me wrong, I'm so sorry you had a shitty dad and I wouldn't wish that on anyone
But I always feel kinda guilty for resenting mine over things he did, because my family is the "yeah he's shitty BUT HES FAMILY AND YOU NEED TO LOVE AND FORGIVE" type. It's nice to see someone not taking it just because of that
Not only did Vader just want to get his son a job (as the co-ruler of a galaxy-spanning empire), he also gave up his job and his *LIFE* to save Luke from Palpatine!
watching you say out loud the things I wish I could say about certain family members is deeply cathartic
he's still your father
Me: and im still the daughter that while on the floor having a panic attack he caused, he spent that hour on his phone looking at stock and going through my cabinets.
I was half expecting Endeavor to be on that list… cause by the looks of it, at least he actually slowly changed his ways
When my dad died I was able to get them to delete his memorial page by telling them how he really was. Vader would have been nicer atleast he had a Cape hahah have a great day
Howard Stark loved his kid he just had a very unhealthy way of showing it
This. I was just happy that his "lady" friend was such a dupe that she paid for everything. And ole gal was jealous so she was talking sh*t about me and how her kids are the only ones he had. I was like cool cuz at the repast I got a huge ass plate of food, hugged my aunts and dipped out with my cousins. We all got drinks and got so f-ed up talking about the dysfunction in our family. We all came to the conclusion of f that guy/girl
I can't wait for mine to kick off.
“He’s still your father”
“And he’s still the man I hate more than life itself. Nothings changed.”
When people hear about the abusive relationship with a father/mother/family member, they will go "bUt ThEy'Re fAmiLy", but if you'd change the name into "bf/gf/significant other", suddenly everyone will tell you to run...
I'm sorry for your loss. Not the whole relationship thing with your dad but the whole people trying to force you to feel how they want you to feel. You get the closure the way you want and don't take crap from nobody. It's okay to be angry, sad, happy, relieved or indifferent. It doesn't make you different. This makes you human.
"She's your stepmom and she cares for you"
"But she isn't my mom and I'm not her daughter so when she disrespects me I have the right to tell her off and disrespects her since respect is earned"
"You still hold a grudge don't you"
"Ofc I hold a grudge,I would've had a eating disorder if my mom didn't step in"
My friend had a terrible dad (mum ran away when he was 7 bc he abused her in like all ways, and she couldn't divorce him because he would have probably killed her and her plan was that he and his brother were removed by social services, sadly his little brother (5) died due his father's negligence and my friend was removed). He was loved by his grandparents who were foster parents and has a loving family now.
Recently his dad called because he has cancer. He wants to make amends while taking no responsibility for his sins (basically blaming my friend for being small and weak rather than a quarterback). He is also very homophobic and my friend is gay so there's that.
His dad will die soon and probably pull some shit. I'll send him this to prepare his speech.
I am honestly so happy since I moved away. I never knew about real family until I met my family in law. They treated me so much better and actually showed they loved me. I felt like family the moment I first met them. I am glad I had the opportunity to escape but I am praying for all that didn't get that chance.
Homer Simpson: at least he didn't drink to the point of ripping apart his family.🙃
I can't wait to be king after my dad dies. That's how it goes, right?
Yes, I’d go this that eulogy! 10/10
Bruh I knew it was bad when she said “Howard Stark”
Odin he threw all 3 of his kids put but at least he left the throne to one of them
You should include endeavor
Grisha Yeager at least he gave his son power and answers.
Number 4: Hisashi Midoriya
*can't be an asshole if you're not there*
The phone call went like this for me;
"Lee, your dad passed"
"Oh, ok. Thanks for the info. Have a good day"
"Oh.... Ok.... Bye"
This is pretty close to what I fantasize about saying at my own dad's funeral when he dies
Fictional terrible dads "1st Howard Stark - 2nd Thanos - 3rd Darth Vader." 🤔
"...still family..."
Genetic disposition doesn't guarantee a relationship, or make it automatically mandatory to "play nice".
Why is that so hard to grasp?!
"He's still your father."
"Yeah, and he threw a hammer at your head and barely missed. What's your point?"
** insert lyrics to Requiem from dear Evan Hansen**
Im going to say it...................Endeavor......yeah i said it
My favorite part is how you made Howard Stern fictional AND dead! 🤣
I mean since he disowned you technically he ain't your father meaning go crazy.
"They're still your (whatever)
And that's MY fault?
Ya know at least my family (his side included) understands. 😂😂 Cuz we all out here acting like he's voldemort. Oh and in case we have to refur to him it's just: you know who, it, (name), my other (blank)
Didn't attend my father's funeral. Got so much shit about how I was a terrible daughter.
Like yea well who raised me to be so terrible? 😆 Sorry daddy-o just taking a page from your book
There are definitely occasions where party hats and noisemakers are appropriate funeral attire.