That therapy is white people's s hit me hard. When I went to family with eating disorder I was told that was for white girls instead of getting assistance. In my 40s I'm still dealing (in therapy!). Also that lazy quote "pray on it" sooooo triggering!! I feel you sis!!
I’m in my 50’s and I just got the courage to Get A List of Therapists! I’ve been gaslighted about treating my anxiety to get the root of some stuff. And the pray on it, tithe on it 😮, just stop eating, just take a drug never helped and is now triggering!
To be fair most dads in MHA . Even hisashi midoriya is better at least he’s obviously financially maintaining his family abroad. Endeavor made it plain what his children purpose was and why . Also he does believe in therapy considering his wife is getting treatment .
And Endeavor can admit he was wrong. My dad can’t do that shit to save his own life. Like he didn’t took me the er when I sprained my ankle because he made up this mind that I was being dramatic and wouldn’t even consider he could be wrong and wanted me to walk back home. My stepmom who hated me was the one to take me. Same thing when I got stung by a jellyfish and he still won’t accept that I have Asperger on the basis that he doesn’t think I have it and that I shouldn’t put myself in a box (he actually gave me the same don’t label yourself bs when I came out as bi) even though I was professionally diagnosed with it. It’s been 17 years and still adamant I’m not neurodivergent!!! Agh! So yeah Endeavor recognizing he’s flaming trash and trying to fix it and accepting his kids resentment is kinda huge here!
@@DLGholston Horrendous mindset. Endeavor was an abuser. Also, why the hell was that your response to me saying Endeavor being called an "asshole" is an understatement. Tf
How about Palpatine as Anakin’s father because technically he was. He gave Anakin a job, raised him, and help him reach what Palpatine believed to be his full potential.
And while it was blatant manipulation for the purpose of grooming (which then immediately flipped to criticism and abuse once he had what he wanted), Palpatine did encourage Anakin and praise his accomplishments (before he became Vader)
Have you done Odin yet? Even though there was a lot of sketchy shit in terms of raising Loki, at least he acknowledged Loki as his child & respected their queer identity (in the comics, bc said queer identity doesn't exist in the MCU).
Odin literally did what he thought was best for Loki, trying to make him feel like he belonged in Asgardian society Like, imagine telling your child "oh btw you know that thing all of your friends want to grow up and kill? yeah that's you"
What about Reginald Hargreeves from The Umbrella Academy? Sure he traumatized and mentally, physically, and emotionally abused his adopted children, but he trained them, gave them education (Shady and questionable it may be) provided them a home, and got a nanny and butler to rear them. And no, those aren't tears coming out of my eyes.
It warms my shriveled heart to see parents of color getting called out for generational BS instead of Excusinh it and saying “there still your family”🤦🏾♂️
I was fortunate - my dad broke what could have become a cycle by being there. HIS father, on the other hand, well.... At my grandfather's funeral (and i use very loose qualifiers when i call it that; the whole thing lasted 25 minutes, total), my dad gave the closest thing there was to a eulogy, and when he did, he made it not about his father, but rather expressing love and support for his father's BROTHER, who made more of an effort to periodically check in on and spend time with him as a kid than his own father ever did, despite my great uncle residing halfway across the entire US, and my grandfather living right there in the same small town. On the surface, Dad said he was honoring his parent, in accordance with the 5th Commandment, but that was still the shadiest goodbye middle finger I ever saw. I was legitimately impressed.
During my dad’s funeral (I was in my early 20s, & my equally horrible mother made me go to be her ‘emotional support’), the preacher started talking about how “The dearly departed was so worried for some in his family who had strayed from the Lord’s path in recent years.” My mother suddenly got Hulk strength in her right hand, gripping mine into the pew, and whispering loudly, “He’s talking about your Uncle Hugh!” Luckily that was less traumatizing than frankly hilarious, & I had to spend the rest of the service trying to keep my laughter somewhat restrained. ‘Cause, sure ma: he’s talking about his eldest brother that never was religious, & not the children he abused who stopped wanting any connection to him or the church (which was complicit in the abuse of a lot of kids.) ETA: taking your kids money & invalidating therapy - wow, do bad parents also get a handbook that they follow? Is there a whole section of ‘bad parenting books’ that are sent out to certain families, because that hits too hard.
God I related to the therapy part so much. I desperately need therapy or something, like anything at this point. My dad doesn't believe in it, just believes it's a waste of time and money, meanwhile my friends are actually getting better and I'm just stuck like :'D
1. The rich kid's dad in Flyboys. At least he wanted his kid to make something of himself. 2. Almost every ruler in history (not fictional, but bear with me), because the vast majority of them tried to secure their kids' futures. 3. Zeus, because he still wanted his kids to succeed, and turned at least one of them into a god.
🤔 you missed the point ... The dads can be exemplary citizen for all she cares ... It's all about how they are with their children .. and yes he did nothing wrong .. but he also did nothing so no nitpick 😇
Literally every parent in Stranger Things is hilariously useless and have ZERO idea what's going on with their kids. Save for Joyce and Hopper. Jopper would do anything for their kids. .....UUUGGHHH! "therapy is, and I quote, 'white people shit'." Honestly, I'm not sure if this is cathartic or just reminding me of the EXACT awful things my biodad would say.
Yeah, I was a kid in the 80's and my mom knew where I was every second, without GPS or a cell. I joke that she invented helicopter parenting. (Pssst: She so did) She'd chip me, if I were a kid now, if that's legal. Lol.
Don't think you need my help in your list but Ging abandoned his kid and still made a way to be in Gon's life (Greed Island) and Minato put fail safe after fail safe to make sure his kid didn't die from his power boost , Lucius Malfoy, Orochimaru, Sasuke , etc.
Why did we invite her?😂😂 I don’t know, because u thought his death was going to change the way she felt about him!🤣🤣 I love this woman’s acting she can literally do almost anything!👏👏
I'm so dead. I come to enjoy this series so much that when I saw one I went Oh God there's another! 🤣 From one person with a deadbeat parent to another bless you and thank you for blessing us with your accurate comedy.
The father in Evangelion, the father in DNAngel, the fathers in Naruto, the father in Fullmetal Alchemist, all the fathers in anime who DIE immediately after apologizing for being a lazy, good-for-nothing, deadbeat and promising to be there to support their loved ones from then on, causing even MORE trauma to those around them and a new complex that now includes survivors guilt.
Homer Simpson, because he didn't destroy his daughter's self esteem. Even reassured her by contacting all of his relatives to show her the Simpson Gene wouldn't effect her like it did all the boys and men including Bart. He never once tore down her ambitions even if he didn't understand them all. He didn't always put his family first, and there were plenty times he sucked as both a father and a spouse, but they never went without.
Yay you used my suggestion Doctor Brenner lol. Loved the Stranger things eulogy. I don’t Vecnas dad was bad just didn’t know how to handle things with PTSD
Toxic Mothers Version in case anyone wants some catharsis... Potential Spoilers ahead *Odalia Blight* didnt bat a fucking eye at assisting with genocide, but at least she wanted her kid(s) to be well off in a high social class.
Endeavor; because even though he abused and neglected his wife and children, he still tried his best to be an amazing hero, and then, tried to reconcile with his family before he died.
I haven't been watching stranger things, and all my friends are buzzing about it, so this is some good context for aspects of the show I might want to know to keep up with the conversation while still having no interest in committing the time to actually watch it.
You’re also forgetting about the father from it you know the one that would constantly sniff his daughter you know that guy that that guy and you know that weird guy and there is also William Afton who pretty much let his children die and also murdered a bunch of people and also just like refuses to stay dead because like he’s been burned in a furry suit three separate times it has came back those three separate times oh and I also forgot to mention the teacher from and with Ani you know that teacher that had an a legal relationship with one of his students in order for her to get better grades you know that teacher that teacher that you know the weird teacher we all hate that teacher
Dunno if you've already covered it but umbrella academy Dad? Bordering on child abuse but he gave them a fancy mansion to grow up in and a job and a life purpose and always gives them advice when they go to him for it 🤷♀️ (I'm only on ep 3 tho so not got the full picture yet)
I know she's a mom and not a dad but I want to include Teleya front The Orville. She may be a complete deadbeat who chose being a dictator over being a parent and uses religion to justify it and won't even give her daughter to her father who does actually care, but at least she uses her own money to provide for her and left her with caretakers.
Ooh what about the doctors who experimented on homelander. Even though they taught him to become an absolute psychopath, at least they were kind enough to give him a blanket for comfort. And occasionally peep in on him and play games even if it was from protective barrier. Not to mention they're also somewhat there for him every time he commits another atrocity as they are willing to cover it up for the sake of his sanity and image. In fact, homelander is a better father because at least he's willing to take time out of his day to play with his child. Sure. He's teaching his child horrible things but he's made it abundantly clear that he's there for his son, he wants to provide for his son and he would do anything for him. Not to mention he also comforted him when he was having a panic attack.
Ooh I got a good one that would apply for my dad bc he's a pos too, the mayor from buffy tvs. Bc even tho he was super evil and killed some people, he really cared for faith like a real father would. And he gave a place to live and 🎁
Off topic but, I noticed you got a really nice tan so I was curious on whether you were just spending more time outside or if you went on vacation recently
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I might be overanalyzing things... but I get the impression you weren't exactly fond of your father.
Oh You have no idea
Yeah there’s seem to be a lot of hatred
You, an empath: “I’m sensing she wasn’t a fan”
Yeah no shit Sherlock 😒
@@karaigrayson8198 it was a joke calm down
That therapy is white people's s hit me hard. When I went to family with eating disorder I was told that was for white girls instead of getting assistance. In my 40s I'm still dealing (in therapy!). Also that lazy quote "pray on it" sooooo triggering!! I feel you sis!!
I hope your doing better
The "pray about it" reminded me of my Dad suggesting me to confess to a Catholic priest about my mental health. 🙃
@@karaigrayson8198 thank you; getting tools and knowing oneself better certainly helps 👍🏾
I’m in my 50’s and I just got the courage to Get A List of Therapists! I’ve been gaslighted about treating my anxiety to get the root of some stuff. And the pray on it, tithe on it 😮, just stop eating, just take a drug never helped and is now triggering!
That kinda feels somehow simultaneously racist to both white people and to your race. With some sexism mixed in too.
To be fair most dads in MHA . Even hisashi midoriya is better at least he’s obviously financially maintaining his family abroad. Endeavor made it plain what his children purpose was and why . Also he does believe in therapy considering his wife is getting treatment .
Also I heard that Endeavor is TRYING to be a better father after being an asshole.
@@aliceveil622 "Being an asshole" is one hell of an understatement lol
@@dopaminevamp399 there are far worst dads in anime/fiction than Endeavor
And Endeavor can admit he was wrong. My dad can’t do that shit to save his own life. Like he didn’t took me the er when I sprained my ankle because he made up this mind that I was being dramatic and wouldn’t even consider he could be wrong and wanted me to walk back home. My stepmom who hated me was the one to take me. Same thing when I got stung by a jellyfish and he still won’t accept that I have Asperger on the basis that he doesn’t think I have it and that I shouldn’t put myself in a box (he actually gave me the same don’t label yourself bs when I came out as bi) even though I was professionally diagnosed with it. It’s been 17 years and still adamant I’m not neurodivergent!!! Agh! So yeah Endeavor recognizing he’s flaming trash and trying to fix it and accepting his kids resentment is kinda huge here!
@@DLGholston Horrendous mindset. Endeavor was an abuser.
Also, why the hell was that your response to me saying Endeavor being called an "asshole" is an understatement. Tf
How about Palpatine as Anakin’s father because technically he was. He gave Anakin a job, raised him, and help him reach what Palpatine believed to be his full potential.
And while it was blatant manipulation for the purpose of grooming (which then immediately flipped to criticism and abuse once he had what he wanted), Palpatine did encourage Anakin and praise his accomplishments (before he became Vader)
Yea he manipulated the shit out of him and every other dark lord
@@williamtarver5635 It seems you’ve missed the point of the video: horrible father figures that are still better than her dad.
You forgot he gave him some kick-ass threads and a cool voice when he came back as Darth Vader.
Have you done Odin yet? Even though there was a lot of sketchy shit in terms of raising Loki, at least he acknowledged Loki as his child & respected their queer identity (in the comics, bc said queer identity doesn't exist in the MCU).
Odin literally did what he thought was best for Loki, trying to make him feel like he belonged in Asgardian society
Like, imagine telling your child "oh btw you know that thing all of your friends want to grow up and kill? yeah that's you"
What about Reginald Hargreeves from The Umbrella Academy? Sure he traumatized and mentally, physically, and emotionally abused his adopted children, but he trained them, gave them education (Shady and questionable it may be) provided them a home, and got a nanny and butler to rear them.
And no, those aren't tears coming out of my eyes.
Fair point. Hope she does some content regarding that show. It's awesome!
It warms my shriveled heart to see parents of color getting called out for generational BS instead of Excusinh it and saying “there still your family”🤦🏾♂️
I was fortunate - my dad broke what could have become a cycle by being there. HIS father, on the other hand, well....
At my grandfather's funeral (and i use very loose qualifiers when i call it that; the whole thing lasted 25 minutes, total), my dad gave the closest thing there was to a eulogy, and when he did, he made it not about his father, but rather expressing love and support for his father's BROTHER, who made more of an effort to periodically check in on and spend time with him as a kid than his own father ever did, despite my great uncle residing halfway across the entire US, and my grandfather living right there in the same small town. On the surface, Dad said he was honoring his parent, in accordance with the 5th Commandment, but that was still the shadiest goodbye middle finger I ever saw. I was legitimately impressed.
During my dad’s funeral (I was in my early 20s, & my equally horrible mother made me go to be her ‘emotional support’), the preacher started talking about how “The dearly departed was so worried for some in his family who had strayed from the Lord’s path in recent years.”
My mother suddenly got Hulk strength in her right hand, gripping mine into the pew, and whispering loudly, “He’s talking about your Uncle Hugh!”
Luckily that was less traumatizing than frankly hilarious, & I had to spend the rest of the service trying to keep my laughter somewhat restrained.
‘Cause, sure ma: he’s talking about his eldest brother that never was religious, & not the children he abused who stopped wanting any connection to him or the church (which was complicit in the abuse of a lot of kids.)
ETA: taking your kids money & invalidating therapy - wow, do bad parents also get a handbook that they follow? Is there a whole section of ‘bad parenting books’ that are sent out to certain families, because that hits too hard.
God I related to the therapy part so much. I desperately need therapy or something, like anything at this point. My dad doesn't believe in it, just believes it's a waste of time and money, meanwhile my friends are actually getting better and I'm just stuck like :'D
1. The rich kid's dad in Flyboys. At least he wanted his kid to make something of himself.
2. Almost every ruler in history (not fictional, but bear with me), because the vast majority of them tried to secure their kids' futures.
3. Zeus, because he still wanted his kids to succeed, and turned at least one of them into a god.
Vecna's dad wasn't evil, he did one bad thing during war and regretted it very deeply
A little nitpick I have, otherwise great vid as always ♡
🤔 you missed the point ... The dads can be exemplary citizen for all she cares ... It's all about how they are with their children .. and yes he did nothing wrong .. but he also did nothing so no nitpick 😇
@@neckela7097 he seemed like a good dad imo
Just clueless about what his son what was on about, just like other average stranger things dad
@@Sabrina-sc1db totally on the same page on the clueless part !
The worst dad in there is Nancy's and Mike's...
@@neckela7097 Er... Don't forget Max' and Billy's
@@neckela7097 I was gonna say Will's dad but at least he left
Mike's dad is there and doesn't shup up
Yep, sounds like an emotionally absent Black man of the 60’s-70’s era.
Literally every parent in Stranger Things is hilariously useless and have ZERO idea what's going on with their kids. Save for Joyce and Hopper. Jopper would do anything for their kids.
.....UUUGGHHH! "therapy is, and I quote, 'white people shit'." Honestly, I'm not sure if this is cathartic or just reminding me of the EXACT awful things my biodad would say.
Yeah, I was a kid in the 80's and my mom knew where I was every second, without GPS or a cell. I joke that she invented helicopter parenting. (Pssst: She so did) She'd chip me, if I were a kid now, if that's legal. Lol.
I am going to this for both my parents, it is decided!
😂😂😂
I wish you the best of luck
Gee, both huh? Well, when that day comes, do not hold back
Hah!! Finally first like on a video. Completely arbitrary and pointless achievement. But I am one proud mamajama!
Parental abuse is the worlds strongest unifier
And the quickest way to go to therapy
KEEP IT GOING!! GET IT ALL OUT!!!!
*hugs*
Damn, woman. This is amazing. Makes me want to write one of these for my deadbeat brother for his eventual death.
Don't think you need my help in your list but Ging abandoned his kid and still made a way to be in Gon's life (Greed Island) and Minato put fail safe after fail safe to make sure his kid didn't die from his power boost , Lucius Malfoy, Orochimaru, Sasuke , etc.
Why did we invite her?😂😂
I don’t know, because u thought his death was going to change the way she felt about him!🤣🤣
I love this woman’s acting she can literally do almost anything!👏👏
Is it weird to find this cathartic on a personal level for my own issues with my dad?
I think a lot of us are feeling that
I'm so dead. I come to enjoy this series so much that when I saw one I went Oh God there's another! 🤣
From one person with a deadbeat parent to another bless you and thank you for blessing us with your accurate comedy.
The father in Evangelion, the father in DNAngel, the fathers in Naruto, the father in Fullmetal Alchemist, all the fathers in anime who DIE immediately after apologizing for being a lazy, good-for-nothing, deadbeat and promising to be there to support their loved ones from then on, causing even MORE trauma to those around them and a new complex that now includes survivors guilt.
Still saying Sho Tucker from FMA... At least he pretended to love his family or loved them in as far as it would help his career
Homer Simpson, because he didn't destroy his daughter's self esteem. Even reassured her by contacting all of his relatives to show her the Simpson Gene wouldn't effect her like it did all the boys and men including Bart. He never once tore down her ambitions even if he didn't understand them all. He didn't always put his family first, and there were plenty times he sucked as both a father and a spouse, but they never went without.
I would sit through this whole speech with popcorn in my hands, and clap afterwords while looking at the corpse’s cold dead eyes
Do Harry potter’s aunt and uncle next
Fuck yeah part 3!
Yay you used my suggestion Doctor Brenner lol. Loved the Stranger things eulogy. I don’t Vecnas dad was bad just didn’t know how to handle things with PTSD
Perhaps Alistair Fitz from Agents of SHIELD? He didn't leech off of his son after he abandoned him!
The best parent in Stranger Things is Steve.
Toxic Mothers Version in case anyone wants some catharsis...
Potential Spoilers ahead
*Odalia Blight* didnt bat a fucking eye at assisting with genocide, but at least she wanted her kid(s) to be well off in a high social class.
That's a big YIKES.
Oh how about deku's dad he might not be in the picture like at all but at least he sends money home to his wife and son
Endeavor; because even though he abused and neglected his wife and children, he still tried his best to be an amazing hero, and then, tried to reconcile with his family before he died.
Don’t just spill that tea. Throw the whole pot in their face! 😂
What about Soldier Boy?
Both my step dad and real dad are in jail for going insane 🙂👍😄😃
Hoooooney... That is some gnarly smoke you dishing out.... Save some for the repass, baby! Breathe!
There is a part 3...LOL
I haven't been watching stranger things, and all my friends are buzzing about it, so this is some good context for aspects of the show I might want to know to keep up with the conversation while still having no interest in committing the time to actually watch it.
Hi
You’re also forgetting about the father from it you know the one that would constantly sniff his daughter you know that guy that that guy and you know that weird guy and there is also William Afton who pretty much let his children die and also murdered a bunch of people and also just like refuses to stay dead because like he’s been burned in a furry suit three separate times it has came back those three separate times oh and I also forgot to mention the teacher from and with Ani you know that teacher that had an a legal relationship with one of his students in order for her to get better grades you know that teacher that teacher that you know the weird teacher we all hate that teacher
Just sitting here thinking about how my therapist made my problems worse.
Dunno if you've already covered it but umbrella academy Dad?
Bordering on child abuse but he gave them a fancy mansion to grow up in and a job and a life purpose and always gives them advice when they go to him for it 🤷♀️ (I'm only on ep 3 tho so not got the full picture yet)
I know she's a mom and not a dad but I want to include Teleya front The Orville. She may be a complete deadbeat who chose being a dictator over being a parent and uses religion to justify it and won't even give her daughter to her father who does actually care, but at least she uses her own money to provide for her and left her with caretakers.
Ooh what about the doctors who experimented on homelander. Even though they taught him to become an absolute psychopath, at least they were kind enough to give him a blanket for comfort. And occasionally peep in on him and play games even if it was from protective barrier. Not to mention they're also somewhat there for him every time he commits another atrocity as they are willing to cover it up for the sake of his sanity and image.
In fact, homelander is a better father because at least he's willing to take time out of his day to play with his child. Sure. He's teaching his child horrible things but he's made it abundantly clear that he's there for his son, he wants to provide for his son and he would do anything for him. Not to mention he also comforted him when he was having a panic attack.
Ooh I got a good one that would apply for my dad bc he's a pos too, the mayor from buffy tvs. Bc even tho he was super evil and killed some people, he really cared for faith like a real father would. And he gave a place to live and 🎁
How Have you just skipped the entire Greek pantheon of gods who are fucked up dad’s that were better than yours or at least mine
Have you done Zeus yet he may have had a temperamental wife who tried to kill his kids but at least he gave most of them recognition
These kind of eulogies could be so cathartic to us who went through abuse.
Wow. Your dad really wasn't a prize. 😟
Okay but is All for One a worse dad then this man? At least he kinda loved Tomura, in his own twisted way
What did her dad do?
I feel like i missed somthing…
Please make one with MHA dads
Lol relatable!
i love you're videos!!!!!
Do you need a hug Nicque?
Pt4 please
The end😂🤣
Xdddd true
🖒
Hii
Off topic but, I noticed you got a really nice tan so I was curious on whether you were just spending more time outside or if you went on vacation recently
All I can think about now is if he'd have sold you off like in Demon School. 👿
You forgot dr doof
Who is not so bad a dad after all and doesn't belong on this list.
@@iainwhite8617 your right
@@bunnycrypted6160 Thank You. I'm curious, did you get the reference I made?
@@iainwhite8617 yep