I'm sitting down in my room watching youtube.. meanwhile there are people out there who are saving the world right now.. what am I doing with my life? I'm sucks.. yeah, I agree with you haha..
Yes, but you will get over it in time. You will realise that this is just another utopic goal. To me, it is obvious that we, humans, do not possess the ability to learn from our past mistakes. We are doomed as species. Are you aware that we are still killing each other for the same reasons we did thousands of years ago? Because of race, ethnicity, religion, politics and economic advantages, sex and sexual orientation... Honestly, we are too stupid as species. Our thinking is rudimental, and we are still manipulated by religions (all 4200 of them), and all the political parties out there. Actually, there is no difference between religion and politics. They both rely on the same kind of structure. They both have dogmas, hierarchical systems, they all have contributing followers, some more fanatic than others...Oh, but we are experts when it comes to segregation and caste systems! There will always be people who will consider themselves above all others. It is so sad but the reality is that generally, people can't get along with each other.
This is honestly so accurate. I always have these thoughts running in my head and it's like I look at life like an abstract painting, trying to find it's meaning and understand it deeply or like an empty canvas and there are things I have to do to fill it with colors and turn it into a masterpiece.
personal attack right there 😂😂😂😂😂 especially that part when she goes from being positive to negative in an instant...the last part..and the crying soo accurate
I did get INFJ as well, I never found another INFJ male perhaps it's true and that's as rare as an unicorn, I'd like to add you as friend @Daichi-pz8oc
Not sure how I feel about this, all so true. Think my greatest lesson in life is that no matter how much I want to save the world, it's more important to save myself and so what if I do feel deeply at least I can feel.
@@LoveSumsItUp omg so true for us!!! I'm sick of helping Narcissists and getting screwed over. So exhausted and traumatized. Completely drained. Been alone for a long time now.
Exactly how I feel about life and now I don’t feel insane ! I just found out I am an INFJ and I took the Briggs test like 30 times and every time it was the same even if I answered slightly different ! This vid makes me feel understood !
Welcome to the club looks like most of us spend a lifetime thinking we are an " anomaly " in this planet until we find out what we are and... suddenly everything makes sense, then we read comments and are like: wow !!! I could have written it exactly the same way, crazy, scary, and wonderful at the same time. So yeah... you are not the only one, the good part ? we are indeed a few and we are not insame, just a bit different ( ok, a lot ha ha ha ) Regards
I’m scared… IS SHE A MIND READER!?! This is way too accurate… I have to do research on mind readers now! But for real this is very well done and accurate
This is so relatable, while working I always think my work is not contributing anything closer to save the world. Zoning out in between conversations. We (INFJs) constantly think and feel so much about everything visible. It's amusing to know I can relate to someone😊
So relatable, I think with me the only other thing I would add is the multiple lines of thought I have running simultaneously, but that might not be the INFJ part of me, just the potentially ADHD part of me.
Ah that 'thinking about him' part, or in my case 'thinking about her', that was exactly how it is. Eventhough that person hurts us, we still believe that it was not entirely their fault, that that's just who they are and its not their fault of turning out that way. You explained it very well in the video.
It's not their fault but you can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved. Eventually their self-loathing behavior will eat you alive. Raise your boundaries to your worth.
The_Danger_Man I agree 💯 they can break our hearts a million times but we understand why and it’s not completely their fault even though we want to be so angry with them. Getting over a relationship is horrific because we keep justifying why they treat us the way they do.
Make more INFJ skits! It's your most watched video and I love it Idea: you could add a helpful mental health support tip at the end of each one. This way you give the people what they want and do what you love as well. Wishing you well
_I need to analyse and know what my dreams means _Try to eat, put clothes, prepare bag, brush hair, and doing some other many things in same times, and think : I miss something ? _Watch people outside and on the tramway, try to guess their type, try to find other INFJs. _Does he like me, or not like me, he is INTJ I am sure, it's so weird if we both analuse each others, who is the most weird and Introvert than us 2. We could talk of so many things, but we both don't want act weird or hurt the other, respect the other. _Why I am so weird ? Who I am ? This is me who act like this so spontaneous ? I easily talk to people, but regred to told them so many things. _ Does I have to say Hi and good bye to all, so repetitive, I see them everyday, why I have to tell them Hi everyday ? Why they change this thing on the company, it's not better, it's not equality for all, who made this decision ? surely an T type. I think best decisions have to made both with logic and value, not only logic. Society, justice, equality, changing, we are in 2021 and we don't improve we do worse than better. We are in 2021, where is the future ? only in my mind. _ This ceiling, they put the light in the wrong number of square, this burnt stain on the wall, _ Lol people at work, they started the dishwasher every day this week, none of them put the dishes away. People ... why there are so negatives ? _ Oh again theses signs of anxiety, when will they disappear? Or it's ok let live with anxiety, I can do it, I am ok with this now. _ I have to eat again, like each day, I don't know what to eat, I feed up to eat, why we not just eat powder with water ? Do I have to buy food again tomorow, no it's ok I done it for 3 weeks and more, I have enought food for at least 1 month. _Why ? I don't understand myself, but I understand all, I can know all people if I guess their type, shit I see the world 2 level above most of people, and I can't share MBTI to all people, if I try they will find me weird and says me "What is this thing ?" They don't know the light, the gold, the knowledge it is. It's THE thing which can change our relations, improve ourselve, help the world if we work and understand each others. _After 32 years, family still don't understand and don't know me. I am a paradox and chaos. _Why do we have feelings, how mental health impact physical health ? Do I am happy or not happy, so weird, I feel both in same time. I am human ? How human function ? Woah I use my 2 brains, _What happen if the earth go in a black hole ? I want to see it. _ Thinking again to these ladybug dead next to my window and still here, and 2 hedgehogs that I have found dead in June. _What I do with me, with my feelings, with my life, what will happen next ? the next week, the next month, the next year. _Let's go to the bed at midnight. Oh it's 2 am now. Overthinking to so many things. _Ok this weekend, I will wash the floor, do painting, watch my video list, tidy, trow things, I want minimalist. I am tired. _ Just why ?
😂 that was so good !! Myself every day , every hour , every minute … I have to make a research about it and read as much as I can handle and think about it a bit more to come to a conclusion… ha ha ha Regards
perfect...love it! You even included some quantum physics (empty spaces)...so validating to hear another INFJ that likes to think in the same mindset as mine. I like how you explain how our wander-lust bug bites after we're couped up inside for too long, bravo! Though, I personally like how our "atoms" are made from "star" stuff, and it's not weird...we are one with the universe because we are made from it....life is beautiful, and so is this video. ~INFJ-A p.s. It's great when we look for and find an ENTP or ENFP friend/mate....they easily (unintrusive-ly) expand out our comfort zones and help us earn tons of sigma points...I highly recommend finding one or two, although one ENTP is enough.
Thank you so much for the comment. I'm glad you related, makes me feel understood. Yes, life is beautiful indeed. 😊 I do wish to have more extraverts in my life actually, I hope I can find a few soon.
I understand what you mean about finding an extrovert, INFJs being old souls with a childlike appreciation of the outdoor life, we are mature for our age. People are attracted to similar IQs and maturity level, and a lot of extroverts obey their immaturity, "childish" personality. Plus ENTPs and ENFPs are rarer in the extroverts spectrum. I would you find ENTPs at a gathering ( During one of my "Fe" extrusions) to be like the magician types, and they tend to pop up out of nowhere right next to me, because they are naturally drawn to an INFJ's aura. And if they engage me first, and start a fun banter that gets me rolling with my bantering fun, that's a good sign they're an ENTP. ENTPs are the most introverted of the extroverts and because they can give me that space of quietness and if I feel that it's a natural process with this person... that makes me even more curious about them. ENTPs like to show people cool "gems" they found in the city and love to take an INFJ with them to explore them together. Just make sure you know how to screen out a narcissist because they are proliferating. Good luck, and hopefully during one of your wander lusting, be on the lookout for them if one gets curious about you. I'm currently very interested in the ENFPs, so I watch their videos on TH-cam so I get to recognize their patterns outdoors. Happy hunting...
Just a side note... even if they are a narcissist it's well-documented that INFJs and narcissist tend the dance together, and if you go down the traits of an INFJs we seem specifically design to have a natural resistance to them...it's like they're the irresistible force up against an immovable object, that we can tolerate then until they trigger our psychological thermostat temperature settings, then it automatically triggers our door slam which is an INFJs perfect defense built into us if going no contact to toxicity. I found my biggest spiritual lessons in life was after dating borderline personality disorders, cuz the gift of the borderline is to reintroduce yourself to your inner child. Pizza and Love!
Oh and if you are infj girls think you got it bad with a narcissist try being a male infj that attracts the borderline personality disorder because they could dance circles around the narcissist. *smirk*
OK, thanks for the breach of privacy into my mind, especially with the "I am contributing to a bad system..." during the working section! 😅🤣 So accurate. Very good video... great work on this!
That was soo good, love it !!! So many scenes in your vid are like: you got them out of my head ha ha ha, and the last part crying it got my eyes wet ... and I am a Sigma male INFJ... shhhh my eyes are still wet ha ha ha. The part of the dead bug .... so relatable ... so we do care about his family, it is so nice to listen to others like me thinking the same. PS: when you get older, you realize that the world can´t be saved, because it has been like this always so you concentrate on saving something or someone just a bit every day. ohhh, and a piece of advice from an older INFJ: Take care of saving, taking care, and loving YOU FIRST !!! I have a nice quote for you I picked up on another comment section here, so enjoy : " We learn not just to sing in solitude, but to learn that solitude sings " Matthew Yang 2021 Beautiful isn't it? and so profound Love you guys Regards
You're right, it's impossible to save the world, but I will try my best to reach out to as many as possible. Thank you so much for the beautiful comment, sir. I loved the quote. 😊
@@ElifB1 you’re welcome 😇 and please I’m not so old to be called „ sir „ ha ha just turned 55 , some days I feel like I’m 35 and other ( mostly Friday after a long working week ) like I am 80 ha ha Take care Regards
WOW, I think i am an Infj too and this video made me laugh and smile 😀❤️❤️. You know, i wasn't feeling good but after watching this video. It really improved my mood a bit . Thanks Infj friend 🥰😘❤️.
When you fully awaken your ENFP shadow, the creativity just flows and you NEED to express it! that's just what its like! and we wouldnt have it any other way! -Spiritually awakened INFJ heyoka empath
OMG 😭❤ what happening? really exist someone that feel those things!!! I'm feeling smiling 🤣and crying😭 at the same time while i reading all comments and reminding what I just saw in this so beautiful video!!! 😆😊🙂
3:33 hahaa me every single time i go out to eat with a workmate. i feel so bad and try to tune in but i just can't. people who really know me are like "are you thinking" and I just say yes and keep pretending to listen. Certain people don't mind, they just need an imaginary person to talk to lol
Oh my God after searching 50years I finally found out what I am this has been me for 50 years I am nothing like any of my family and none of them can figure it out I wake up every morning for the past 50 years asking the question why am I so different people get aggravated with me even though I’m one of the nicest people you could ever meet all I want is peace in search for peace and peace for the world my whole life but it’s actually torturing every day to think this way when you know it can’t really happen this is mine blowing to me
Hahaha.....you are very funny.....thank you for your insightful video......very recognizable as an INFJ..love it a lot🙂🥰👍.....keep going, you are doing great!! Cheers from Belgium😉!!!
LOL! Yup, a pretty good picture of how I think a lot of the time with the exception of the bug! Yuck bugs, maybe the only thing I don't have too much empathy for! I do go through that thinking if I see a dead animal though : (
I came here like Oh gosh one more stereotyped video about the mythical Infj. Watch it entirely and it ended so perfect. So thank you and congrats. Anyways why am I commenting this... I have to save to the world :P
I live like that each day. Not a day goes by without me making up voiced for each character. I have quite a few actually, and my fiance Chrissy (I am Brian) I use her account here and friend of ours enjoy this so do my kids. Anyways they can get lost and picture the scenery, feel the emotions, and what each character looks like with how well I can tell each story and blend 3 at a time to fit a point or to make them just lose themselves in imagination
I was busy saving the world one narcissist or three narcissists at a time and I took a minute to watch this video, 100% btw but i have to go because I found a crippled veteran 4 years ago in a walmart reaching for an impossible item from his wheel chair and need to call him again today because he’s alone in the hospital. This is a true story, btw.
As I relate, I cringe about myself. 😅 Maybe the reason why I kept adjusting my personality, other than to please people's expectations, is to hide my very romantic ideas.
Dark world A world consumed in darkness All that's wrong is right No different shades of gray All just black and white Opposite of love is fear Controlling all the masses Chew you up and spit you out Burn you up to ashes What is here is gone What is gone is past Keep moving on Time moves too fast All that is good is evil All that is evil is good Hope I made my point Hope you understood Are we supposed to crash and burn? Or are we supposed to thrive? Only one thing is clear Just live while you're alive Live in present moment Don't worry about the past Future isn't here yet Nothing ever lasts
Elif B., Your video is really great. Now I wonder if you, or one of your readers, has some thoughts on how to turn some of our save-the-world concepts into realities? I have struck-out, trying to go through government channels, and/or getting published in newspapers. At this point, I am thinking that if an INFJ has a really sound idea that will benefit the world, that maybe she/he should look for an ENTJ(?) to promote it? I would love to read others' thoughts on promotion.
Note to all NON INFJS .. we are similar not identical lol. Watch 1 video 6 minutes long and now you have full understanding of one of the most complex minds on the planet lol 😆 not guna happen. Too contradictory haha
Let's save the world!!!
Some time soon.
"What am I even doing with my life?
I can't do this.
I need to save the world!"
That's the INFJ's daily morning mantra
😅
I'm sitting down in my room watching youtube.. meanwhile there are people out there who are saving the world right now.. what am I doing with my life? I'm sucks.. yeah, I agree with you haha..
"I have to save the world." -every INFJ
😄
Also Deku
Yep
Mine would be "Capitalism must end."
Yes, but you will get over it in time. You will realise that this is just another utopic goal. To me, it is obvious that we, humans, do not possess the ability to learn from our past mistakes. We are doomed as species. Are you aware that we are still killing each other for the same reasons we did thousands of years ago? Because of race, ethnicity, religion, politics and economic advantages, sex and sexual orientation... Honestly, we are too stupid as species. Our thinking is rudimental, and we are still manipulated by religions (all 4200 of them), and all the political parties out there. Actually, there is no difference between religion and politics. They both rely on the same kind of structure. They both have dogmas, hierarchical systems, they all have contributing followers, some more fanatic than others...Oh, but we are experts when it comes to segregation and caste systems! There will always be people who will consider themselves above all others. It is so sad but the reality is that generally, people can't get along with each other.
This is honestly so accurate. I always have these thoughts running in my head and it's like I look at life like an abstract painting, trying to find it's meaning and understand it deeply or like an empty canvas and there are things I have to do to fill it with colors and turn it into a masterpiece.
Beautiful explanation. 😊
personal attack right there 😂😂😂😂😂 especially that part when she goes from being positive to negative in an instant...the last part..and the crying soo accurate
As a INFJ Male this is so relatable, love this video
Glad you enjoyed it. 😄
I did get INFJ as well, I never found another INFJ male perhaps it's true and that's as rare as an unicorn, I'd like to add you as friend @Daichi-pz8oc
I quit my job to save the world, actually. Lol. Now I'm having a mature and serious conversation with my INFJs thoughts about this video.
lol
What did you do to save the world haha ? And what are the thoughts you have now ?
Imaginary people also used to live inside my head. I miss them. lol
My god. This is 💯 accurate. Our walk in life is exhausting and beautiful at the same time. Great video and thank you for making it.
Thank you 🙏😊
This is soo accurate -Fellow INFJ who wants to save the world
I salute you 😊❤️
"I need to save the world." 😄 Comforting knowing the inner most parts of myself are also experienced by others.
Lol 😄
Scary how spot on this is🙈🙈
😅
Not sure how I feel about this, all so true.
Think my greatest lesson in life is that no matter how much I want to save the world, it's more important to save myself and so what if I do feel deeply at least I can feel.
Only have to save yourself because you try to save all the narcissists.
Yes! Me too! ❤️💜🙌
@@LoveSumsItUp omg so true for us!!! I'm sick of helping Narcissists and getting screwed over. So exhausted and traumatized. Completely drained. Been alone for a long time now.
as an INFJ myself, i salute you and thank you for such great content 💖
Thank you for the kind words, glad you enjoyed it. 😊
Exactly how I feel about life and now I don’t feel insane ! I just found out I am an INFJ and I took the Briggs test like 30 times and every time it was the same even if I answered slightly different ! This vid makes me feel understood !
I'm glad you related. Makes me feel better too. 😊❤️
Welcome to the club looks like most of us spend a lifetime thinking we are an " anomaly " in this planet until we find out what we are and... suddenly everything makes sense, then we read comments and are like: wow !!! I could have written it exactly the same way, crazy, scary, and wonderful at the same time.
So yeah... you are not the only one, the good part ? we are indeed a few and we are not insame, just a bit different ( ok, a lot ha ha ha )
Regards
Omg you are so spot on we make up characters and talk to them, then you said I gotta get out now, lol
I’m scared… IS SHE A MIND READER!?! This is way too accurate… I have to do research on mind readers now!
But for real this is very well done and accurate
Thank you so much 😊
I felt scared too, nevertheless I want more videos like this, nice work
@@franciscomontane7833 Thank you. 😊🙏
This is so relatable, while working I always think my work is not contributing anything closer to save the world. Zoning out in between conversations. We (INFJs) constantly think and feel so much about everything visible. It's amusing to know I can relate to someone😊
Thank you for your comment. Glad you related, makes me happy too. 😊😇
So relatable, I think with me the only other thing I would add is the multiple lines of thought I have running simultaneously, but that might not be the INFJ part of me, just the potentially ADHD part of me.
Lol that happens to me too. 🙈
I love this....It's me to a tee...the ability to find "everything" in life both the beautiful and the sad...and even the humor! 😆
Glad you enjoyed. 😊
"Didn't have the energy to work with a negative boss" yep! 😂😂😂😂
😅😅
That was hilariously accurate. 💯. Even to the point on my end on playing Mozart Piano sonata No.11 in A Major, K.331. 💯💯🔥🔥
Thank you. 😊
The Moldau by Smetana is my go to
Omgosh!!! I’m laughing so much at myself!! This is me every day😂I have to Save the World!!!🥰♥️ Thank YOU!! Much Love!
The Bug! The Atoms! Contributing to the corruption! Playing Mozart! I have to save the world! Thank you!
Thank you. 😇🙏
i laughed so much thank you so much
@@j.m3063 😊🙏
This is wonderful. Its helping me figure something out in my life right now. You are one step closer to saving the world. :) Thanks!
I'm so glad I could help you. This comment made my day. 😇😊
@@ElifB1 I had a sense that would be the case. Remember to take that feeling with u today while conquering todays moments. :D
🙏🥺
I have to save the world...my entire being summed up in one sentence LOL.
Lol 😄
Ah that 'thinking about him' part, or in my case 'thinking about her', that was exactly how it is.
Eventhough that person hurts us, we still believe that it was not entirely their fault, that that's just who they are and its not their fault of turning out that way.
You explained it very well in the video.
Thank you so much. 😊
@@ElifB1 My Pleasure.
It's not their fault but you can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved. Eventually their self-loathing behavior will eat you alive. Raise your boundaries to your worth.
The_Danger_Man I agree 💯 they can break our hearts a million times but we understand why and it’s not completely their fault even though we want to be so angry with them. Getting over a relationship is horrific because we keep justifying why they treat us the way they do.
@@chriscampbell2679 oof yes.
Perfect, thankyou.Blessings to you
Thank you for the kind words 😊
Narcissistic traumas + Indifference to all connections that earned it. = Healed
Emotional Literacy is necessary for the next steps 《☆》
I loved listening to your thought processes. The last scene was too sweet!
Thank you so much. 😊❤️
Make more INFJ skits! It's your most watched video and I love it
Idea: you could add a helpful mental health support tip at the end of each one. This way you give the people what they want and do what you love as well. Wishing you well
_I need to analyse and know what my dreams means
_Try to eat, put clothes, prepare bag, brush hair, and doing some other many things in same times, and think : I miss something ?
_Watch people outside and on the tramway, try to guess their type, try to find other INFJs.
_Does he like me, or not like me, he is INTJ I am sure, it's so weird if we both analuse each others, who is the most weird and Introvert than us 2. We could talk of so many things, but we both don't want act weird or hurt the other, respect the other.
_Why I am so weird ? Who I am ? This is me who act like this so spontaneous ? I easily talk to people, but regred to told them so many things.
_ Does I have to say Hi and good bye to all, so repetitive, I see them everyday, why I have to tell them Hi everyday ? Why they change this thing on the company, it's not better, it's not equality for all, who made this decision ? surely an T type. I think best decisions have to made both with logic and value, not only logic. Society, justice, equality, changing, we are in 2021 and we don't improve we do worse than better. We are in 2021, where is the future ? only in my mind.
_ This ceiling, they put the light in the wrong number of square, this burnt stain on the wall,
_ Lol people at work, they started the dishwasher every day this week, none of them put the dishes away. People ... why there are so negatives ?
_ Oh again theses signs of anxiety, when will they disappear? Or it's ok let live with anxiety, I can do it, I am ok with this now.
_ I have to eat again, like each day, I don't know what to eat, I feed up to eat, why we not just eat powder with water ? Do I have to buy food again tomorow, no it's ok I done it for 3 weeks and more, I have enought food for at least 1 month.
_Why ? I don't understand myself, but I understand all, I can know all people if I guess their type, shit I see the world 2 level above most of people, and I can't share MBTI to all people, if I try they will find me weird and says me "What is this thing ?"
They don't know the light, the gold, the knowledge it is. It's THE thing which can change our relations, improve ourselve, help the world if we work and understand each others.
_After 32 years, family still don't understand and don't know me.
I am a paradox and chaos.
_Why do we have feelings, how mental health impact physical health ? Do I am happy or not happy, so weird, I feel both in same time. I am human ? How human function ? Woah I use my 2 brains,
_What happen if the earth go in a black hole ? I want to see it.
_ Thinking again to these ladybug dead next to my window and still here, and 2 hedgehogs that I have found dead in June.
_What I do with me, with my feelings, with my life, what will happen next ? the next week, the next month, the next year.
_Let's go to the bed at midnight. Oh it's 2 am now. Overthinking to so many things.
_Ok this weekend, I will wash the floor, do painting, watch my video list, tidy, trow things, I want minimalist. I am tired.
_ Just why ?
😂 that was so good !! Myself every day , every hour , every minute … I have to make a research about it and read as much as I can handle and think about it a bit more to come to a conclusion… ha ha ha
Regards
So very funny 😂 and accurate..
Thank you. 😊
Yesssssssss
Yes.
Yes yes yes.
Missing: ‘Psychic’ stuff.
perfect...love it! You even included some quantum physics (empty spaces)...so validating to hear another INFJ that likes to think in the same mindset as mine. I like how you explain how our wander-lust bug bites after we're couped up inside for too long, bravo! Though, I personally like how our "atoms" are made from "star" stuff, and it's not weird...we are one with the universe because we are made from it....life is beautiful, and so is this video.
~INFJ-A
p.s. It's great when we look for and find an ENTP or ENFP friend/mate....they easily (unintrusive-ly) expand out our comfort zones and help us earn tons of sigma points...I highly recommend finding one or two, although one ENTP is enough.
Thank you so much for the comment. I'm glad you related, makes me feel understood. Yes, life is beautiful indeed. 😊 I do wish to have more extraverts in my life actually, I hope I can find a few soon.
I understand what you mean about finding an extrovert, INFJs being old souls with a childlike appreciation of the outdoor life, we are mature for our age. People are attracted to similar IQs and maturity level, and a lot of extroverts obey their immaturity, "childish" personality. Plus ENTPs and ENFPs are rarer in the extroverts spectrum. I would you find ENTPs at a gathering ( During one of my "Fe" extrusions) to be like the magician types, and they tend to pop up out of nowhere right next to me, because they are naturally drawn to an INFJ's aura. And if they engage me first, and start a fun banter that gets me rolling with my bantering fun, that's a good sign they're an ENTP. ENTPs are the most introverted of the extroverts and because they can give me that space of quietness and if I feel that it's a natural process with this person... that makes me even more curious about them. ENTPs like to show people cool "gems" they found in the city and love to take an INFJ with them to explore them together. Just make sure you know how to screen out a narcissist because they are proliferating. Good luck, and hopefully during one of your wander lusting, be on the lookout for them if one gets curious about you. I'm currently very interested in the ENFPs, so I watch their videos on TH-cam so I get to recognize their patterns outdoors. Happy hunting...
Just a side note... even if they are a narcissist it's well-documented that INFJs and narcissist tend the dance together, and if you go down the traits of an INFJs we seem specifically design to have a natural resistance to them...it's like they're the irresistible force up against an immovable object, that we can tolerate then until they trigger our psychological thermostat temperature settings, then it automatically triggers our door slam which is an INFJs perfect defense built into us if going no contact to toxicity. I found my biggest spiritual lessons in life was after dating borderline personality disorders, cuz the gift of the borderline is to reintroduce yourself to your inner child.
Pizza and Love!
Oh and if you are infj girls think you got it bad with a narcissist try being a male infj that attracts the borderline personality disorder because they could dance circles around the narcissist. *smirk*
OK, thanks for the breach of privacy into my mind, especially with the "I am contributing to a bad system..." during the working section! 😅🤣 So accurate.
Very good video... great work on this!
Lol sorry for that 😅 Thank you so much for your comment. 😊
That was soo good, love it !!! So many scenes in your vid are like: you got them out of my head ha ha ha, and the last part crying it got my eyes wet ... and I am a Sigma male INFJ... shhhh my eyes are still wet ha ha ha.
The part of the dead bug .... so relatable ... so we do care about his family, it is so nice to listen to others like me thinking the same.
PS: when you get older, you realize that the world can´t be saved, because it has been like this always so you concentrate on saving something or someone just a bit every day.
ohhh, and a piece of advice from an older INFJ: Take care of saving, taking care, and loving YOU FIRST !!!
I have a nice quote for you I picked up on another comment section here, so enjoy :
" We learn not just to sing in solitude, but to learn that solitude sings "
Matthew Yang 2021
Beautiful isn't it? and so profound
Love you guys
Regards
You're right, it's impossible to save the world, but I will try my best to reach out to as many as possible. Thank you so much for the beautiful comment, sir. I loved the quote. 😊
@@ElifB1 you’re welcome 😇 and please I’m not so old to be called „ sir „ ha ha just turned 55 , some days I feel like I’m 35 and other ( mostly Friday after a long working week ) like I am 80 ha ha
Take care
Regards
My thoughts usually surpass any encounter I could have with anyone else....!
You have interesting and clearly managed to talk about this type of personality. Thank you for the video, Elif ❤
“Why am I thinking about him? He was an asshole” haha RELATABLE.
Lol 😅
so far the most accurate depiction of my mind
So True!! 🎯💯 Great video!!
Thanks. 😊
Great video! Also, i was zoning out at the end 😄Let's save the world!
Lol, thank you 😅😊
Who else just thought they were the only one whose brain worked like this? Just wow.
Thanks. 😊
WOW, I think i am an Infj too and this video made me laugh and smile 😀❤️❤️.
You know, i wasn't feeling good but after watching this video. It really improved my mood a bit . Thanks Infj friend 🥰😘❤️.
Thank you so much 😊
Very well done.
Thank you so much. 😊
I'm sorry I failed to keep this idealistic side of my personality intact. Over time, I became more cynical and realistic.
I think being too idealistic is a bit damaging. I'm on my way to find a balance lol
@@ElifB1, I wish you all the best! I hope you find that balance without too much suffering.
Same here, Anna.
Thank you so much, related to it all.
Watching this video was my beautiful moment today,.... "Thank you coffee atoms" Wonderful, loved it!! 😊
Glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for the lovely comment. 😊🙏
Oh my you are amazing. Thank you for this.
Thanks. 🙏😊
Amazingly accurate! I love your expression of this. I also wish to make videos like this and hopefully do my part in saving the world 😄💙
Thank you so much for your kind words, good luck on your journey to save the world. 😅😊
When you fully awaken your ENFP shadow, the creativity just flows and you NEED to express it! that's just what its like! and we wouldnt have it any other way!
-Spiritually awakened INFJ heyoka empath
OMG 😭❤ what happening? really exist someone that feel those things!!!
I'm feeling smiling 🤣and crying😭 at the same time while i reading all comments and reminding what I just saw in this so beautiful video!!! 😆😊🙂
I'm glad you related. Thank you for the comment. ❤️😊
Wow this is 💯 spot on. All of it.
Glad you enjoyed. 😊 Thanks for the comments
3:33 hahaa me every single time i go out to eat with a workmate. i feel so bad and try to tune in but i just can't.
people who really know me are like "are you thinking" and I just say yes and keep pretending to listen. Certain people don't mind, they just need an imaginary person to talk to lol
lol :)
Mind , feelings and emotions infjs are very difficult, strange, and complicated....
Show them love. 😊
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣
This is hilariously awesome, this is So me, I'm definitely and infj lol
Thank you 😄
Oh my God after searching 50years I finally found out what I am this has been me for 50 years I am nothing like any of my family and none of them can figure it out I wake up every morning for the past 50 years asking the question why am I so different people get aggravated with me even though I’m one of the nicest people you could ever meet all I want is peace in search for peace and peace for the world my whole life but it’s actually torturing every day to think this way when you know it can’t really happen this is mine blowing to me
😊🙏
Be infj is like be intj but worry for the people, intj worry about themselves
And the conclusion to everything...I must save the world! 😃 so true! Good video!
Thank you so much. 😊
We are fantastic high functioning human beings ❤
Hahaha.....you are very funny.....thank you for your insightful video......very recognizable as an INFJ..love it a lot🙂🥰👍.....keep going, you are doing great!! Cheers from Belgium😉!!!
I'm glad you enjoyed it, thank you. :) Sending love.
You are a mind reader! 😮. This is so me! 😂 . Btw, Great video and just subscribed to your channel. 😊
Thank you, sir. 😊
@@ElifB1 I’m not a sir 😆. You’re welcome, fellow INFJ ❤️
Dam it... They tried my azz. 2:16 I can't stop thinking about him 😭😭🤣🤣
LOL! Yup, a pretty good picture of how I think a lot of the time with the exception of the bug! Yuck bugs, maybe the only thing I don't have too much empathy for! I do go through that thinking if I see a dead animal though : (
Glad you related, 😊 yes bugs are just a tad bit exaggeration, for humor purposes 😅thanks for the comment 🙏
You are so philosophical
Lol. Thanks. 😊
OMG...this is 'SO' me!!! (Legit) ( : - D
I came here like Oh gosh one more stereotyped video about the mythical Infj. Watch it entirely and it ended so perfect. So thank you and congrats. Anyways why am I commenting this... I have to save to the world :P
Thank you so much for the kind words. 😊🙏
Lol.. I don't talk to imaginary "people"; they're my "sisters." 😅😅😅
Lol 😅
I live like that each day. Not a day goes by without me making up voiced for each character. I have quite a few actually, and my fiance Chrissy (I am Brian) I use her account here and friend of ours enjoy this so do my kids. Anyways they can get lost and picture the scenery, feel the emotions, and what each character looks like with how well I can tell each story and blend 3 at a time to fit a point or to make them just lose themselves in imagination
Ah man that was so accurate! Those beautiful moments though. I couldnt handle them. We divorced.
Fantastic!!
Excellent!
Thanks 😊
I was busy saving the world one narcissist or three narcissists at a time and I took a minute to watch this video, 100% btw but i have to go because I found a crippled veteran 4 years ago in a walmart reaching for an impossible item from his wheel chair and need to call him again today because he’s alone in the hospital. This is a true story, btw.
Wow!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I do something similar. I thought I was alone in this, so this is real. I’m not a walking “enigma”. 😀✌️
Glad you related 😄
Love this ❤️
Thanks. ❤️
I know you...you know me !!! 😃
INFJ here, I don't have the time to look at a bug outside haha. Tell me please what is the first music ?
Esther's Waltz Esther Abrami
@@ElifB1 Thank you
Such accuracy.
This was quite accurate
Thank you. 😊
Relateable
Thanks.
This was on another level 😂
Thank you. 🙏😊
As I relate, I cringe about myself. 😅
Maybe the reason why I kept adjusting my personality, other than to please people's expectations, is to hide my very romantic ideas.
Lol, I relate.
Dark world
A world consumed in darkness
All that's wrong is right
No different shades of gray
All just black and white
Opposite of love is fear
Controlling all the masses
Chew you up and spit you out
Burn you up to ashes
What is here is gone
What is gone is past
Keep moving on
Time moves too fast
All that is good is evil
All that is evil is good
Hope I made my point
Hope you understood
Are we supposed to crash and burn?
Or are we supposed to thrive?
Only one thing is clear
Just live while you're alive
Live in present moment
Don't worry about the past
Future isn't here yet
Nothing ever lasts
Good one.
@@ElifB1 Thank you. I have hundreds more. Decided to let go of the silence and it caused a tsunami, LoL.
love it!
tam olarak böyleyim ahaha başka infjlerle sohbet etmek çok istiyorum ama şu ana kadar sadece 1 infj'e rastladım nerede saklanıyorsunuz arkadaşlar :'(
I play D&D in my head daily for 35 yrs, hmmmm?
Elif B., Your video is really great. Now I wonder if you, or one of your readers, has some thoughts on how to turn some of our save-the-world concepts into realities? I have struck-out, trying to go through government channels, and/or getting published in newspapers. At this point, I am thinking that if an INFJ has a really sound idea that will benefit the world, that maybe she/he should look for an ENTJ(?) to promote it? I would love to read others' thoughts on promotion.
Thanks for the comment, the question you asked is something that I myself also haven't figured out yet. Getting help does make sense.
This was too darn cute! and accurate..
Thank you. You're cute too. 😊
What should I write here thinking...............
After 20 minutes " Let's save the world "
Lol good enough 😊
can i ask what is program u use in working part of the video?
Autocad. 😊
💯💯😌🤦EXACTLY!!!❤🌟
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creating people your head, that can be dangerous, Elif. 😊
😅
1:33 is literally me and ppl make fun of me about it 😭 but idc
I like people with kind hearts. 💕😊
This is so accurate
Thanks 😊
SO RIGHT...IMAGINATION STATION...IVE HAD FOLKS SAY...YOU CANT SAVE THE WORLD...I JUST SAY...BUT MAYBE ONE...😉🤓
Lol 😅
Hahahahaha..... TooTrue!! 😂💜💜💜
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😂😂😂 LOLOL!!! So accurate
Thank you. 😊
save the cheerleader, save the world
Note to all NON INFJS .. we are similar not identical lol. Watch 1 video 6 minutes long and now you have full understanding of one of the most complex minds on the planet lol 😆 not guna happen. Too contradictory haha
I subscribed you 😘❤️
I just my twin in you 🌟
I agree 100% I need to save the world. lol