Depression during UPSC preparation : What can we do?

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  • @andaryshukla7741
    @andaryshukla7741 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Noone wants to talk about depression... Even family members too.. people laugh to hear about depression and all and when so much to talk but noone to hear... that's why Fear of failure, depression, anxiety occurs. Thanks for Explaining so nicely.

  • @vaibhavboyal8452
    @vaibhavboyal8452 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Another solution I have for loliness in aspirant life is to create an online virtual library where anyone can join and study. As many aspirants will be there, so the aspirant won't feel alone or distracted, which will help the aspirant focus.

    • @meresang2580
      @meresang2580 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where

    • @captainakanksha8665
      @captainakanksha8665 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where it is ?

    • @cse8218
      @cse8218 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sb bdi distraction yhi hai krke dekh rkha hai

    • @ur_pal6783
      @ur_pal6783 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cse8218 shi kha...i think doing yoga and mindfulness exercise help in reducing 90% of depression roman saini also said this in one of his video

    • @anshumedhavi2762
      @anshumedhavi2762 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are right..I have joined the Study gang 6 months back..And it really helped to come out of that loneliness phase when I was struggling a lot especially after Prelims 2022

  • @user-mi7fi5cx3o
    @user-mi7fi5cx3o ปีที่แล้ว +2

    your way of explaining things make every problem solvable even depression ...thanks❤❤

  • @user-dy4wo8xn2h
    @user-dy4wo8xn2h ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best piece of information I've seen so far✨ Thanks Dr. Shivin

  • @ayushisrivastava_1309
    @ayushisrivastava_1309 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The callous way in which the word 'Depression' is generally referred often makes people take it lightly. But the pain, loneliness, self doubt, lack of confidence, constant feeling of being choked is way more than the pain from some physical or visible injury. Sometimes even one doesn't feel like picking up the phone and calling, going out and talking, sitting in front of the family and opening up. There are myraids of symptoms ( which probably the experts know pretty well). Grateful to Dr Shivin Chaudhary and his minuscule efforts in this direction. Because sometimes the most accessible and easiest medication during these times is to just feel and see that we aren't alone.

    • @Msharma30
      @Msharma30 ปีที่แล้ว

      Future IAS officers ko Dr. Shivin sir jaisa hi hona chahiye.

    • @ABHI87462
      @ABHI87462 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yaar mere sath aise ho raha hai😢😢har din naye problem....apne sahi kaha ye pain to physical or visible injury se bhi jyada hai😖😔😔

    • @user-dy4wo8xn2h
      @user-dy4wo8xn2h หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Very true

  • @BATMAN-rq5jz
    @BATMAN-rq5jz ปีที่แล้ว +19

    In my case, I never realised it that I am depressed but recently got medical tests done & now that I'm coping with HYPERTENSION bcz of stress in preparation!! Totally devastated that we don't even understand that we're depressed since I never treated it, it took bad effect on my health!
    If somebody is feeling stressed/depressed/worried seek help ASAP start with family members at least!

    • @saurabhshinde3540
      @saurabhshinde3540 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Serotonin levels must have gone down. Tb. Pexep is what they will prescribe as a starter. Very costly medicines. But it will bring your momentum back within 2-3 months of treatment. The entire treatment cost me 10k rs.

    • @sgaur4079
      @sgaur4079 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Batman- same with me. Randomly checked BP and it was high

    • @sanjaykumar6599
      @sanjaykumar6599 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sgaur4079 ab kaisa bp hai dawai chl rhi

    • @sgaur4079
      @sgaur4079 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sanjaykumar6599 Haan bhai normal hai pr dawai chal rhi

    • @sanjaykumar6599
      @sanjaykumar6599 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sgaur4079 life long Leni pdegi

  • @laxmikantshedole
    @laxmikantshedole ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very Well Explained... thank you for this video... I cleared many doubts from this video... And understood one imp thing is that it is also one of the disease like fever , diabetes.

  • @kushalsinghmeena8729
    @kushalsinghmeena8729 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very useful information for lots of aspirants who suffer from anxiety, depression ...

  • @kawasakisaki4184
    @kawasakisaki4184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whenever I talk about being an ias every response I've gotten ever gotten has been how I can't be, that even shatters my confidence even more.

  • @adishegokar
    @adishegokar ปีที่แล้ว

    You are doing a great work sir. This awareness is much needed especially when everybody around you is pushing you to do more and more and telling you to out deliver yourself , regardless of realizing you are human only.
    Great initiative sir. Keep it up
    GOD BLESS YOU 🙂❤👍👍

  • @subratikhan9695
    @subratikhan9695 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤thanks a lot more than anything else 🎉

  • @raghuhada2180
    @raghuhada2180 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks Dr. Shivin

  • @saimanaaz9949
    @saimanaaz9949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Even though this is a great initiative, this video fails to talk about how UPSC preparation can lead to depression. And how we can particularly deal with that kind of feeling. Ofc, it made us understand the basics of depression but I was waiting all along for you to link UPSC and depression, which unfortunately did not happen.

  • @vaibhavjain2969
    @vaibhavjain2969 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This will definitely help everyone!!!

  • @nivasingh3496
    @nivasingh3496 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your initiative. You are really genuine friend. Sometimes we ignored our mental health because of our other responsibility and we think we will be okay after some time. But I was wrong at that time.Planning to take a break from UPSC this year.

  • @thekhan8578
    @thekhan8578 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mai soch rha tha ki aap bhi sbki trh btaynge ki
    Ye hota hai preparation me normal hai thoda brack lelo ghumne chale jao khi
    And all there things looks Bull shitt..
    But what you have told is really awesome coz you give the solution not creating another.
    Thanks a lot buddy, i appreciate your effort
    Sukriya 🙏

  • @prithubharadwaj3744
    @prithubharadwaj3744 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very useful information Dr Shivin

  • @ThakurHR01
    @ThakurHR01 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep making such video sir and plz make a video on time management plz

  • @sreee78
    @sreee78 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have only 1 symptom
    Lack of concentration 😬

  • @waterofmanipur3253
    @waterofmanipur3253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, sir. It's a highly necessary session.

  • @vismayagowda6808
    @vismayagowda6808 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you sir 🙇‍♂️
    Not 🛑until now
    Since u 🖋️recommended the 🏥hospital i think🤔 now there's going to be a crowd 👨‍👨‍👦‍👦👩‍👩‍👧‍👧
    😁😁

  • @khushijoshi5707
    @khushijoshi5707 ปีที่แล้ว

    All the best ❤️
    May god bless you

  • @nitin.singh_06
    @nitin.singh_06 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video again.

  • @pikaachu7221
    @pikaachu7221 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Like deppression,people with OCD also struggle while preparing with adequately occuring intrusive thoughts. It would b great if u could upload a video in that regard.
    Thanks

    • @TheCurriousCivilServant
      @TheCurriousCivilServant ปีที่แล้ว

      As I have OCD I am taking SSRI drugs from Psychiatrist, you also can go for it.

  • @Injamul_Haque17
    @Injamul_Haque17 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir please make video on how to kick out negative thoughts from our mind

  • @janhavi7819
    @janhavi7819 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Sir!

  • @priyanshusinghnegi2927
    @priyanshusinghnegi2927 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sir.

  • @akritisingh3125
    @akritisingh3125 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know whether there are other people who experience overabundance of empathy or not. It would be helpful if you'll take this issue in next session or somewhere else.

  • @abhaychauhan7115
    @abhaychauhan7115 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sir i recently had a breakup. She left all of a sudden. How to deal with it?

    • @ViratS55566
      @ViratS55566 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prepare for UPSC. Watch Shaadi me jarur aana

    • @anantgupta1192
      @anantgupta1192 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Meditate, be calm,try to move on
      All the best

    • @tej2968
      @tej2968 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tu abhi baccha hi hai.. Jo in sab bachkane chizo se hurt hota hai.. Jari hai to janede na tu apni life awesome bana bhai

    • @राधाकृष्ण-22
      @राधाकृष्ण-22 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Be the happiest man on the planet.....you saved yourself alot of mental trauma....the right one wouldn't have left

    • @Msharma30
      @Msharma30 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I too get panic attacks now.. But my reason is different. Meri shaadi almost essi saal. Final hogyi thi. Mera almost 2 years ka relationship tha. I felt like He loved me without any conditions. He always use to inspire me support me a lot. Main uss pr etna trust krti thi over emotionally dependent hogyi thi . Phir last September ko pta chala ki wo already pichle 5 years se already ek committed relationship m tha. Matlab wo hum dono ko cheat kr raha tha. Jab mujhe pata chala toh I was completely shattered broken, all my life I had been alone sad, but with him I felt so complete, main ne kabhi socha nhi tha aisa bhi kuch hoga. Thn main ne uske uss gf ko contact kia phir jakr Sare proofs bhi dikhaye. Lekin shocking baat toh ye hain ki uss ladki ne sab jnte huwe bhi uss ko phirse accept krlia. Aaj wo dono phirse ek saath hain. Mera sab khtm hogya roz roti hoon main ne usse pucha bhi ki main ne etna kuch invest kia tum ne mujhe etna support kia you knew everything abt me when no one was there u are the only person with whom I shared my insecurities aur tumne aaj aisa kiyu kia agar tum usse etna hi saccha pyaar krte ho toh mera 2 yrs brbaad kiyu kia aur mere emotions feelings se kiyu khela. Lekin wo bola ki main uske liye matter hi nhi krti ab aur wo kbhi mujhse pyaar nhi krta tha. Uske family friends ko bhi pta h jo usne mere saath aisa kiya phir bhi wo log usse support kr rhw h sabne mujhe sideline krdia. Ignore krke block krdia bas ab life m etni akeli hoon. Depression m rehti hoon in fact suicide attempt tk kr chuki hoon.. Lekin jb bhi apne mummy papa ko dekhti hoon bas yahi sochti hoon mera koi bhai behen nhi hain main only child hoon. Agar mujhe kuch hogya toh mere parents ka kia hoga. I'm a post graduate I can re start everything , focus on my career and leave my past life behind and move on.. But I'm. Scared these thoughts haunt me I feel like giving up.

  • @RahulKumar-oi7px
    @RahulKumar-oi7px ปีที่แล้ว

    Grt initiative hats off to you

  • @rituyadav2255
    @rituyadav2255 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great initiative.. Thank you..

  • @vijayjangid1223
    @vijayjangid1223 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks for this masterpiece

  • @nischalsantooshsinghsairam2278
    @nischalsantooshsinghsairam2278 ปีที่แล้ว

    On a lighter note, Note krleta hun, kahin upsc me na aajaye.😊 Plus, such a wonderful machine our body is.

  • @salonipatil2384
    @salonipatil2384 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @keep_hustling
    @keep_hustling ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir for such a wonderful video....one more request sir...can you please talk about distractions during the early twenties , about which not many people talk?

  • @srish2536
    @srish2536 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If are depressed becz of any reason....try making significant changes ...like changing place, people, routine...do everything you can do in positive direction....have patience.
    Just have believe that you are strong enough to choose the right thought in your head....listen happy music....make yourself very busy....with time memories of that trauma might fade away.
    Chart out your purpose in life....make your problems look very small infront of your trauma.
    All the best.

  • @queesign
    @queesign ปีที่แล้ว

    Could we get a similar suggestion on free check up in hyderabad?
    Great initiative. Thanks

  • @pshelke6672
    @pshelke6672 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏❣️

  • @kaushalyadav4047
    @kaushalyadav4047 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm having mild depression symptoms from last few days. I'm writing Mains this year. Insomnia to be exact, not anxiety. But the psychologist you mentioned she is not available this week. I require immediate help so that it can be contained as quickly as it can be. I don't want to loose another year. I've already lost my 2 prelims attempt to depression both due to COVID and some personal stuff.
    Please suggest some good alternative Psychologists in Delhi. Thanks

  • @susmitasingh6611
    @susmitasingh6611 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you really want to help aspirants sir pls give us option to talk to you are msg you if there is some serious problems 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @priyankak9462
    @priyankak9462 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Iam already taking treatment..
    I have 'schizoaffective disorder'..
    Iam currently preparing for upsc .
    Whether my disease comes under mental illness??
    If so,what is the procedure should I follow under upsc exam writing??
    Should I get mental illness certificate from psychiatrist doctor??
    Please, kindly reply me... Sir 🙏

  • @vasudev92
    @vasudev92 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please sir help me,I'm suffering from bipi disorder...

  • @susmitasingh6611
    @susmitasingh6611 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir form submit option is not coming

  • @UpscMarathi
    @UpscMarathi ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir, aap kis tarah video banate ho. Please ek video banado

    • @shantanu1699
      @shantanu1699 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marathi madhe channel kadhnaar ka , UPSC guidance साठी 😁

  • @relaxmind7826
    @relaxmind7826 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

  • @Loststar0913
    @Loststar0913 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can we talk about this?

  • @noobinlite1107
    @noobinlite1107 ปีที่แล้ว

    GOLD

  • @vasudev92
    @vasudev92 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's happening with me sir...😭

  • @VikasGupta-jo2px
    @VikasGupta-jo2px 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    didi behan sister help me guide me i am also in depression please respond to my words written ❤😂🎉

    • @priyeranjansingh1392
      @priyeranjansingh1392 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't be depressed. Any question then ask

  • @justanotherupscaspirant8837
    @justanotherupscaspirant8837 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you please do this for Kolkata?

    • @jaiprakash-lx9rl
      @jaiprakash-lx9rl ปีที่แล้ว

      he just awared u about opd registration in delhi. U can do that too for ur state

  • @meresang2580
    @meresang2580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir any medicine recommended

    • @poetrybypranav294
      @poetrybypranav294 ปีที่แล้ว

      These medicines are only prescribed by a doctor. Even knowing the name won't do because chemist would deny saying they don't keep such medicines, unless you have a prescription . These group of medicines are not sold normally like other medicines

  • @neelakantamnagarjuna5563
    @neelakantamnagarjuna5563 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I recomend every one to watch sadhguru vedios without any preconcieved notion..

  • @newstv250
    @newstv250 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hindi please 🙏🙏🙏

  • @assysingh6364
    @assysingh6364 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beta phle khud toh upsc clear kar le, phir gyan c h u daai karna.

  • @CivilAspirant
    @CivilAspirant ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you provide your mail id
    Want to talk regarding paid collaboration

  • @studyiaswithvikashranjan3013
    @studyiaswithvikashranjan3013 ปีที่แล้ว

    🙏🙏❤️❤️