How To Tell Stories That Make You Look Attractive

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    Today we’re going to talk about Markiplier and his storytelling. And how you can make any story more interesting :-) goo.gl/eLRiqM
    If you do storytelling well, you’ll find that people love having you around. It’s also much easier to talk about yourself in attractive or interesting ways. It also greatly helps your persuasion and makes it easy to have a group conversation.
    Why Markiplier? We’ve already covered some aspects of storytelling in our videos on Scott Harrison and Kevin Hart, so what I wanted to show you today isn’t how to tell a good meaty story well, but instead how to get people hooked even when your story isn’t super interesting by itself.
    So I picked a well known TH-camr named Markiplier because Markiplier is a great example of how to make ANYTHING more interesting. And these lessons transfer very well to storytelling.
    For those of you that don’t know Markiplier he got his fame as a Let’s Play TH-camr, where he recorded himself playing videos games. There are tens of thousands of people trying to do this, and Markilplier rose to the top because he can make any given moment seem interesting.
    0:24 Quick intro to Markiplier
    0:45 How Markiplier starts his storytelling specifically to get listeners eager to hear him speak
    1:56 How Markiplier uses his voice to make a story sound more interesting. Especially useful in group conversation.
    4:54 Convey emotion when storytelling like Markiplier does and you'll be more captivating. Bonus, you're also much better at persuasion.
    8:46 should I do another video on Markiplier that’s about being likable / popular?
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  • @giannchan6752
    @giannchan6752 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1321

    “Use your full vocal range...”
    Theatre kids: GOT IT😈🔥

    • @jesterssketchbook
      @jesterssketchbook 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      pro-ject!!!!

    • @svenservette4197
      @svenservette4197 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Chan Gian ugh Theatre kids are awful...

    • @jamestrotman3238
      @jamestrotman3238 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      +Sven Servette we're a special breed, yes

    • @giannchan6752
      @giannchan6752 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sven Servette Um thank you? :’D

    • @MrMasterDebate
      @MrMasterDebate 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chan Gian what have you done....

  • @therunningman761
    @therunningman761 6 ปีที่แล้ว +901

    Someone's been binging markiplier

    • @rahultechbro7179
      @rahultechbro7179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      therunningman761 my name is ademulla and I’m from Wakanda

    • @itotallyagreewithyou6586
      @itotallyagreewithyou6586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@rahultechbro7179 great, I am Jesus, from heaven.

    • @iamrahatul
      @iamrahatul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@itotallyagreewithyou6586 Right! I'm Lucifer from Hell.

    • @FictionCautious
      @FictionCautious 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      At least he learned something from it.

  • @BoburRustamov
    @BoburRustamov 6 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    I have applied storytelling advices which you guys suggested on Kevin Hart video starting from last year and I have seen so many changes since then! I could see how people are excited about spending time with me and I felt more confident and charismatic about myself because of that. Thank you guys! Best channel right here

    • @Sam-ng3of
      @Sam-ng3of 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Problem is most charismatic characteristics come naturally to extroverts, so it sucks if you're an introvert.

    • @TheCactuar124
      @TheCactuar124 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Abdus Samad So? The most important thing is practice. Even an introvert can become an amazing storyteller if they keep practicing and applying these tips.

    • @JoeyTeckno
      @JoeyTeckno 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Sam-ng3of I am TEXTBOOK introvert, curiously enough, people always mistake me for an extrovert. What I'm trying to say is that you can learn to not be shy, which is often a common denominator of us introverts. And as TheCactuar124 pointed out, it's all about practice. Then it WILL come naturally.

    • @Jack0533Harris
      @Jack0533Harris 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheCactuar124!

    • @user-ug5ry2su5s
      @user-ug5ry2su5s 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But, what you do to not make these techniques purely for people to be happy?

  • @nuke7
    @nuke7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Key Takeaways:
    - Bait the story
    - Use full vocal range
    - Act out emotions

    • @Mikzala
      @Mikzala 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      yoooo bro wrapaed the video in just 3 line💀

  • @gabrielaw2058
    @gabrielaw2058 6 ปีที่แล้ว +387

    What a story Mark

    • @MrDynamite246
      @MrDynamite246 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hi Tommy

    • @hap995
      @hap995 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Mr Dynamite2468 YOU'RE TEARING ME APART, LISA

    • @sabhishek9289
      @sabhishek9289 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mark: Your A Genius!!!!! Now excuse me I got to go and bone Lisa.
      Isn't that a great story XDXD

  • @paleobc65
    @paleobc65 6 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    I really wish you would've uploaded this during my high school years, I was so awkward and and many of stories lacked any sort of purpose or weren't as funny or as interesting as I thought it would be

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Trust me, I too really wish I had known any of this in high school haha. Cheers to high school awkwardness and all the stories that I think back on and cringe at 😂

    • @Crambull
      @Crambull 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      paleobc65 In high school, I generally avoided telling any personal stories simply because I knew people would either lose interest or not care in the slightest. Better learn late than never I guess.

    • @meliams5661
      @meliams5661 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's not too late. I'm almost hit 30. I'm still awkward

    • @paleobc65
      @paleobc65 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I definetley I laugh back at those moments so I can cope

    • @tubbysza
      @tubbysza 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why you really judge yourself, no wonder you were so awkward. Luckily your problems of the past are solved thx to this video... Right?

  • @eternalray8194
    @eternalray8194 6 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    Be confident basically.

    • @T.Y.L.E.R_777
      @T.Y.L.E.R_777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nah is not that easy for introverts

    • @killallchadspfpusers9158
      @killallchadspfpusers9158 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@T.Y.L.E.R_777 yeh its so hard

    • @payton_bagel8317
      @payton_bagel8317 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@T.Y.L.E.R_777 Well, Mark’s an introvert. But yeah as a fellow introvert I’m super self conscious 0_0

    • @NaderVaderYT
      @NaderVaderYT 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...
      Yeh

    • @Dumani_Manqoba
      @Dumani_Manqoba 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But how u get the content

  • @heykenzo4284
    @heykenzo4284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    One thing I gotta point out is that, apperantly, Mark IS that silly person on real life as well. Not that I've ever met him in person, that's just what his friends and fellow TH-camrs say about him.
    He isn't faking, he's just exagerated by nature. Something that many people, me included, can relate to.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Makes total sense. The best possible thing you can do to be charismatic is work to make it a habit so you don't have to think about it or fake anything

    • @heykenzo4284
      @heykenzo4284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My guess is that a big part of his charisma comes from his childish side. Because we all had that and always will have that childish self, watching someone be a big bearded brat makes us feel that much comfortable on being brats ourselves and laugh out loud to d*ck jokes. And since Mark adds variety to his repertoire (like self deprecating humor, self elevating humor or creepy dark humor) that one side of him doesn't feels too overused.

    • @shadowthief6537
      @shadowthief6537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes!! But I can also see how he's had lots of practice in being more engaging when talking to himself for extended periods is his job. He started out outgoing but there's definitely a difference now than when he first started.

    • @justinz9225
      @justinz9225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I get your point, but every successful youtuber is faking. By "faking", I simply mean that they're ramping up their expressions to huge proportions. That's what being an entertainer is.
      That doesn't mean it's false or disingenuous, just that they're not always cranked up to 11 in real life. Just watch Markiplier's old videos and you'll see how his "character" has evolved. Yes, he's the same person, but he figured out how to be more appealing and presentable on camera.

  • @kevlarkevin1840
    @kevlarkevin1840 6 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I think the biggest clue in this video is that everybody knows how to act, they just get really awkward when they think they have to act someway other than naturally. Great vid!

  • @VihanDamaris
    @VihanDamaris 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh mi goodness I needed this. Been super monotone most of my life, and doing videos would wonder why people aren't watching the way I expected. Over the past few months I changed it up a bit, brought it a few notches higher like you said, and noticed a vast difference in enjoyment both for the viewer and for myself as editor! 😂 Never tried the hook and bait thing though, and it makes absolute sense. Shall work on it, thanks so much!

  • @Northernhail
    @Northernhail 6 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    What if I'm emotionally dead inside?

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      Hmmmmmm, I'd probably look at that first and worry about storytelling after you're alive inside :-)

    • @dipbar1824
      @dipbar1824 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love you

    • @Mavish11
      @Mavish11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Fake it till you make it.

    • @jamesgrey13
      @jamesgrey13 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Evanescence will wake you up inside! :D

    • @jpotts18
      @jpotts18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Fake it. Works for psychopaths!

  • @ThatCyndi
    @ThatCyndi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I think Markiplier is the only TH-camr whose really long vlogs I can watch the whole way through
    Even if he wasn't funny or interesting, he's got a voice I could listen to forever.

    • @singdawn2016
      @singdawn2016 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look up "David Dobrik"

  • @vsh1998
    @vsh1998 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    But wouldn't hyping up a story like this make you at risk of coming off as dramatic? How do I ensure to make people excited about the story and not make the punchline deliver in an anti-climactic way?

  • @haydenwalker2647
    @haydenwalker2647 6 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I saw Markiplier and immediately clicked

  • @krishnarao4290
    @krishnarao4290 6 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Honestly, Markiplier has the most masculine voice and the best laugh !!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Completely agree. I didn't want people to try to fake their voice or their laugh so I didn't include it in the video, but he is definitely benefited by his voice and the fact that he's handsome. BUT, I still think that anyone can do the three things in this video and be a captivating storyteller, regardless of voice or face :-)

    • @abdmzn
      @abdmzn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was told that he sounds like he tries to make his voice sound masculine/fakes it, idk though.

    • @payton_bagel8317
      @payton_bagel8317 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abdmzn Nah, he just sounds like that. It would be SUPER hard to make it that deep for so many years without slipping up or ruining your voice. In the past though (2014-2015-ish) he did kinda fake his voice. Not because he was insecure about it but because he had trouble projecting. But even then you can see in some more quiet or low key videos (like in his vlogs at the time) his voice still sounds deep, but not as radio-showy

  • @RenzoIsHereYT
    @RenzoIsHereYT 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Please make a video on how to enter a group conversation without being rude or weird. Most people in my clubs are already friends with each other and are in convos and I get scared when trying to talk to people who are in convo already.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think we did this in one of our animated videos! I don't remember which one but I remember seeing it at some point

    • @Sheepyz
      @Sheepyz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      introduce yourself to them. if u already know em but just dont talk w them, try to listen to what they’re saying and relate to something similar that has happened to u and use the tips on the video while saying it

  • @zooyorkdanny
    @zooyorkdanny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've gotta say I absolutely love your videos! They've helped me so much and their very entertaining to watch. Nobody else makes these kinda informative videos as much fun as you do. Great work! Keep it up and thanks so much for the help!

  • @alexanderSnilsson
    @alexanderSnilsson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Perfect - storytelling is my focus of the month! Both for improving my social skills, but also to improve my videos for my channel :)
    Keep it up!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's awesome!
      I think for TH-cam these are all even more important, because people can click away more easily than walk away. I definitely think focusing on these three things can help make videos more interesting

    • @alexanderSnilsson
      @alexanderSnilsson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree. How much script breakdown do you guys do before shooting your videos?

    • @haris000000
      @haris000000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Alexander Nilsson Dude what do you mean by "focus of the month" that sounds intetesting?

    • @TheVilivan
      @TheVilivan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haris000000
      Probably trying to get better at one specific aspect of social skills for a whole month (because trying to master everything at once is really hard), and then changing it the next month

    • @alexanderSnilsson
      @alexanderSnilsson 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly. I break down my goals on a weekly, monthly and 5-month basis. So much things I want to learn and develop, but experience has taught me ( and tons of 'guru's' ) that focus is king. Decide on thing thing and execute on that. Easier said than done. Especially when there is TH-cam constantly BOMBARDING you with so many things that 'will change your life'. :)

  • @MackMillicco
    @MackMillicco 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Markiplier has come a long way in terms of how he portrays himself before his audience. Like many TH-camrs, he started out incredibly introverted and watching him since 2012 allows me to say that he has evolved dramatically and has become much more comfortable when in front of a camera or audience. Great advice and great video!

  • @DarkBlueNutrition
    @DarkBlueNutrition 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this video!! I’ve been trying to up my story telling game for TH-cam and in my personal life 😊 much love!! Keep them coming!

  • @TkevTV
    @TkevTV 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    damn.... I needed those videos 2 years ago when I started with my new school:'D right now I'll finish soon, but hey... I still have some months left to engage my classmates and co-students and I'm still 19 so I have plenty of time... so thank you for your awesome analyses and tips I appreciate them so much especially this video has some of the most awesome tips.
    To be honest I used most of those things and to everybode who reads this: *It works!* when I started in the new school I was really happy, active and positive and *talked and entertained* almost everyone, except people I'm nervous around (like my crush... or some guy of my old class). The point is I used most if not all of this. I varied my voice tonality and speed, used emotions and pauses. I did all of this for the first half year, then I got calmer, after 1 and a half year I got some depressions from the pressure of my subjects, and right now I'm here, happy again and trying to become what I once was. I looked so long for the reason, why I was able to tell engaging stories (even though they were boring as f*ck) and for quite some months I was not, and right here are the reasons
    Again Ben, and Charlie, both of you.... I thank you deep from my heart for your helpful videos and your work you put into this. I really appreciate it and hope you continue with this stuff, as long as possible! Keep up with the great work.

  • @MattPincince
    @MattPincince 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this. You chose the perfect person to convey this topic. These are completely actionable tips I can apply in my videos!

  • @Bladeclaw00100
    @Bladeclaw00100 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow the timing is so well done. I am just about ready to start my own lets play channel an needed to hear how someone keeps you hooked to watching your videos. I actually am a bigger fan of EricVanWilderman and yea Markiplier is another great one too. This was very helpful, thank you.

  • @jsc1jake512
    @jsc1jake512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love to tell stories about Mythology and History since they're the most interesting subjects to me. I've always liked stories, no matter if they're real or fake and I've always been a bit of a gamer, so if a game I find has lore in it I will DEFINITELY read the heck out of it. My problem though is that I have a bit of a deep and monotone voice, or so others have told me, and whenever I tell a story in real life I feel like my "audience" (friends) gets bored so this really helps me, thank you for making this video and Markiplier is honestly probably the best choice for a subject like this, I'm not a huge fan of the guy but I do watch his videos from time to time.

  • @polobreak3249
    @polobreak3249 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I find watching CoC videos is a good warm up for talking to people. If I'm not in the mood to talk or feel low in energy, watching a video really helps.

  • @ANTWXN
    @ANTWXN 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your Videos are actually really reasuring and well put together... Big ups to you!!!

  • @Rayowag
    @Rayowag 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I watched a lot of your videos, but this was one of the best ones for me out of a youtuber perspective! Loved it 😊

  • @ducklord6922
    @ducklord6922 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    mark is a really charismatic and interesting guy i personally don't watch let's plays anymore (i used to really love them) but mark does so much more than let's plays and watching him in podcast and other stuff like that you can just tell he is a fantastic story teller he really does keep the interest high my favorite youtuber is ethan but while in the podcast i was a whole lot more interested in what mark had to say

  • @brunobelchiorcomedy
    @brunobelchiorcomedy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    dude, this is by far the best video i've seen on this subject, thank you, i'll definitely try my best to apply these tips on my storytelling, thanks once again.

  • @Twhylight1
    @Twhylight1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Funny, I’ve been doing this every time I tell jokes or funny stories, I learnt it off my dad who does exactly this. Love this channel!

  • @region3992
    @region3992 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for summarizing your 3 points at the end! Very helpful!

  • @piotrzwirowski8435
    @piotrzwirowski8435 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man, I hope you’re gonna appear more often on this channel, because I think you’re just as great as Charlie is and would love to hear something more from you!!

  • @Andy-ou9lp
    @Andy-ou9lp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    No wonder a lot of people like listening to me haha. One tip I found really useful is instead of just saying “ my friend did this... “ . You try to act and mimic what your friend did with emotion and movement. So the people you’re telling the story to feel like they were actually there! Try to change your emotion based on how you felt in the moment, don’t be bland! ((:

  • @jonkubina1
    @jonkubina1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You do an absolutely fantastic job of breaking down how people entertain others through the ways they talk, and your videos covering other youtubers is especially insightful. Could you break down how Jontron entertain people? He's like watching a looney toon, and for some reason I can't figure out what it is about his character that makes people like, subscribe, and rewatch his videos again and again.

  • @gnome_farmer
    @gnome_farmer 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been using your techniques and hints for about a month and i have noticed a major change in my life. thanks

  • @Brancake
    @Brancake 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've been watching Mark for YEARS and I've never noticed that he does these things. Thank you for this awesome analysis!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey Brancake! My pleasure, glad you enjoyed it 😁

  • @zahando1732
    @zahando1732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    out of the three story-telling videos, this one did for mae. Thanks Ben !

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heyyyy that's awesome Tyler! I'm really happy to hear it!

  • @ohboy1113
    @ohboy1113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    6:29
    Tone: Single
    Facial expressions: NA
    Body language: Blinking

  • @Composer1992
    @Composer1992 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video, thanks for going through and explaining those things!

  • @ishans4230
    @ishans4230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bait the hook
    Use the full range of your voice and vocals
    Convey Emotion

  • @TheBroccoliKnight
    @TheBroccoliKnight 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video guys. I just started my own TH-cam channel! I definitely plan to implement a ton of your tips from this video...(well actually like all of them) in my own personal life and TH-cam endeavors! Keep up the great work!!

  • @BiancaBlade
    @BiancaBlade 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm currently in a communications class in college, and have learned more from watching your videos than I have in that class. Thank you for these.

  • @lauramax93
    @lauramax93 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:30
    Did you just call my beautiful city, Glass Cow?!
    (Tbh I really can’t tell the way he said it was so weird)

  • @palemoonlight96
    @palemoonlight96 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    These videos with practical examples are your best! Could you pretty please also do the analysis of the youtuber angrypicnic? He's always so successful with girls and seems so confident and I'm interested to hear how he does it in terms of charisma...

  • @LovedHappy
    @LovedHappy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Love your videos! This was great.

  • @adyl3236
    @adyl3236 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thats for the advice. I recorded my voice. Decided to never talk again. Sad for people who heard me storytelling...

  • @RicoResolves
    @RicoResolves 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The key to a good story, is visualisation. I have a friend which is deaf mute, and they went to a play with a group and there was a black screen, black dressed actors wearing white gloves. Telling the story by sign language. Everytime you tell a story, it needs to be something people can relate too. For instance, if you're in the commerce business, you could say: "Hey, would you like to maybe have an offer from me if that's ok?". Or, you could say: "Look, You've got a couple of products from us, but not everything. I'd like to sit down with you and see if we have something else that suits your needs. After that, talk it over with your wife after dinner, and I'll contact you in about a week". See the difference? In the first sentence, there's a lack of visualisation, and confidence. In the second sentence, you're putting the person into a position he's familiar with (the kitchen table talks) and you're confident about your own products.

  • @riju6117
    @riju6117 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *I'll never stop trying new things until I find one thing that makes me really excited*

  • @ExploringInsanity
    @ExploringInsanity 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You always come up with quality & needed stuff ⚓🔛❤Thank you so much Manh!!!🔥📢

  • @btchoujosama
    @btchoujosama 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make more videos on Mark!!! I'm not a huge video game buff but I completely agree with and watch his channel purely for all the presentation characteristics you've mentioned in this video!! (:

  • @mamtaagrawal2717
    @mamtaagrawal2717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey guys. Love you videos! I was hoping you could do a video about how the way you walk can affect your Charisma. I mean it's a part of body language right.

  • @MissVindicat
    @MissVindicat 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this. I'm creating a video for a job application and these tips are gold. Also, it's so much fun to do something like this! Thanks! 😃

  • @RespectTheConglomerate
    @RespectTheConglomerate 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so good. I was having a hard time coming up w a story

  • @gatsuga1
    @gatsuga1 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi guys! Not sure if this is the place to ask about this, but I was wondering if you can do a breakdown of what makes Tim Bilyeu's speeches so captivating and interesting. I know you do charisma breakdowns and maybe what Tom does is a bit different, but I thought I'd still ask. Keep the awesome videos coming !

  • @carlangas0100
    @carlangas0100 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I completely see him in another way now, I always watched him but never paid attention to those little-big things in his speech. Thanks for the mega interesting video!

  • @Shark1103
    @Shark1103 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    He also have a deep voice, that's a bonus. Thanks for the video.

  • @Carl.Henriksson
    @Carl.Henriksson 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved when he talked about his childhood Nightmares and lucid Dreams when he played Five Nights At Candy's 3, it was so interessting and now i know why!

  • @fejj122na8
    @fejj122na8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Ben! Off Topic.... Any tips for naturally increasing your energy levels later in the day? For instance, I am a morning person, so I feel most alive during the first 2/3 of the day. But, come 8:00pm, my body starts winding down. Yet this is when a lot of my socializing takes place, which makes being joyful and charismatic a little bit more challenging. Any tips for natural ways to give your body a little bit of a wake me up (without using a substance like a caffeine or sugar)?

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wouldn't consider myself an expert on this but just from my personal experience, are you working out? And if so, at what time?
      I find that exercise gives me a high and then a crash. So if I lift at 6pm I'll definitely be awake at 8pm. But if I workout hard at 12pm, I might be more lethargic come 8pm.
      The other thing is, do you eat a big dinner? On nights where I'm going to go out, I try to do smaller meals more frequently, and even save dinner for when I get home that night if I'm not super hungry before going out. Probably not the best thing for physique to be eating right before bed, but it helps me be light and energetic when I'm out.
      Or you could try to sneak in a midday nap like Charlie does :-)

  • @leaderlogic7004
    @leaderlogic7004 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! Oh man, meetings at work would be so much more interesting if more people knew these skills! 😆

  • @TheOddSusie
    @TheOddSusie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    4:40 It's pronounced "Glaz-go" Not "Glas-cow"
    Sorry to be that guy, just a heads up because if you meet a Scot and pronounce it wrong, they will rip the utter shite out of you for the next 10 minutes.
    Great video as always though, glad I subscribed :)

  • @TheGreatest-vj5qy
    @TheGreatest-vj5qy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    Hey Charisma On Command. I want you to make a video about how to be sarcastic.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I like this idea, I'll think on who would be good to do a breakdown on that could show this...

    • @arbaks3124
      @arbaks3124 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      sure, that's what internet needs :)

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Look at that, two votes for sarcasm!
      ...wait a second...was that...sarcasm?! 😱

    • @111vincento
      @111vincento 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      i think a good breakdown on how to be sarcastic is needed. alot of people only get it when its EXTREMELY obvious.

    • @reecehayden7731
      @reecehayden7731 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I sense sarcasm

  • @MaytaneVideos
    @MaytaneVideos 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    That teaser sentence is a great tip

  • @Ojuolape
    @Ojuolape 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why have I never heard of Markplier but bigger question is why do I suddenly wanna go binge-watch his videos now ?

  • @Rayowag
    @Rayowag 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I literally just finished watching his latest video 😂

  • @fenkefury1482
    @fenkefury1482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Entire video about his likability? Oh I wanna see that one! Because I'm one of his fans and I still have no idea why. Seriously, I never was into youtube, I didn't like watching other people playing video games before and yet here I am, watching him every day. I'm really curious what's up with that. And it would be great to borrow some of his magical tricks :D

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We'll see how this video does but I'd definitely like to make another if this one does well :-)

    • @fenkefury1482
      @fenkefury1482 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Charisma on Command I hope it does well! Not even because I want to see another one, but because this one is great by itself and I like your channel in general. You guys deserve all the praise and recognition :D

  • @swampfox984
    @swampfox984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I tried thinking of a question to ask you since you announced on Instagram that the next video was coming but I got nothing. So I will just say thanks for the channel. It's one of my top two on TH-cam. I'm better today because of it.

    • @swampfox984
      @swampfox984 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Video idea too: something on Casey Neistat. Don't know what but he is popular so I'm sure you could make a great video.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey John! For what it's worth, this comment means a lot more to me than a question would have :-)

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I actually haven't watched many of his videos, I'll check them out and see what I see!

    • @swampfox984
      @swampfox984 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Charisma on Command well that is good. :)

  • @TheBohobemeister
    @TheBohobemeister 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always, wonderful video!

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have trouble with boring storytelling, especially in my videos. I need to work on the bringing in more happy emotion. At least I'm a legend- I watched till the end ;)

  • @suitedstrings8637
    @suitedstrings8637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing stuff,man. I wait eagerly for your videos. Would you care to do a video about stuttering and how one can finally overcome the fear of stuttering to be more successful in life? Thanks! ❤️

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey Som! I haven't dealt with that myself, have you Googled to see if anyone has good material on it?
      My one buddy stuttered very badly for the first 18 years of his life. He was repressing something about himself and was very filtered in general with his speech. Once he stopped repressing his emotions and stopped trying to filter what he said to be perfect, his stutter actually went away completely. I have no idea if that's helpful to you but he's the only person I know who had a stutter so that's the only personal reference I have for it.

    • @suitedstrings8637
      @suitedstrings8637 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Repressed emotions.That sounds interesting. I'll surely work on the topic you've highlighted. Googling doesn't really help because everyone else is in the same state of despair. There's no cure to this- just minor adjustments. I'll have to settle down with it. Thanks again!
      ~Som.

  • @JibJannapa
    @JibJannapa 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I got my first job thanks to your videos!!! The interviewers complimented me on my storytelling skill, little did they know that I've been practicing your tips and tricks! Thank you very much :)
    Btw, I really wish you would do a VDO on BTS' RM. He's the leader of a K-POP group that is blowing up around the world, especially in the US. I found his leadership skill very admirable and the way he answer questions is so fascinating (even Korean politicians, news reporters, and Google management have expressed their admiration of his communication skill). Even when most of his interviews were done in Korean, they're subtitles everywhere. It would be interesting to know his techniques in leading his group to global-scale.

  • @socorradecastro9673
    @socorradecastro9673 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watch this video a lot, fromwhen I first started my podcast to this moment I'm training to be a tour guide

  • @juliobarrios8149
    @juliobarrios8149 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you do a video on Game Grumps? They don't do facecam but are really charming and you feel connected to those guys

  • @petju7
    @petju7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I usually tell people what I want them to feel. Like "be sad for this part" and "now be ecstatic."

  • @yourtrustedpersonalityguide
    @yourtrustedpersonalityguide 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting! U mentioned in your video about this guy called Jay who talked about his dog passing. Do you have the link to that presentation?

  • @HotRefuse
    @HotRefuse 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I already do a lot of this, but I should do it more often for sure!

  • @trumpeterjen
    @trumpeterjen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is definitely true. I can only think of one person for whom being monotone worked, and it only worked because she actively dedicated herself to it at all times and had an extremely dry sense of humor. For the vast majority of people, it'll be easier to achieve the Markiplier effect.

  • @mzilg
    @mzilg 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the best "how to story" I've seen!!

  • @Phicksusmc
    @Phicksusmc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My issue is that I can’t remember any details of my life enough to say anything more than something “I went on vacation here once and saw this thing”

  • @Stewfou
    @Stewfou 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for making this video man! It's great!

  • @northstringlarge
    @northstringlarge 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    after watching this, I came up with "The 7-11 Story". It's just about getting a slurpee from 7-11 and trying to stop the machine before it overflows, and still having it overflow, and then going home and enjoying the slurpee. I told this with incredible passion and all of my friends got pissed at me because they were so interested in a story about nothing.

  • @daravandaro815
    @daravandaro815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What do u guys think about Hank Moody. Have u ever considered making a break-down about him?🤔

    • @daravandaro815
      @daravandaro815 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      *In Californication

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've actually never seen the show so I have no idea haha. I'm sure there's good stuff in there though, I know it was super popular

  • @TheGaragebandGuide
    @TheGaragebandGuide 6 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Glasgow is pronounced GLAZ-go, not 'glasskow' 👍

    • @Grazikon
      @Grazikon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's actually closer to the original Gaelic 'Glaschu'

    • @Grazikon
      @Grazikon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The Scots Gaelic word 'Glaschu' is pronounced /glasaxu/. The original name is Celtic. The first attestation is as 'Glasgu' (in Gaelic). This became the Older Scots Glasgow /glasgu/, Modern English Glasgow (Scottish pronunciation: /glazgo:/) and Modern Scots Glesga~Glesgae~Glesca /glezgə~glezge~gleskə/.

    • @ShuyaTheDark
      @ShuyaTheDark 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds the same to me

    • @michaelcrowe6796
      @michaelcrowe6796 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And yet we say Glazgo, not Glasgu.

    • @arranbrown6695
      @arranbrown6695 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      its actually glezgey

  • @sherifor3220
    @sherifor3220 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    he has an awesome voice as it is. he could do tons of voice overs

  • @thenotorioussplorch9018
    @thenotorioussplorch9018 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    are you guys going to do another TH-camr video? if so can I recommended psychic pebbles?

  • @peterhudson1690
    @peterhudson1690 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Howard Stern would be an amazing person to focus on in one of your videos! Specifically when it comes to his celebrity interviews, he often gets people to talk about things they never expected they would and they do it gladly. It would be hard to call it a "great" example, but certainly one of note; when interviewing Lady Gaga a few years ago he picked up on something as they were interviewing and got her to open up about being sexually assaulted by someone in the record industry when she was younger. TOTALLY unexpected, cleverly handled with a vast amount of empathy and respect, and enthralling to listen to (certainly stoked my frustration about such things years before "Me too"). If I were to obtain any celebrity's charisma, I would want it to be Howard Stern's

  • @angerOwO
    @angerOwO 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing about not talking monotome is really true! When I was younger I really sucked at reading out loud, I could only do it really slow. But one day I was just like fuck it and started reading outloud but this time giving the different characters their own tone and speed and applying just over the top emotions to everything . I was as slow as i was before, only this time people were actually listening and not just cringeing because I sucked so much.

  • @Gabiche
    @Gabiche 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Now I'm curious to know why Mark had to go to the hospital because of a pickle in his eye! Great storytelling. But also, thumbs up for the maker itself of this video who analysed everything!

  • @TORULEZ10
    @TORULEZ10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great video Ben! Would it be possible to do a video on Seth Meyers? Because he's a great conversationalist and I'm trying to get better at that. Hope y'all have a great day!

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Torulez! Funny you mention Seth Meyers, I was actually thinking about him for this video! It's a great idea, I don't know exactly when but he's definitely on my list of people to do a video on 😁
      Do you have any particular videos of him you find impressive?
      These comments will get really hard to keep track of soon but if you tweet it at me I'll definitely watch it :-)

  • @jlupus8804
    @jlupus8804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1. Crazy Teaser
    2. Full vocal range with changing speed
    3. Fluctuate voice body language and face
    4. Imagine the emotion you want to convey

  • @nickchavez3344
    @nickchavez3344 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey Ben! Do you have any tips for somebody who is afraid of interacting with certain people. I want to engage in conversation with a lot of people, but I always think it’s going to fall flat.

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Nick! I think this video Charlie made might help?
      th-cam.com/video/beg57qXMZTE/w-d-xo.html

    • @nickchavez3344
      @nickchavez3344 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks Ben! I appreciate it very much.

    • @haris000000
      @haris000000 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nick Chavez thats called learned helplesnes. Your brain predicting a negative outcome based on past events. Meaning your brain is running past=future equation.
      Your brain likes the certainty that equations gives it. Break that equation and your golden.
      My suggestion? Make the desired action (talking to people) at least once until you can get an outcome that is different and better than your previous results.
      Once you have that you can build from there.
      Heres a tip. Most people suck at conversations .. they are just as scared and insecure as you have been until now. Pay attention and you will notice it from now the ticks and awkward gestures ....

  • @FerrariKing
    @FerrariKing 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have watched him when he played Outlast. He is good at making bland part of a game interesting.

  • @onnnn111
    @onnnn111 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Ben, can you give me tips on dealing with friends/people teasing you? It's funny and everyone laughing and having fun, but it's at my expense and it bugs me sometimes.
    Should I just let it be? If not, how to act when it happens?

    • @Charismaoncommand
      @Charismaoncommand  6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey Onny!
      This is an amazing question. It's so nuanced I'm afraid I can't really do it justice in a comment. Sometimes the best thing to do is laugh and let it go. Other times, pull the person aside in private and tell them it bothers you and ask them to stop.
      Your comment may lead to a video on this, I'll have to think on it and watch my friend group interact to notice when each reaction is warranted.

  • @HaterzSayHi
    @HaterzSayHi 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job on this video!

  • @nomercy8989
    @nomercy8989 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Where is this Glass cow?

  • @pablotejano7461
    @pablotejano7461 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can hypnotize a crowd with my mono tone

  • @opedromagico
    @opedromagico 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Awesome!!!

  • @mocawnorkim7845
    @mocawnorkim7845 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys should look into Olan Rogers for topics like storytelling and comedy. PLEASE! I need it in my life, thank you.

  • @Tubeytime
    @Tubeytime 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know what I was expecting, but I thought this video was going to be about writing stories and world building.

  • @bltotrs92
    @bltotrs92 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    your voice and how you tell things also seem to have improved ;)

  • @tander101
    @tander101 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I didn't even notice Mark in the thumbnail and was pleasantly surprised when he was the topic of the video.