Wonderful conversation. For me, it comes down to 3 things: 1) A deep mutual respect because you both provide... 2) Security that you're invested in each other and growing the relationship. And... 3) Sexual compatibility (you're attracted and can fulfill each other's intimate needs)
I love, “I simply need to adjust the way I interact with the world”. Spot on guys! So much power in those words! I feel this has been a huge lesson that I’m continuing to learn. I’m in the process of rearranging my own expectations of certain people in my space. I’m learning to accept people as they are and not allow my own mind to try and make them something their not. I’m realising that we are ultimately responsible for who is allowed access into the sacred parts of our hearts and who need to remain in the see you once in a while or not at all category of the heart. Thanks so much for posting such great videos. Your words are empowering and encouraging to many! 😃
Your podcast is full of valuable information. Thank you for pointing out those precious attributes that make a flourishing relationship. One thing to add though concerning respect. Talking about giving respect in order to receive it. We must be careful with this because this applies only to bullies or rude people. A nice guy for instance will be very respectful towards people and receive less respect in return, while a very assertive and dominant man will receive a lot of respect for the character he has developed. And also, a toxic group dynamic will imply that someone ( the scapegoat) doesn't respect the group because it doesn't share the same values or "rules" as the tribe. He/She'll be accused of not respecting others by doing things in his/her own way. Perhaps respect comes when you realize each one deals with his/her own shit and his/her behavior is a reflection of him/herself. Keeping an assertive attitude together with detachment is in my opinion the key to respect. And of course, these skills are never completely achieved, and will not work always in every context. But practicing them will surely work in some cases and will improve your relationship with yourself.
Having gone through a tough time with mates during lockdown, highlighted those elements or areas of those elements that needed work - which was a positive in the end, as it helped strengthen those relationships and brought us closer together, which was awesome :) thanks for the discussion guys ❤
A healthy relationship is one that enhances your life without trying to change the other person - a great pithy answer to what a truly healthy friendship looks like.
Hi guys I have a question🤍 I agree e books are more convenient and better for decluttering, do you ever wonder what happens when we put many of our texts, photos, etc in the possession of huge corporations who don’t care about us? Edward Snowden explained why companies pushed the cloud onto us so much and it’s not because they care, it’s because they want to take our data. We don’t know if they’ll hold our books or other treasures we store online hostage one day. Or if the world goes into complete disarray. Little/no internet, pandemics, etc. While I am minimizing daily and do have e books, physical copies are still pretty valuable to me for this reason.
Great listening in a friendship if you try to change me or i try to change you its not a true friendship accept that person for who they are and enjoy that friendship
My problem is that my friends have nothing in common with me when it comes to interests and sometimes I feel like I am not a good match for them and they are not for me... any tips on that?
Wonderful conversation. For me, it comes down to 3 things:
1) A deep mutual respect because you both provide...
2) Security that you're invested in each other and growing the relationship. And...
3) Sexual compatibility (you're attracted and can fulfill each other's intimate needs)
I love, “I simply need to adjust the way I interact with the world”. Spot on guys! So much power in those words! I feel this has been a huge lesson that I’m continuing to learn. I’m in the process of rearranging my own expectations of certain people in my space. I’m learning to accept people as they are and not allow my own mind to try and make them something their not. I’m realising that we are ultimately responsible for who is allowed access into the sacred parts of our hearts and who need to remain in the see you once in a while or not at all category of the heart.
Thanks so much for posting such great videos. Your words are empowering and encouraging to many! 😃
Your podcast is full of valuable information. Thank you for pointing out those precious attributes that make a flourishing relationship. One thing to add though concerning respect. Talking about giving respect in order to receive it. We must be careful with this because this applies only to bullies or rude people. A nice guy for instance will be very respectful towards people and receive less respect in return, while a very assertive and dominant man will receive a lot of respect for the character he has developed. And also, a toxic group dynamic will imply that someone ( the scapegoat) doesn't respect the group because it doesn't share the same values or "rules" as the tribe. He/She'll be accused of not respecting others by doing things in his/her own way. Perhaps respect comes when you realize each one deals with his/her own shit and his/her behavior is a reflection of him/herself. Keeping an assertive attitude together with detachment is in my opinion the key to respect. And of course, these skills are never completely achieved, and will not work always in every context. But practicing them will surely work in some cases and will improve your relationship with yourself.
Having gone through a tough time with mates during lockdown, highlighted those elements or areas of those elements that needed work - which was a positive in the end, as it helped strengthen those relationships and brought us closer together, which was awesome :) thanks for the discussion guys ❤
A healthy relationship is one that enhances your life without trying to change the other person - a great pithy answer to what a truly healthy friendship looks like.
Great... I love listening to you guys... Great Job! Thank you very much for you guys sharing good information..
Keep it going brothers... 🙏
Hi guys I have a question🤍 I agree e books are more convenient and better for decluttering, do you ever wonder what happens when we put many of our texts, photos, etc in the possession of huge corporations who don’t care about us?
Edward Snowden explained why companies pushed the cloud onto us so much and it’s not because they care, it’s because they want to take our data. We don’t know if they’ll hold our books or other treasures we store online hostage one day. Or if the world goes into complete disarray. Little/no internet, pandemics, etc. While I am minimizing daily and do have e books, physical copies are still pretty valuable to me for this reason.
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Thanks for this ❤️
Great listening in a friendship if you try to change me or i try to change you its not a true friendship accept that person for who they are and enjoy that friendship
Wow, this is so far from what I have learned about abusers. This is the polar opposite of what I have learned.
My problem is that my friends have nothing in common with me when it comes to interests and sometimes I feel like I am not a good match for them and they are not for me... any tips on that?
ego narcissistic self narratives is so common in people Gosh, that's why they always point out what you should do and how you should be...
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Blaming others is easy
Blaming or fixing yourself is hard
I agree with Joshua and Ryan, let go of shitty friendships and colleagues, do American Indian way.
Wow every word hit home
This apply to parenting?
Deserve more followers guys
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I think you need to have small group of friends or family, I also let go of shitty family members and I like retired ones.
Good friendship looks like my friends
Summya , gurrya, harrya, sumesha and that girl who doesn't speak to me😝