I've had a lot of betrayals by best friends but the one that hurt the most is when we were at a Super Bowl party around 12 years ago. She started a rant about how disgusting cripples are. She knew my mom was handicapped and when I tried to remind her she just talked over me about not liking disabled people and insulting a guy with a bad arm until he left. I never hung out with her again after that party.
4:21 This one cuts deep for me. I went through something very similar with a former friends last colleague of mine who trashed my writing. I had already written two screenplays in the time that I knew her, (one prior to meeting her but the other after we had met). It turned out, she was insanely jealous of my writing talent. Not only she was trashing my writing and telling everybody it wasn't good, but she had actually stolen it, plagiarize it and then tried to get it produced behind my back as her own little vanity project. She did such a sloppy job rewriting it, that everyone who had read sample pages, knew that it was mine. It's worth pointing out, she couldn't write to save her life as her spelling and grammar were atrocious. When I busted her, naturally, she denied everything, then when I told her I had ample proof, she went dead silent. After listing the number of atrocities she had committed against me, including, but not limited to: theft of intellectual property, plagiarism, copyright infringement (it was copyrighted before I met her), defamation of character, slander and libel (she had left quite the paper trail), she deflected blame and tried to claim she didn't know what she had done was illegal. I didn't accept that and told her ignorance of the law was no excuse for breaking it. I added that even if she didn't know it was illegal, she knew what she had done was completely unethical and immoral. After realizing I wasn't going to drop it, and "sweep it under the rug” as she put it, devolved into a simpering mass, turned on the water works then begged me not to sue her. I was completely unmoved by her theatrics and told her if she didn't write her wrongs and tell everyone the truth, I would be contacting an attorney to proceed with a lawsuit. She was crapping herself as she had never seen me that way before. She tried to accuse me of being mean to her. I shot that down telling her it wasn't mean to hold someone accountable and make them face the music. In the end, I ended up not suing her. Even though I had a very solid evidence on my side and my attorney said as much, plagiarism lawsuits usually yield very little payouts. I decided to pray on it and let it go. Karma was swift. Her reputation went down the toilet. I'm sure it didn't help at all that her resume was pure fiction and she had an attitude so vile it would have made Miranda Priestly cringe.
When I found out my best friend was hanging out with the people who bullied me and he knew they were bullying me and didn't gave a shit and he was ghosting me all of the time so I cut ties with him
@@Znew00 Any time. I have no life outside of youtube and role playing so I’m gonna be available day and highly until I have to go back to school on January 4th. :)
When I travelled after 4 years to the place far from my state just to celebrate my bestfriend's birthday ... I have made all the plans divided where we will go what all things we both will do etc ... I prepared her gift from my all pocket money ... Couldn't sleep because I was so excited to meet her after 4 years ... Wanted to hug her adore her all day of her birthday ... After travelling long distance even though my parents were against it ... I still said that I miss her and went to see her in another state alone ... Only to be called by her and say she can't come to meet me ... I thought may be their could have been some trouble or something ... I tried to calm myself down ...the next day I see her pictures of her celebrating her birthday at her home with her other friends ... Form that day onwards I lost my trust with any of my friends .. I now have truth issues .. most of the time friends are just not real friends their are more fake friends .. when you know that they are fake you would be less hurt by their behavior ...
This is why I'd rather have no actual friends. They're just very... very rare to find. Most people only see you as a liability for whatever they want in life, then they dispose of you a while later...
Had a “friend” in my friend group who would “test” my friends partners to see if they where loyal.... yea the majority of my friend group doesn’t doesn’t talk to them anymore.
@@hiimryan2388 they where not, the flirting was in person or on messenger and they wouldn’t stop until they where caught. They would also send some inappropriate pictures to the person they where “testing”.
I have way too many examples of this, but here's a 'greatest hits': 1. I had a best friend from being 4 years old, and as soon as we started secondary school at 11, she told me that she wanted to be seen as cool and therefore I wasn't allowed to be myself anymore because I was apparently embarrassing. She also found out about the crush I had, told him and he laughed and said I was ugly, and then she dated him and flaunted it in my face. 2. Made a new best friend to replace that bitch. 3 years later, she started bullying the shit out of me and then gaslighting me, saying it never happened and pretending to still be friends with me. 3. My entire friendship group during university was fake. After a while, I noticed that they'd only hang out with me when they had no one else, but as soon as someone cooler came along, they wouldn't even look at me. None of them spoke a word to me after graduation. 4. One of my best friends and band mates asked if we could take a break from making music to focus on our studies, and I agreed because we were close to big exams. He promised we'd start up again after graduation. It's been 8 years, not a word.
@@chicksinfire it's only better in that I ditched all my friends, moved away and didn't make any new friends... Can't be treated like shit when there's no one there XD my life is so peaceful now
She said special needs children should... um... pass away. Also, used my full name in a story without my permission, got upset when I told her to take it out, threw a (plastic) spoon at my (also ex) friend, yelled at me, and then tried to hit me.
She dated a homophobic guy (I'm bi) and she knew I'm bi, that's what started it. Then she revealed that one of the student organizations she was involved in had a n*zi (self defined as too) in a leadership position. At that point I realized she wasn't who I thought she was and stopped actively communicating with her. She hasn't reached out to talk to me since, which also hurts. The one good thing out of this is I met her housemate, who is actually super cool and I talk to.
I’m in eleventh grade and I’m not friends with _any_ of my childhood friends. I wanted to stay friends but they all left me after middle school. I don’t get it. I feel like they only wanted me cause I shared my lunch with them every day.
What great art you could make out of some of these storys like a picture where half of the picture is a rose color one with how you imagene how your friend is and the other showing the crappy reality.
When I started being good friends with one of my current best friends in year 9 all of his friends were friendly, then mid the following year they turned a little hostile towards me, which scared me a bit because that is almost exactly what happened to me in primary school. This friend of mine never joined in their shenanigans, and, along with a couple of others in that group, helped me ignore them when they were being arseholes, not yet realising how nasty they were. Come year 11, he spent more time with me and less with them, and only then truly realised how nasty they were with and about me. I didn’t want him to lose his friends, and he still talks to them, but I just wanted him to see how they treated me. He suddenly spent far less time with them, and said that he’d rather spend time with someone that would help him and he could help than with “those fuckheads” We are still great friends to this day, and whilst he is hard to deal with in large doses, I keep in regular contact with him, and am thankful for the support he gave me. Despite that, I still miss High School, as they were the best years of my life! Though, life is great now!
When I checked Instagram to see loads of messages of my best friends story, he had hidden his story from me of him saying I can’t be bothered with (me) and he wishes I didn’t exist, I sent him some screenshots people sent me and then told me it was his friend playing a prank, and when I said come out tommorow then, he said he was helping his grandma, until the next day until he put on his story him having fun with other boys, and forgot to hide it from me, never spoken to him again
Friend decided I did something wrong. Talked about it with her friends, who I never met. Never said a word to me about the issue. Friend's friends told her to give me the silent treatment. She even admitted to me she was giving me the silent treatment because of what I did but to this day I have no idea what she thinks I did. I didn't do anything. Totally clueless. This happened over a decade ago. Her actions ended our friendship. She was married and in her 30's, so not a child.
Story Time - I had my feature film debut and not only did he (my best friend) not come, he didn't even acknowledge it or say anything, not even a "I'm happy for you". I texted him a week later asking if he was happy for me and he said yes (Not knowing what I was even talking about) and I literally had to tell him about it...and he didn't say much and we never got together to talk or anything when I really wanted to celebrate with him. I cut him off then. I was there for his wedding as his best man, there for his career, and gave up an entire summer for him when he had a break up, given him money, etc. All things he would NEVER do for me. -_- I mean, I kinda knew he wouldn't do THAT much for me (cause honestly he never had...or done ANYTHING for me) but he could have at least acknowledged me and what was happening (which is apparently too much to ask for)...but no. So I had it. I had confronted this problem several times over the last decade and it always came back to becoming friends again (and it had to be back to friends immediately and trust him 100% for him otherwise I'd never hear the end of his guilting me till I finally fully took him back) and the hurtful situation would inevitably happen again. I did eventually tell him why I broke away from him by messenger, and I did it in the kindest and most civil way possible with no anger or anything. And...get this...his response showed he wasn't broken up by it or that he took it seriously as he said "Oh, I'm proud of you" and talked about "his being loyal always to me" as if he didn't even read what problems I brought up to him, and I got a wave of "likes" on everything about my stuff then and there (eyes roll, oh sure, NOW you notice and act like this so that to others it looks like you're loyal to me). He didn't even apologize or make any reference that he would change either. Whatever, I didn't friend him back or anything and thought he would get the point. ...he didn't. (He still thinks we're best friends at this time) So a couple months go by and he commented on one of my social media posts how I am a star in his book and that just made me angry. Yup, THAT did it. I privately responded to him (Again, not name calling or anything, but a lot more firm and clearly annoyed) that I didn't see how that was possible after everything I had already said to him, after not even being there this whole time I needed him and wanted him to be a part of my life too. I told him that this had nothing to do with my acting career and had everything to do with how important we are to each other, cause clearly I'm not to him, and I straight up told him that I didn't think he took what I said to him seriously and to back off and leave me alone and that all his words are empty to me. Side note: This whole time I didn't hate him or wish him bad or anything. A few weeks later he tried to "apologize" (very half hearted and a lot of "IF" I did something wrong type of stuff) and I told him I wasn't ready to accept it and that I will later but I needed space. He went BALLISTIC! He said he did nothing wrong (so why did he apologize then?) AND accused me of wanting a romantic relationship with him (WHOA!), AND that being with me meant that that was "neglecting his family" like WTF! XD He said to me too that maybe people were right about me after all in saying I'm in a fantasy world. Low blow, but that's rich coming from him cause at least I'm actually acting in movies that are being shown and getting bigger and bigger and have more friends in my life now who think nothing like the people he's talking about vs him who wants to be a pastor and ministry and is lazy and hasn't done ANYTHING to move forward in his direction for years cause his priorities aren't in order. He also "justified" his many times cancelling on me and said how I was a selfish immature adolescent, said things that he knew would have used to hit my "insecure nerve" (but he hasn't seen me grow the last few years to know that that doesn't work on me anymore, lol), name called and so on and so forth. I can say with ease and confidence there is NO chance of us being friends after this =) He totally showed his true colors and did everything to make himself look good. I think finding new friends and working hard for my future opened my eyes to how I wanted to be treated and he couldn't accept that. He wants the me of 10 years ago. I've outgrown him and after what he said I don't ever want to see or talk to him again. I did hope that he got the point then. Either that or he'll think what happened before will happen again: I get guilty and then I do all the apologizing and we become friends again (will full trust on HIM, not me, cause I'm the dumb immature one) and move on the way HE wants to go. Sorry dude, NOT this time. He had 13 years to change...and he's just the same. 8 months later he tried to message me through social media (I thought I blocked him) and he "apologized" but never specifically said why and minimized it a lot, and he definitely did not get the gravity of why I left. I think he was expecting me to have crawled back to him a long time ago and apologize to HIM. As if every word I said did not register to him. I basically told him to F off and that I would never speak to him again. I'm moving on and have other films coming up that I'm acting in and several other friends in my life who are supportive and loving who showed me what true friendship is like =) Life is good without this guy. Never again.
Guy in kindergraden punched me in the chest( not hard mind you) Told the teacher Made me and the bully be friends Bully waited until 6th grade to continue being a bully HE FAKED THE WHOLE TIME JUST TO NOT GET IN MORE TROUBLE
One of my best friends in my dnd session told me that the group was "leaving me behind and didn't want to talk to me about it." I was so distraught that I apologized to everyone in the group in person...only to discover that no one had agreed or knew about this. He was trying to kick me out of the group without anyone knowing about it.
Was best friends with my supervisor overnights at a big box store. We'd chat when it was slow, had similar thoughts on many things. For well over a year, things were very chill, and any night she would be in charge would be a good night. I hear she's transferring, and I go up to wish her well... and she won't speak with me, unless it's work related. O-kay.... Shift ends, I go home and try to message her on FB, to ask what's up. I'm blocked. WTF?! For the rest of her two weeks with us, she won't socialize with me, leaving me stunned and confused. A year or so later, she messages to be readded as a friend on FB. I allow it to ask her WTF happened for her to ice me out and block me. She said that some of the others said I was talking about her to them behind her back. Seriously? I hardly spoke to any of the others on our shift, and you believed that without speaking to me first? Pretty much what I said to her before =I= blocked =her,= Don't need that in my life, and I'd left the state by then, too.
I didn't see how horrible she treated me for 12 years. She was manipulative the whole time. I never knew until year 13. I went to college. She went and got married. She lied and didn't tell me updates about the wedding, but got mad when I wasn't able to do stuff. She knew I couldn't drive and said she'd drive and transport me for stuff. Nope. She got mad that I couldn't attend because I didn't know if I needed a ride to our childhood town in NE Ohio or where she lived in mid/SW Ohio. She didn't know a week beforehand. I didn't go. I found what real friends were in college and it made me realize that "best friend" was a manipulative cunt. I tried doing basically a friend break up really sweetly by text (I had a text only plan at the time. I was a poor college student) and she basically guilt tripped me to staying her friend cuz she didn't wanna be abandoned whole she was having her baby. So I gave in and didn't officially leave our so called friendship. I graduated and she had her baby. We met up and I didn't feel anything for her. I decided I didn't wanna hear from her or bother with her anymore. Same with her older sister. (Back story: I babysat for the sister for free for the months I was online classes. She was obsessed with her boyfriend and didn't bother to care about her kid much.) The sisters kid (about 5, past the kindergarten cut off) was still in diapers. I tried to check without being creepy, and it was not the just in case pull ups. The kid was not handicapped. So I'm done with them, block them on FB. The phone I had at the time didn't have blocking phone numbers. They never tried talking to me again. Forward to 5 years later....I finally make an instagram account for my art and my cat. Both sisters immediately followed both. stalkers.
This video made me txt all of my friends, im that friend that never calls or txt. I'm not super busy I just think no one has time for me bc they all have families and I'm single like a pringle.
Fun story in 1st grade I had just told my best friend who I had a crush on and literally 4 seconds later he walks up to the person I told him I had a crush on and tells them that I have a crush on them.
My cousin was friends with some boy. Boy's family moves. Somehow, in 2nd grade, cousin finds boy's phone number and starts calling him. Cell phones aren't even something people can imagine. Aunt and Uncle are not happy when they get their phone bill.
When our neighbor who were close family friends kicked when we were at our lowest .my family and i lost our house and while we were trying to get what we could we were given a week to get everything and the bitch not only lied to police she helped thieves break on and destroy our house and laughed and took a video of our stuff being stolen And she got away with it . that was three years ago and im still pissed 😠
My own loss that thrice down that happened in anything from college has lead to nothingness of being the odd one out showed me if your ghosting or ignoring me at least be upfront about it eventually dropping out and finding a mediocre job because I couldn't go higher in ed my last regards is why and yes I see good sailing as of now
What's terrible, is this is so relatable to so many people.
Most people suck, I'm not suprised
One of my turtle friends back in college betrayed me.
He is no longer existing in this world
Hol up
Good for you! Good riddince to a bad turtle.
Lmao
I've had a lot of betrayals by best friends but the one that hurt the most is when we were at a Super Bowl party around 12 years ago. She started a rant about how disgusting cripples are. She knew my mom was handicapped and when I tried to remind her she just talked over me about not liking disabled people and insulting a guy with a bad arm until he left. I never hung out with her again after that party.
4:21 This one cuts deep for me. I went through something very similar with a former friends last colleague of mine who trashed my writing. I had already written two screenplays in the time that I knew her, (one prior to meeting her but the other after we had met). It turned out, she was insanely jealous of my writing talent. Not only she was trashing my writing and telling everybody it wasn't good, but she had actually stolen it, plagiarize it and then tried to get it produced behind my back as her own little vanity project. She did such a sloppy job rewriting it, that everyone who had read sample pages, knew that it was mine. It's worth pointing out, she couldn't write to save her life as her spelling and grammar were atrocious. When I busted her, naturally, she denied everything, then when I told her I had ample proof, she went dead silent. After listing the number of atrocities she had committed against me, including, but not limited to: theft of intellectual property, plagiarism, copyright infringement (it was copyrighted before I met her), defamation of character, slander and libel (she had left quite the paper trail), she deflected blame and tried to claim she didn't know what she had done was illegal. I didn't accept that and told her ignorance of the law was no excuse for breaking it. I added that even if she didn't know it was illegal, she knew what she had done was completely unethical and immoral. After realizing I wasn't going to drop it, and "sweep it under the rug” as she put it, devolved into a simpering mass, turned on the water works then begged me not to sue her. I was completely unmoved by her theatrics and told her if she didn't write her wrongs and tell everyone the truth, I would be contacting an attorney to proceed with a lawsuit.
She was crapping herself as she had never seen me that way before. She tried to accuse me of being mean to her. I shot that down telling her it wasn't mean to hold someone accountable and make them face the music. In the end, I ended up not suing her. Even though I had a very solid evidence on my side and my attorney said as much, plagiarism lawsuits usually yield very little payouts. I decided to pray on it and let it go. Karma was swift. Her reputation went down the toilet. I'm sure it didn't help at all that her resume was pure fiction and she had an attitude so vile it would have made Miranda Priestly cringe.
When I found out my best friend was hanging out with the people who bullied me and he knew they were bullying me and didn't gave a shit and he was ghosting me all of the time so I cut ties with him
Good. People who ghost and bully others are not friends. You deserve better. You deserve WAY better.
@@NatGeoGacha thank you
@@Znew00
If you ever wanna talk, I’m there to listen. It’s what I’m for.
@@NatGeoGacha I feel like I wanna talk but maybe later thank you so much it means a lot
@@Znew00
Any time. I have no life outside of youtube and role playing so I’m gonna be available day and highly until I have to go back to school on January 4th. :)
When I travelled after 4 years to the place far from my state just to celebrate my bestfriend's birthday ... I have made all the plans divided where we will go what all things we both will do etc ... I prepared her gift from my all pocket money ... Couldn't sleep because I was so excited to meet her after 4 years ... Wanted to hug her adore her all day of her birthday ... After travelling long distance even though my parents were against it ... I still said that I miss her and went to see her in another state alone ... Only to be called by her and say she can't come to meet me ... I thought may be their could have been some trouble or something ... I tried to calm myself down ...the next day I see her pictures of her celebrating her birthday at her home with her other friends ... Form that day onwards I lost my trust with any of my friends .. I now have truth issues .. most of the time friends are just not real friends their are more fake friends .. when you know that they are fake you would be less hurt by their behavior ...
This is why I'd rather have no actual friends. They're just very... very rare to find. Most people only see you as a liability for whatever they want in life, then they dispose of you a while later...
@Sarah Collins I bet people aren't raised well enough by their parents, and unfortunately that shit is still common.
Had a “friend” in my friend group who would “test” my friends partners to see if they where loyal.... yea the majority of my friend group doesn’t doesn’t talk to them anymore.
The Ace Of Spades the friend is either a good person that's just stupid or a horrible monster
@@hiimryan2388 they where not, the flirting was in person or on messenger and they wouldn’t stop until they where caught. They would also send some inappropriate pictures to the person they where “testing”.
@@theaceofspades1523 Wow he really is a bad person...
I have way too many examples of this, but here's a 'greatest hits':
1. I had a best friend from being 4 years old, and as soon as we started secondary school at 11, she told me that she wanted to be seen as cool and therefore I wasn't allowed to be myself anymore because I was apparently embarrassing. She also found out about the crush I had, told him and he laughed and said I was ugly, and then she dated him and flaunted it in my face.
2. Made a new best friend to replace that bitch. 3 years later, she started bullying the shit out of me and then gaslighting me, saying it never happened and pretending to still be friends with me.
3. My entire friendship group during university was fake. After a while, I noticed that they'd only hang out with me when they had no one else, but as soon as someone cooler came along, they wouldn't even look at me. None of them spoke a word to me after graduation.
4. One of my best friends and band mates asked if we could take a break from making music to focus on our studies, and I agreed because we were close to big exams. He promised we'd start up again after graduation. It's been 8 years, not a word.
Sorry about that
Hope your life is better
@@chicksinfire it's only better in that I ditched all my friends, moved away and didn't make any new friends... Can't be treated like shit when there's no one there XD my life is so peaceful now
She said special needs children should... um... pass away. Also, used my full name in a story without my permission, got upset when I told her to take it out, threw a (plastic) spoon at my (also ex) friend, yelled at me, and then tried to hit me.
She dated a homophobic guy (I'm bi) and she knew I'm bi, that's what started it. Then she revealed that one of the student organizations she was involved in had a n*zi (self defined as too) in a leadership position. At that point I realized she wasn't who I thought she was and stopped actively communicating with her.
She hasn't reached out to talk to me since, which also hurts. The one good thing out of this is I met her housemate, who is actually super cool and I talk to.
She got mad at me for the stupidest sh*t ever. Some of the best examples are for my eye color, talking to boys, my grades, etc.
Ex-friend, I hope.
@@Kayenne54 yeah, we stopped being friends in 7th grade. I'm in 9th grade now
I’m in eleventh grade and I’m not friends with _any_ of my childhood friends. I wanted to stay friends but they all left me after middle school. I don’t get it. I feel like they only wanted me cause I shared my lunch with them every day.
Why was she mad about your eye color??!?
@@66DoodleGal she absolutely hated green eyed girls for some reason, but loved green eyed boys
What great art you could make out of some of these storys like a picture where half of the picture is a rose color one with how you imagene how your friend is and the other showing the crappy reality.
1:55 "YOU MONSTER FRISBEE!!"
"the cake was delicious" 😂🤭
henry stickmin in the betrayed ending by reginald. they aren't best friends, but still its the ultimate betrayal
Charles was the real friend
When I started being good friends with one of my current best friends in year 9 all of his friends were friendly, then mid the following year they turned a little hostile towards me, which scared me a bit because that is almost exactly what happened to me in primary school. This friend of mine never joined in their shenanigans, and, along with a couple of others in that group, helped me ignore them when they were being arseholes, not yet realising how nasty they were. Come year 11, he spent more time with me and less with them, and only then truly realised how nasty they were with and about me. I didn’t want him to lose his friends, and he still talks to them, but I just wanted him to see how they treated me. He suddenly spent far less time with them, and said that he’d rather spend time with someone that would help him and he could help than with “those fuckheads”
We are still great friends to this day, and whilst he is hard to deal with in large doses, I keep in regular contact with him, and am thankful for the support he gave me. Despite that, I still miss High School, as they were the best years of my life! Though, life is great now!
When I checked Instagram to see loads of messages of my best friends story, he had hidden his story from me of him saying I can’t be bothered with (me) and he wishes I didn’t exist, I sent him some screenshots people sent me and then told me it was his friend playing a prank, and when I said come out tommorow then, he said he was helping his grandma, until the next day until he put on his story him having fun with other boys, and forgot to hide it from me, never spoken to him again
For me, it’d had to be that my friend from high school eventually turned out to be super annoying on purpose… . Frick that guy!
Friend decided I did something wrong. Talked about it with her friends, who I never met. Never said a word to me about the issue. Friend's friends told her to give me the silent treatment. She even admitted to me she was giving me the silent treatment because of what I did but to this day I have no idea what she thinks I did. I didn't do anything. Totally clueless. This happened over a decade ago. Her actions ended our friendship. She was married and in her 30's, so not a child.
Story Time - I had my feature film debut and not only did he (my best friend) not come, he didn't even acknowledge it or say anything, not even a "I'm happy for you". I texted him a week later asking if he was happy for me and he said yes (Not knowing what I was even talking about) and I literally had to tell him about it...and he didn't say much and we never got together to talk or anything when I really wanted to celebrate with him.
I cut him off then. I was there for his wedding as his best man, there for his career, and gave up an entire summer for him when he had a break up, given him money, etc. All things he would NEVER do for me. -_- I mean, I kinda knew he wouldn't do THAT much for me (cause honestly he never had...or done ANYTHING for me) but he could have at least acknowledged me and what was happening (which is apparently too much to ask for)...but no. So I had it.
I had confronted this problem several times over the last decade and it always came back to becoming friends again (and it had to be back to friends immediately and trust him 100% for him otherwise I'd never hear the end of his guilting me till I finally fully took him back) and the hurtful situation would inevitably happen again.
I did eventually tell him why I broke away from him by messenger, and I did it in the kindest and most civil way possible with no anger or anything. And...get this...his response showed he wasn't broken up by it or that he took it seriously as he said "Oh, I'm proud of you" and talked about "his being loyal always to me" as if he didn't even read what problems I brought up to him, and I got a wave of "likes" on everything about my stuff then and there (eyes roll, oh sure, NOW you notice and act like this so that to others it looks like you're loyal to me). He didn't even apologize or make any reference that he would change either. Whatever, I didn't friend him back or anything and thought he would get the point. ...he didn't. (He still thinks we're best friends at this time)
So a couple months go by and he commented on one of my social media posts how I am a star in his book and that just made me angry. Yup, THAT did it.
I privately responded to him (Again, not name calling or anything, but a lot more firm and clearly annoyed) that I didn't see how that was possible after everything I had already said to him, after not even being there this whole time I needed him and wanted him to be a part of my life too. I told him that this had nothing to do with my acting career and had everything to do with how important we are to each other, cause clearly I'm not to him, and I straight up told him that I didn't think he took what I said to him seriously and to back off and leave me alone and that all his words are empty to me.
Side note: This whole time I didn't hate him or wish him bad or anything.
A few weeks later he tried to "apologize" (very half hearted and a lot of "IF" I did something wrong type of stuff) and I told him I wasn't ready to accept it and that I will later but I needed space.
He went BALLISTIC! He said he did nothing wrong (so why did he apologize then?) AND accused me of wanting a romantic relationship with him (WHOA!), AND that being with me meant that that was "neglecting his family" like WTF! XD He said to me too that maybe people were right about me after all in saying I'm in a fantasy world. Low blow, but that's rich coming from him cause at least I'm actually acting in movies that are being shown and getting bigger and bigger and have more friends in my life now who think nothing like the people he's talking about vs him who wants to be a pastor and ministry and is lazy and hasn't done ANYTHING to move forward in his direction for years cause his priorities aren't in order. He also "justified" his many times cancelling on me and said how I was a selfish immature adolescent, said things that he knew would have used to hit my "insecure nerve" (but he hasn't seen me grow the last few years to know that that doesn't work on me anymore, lol), name called and so on and so forth. I can say with ease and confidence there is NO chance of us being friends after this =)
He totally showed his true colors and did everything to make himself look good. I think finding new friends and working hard for my future opened my eyes to how I wanted to be treated and he couldn't accept that. He wants the me of 10 years ago. I've outgrown him and after what he said I don't ever want to see or talk to him again. I did hope that he got the point then. Either that or he'll think what happened before will happen again: I get guilty and then I do all the apologizing and we become friends again (will full trust on HIM, not me, cause I'm the dumb immature one) and move on the way HE wants to go. Sorry dude, NOT this time. He had 13 years to change...and he's just the same.
8 months later he tried to message me through social media (I thought I blocked him) and he "apologized" but never specifically said why and minimized it a lot, and he definitely did not get the gravity of why I left. I think he was expecting me to have crawled back to him a long time ago and apologize to HIM. As if every word I said did not register to him. I basically told him to F off and that I would never speak to him again.
I'm moving on and have other films coming up that I'm acting in and several other friends in my life who are supportive and loving who showed me what true friendship is like =) Life is good without this guy. Never again.
Guy in kindergraden punched me in the chest( not hard mind you)
Told the teacher
Made me and the bully be friends
Bully waited until 6th grade to continue being a bully
HE FAKED THE WHOLE TIME JUST TO NOT GET IN MORE TROUBLE
When people on reddit apologize for other people's mistakes 😑😑 shit is extremely annoying
One of my best friends in my dnd session told me that the group was "leaving me behind and didn't want to talk to me about it." I was so distraught that I apologized to everyone in the group in person...only to discover that no one had agreed or knew about this. He was trying to kick me out of the group without anyone knowing about it.
Jerk. Hope the group turned on him.
@@builtontherockhomestead9390 They did. The group imploded after that because of how weird it was.
Was best friends with my supervisor overnights at a big box store. We'd chat when it was slow, had similar thoughts on many things. For well over a year, things were very chill, and any night she would be in charge would be a good night.
I hear she's transferring, and I go up to wish her well... and she won't speak with me, unless it's work related. O-kay.... Shift ends, I go home and try to message her on FB, to ask what's up. I'm blocked. WTF?! For the rest of her two weeks with us, she won't socialize with me, leaving me stunned and confused.
A year or so later, she messages to be readded as a friend on FB. I allow it to ask her WTF happened for her to ice me out and block me. She said that some of the others said I was talking about her to them behind her back. Seriously? I hardly spoke to any of the others on our shift, and you believed that without speaking to me first? Pretty much what I said to her before =I= blocked =her,= Don't need that in my life, and I'd left the state by then, too.
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People can be so awful.
I didn't see how horrible she treated me for 12 years. She was manipulative the whole time. I never knew until year 13.
I went to college. She went and got married. She lied and didn't tell me updates about the wedding, but got mad when I wasn't able to do stuff. She knew I couldn't drive and said she'd drive and transport me for stuff. Nope. She got mad that I couldn't attend because I didn't know if I needed a ride to our childhood town in NE Ohio or where she lived in mid/SW Ohio. She didn't know a week beforehand. I didn't go.
I found what real friends were in college and it made me realize that "best friend" was a manipulative cunt. I tried doing basically a friend break up really sweetly by text (I had a text only plan at the time. I was a poor college student) and she basically guilt tripped me to staying her friend cuz she didn't wanna be abandoned whole she was having her baby. So I gave in and didn't officially leave our so called friendship.
I graduated and she had her baby. We met up and I didn't feel anything for her. I decided I didn't wanna hear from her or bother with her anymore. Same with her older sister. (Back story: I babysat for the sister for free for the months I was online classes. She was obsessed with her boyfriend and didn't bother to care about her kid much.) The sisters kid (about 5, past the kindergarten cut off) was still in diapers. I tried to check without being creepy, and it was not the just in case pull ups. The kid was not handicapped.
So I'm done with them, block them on FB. The phone I had at the time didn't have blocking phone numbers. They never tried talking to me again. Forward to 5 years later....I finally make an instagram account for my art and my cat. Both sisters immediately followed both. stalkers.
This video made me txt all of my friends, im that friend that never calls or txt. I'm not super busy I just think no one has time for me bc they all have families and I'm single like a pringle.
Arn’t Pringle’s in a can with a bunch of other Pringle’s?
Fun story in 1st grade I had just told my best friend who I had a crush on and literally 4 seconds later he walks up to the person I told him I had a crush on and tells them that I have a crush on them.
My cousin was friends with some boy. Boy's family moves. Somehow, in 2nd grade, cousin finds boy's phone number and starts calling him. Cell phones aren't even something people can imagine. Aunt and Uncle are not happy when they get their phone bill.
6:22 Although, this could have also been a case of "too close to home", but in that case, he should have said... *something*
*Farewell of slavianka intensifies*
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When our neighbor who were close family friends kicked when we were at our lowest .my family and i lost our house and while we were trying to get what we could we were given a week to get everything and the bitch not only lied to police she helped thieves break on and destroy our house and laughed and took a video of our stuff being stolen
And she got away with it . that was three years ago and im still pissed 😠
The moment he disappeared with my then girlfriend.
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My own loss that thrice down that happened in anything from college has lead to nothingness of being the odd one out showed me if your ghosting or ignoring me at least be upfront about it eventually dropping out and finding a mediocre job because I couldn't go higher in ed my last regards is why and yes I see good sailing as of now
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