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  • @TheStitchess
    @TheStitchess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3778

    Another good tip: don’t try to force yourself into one specific style! So many people get hung up on looking “preppy” or “goth” or “punk” when in reality your personal style will probably be a mish-mash of aesthetics! Don’t be afraid to come up with an aesthetic wholly unique to you.

    • @kandy1643
      @kandy1643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Yes currently trying to figure out how to mix “mall goth” and scene together lol. I’m guessing just add kandi brackets to outfits and colorful belts and shirts? Idk

    • @dooper8934
      @dooper8934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      @@kandy1643 I’m trying to figure out how to mix kawaii goth with other aesthetics, but the aesthetics have nothing to do with each other lol

    • @laurettadelmar2781
      @laurettadelmar2781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I fall into this trap so much. I like being clear and explaining things well so to have a style that’s undefinable is hard and doesn’t provide me with much guidance as to whether I’m doing it right or wrong. Plus I’m never sure whether I like something because I actually like it or because it’s popular or because the people wearing it appear happy and I want to be like them or blah blah blah. I guess I just need to stop thinking about how I appear to other people and just think about what I want for a change 😅

    • @cbalcony284
      @cbalcony284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@kandy1643 For me my style is “e-girl” and “kawaii” so I like sometimes like have the “e-girl” striped shirt under a colorful t-shirt/sweatshirt and for the pants there’s so many options you can go jeans with some patterns or simple jeans or a skirt. Just explore!

    • @kandy1643
      @kandy1643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cbalcony284 pretty sure there’s actually a style like that going around on TikTok. The bunny hat pastel style

  • @libertyhaas6950
    @libertyhaas6950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8369

    reminder: trends aren't a bad thing. completely building your wardrobe and throwing it out based on them is. if you like something that is trending, wear it! if you like something that isn't trending, then WEAR IT.

    • @zina2435
      @zina2435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +253

      this comment is right under a comment that says “i hate trends” lmaooo

    • @anj4461
      @anj4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@zina2435 how ironic lol

    • @kenzeo.4368
      @kenzeo.4368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I honestly hate that my exact Pinterest board turned into a trend. Like, I feel weird wearing it cause I feel like I am “following a trend”

    • @stevepillip
      @stevepillip 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      if you don’t like something that’s trending, don’t wear it!

    • @nicolet.1691
      @nicolet.1691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes !!

  • @janne9582
    @janne9582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7754

    I’d love to see like a “how to outfit repeat” video where you show how to style different pieces a few times and change essentially the same outfit up

    • @alexandria3583
      @alexandria3583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      i second this id love to see this video

    • @justmedidi
      @justmedidi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      yes i agree with this one! i'd like to figure out how to make the most out of my pieces and get creative with them :)

    • @crisk75
      @crisk75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +++

    • @Ren-kp4tz
      @Ren-kp4tz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      She does that in her “capsule wardrobe” video, you might want to check that out if it’s something you’d be interested in
      th-cam.com/video/WMt8jPdEaT8/w-d-xo.html

    • @ashannahsococ6004
      @ashannahsococ6004 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Outfit repeat but in different aesthetics

  • @caaatt2786
    @caaatt2786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6160

    I COMPLETELY relate to the shy part, I feel like I wear weird and unique clothes but really I’m so boring and quiet

    • @theasexualvampire13
      @theasexualvampire13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Girl, same.

    • @ambrehello
      @ambrehello 3 ปีที่แล้ว +346

      i was like this and i also suffer from severe anxiety and hate having people staring at me but daaamn the hardest part is over and i’m so much more confident and happier with a more unique aesthetic/style 💗 we only have one life! people that look at u in the streets will completely forget ab it after! 💗💗 sending u all my love

    • @Yennsanity
      @Yennsanity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      This is ME. I wear eccentric items & genuinely enjoy the thrifting BEFORE it was trendy. But I’m so introverted & socially awkward , so I struggle btw wearing what I like & not wanting to draw too much attention

    • @ahchlee
      @ahchlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      SAMEE I find myself feeling like I’m overdressed all the time even though I’m wearing “casual” outfits

    • @evoliyt8740
      @evoliyt8740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      litterly me though 😂💜

  • @alexasunshine83
    @alexasunshine83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6924

    I owe my life to Pinterest 😹 literally changes the game 👏🏼 also our desktops look the same haha

    • @Andrea-pr7wo
      @Andrea-pr7wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Pinterest is literally everything. I would look like a potato sack without it.😂

    • @nemo394
      @nemo394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      PINTEREST IS A LIFE

    • @Andrea-pr7wo
      @Andrea-pr7wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@nemo394 Pinterest is love
      Pinterest is life

    • @nemo394
      @nemo394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@Andrea-pr7wo i agree

    • @kendalljackson6595
      @kendalljackson6595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@Andrea-pr7wo Pinterest and tik tok are like my 2 best friends, my style woudnt be were it was today without the help of them

  • @eyechives
    @eyechives 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5100

    The problem is I like every "aesthetic/style" and I can't stick to one to save my life 😂😂

    • @Lhaprincess26
      @Lhaprincess26 3 ปีที่แล้ว +607

      don't choose, wear all :))

    • @Scott-on2er
      @Scott-on2er 3 ปีที่แล้ว +537

      mix aesthetics, combining helps individualize your style

    • @Mariana-nr4xd
      @Mariana-nr4xd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      I feel like this is very common. That people have a hard time choosing aesthetics I’m I the only one that just doesn’t have this problem and from the start knew what they wanted? Lmao

    • @AnimaKinz
      @AnimaKinz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Whenever I hear of this "problem" though, it makes me think of one of the biggest fictional style icons of all time: Carrie Bradshaw of Sex in the City.

    • @camillefaith2005
      @camillefaith2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      Same. I am a mix of a Blair Waldorf preppy style, a soft girl aesthetic, and like an academic aesthetic, all rolled into one. Don't limit yourself to one style. I like my headbands, tights, tweed, and heels a la Blair Waldorf, but I also like my big sweaters, button-downs, little pastel cardigans, sweatpants, loose jeans, and combat boots. Don't be afraid to be a mix of different styles. It brings variety in a really cool way. You can mix two different styles in one outfit. I mean how cool is that. 😊

  • @jksjksjksjks
    @jksjksjksjks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2949

    It’s funny how everyone laughed at me back in the days because I wore loose baggy jeans instead of skinny leggings and oversized shirts and hats and now every second billy is going "90s" and tell me to be individual and not copy and going with the trend SERIOUSLY
    edit: i can relate with your replys on a spiritual level

    • @Umi_luv
      @Umi_luv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      lmaoo same

    • @amyia9109
      @amyia9109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +320

      your username is LITERALLY going across my ENTIRE screen i thought my computer was broken

    • @fairoadiary
      @fairoadiary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

      Yeah trends are really annoying :/

    • @torozalfadi
      @torozalfadi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

      Saaame. I used to tie dye my t-shirts, wear baggy clothes etc in high school and there was a specific girl who made fun of me for doing that. Now she dresses that way to keep up with trends. It’s weird how people’s interests and personalities depend so much on the fashion industry and the current trends. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @asmabzk3507
      @asmabzk3507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      That's reminds me of my middle school days when I was the only one who wore her natural hair (curly) and girls were laughing at me and know they doing all they can to have curls

  • @libertyhaas6950
    @libertyhaas6950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    The internet is a lifesaver. I've honestly never loved skinny jeans because they're so constricting but I felt like there weren't other options because that's the only thing I saw people wearing. Once things like baggy jeans and mom jeans started trending I had the opportunity to wear them and realized baggy clothes are more in my comfort zone and style. They raise my confidence so much!

  • @ReyBeltane
    @ReyBeltane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1452

    The confidence thing is what I struggle with most. I have such a hard time finding things that fit well or feel flattering...I always get excited to try new trends or styles, and then never wear them because they don't look good on me or fit right. My body type and overall body image just makes me wear the same silhouette everyday. Do you have any tips about the whole 'what looks good on your body type thing' and how to not be so discouraged by it?

    • @lara__4279
      @lara__4279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      You are lucky. I live Iran here the problem is government ... ı have to wear a hijab :')

    • @sleepyzilla1214
      @sleepyzilla1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@lara__4279 omg I had the same question (I'm colombian so I don't wear that) how muslims manage to dress alternative?

    • @ghostytrickster8458
      @ghostytrickster8458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@sleepyzilla1214 hey!! ik on tiktok there’s a lot of muslim creators who dress alternatively so u can check there for suree!! over on instagram there’s a lot too, i really like @nehmasis and @aabugiee’s styles.. but i think you’d fine even more heavily alt creators on tiktok (i’ll let yk if i can find specifics cus ion have tiktok atm 😭) hehe hope that helped 🤍🤍

    • @nobodyspecial7759
      @nobodyspecial7759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@lara__4279 i dont wear a hijab but i do have to wear dupatta and have to cover my whole body up 😭 cant wear anything i want fr

    • @monologproject
      @monologproject 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Hi @ReyBeltane, if you're not already familiar with Kibbe body typing or Body Geometry, I would highly recommend checking out "Merriam Style" on TH-cam to figure out your body type, and learn how to adapt different looks to make them work for you. Personally, it has helped me out immensely! The best part is that it goes waaay beyond "pear shape" "hourglass", etc, and analyses your bone structure (meaning that your body type won't change with weight!) to tell you what will complement the lines of your body. For reference, StealTheSpotlight is very likely to have a Mixed/Gamine body type, which basically means that she looks best in outfits that contain a mix of opposites (short vs long, heavy vs light/sheer, lots of detail vs minimal, etc).

  • @princesscottoncandy6852
    @princesscottoncandy6852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2257

    We need her to be the stylist for the live-action Winx Club
    Edit: thanks for all the likes🙂😀

  • @kennidystephens7289
    @kennidystephens7289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1914

    *aesthetic suggestions:*
    •dark academia
    •vaporwave
    •vampire
    •angelcore
    •old hollywood
    •fairycore

    • @lilacsky8448
      @lilacsky8448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      i NEED a vid on this !!

    • @blair787
      @blair787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I like different aesthetics, l can't decide

    • @chillingatnight3263
      @chillingatnight3263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I love vaporwave 😍

    • @sofiaamaral6647
      @sofiaamaral6647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@blair787 you can mix them, it’s more unique actually:)

    • @seunqho1463
      @seunqho1463 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      minimalistic goth for me

  • @gabby8612
    @gabby8612 3 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    i feel rlly "stuck" with my wardrobe and atm i dont rlly have anything wearable in my clostet, so i just end up wearing the black sweatpants, a gray tshirt and a black hoodie everyday

    • @Ash-hl8hc
      @Ash-hl8hc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Same omg I’m not the only one with this problem, but I recently found like a rlly cute outfit in my wardrobe that I rlly like, but since I’m not confident I always war a huge hoodie over it

    • @oaktwig6413
      @oaktwig6413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same, I recently came out as trans so most of my clothes are girly, but even the more masculine stuff I don’t wear

    • @angelinqxx
      @angelinqxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@oaktwig6413
      Congratulations! If you don’t mind me asking, what gender do you identify as now?

    • @oaktwig6413
      @oaktwig6413 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelinqxx demiboy :D

    • @bella-nina
      @bella-nina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      have u tried accessorizing? that could CHANGE ur outfit

  • @yoosena1452
    @yoosena1452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +555

    Because of you I'm more happy with myself and how I dress. I wear what I really wanna wear and don't think aout other people. Where I live people look at you weird if you wear an anime shirt or anything rainbow or not everyday. But after I found you're channel I'm more proud and happy! So I just wanna say thank you! You changed my life!🥰

    • @Sam_Hedgehog
      @Sam_Hedgehog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have a certain style I really want but if I were to have it I dont have a body that's fit for it.... I have thicker thighs and a stomach and I dont know what to do...

    • @yoosena1452
      @yoosena1452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Sam_Hedgehog Same. I have pear shape. I don't have boobs but thighs and booty and I LOVE my body

    • @Nekozuki347
      @Nekozuki347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Sam_Hedgehog it's easier said than done but maybe start by wearing pieces you like little by little to get used to wearing them. confidence really is key, worst case fake it til you make it and try affirmating urself! remember that strangers' opinions do not matter to your life!!!

    • @Sam_Hedgehog
      @Sam_Hedgehog 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Nekozuki347 I'll try my best... Thank you so much!

    • @cumsock669
      @cumsock669 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i really wanna have like a lot of rainbow accessories but the people here are stopping me
      although it's quite a bit worse than just a few stares--i'll actually get beaten up and harassed and police wont do anything about it either
      so :(

  • @rayn724
    @rayn724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1390

    people with strict parents:
    aha i'll just waste my time :D

  • @Marte0107
    @Marte0107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +385

    My mother described me as a magpie; if it sparkles, it attracts me lol

    • @aliyahblidner
      @aliyahblidner 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Are you goblincore/crowcore? That might be of significance to you if that is what you like.

    • @kittenslitteone8269
      @kittenslitteone8269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Shiny = 👀 MINE!!!!!!

  • @nataliesetterstrom
    @nataliesetterstrom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    This is the best “find your style” video I’ve seen

    • @jen7637
      @jen7637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      frrrrr

    • @saranox7319
      @saranox7319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Right?

  • @xgh0stx._x207
    @xgh0stx._x207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    “You have to wear something appropriate for the weather in your area”
    The weather where I live: 📉📈📉📈📉📈📉📈📉📈📉📈📉

    • @moyamoya2886
      @moyamoya2886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I FELT THIS

    • @northernmidnightsilver699
      @northernmidnightsilver699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I KNOW RIGHT I LIVE IN COLORADO

    • @amulenaspades5856
      @amulenaspades5856 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      theres literally a saying in my state
      "if you dont like the weather, wait 5 minutes"

    • @kimfrankenwewe
      @kimfrankenwewe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ok where do you guys live?

    • @kimfrankenwewe
      @kimfrankenwewe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well actually in my country there are some months where it is pretty similar

  • @wearsaaliyah
    @wearsaaliyah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I’m the same with confidence, I’m quite shy irl but I love to express my personality through my fashion and makeup x

  • @lydiaslife2018
    @lydiaslife2018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    I feel like now there’s not a “set style” everyone chooses their own! I think that every aesthetic is cute!

  • @Hii-ec6nr
    @Hii-ec6nr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Her thumbnails are all eye catching, the concepts are interesting, like damn even the channel name is creative like I'm blown away

  • @lotaerinne
    @lotaerinne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    it seriously is so important to look through the clothes you already have before buying a whole new wardrobe! i always try to find new ways to wear old clothes before getting rid of them, and there's almost always some way to update them to fit my new style!

  • @No.cheese.please
    @No.cheese.please 3 ปีที่แล้ว +300

    What is your Pinterest account?? Because I LOVED everything you put in there🤩💞

    • @DarkGloomyClouds
      @DarkGloomyClouds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      here is a link but i'm pretty sure its just steal the spotlight.
      www.pinterest.nz/stealthespotlight/_saved/

  • @saranox7319
    @saranox7319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    I'm on this mission to find my style and rebuild my wardrobe, with thrifted items. :)
    I like your eyeliner and hair. :)
    update: pinterest changed the game for me, I was always hesitant to use it.
    So now I know what I would like to try out but finding pieces to buy is sooo time consuming because I‘m very particular because I‘m the kind of person who wants their style to be somewhat unique but also not too attention grabbing, plus comfortable... soo yeah. Slow process. :) Be a slow shopper people. :)

  • @eriana2182
    @eriana2182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    omg i was seriously just thinking about how i would love to see this exact kind of video from you!!

    • @christineaikhuele184
      @christineaikhuele184 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      she has made similar vids like this. just scroll down and ur sure to find others :)

  • @Mel-cc8gl
    @Mel-cc8gl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I’d love to see more capsule wardrobes, it’s always cool to see how to incorporate and rewear different items

  • @slern8211
    @slern8211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    i would love to see a video styling skinny jeans. i know they arent in style anymore but i have so many that idk how to wear bc of the new trends. and i dont want to just give them or throw them out :(( help

    • @macacosmemordamm
      @macacosmemordamm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      SAME! And I still think they're really beautiful but I just don't know how to make them stylish

    • @illegalmaknae550
      @illegalmaknae550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      they go well with sleek booties, chunky shoes, classic canvas shoes and overall shoes that go over the ankle
      I would pair it with a form fitting tucked in long sleeved shirt or turtleneck and over that, you can put a blazer, sweater vest, or smth along those lines
      or just a sweater tucked into the jeans or with the front tucked into it
      you can also look up smth like skinny jeans outfits on pinterest

    • @slern8211
      @slern8211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@illegalmaknae550 tysm!!! :))

    • @melissalonla
      @melissalonla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      With crop tops or oversized sweatshirts

    • @teresamaria3525
      @teresamaria3525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i'd wear skinny jeans with a collar button up and a sweather west or with an oversized jumper and a turtle neck underneath. i'd pair it with shoes like dr martens or chunky sneakers. hope this helps a little? hha

  • @deez2213
    @deez2213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I really relate with the shy thing like tbh wearing the clothes I like makes me feel so much more confident and like way less insecure or anxious

  • @justme-qd6qb
    @justme-qd6qb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Damn I'm the opposite, I'm sad it's so cold here all the times cause I always have to cover my cute outfits with coats, and getting multiple costs to fit the outfit is so expensive

    • @sta._rina
      @sta._rina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Go crazy with the layersss

  • @potato-7691
    @potato-7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I watched a bit of this video up to the part where she talks about Pinterest, i downloaded Pinterest and.. now I’m back 5 hours later to watch the rest of the video-

  • @hopefulromanticc
    @hopefulromanticc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    possible idea for a video: i've seen jenn im do a series called "what would jenn wear?" where she answers fashion questions her followers have (either about how to style a specific piece or something more broad like a trend) i've always loved the idea, but from what i've seen, she hasn't done a recent one and i think it would be super helpful for you to do, especially because your style is so distinctive. it could be a sort of easy, go-to video as well if you're ever in a creative stump and are struggling for a video to put out for the week!

  • @VelvetKatOfficial
    @VelvetKatOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I LOVE that you made this video!!! Most videos I've seen about building wardrobes tend to focus on basics/minimalism. They do share useful information & are often definitely stylish, but they're not like yours full of color & eccentricity! This is more my vibe😍💜 & I also use Pinterest for all types of inspiration I'm creating something for(like art, style, or home)

    • @VelvetKatOfficial
      @VelvetKatOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you do the aesthetics video, here are some ideas I'd love to see😊 Mystic, Time Periods(I've seen people dressing up like modern day Rococo or 1800s), Alien chic

    • @teddybear4763
      @teddybear4763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U wrote a lot-

    • @VelvetKatOfficial
      @VelvetKatOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teddybear4763 i always do😂

    • @teddybear4763
      @teddybear4763 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@VelvetKatOfficial u got ig 😭😭🤚🏻 I need someone like u

    • @VelvetKatOfficial
      @VelvetKatOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teddybear4763 I don't have a style ig, but i do have velvetkatart & velvetkattarot 😆

  • @kinleysloat1437
    @kinleysloat1437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +525

    Everyone else: I'm going to have a great wardrobe.
    Me: She has BTS plushies🤗

    • @navaeh5354
      @navaeh5354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Literally me looking for the comments of people mentioning it

    • @greta7796
      @greta7796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      😂same did you saw Tae in the plant?😂

    • @kinleysloat1437
      @kinleysloat1437 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@greta7796 yes I did 😂

    • @shafaath2624
      @shafaath2624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      FINALLY!!!!!!!! AN ARMY

    • @euphoricblackcats4145
      @euphoricblackcats4145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ahhhhhh🥺

  • @msilvia4807
    @msilvia4807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    2 minutes ago? Not me being a steal the spotlight stan

  • @lazsubbz
    @lazsubbz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm mostly tomboyish but you still can tell that I'm a girl. I've outgrown my style though. I'm still living with my parents and I can't afford to buy my own clothes yet. My dream style would be an e-girl goth aesthetic. A lot of black and blood red.

    • @mina1lust
      @mina1lust 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds amazing!!!! How is it going for u?

    • @destinysavage1156
      @destinysavage1156 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg same but I also want to lose weight because I just feel like I don't have the body for it.

  • @shweetie.nuggets7212
    @shweetie.nuggets7212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I’ve been a kidcore bb for a few months and my wardrobe, although I expected my ‘signature item’ to be some colorful t shirt I thrifted it actually turned out to be a pair of high waisted kakis.

  • @shaylale2923
    @shaylale2923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    The development of your style is literally insane. I love how much you and your channel have grown 💕💕

  • @Olivia-fv4dr
    @Olivia-fv4dr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i’d love a tutorial on how to merge different aesthetics!!! eg, dark academia art hoe, or y2k cottagecore, etc.

  • @prettyCassey02
    @prettyCassey02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    i have been obsessed with finding clothes to buy for christmas but i dont even know my style😭 this vid came at the perfect time!!

  • @rael9411
    @rael9411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I loveeee pastel color, but everytime I'm trying out pastel outfit "ew no" :"((

    • @XoxoCandySmiley
      @XoxoCandySmiley 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I feel u so much!! I love a lot of things but I always end up going with black/edgy because it what makes me feel most comfy but I'm so bored of it omg

    • @rael9411
      @rael9411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@XoxoCandySmiley sameee, oml;; lately, i've been wearing some color but in the darker shade- its an improvement right ashwhsh

    • @aisling8308
      @aisling8308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Start small! you can wear a black outfit but go with pastel nails, pastel hair accessories, or pastel earrings etc.

    • @nina-un2lg
      @nina-un2lg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You can go with pastel goth then it has like a mix of pastel colours and stuff

    • @princesspeach7936
      @princesspeach7936 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rael9411 mood

  • @ZombieR4T
    @ZombieR4T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “I have my dream wardrobe!!” Is wut I would say if I had money 😂😭

  • @abcdefg3221
    @abcdefg3221 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    your channel is such a safe, fun, and creative space I honestly just love it here 🥰

  • @adamoua1186
    @adamoua1186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’ve always knew what I liked to wear, but I never really knew what my aesthetic/ style was called. My sister told me yesterday what my aesthetic was called so I just learned yesterday. It’s: cottagecore fashion and dark academia fashion. I never really knew where to find what aesthetics are which and what each styles are called, so a video like that would be helpful! ❤️

    • @theresasajan1305
      @theresasajan1305 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg those r my favourite aesthetics!!

  • @sarah__darlene
    @sarah__darlene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s the same with me! I’m pretty shy but love to express myself through fashion☺️ It’s weird but I actually like the stares people give me in school😂😅

  • @marion2648
    @marion2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the stitchess said it was important not to stick into one specific style and that is so true ! i used to want to have an etheral style, but i also liked vintage or colorful and i just thought "well i already chose one anyway" and it never crossed my mind that i could do everything

  • @LucyGoosey96
    @LucyGoosey96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’d love to see you do a cottage core aesthetic or just like the hippie/fairy vibe.

  • @carolinesch.
    @carolinesch. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I didnt even realizer I had a signature piece until I was intruduced with:
    you know the one with the Red coat😂😂

  • @maddie4691
    @maddie4691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    My style: model off duty with y2k and 18th century court-wear influences if that makes sense??

  • @Bethanywi
    @Bethanywi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love retro, baggy clothes, and at the same time I love tight clothes haha. I'm still figuring out what I like as a young teen but I'm sure I'll find it out soon :)
    Luckily my mom is also helping me, she's happy buying me what I want to wear, as long as its not revealing.

  • @prettycatchyy
    @prettycatchyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i'd rlly wanna see mashups of aesthetics cause i luv almost every aesthetic and wanna see a middle ground for those,,,, i luv kookcore and taecore both equally and always wanted to see someone mash these two aesthetics up!!! do it for us queen

  • @alexandria3583
    @alexandria3583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i'd love to see some more capsule wardrobes for different "aesthetics", maybe do a q&a on instagram or something to see what styles/aesthetics people would be interested in seeing. for me it would be cottagecore and similar aesthetics, or anything sort of vintagey, because that's my personal style, or what i'd like it to be once i get more confident.

  • @philipwithluv1263
    @philipwithluv1263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    you and the nava rose are literally my favorite fashion vloggers that i truly love and support 💜

  • @neele621
    @neele621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wanna see u in a full off cottagecore look, no harness, no excuses!! I love ur style so much, we're blessed with having you as our bigger sister haha xx

  • @blushingteewrex
    @blushingteewrex 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    THANK you, have been struggling with my personal style for like two years, it feels like I don't know a big part of myself bcuz of it :((((

  • @humanbeing4565
    @humanbeing4565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    13:25 highkey techwear or like... you know Gucci models where they pair a bunch of random items together and it somehow works. Also maybe some 70s inspired look :)

  • @coppermoth6069
    @coppermoth6069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    our styles are so different but this video is so versatile and universal, thank you for the great advice!

  • @Lara-sc15
    @Lara-sc15 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    she must never have to deal with having “nothing to wear”

  • @addy7055
    @addy7055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OH.MY.GOD I LOVE THAT OUTFIT YOUR WEARING IN THE BEGINNING

  • @coolsaige
    @coolsaige 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My Style:
    •Plaid Flannels (Like 100 of them)
    •Jeans
    •White socks
    •Boots

    • @reallifesharky
      @reallifesharky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that almost sounds like some 80's grunge. you can totally look it up on Pinterest and ask anyone that was near the 80's what it was like. The 80's was not all neons at all.

    • @coolsaige
      @coolsaige 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@reallifesharky ohh ok

  • @emilyh7982
    @emilyh7982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ahhh love ya

  • @elaynaaaaaaa
    @elaynaaaaaaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    pls my friend tells me i don’t have style when in fact i do, it’s just that i don’t have enough money to buy the things i want.

  • @MossAgate331
    @MossAgate331 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just need to say. My folder is called Thrifting ideas and it helps so much knowing it’s not restricted. Also love that Fran from The nanny was shown. She’s a queen of fashion.

  • @piptizzle
    @piptizzle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Okokok so since third grade I've always been a little different. I absolutely love all things pastel, and I also like to pair it with black platform boots! I ordered demonia swings recently and I'm sooo excited for them to come. I feel like it's the start to feeling confident in what I enjoy wearing

  • @rachel-dj6oj
    @rachel-dj6oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    queen i missed you!!! ur uploads have been so amazing lately!!

  • @laurettadelmar2781
    @laurettadelmar2781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Crazily realistic and encouraging. I want to start discovering clothes I really like without feeling like I have to fit into a definitive box with my style. It’s hard to stray from safe options without feeling like you’re trying to be something you’re not. But I’ll get there and it’ll be worth it to have some confidence in myself
    Edit: I’m also scared to pursue new styles because I’m someone who can become blindly obsessed and then disinterested in something overnight. Aaaannnddd if I don’t have a a set of clothes that fulfill the look I want to go for then I feel dissatisfied and discouraged and end up abandoning it.
    I think way too much about this can you tell? 😂

  • @sam-to1br
    @sam-to1br 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    always excited for your uploads !!

  • @madelynterata6766
    @madelynterata6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ok but i just love how you have kenma and tae just hanging out in the back

  • @youandwhatarmy635
    @youandwhatarmy635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for this!! I feel like I have so many clothes that aren't really me? Plus, I like my taste in fashion more than what I actually put on my body 😅😅 I've been trying to think of a way to fix that disconnect... (So basically this was a Godsend lol 🙏🙏)

  • @Minaaamii
    @Minaaamii 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad this video came up in my recommended! I’ve really been trying to come out of just wearing t-shirts and denim shorts/jeans everyday and I really need to stop caring about other people’s comments cause every time I try to dress “nicer” than what I’m used to, someone ALWAYS comments/asks why I’m so “dressed up” that day… like please leave me alone and let me wear the clothes I feel cute in without making me feel self conscious 😭 I also struggle getting clothes I want because I’m so used to just wearing t-shirts that I’ve just… convinced myself I don’t look good in the stuff I want to buy since I’m not used to myself wearing them /:

  • @YoursTrulyMcGouly
    @YoursTrulyMcGouly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Id love to see a dark academia capsule wardrobe 😍

  • @skh9533
    @skh9533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I rly could listen to you for hours! And thanks for the reminder to not put too much pressure on ourselfs, it's easy to forget sometimes

  • @beabristow2939
    @beabristow2939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    recently I've found my style and have been beginning to build my wardrobe. the only way I can describe it is "sailor moon got lost in a swamp and joined a satanic club"

  • @borches8556
    @borches8556 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Okay but can we just talk about HOW GORGEOUS SHE IS?! Girl you look amazing, your style is also fantastic

  • @idkwhattoputhere8575
    @idkwhattoputhere8575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My style is two French braids with a sweatshirt and leggings

  • @rhiannonedwards9870
    @rhiannonedwards9870 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're like my cool friend who I only meet up with through youtube 😅 your videos always always make my day and you've really inspired me a lot!

  • @reddiebunny6805
    @reddiebunny6805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i rlly love the goth lolita and goth harajuku style. but i’m broke and ugly

    • @ooooo2680
      @ooooo2680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same tho

  • @rart_xd352
    @rart_xd352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I saw that blue and orange coat in the background and then I just imagined a bunch of outfits. I am happy now

  • @GeneBean33
    @GeneBean33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    OMG your background is so cute! Baekhyun, BTS, AND pokemon! A girl after my own heart

  • @marlyseemma983
    @marlyseemma983 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your channel has helped me free my heart when it comes to clothes. Thank you :)

  • @Kddnfnrnem123
    @Kddnfnrnem123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Me wanting to be cottagecore, e-girl, softgirl, kidcore all at the same time: 👁👄👁

  • @carinak9419
    @carinak9419 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes working with what you already have really helps: I sometimes realize that a new combo of clothes brings out a totally new vibe!!

  • @mommysaysimspecial413
    @mommysaysimspecial413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "I do not care about clothes. I wear what i like, and usually this is what I found in the morning in my bedroom" -Gerard way. i cannot put it any better when it comes to my style.

  • @amphrixia6237
    @amphrixia6237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i personally LOVE neutral colors and a classic, chic/elegant look. very minimalistic. i want to introduce more colours in my dresser. i only have blues and then beige, brown, tan, white, and black. i also want to branch out into some other styles. the area i live in is pretty hot and winter is basically around 40 degrees (fahrenheit)

  • @sillygoose3871
    @sillygoose3871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video was so informative and well structured! Your style encapsulates a lot of different style elements but I think it would be fun to see indie, clowncore, skater, dark academia, or an ariana grande inspired one :-)

  • @Gg-nd1ik
    @Gg-nd1ik 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love your room. i love your style. i love this omg

  • @lily5591
    @lily5591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i was just thinking abt how u haven't posted in a while!! :0

  • @asymmetrie9520
    @asymmetrie9520 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'd define my style as comfy/cozy with a little bit of alt flair, this video really helped ty!!

  • @angelinagomez9866
    @angelinagomez9866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    2:26 OH MY GOD YEOSANG

  • @UsorThem07
    @UsorThem07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this, I think I realised I've been trying to categorise "my style" a bit too much so that I have felt like I need to be one thing or the other instead of just you know.. Combining them.. Into my own style. So that makes a lot of sense, thanks for the video!

  • @shelbyhiromi
    @shelbyhiromi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish there was a "Love" button instead of just a like

  • @st4rzmillz
    @st4rzmillz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i would LOVE to see you in hippie 70s outfits, i just got 2 pairs of flare pants and i would appreciate ways to wear it differently than what i imagined, since i identify A LOT with you and your style

  • @morasilva2058
    @morasilva2058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hii I have a suggestion for a future video, maybe you could make a: “Greek gods and goddess inspired outfits”

  • @glitterwizard4265
    @glitterwizard4265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I swear I was looking for this exact type of video and here you are! Speak of the fashion queen and she shall come 👑

  • @Zahra-td6ke
    @Zahra-td6ke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    oooh im so early, ty for the advice xx

  • @에르난데스테레사
    @에르난데스테레사 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like so many different styles and aesthetics I can't commit to one. I always switch at least every few weeks to months.

  • @April0503
    @April0503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im SUPER SHY!! So when I dress up I don’t actually wear the things I want to wear. :/

  • @WafflesX3XD
    @WafflesX3XD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the rohan fit hit me HARD, wasn’t expecting it from this sort of video lmaooo, gotta subscribe at this point

  • @soyb3ann
    @soyb3ann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The 69 dislikes are people who have way too many styles and can’t decide and are now angry

    • @teddybear4763
      @teddybear4763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭 hey Thts me but I didn’t dislike

    • @soyb3ann
      @soyb3ann 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teddybear4763 same same

  • @arianna1280
    @arianna1280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omggg Fran Drescher is literally such an icon I love her 😭💜

  • @afoxcatartvideos4877
    @afoxcatartvideos4877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just want to dress like me.
    I love being inspired by me
    I love being different.
    I tried dressing from inspiration but I didn’t feel like me.
    I felt distant from my real me.

  • @angelzzgamer
    @angelzzgamer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to think fashion was for girly girls and so I never bothered for it, until recently. This past year I’ve been getting in touch with the more “girly” things I like (like I used to hate pop music but love it now). I always liked dressing up characters in games, but never myself and now I wanna try. Something I like is making an outfit based on an album or song or mood of music I like. Thank you for giving tips for beginning to find things I like to eventually find my style! :)