Don velly and Carlo stop threatening the man with legal actions. I'm a woman too.... where has she been all these years? Maybe because she didn't have any other child that's why she returned or remembered that she had a child... SHE CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT REAP WHERE SHE DID NOT SOW 🙄🙄🙄
Mr Roland allow this man stay with his daughter for the next 4yrs then she can decide whom she wants to stay with. Don pls stop threatening this man with legal action. Is it that in the last 14yrs she never remember the child.ost likely she didn't have another child that is why she came back.
I usually like Don, but yesterday, when he said if he doesn't accept, we will take it legal (THAT IS THREAT BY BULLYING). Then, he wanted to force him to see the guy mother to try to emotionally blackmail the people BULLYING. Okay, she was 16 when she left, but what happened between 20-29 years? He said what he said and for ya'll to keep saying you will give him time to think and he is saying DON'T COME BACK PERIOD! Why she didn't come with her family? Stop emotional blackmail people in doing stuff because by doing that, you they aren't forgiving from their heart.
How can a parent tell his child that the other parent is dead when he knows she's alive. He better clear that up quickly because when the child find out it will be a different story for this father..justice must be served for the child because the father and parents are speaking out of anger and arrogance and bitterness. It's not all about he and his parents there's a child involved. They should be thinking about the age of the mother at that time, the situation was too much for her, she was but a child herself. Now she's matured she wants to make sense of the whole situation and she should be respected. Don is not trying to blackmail it's a factual and makes sense, he dealing with reality of life and if this dad don't undo the damage he had done, it will not be well with he and his parents . They need wisdom in their thinking to make the right decision because in one way or the other the child will find out because her Mama comes looking for her. She was but a child and this guy did wrong by her because the child was underage. The most horrible thing he did is tell her that the Mom is dead anything else but not that. That was an easy selfish way for his anger. He was a grown up when he got this little girl pregnant and he must be careful, God forbid it not but the same thing can happen to their daughter if he continues to run this situation on anger and bitterness.. He needs to be encouraged to make the right decision even if it means speaking to his parents for the sake of the child involved . She needs to be a rounded healthy child in every aspect of her life. It really pains my heart that he would lie to the child in this manner. 😳🤔🙌🏿
@joycevernon8526 You're hurt that the father lied to his daughter, but you're not concerned that the mother abandoned her baby. I know plenty of teenagers who gave birth and stayed to raise their children. Her age shouldn't be an excuse for her actions.
Why not? She only wants to be in her daughter's life. So, if the father refuses, court will solve it. If it was the father who ran away you will ask the mother to forgive or go to court in case the father wants to force her
Don and Mr. Roland, you guys know better that this is the beginning, please, you cannot negotiate on the girl visiting the mother. The negotiation at this stage should be focused on the mother paying visits & support to gain trust.
A lady who left her child for about 13yrs plus. Don also understand that the guy didn't force her to be in a relationship with him. First ask that lady we're she has been all these years. Put yourself in this guy's shoe
She was but a child people, women are always the hardest on each other, no kind of compassion. Get over yourselves, there's a child and mother involved
that is why age of majority is 18yrs, that is when one is considered to be able to make sound decision, that was a child having a child,she got pregnant at 15
Why are you people threatening this man and beside this meeting shouldn't have been in the man's house. How about if this child is kidnapped. You are completely sitting your client. I'm highly disappointed in your use of words most especially your brother. he's not reasonable enough.
the mother was young and she was overwhelmed by being a mother, first time motherhood is not easy for everyone, some even run mad from postpartum depression, the only problem is she took long coming back
As you said, she was a girl not a woman not even a mother. Don't be too difficult with the mother she was little to understand the consequences of her actions. Forgive her and allow her to be seeing her daughter
Pls go back to that girl and ask her to tell you where she comes from and how about her family is like she is married and she didn't have child over there that is y she came back
This man have no right to keep this girl from her mother because he was a grown man when he have sex with this girl him should put before the court and justice will prevail this is wickedness
Family The little Girl is innocent. Let her know that she has a Mother somewhere not for the Mother to take the child away. She can still be with her Grandparents. When she becomes of age She can decide of what to do.
He will understand what? He raised his child. I'm so tired of all these parents who run away from their responsibilities and years later return to give the responsible parents a hard time. He didn't go out there to live his life as if he had no responsibility. He stayed a raised his child. Some of you are harping on she was only sixteen. The guy said he was either nineteen or twenty. He wasn't forty-two when the child was born. He was also a young man.
The woman messed up. Yes. But the man committed offence by sleeping and pregnanting a 26 year old girl. Let the woman sue him for that and also take him to court for not allowing her to be part of her daughter’s life
According to the law if you people take this man to cut you will be guilty so he should allow the woman also have access to the child the lady we are talking about is not up to 18 years before he impregnate her
If the rolls were reversed, would you be fighting as hard? With your undercover bullying and your emotional blackmail? No, you don't know anything about this woman where she's been all these years. Why she's just now coming back after all these years and it's just a must that she have her child. No questions.Asked no investigation of the woman.Oh, let's just give her the child. She's already stated from the 1st day that she came to take her child.Remember she says she was not leaving without her?But you seem to have forgotten that and you keep saying she's not gonna take the child but that was the first words out of her mouth. So your saying he can replace this child with another child? Presenter's other mothers were young and had children and didn’t leave them. Why is she coming back NOW.. He needs to tell her the truth but give the child up just like that LIE LIE. You keep saying visit but the mother again said something else. The girl doesn't even know her. The mothers dressing speaks coming to see your child.
The question is during that 14 year's, why do failed to visit your daughter and the father just to build relationships with your daughter, during this 14 years why do you failed to send someone to visit them?, listen 14 your is not 14 weeks or 14 days but 14 good year's that you disappeared and now you're asking or demanding to be with the baby girl you intentionally abandoned?, are you kidding me?, carlo give this man a space for now ,and tell your friend Don or whatever he calls his name , he should never ever threatened this gentleman again, there's prosecutor's who are victims like this man in Nigeria that can stand up for this man, this is an issues of child abandonment which is a serious crimes, just allow this man to be for now.
Do you think that the daughter will abandon her father because he lied about the mother being dead? Do you think the daughter will be happy when she learns the truth that her mother abandoned her when she was a baby? I don't know what is going to happen going forward, but the father did the best that he could at the time. Telling the daughter the truth is the right thing, but she will have to learn that her mother abandoned her, too. That child is going to be so hurt when all this unfolds.
Don velly and Carlo stop threatening the man with legal actions. I'm a woman too.... where has she been all these years? Maybe because she didn't have any other child that's why she returned or remembered that she had a child... SHE CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT REAP WHERE SHE DID NOT SOW 🙄🙄🙄
Mr Roland allow this man stay with his daughter for the next 4yrs then she can decide whom she wants to stay with. Don pls stop threatening this man with legal action. Is it that in the last 14yrs she never remember the child.ost likely she didn't have another child that is why she came back.
I usually like Don, but yesterday, when he said if he doesn't accept, we will take it legal (THAT IS THREAT BY BULLYING). Then, he wanted to force him to see the guy mother to try to emotionally blackmail the people BULLYING. Okay, she was 16 when she left, but what happened between 20-29 years? He said what he said and for ya'll to keep saying you will give him time to think and he is saying DON'T COME BACK PERIOD! Why she didn't come with her family? Stop emotional blackmail people in doing stuff because by doing that, you they aren't forgiving from their heart.
How can a parent tell his child that the other parent is dead when he knows she's alive. He better clear that up quickly because when the child find out it will be a different story for this father..justice must be served for the child because the father and parents are speaking out of anger and arrogance and bitterness. It's not all about he and his parents there's a child involved. They should be thinking about the age of the mother at that time, the situation was too much for her, she was but a child herself. Now she's matured she wants to make sense of the whole situation and she should be respected. Don is not trying to blackmail it's a factual and makes sense, he dealing with reality of life and if this dad don't undo the damage he had done, it will not be well with he and his parents . They need wisdom in their thinking to make the right decision because in one way or the other the child will find out because her Mama comes looking for her. She was but a child and this guy did wrong by her because the child was underage. The most horrible thing he did is tell her that the Mom is dead anything else but not that. That was an easy selfish way for his anger. He was a grown up when he got this little girl pregnant and he must be careful, God forbid it not but the same thing can happen to their daughter if he continues to run this situation on anger and bitterness.. He needs to be encouraged to make the right decision even if it means speaking to his parents for the sake of the child involved . She needs to be a rounded healthy child in every aspect of her life. It really pains my heart that he would lie to the child in this manner. 😳🤔🙌🏿
@joycevernon8526 You're hurt that the father lied to his daughter, but you're not concerned that the mother abandoned her baby. I know plenty of teenagers who gave birth and stayed to raise their children. Her age shouldn't be an excuse for her actions.
Why not? She only wants to be in her daughter's life. So, if the father refuses, court will solve it. If it was the father who ran away you will ask the mother to forgive or go to court in case the father wants to force her
Rolland don't take this don valey again with you, this man is a fool. For talking about legal action
Don and Mr. Roland, you guys know better that this is the beginning, please, you cannot negotiate on the girl visiting the mother. The negotiation at this stage should be focused on the mother paying visits & support to gain trust.
A lady who left her child for about 13yrs plus. Don also understand that the guy didn't force her to be in a relationship with him. First ask that lady we're she has been all these years. Put yourself in this guy's shoe
She was but a child people, women are always the hardest on each other, no kind of compassion. Get over yourselves, there's a child and mother involved
that is why age of majority is 18yrs, that is when one is considered to be able to make sound decision, that was a child having a child,she got pregnant at 15
It is very unfortunate that the man is saying without the fear of God.
Leave the man with his daughter
Why are you people threatening this man and beside this meeting shouldn't have been in the man's house. How about if this child is kidnapped. You are completely sitting your client. I'm highly disappointed in your use of words most especially your brother. he's not reasonable enough.
What has she been doing 13yrs? Is she not married.
She is not married, she said she left to better her life .
the mother was young and she was overwhelmed by being a mother, first time motherhood is not easy for everyone, some even run mad from postpartum depression, the only problem is she took long coming back
Let me aks you guys did you know where she came from
As you said, she was a girl not a woman not even a mother. Don't be too difficult with the mother she was little to understand the consequences of her actions. Forgive her and allow her to be seeing her daughter
So happy to see you Don. Happy new year. Carlo good morning
Pls go back to that girl and ask her to tell you where she comes from and how about her family is like she is married and she didn't have child over there that is y she came back
This man have no right to keep this girl from her mother because he was a grown man when he have sex with this girl him should put before the court and justice will prevail this is wickedness
Family The little Girl is innocent. Let her know that she has a Mother somewhere not for the Mother to take the child away. She can still be with her Grandparents. When she becomes of age She can decide of what to do.
This man need to be arrest because you are 23 years old and the lady we are talking about is 16 years so it's against the law
By the time you people go legal he will understand.
He will understand what? He raised his child. I'm so tired of all these parents who run away from their responsibilities and years later return to give the responsible parents a hard time. He didn't go out there to live his life as if he had no responsibility. He stayed a raised his child. Some of you are harping on she was only sixteen. The guy said he was either nineteen or twenty. He wasn't forty-two when the child was born. He was also a young man.
Rolland how is Felix and Gloria?
The woman messed up. Yes. But the man committed offence by sleeping and pregnanting a 26 year old girl. Let the woman sue him for that and also take him to court for not allowing her to be part of her daughter’s life
According to the law if you people take this man to cut you will be guilty so he should allow the woman also have access to the child the lady we are talking about is not up to 18 years before he impregnate her
I know that woman she married in Ghana here and she didn't give her husband baby that is why she wants to take that Yong girl to Ghana
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If the rolls were reversed, would you be fighting as hard? With your undercover bullying and your emotional blackmail? No, you don't know anything about this woman where she's been all these years. Why she's just now coming back after all these years and it's just a must that she have her child. No questions.Asked no investigation of the woman.Oh, let's just give her the child. She's already stated from the 1st day that she came to take her child.Remember she says she was not leaving without her?But you seem to have forgotten that and you keep saying she's not gonna take the child but that was the first words out of her mouth. So your saying he can replace this child with another child? Presenter's other mothers were young and had children and didn’t leave them. Why is she coming back NOW.. He needs to tell her the truth but give the child up just like that LIE LIE. You keep saying visit but the mother again said something else. The girl doesn't even know her. The mothers dressing speaks coming to see your child.
The question is during that 14 year's, why do failed to visit your daughter and the father just to build relationships with your daughter, during this 14 years why do you failed to send someone to visit them?, listen 14 your is not 14 weeks or 14 days but 14 good year's that you disappeared and now you're asking or demanding to be with the baby girl you intentionally abandoned?, are you kidding me?, carlo give this man a space for now ,and tell your friend Don or whatever he calls his name , he should never ever threatened this gentleman again, there's prosecutor's who are victims like this man in Nigeria that can stand up for this man, this is an issues of child abandonment which is a serious crimes, just allow this man to be for now.
Bro the child is growing 4 years from now she can do whatever she want. And you are going to sorry
Do you think that the daughter will abandon her father because he lied about the mother being dead? Do you think the daughter will be happy when she learns the truth that her mother abandoned her when she was a baby? I don't know what is going to happen going forward, but the father did the best that he could at the time. Telling the daughter the truth is the right thing, but she will have to learn that her mother abandoned her, too. That child is going to be so hurt when all this unfolds.