Here comes the prequel to the ‘Comfort After Abuse’ videos, yay! This series will address a lot of similar topics so be aware there might be discussions that hit a little close to home. Please look after yourself and make sure you listen when you are in a good mental place to do so. My goal for these videos is to share conversations that I’ve had with people who were still figuring out how to take back their autonomy after hurtful relationships. It is possible to find yourself again after being pushed down. It might just take a while, but your freedom will only grow from here 💕
Thank you for these videos Kat I know they really help. Your such a wonderful person, and I hope you only grow taller and stronger every day, which I’m sure you will. ❤️
I've got a question... how can this be a prequel to the comfort for abuse series if it's the listener's *first* healthy relationship? I should admit that I haven't listened to the comfort for abuse series but I'm just curious... and very confused
@@pyromaniac2104 it means it's the first relationship that the listener character has ever been in that WASN'T abusive or toxic whatsoever, a relationship that's actually founded in genuine love and care. the previous series was about comfort AFTER being in an abusive relationship and being reassured that the listener's new significant other ISN'T putting on an act like the previous one was. this is meant to show the early days of the listener being with Kat's character, and starting to learn that not all relationships are toxic/abusive.
I'll be honest, there are times when I ask for help for something that seems so simple, I feel pathetic. Sometimes asking for help is helpful, depending on the situation. Anways, very well done. Keep up the good work.
This will sound very cheesy and dumb, but here it goes. Even in the darkest and most frightening of times, there can be a spark of hope. This spark could be a certain event, a friend, or a group of friends. Excellent job Kat. There's never any shame to be had when you need help.
I've never been in an abusive relationship of this type, i.e. dating, but ive been in lots of others abusive relationships, particularly my family, and while this series doesn't perfectly apply, it's really helping me deal with it right now. I only recently realized i was being abused, with the help of the few non abusive family members who I've been kept away from my whole life, and it's all hitting me at once, and I'm having a really hard time dealing with it. These audios have been basically on repeat since I found them, and if im being honest, are a big part of the reason I'm still here right now. So thank you. It feels laughably inadequate to just say thank you, but it's all I can do right now
Thank you, Kat. This series is gonna be awesome. "Abuse After Comfort" is a playlist that I often listen to. And every stuff you do is just so wholesome. And I just wanna say thank you for you efforts towards us. Thank You.
I’m honestly the type of person who doesn’t care about my feelings and that they don’t matter, idk why. Maybe it has to do with the fact I have depression? Anyways amazing video Kat like always, also your so close to 20K, I’m so happy for you. ❤️
I feel the same way. Almost everytime İl try to talk, I just get ignored. But I am actually fine with it and couldn't really care less. I currently am absolutely enjoying me life. I don't know about you, but ignoring bad things and focusing on even the small good things helps me.
Eyy a prequel to my favorite series, this is very nice It's funny how the listener's friend did this beautiful speech while also still soaked from water
This was really great, a lot of necessary things people need to hear were said. It’s been over 3 years now since I got out of a relationship that was a lot like the one described (not down to the ‘threatening suicide’ depths but my ex was in that same mental space, as was I at the time) and I had to cut things off for my own wellbeing. Just remember you can’t help anyone if you aren’t in a good position yourself, take care of yourselves for that reason, among others. And yeah, like Kat says, learn to give up. I might be putting it a little bit harsher and I encourage people to help whoever and however they can but never waste your efforts and never be taken advantage of.
This just made me realize that I didn’t have above average emotional maturity when I was younger, I just grew up in an environment where people chose to be violent,angry, and overly aggressive about everything.
I’ve never been in a relationship because I feel like I don’t deserve something like that. I’ve been depressed and filled with self hatred for so long now that I have a hard time understanding how someone could actually love me. Not like my family because they are obligated to love me which I see as unfortunate for them. I don’t love me so why would they. I wish I could have something but I know I can’t because I don’t deserve something like that.
I know that feeling really well. I currently am in a relationship, and sometimes it’s hard to understand how my partner sees any value in me. I often feel like I don’t deserve them or their love, but they disagree and they (and my antidepressants) are helping me look at things differently. I know from experience just how hard it can be, but letting someone love you can be a very eye-opening experience
Yeah..things arent black and white. I also had only these thoughts which makes it draining for another person to even deal with me. These though doesn't make you any less, we might overcome this perception at some point.
Great Audio and once again very important information about healthy relationships, but when you said you'd get her off my lawn, it did give me some clint Eastwood / gran Torino vibes. Almost expected you to swap that garden hose with an m1 garand...
the allergic part just reminded me of Monty Oum the creator of the show RWBY who died of an allergic reaction. R.I.P. to an amazing show creator his memory will live in on forever in the minds and hearts of those he reached through the show.
That was absolutely hilarious, I know this video was uploaded a year ago, but I just had to laugh 😂 😂 😂 your current girlfriend uses a hose on your ex to get them to leave, and the sound effects, this is the reason why I love watching & listening to your content @PINE KAT AUDIO. Your content is always interesting, unique. 🥰 😘
That is definitely better then i would dealt with it luckily for my ex and me, shes known me long enough that she's knows most of the time when she's crossed the line were it might be better to be silent and give me space.
Guys get yourself a girl that would do this. Girls get a man that would do the same. Short story get someone that is good to you and loves you for you.
Her uses hose to protect me love me away from past abuser Me : falls in love instantly watching her defend me blushes red develops crush Her: so Heyy baby I got rid of your toxic ex / stalker Me:whispers Marry me right now Her: huh what was that did you hear that Me: nothing
Low key? I'm kind of hoping that if the ex is involved in the next episode, they lose a few drops of blood. Sometimes people just needs to get with the times the hard way.
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Here comes the prequel to the ‘Comfort After Abuse’ videos, yay! This series will address a lot of similar topics so be aware there might be discussions that hit a little close to home. Please look after yourself and make sure you listen when you are in a good mental place to do so.
My goal for these videos is to share conversations that I’ve had with people who were still figuring out how to take back their autonomy after hurtful relationships. It is possible to find yourself again after being pushed down. It might just take a while, but your freedom will only grow from here 💕
Thank you for these videos Kat I know they really help. Your such a wonderful person, and I hope you only grow taller and stronger every day, which I’m sure you will. ❤️
I've got a question... how can this be a prequel to the comfort for abuse series if it's the listener's *first* healthy relationship? I should admit that I haven't listened to the comfort for abuse series but I'm just curious... and very confused
@@pyromaniac2104 it means it's the first relationship that the listener character has ever been in that WASN'T abusive or toxic whatsoever, a relationship that's actually founded in genuine love and care. the previous series was about comfort AFTER being in an abusive relationship and being reassured that the listener's new significant other ISN'T putting on an act like the previous one was. this is meant to show the early days of the listener being with Kat's character, and starting to learn that not all relationships are toxic/abusive.
@@Eric-zc1ld ahhh ok thank you that wasn't registering in my brain for some reason
@@pyromaniac2104 No problem.
Note to self: never meet someone willing to use the hose as a weapon.
The Garden Hose, a very unique yet dangerously effective weapon of choice.
@@Nicegroundhog60 Attack: 50%
Defense: 15%
Effectiveness: 60%
Reminds me of me and my dad washing the car and he sprays me with the hose or squeezes the sponge out on top of me
@@lennybird applies "wet" debuff, slowing enemy movement speed by 25% and frost damage deals 50% bonus damage
I'll be honest, there are times when I ask for help for something that seems so simple, I feel pathetic. Sometimes asking for help is helpful, depending on the situation. Anways, very well done. Keep up the good work.
How does your comment say 1 week ago? lol
I think it was from before it was public. A.K.A, Early Access
@@siphonicstorm7191 Ohhhh, ok
Kat: *Sprays my ex with a hose*
Me: will you marry me?
Hahahahaha I love your funny word mate 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😝
Same!
This will sound very cheesy and dumb, but here it goes. Even in the darkest and most frightening of times, there can be a spark of hope. This spark could be a certain event, a friend, or a group of friends. Excellent job Kat. There's never any shame to be had when you need help.
I've never been in an abusive relationship of this type, i.e. dating, but ive been in lots of others abusive relationships, particularly my family, and while this series doesn't perfectly apply, it's really helping me deal with it right now. I only recently realized i was being abused, with the help of the few non abusive family members who I've been kept away from my whole life, and it's all hitting me at once, and I'm having a really hard time dealing with it. These audios have been basically on repeat since I found them, and if im being honest, are a big part of the reason I'm still here right now. So thank you. It feels laughably inadequate to just say thank you, but it's all I can do right now
Thank you, Kat. This series is gonna be awesome. "Abuse After Comfort" is a playlist that I often listen to. And every stuff you do is just so wholesome. And I just wanna say thank you for you efforts towards us. Thank You.
I think you mean "Comfort After Abuse"?
@@queen-of-mothslol I was thinking that
Any woman that is willing to use a garden hose to defend me from my ex is a definite keeper
Kat being the G.O.A.T per usual
Yessir
True!
Thank you Kat this was very comforting. High ground approved.
I got the reference lolll
Hello there
I’m honestly the type of person who doesn’t care about my feelings and that they don’t matter, idk why. Maybe it has to do with the fact I have depression? Anyways amazing video Kat like always, also your so close to 20K, I’m so happy for you. ❤️
Depression can do a number on feelings
:(
Thank you!
@@PineKatAudio yeah it isn’t nice, your vids help me out whenever I’m sad or crying which I do a lot. 😖 so thank you. ❤️
@@mrcwillis6970 I feel like that most of the time too. P.s love the profile pic
@@Obi-wan_ thank you.
I feel the same way. Almost everytime İl try to talk, I just get ignored. But I am actually fine with it and couldn't really care less. I currently am absolutely enjoying me life. I don't know about you, but ignoring bad things and focusing on even the small good things helps me.
I died laughing at the title because my ex deserves to be sprayed with a hose for cheating
Eyy a prequel to my favorite series, this is very nice
It's funny how the listener's friend did this beautiful speech while also still soaked from water
This was really great, a lot of necessary things people need to hear were said. It’s been over 3 years now since I got out of a relationship that was a lot like the one described (not down to the ‘threatening suicide’ depths but my ex was in that same mental space, as was I at the time) and I had to cut things off for my own wellbeing.
Just remember you can’t help anyone if you aren’t in a good position yourself, take care of yourselves for that reason, among others.
And yeah, like Kat says, learn to give up. I might be putting it a little bit harsher and I encourage people to help whoever and however they can but never waste your efforts and never be taken advantage of.
This is a great title to a prequel… love it! ❤️
This just made me realize that I didn’t have above average emotional maturity when I was younger, I just grew up in an environment where people chose to be violent,angry, and overly aggressive about everything.
Possibly a video on how this healthy relationship started I’m hooked on this storyline now and need continuity 😂
I just finished listening the entire series last night sooooo ya . . . This is cool
I smiled at the garden hose bit! tho, i would have got her a towel as soon as she came back in and saw her clothes drenched.
Me: *sees title*
*Gets flash back to despicable me*
Also me: oh I’m sorry I didn’t see you there, *sprays the person* or there!
CONGRATS ON 20K!!!!!
Thank you!!!
I’ve never been in a relationship because I feel like I don’t deserve something like that. I’ve been depressed and filled with self hatred for so long now that I have a hard time understanding how someone could actually love me. Not like my family because they are obligated to love me which I see as unfortunate for them. I don’t love me so why would they. I wish I could have something but I know I can’t because I don’t deserve something like that.
This comment for me is like looking in a mirror. I'm sorry someone else has to feel this way
I'm here for you my friend🤝👍
I know that feeling really well. I currently am in a relationship, and sometimes it’s hard to understand how my partner sees any value in me. I often feel like I don’t deserve them or their love, but they disagree and they (and my antidepressants) are helping me look at things differently. I know from experience just how hard it can be, but letting someone love you can be a very eye-opening experience
Yeah..things arent black and white. I also had only these thoughts which makes it draining for another person to even deal with me. These though doesn't make you any less, we might overcome this perception at some point.
Ahhhhhhhh a newww oneeeeoneeee
Wonderfully done Kat 💝
Great Audio and once again very important information about healthy relationships, but when you said you'd get her off my lawn, it did give me some clint Eastwood / gran Torino vibes. Almost expected you to swap that garden hose with an m1 garand...
thx i needed this i have so much anxiety about tomorrow's test
What about more Wife Audios? Do you still consider making them the previous one was awesome thank you Much Love
the allergic part just reminded me of Monty Oum the creator of the show RWBY who died of an allergic reaction. R.I.P. to an amazing show creator his memory will live in on forever in the minds and hearts of those he reached through the show.
Emotional blackmail. Classic.
"You think they'll go away eventually?"
I mean, unless they packed a lunch, it'll probably only be a few hours
Hope this story continues = )
oh my god im finally early for one of your uploads!! fuck yeah
Yaaay
_Threat Neutralized_
Damn, that was hot.
Garden Hose for the win!!!! 😎
When i tell you i bursted out laughing when i saw that it says you sprayed my ex with a hose
That ex sounds like a textbook sociopath...
At times like these, it pays to have a dark empath as a friend(not calling you one, btw).
That was absolutely hilarious, I know this video was uploaded a year ago, but I just had to laugh 😂 😂 😂 your current girlfriend uses a hose on your ex to get them to leave, and the sound effects, this is the reason why I love watching & listening to your content @PINE KAT AUDIO. Your content is always interesting, unique. 🥰 😘
That is definitely better then i would dealt with it luckily for my ex and me, shes known me long enough that she's knows most of the time when she's crossed the line were it might be better to be silent and give me space.
Guys get yourself a girl that would do this.
Girls get a man that would do the same.
Short story get someone that is good to you and loves you for you.
Pity party tonight bros! 🎉
Very nice
Make sure the hose is on jet mode
I love your new video keep it up your awesome 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎
Her uses hose to protect me love me away from past abuser
Me : falls in love instantly watching her defend me blushes red develops crush
Her: so Heyy baby I got rid of your toxic ex / stalker
Me:whispers Marry me right now
Her: huh what was that did you hear that
Me: nothing
Kat says a bad word! :o
Pretty nice, I love it. Have a great day Kat
Spooky pancakes 💀🥞
Love that titel
Fan likeyyy :)))
No one is talking about the water bill 🙃
With a title like that I had to see what's goin on
🖤🖤
no shit toaster bath bad.
Low key? I'm kind of hoping that if the ex is involved in the next episode, they lose a few drops of blood. Sometimes people just needs to get with the times the hard way.
crab🦀.
Kat? Like, from Halo?
Hi
Wet fur is the worst
Very nice